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Haiti
I just made a donation to help people out in Haiti. I would encourage all members and hosts to do the same if you can. I don't know if I have ever seen such a horrible scene on my television before.
Not to preach, but members, if you can pay to visit a host, you can make a donation. Even just $10 would help. And hosts, if you cannot donate directly, if there is a member you trust, perhaps make a deal with them for a free or discounted show as long as they take the money they save and donate it. They should get a receipt for all donations so you can have them prove it to you, but if you would need proof, then you probably should pick a different member to reach such an agreement with.
For Americans, I donated online by using the following link and choosing the second option:
http://american.redcross.org/site/PageServer?pagename=ntld_main
You can also text and donate via your mobile/cell phone. Text to 90999 and write the message "Haiti". Each time you text will make a $10 donation to the American Red Cross which will appear on you bill. It may not work if you don't have a contract and use a prepaid phone, but you can try. I think you can text multiple times as well.
Please do what you can.
Not to preach, but members, if you can pay to visit a host, you can make a donation. Even just $10 would help. And hosts, if you cannot donate directly, if there is a member you trust, perhaps make a deal with them for a free or discounted show as long as they take the money they save and donate it. They should get a receipt for all donations so you can have them prove it to you, but if you would need proof, then you probably should pick a different member to reach such an agreement with.
For Americans, I donated online by using the following link and choosing the second option:
http://american.redcross.org/site/PageServer?pagename=ntld_main
You can also text and donate via your mobile/cell phone. Text to 90999 and write the message "Haiti". Each time you text will make a $10 donation to the American Red Cross which will appear on you bill. It may not work if you don't have a contract and use a prepaid phone, but you can try. I think you can text multiple times as well.
Please do what you can.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
No problem with people making money at this. I expect to be paid when I do my job too. Of course, if I do my job poorly, I get fired and then I don't get paid at all.
Personally, I've had so many shitty experiences on this site in the last two or three months that I've just been going to other sites more and more where there seem to be less of the "spoiled princess" type attitudes. Maybe I've just made some poor choices on hosts, lately. Whatever.
You may be here to make money, and that is perfectly fine. But I'm not here to simply throw it at you.
Personally, I've had so many shitty experiences on this site in the last two or three months that I've just been going to other sites more and more where there seem to be less of the "spoiled princess" type attitudes. Maybe I've just made some poor choices on hosts, lately. Whatever.
You may be here to make money, and that is perfectly fine. But I'm not here to simply throw it at you.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
You sound a little hot under the collar miss......obviously you didnt read everything and understand what was being said in the first place.
So let me clarify one more time:
1) We "the membership" (who without us, you wouldnt have a job btwy)....work hard for our money too.
2) If we get "played" by a host, and tricked into thinking she is a friend so we will spend more money...well of course we will complain.
3) Was the gentleman who started the post blaming the hosts?
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
4) Did he in fact state that the hosts have a job to do, and members should take responsabilty for their own actions? YES!!!!
5) Did the majority of the reponses from the membership agree?
HELL YES!!!!
So let me clarify one more time:
1) We "the membership" (who without us, you wouldnt have a job btwy)....work hard for our money too.
2) If we get "played" by a host, and tricked into thinking she is a friend so we will spend more money...well of course we will complain.
3) Was the gentleman who started the post blaming the hosts?
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!
4) Did he in fact state that the hosts have a job to do, and members should take responsabilty for their own actions? YES!!!!
5) Did the majority of the reponses from the membership agree?
HELL YES!!!!
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
I haven't seen any posts that blames hosts for wanting to make money. There are many posts expressing dismay at the way some hosts choose to make money if they are dishonest and end up hurting members. If you are honest with your guests then the complaints and warnings don't apply to you.
The thread in the members forum entitled "Good luck to us" wasn't even about hosts. It was a warning to members that this is not a dating site.
The thread in the members forum entitled "Good luck to us" wasn't even about hosts. It was a warning to members that this is not a dating site.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
I don't believe most members mind paying the girls for their work, its the job as you say.
I think what angers and upsets people is when hosts intentionally lead members on and into relationships. Sometimes this includes meeting and trips and pretends to look like a true relationship.Sometime involves planning and building of trust and is not just about sex.
The member deludes himself into believing the host, not wanting to believe there are other members who the host goes on trips with and other members who believe that, in the real world,they are the one the host is truly committed to.
That pretending in reality is what crosses the line. Real people , real emotions and real emotional pain. That's deceitful, inhuman, vicious and is real pain when it ends. Do some members do the same thing to hosts? Yes and that is equally wrong.
So keep it a fantasy site, don't use people and lead them on with lies. Whether members or hosts that is equally wrong. Any time real human pain is caused, it is wrong.
It would be interesting if there were a un-censored forum for members to discuss hosts who have misled, schemed, or even scammed them. It would also be interesting for hosts to have the same forum for all to see. Might clean up some of this pain that is continually inflicted when the line between fantasy and reality is crossed.
"The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it."
I think what angers and upsets people is when hosts intentionally lead members on and into relationships. Sometimes this includes meeting and trips and pretends to look like a true relationship.Sometime involves planning and building of trust and is not just about sex.
The member deludes himself into believing the host, not wanting to believe there are other members who the host goes on trips with and other members who believe that, in the real world,they are the one the host is truly committed to.
That pretending in reality is what crosses the line. Real people , real emotions and real emotional pain. That's deceitful, inhuman, vicious and is real pain when it ends. Do some members do the same thing to hosts? Yes and that is equally wrong.
So keep it a fantasy site, don't use people and lead them on with lies. Whether members or hosts that is equally wrong. Any time real human pain is caused, it is wrong.
It would be interesting if there were a un-censored forum for members to discuss hosts who have misled, schemed, or even scammed them. It would also be interesting for hosts to have the same forum for all to see. Might clean up some of this pain that is continually inflicted when the line between fantasy and reality is crossed.
"The truth of the matter is that you always know the right thing to do. The hard part is doing it."
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
I like my work and career, don't get paid by the minute or hour, work many, many hours beyond a normal "40" hour week. Have many colleagues around the world who have become close friends. Don't expect or ask them to pay me any money. Sometimes, I bring them a gift when we get together, they often do the same. I still get paid for my work. 'Nuff said.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
you must be a real genius. I don't think you will find any one that disagrees with you. We all know hosts are here to make money! And that this is a job! Where things change is when a member wants more from a host, and the host is not honest with the member. Or, she perpetuates the lie of a potential relationship only to continue the money flow from the member to the host. If a member expresses interest in a host more than just sex video chat.. is it that difficult to say.. "sorry , i am already married/committed"?.. I guess so.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
i dare you to post with your chathost name and see how much business you get.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
After reading all this, I went back and re-read the original post "Good Luck to Us All" in Viewer Only Forum.. It still is one of the best posts ever about this topic, and if the truth hurts, so be it! But if it creates a little compassion and understanding, all the better.
RE: For the ones who thinck girls here whats money .
This is a fanatsy site.
If a chathost presents a fantasy , and that includes presnting feelings of love or a possible relationship, why do they get bashed for this by the members?
