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A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
Suppose you had a new viewer, one you had never spoke with before who only spent a short time in free chat then went straight into 121 and expected a naked show. He didn't bark orders and did not make demands, but he politely asked you to undress.
Would you inform him that according to CC rules, that nudity is not required in softcore even in 121? Or would you feel obligated to undress, since he was polite and paying your 121 price?
Would you inform him that according to CC rules, that nudity is not required in softcore even in 121? Or would you feel obligated to undress, since he was polite and paying your 121 price?
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
A member who does not politely ask what to expect from a show...in my opinion...has to accept what he gets. And trust me...hosts are well aware of the difference between a member who asks up front and committs them to a particular type of show and those who don't. You don't ask...if things are not particularly clear...she will often take advantage of that and keep the meter running while you are waiting for a nude show that is never going to happen. So ask...and define what nude is....that term differs from host to host.
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I agree completely. That is the appeal of Glamour. The girl next door is shy and eventually begins to tease you ending in nudity and sexual behavior. I love it. But again...without it being clear...what you expect and you both understand you will be disappointed often. Not always. Most host know the drill and perform as they know the member expects. Some you get this...."Strip? Sorry baby I don't strip. I just do this sexy dance"...... "Strip? I did strip baby...down to my lingerie"....."Nude? Honey let me give you more 1.3 second flash of my breasts"......"I am topless baby...that is nude...I never take off my panties"....and so on. I love the tease...love the build up...but there has to be a big finish or I might as well hang out at the mall and get equally frustrated.
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Sorry that isn't enough for you. The majority of guys that come into my Glam room are very satisfied (meaning they cum) and are very pleasured by the tease. For many men nudity is not the big bang but the sexual tease. They like the talk, tease and sensuality.... It's easy to get naked but it takes much more skill to pleasure without getting nude...In fact it is a very sensual personality. Obviously not for all. Sometimes it's not about taking any clothes off but the tease of no panties underneath. To each his own. There are plenty that provide something for everyone. :)) Enjoy finding what makes your tick tock...lol
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it takes much more skill to pleasure without getting nude...In fact it is a very sensual personality. Obviously not for all."
Obviously.
Obviously.
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I have had a few hosts and only a few do that for me...but I got to know the host in free chat before I went to video...fully knowing that I would not see nudity. Also it was accompanied by a phone call...that add to the intimacy immensely and make the sexuality very real and personal.
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if he was clear in text of what he wanted, and did not bark orders then to me it does not matter how short a time he is in video, of course I would undress for him. I do not feel obligated to do things, I do them because I want to for that person because he was upfront and took the time to say what he wanted and was polite.
Polite members that take the time to say what they want and do not bark orders and are respectful are few and far between so when they show up then I have no problem undressing for them in a closed session.
For me it is not always the amount of time, it is what happens in that time, as long as it is fun and both are smiling that is what matters. :)
Polite members that take the time to say what they want and do not bark orders and are respectful are few and far between so when they show up then I have no problem undressing for them in a closed session.
For me it is not always the amount of time, it is what happens in that time, as long as it is fun and both are smiling that is what matters. :)
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sorry I forgot to add that... the time to say your not going to do it is before the video not during the video....the only category that has a rule of not being nude is the nonadult. so in any other category when a host say rules does not allow it, then find another host, because that host is handing you a lot of BS..... enjoy your time on here :)
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There is no need to snap and bite... I answered his question and only added that other than non adult, there is no rule in the soft-core categories that says she must undress. so I fail to see why you would snap at me for saying something that is correct. Like anyone else, I am allowed to answer as well as add to my answer. Have a nice day. :)
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you are very lucky to say what you say, but you do not have the right to accuse or assume that all us other hosts have done our profiles that will confuse or mislead a member,
I for one took a great deal of time to do my profile. and to make sure it was not misleading in any way. when a member comes to my room and makes his request, I let him know upfront if it is something I do or not.
I am in little shy and NOT all hosts are misleading. So in future I would very much appreciate if you would not make such a general assumption.
all hosts are different and yes there are those that do mislead, there are days that I get mostly nice members, there are days that I get mostly very not nice members, and there are days that I get both.
Happy hosting to all and much enjoyment to everyone.
I for one took a great deal of time to do my profile. and to make sure it was not misleading in any way. when a member comes to my room and makes his request, I let him know upfront if it is something I do or not.
I am in little shy and NOT all hosts are misleading. So in future I would very much appreciate if you would not make such a general assumption.
all hosts are different and yes there are those that do mislead, there are days that I get mostly nice members, there are days that I get mostly very not nice members, and there are days that I get both.
Happy hosting to all and much enjoyment to everyone.
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
I apologize, I misinterpreted what you were saying. you are very correct, I too see some hosts in little shy category that do not exactly show shy pics next to their name and the bluntness ie: wet and ready, or ready to cum for you.. other advertising you have also seen, might lead a member to expect her to do as she is advertising, as well as create problems for herself.....and yes if I was a member and saw that then I would most definitely expect such a show....I am sure you have read on here members that say be specific in the profiles. If I am a member reading a profile and I go talk to the host and then she starts listing the things that she not have in her profile, the I am going to get annoyed and say why did you not say that in your profile and save the me the time.....lol
Yes you are very correct, the language barrier can also create misunderstandings, and those phrases seem to be the universal language that many understand...lol....
Personally I would see the turn offs not as her being negative or not being fun, but simply letting me know if this is what you are looking for at that moment..it is best you find another host..or the member may decide to go and talk to the host anyway...so what you see as a negative, I see as a positive, as well as a time and money saver for the member reading it.
Again I apologize very much for misinterpreting what you said and thank you for explaining, it makes much more sense and shows me that I was reading it wrong.
I hope all enjoy their time on here both members and hosts.. :)
Yes you are very correct, the language barrier can also create misunderstandings, and those phrases seem to be the universal language that many understand...lol....
Personally I would see the turn offs not as her being negative or not being fun, but simply letting me know if this is what you are looking for at that moment..it is best you find another host..or the member may decide to go and talk to the host anyway...so what you see as a negative, I see as a positive, as well as a time and money saver for the member reading it.
Again I apologize very much for misinterpreting what you said and thank you for explaining, it makes much more sense and shows me that I was reading it wrong.
I hope all enjoy their time on here both members and hosts.. :)
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
for one new member I would never undress in a first meeting even if is polite even if he is not, he must become a good regular if he want to see more, 121 in softcore doesn't mean nudity, means that the viewer will have the full attention of the host but she will decide what kind of content will provide
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Like many posts in this forum, it just goes to show how little we guys really understand about women. Not a criticism, just an observation.
P.S. I'm sure joe or INYF could say this much better. ;-)
P.S. I'm sure joe or INYF could say this much better. ;-)
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Actually it is a very good example of how misunderstandings can happen simply by how we interpret what we read....
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at least they admit when they are wrong and apologize for it....
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This is the sort of question that you wil get different answers from different hosts. Firstly there are some softcore hosts who do not strip partially or completely for anyone (or maybe just a very select few) even in 121. I am sure the majority of softcore hosts who do strip in 121 would eventually strip. However if you have gone to 121 video straight from free text chat even a "polite" please get undressed for me is a bit abrupt and direct. You have to understand that softcore 121 is not the same as instant action. It works better if the member says things like "You have a lovely figure but those loose clothes hide so much of it, please could you take ....off". Softcore hosts need a bit of seduction which also keeps the meter running. They generally respond better if you are willing to play along rather than effectively forcing them to stall. And to all those who say "we are paying so the host should do what we ask" my reply is "stick to hardcore"
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
It is true many hosts say in their profile they do not do naked shows in their room and many others will tell you in text chat they do not. When a host tells me no, I never question her. However there have been many posts in the viewer forum by members claiming to have gotten hosts that say no to say yes after an effort on their part. I tend to believe the hosts. I know all guys lie like a rug when it comes to talking about girls, on line or in the real world.
