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dont forget about clocks

Don't forget for many it is clock change tonight.
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is it correct that russia will not do it?

many thanks
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RE: dont forget about clocks

It always throws me off when most people online change their time now and we in usa do next week.

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Women's pick-up

Hey folks)

I got a question.

Everybody knows that when a guy comes up to a girl with a purpose to start communication, and when he also theoretically and practically knows how to do it - it's called pick-up (in my definition).
And, maybe many of you know that there exists women's pick-up - it's when a girl theoretically and practically knows how to make a guy come up to her with a purpose to start communication, and when she does it (while the guy remains pretty sure it was his initiative). In other words, when she gives him those special signs of her liking.

So, i won't ask if you, guys and girls, can u always tell if he/she is just picking you up or he/she is really so nice and smart and funny and charming and sexy...))
I would only want to hear about your experience: something that really works with you, some certain phrase or action or anything that really works and makes you want to continue...))
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A woman approached me at a party and said, "Hi, haven't we slept together before?" Well, it was different...

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RE: Women's pick-up

Ha thanks ally, i gotta remember that one to use when i feel desperate))

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RE: Women's pick-up

Hi Miss, could I ask you, does my cock look fat in these jeans?

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RE: Women's pick-up

It looks more like men's pic-up-)

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haha thank you Shove, sounds very womenish))

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RE: Women's pick-up

ya ya ..... so did you fuck him?

and

what did he say to make all you girls feel that way?

xxxxx

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Member privacy

I had a pvt yesterday on another site where the model asked for my cam as a condition for her doing a naked show. I never complained to the support there as they are not as responsive as cc support. But the model I saw also has 2 rooms here on this site.

So it does happen at other sites that the girls are in charge of their own rooms where they can require member cams even if it says a cam is not necessary in every FAQ I have ever read on any site.

So it appears to me that since this kind of girl is making money on cam sites, that the newer viewers seem to be submissive as opposed to alpha males. I consider myself normal, somewhere in the middle or an old skool type of viewer. But it may be that I am a dinosaur and am being replaced with the newer type of viewers.

But who knows? And who really gives a shit? LMAO.
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hello normal viewer...it is not a requirement of the site that you as a member must have a cam and turn it on. it is up to you if you want to turn your cam on....

out of curiousity just ask her what she does if a member does not have a cam?

If the host is in a hardcore category then she is not permitted to make such a condition in order to get nude....

If a host says it is a condition...then that is her making that choice to do such a thing and if you do not agree then I suggest you find another host ....because many on here will not do such a thing....

good luck to you and happy viewing.... :)

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If you read my post again, I did say it happened on another site not here. But the girl was also live here in 2 rooms.

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I did read ur post...I was only speaking about this site as you said she is also on here....and there was just recently a post about this very thing on here...so it does happen here too with some hosts....and from the other sites that I did work on it was the same thing....sorry for trying to be helpful.

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I only saw her in browse here. I have never had a pvt on this site with her.

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maybe she wanted fun in 2 , some like to watch while being watched, dont take it that wrong whos paying who...its about extreme real fun not just robotic moves right?

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"dont take it that wrong whos paying who...it"

That's the point. I'm paying!

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You are a non adult host and like to watch viewer play with his cock?

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the Cards won it

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Yeah Baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

A rude viewer is one who sees an off site link to cc claiming in CAPS "NAKED GIRLS" and expects to see NAKED GIRLS in pvt. If he thinks that way, he views the girls as robots, machines and sex objects.
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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

exactly my sentiments. how bout some videochat?

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

you described me exactly, have we met?

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

"And I, for one, never refuse to get naked. "

Maybe, but you only speak for yourself, not any other host

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

Have I, at any moment, said otherwise?

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

No, I was only pointing it out.