If a member chooses to believe that a fantasy presented by a host is reality, that is the choice of the Member, not the host. A good host presents a beleiveable fantasy.
That being said,
I think that when a host has the expectation or chooses to believe a member to be a loyal or a "regular" customer exclusively to thier room, then later find out "My Member" is spending time and $ with other hosts, Its unreasonable to present anger or hurt feelings about a fantasy, it is the Hosts and Members responsibility to understand that its just A FANTASY.
It works both ways. Right?
If a chathost presents a fantasy , and that includes presnting feelings of love or a possible relationship, why do they get bashed for this by the members?
If a member chooses to believe that a fantasy presented by a host is reality, that is the choice of the Member, not the host. A good host presents a beleiveable fantasy.
That being said,
I think that when a host has the expectation or chooses to believe a member to be a loyal or a "regular" customer exclusively to thier room, then later find out "My Member" is spending time and $ with other hosts, Its unreasonable to present anger or hurt feelings about a fantasy, it is the Hosts and Members responsibility to understand that its just A FANTASY.
It works both ways. Right?
RE: Studio
Click on "Become a Chathost". Then click on the link for "chathost registration form". If you have no session in your own name (this does NOT include a session where u have a boss and he owns the session), pick the second option. If you already have a session in your own name (again, this does NOT include a session that somebody else owns), then pick the third option and log in with your name and password from the existing session.
The studio account will automatically be created once you have an existing session in your OWN name (not one owned by a studio boss) and you then add a second session in your OWN name by choosing the third option. The only issue is whether any existing sessions you use are owned by you or a studio boss. If it is your own session, then the third option will automatically create a studio account once you create an additional session for yourself. If it is not your own session, then you need to create your first session with the second option and then after CC approves that session, create a second session with the third option.
By the way, you cannot transfer a session that is part of a studio account (that means one where you have a boss and all his session, including yours, are in one big studio account) to your own name until you have made your own studio account. That means you may need to make two sessions of your own (if you do not have any yet) and then ask your boss to give you the session you use at his studio.
Finally, create an epassporte account before doing any of this so you can add the epassporte account name to your CC session. And use a separate email address for epassporte and a different one for your CC sessions and finally, a third one for chatting with friends and everyday email for security purposes. Yes, three email addresses. And do not use the same password for each.
The studio account will automatically be created once you have an existing session in your OWN name (not one owned by a studio boss) and you then add a second session in your OWN name by choosing the third option. The only issue is whether any existing sessions you use are owned by you or a studio boss. If it is your own session, then the third option will automatically create a studio account once you create an additional session for yourself. If it is not your own session, then you need to create your first session with the second option and then after CC approves that session, create a second session with the third option.
By the way, you cannot transfer a session that is part of a studio account (that means one where you have a boss and all his session, including yours, are in one big studio account) to your own name until you have made your own studio account. That means you may need to make two sessions of your own (if you do not have any yet) and then ask your boss to give you the session you use at his studio.
Finally, create an epassporte account before doing any of this so you can add the epassporte account name to your CC session. And use a separate email address for epassporte and a different one for your CC sessions and finally, a third one for chatting with friends and everyday email for security purposes. Yes, three email addresses. And do not use the same password for each.
just for fun
type out the sentence in a reply for all to see :p
mine was... i jumped on a banana in ur bathroom coz i can
Pick the month you were born:
January-------I kicked
February------I loved
March----------I karate chopped
April------------I licked
May------------I jumped on
June-----------I smelled
July------------I did the Macarena With
August--------I had lunch with
September----I danced with
October-------I sang to
November-----I yelled at
December-----I ran over
Pick the day (number) you were born on:
1-------a birdbath
2-------a monster
3-------a phone
4-------a fork
5-------a snowman
6-------a gangster
7-------my mobile phone
8-------my dog
9-------my best friends' boyfriend
10-------my neighbour
11-------my science teacher
12-------a banana
13-------a fireman
14-------a stuffed animal
15-------a goat
16-------a pickle
17-------your mom
18-------a spoon
19------- a smurf
20-------a baseball bat
21-------a ninja
22-------Chuck Norris
23-------a noodle
24-------a squirrel
25-------a football player
26-------my sister
27-------my brother
28-------an iPod
29-------a surfer
30-------a homeless guy
31-------a llama
What is the last number of the year you were born:
1--------- In my car
2 --------- On your car
3 --------- In a hole
4 --------- Under your bed
5 --------- Riding a Motorcycle
6 --------- sliding down a hill
7 --------- in an elevator
8---------- at the dinner table
9 -------- In line at the bank
0 -------- in your bathroom
Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:
White---------because I'm cool like that
Black---------because that's how I roll.
Pink-----------because I'm NOT crazy.
Red-----------because the voices told me to.
Blue-----------because I'm sexy and I do what I want
Green---------because I think I need some serious help.
Purple---------because I'm AWESOME!
Gray----------because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Yellow---------because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars
Orange--------because my family thinks I'm stupid anyway.
Brown---------because I can.
Other----------because I'm a Ninja!
None----------because I can't control myself!
mine was... i jumped on a banana in ur bathroom coz i can
Pick the month you were born:
January-------I kicked
February------I loved
March----------I karate chopped
April------------I licked
May------------I jumped on
June-----------I smelled
July------------I did the Macarena With
August--------I had lunch with
September----I danced with
October-------I sang to
November-----I yelled at
December-----I ran over
Pick the day (number) you were born on:
1-------a birdbath
2-------a monster
3-------a phone
4-------a fork
5-------a snowman
6-------a gangster
7-------my mobile phone
8-------my dog
9-------my best friends' boyfriend
10-------my neighbour
11-------my science teacher
12-------a banana
13-------a fireman
14-------a stuffed animal
15-------a goat
16-------a pickle
17-------your mom
18-------a spoon
19------- a smurf
20-------a baseball bat
21-------a ninja
22-------Chuck Norris
23-------a noodle
24-------a squirrel
25-------a football player
26-------my sister
27-------my brother
28-------an iPod
29-------a surfer
30-------a homeless guy
31-------a llama
What is the last number of the year you were born:
1--------- In my car
2 --------- On your car
3 --------- In a hole
4 --------- Under your bed
5 --------- Riding a Motorcycle
6 --------- sliding down a hill
7 --------- in an elevator
8---------- at the dinner table
9 -------- In line at the bank
0 -------- in your bathroom
Pick the color of shirt you are wearing:
White---------because I'm cool like that
Black---------because that's how I roll.
Pink-----------because I'm NOT crazy.
Red-----------because the voices told me to.
Blue-----------because I'm sexy and I do what I want
Green---------because I think I need some serious help.
Purple---------because I'm AWESOME!
Gray----------because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Yellow---------because someone offered me 1,000,000 dollars
Orange--------because my family thinks I'm stupid anyway.
Brown---------because I can.
Other----------because I'm a Ninja!
None----------because I can't control myself!