So is it fair to say that if a host says no nudity on her profile or tells you in free chat no nudity, that there is no way she will strip for me or any other viewer?
So is it fair to say that if a host says no nudity on her profile or tells you in free chat no nudity, that there is no way she will strip for me or any other viewer?
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believing what members claim can be a health hazard
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Yes I would take "no" for "no" :)) Especially if she has taken the time to make her point in her profile or when you ask her in chat and she says "no" Good Luck and Enjoy! :))
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
If a host says "no nudity" in her profile then I think this is generally correct. The story with free chat can be different. If a host says in free text chat that she strips she is obliged to strip when the member goes to video. For some hosts whether or not they strip really does depend on how they feel after chatting with the member in video, how much time (and of course money) he is spending with them. They do not want to commit to stripping after a fquick five or 10 minute chat in free text.
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Most often yes with majority of hosts that have said no in profile and text..
but then it will depend on the individual host as well as the member who is doing that asking....there are times when a member might get some hosts say yes to nude...but most often if she says no in text then it will be a no...especially if the member keeps pushing and or if he starts to use guilt or manipulation, or is rude or mean..then the door will be shut tight and the host might not be stay nice about her no...
some members will say a host got nude for them when actually all she did was flash a body part or moved the material in a way that showed for a minute or two...and to some members flashing will have them saying yes she got nude for me because to them seeing the part means nude as it did not stay covered up....even tho all she did was flash....
so can not really say that every host that says no in text to nude, will say no to every member...
but then it will depend on the individual host as well as the member who is doing that asking....there are times when a member might get some hosts say yes to nude...but most often if she says no in text then it will be a no...especially if the member keeps pushing and or if he starts to use guilt or manipulation, or is rude or mean..then the door will be shut tight and the host might not be stay nice about her no...
some members will say a host got nude for them when actually all she did was flash a body part or moved the material in a way that showed for a minute or two...and to some members flashing will have them saying yes she got nude for me because to them seeing the part means nude as it did not stay covered up....even tho all she did was flash....
so can not really say that every host that says no in text to nude, will say no to every member...
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to those members that say they are paying and she has to do what I say....well yes you are correct ....you are paying ....but...you ave paying a host that agrees and has said yes to being nude or what ever else you asked for while in text chat,...and for those that jump right into video without even checking in text ....then that does not count as a host saying yes ....unless u in the hard core categories.....
Be well everyone and have fun.....
Be well everyone and have fun.....
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
I emailed cc and asked what categories on site require nudity in pvt. They replied Strip Hi Lo, Not So Shy and Instant Action. I repeat the only categories on the entire site that require nudity are Strip Hi Lo, Not So Shy and Instant Action.
So that means to me that a member has to have a verbal commitment in free chat from all other hosts in all other categories except the ones mentioned.
That can lead to some confusion. For example many hosts have rooms in Little Shy or Glamour and also in Not so Shy or IA. So technically, a host can say no to nude in her softcore room and be forced to do nude show in her hardcore room.
Am I correct hosts, or have I missed something?
So that means to me that a member has to have a verbal commitment in free chat from all other hosts in all other categories except the ones mentioned.
That can lead to some confusion. For example many hosts have rooms in Little Shy or Glamour and also in Not so Shy or IA. So technically, a host can say no to nude in her softcore room and be forced to do nude show in her hardcore room.
Am I correct hosts, or have I missed something?
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
yes correct....hosts are not required to be nude in non adult category and little shy category....
But,,, if they are playing the strip hi lo game then while playing the game they are required to remove the clothing as they loose each hand .....
if the host is in instant action category or not so shy category..then she is required to undress when asked....
so yes if you are asking a host in little shy category, then make sure she says yes she will get nude before entering her video.
But,,, if they are playing the strip hi lo game then while playing the game they are required to remove the clothing as they loose each hand .....
if the host is in instant action category or not so shy category..then she is required to undress when asked....
so yes if you are asking a host in little shy category, then make sure she says yes she will get nude before entering her video.
RE: A hypothetical question for softcore hosts
YOU GOT IT :) The only exception to saying yes in chat would be if she advertises nudity in her profile. I guess the sure thing is read the profile if you are in Softcore and if it says nudity or more then count on it being in 121.
As far as IA and Not so Shy, they actually are expected to strip in open. It does get confusing for the viewer because the girls like to have more than one room so you'll find the combination you explained fairly often anymore because they can't have two rooms in the same category open at the same time. More than likely they will follow the guidelines for which category they are in (not all by any means) so best to read the profiles or ask.
Good Luck in your quest for nudity there is plenty here....
As far as IA and Not so Shy, they actually are expected to strip in open. It does get confusing for the viewer because the girls like to have more than one room so you'll find the combination you explained fairly often anymore because they can't have two rooms in the same category open at the same time. More than likely they will follow the guidelines for which category they are in (not all by any means) so best to read the profiles or ask.
Good Luck in your quest for nudity there is plenty here....
anyone know what happened to lilit?
anyone know what happened to Lilit? she was under burningkissx and divinestarxx ... she was supposed to be gone for 2 months then back, but its been over 3 months now :( or does anyone know name of model that worked in same studio as her that might have information?
RE: Opinions Please
3) Tell them that the chemistry or attraction wasn't there but not
specific reasons. (To avoid their embarrassment)
Here is the best excuse for my opinion. You cant make yourself love anyone. Just say that you dont feel any chemistry from your side, any normal person will admit it and move on.
specific reasons. (To avoid their embarrassment)
Here is the best excuse for my opinion. You cant make yourself love anyone. Just say that you dont feel any chemistry from your side, any normal person will admit it and move on.
RE: Opinions Please
I am newer at this and rather naive to meeting via internet. I was growing very fond of the person I that I thought I knew and discussed plans into the future. The person I met was like the alter ego or opposite of the virtual person. The behavior was very aggressive and distant. I came away feeling disappointed, deceived and disinterested. Their experience was just the opposite.
The lesson learned is don't assume that who a person perceives themselves as is the person that they actually are.
The lesson learned is don't assume that who a person perceives themselves as is the person that they actually are.
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Do not obligated, if they were really sincere, they would have been the real them to begin with. You do not owe them anything other than being honest that it will not work out. Maybe in future this person will learn to be who they are rather than who they want to be. You sound like a good person, the right one for you will come along. Keep your chin up, a smile and gentle huggggg comes your way.... :)
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better tell him/her which are that things that turned you off, even if this will hurt that person, me personally I prerfer if somebody have a reason to not want me to tell me the truth instead of lie me only to not feel embarased
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if the things that turn you off are changeble then tell the truth, if not then still tell the truth, either way someone will be hurt...
but if your honest and say what the problem is then the person might be able to change those things so they not turn someone else off
but if your honest and say what the problem is then the person might be able to change those things so they not turn someone else off
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Just tell him to come here and read your post. Say it is him and all 1,2,3,4 apply. Thank him and say bye bye.
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That was very funny....thanks! I think I would need to disappear from the face of the earth then.