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

no T you did not say anything nor even indicate that you were speaking for anyone else but yourself...you even said in your response that you were speaking for yourself...seems that someone ignored all the words you used in your response....

happy hosting to you :)

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

actualy i think the same. i'm here, on my own will, i have agreed with the site's conditions, therefor if a guy wants nudity, thats what he'll get. i dont see why anyone who deosnt agree to that would still be online here (talking here strictly about the hard-core categories)

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RE: My definition of a rude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

Isn't the customer always right? Isn't he the king?
You should do what he says, according to some here. Doesn't matter what your profile is like, you HAVE to do it that way, how do you expect to be a succesful host otherwise?

Sorry, irony off.
I'm sorry you got that kind of garbage :( Hope you get mostly the nice guys, though. Good luck!

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RE: My definition of a nude viewer in the eyes of cc hosts

in those situations - just keep thinking about the paycheck.

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Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?

whatever happen to the good ole days here at camcontacts when host were more social in chat and more friendlier. I know they get tired of the same members that want to just chat in free chat and it use not be that way (wait a minute I think I just answer that question, sorry) OK, next one, whatever happen to the host that use to come around more and chat with us old members here, hmmm, I think I just answer it again from the previous question. Ok, next one, when is the next cc contest, so we old members need to know when the regular cc host are coming back, so we can hide that week or change our screen names again during that week. I know I am asking for a lot, but I really do missed the regular host that use to come around a lot.
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RE: Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?

some of those hosts are still here, I think that maybe you just did not meet all of them.... :)

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RE: Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?

things change, that's whattttttttttttttt

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RE: Whattttttttttttttttttttttttttttt?

Your post makes me smile :D

Funny how so many complaints on here are about the hosts that all they want to do is chat and be social.

Who to believe? Can both be right?

LOL

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Observation

Seems like a lot more conflict here than is necessary. There didn't seem to be so many complaints in years past. People could raise ideas, make suggestions and not be attacked so much as well. Definitely is a turn off in terms of trying to have fun on CC.

Maybe it is a result of the economy and hosts struggling to get more money and members trying to spend less. And I guess that what makes CC a great site, namely the sense of community and closeness that a host can get to a member, has contributed to problems. That closeness allows for more manipulation by both members and hosts too. This has always been the case, but I sense that things have become a lot worse.

I guess there is something to be said for a good old fashioned sex site with higher prices and faster stripping. The lower prices here are what allow members to spend more time with a host and get to know her better. They aren't just a means for guys with less money to get a cheap show. But the sense of familiarity seems to cause problems. And before someone says "go instant action", perhaps you have missed the posts complaining that hosts aren't following the rules there.

Every time I see the name, "I'm Not Your Friend", I always think that this guy has the right idea. Keeping one's distance might be the answer. But not doing this is what made CC fun for me in the past.... Fun, but expensive, lol. It just doesn't feel the same any more, however.

I guess that one can only lose himself/herself in cyberspace for so long before wanting to get back to reality. It was nice while it lasted.
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"And before someone says "go instant action", perhaps you have missed the posts complaining that hosts aren't following the rules there."

Some hosts make up their own rules.

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In the past this site was the most economical. Many many hosts kept their rates below the rates of other sites, and members could afford to take time and be more comfortable. I spoke to some hosts who hated other sites because the expectations and pressure was too much.

Then a group of hosts harrassed the hosts who had lower prices until they started raising their rates, and thus protected their own higher rates. Now the prices here are as high or often higher than other sites. Members now want to get faster results, and have less time to be patience and comfortable.

It seems to be an evolution in this place. Some of us loved the old days that made this place special, but they don't seem likely to return. I think it worked out just fine for the higher priced hosts here.

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"I think it worked out just fine for the higher priced hosts here."

Amen my brother.

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I think you may have a slightly rose tinted view of the past. There have always been plenty of complaints in the forum. There have also always been attacks and conflicts here. If anything the number of really vitrioloc attacks has decreased. There do seem to be fewer new strings and posts, especially fewer positive posts and also fewer debates on non-CC related topics. Complaints therefore form a bigger percentage.of total posts.
I also do not agree that current price levels are the result of harrassment by some hosts of others. It is true that a few years ago almost no hosts on CC had prices of $2.50 or more but the majority here still have prices of 1.50 or less which is still lower than other sites. There are also many charging $1.00 or less. In my opinion the big change happened as a result of the restriction on the number of current sessions a host coul have and the requirement to close another open session when a member entered video. This was introduced in respeonse to complaints from members. Before this a host might have 4 or 5 sessions open at the same time at different prices. The really goos hosts could handle several viewers at once and for me the occasional slow responses from hosts was an acceptable trade off for the low rates. Once hosts were limited to two concurrent sessions they kept their higher priced ones.