RE: just for fun
i smelled a birdbath on your car because the voices told me to(ain't that the truth!) :--)
RE: just for fun
I smelled a baseball bat in a hole because im sexy and i do what i want hahahaaha))) That is so me))))
RE: just for fun
i smelled a banana in a hole because im cool like that!!! ahahahhaa
RE: just for fun
I had lunch with Chuck Norris in your bathroom because I'm sexy and I do what I want
RE: just for fun
c'mon i bet u chuckled a bit at the replies....and u gotta agree its better than seeing all the crap thats being written the last couple days
RE: just for fun
I jumped on a noodle under your bed because i'm cool like that.
And I did it with style!!
And I did it with style!!
RE: just for fun
I kicked a smurf in a hole
because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Maybe my work is starting to get to me! :D
because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Maybe my work is starting to get to me! :D
RE: just for fun
I sang to a fireman in line at the bank because Big Bird said to and he's my leader.
Geeez, welcome to the twilight zone. Hopefully i wasn't singing YMCA...
Geeez, welcome to the twilight zone. Hopefully i wasn't singing YMCA...
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
What makes it complicated is that as a member i cant find those terms you talk about from anywhere, i only find this:
Categories Explained
... all you need to know about our categories
FRIENDS AND FAMILY
This category is for those people wishing to meet their friends and family. To catch up on gossip and general chit chat about life. They may not object to an occasional new friend popping in to say hello.
It is strictly a NON-Adult category, where nudity is strictly forbidden - SO DON'T ASK!
MAKE NEW FRIENDS
This is for people who want to meet NEW friends, but want to keep things tame. No Adult stuff here ...just nice and clean chatting.
LONG TERM OR MARRIAGE
Distance is no longer important when searching for your future girlfriend... or even wife. All it takes is just a click on this category!
Although there is no guarantee you will find your perfect life partner Long Term and Marriage category is the place you can express & explore your intentions :-)
And all other categories not mentioned, so for me it means that there is nothing i need to know about other categories?
Categories Explained
... all you need to know about our categories
FRIENDS AND FAMILY
This category is for those people wishing to meet their friends and family. To catch up on gossip and general chit chat about life. They may not object to an occasional new friend popping in to say hello.
It is strictly a NON-Adult category, where nudity is strictly forbidden - SO DON'T ASK!
MAKE NEW FRIENDS
This is for people who want to meet NEW friends, but want to keep things tame. No Adult stuff here ...just nice and clean chatting.
LONG TERM OR MARRIAGE
Distance is no longer important when searching for your future girlfriend... or even wife. All it takes is just a click on this category!
Although there is no guarantee you will find your perfect life partner Long Term and Marriage category is the place you can express & explore your intentions :-)
And all other categories not mentioned, so for me it means that there is nothing i need to know about other categories?
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Read the rules more carefully. When you are in a NON-RESTRICTED session, the category limits are ONLY GUIDELINES. That means you do NOT need to follow them. The only possible consequence for not following the limits is that CC could ask you to switch categories if you exceed the SUGGESTED limits too often. (I have NEVER heard of this actually happening.)
If you are in a RESTRICTED session, then the limits are not just guidelines. They represent the MAXIMUM that you can show and you CANNOT exceed them. However, you will usually NOT be in a RESTRICTED session, and when you are in a RESTRICTED session, you will see a big warning such as "Topless Only". It will be very obvious to the host.
Therefore, if you are working in Glamour and you do not see any restrictions such as "topless only" on your monitor, you can strip 100%, use toys, et cetera just like Instant Action hosts can. The difference is you do NOT need to strip. It is YOUR choice.
(And as a final note, once again, open versus 121 has nothing to do with this. There is NEVER a situation where you cannot strip in open, but you can strip in 121, regardless of the category. In fact, you are NEVER supposed to tell a member you will only give him a show in 121 regardless of the category. Of course, Glamour and Little Shy hosts do this all the time so go for it, lol.)
If you are in a RESTRICTED session, then the limits are not just guidelines. They represent the MAXIMUM that you can show and you CANNOT exceed them. However, you will usually NOT be in a RESTRICTED session, and when you are in a RESTRICTED session, you will see a big warning such as "Topless Only". It will be very obvious to the host.
Therefore, if you are working in Glamour and you do not see any restrictions such as "topless only" on your monitor, you can strip 100%, use toys, et cetera just like Instant Action hosts can. The difference is you do NOT need to strip. It is YOUR choice.
(And as a final note, once again, open versus 121 has nothing to do with this. There is NEVER a situation where you cannot strip in open, but you can strip in 121, regardless of the category. In fact, you are NEVER supposed to tell a member you will only give him a show in 121 regardless of the category. Of course, Glamour and Little Shy hosts do this all the time so go for it, lol.)
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
You seem to have miissed the part above the table of adult ratings categories that says
"For NON-RESTRICTED Video Sessions: The Adult Ratings do not define the maximum activity allowed but are ONLY GUIDELINES that are useful for selecting the right CamContacts category for you to join."
Hosts are fully entitled to say they do not want to strip in glamour but, as long as the session is non-restricted, the rules do not forbid it.
"For NON-RESTRICTED Video Sessions: The Adult Ratings do not define the maximum activity allowed but are ONLY GUIDELINES that are useful for selecting the right CamContacts category for you to join."
Hosts are fully entitled to say they do not want to strip in glamour but, as long as the session is non-restricted, the rules do not forbid it.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Pretty but wrong! If you are going to be dogmatic, helps to be accurate to retain credibility.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Why attack her? As somebody above pointed out, they are guidelines and she choses to follow the guidelines different than others might.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
I am NOT trying to deceive anyone. Your statements are absolutely, positively, 100% wrong. In fact, many top hosts would be gone from CC if you were correct. And you should consider the fact that Romanian is your first language, not English, before indirectly suggesting that anyone is trying to deceive a host. Or is it you who are trying to make the rules what you would like them to be?
Again, read the rules regarding NON-RESTRICTED SESSIONS carefully. The words 'ONLY GUIDELINES" mean that they are recommendations, not requirements.
This really isn't that difficult.
Again, read the rules regarding NON-RESTRICTED SESSIONS carefully. The words 'ONLY GUIDELINES" mean that they are recommendations, not requirements.
This really isn't that difficult.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Feel better about yourself now, is your epeen mighty? You showed her... I wonder how many members can communicate in a second language the way that the hosts do with english? I would guess not many....
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Dude, English is not my second language. It's in fact my 3rd language. I am glad there is still someone kissing the hosts' rear, but please stop inflating their ego when its already full blown. Speaking a 2nd language fluently is not a gift, but essential if it is a the biggest tool for your work. What most host dont realize is that COMMUNICATION is the key to success in this business. There are of "lazy hosts" that have been here for ages and still dont understand the majority of words in english. Yes, they go to university and some hosts even have families to take care, but why wouldn't you not invest 1 hour daily of your time to perfect english? I am tired to come in the chatroom to find a girl in my favorites still using translator after she has been here 1 year. C'mon, some hosts even make twice as much as I do busting my butt all day. She (palopalo) is just defending her position the best she can. Unfortunately for her, there are many, many glamour hosts that do everything she is refusing to do. It's her choice and there is also no need to attack her, but please stop kissing the girls' ass? Let them defend themselves. I promise you that no member will hit them. LOL.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Should we assume you were joking with the four languages thing? In light of your other posts and how inaccurate they are, I cannot be sure, lol.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
with u being a member and her being a host and ACTUALLY seeing ALL the rules how can u say she is inaccurate?