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why don't you put yourself in that situation and think how you'd like to be treated. would you like some silly excuses or the truth? why is being honest about it out of the question? quit being such a poof
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I have had relationships that ended without a major explanation or a lot of detail and I have accepted that it is what it is. Unlike in person dating there was a lot of build up before we actually met in person and to me I felt disappointment and lack of interest. I don't want a confrontation or to go into alot of detail like many feel because I don't want to work it out or have that person tell me lies to cover up the lies they already told. So honestly I think minimal is better in this situation. Someone else might feel totally different about that person so maybe they don't need to learn or change but it just wasn't what I was expecting through the 4 month distant relationship that we had.
Personally I would feel okay with it if it was their decision to just not pursue it. No one totally shows their true colors until you meet in person is what I have learned.
Personally I would feel okay with it if it was their decision to just not pursue it. No one totally shows their true colors until you meet in person is what I have learned.
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"No one totally shows their true colors until you meet in person is what I have learned."
Hosts here to make you feel nice and of course we try to show our best, real person sometimes have nothing common with image we show off here, guys should understand it.
Hosts here to make you feel nice and of course we try to show our best, real person sometimes have nothing common with image we show off here, guys should understand it.
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"No one totally shows their true colors until you meet in person is what I have learned."
On line dating is a complete waste of time and energy
On line dating is a complete waste of time and energy
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Just curious why they didn't work? Did you feel like it was different when you met them? Thanks!
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I think you still have some feelings for this person since you are concerned about hurting the person. Honesty is always good policy even if it hurts. But so does walking away and saying nothing. But this is as you said an internet relationship and its hard really to be certain of what another person's feelings really are. I would say let the other person know how you feel if you really think their feelings are true. Otherwise chalk it up to a virtual fantasy relationship and move on.
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Don't be a pussy. Don't be a dick. Be honest, be forthright, but be compassionate.
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Thanks everyone that contributed with their thoughts!
I think it can be very complicated with meeting someone other than in person and being around them to actually feel the chemistry and how ones habits, expressions, how they live and look in everyday life. Of course on line we look and act our best and the other person can assume certain things from what we see and hear. I think my experience has taught me that shortly after I am attracted to a person that we should meet in person so that a false sense of attraction does not occur and avoid the disappointments for both. Meeting soon would answer the most important questions similar to dating someone close by.
I also think that it is important for both parties to keep an open mind until that happens and afterwards if it doesn't go somewhere. I think most people here and in life accept it when a relationship doesn't work out of course with some disappointments and hurt but the sooner that they accept it and go forward the better it is for them. It doesn't need to be blame and a hateful reaction when it happens it is just life. I'd much rather someone be up front with me that they just weren't feeling it than to have little interest and try and make it work. Most certainly I did try to make the best of the situation while I was there but the disappointment was immediate and I didn't want a confrontation especially since feeling that person would not take it well. I am not a liar and did mean what I said prior to actually meeting in person. So best to all that think they have met someone special online....it won't discourage me when I am attracted again. I will just do things differently.
I think it can be very complicated with meeting someone other than in person and being around them to actually feel the chemistry and how ones habits, expressions, how they live and look in everyday life. Of course on line we look and act our best and the other person can assume certain things from what we see and hear. I think my experience has taught me that shortly after I am attracted to a person that we should meet in person so that a false sense of attraction does not occur and avoid the disappointments for both. Meeting soon would answer the most important questions similar to dating someone close by.
I also think that it is important for both parties to keep an open mind until that happens and afterwards if it doesn't go somewhere. I think most people here and in life accept it when a relationship doesn't work out of course with some disappointments and hurt but the sooner that they accept it and go forward the better it is for them. It doesn't need to be blame and a hateful reaction when it happens it is just life. I'd much rather someone be up front with me that they just weren't feeling it than to have little interest and try and make it work. Most certainly I did try to make the best of the situation while I was there but the disappointment was immediate and I didn't want a confrontation especially since feeling that person would not take it well. I am not a liar and did mean what I said prior to actually meeting in person. So best to all that think they have met someone special online....it won't discourage me when I am attracted again. I will just do things differently.
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That is something I do not understand, yes on here we hosts are to look our best at all times and we are to portray ourselves as that perfect host that does not have off days. Well I am sorry to say that I have always believed in being myself. I too have fallen for members, believe them when they said really liked me and wanted to persue a relationship and then only to find out it was not true and that they were saying the same things to other hosts.Or if I did not answer the way they wanted me to (in other words lie and say I felt things when I was not ready to say them) and boom they would run to another, only to come back saying they made a mistake and wanted to continue. Yes I went so far as to meet them in person and found out again that things were not as they led me to believe and things did not work out. We are all human, and the true us comes out eventually. So I figure why pretend to be someone I am not, if a person does not like me the way I am then ok, be upset with me for being upfront rather than being twice as angry with me for lying about it.
To those who say this site is not a place to come for such things, well that is all fine and dandy to say and great if you are the type of person that never gets attached to someone on here and so this will not really matter to you. But it does happen to others even if we are not looking for it and even if we do not try. It is always possible to fall for someone.
I know you will find the right person for you, be it on here or somewhere else Curious One.. All the best to you. :)
To those who say this site is not a place to come for such things, well that is all fine and dandy to say and great if you are the type of person that never gets attached to someone on here and so this will not really matter to you. But it does happen to others even if we are not looking for it and even if we do not try. It is always possible to fall for someone.
I know you will find the right person for you, be it on here or somewhere else Curious One.. All the best to you. :)
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i agree it is important to meet as soon as it is possible to trust that person enough. We do appear different online, i certainly appear funnier and more chatty simply becos i find i have more time to compose my replies and i'm less self conscious and more self confident online. It is a constant source of disappointment to me that i'm not more like my online personality when i'm offline.
Chathost's favorite Muppet?
Today is the birthday of the immortal Jim Henson. Between "SESAME STREET", "MUPPET SHOW", THE DARK CRYSTAL, and all his other ventures, I think one would be hard-pressed to find a corner of the world that has not enjoyed the fruits of his innovation in puppetry and humor.
So, I put it to the chathosts: do you have a favorite Muppet? I'd especially be interested if the characters were unique to your home country, such as characters from localized versions of "SESAME STREET," or alternate names for famous ones we know in the United States by their main names.
FWIW, my favorite Muppet is probably Gonzo - no one quite knew what he was, and he always set out to do great feats simply because they had never been done, with no regard as to whether they *should*.
"I'm going to Bombay to become a movie star!"
"Don't most people go to Hollywood for that?"
"Sure, if you want to do it the easy way!"
So, I put it to the chathosts: do you have a favorite Muppet? I'd especially be interested if the characters were unique to your home country, such as characters from localized versions of "SESAME STREET," or alternate names for famous ones we know in the United States by their main names.
FWIW, my favorite Muppet is probably Gonzo - no one quite knew what he was, and he always set out to do great feats simply because they had never been done, with no regard as to whether they *should*.
"I'm going to Bombay to become a movie star!"
"Don't most people go to Hollywood for that?"
"Sure, if you want to do it the easy way!"
RE: Chathost's favorite Muppet?
A host's favourite muppet is the one that thinks she is genuinely in love with him.
RE: Chathost's favorite Muppet?
see? that's the problem : sometimes, the host is in love with him, as unreal as it seems. but if his brain can't accept that, then he is a muppet for sure.
RE: Chathost's favorite Muppet?
Not a host but I have to say I like the Swedish Chef, oh and the two guys up in the balcony.
Or Fozzy Bear (aka Yoda, just listen to the voice) though technically he is by Frank Oz and not Jim Henson.
Or Fozzy Bear (aka Yoda, just listen to the voice) though technically he is by Frank Oz and not Jim Henson.