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RE: Observation

Your post is fairly accurate. But instead of hosts having multiple session on cc,they have them on other sites. And you are right about the fights we used to have here. But we seem to have a ton of host apologists of late. And in the past I never heard terms like slaves, money slaves, sissy boys, cuckolds, CBT, SPH and others. And girls are taking longer and longer to strip and there seems to be a large group that never strips. Back in the day many of the non adult girls would strip in pvt session.

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I entirely agree with you about hosts having multiple sessions on other sites. I pointed this out in the forum when the changes were made. Unfortunately many members expected immediate attention from hosts they were paying 0.50 or 060 to see and complained when they did not get it. They did not consider the law of unintended consequenses. IMHO the same apples to 121.

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"But we seem to have a ton of host apologists of late."

Can you please explain what you mean by host apologists of late? thank you

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Host apologists are those members that will argue long and hard that all hosts are perfect and all issues in pvt are solely the fault of the member.

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ohhh ok...thank you for explaining it to me....well anyone knows that it is not always solely the members fault with all members...but you have to agree that for some members it is...not all but for some...just like it is also not always solely the fault of all hosts..not all but some....and not all hosts r perfect...in fact no one is perfect...be it male or female....if all were perfect there would not be so much conflict and misunderstandings if all hosts and people were perfect.....I am a female/host and I know I am far from perfect....loool..

someone may seem perfect to us...but once the awwwww cloud of that person has cleared then the faults start to show through...and then when we know that the person has flaws...and we are able to still enjoy that person then that person is what we would call the closest to perfection....

I hope I have not confused anyone and that this makes sense...or maybe everyone might just think I am nuts...loool...but that is just my opinion :)

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RE: Observation

Are there more problems, or just more complaints? I really have no idea myself: I just do what I do here.

You don't HAVE to read the forums lol, and many don't.

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RE: Observation

Hey, don't give up hope. This site made up of human beings who can offer you the most surprising, wonderful experiences at times. )))

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reading your post and the replies i could notice that we can all agree that both hosts and guests have changed their attitude through years. as for the forum, I always thought some got plenty of time to spare in here and there they are all sorts of silly questions/disputes/attacks. but there, again, world is changing. what we got here is just a slight echo of our frustrations all wrapped in the comfort of being anonymous.

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Maybe the truth is that we all have had a different experience here. No-one is qualified to speak for either other members or hosts. So, I speak only for myself when I say I've had great and awful times here since I joined in 2005, just like in my 'real' life.

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My experience overall on CC has been postive also, but I have to say, the tone in these forums has become for the most part unpleasant.

I don't have to read them, it's true, and that's good advice. I think I will heed it.

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Your post says it all. We do have different experiences, both good and bad.

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Personally, I long for the days when messages to the forums used to post instantly. Talk about some entertaining conflict. Threads chock full of witty put downs and yo mammas used to grow so quickly you could barely refresh the page fast enough to keep up.
Good times. Good times.

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"Threads chock full of witty put downs and yo mammas used to grow so quickly you could barely refresh the page fast enough to keep up.
Good times. Good times."

LMAO. Yeah I enjoyed those too

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Hosts; do you give returning viewers more consideration?

What I mean is, if you did strip the first time, do you do it quicker the 2nd time? And if you didn't strip the first time, would you strip the 2nd time for a returning viewer? And yes am only talking about polite viewers. Rude viewers are eliminated by default. And of course I am talking about viewers who actually would like to see you naked. Money slaves are eliminated by default.

What I'm trying to find out, is does the amount of money spent in pvt either in one pvt or over several pvts influence your decision to do a naked show or not.
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RE: Hosts; do you give returning viewers more consideration?