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Everyone can see the rules at issue here if you know the right link. You do not need to be a host.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
I see a possible reason for some of your confusion. The Adult ratings and Chathost FAQ's can be read by anyone who knows the link. Chathost rules can only be seen if you have a host account.
To Palopalo Please see the summary at the foot of the Adult Ratings section:
Only RESTRICTED video sessions have maximum limits that are specified by the Adult Ratings.
ALL non-adult categories are always restricted sessions.
For NON-RESTRICTED video sessions there are no maximum limits and Adult Ratings are GUIDELINES only.
The Adult Ratings do NOT define what you MUST do. They define the MAXIMUM activity allowed for the restricted video sessions, and are guidelines for the non-restricted sessions.
To Palopalo Please see the summary at the foot of the Adult Ratings section:
Only RESTRICTED video sessions have maximum limits that are specified by the Adult Ratings.
ALL non-adult categories are always restricted sessions.
For NON-RESTRICTED video sessions there are no maximum limits and Adult Ratings are GUIDELINES only.
The Adult Ratings do NOT define what you MUST do. They define the MAXIMUM activity allowed for the restricted video sessions, and are guidelines for the non-restricted sessions.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Some of the content may have been inaccurate but the English was good.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
and there we have the secret to neing a successful,great host.keeping the members unsure & making his member for sure :--)
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
You really seem to like shooting yourself in the foot Elena. CC Chathost Rules and Adult Ratings make it very clear which are firm Rules and which are gudelines. The Adult Ratings for unrestricted glamour settings are gudelines.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
that is what i'm saying no pets is in the guideline section. and also cc states that if guidelines are broken too many times they will restrict the host from that category.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Showing pets with any form of adult show could be interpreted as bestiality which is clearly against the rules, not a guideline.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Dear Elena, it's your biz and decision to stay seating alone while you are online. I dont mind you not showing as there are lots of nice and beautiful girls willing to make money. I have seen most girls in glamour do nice shows and CC allow them since it's all done in 121 and I have nice memories to back up my statement. CC knows it and anything illegal will be penalized. They monitor all sessions in case you didn't know. But again, I would just be quiet if I were you. Every time you post you put yourself deep and deeper in the hole if you know what I mean. Who would come to a host that never shows anything? Talk, talk is cheaper :-P
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
darling, i do as i wish in 121, of course no animals. nudity and show is on me to decide what to do. I am in 121 im the owner of my rules. i dont show in open video, pls stop making of glamour a no we can this and that becuase its not allowed. This is our work, i dont know if you come here to make friends and be pretty, but i want viewers to come to my room and enter my vid and spend time with me adn only if they see what they like they stay. So pls stop saying that girls can not show in glamour, it lie!
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
You are clearly wrong on the major issue here, namely what a host can do in terms of nudity and toys in a non-restricted glamour session despite your claiming victory, lol. It isn't even worth debating that issue with you any more.
In terms of animals and their appearance in a non-restricted glamour session, I would agree with you that while there is no prohibition in rules regarding the appearance of animals in a non-restricted glamour session, CC obviously considers their written warnings during a video session that tell the hosts that no animals are allowed to be sufficient. In terms of penalty points, in light of the fact that there is no explicit rule banning animals from a non-restricted session, I think it would be unfair of CC to penalize anyone for violating this policy the first time she is seen with her pet on cam, but after the host has been warned, regardless of the absence of a written rule, she is on notice and further violations deserve penalty points. (And I notice you never mention a host in a non-restricted glamour session being penalized for being naked. Why? Because it is permitted, lol.)
In terms of animals and their appearance in a non-restricted glamour session, I would agree with you that while there is no prohibition in rules regarding the appearance of animals in a non-restricted glamour session, CC obviously considers their written warnings during a video session that tell the hosts that no animals are allowed to be sufficient. In terms of penalty points, in light of the fact that there is no explicit rule banning animals from a non-restricted session, I think it would be unfair of CC to penalize anyone for violating this policy the first time she is seen with her pet on cam, but after the host has been warned, regardless of the absence of a written rule, she is on notice and further violations deserve penalty points. (And I notice you never mention a host in a non-restricted glamour session being penalized for being naked. Why? Because it is permitted, lol.)
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
In the end, dear member, for being seriously deficient in the sense of humor department, you're going down in flames. Elena triumphs.
And I think I said that rather well.
And I think I said that rather well.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Hoo.... Exactly how many hosts here do you love? It must be difficult having only one set of lips and so many butts that you want to kiss.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Now THAT was funny. Why should I care what you think? Why are you wasting so much breath on something so petty?
Elena will do what she wants, and she will be perfectly fine, regardless of what you and I say here.
Elena will do what she wants, and she will be perfectly fine, regardless of what you and I say here.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
So you finally agree with me, lol. What happened to your declaration of victory? :p I guess I was not simply stating what I wanted the rules to be.... I was stating facts.
And I even mentioned in my initial post in this thread that CC states they could ask a host to switch categories if they exceed the guidelines in non-restricted sessions too often. I wouldn't worry about that last part, however. First, you don't get naked. Second, they are not going to tell a host to leave glamour since she gets naked in an unrestricted session too often outside a lot of complaints from members which probably is never going to happen anytime soon.
And I even mentioned in my initial post in this thread that CC states they could ask a host to switch categories if they exceed the guidelines in non-restricted sessions too often. I wouldn't worry about that last part, however. First, you don't get naked. Second, they are not going to tell a host to leave glamour since she gets naked in an unrestricted session too often outside a lot of complaints from members which probably is never going to happen anytime soon.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
JCampbell, you do have the nicest butt. This is a well-known fact, not just my opinion.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
I work in glamour and I never had a problem with cc doing sexy shows in 121 or sessions with password. I dont do nudity in open, but I do as I wish in 121 or in sessions with password. I am most time busy, THANKS GOD! but I am very careful not to do naughty things in open vid. It ok, be yourself, but please dont generalise all. I am here not for fun, i am here to make money and I 100% dedicated to make more, hahahaha!
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
It is not against CC rules for a host in glamour or littleshy to only strip in 121. A host is not obliged to do strip at all in these categories and has freedom to decide what she does in both open and 121. It is against the rules for a host in not shy or instant action to insist on 121 before doing a show as the host is obliged to do an adult show in open video.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Well, there is a gray area here. Hosts are specifically told that they are NOT supposed to ask a member to go 121 for a "show". Given that many glamour and little shy hosts just sit and chat in open, often refusing to even stand up and "show" anything, even in clothes, unless the member goes 121, I believe that they are violating the rules. But since they are not required to strip in glamour or little shy, I suppose one can define a "show" in open as modeling in clothes and not be in violation of the rules if they do more (namely get naked) only in 121. The problem is that, as I have stated, the reality is that those hosts playing the "only in 121" game usually don't do anything but chat in open and force the member to 121 for ANY type of "show".