Strange place for wings
Anyone ever notice that the beautiful redhead that greets us on CC's home page, prior to the sign-in page, has the wings coming out of her butt?
Faking
I know we've seen posts on hosts faking orgasms. But I've heard that a host can disable a viewer's cam feed without him knowing, therefore faking watching him. Is this true? If so is it done frequently?
RE: Faking
I have never heard of a host being able to disable a members cam...as far as I know the only way to stop a member from using his cam is to either ask him to turn it off or close the room ....
RE: Faking
No she can not a host can not do anything to a viewer's cam....if she does not see him it is because there is a problem with his cam connecting.
RE: Faking
Yes I see that available on my screen when I have viewers with cams but have never tried it.
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i have never been able to pause a members cam, heck i cant even pause my own room when i am in a video....lol
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"No she can not a host can not do anything to a viewer's cam"
"we can pause the cam of the viewer, ull see a gray screen then"
"Yes I see that available on my screen"
"i have never been able to pause a members cam"
"we can pause the cam of the viewer, ull see a gray screen then"
"Yes I see that available on my screen"
"i have never been able to pause a members cam"
RE: Faking
Why would she need to disable it? She can cover that region with another window or even a piece of paper. The member would never know except for her lack of reactions.
RE: Faking
I think you're both faked out technologically incredible edible dummies. So from here on out just fake it and dummy down ok? Thank you.
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I have been told by many hosts that they do not look at some member's orgasms by focusing on a different area of the screen. Another puts a post it note over the window. On the other hand others have told me it has become so routine to see it that it certainly doesn't turn them on or interest them in any sexual context but...if it makes the member happy and he keeps coming back...then oh yes baby...yes yes yes....
RE: wondering...
I think being a mistress would be very exciting, but it is not easy to do on here so I would much prefer being one in person .....
RE: wondering...
"Ladyboy" is the term which refers to a Transsexual person, male to female. Most commonly used as a term in Thailand and other Asian countries. Also called TS, Shemale.
What do members and hosts think of.....?
I think that it be good idea if the pause option hosts use show that they have paused their room rather than showing host as offline when host is away from computer for few moments.
often get members say I was online one moment then off the next when all I did was put my room on pause. to get drink or whatever.
what do members and hosts think?
often get members say I was online one moment then off the next when all I did was put my room on pause. to get drink or whatever.
what do members and hosts think?
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
Yes I think that would be a good ideas I have been in the situation where a girl I was going to visit has gone off line and I have wondered if she has left for the day or will she be back and I can wait for her.
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
Only a good idea if it also prevents members from entering videochat while she is away.
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
yes when showing offline one is not suppose to be able to enter a video and same with when paused.....but when on pause sometimes a member is able to go into the text chat which is a bit odd....but that is how cc has it set up....
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
Or Member chat? Oh better not say that. It comes from another site. And we don't want to be clones of other sites.
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
Seems pretty simple to me that if you aren't at your computer then you shouldn't be advertising that you are. I agree with how it works now. Otherwise a viewer is at your room staring to an empty chair, bed whatever and you aren't there.
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
was thinking more for when you get a drink or something, and away for 5 mins...or less
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
If you're not there then you're not there. Seems that CC did the simple thing and shows you as not there when you are away from your computer rather than many options to fit everyones desires such as:
Getting Coffee
Taking Break
BRB
In the Shower
Dressing
Feeding Baby
On Phone
In the Kitchen
Time out for real sex
Walking the dog
In another host room
etc., etc., etc.
What if you don't come back and forget to change your status and someone is waiting for you. Knowing how all hosts take things and turn it into convenience and $$ for themselves then I am sure that this would happen or just be forgetful. Therefore a host that is being shown with a temporary status is getting full-time advertising against the ones that are actually available at the time.
Things might appear so simple from a very thought but when you think of all the scenarios there are definitely good reasons to not change it.
Getting Coffee
Taking Break
BRB
In the Shower
Dressing
Feeding Baby
On Phone
In the Kitchen
Time out for real sex
Walking the dog
In another host room
etc., etc., etc.
What if you don't come back and forget to change your status and someone is waiting for you. Knowing how all hosts take things and turn it into convenience and $$ for themselves then I am sure that this would happen or just be forgetful. Therefore a host that is being shown with a temporary status is getting full-time advertising against the ones that are actually available at the time.
Things might appear so simple from a very thought but when you think of all the scenarios there are definitely good reasons to not change it.
RE: What do members and hosts think of.....?
nooo because after a while on pause it disconnects you...and not saying to have it with options. it is simple if your on pause for a few mins only then having the status showing pause. one simple word...instead of off line...there are even members that say if it said pause instead of offline they would have waited those 5 mins....you are making it sound like we want all kinds of choices. but that is not so.....
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
I prefer women to wear a little make up as , for me, even a woman who looks good with no make up usually looks even better with a little make up.
In fact just yesterday I was flicking through the tv channels trying to find something to watch and came across a programme that was a tv version of the snog (kiss), marry avoid game. The girl was heavily covered in make up and 80% of the male respondents said they would avoid her. They then toned down her hair and make up and it changed to 50% snog and 50% avoid.
If we are talking just about make up then, again for me, there is no difference between girls on cc and girls I see on the street. Now if only there were no differences at all I could then ask girls on the street to pull down their jeans and show me their sexy naked round bottoms :D
In fact just yesterday I was flicking through the tv channels trying to find something to watch and came across a programme that was a tv version of the snog (kiss), marry avoid game. The girl was heavily covered in make up and 80% of the male respondents said they would avoid her. They then toned down her hair and make up and it changed to 50% snog and 50% avoid.
If we are talking just about make up then, again for me, there is no difference between girls on cc and girls I see on the street. Now if only there were no differences at all I could then ask girls on the street to pull down their jeans and show me their sexy naked round bottoms :D
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
Now I'll need to spend the next week thinking up a great excuse :P
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
"Now if only there were no differences at all I could then ask girls on the street to pull down their jeans and show me their sexy naked round bottoms."
Hehe...you are right. I would call the police if someone ask me about it in real life, but in webcam sites.....why not? ;)
Hehe...you are right. I would call the police if someone ask me about it in real life, but in webcam sites.....why not? ;)
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
i honestly didn't know there was any other type of sanhez,except dirty :--)
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
Well after reading what a Dirty Sanchez was (Yes I am very innocent :P) I sincerely hope not lol. But T, after reading that post, maybe you are the girl to take away my innocence :D
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
that question is not an easy one to answer. some women look good without make up and some look better with makeup....the amount used will depend on the appearance of the female.
not only that but when a female is happy and feeling good on the inside then she will look good on the outside with or without make up... :)
not only that but when a female is happy and feeling good on the inside then she will look good on the outside with or without make up... :)
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
I think it all depends on the individual woman. Some women need a little "help" from makeup, to cover blemishes or bad looking skin, or just to enhance otherwise plain features. But I also know several women who are downright just as pretty, if not more so, without their makeup.
Personally, I think whatever a woman does with makeup, it should be done tastefully and only as much as is possible to enhance her natural beauty. I've seen so many women who seem to have no idea how to use makeup appropriately, putting so much on that they look like some clown from the circus. I heard a woman say once that the best makeup is the makeup you don't realize is there. I think what she meant by that is that one should use only enough to enhance her beauty not draw attention to the makeup
Personally, I think whatever a woman does with makeup, it should be done tastefully and only as much as is possible to enhance her natural beauty. I've seen so many women who seem to have no idea how to use makeup appropriately, putting so much on that they look like some clown from the circus. I heard a woman say once that the best makeup is the makeup you don't realize is there. I think what she meant by that is that one should use only enough to enhance her beauty not draw attention to the makeup
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
if you don't mind ccmail me your screenname. I like your posts, and think i'd like to visit you
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
Look like you do in your pictures. If you have glamorous pictures in your profile then look that way before you start your session. If you go natural then your archive pics should reflect that too. I think it's frustrating when you go in a room and the girl looks different than how she looks in her profile. Which is also why I advocate taking more archive pics.