"What I'm trying to find out, is does the amount of money spent in pvt either in one pvt or over several pvts influence your decision to do a naked show or not".
Maybe I am differ from most hosts here, but for me the amount of money spent by viewer not so important....more important my mood, if I get horny I will give fantastic sexy show if not I cant help and money cant make me warmer. But from other side, as you know every woman need time to get horny, me too....I hate to be in rush, it can ruin my mood at all. So you see all is so complicate with girls. :))

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RE: Hosts; do you give returning viewers more consideration?

ofc the amount of money matter, who don't affort to much should not expect too much

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RE: Hosts; do you give returning viewers more consideration?

Well I'd strip naked as fast as the viewer wants me to. I take my cue from him. Some guys are easily worried and want more preamble, or they find the stripping part more erotic.

If in doubt I err on the side of a faster strip.

Having said that, on the site I used to be at, my long ass-kicking profile would get people into chat to find out if I was for real. Seeing me naked was just the price the poor dears had to pay :)

It's a hard life.

But stipping fast or slow is not an indication of how many times a guy has seen me before. He gets a strip precisely as fast as he seems to want one. Anyone can make money the first time someone comes in by dragging it out, but in most businesses it is the regulars who really keep you going, and I am very fond of my regular guys.

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Dont stop girls, give them all to get in fire!

Dirty dirty dancer.....

‘Nother day, ‘nother night
And she acting like she don’t sleep
She’s a five when she drinks
But she’s a ten when she’s on top of me
She don’t want love she just wanna touch
She’s a greedy girl to never get enough
She don’t wanna love she just wanna touch
Got all the moves that make you get it up
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
It’s a game
That she plays
She can win with her eyes closed
It’s insane how she tames
She can turn you to an animal
She don’t want love she just wanna touch
She’s a greedy girl to never get enough
She don’t wanna love she just wanna touch
She’s got all the moves that make you give it up
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
Never be her only
She never satisfied
You better do it right
Before you’re lonely
No, she’s never satisfied
You better do it right
Before you’re lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
She’s a dirty dirty dancer dirty dirty dancer,
Never ever lonely
She’s a dirty dirty dancer, dirty dirty dancer
You’ll never be her only
You’ll never be her only
The girl don’t stop
The girl don’t stop
The girl don’t stop
Dirty dancer
The girl don’t stop
The girl don’t stop
Dirty dancer
The girl don’t stop
The girl don’t stop
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Hosts do you keep a list of favorite viewers and or one of bad viewers?

I was just wondering if you kept a list of favorite viewers and whatever you consider to be a bad viewer?
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RE: Hosts do you keep a list of favorite viewers and or one of bad viewers?

good spender=good viewer

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RE: Hosts do you keep a list of favorite viewers and or one of bad viewers?

favorite viewers: ones that spend a lot of money with me and I can say a few that don't, but I love chatting with them a lot to
bad viewers: cheap and rude

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RE: Hosts do you keep a list of favorite viewers and or one of bad viewers?

I do not need to make a list of bad viewers, it is easy to remember a a bad viewer. and before any says anything...to me....to be a bad viewer has nothing to do with the amount money he does or does not spend.

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RE: Hosts do you keep a list of favorite viewers and or one of bad viewers?

yeah right

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I totally agree...it's how he treats me when he's in my room!

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RE: The Femme Fatale

Many years ago I saw a woman in a café. It was only brief but I've never forgotten her. The ache to have her was so strong it has never left me. Been in love since but never with quite that intensity of longing. Of course, If I had got to know her, maybe the feeling would have changed. I'll never know....

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RE: The Femme Fatale

he/she asked how she should look like..

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RE: The Femme Fatale

Oh, so sorry, didn't know there were rules here. Well, she was petite with long dark hair to below her waist, a cute face made-up punk style. What really got me was her skin tight dress over the best ass I'd ever seen with small but perfectly-formed breasts. . I dunno if there is a connection but I later developed a fetish for Japanese women.

A good question dog.

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RE: The Femme Fatale

What are you a male host or transexual? I don't think you are a female host now.