They would seem to be required to give some type of "show" in all categories but non-adult. This is further evidenced by the fact that they are told stalling is not allowed except in little shy (and I guess, by extension, glamour). If they weren't required to give a "show", then the language about stalling being allowed in little shy would be superfluous.
Given how things have evolved here and the fact that the rules are old, CC is going to be revamping the site, hopefully for the better, in the upcoming months so I would be surprised if they don't clarify everything in the not to distant future given how often this topic comes up. Whatever they decide is fine by me. I just hope they are very specific and put the rules in English, Spanish, Romanian, and Russian for the hosts and members to see so that we are all on the same page.
They would seem to be required to give some type of "show" in all categories but non-adult. This is further evidenced by the fact that they are told stalling is not allowed except in little shy (and I guess, by extension, glamour). If they weren't required to give a "show", then the language about stalling being allowed in little shy would be superfluous.
Given how things have evolved here and the fact that the rules are old, CC is going to be revamping the site, hopefully for the better, in the upcoming months so I would be surprised if they don't clarify everything in the not to distant future given how often this topic comes up. Whatever they decide is fine by me. I just hope they are very specific and put the rules in English, Spanish, Romanian, and Russian for the hosts and members to see so that we are all on the same page.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Fist this is not mentioned at all in the rules but in FAQ'a. The actual wording is ".. please do NOT use One2One to elude from performing in open sessions.." so it is in the form of a request rather than an instruction. A host in glamour or little shy is not obliged to give a show in open session or 121 so has no need to use 121 to elude giving a show. She has the option to decide that she will only give a show when she has privacy. It is then up to the member to take the privacy option.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
I don't know that the use of the word "please" and its appearance in the FAQ's necessarily means that it is not a rule, but that it is for CC to determine. Clearly a host playing the 121 game would at a minimum be going against what CC would prefer. Moreover, if you continue reading, it talks about how stalling is not permitted except in little shy so I am not so sure that the FAQ's don't count as "rules". Anyway, I think this will all be cleared up by CC in the not too distant future.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
The prohibition on stalling except in littleshy appears in the rules section so it is clearly a rule. The request not to play the 121 game is in the FAQ's. The fact that stalling is allowed in little shy is completely consistent. A host has no obligation to do any show in littleshy so can dely it as much as she wishes. In EMails with CC when 121 was introduced I suggested that rather than talking about a host "eluding" giving a show it would be better if they had said "Hosts must not insist on a member going to 121 for a show in those categories where an adult show in open video is required" and CC agreed this was their intent. I actually do not hink a host playing the 121 game in littleshy and glamour is not going against what CC would prefer. I am sure litteshy has become nore adult than CC intended. I also think that Glamour was introduced when CC tightened the rules for non-adult. It was intended for hosts who were in the non-adult categories but were happy to do some sexy talking, showing lingerie and stripping in 121.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
You don't have to read all this.If you don't like the topic give us a better one .Hum?
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Silly debate again!
No adult girls change cathegory and switch in glamour or a little shy to undress for members who asking for it, just increasing the price
Glamour girls do almost all in 121 even if not allowed and many have a second nick in little shy
Little shy girls!!! What about Strip Hi-Lo cathegory? LOL
Girls who refuse to get naked just don't want, and rules are an excuse.
No adult girls change cathegory and switch in glamour or a little shy to undress for members who asking for it, just increasing the price
Glamour girls do almost all in 121 even if not allowed and many have a second nick in little shy
Little shy girls!!! What about Strip Hi-Lo cathegory? LOL
Girls who refuse to get naked just don't want, and rules are an excuse.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
It is not such a silly debate as there are so many misunderstandings both by members, hosts and studio owners/admins.
The word "some" should be added in front of all your examples:
Some No(n) adult girls change cathegory and switch in glamour or a Some little shy to undress for members who asking for it, just increasing the price
Some Glamour girls do almost all in 121 even if not allowed and many have a second nick in little shy
Only some littleshy girls opt for the strip hilo game. Some hosts may use the rules as an excuse but others genuinely do not understand them correctly. Studio Admins/owners sometimes also do not understand correctly and set their own rules for studios. I am not just buying a line spun by the hosts here. I have chatted with littleshy or glamour hosts who are happy to strip in open session when alone in the studion but will not do it the admin/owner is around.
final point regardng restricted and non-restricted sessions. If a host is in a non-restricted session CC will not send members from a restricted session site. However the reverse does not apply. If you enter a hosts video when another member is already there it is possible that this is a restricted session in which case all rules apply. All sessions in non-adult categories are restricted sessions and strict rules apply.
The word "some" should be added in front of all your examples:
Some No(n) adult girls change cathegory and switch in glamour or a Some little shy to undress for members who asking for it, just increasing the price
Some Glamour girls do almost all in 121 even if not allowed and many have a second nick in little shy
Only some littleshy girls opt for the strip hilo game. Some hosts may use the rules as an excuse but others genuinely do not understand them correctly. Studio Admins/owners sometimes also do not understand correctly and set their own rules for studios. I am not just buying a line spun by the hosts here. I have chatted with littleshy or glamour hosts who are happy to strip in open session when alone in the studion but will not do it the admin/owner is around.
final point regardng restricted and non-restricted sessions. If a host is in a non-restricted session CC will not send members from a restricted session site. However the reverse does not apply. If you enter a hosts video when another member is already there it is possible that this is a restricted session in which case all rules apply. All sessions in non-adult categories are restricted sessions and strict rules apply.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Are you sure a member can enter open where there is an ongoing restricted open session and his session would otherwise be nonrestricted if he got there first? I suppose that is possible, but if true, needs to be corrected.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
It was the case when restricted sessions were introduced. It may have changed. But there is nothing that needs to be corrected. If the host follows the rules of the restricted session she is not breaking any relating to unrestricted sessions.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
The problem would be that a member used to a non-restricted session where the host was willing to strip in front of multiple members could all of a sudden be told by a host that she cannot strip because of another member even if normally she was willing to strip in open before multiple members.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
But very often a glamour host claims that the rules prevent her from doing anything but topless. We can just go away, or we can pay by the minute to explain the rules to her.
The reality is that she knows the rules, but doesn't want to strip. She is perfectly happy to collect our money while we explain in vain that she is allowed to strip because it's an unrestricted session.
At the end of the explanation the answer is the same. She doesn't want to strip, but thanks for the money.
The reality is that she knows the rules, but doesn't want to strip. She is perfectly happy to collect our money while we explain in vain that she is allowed to strip because it's an unrestricted session.
At the end of the explanation the answer is the same. She doesn't want to strip, but thanks for the money.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Regardless of rules, some hosts strip and do it all in glamour. Others will change categories and some actually keep their clothes on. Just depends on what they want, what thier morals are, who they are with and how much they are going to get paid.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
The point of this discussion is that the hosts who strip and show all in unrestricted seesions in glamour are not doing it regardless of rules. They are keeping within the rules.
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
there is a simple answer to this...if the host says she wont do something move to someone else...it is entirely up to the host what she will or will not do
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Soo boring
so many problems are caused by catagorising people - just enjoy what you are offered in life - people do what they want and not by what catagoris they are in !!
so many problems are caused by catagorising people - just enjoy what you are offered in life - people do what they want and not by what catagoris they are in !!