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
huh?! the girl is supposed to look like she is on her profile page? lol you are such a dreamer! never gonna happen. and hosts wonder why we leave as soon as we enter . . .
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
i agree with everything you said random,but 1 thing confuses me.i always thought advocate was a fruit :--)
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
Maybe it had nothing to do with make up at all but that low cut top and/or skirt that was showing a little too much! Who knows....sometimes it makes men feel less intimidated and makes you more approachable. I do think when guys are paying money to see a very attractive girl here he expects it to compliment her looks yes too much or poorly applied can detract. Depends on what you alter ego is on here....
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
I think it just goes to show that make up is not the be all and end all of beauty. It is only because we are now living in a world where the glamour media dominates our perspective of beauty we quite forget that attractiveness comes from more than just a painted face. It is how someone walks, how they talk, how they dress, how they smile, how they laugh. Make up is a bit of a misnomer as it does not really make anything. Properly applied it should enhance not dominate. Personally I appreciate subtly applied make-up as it give the impression that the person knows their own attractiveness to such a fine degree they are able to just do the minimum necessary to display it. That is not to say heavier make up cannot be very striking but at the same time that is entertainment not attraction. A clowns make up makes you look at them, but I would not call that attractive ( I am not into Coulrophilia ;) )
RE: Make-up: to be or not to be?
That's probably right, it goes with our time and with those that most girls look at: stars. Many pictures are photoshoped, so they are far from reality, but still, most dream to look like that.
Thank you for your answer :)
Thank you for your answer :)
Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
I know many or most of you get many viewers that want a naked show as soon as the enter video. But I've also been told by many hosts they have regular viewers (whatever you call regulars) that come to open and 121 for chat only. Yes the IA girls get the chatters too, but they have different obligations to viewers.
So my question to you is, do you consider those viewers who come to you on a regular basis or even just once in awhile and only engage in small talk and never ask you to undress to be money slaves? And if so, do you prefer these viewers over the ones always asking you to undress?
So my question to you is, do you consider those viewers who come to you on a regular basis or even just once in awhile and only engage in small talk and never ask you to undress to be money slaves? And if so, do you prefer these viewers over the ones always asking you to undress?
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
Well I am sure that there will be those that will say yes money slave, but personally I do not call them money slaves, it is the viewers choice as to what he asks for in a video. There are some viewers that spend hours in text talking and never or rarely go to video, so it is nice when sometimes they go into a video and talk too. so if a viewer decides to talk in a video instead of asking for undress that is up to him. It can be a nice to change amongst the other videos that say undress and do this do that etc..besides that who knows what a conversation can lead to or not lead to..as long as the viewer is happy and getting what he wants then that is his business. Just enjoy yourself what ever you decide to do with a host.
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
Yes I enjoy talking in open video. I've had great conversations and met some great guys through chat. Hey it's a great place to ask a host questions about how she views men or situations since we definitely think differently. I enjoy making virtual friends. I do find it rather awkward when I end up asking all the questions so I prefer it be interactive. Seems it also would be great for shy guys to be able to open up a bit.
I am starting to hate the trendy phrase money slaves and it appears to be misused frequently on this site. That would be my furthest thought of someone that comes to my video to chat. Hope that helps! :))
I am starting to hate the trendy phrase money slaves and it appears to be misused frequently on this site. That would be my furthest thought of someone that comes to my video to chat. Hope that helps! :))
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
Just call them "lonely men". Nothing wrong with trying not to be lonely.
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
If guys who want to chat are "money slaves," then are guys who want an instant show "penis slaves"?
It doesn't have to be all about appetites.
It doesn't have to be all about appetites.
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
I would call them guys with money,but not money slaves of course.:) Money slaves playing fetish game, they ask hosts to do certain things in video (like dont pay attention on them, being arrogant or even rude with them and etc) and they got exciting from this, in most cases they even dont want to chat. Also they like if host up her price to maximum.
The reasons why some members dont want to see any adult things in host's sessions and prefer to chat instead are many and various. Some of I had experience myself, were cos guys use the site like dating site and searching gfs and they find it rude to to start relationship from strip. Second are viewers who dont need nudity because they are into other things (like smoking, lingerie, pantihose, special outfit, innocence). And third are really shy guys (happen really seldom).
The reasons why some members dont want to see any adult things in host's sessions and prefer to chat instead are many and various. Some of I had experience myself, were cos guys use the site like dating site and searching gfs and they find it rude to to start relationship from strip. Second are viewers who dont need nudity because they are into other things (like smoking, lingerie, pantihose, special outfit, innocence). And third are really shy guys (happen really seldom).
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
You sure are hung up on this money slave thing aren't you? Worried that you might be one?
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
hmmmm, and did you ask the same question of Ted and SeemsReal?
RE: Softcore hosts, your opinion of chatters in pvt please
Sorry, I have no idea what you are spouting on about
RE: Dare the cum dare game 3 -Shoot the tube!
Hurray !!!!!!! I will be able to sleep tonight after all :P
RE: Dare the cum dare game 3 -Shoot the tube!
Unfortunately myself :(
If I wasn't sleeping by myself then, hopefully, I wouldn't be here.
If I wasn't sleeping by myself then, hopefully, I wouldn't be here.
RE: Please Mamacita4u ....
I'll not be able to sleep tonight wondering if her answer was yes or no. Hopefully you'll keep us all updated and these posts from losers to their mistresses will become a regular thing on these forums.
RE: Please Mamacita4u ....
these two actually have fun on this site and not whine throughout the day like a losers :)))
RE: Please Mamacita4u ....
I only called him a loser because that is what he called himself. I also have fun on this site I just do not feel the need to post it on the forums (yeah I know that, in this case, posting it on the forums was probably part of the game and the fun).
Anyway I must dash. I've got an empty toilet roll I need to get rid of :P
Anyway I must dash. I've got an empty toilet roll I need to get rid of :P
Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
We all know what we don't like, and yes we all have our differences!!!
We spend so much time seeing the faults in others, even tho we all have faults of our own. But have we really stopped to think of all the things that we do have in common that set us apart, but also make us very similar?
We all want that special someone to be ours and only ours.
We all want that special person to love us and only us.
We all want that special person to hold close to us and to hold us close to them.
We all want to be happy, satisfied, cared for and cared about.
We all want the special things we do for another appreciated.
We all want to be sincerely heard.
We all want to see a smiling face and smiling eyes look back at us.
We all want to laugh and feel good inside.
We all want to be understood, whether we admit it or not.
We all want to be respected, whether we admit it or not.
We all want to put our feet up and relax on a beautiful day and just enjoy the beauty around us.
We all want to hear that we are desired and wanted for who we are and not for what we have nor what material things we can offer.
We all want to feel that gentle touch from someone who is sincere.
We all want to have that special time for ourselves to do anything
we want, whether it is for 20 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins, a day, afternoon, evening, or even a whole day.
We all need that time at the end of the work day to just relax and shake off the work day.
We all want to have our feelings, thoughts, opinions and ideas truly heard without sarcasm and and without unhealthily criticized.