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RE: The Femme Fatale

What do you care if "T" is male or not...a person does not have to be male to be turned on by a female and the original post did not say the question was only for men.

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RE: The Femme Fatale

Because quite often "T" speaks as a host representative and the assumption is as a female host. Some pretty outlandish comments as
well. It's obvious that it is not a female and yet that has never been clearly defined but now makes sense. I certainly have the right to question that so what's it to you?

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RE: The Femme Fatale

If you are the same one who uses this name to respond to posts, you sure have a very hostile and negative attitude.

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RE: The Femme Fatale

As "…" pointed it, I didn't say what the woman looked like. My bad.
Slightly taller than me, long black curly hair, dressed in black, what you might call a goth. Porcelain skin and fine traits. She walked with elegance and had that little something that made her look confident and hot.

My taste for porcelain taste remained :)

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Who celebrates or observes Halloween?

I'm just curious how universal Halloween is. Or maybe its known as Hallows Eve in some countries. Has anyone seen any Headless Horsemen?
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RE: Who celebrates or observes Halloween?

In Continental Europe, it is virtually unknown, except for some night clubs which pick it up as an opportunity to organise a "special party"

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:(

RIP Marco Simoncelli, too bad, too young :(
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RE: :(

never heard of him. but sympathies to his loved ones

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RE: Just wondering

I hear ya. Sometimes all the trouble of relationships makes me want for the olden times, when marriages were arranged and my family could at least get a goat or two out of the deal.

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RE: Just wondering

All the good ones are taken...? Not really there are lots of fish in the sea....now that you've learned what ones you don't want it leaves a
very few that are still available :) Good Luck

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The Irish Wedding Party

At an Irish wedding party recently someone yelled, "All the married men, please stand next to the one person who has made your life worth living."

The bartender was crushed to death.
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The Italian Virginity Test

Vinnie is planning to marry and asks his family doctor how he could tell if his bride-to-be is still a virgin.

His doctor says, "Vinnie, all the Italian men I know use three things for what we call a Do-It-Yourself Virginity Test Kit - A small can of red paint, a small can of blue paint and a shovel."

Vinnie asks, "And what do I do with these things, doc?

The doctor replies, "Before you climb into bed on your wedding night, you paint one of your balls red and the other ball blue.

If she says, 'That's the strangest pair of balls I've ever seen!',

..........you hit her with the shovel.
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RE: Vital question

It's easier to stay without panties on cam. Too much putting on and taking off :( I prefer being in crotchless stockings, they show off my bum really nicely and I can show their pvt bits without taking them off :)

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RE: Vital question

Hahaha that's what I call being practical :D
I like crotchless pantyhose too, very nice concept!

The question was for here and outside here too :)

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RE: Vital question

Im one of them crazy types who likes a nice pair white cotton panty's or a pair boy shorts on a girl..

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Don't think it's crazy, on a nice butt, they look wonderful :D

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RE: Vital question

String on a girl and boxers on me.

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It depends how sexy and well shaped the body parts those pieces of clothes are supposed to hide (more or less) are. Where can I see your pictures to give a more precise reply? ;-)

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Boxer briefs on me; sheer flimsy little things on her :))))

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binary world?

no. because there is always gray in between.
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RE: binary world?

0110001001101111011011000110110001101111011000110110101101110011

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RE: binary world?

There are 10 types of people: those who understand binary and those who don't.. :-}

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No means no

I know there are many hosts that have a viewer ask for naked show and they tell the viewer no, but the viewer keeps asking anyway. Well, no means no.

It also happens that hosts ask for member cam and member says no. Here again no means no. Most hosts say ok and move on. But there are a few hosts that keep insisting and asking for member cam.

So we have to have fair play for all. If a host tells a member no strip it means no strip. If a member tells a host no cam, it means no cam.
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and if i tell a host, no i don't want to meet her for no strings sex, a no means a no, move on hosts and get over it. jeez

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RE: No means no

Seems like it must be a big problem if you are posting here about it. Honestly how often does that happen?
Personally, I don't ask and if they offer that is great too. Why would hosts be so insistant?