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
Funny!!!!
Girls can do what they want, of course, there is only a small problem, when they ask for 121 and there they just do what they want........lol
Girls can do what they want, of course, there is only a small problem, when they ask for 121 and there they just do what they want........lol
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
sure, 121 thats what she means. We can show in 121 becuase its the only way we can do in glamour without getting warnings from cc. Many other hosts from Not so shy moved to glamour becuase they dont want to have to show in open vids. I am in glamour becuase I want to show when i wish, not always. What I dont like is Elena saying we cannot show in any session. I dont agree with her. I show and do anything for 3 years and I have no problem with CC. Maybe she dont want to show, but it not the case for all hosts in glamour
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
I actually agree.. now that you are working glamour.. what is your personal policy, if you have one? (regarding sex show)
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
chill out pammy! I meant nothing by it.. only that i know you are now working in the glamor category. The last time i was in your video, you were not working glamor. So, I was curious if you changed your show or now have restrictions. Not a big deal. geesh!
RE: aboout Categories and GLAMOUR
glad to hear you are relaxed. I guess i didn't think it was a particularly "ballsy" question.. or that i was immature for asking it under an anonymous screen name. I thought it was a very general question to a glam host. If i thought there would be a benefit to myself by posting it under my screen name, i would have. But i am not selling any thing here that necessitates me posting under my screen name. If i wanted to speak with you directly, I would. I simply saw your post, and asked a quick question.
Turning head on the street
Hi guys! About which host from CC you would turn your head on the street? I mean are many sexy girls that do hot shows ,but still,not always this has has to to with how the girl looks . So about which girl/girls from CC you would turn your head on the street( even you are with your wife or gf ) ? :) Tx in advance!
RE: Turning head on the street
iNOTanANGEL is a real beauty in my opinion . over the years ive seen a lot of sexy girls come + go but the other outstanding beauty was wildyy (also a very nice girl ) Vanillagirl9 from a few yrs back was a real stunner .
RE: Turning head on the street
Agree! Also ''OurKiss'' ( if we don't talk about the show quality) .Drop gorgeous this girl!
RE: Turning head on the street
Hmmmm. I think iNOTanAngel has a sexy body and puts on a nice show, but I don't find her face particularly attractive. She can get a rise out of me on CC, but I think I would turn the other way and look for someone else in real.
RE: Turning head on the street
Well from my experience what people look like on cam and what they look like in real life are 2 quite different things. It has always rather amused me the adage that "The camera never lies" when quite plainly with clever lighting, make up and fuzzy filters you can do marvels. I have met hundred of people online over the years both before webcams existed and since and if there is one thing I do take away from all that experience it is that it is that without a grasp on who someone really is before you meet them, you are liable to be disappointed or worse yet disappointed AND heartbroken.
Of course the same goes for all of us and I am quite sure I have disappointed people in my time ;)
There are some hosts on here who are just plain beautiful people and I'd think no matter what environment they are in they are bound to shine.
I wonder what sort of street I would have to live on to seen them walk past one by one? Hmmm :)
TNTSTHBHHTAIB
Of course the same goes for all of us and I am quite sure I have disappointed people in my time ;)
There are some hosts on here who are just plain beautiful people and I'd think no matter what environment they are in they are bound to shine.
I wonder what sort of street I would have to live on to seen them walk past one by one? Hmmm :)
TNTSTHBHHTAIB
RE: Turning head on the street
Strange, I met about 30 something hosts over the past 5 years and I have been pleased with each of them. Didn't expect to meet the 9th wonder or Miss Universe. On the other hand I dont remember being refused by the hosts I have been involved with. Maybe you just let your fantasy run wild and were slap and awaken by cruel reality or maybe you are too picky? LOL. :-)
RE: Turning head on the street ~ Frequent Traveller
Hmmm.. Not quite sure you are following my point. I did not say >I< have been disappointed but I know many who do buy into the 'fantasy' are.
Perhaps I did not make it perfectly clear but my experience of meeting and making friends online precedes my time on CC by about a decade and I have been on CC since 2002 ;)
i don't think I am too picky but then I also don't think I looking for what most guys on here are looking for either. You go your way I'll go mine ok?
TNTTTCUALM
Perhaps I did not make it perfectly clear but my experience of meeting and making friends online precedes my time on CC by about a decade and I have been on CC since 2002 ;)
i don't think I am too picky but then I also don't think I looking for what most guys on here are looking for either. You go your way I'll go mine ok?
TNTTTCUALM
RE: Turning head on the street ~ Frequent Traveller
Not followed your point?
your 1st post
>>>>>It has always rather amused me the adage that "The camera never lies" when quite plainly with clever lighting, make up and fuzzy filters you can do marvels.<<<<<
your 2nd post:
>>>i don't think I am too picky but then I also don't think I looking for what most guys on here are looking for either. <<<<
You clearly stated that camera and lightning do wonders on your first post and its clearly what most of us fall for; physical apparance. Then you smartly enough exclude yourself from the rest of us by saying that you are not looking for what most of us look in here? If you said that camera tricks anyone about the hosts looks, then.... What is it then? Now you look for inner beauty and intellectual wisdom? Camera tricks you on that too? LMAO
your 1st post
>>>>>It has always rather amused me the adage that "The camera never lies" when quite plainly with clever lighting, make up and fuzzy filters you can do marvels.<<<<<
your 2nd post:
>>>i don't think I am too picky but then I also don't think I looking for what most guys on here are looking for either. <<<<
You clearly stated that camera and lightning do wonders on your first post and its clearly what most of us fall for; physical apparance. Then you smartly enough exclude yourself from the rest of us by saying that you are not looking for what most of us look in here? If you said that camera tricks anyone about the hosts looks, then.... What is it then? Now you look for inner beauty and intellectual wisdom? Camera tricks you on that too? LMAO
hosts that bad?
Hey .U really thinck that hosts here are online only to trick u guys ? only to get your money ??Have u ever thinck that sometimes u try to get from a host all the parts are missing from your personal life , and when u realy a host cant fulfill all the missing parts u start to make her guilt for all the things are going wrong ?
I`ve met here many guys feeling bad for not havinh a good sociall life , or a love relation , or a family , and have a feeling they desperate whanted to finde this here even buy it somehow (pvts , gifts ) and in time when they started to understand all the pvts and gifts they do will never buy the host .. they start blaming the host for all ... i dunno but i dont faind this faire .
Come here to have funn , come here to spend your time to "meet" a new person , to cumm , or whatever ure in the mood for , but dont blaim the host when ull realize that between virtual life and real life its a big difrence . I`m not saying its not possible to have a genuine relation with a host , but this will hapend only if ull not trying to buy it , if everything will come nathuraly , in time , and with no interes from bought sides.
I`ve met here many guys feeling bad for not havinh a good sociall life , or a love relation , or a family , and have a feeling they desperate whanted to finde this here even buy it somehow (pvts , gifts ) and in time when they started to understand all the pvts and gifts they do will never buy the host .. they start blaming the host for all ... i dunno but i dont faind this faire .