We all want to feel the pleasure, excitement and passion that runs threw us when we are aroused.
We all want to eat what we want when we want without turning into a beached whale.
These are just some of the things that we all want. Are men and women really that different?
We all know what we don't like, and yes we all have our differences!!!
We spend so much time seeing the faults in others, even tho we all have faults of our own. But have we really stopped to think of all the things that we do have in common that set us apart, but also make us very similar?
We all want that special someone to be ours and only ours.
We all want that special person to love us and only us.
We all want that special person to hold close to us and to hold us close to them.
We all want to be happy, satisfied, cared for and cared about.
We all want the special things we do for another appreciated.
We all want to be sincerely heard.
We all want to see a smiling face and smiling eyes look back at us.
We all want to laugh and feel good inside.
We all want to be understood, whether we admit it or not.
We all want to be respected, whether we admit it or not.
We all want to put our feet up and relax on a beautiful day and just enjoy the beauty around us.
We all want to hear that we are desired and wanted for who we are and not for what we have nor what material things we can offer.
We all want to feel that gentle touch from someone who is sincere.
We all want to have that special time for ourselves to do anything
we want, whether it is for 20 mins, 30 mins, 60 mins, a day, afternoon, evening, or even a whole day.
We all need that time at the end of the work day to just relax and shake off the work day.
We all want to have our feelings, thoughts, opinions and ideas truly heard without sarcasm and and without unhealthily criticized.
We all want to feel the pleasure, excitement and passion that runs threw us when we are aroused.
We all want to eat what we want when we want without turning into a beached whale.
These are just some of the things that we all want. Are men and women really that different?
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
When your woman is mad at you, she wont give you sex....Men always want sex, even if they are mad at you....
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
Speak for yourself. When I am angry with a female that last thing I want is to be in bed with her, all I want to do is get away from her until my anger is gone!!!
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
sorry MeAndMyMember that was meant to go to kab....it's that attention problem we men have...lol
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
There is no way I wanting to have sex with my woman when mad at her. maybe use her as a dart board yea....lol
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
I guess so because in your entire post I didn't hear anything about wanting to give, bring smiles to others, to be understanding, to bring cheer to others, love others, make a difference in others lives for the better, to feel internal love, to be there when someone needs, to enjoy yourself enough that you're not afraid to be alone and many other thoughts of bringing good others. I seem to feel that I don't concentrate on your list as you describe it.
Sorry but I think your list describes a needy, fairly insecure human other than a newborn if I expected someone else to supply those things to me. Just my thoughts...
Sorry but I think your list describes a needy, fairly insecure human other than a newborn if I expected someone else to supply those things to me. Just my thoughts...
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
maybe you should read the post again, in my opinion the way I read the list yes in a round about way it is saying that. it is just not worded in the way that you have worded it. but it is good that you are able to find fault and to criticize in an unhealthy way as mentioned in the post. maybe you could have added to the list to make it more clear in words that sound better for you, instead of being so negative and judging the person for not wording it the way that is acceptable to you.
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
I said what I meant and I do disagree with the original post!
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
do you find fault in everyone so easily....lol
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
I've never heard a woman belch the word Arsenal after downing a pint of cider, explain the offside rule, or clear half a tube carriage with a particularly violent trouser cough, so yes, they are really different...
RE: Are men and women really that different? Well apart from the obvious features...loool
and that would be two of those obvious features ....looool
what would u call flashing
if a host has on under garments,,, and flashes parts...in open session does that make her nude...or just flashing?
and does that make her profile dishonest...if she says no nude in open when she is only flashing? I always thought nude meant she was without clothes completely.......and not flashing with a bra and panty on.....what do u guys think....?
and does that make her profile dishonest...if she says no nude in open when she is only flashing? I always thought nude meant she was without clothes completely.......and not flashing with a bra and panty on.....what do u guys think....?
RE: what would u call flashing
I would call nude as having no clothes at all, as in completely naked. Flashing is not nudity
RE: what would u call flashing
That is simple..in my opinion nude means fully undressed and without clothes... having on a bra and panty and only flashes for a bit, then that is not neither being nude nor does it mean her profile is dishonest. It makes her a flasher and a tease.
RE: what would u call flashing
For me nude means no clothes on at all (If she was only wearing socks or shoes I might be inclined to call that nude). So I suppose, for me, a host that says she does not get nude in open but who flashes her parts is technically not lying. Having said that if a host said to me she does not get nude in open I would take that to mean that she does not show her bits and bobs (parts) at all in open.
RE: what would u call flashing
I'll have to say it has to be the third one. Otherwise, if the first or the second one have to apply, I won't be allowed to describe myself as heterosexual :P
RE: what would u call flashing
Dear curious, everybody has there own interprutation, being an old fart, if I in session and she like she says she was and shows parts for an instant, then yes that flashing, if she pulls clothing aside and shows herself and leaves clothing where everything is visible, then it more on nudity side. Old fart's opinion. lol.
RE: what would u call flashing
Thank you for the responses, then if what I call flashing is classed as being nude then I am gravely mistaken and that ends future flashing in an open session.
RE: what would u call flashing
Flashing is not nudity. A quick glance at breasts by either quickly pulling down a bra or covering the breasts with hair or hands and uncovering them for a second is not nudity. Pulling panties down quickly or pulling them to one side or from the rear is not nudity. Nudity is removal of the clothes...and exposing parts.
This is a great post because it does highlight a semi-scam that goes on with some hosts. What do you want to see...I want to see your breasts...or I want to see your pussy....and wink....there...you saw it.
So again be clear...I want total nudity...I want you to remove your clothing and let me enjoy the view....its all in the negotiation and mutual understanding before the video.
This is a great post because it does highlight a semi-scam that goes on with some hosts. What do you want to see...I want to see your breasts...or I want to see your pussy....and wink....there...you saw it.
So again be clear...I want total nudity...I want you to remove your clothing and let me enjoy the view....its all in the negotiation and mutual understanding before the video.
RE: what would u call flashing
Flashing is how the lights are on the Police car when they catch me doing public mastrubation while in 121 on iphone...... :-o
RE: what would u call flashing
If you are posting in your profile no nudity then I think that is accurate if you just give flashes. Nudity would be without any clothing!
BUT if you had posted in your profile that you do nudity and only did flashes of body parts while wearing under clothes that would not be
accurate. That would be very misleading for the member who would be expecting without any clothes.
BUT if you had posted in your profile that you do nudity and only did flashes of body parts while wearing under clothes that would not be
accurate. That would be very misleading for the member who would be expecting without any clothes.
RE: what would u call flashing
I agree with you one hundred percent, too many profiles say one thing and another is thing is done, and too many word a profile in a way that allows the host to not say yes or no that she does something or it confuses a member But the post does say that the profile says no nude in open.
sincere concern about a chathost
first of all i dont want to create panic, or make wrong assumptions! some days ago there was a post in forum about a chathost that comite suicide but no name was given. From the english that the chathost in cause used some days before that in forum, i figured she was english native, and from her style and mature way of seeing things as well as very well outspoken, one name come to my head: CrystalDream and i saw she wasnt online for some days now.If anyone knows her (i dont other then forums) is she all right???
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
now that just shows how people are different. the original poster in that thread did not strike me as particularly mature. Guess it's hard to really interpret what people are saying when all you have is the printed word.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I recall that she said things like she was not some young pup, et cetera. I got the sense that she had been around awhile, but I don't know if she was 25 and comparing herself to 20 year old university students or if she was a lot older. It seemed like she was closer to 30 or older, maybe 35 or older, but I am just guessing. And as I said in response to her friend's post, English seemed to be her first language.