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RE: No means no

I get it a lot. I know why and I don't have a problem with it, but it's still no.

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RE: No means no

hahahaa its funny one.thx :)

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RE: No means no

and when a member or guest tells a host No I dont want take you private - it means NO Hosts.

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RE: No means no

WOW and what is your reason?

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RE: No means no

the reason is: we don't want to. we don't need to explain ourselves. No is all the reason you need

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What happen to this place...?

Why is there so much negative in here.....someone asks a questions and not only do they get shot down...but the questions asked dont really even get answered.....granted some answer the question....but so many are so quick to jump on the person and many are soo ready to jump on each other for not agreeing...this place is suppose to be for questions, opinions, suggestions, thoughts and such....it is not to kick people around and spit on them just because their views are not the same ..... come on people where is the friendlyness gone....
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RE: What happen to this place...?

Must be the cold weather, full moon, economic crisis, death of Steve Jobs, new album of Justin Bieber, sucky films on the cinema, etc etc

Kidding :)
I know what you mean and I believe it's easier to attack than to take time and answer properly. Heck, I'm doing it as well if I can feel some fangs showing.

But really, it must be the cold, it doesn't always bring nice feelings :)

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RE: What happen to this place...?

You're talking a lot of rubbish and to answer your question dogs are better than cats.

Only joking :P

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RE: What happen to this place...?

dogs see people as gods,we feed them,walk them,take care of them.we do the same for cats but they think they're gods :--)

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RE: What happen to this place...?

then they fart when we're in the room, smell their butt, and walk away saying, "Did I do that?"

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RE: What happen to this place...?

I agree completely. And it seems to me its always the same few people doing the attacking. But luckily we have INYF to put a smile on our faces.

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RE: What happen to this place...?

maybe you should read the original post again, it referred to when a person starts a post asking a question....

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RE: What happen to this place...?

The economy....girls and members have less money and their interests are 180 degrees...girls want members to do longer and more expensive video while doing less on screen....members want everything on screen but make it quick and make it cheap....always follow the money.

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RE: What happen to this place...?

Down with the 1%ers! Free Kleenex and a monthly government subsidized wanking allowance for everyone!

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RE: What happen to this place...?

I am glad you brought up this subject because I am feeling very frustrated as a host to read some of the hosts constantly attacking members here lately. It's one thing if it is a totally ridiculous comment that he should be actually taken out back and shot but it's been anything that a viewer writes. If a host has to feel so hostile towards members #1 Put your Screen Name and #2 Take a break because you're spending too many hours here and it's getting to you.
To randomly attack members about everything is so stupid as a host especially if you have so much time on your hands that you have to post an attack on every comment from a male member. If you need to sharpen your claws then get a scatching post not attacking members in forums!!
Cheers!

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RE: What happen to this place...?

Shy host, it's not only hosts (and not all hosts) who are guilty of this.

I can get sarcastic to make a point, and sometimes I am reacting to someone else's lack of manners, consideration, or what you will. But I hope I am not perceived as being rude simply for the sake of mouthing off. Oftentimes I would like to engage in a dialogue, and then maybe we could get somewhere instead of just "preaching to the choir."

On the other hand, if I simply say something nice that's the end of the thread. The provocative posts get responses. That's just the nature of a forum like this.

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RE: What happen to this place...?

Well I did not say it was only hosts, in fact I did not specifiy anyone, I meant in general. No matter who posts be it member or host, it is met with the same things...

It would be very nice to be able to post and have a dialogue, unfortunately that seldom happens, maybe some day it will happen.

Negative breeds negative and positive breeds positive.

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RE: What happen to this place...?

I stand corrected; you did not specify hosts or members...

It would be nice to be able to see the text of what you are replying to. Sometimes I make mistakes because I am thinking in a vacuum instead of considering what I am talking about... if I could see the post it might encourage a dialogue instead of a harangue. Well, maybe... lol

Thanks for your civil post, shy host :)))

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RE: What happen to this place...?

"Sometimes I make mistakes because I am thinking in a vacuum instead of considering what I am talking about"

You got that right Hoss!