Come here to have funn , come here to spend your time to "meet" a new person , to cumm , or whatever ure in the mood for , but dont blaim the host when ull realize that between virtual life and real life its a big difrence . I`m not saying its not possible to have a genuine relation with a host , but this will hapend only if ull not trying to buy it , if everything will come nathuraly , in time , and with no interes from bought sides.
RE: hosts that bad?
i am,are you? maybe one day you will have a spare 7 or 8 hours so i can give you a brief outline of my guilt,then next time we can really delve into the guts of it :--)
RE: hosts that bad?
It is an old debate. SOME hosts mislead members into thinking that a real relationship is developing because it earns them $. Those dishonest few earn a lot but they end up hurting members. It is why warnings about being careful are necessary.
There are also SOME bad members. Those are the members who try to hurt hosts for whatever it is they get from hurting people (power, revenge, who knows). Hosts have to be careful too.
There are also SOME bad members. Those are the members who try to hurt hosts for whatever it is they get from hurting people (power, revenge, who knows). Hosts have to be careful too.
RE: hosts that bad?
I assume you are responding to the post in viewers.."good luck to us all"
Relax hun...if you read it carefully there is no blame to the host..."its not that they are doing anything wrong, its their job"
It was a simple lesson directed to the members....be honest with yourselves, keep things in perspective, and money doesn't buy friendship.
Thus if we don't act accordingly, we have no one to blame but ourselves.
Relax hun...if you read it carefully there is no blame to the host..."its not that they are doing anything wrong, its their job"
It was a simple lesson directed to the members....be honest with yourselves, keep things in perspective, and money doesn't buy friendship.
Thus if we don't act accordingly, we have no one to blame but ourselves.
RE: hosts that bad?
give me a break.. it sounds like you will justify any deceiving behavior of a host. "the members have such pathetic, lonely lives, I am only helping them, giving them what they want" lol...If a member wants to be lied to, fine.. but if he asks for truth, i think he deserves that.
RE: hosts that bad?
geez.. Isn't that what i said?? If a member expresses interest in a host beyond the video chat, because that is what he wants, wouldn't it be nice if the host answered with a little honesty? Is it really that difficult to understand sweetie??
RE: hosts that bad?
damn i didn't know it was a true or false question.i thought it was multiple choice & was going to answer D all of the above :--)
RE: hosts that bad?
It's easy to see that hosts have (mostly) one mind set and members have (mostly) another mind set about this topic. It's good that "Good Luck to Us All" was posted as it gives everyone food for thought. Perhaps a few fewer hearts will be broken, expectations will be lower too (for those that take the online relationships seriously). Good luck to all!
RE: Cigar
Now you mention it ...... I saw a host with a very nice pipe indeed a while back ...... what the hell was her name tho?
RE: Cigar
I know several that use a hookah ( nargila ) pipe and have noticed others with them in their photos.
RE: $1,000
I live in St. Peter and $1,000 flies off the window in the first week of the month. I need minimun $3,000 to live and this is not enough. i cant save for the future, just living and paying things like clothes, perfumes, etc... No money to buy jewelery or car.
RE: $1,000
I live in Ro.In a big city,i am student ( so i have an active social life that ''demands'' to take care of me and my aspect daily ) . And somehow I succeed to live very well with 800$ /month (inclusive the rent,what i need for university etc. ) I don't use to go at beauty salons for nails or hair ,i do this home;i buy often enough clothes ,jeweleries and shoes but is possible to find classy ,qualitative things and at reasonable prices .... So in the end I think is about what type of lifestyle you got and prefer . :)
kisses
kisses
RE: $1,000
If one has no debt, is single, has no kids or anyone else to take care of, doesn't live in a big city, and gives up cc, lol, he could get by under the right circumstances on $1,000/month. He probably couldn't have a car, or at least it would be an old piece of garbage, and would have very little auto insurance. Also, he probably couldn't have health insurance and would have to hope he stayed healthy. Finally, he would live in a bad area or at least would need to have a couple of roommates to share rent and other expenses. But it could be done. I think at that income level, he might also be eligible for some government assistance to buy food.
RE: $1,000
You just described my present situation! I have a job at $7.25 an hour, barely work 35 hrs a week. No chance for overtime. Find a part time? I feel lucky I still have a job, lol. I am single, no kids, I live not in a big city, have an old junker for a car. Yes, i pay minimum auto insurance, share an apartment, no cable or satelite tv, no health insurance, gave up video on cc long time ago after I was laid off on my $25.00 an hour job. Barely eat one time each day, but still don't qualify for govt assistance :-( Some time ago, I first i thought to help the girls at cc, which I did, but now I will start asking them for help! LMAO!
RE: $1,000
I make about $2000 a month working 40 hours after taxes and figured out I'd have about $300 left over after paying for rent, cable/phone/internet, power, heat, my car payment, car insurance, bowling league, food and gas. I'm not sure how good my calculations are because I don't keep track of what I spend on anything, except for the bills that are consistent numbers, like my rent and cable bill and car payments. Fortunately I almost always work overtime, and also have a side job doing karaoke...so I can spend some time with my friend on here :)
RE: $1,000
I also live in New England and to have a "good" life I need around $6,000 a month. To pay my rent, bills, food, gas for car. I save some and I spend the rest having a good time. I am single and have no kids.
RE: $1,000
LOL well I confess my rent is lower than average in my area, and probably much lower than yours. And everyone's idea of a "good life" is different.
RE: $1,000
"good life" can mean different things for different people. For me it means, I take a nice vacation every year to a different place and have the money to go out to dinner or drinks with friends once or twice a week
RE: $1,000
No, I make over that a month with my salary. $6000 is really not that much for my profession.
RE: $1,000
I've been living in southern russia for 1 year. 1.500 euro was just enough, it is more than $2,200. Change ur budget!
RE: $1,000
For some perspective the minimum wage in the US is $7.25/hr or about $1260 a month before income taxes.
My monthly expenses not counting entertainment, car repair/maintance, home repair/maintance, clothes or food/household expense is about $650 a month. I have big advantage that I own my house and car 100% so no mortgage or payments except for tax and insurance. I also have fruit and vegetable garden so I save some money on food.
If I had to make payments for house & car that would add at least $2000 to my expenses. Even more if I still lived in California.
My monthly expenses not counting entertainment, car repair/maintance, home repair/maintance, clothes or food/household expense is about $650 a month. I have big advantage that I own my house and car 100% so no mortgage or payments except for tax and insurance. I also have fruit and vegetable garden so I save some money on food.
If I had to make payments for house & car that would add at least $2000 to my expenses. Even more if I still lived in California.
RE: $1,000
I guess im lucky, my house payment is only $360/month, and utilities total about $200, water, electric, phones, internet. If I didn't have about $1000 per month in credit card payments I believe I could live on $1000 per month in my area, but not have much left for entertainment( not that I do now as it is).
RE: $1,000
$1000 may be enough if you don't need to pay rent. Also enough if you are a student.
RE: $1,000
I live in Germany. My apartment is $950 each month - and haven't paid any other bill or haven't eaten any bite. So $1000 is not much in Germany....