I think that her friend posted on 12 September and she was last online 9 September. The timing would be right, the location would be right and the age would be right. But it could be anyone. With American movies being watched all over the world, it isn't unusual for people whose first language is not English to use slang, et cetera. Still, I did get the general sense that she was a native English speaker.
It's a sad situation, whoever it was. :(
I think that her friend posted on 12 September and she was last online 9 September. The timing would be right, the location would be right and the age would be right. But it could be anyone. With American movies being watched all over the world, it isn't unusual for people whose first language is not English to use slang, et cetera. Still, I did get the general sense that she was a native English speaker.
It's a sad situation, whoever it was. :(
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I like so many questioned the validity of the second post without using a screen name and also suggesting someone that desperate post to forums for advice! I think it was thoroughly intended to get back at others that were trying to figure out what her situation was. By some of the comments she made in the first post it was obvious that she wanted to feel better from others to support that she had been wronged by apparently members lying to her.
If you notice the second post never responded to any of the inquiries.
If you notice the second post never responded to any of the inquiries.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I wasn't talking about CrystalDream being mature, English Speaking or any of the above. I was speaking of the person who posted the thread on August 26
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
She was OK when we exchanged messages at the end of last week
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
i am glad to hear that a friend! still very sad what happened to the other host...rest in peace.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
i dont see the point of such bad taste jokes especially when no name was given, i believe it really happened unfortunatly:(
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I totally agree with you but not necessarily a joke but more like a punishment to all those that did not give the answers that she wanted to hear. When someone accuses all to be liars who can sympathize with that? The second post did not sound reasonable and was so vague that I feel certain it was intended to make others feel bad. Obviously if they gave a screen name then it would have been valid.
No joke it was BS
No joke it was BS
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
You think someone would kill themselves, and leave instructions about coming onto camcontacts and finding a message thread? No, she was just pissed off with the responses and ina knee jerk reaction wanted to make people feel bad.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
The "knee jerk" reaction occurred almost 2 weeks later so that would sure be a sign of one wacked out individual. She would have to be so hurt that she just couldn't take it any more and decided to get back at people that way when she was thinking about it almost 2 weeks later. Not someone whose bad side you want to be on, lol.
Still, anything is possible. It's even possible that there was no second poster and that the original poster decided to post to make everyone feel bad and then killed herself afterwards. Who knows, although the writing style seemed different.
In terms of leaving instructions to post, I don't think the follow up post said anything about leaving instructions. The poster simply said that he had spoken to the original poster about her problem and suggested that she post about it here. That would mean that he would have already known about the site and the forum and could have decided on his own to post after her death without any instructions.
True or not true, we are talking about some strange people here who definitely either needed help if no longer alive or need help if still alive now. It all seems plausible to me, but I do have some doubts. I guess this will just have to be a mystery.
Still, anything is possible. It's even possible that there was no second poster and that the original poster decided to post to make everyone feel bad and then killed herself afterwards. Who knows, although the writing style seemed different.
In terms of leaving instructions to post, I don't think the follow up post said anything about leaving instructions. The poster simply said that he had spoken to the original poster about her problem and suggested that she post about it here. That would mean that he would have already known about the site and the forum and could have decided on his own to post after her death without any instructions.
True or not true, we are talking about some strange people here who definitely either needed help if no longer alive or need help if still alive now. It all seems plausible to me, but I do have some doubts. I guess this will just have to be a mystery.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I doubt that anyone killed themselves. But this thread sure has got a lot of attention.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
I think the name was supposed to be the subject line rather than the poster's name as they refer to CrystalDream in the third person.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
the name was never given, it is possible that the poster and the friend did not want the name given.. from reading the post impression gives for us all to think about what and how we say things to people in our lives and affects it can have. that just my opinion, which could be wrong.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
if they didnt want to give name why the hell write about it and blame other people as they do something bad?
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
not everyone uses their name when posting in either of these forums. even when they are talking about someone or something they do not like or something they do like.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
When someone is posting something so terrible and intended for all to feel bad they would post the name especially after several requests. It was intended to hurt many people out of revenge that the sympathy wasn't given when she wanted it.....so sad!
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
See that's what I do not understand. When I went back and read the thread, there were some who were not nice, but most of the replies as I remember were genuinely trying to answer the concern posted.
RE: sincere concern about a chathost
It was a mature host who had been on the site for sometime and felt betrayed by some members and wanted to express her feelings of frustration by claiming that people lie and supposedly wanting a clear cut explanation of why. Obviously no one could give an explanation without knowing what exactly the events were. Many questioned and many tried to console her so that she could deal with whatever she was going through and move forward. That wasn't adequate and she seemed frustrated that she didn't get what she wanted to hear. I feel strongly that she does need help! The retaliation unfortunately was a vague attempt to make everyone feel bad. Both were posts of anger and resentment and in hopes that the ones responsible felt bad.
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
lol u can say many things about palopalo
but pls dont give us the "she is honest" crap
she is far from that :)
but pls dont give us the "she is honest" crap
she is far from that :)
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
NOOOOOOO!!!! I for one miss her. She is intelligent and pretty. Conversations with her are never boring. The last few times I went to her I sensed something was wrong. She looked sick and not herself.
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
Better to have made an impact than to leave and have nobody notice. She has obviously affected all of you. Have some class and wish her well if she is never to return. That probably won't happen, but in the end, only the words of people you give a shit about really matter. Be proud haters. (sarcasm for those of less intelligence)
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
LOL. Palopalo is really quite bright, and I've always liked her. She gets underestimated by many here I think. The haters hate to think they've been outwitted.
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
Judging by some of the posts, its not that hard to outwit them... I also have always gotten along well with her and think that she is a great person.
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
all I got out of her videos, anyway wherever she is best the luck to her and hope she has a 10 pound baby that will keep her up all night
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
I'm not sure if what you mean that "childish" was all you got from her or that you are childish. If it's the former then judging by your post she would still be the more mature one out of the two of you. If it's the latter then I agree entirely with you.
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
after reading some of your post in here--i think your more childish then her, but that's just my opinion-anyway have a good day
RE: Palopalo missing 2?
So moving on with the topic, no one has seen or heard from her, will try to visit if she ver comes back and see what the fuss is all about :)
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
A long enough trailor where you prove how well you can tease... however leaving something left to discover in a private chat with you next time you come on line.
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
There are tons of free recorded videos on line. We are here for the interactive thing, not to pay for prerecorded video.
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
A short...no more than 5 minute....sample of what your live video would be like. Nudity or partial nudity would be nice but if you teased a bit and promised more in live video that would be fine. You should appear more or less as you would appear in live video. I would love to hear your voice...to determine your level of English...I adore foreign accents and I think Russian women have very sexy accents....I want to see your personality....are you smiling,...laughing....being sexy....Telling me a little about yourself would be great too..even if some or all of it was a lie...who cares. I think if a host did all that and price her pre-recorded video as cheap as possible...she would make some money off the pre-recorded but more importantly she would attract a lot of customers to her live video.
I have said this before....when you are representing your personality pretend you are on a dating site and you want to make yourself appear desireable and with a good personality....whatever it is...warm..funny...sassy...serious... And finally when you act sexy...pretend you are doing a video for your bf who is spending a period of time away from you...and you want to send him something that show how much you miss him, how much you care...and what you would do for him if he were right there with you.