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Do you really care?

Here is a question for my fellow members. Do you really care if a chathost has a husband in real life? Personally, I don't care as long as they're honest with me about it. If a girl tells me she's single & I find out differently, I'm pissed off
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I meant to say husband or boyfriend

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I have been told by some members that they do not visit hosts if they know they have a bf or husband as they do not feel right being with a female who has a bf or husband...and these members are single at least they say they are....

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Do you care if i'm married?

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I think for myself I would rather not know, I don't know about other hosts, but I have had times where a wife or gf has caught her her guy online, she gets so hurt and angry and then has come unglued on me.

First thing that gets asked is did you not know he was married or with someone. It is hard when this happens because I feel her hurt.

So for this reason it is best that I do not know if the member is married or has gf. Call it a cowards way out but I would rather be able to say no I did not know. I do not like to be the cause of anyone being hurt.

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I like to know so I can talk quieter...lol. Actually I do like to know so that I know your purpose here. It gives me a sense of relief actually because I know you're not going to ask for my phone number or to meet....well that's not always true either.... I think that guys who are married and come on here get some sort of thrill by sneaking around and not getting caught so you might as well share the fun ;)

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Members need to remember this is a JOB for most of the hosts..they don't do this be cause they are hot and horny all day long and want to stuff things in their body's.they do it because they want a roof over their head and food on the table and pay for things like educations and such.. so why worry if they have a BF or Husband.. pretty much guarantee when your having the wank..they are thinking..whats for dinner..can I pay a bill tomorrow.. and so on..

Many married people have jobs..this happens to be one of them...deal with it or go do something else..

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I already said I don't care. I used to videochat with a married host from here. I ask because most hosts seem to work under the assumption that members do care and I was wondering if that is be cause most do care

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Never bothered me. If they want to tell me if they are single or not, fine. I don't press them for any further info. So, if they ask me and I tell them I am single (which I am) the topic should just end there. but it really irks me when they ask me why I am single? When was your last gf? When was the last time you had sex? What am I doing at CC? How long have I been a member here? How frequently do I come here? How many favorites do I have? Too many personal questions, ladies.

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opps I thought you had video of bigfoot having sex in the woods

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Cam

I've always shied away from showing myself on cam but after reading the issue that "T" was having on the technical forum I may change my mind. That's if I can get it to malfunction in the same way.

And before anyone asks. No it's not because I have a short head :D
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Just like whatever age I say I am it is always perfect :P

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don't mean to shatter the illusion inyf,but rumour has it that it's a p[oliceman's whistle sans pea :--)

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Oh you didn't say thin in your original post :(

But I could still come over if you like :P

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Viewer wishlist

Yes the idea is not mine, it comes from another site. But I've only seen this on 1 site I've been to. Anyway the way it works is members simply fill out the form stating what kind of host they would like to see and what kind of entertainment they enjoy. Its completely voluntary, no one needs to ever use it. But in my opinion its a pretty common sense approach for helping put a viewer with a host that is receptive to what he is looking for.

Just a thought.
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If it's the site I am thinking of then it doesn't really work as you would hope. There are several hosts who obviously have a standard reply along the lines of "I can do your fantasy baby, it sounds so hot ........ blahdy blahdy blah". Then you have the problem of deciding whether or not the genuine ones are your type of host.

I find it easier to select hosts I like, work my way through the list, tell them my fantasy and go on until I get a bite.

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I've only seen it on one and a small site at that. Starts with an N. And it worked fairly well for me. Anyway was only a thought, not meant to change anything,. But I think its always nice to have many options. I'm sure you agree, there is no magic bullet..

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and ally would add"ladyboys isn't big cat to work your way through." :--)

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sounds like a good idea , but with my luck the only host that would answer would be imnotsoshy.

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LOL

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Then she dump him!!! :((

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hmmm, you need to change the order of things...
if you "die for her"
how can you
"Take her to dinner
Miss the game for her
Buy her jewelry
Be interested in what she has to say"?

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Oh, and if you bring me beer. i don't care of you are naked or not ;)

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