I have said this before....when you are representing your personality pretend you are on a dating site and you want to make yourself appear desireable and with a good personality....whatever it is...warm..funny...sassy...serious... And finally when you act sexy...pretend you are doing a video for your bf who is spending a period of time away from you...and you want to send him something that show how much you miss him, how much you care...and what you would do for him if he were right there with you.
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
anal fisting and circus midgets please
we'll save the kinky stuff for the live show
we'll save the kinky stuff for the live show
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
a short description, and tell how long it is. also is great if the profile pic on your page matches what you are gonna look like in the video.
RE: guys,what do you expect to see in prerecorded video?
Titties, titties and more titties, nothing but titties
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
I agree! I have more than 10 girls I really like. they are all different!
From thin to BBW, from 18 to 43. From glamour to fetish. I come to CC for variety! So many wonderful ladies!
From thin to BBW, from 18 to 43. From glamour to fetish. I come to CC for variety! So many wonderful ladies!
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
why not have a cc contest and have the top 100 pick out and not necessary in order, have all the cc members has judges not just a selected few that video their favorite host all the time.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
You should never be insulted over something as trivial as that honestly. I mean everyone has their preferences and whether you think someone is top ten has no bearing on what you think of another person really. You might not be in my top ten but you could very well be an awesome person. Not being in my top ten would never change that. And at the same time, I'm probably not in your top ten either so really, it's not a big deal.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
You have as pretty a face as any I've seen on this site. Too bad you don't get naked.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
You're probably right because as all priggish people know, apart from the day they were born, beautiful girls never ever get naked, they never talk about sex, they never think about sex, they never have sex, they do not drink alcohol, they do not swear, they never smile in front of men.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
well then I wonder what kind of response u gonna get from hosts on here ...if you use this name to speak with them...
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
I have been a few years and mostly the response is the same as when I used a more friendly name, indifference. In other words most hosts don't care. A few make comments about it but, as far as I am aware, I have only be blocked by one host and that had nothing to do with my name.
Believe me if I thought for one minute that a young beautiful girl really wanted to be friends with an old guy who is visiting a sex site I would change my name tomorrow.
But for the moment I will stick with this name have my sexy video, the host will get my money and we will politely thank each other at the end, say goodbye and not think about each other until the next time.
Believe me if I thought for one minute that a young beautiful girl really wanted to be friends with an old guy who is visiting a sex site I would change my name tomorrow.
But for the moment I will stick with this name have my sexy video, the host will get my money and we will politely thank each other at the end, say goodbye and not think about each other until the next time.
CamySweety
Anyone had the privlege to see this gem? She should be on everybody's top 10 list or TOP 3 List... Or Hell Just make her your favorite!!! Drop Dead Gorgeous Girl!
Top 10
well here it is, my top ten of things to do this winter
10. paint my house inside
9. fixed the plumbing in my house
8. rewire the electrical in my house
7. put in a new wood stove, the fireplace still works, but the wood kitchen stove still not
6. cut a few trees out in front of the house, so you can see the front porch.
5. repaired the front porch, the floor is sagging.
4. repair the roof leaks (not many) but a few that are bad.
3. remove all the trash out of the carport, piling up to much, can't find what I need.
2. Put my house of for sale.
1. and then move
10. paint my house inside
9. fixed the plumbing in my house
8. rewire the electrical in my house
7. put in a new wood stove, the fireplace still works, but the wood kitchen stove still not
6. cut a few trees out in front of the house, so you can see the front porch.
5. repaired the front porch, the floor is sagging.
4. repair the roof leaks (not many) but a few that are bad.
3. remove all the trash out of the carport, piling up to much, can't find what I need.
2. Put my house of for sale.
1. and then move
RE: Top 10
10. DesertDream
9 Anaexina
8. 1sunkitten
7. SummerKiss
6. Delyssia
5. AngelRay
4. Missperfrkt
3. SexyNataliex
2. Sweetdesire3
1. Petitedesire
9 Anaexina
8. 1sunkitten
7. SummerKiss
6. Delyssia
5. AngelRay
4. Missperfrkt
3. SexyNataliex
2. Sweetdesire3
1. Petitedesire
RE: Top 10
I am so dull....my winter projects are:
10. Run ethernet cable throughout the house so I can use a gigabit network
9. Go back to the gym. I hate the winter so I might as well spend a few hours sweating there.
8. Get organized...I have things all over the place and my computer files are a mess.
7. Take an academic course in Spanish. I can speak passable spanish but I know I sound like an idiot...so hopefully a college course with exams and the like will get me straightened out.
6. Go to more games for the Big East Basketball team I have season tickets for and is one of the lowest ranked teams year after year. Still it is fun to be back in the college atmosphere.
5.Actually get a small business I have been working on off the ground. It is all set on paper and all the legal stuff is done but I am just too lazy and too busy doing stupid things to get started.
4. Spend more time with my extended family. Too many times I pass on an invitation to a birthday party or picnic because I am watching football or whatever...
3. Read more and listen to music more. I have access to both but don't take the time to get into the habit.
2. Eat better...I go days as a poster child for healthy eating and then....I am Homer Simpson.
1. xxKarinXX....I think she is the most beautiful girl on CC....and I would love her as a winter project.
10. Run ethernet cable throughout the house so I can use a gigabit network
9. Go back to the gym. I hate the winter so I might as well spend a few hours sweating there.
8. Get organized...I have things all over the place and my computer files are a mess.
7. Take an academic course in Spanish. I can speak passable spanish but I know I sound like an idiot...so hopefully a college course with exams and the like will get me straightened out.
6. Go to more games for the Big East Basketball team I have season tickets for and is one of the lowest ranked teams year after year. Still it is fun to be back in the college atmosphere.
5.Actually get a small business I have been working on off the ground. It is all set on paper and all the legal stuff is done but I am just too lazy and too busy doing stupid things to get started.
4. Spend more time with my extended family. Too many times I pass on an invitation to a birthday party or picnic because I am watching football or whatever...
3. Read more and listen to music more. I have access to both but don't take the time to get into the habit.
2. Eat better...I go days as a poster child for healthy eating and then....I am Homer Simpson.
1. xxKarinXX....I think she is the most beautiful girl on CC....and I would love her as a winter project.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
here is the problem with this , if i was to name my top 10 hosts ,i know for certain at least 2 would be complained about in future posts . If cc had a top 10 list based on earnings it would have the overall top hosts . But why do this now after years of not doing this?.
I return to my earlier point that naming hosts encourages the trools and jealousy between hosts .
I return to my earlier point that naming hosts encourages the trools and jealousy between hosts .
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
if they post such top, would be fair to be on viewer forum so we can exclude selfpromoting
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
idk if I can do a most beautiful list, because I haven't seen most of the girls on the site. But a few of my favorite hosts, all of which I find to be very beautiful are:
MMMMSOSWEET
Avr0ra
URDESSERT
EveryMansDream
KarinxLovers
WildKarry
WowKira
My favorite host all time was Jasminediva, but she has retired from hosting.
MMMMSOSWEET
Avr0ra
URDESSERT
EveryMansDream
KarinxLovers
WildKarry
WowKira
My favorite host all time was Jasminediva, but she has retired from hosting.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
i like your list because it is fresh. i dont recognize any names from contests
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
It's not her first baby, she'll be just as beautiful as ever.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
nothing really beautiful about single girl with 2 kids...yikes!
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
She didn't ask you to marry her, did she? And we're talking about her own beauty, if I remember well.
Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.
Beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder.
RE: top:most beautiful girls on Cc
if you get back in shape, i will be first in line. but if you try to charge $2.50 when you only have a $0.50 body, forget it. Not my job to provide for your kids...