RE: $1,000
Well, I live in a Western European capital city, and my rent + apartment charges comes to about $1,750...so if I had only $1000/month I'd be pretty screwed!
RE: $1,000
I live in a cave with no electricity, gas, or running water. Don't have a car. Don't go to movies or the local philharmonic. Don't smoke nor drink. I eat what I catch and catch what I eat. I will need more than $1000 to live my current lifestyle. USA.
RE: $1,000
from the sound of most of the financial prospects here...most of you should not be indulging in this distraction.
RE: $1,000
yes it is thanks.it will be easier if i leave you my bank details than you sending it to me.it's very generous of you to offer me this amount.i won't forget it.thanks :--) p's will you make the payment on the 1st or 15th of each month?
RE: $1,000
sorry,but i didn't realise it was pay.i will have to respectfully decline,thanks.if it's paid i might be expected to work(shudders).also i didn't know i was one of your slaves.i hope i have been a good slave so far :--)
deaf hosts or viewers
Hello to all hosts I m wondering if there are any deaf hosts or any host who are aware of deaf viewers to whom they could have some knowledge of sign language to communicate via video which would be cool
just a joke
It's not difficult to make a woman happy..
A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42.. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments..
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring alcohol
A man only needs to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a carpenter
10. a plumber
11. a mechanic
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42.. dependable
43. passionate
44. compassionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
45. give her compliments..
46. love shopping
47. be honest
48. be very rich
49. not stress her out
50. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU MUST ALSO:
51. give her lots of attention, but expect little yourself
52. give her lots of time, especially time for herself
53. give her lots of space, never worrying about where she goes
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT:
54. Never to forget:
* birthdays
* anniversaries
* arrangements she makes
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Show up naked
2. Bring alcohol
is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
if i can move to Tver and make $1000 a month, is that a good wage?
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
yah, i make $900-1000 every month and i am living good in Tver. Of course not like a queen, hahaha! but it good money!!!
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
The current average wage in Russia is approximately 18,000 rubles a month which equates to about $610 at the prevailing exchange rate. So your proposed figure would represent a comparatively good wage. However, what precisely your $1000 will buy you and what sort of lifestyle it will allow you to lead, would need the input of some local knowledge.
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
huh? $4,000 not enough???? What do you eat and drink????
Shoot! $4,000 is enough for me to live in NY, USA.
Shoot! $4,000 is enough for me to live in NY, USA.
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
Pick a girl who thinks $1000 is plenty. Miss $4000, while candid, is not going to be a smart choice me thinks. Cheers
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
I think my favourite Rus host made $4000 to $6000 per month in her heyday here and lived like a princess. I hate to admit how much of that was from me.
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
its silly to spend so big money.i would say that only 18 years old girls can do such stupid things. to work hard,just to live like a princess?hmm.big money need2 b invested...
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
If there are any beautiful hosts from Tver that think that $1,000/month is enough for them to be happy, please let me know. I would be interested in marrying one of them.
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
Yeah right? Wouldn't that be a huge bargain? A wife that settles for $1,000 a month. I am ready! Bring her on! LOL!
RE: is $1000 per month a lot in Tver
Well, I would buy one more house tomorrow with your thousand and even offer you half.I live in The Alps, though..
PS:If you could look at me without asking my age.LOL.
I am already a grandmother.I wish I was joking.
PS:If you could look at me without asking my age.LOL.
I am already a grandmother.I wish I was joking.
The CC Addiction
How many think that the forums are what truly make us addicted to CC? All the sites have hot hosts. But the forums create a sense of community and allow us to become closer. They allow us to look at each other as more than objects and wallets.
I don't know of any other site that has forums like the ones here other than host forums. I think the forums draw members here and then, inevitably, the temptation to go see a hot host is too overwhelming. There is only so long that a man can think with the big head before the little one takes over, after all.
(Hmmm. Maybe they should have something like a community chat. Oh, never mind. A bunch of hosts from a certain country would probably bombard members with private messages if they ever created something like that, making most members want to stay away. Bad idea. :p)
I don't know of any other site that has forums like the ones here other than host forums. I think the forums draw members here and then, inevitably, the temptation to go see a hot host is too overwhelming. There is only so long that a man can think with the big head before the little one takes over, after all.
(Hmmm. Maybe they should have something like a community chat. Oh, never mind. A bunch of hosts from a certain country would probably bombard members with private messages if they ever created something like that, making most members want to stay away. Bad idea. :p)
RE: The CC Addiction
I think CC is a host-friendly site, so it attracts beauty and talent. And I have been impressed by what I've seen written here at times, from both viewers and hosts. But, if anything, I find these forums help you keep a sense of perspective. You can't just read the posts that say I've found my true love and will now live happily ever after, thank you CC.
RE: The CC Addiction
I'm not addicted to CC, CC is addicted to me ;)
CC forums are quite unique in my experience and the simplicity of the presentation and threading is quite old school but nice. It is probably one of the main reasons I still come back to view them from time to time.
That being said forums are definitely not what they used to be but are occasionally still thought provoking and a worthy discourse. But I am biased of course, being such a prolific poster in my time. There seems to be more unspecified censorship these days than I recall and it is hard to say what topics can or cannot be discussed as the practice of CC staff posting informally to the forums seems to have been phased out due to some arbitrary management decision.
I am sure there are many things that keep people coming back to CC but it is true there is a sense of community that is rarely replicated outside of social networking sites. It is nice that both hosts and members have a channel with which to express their personalities outside of the chatroom. I know myself that I have visited hosts purely on how they have presented themselves in the forums. I like interesting people and post that reflect that interest me as well.
Ok, that's your lot for now.. :)
TNTTOWSSS
CC forums are quite unique in my experience and the simplicity of the presentation and threading is quite old school but nice. It is probably one of the main reasons I still come back to view them from time to time.
That being said forums are definitely not what they used to be but are occasionally still thought provoking and a worthy discourse. But I am biased of course, being such a prolific poster in my time. There seems to be more unspecified censorship these days than I recall and it is hard to say what topics can or cannot be discussed as the practice of CC staff posting informally to the forums seems to have been phased out due to some arbitrary management decision.
I am sure there are many things that keep people coming back to CC but it is true there is a sense of community that is rarely replicated outside of social networking sites. It is nice that both hosts and members have a channel with which to express their personalities outside of the chatroom. I know myself that I have visited hosts purely on how they have presented themselves in the forums. I like interesting people and post that reflect that interest me as well.
Ok, that's your lot for now.. :)
TNTTOWSSS
RE: The CC Addiction
My morning schedule : MSN news / Yahoo news & CC forum. ))
The forum addictive?...hmm do I dare say it.......I think some hosts couldnt live without it. lol
I certainly can see it being a drawing card for members....it does provide entertainment, and can be educational. )))
The forum addictive?...hmm do I dare say it.......I think some hosts couldnt live without it. lol
I certainly can see it being a drawing card for members....it does provide entertainment, and can be educational. )))
RE: The CC Addiction
Community chat is fun when your in it!
Try to make a study schedule , include a few breaks, but stick to your schedule and udachi vam c ekzaminami.
Try to make a study schedule , include a few breaks, but stick to your schedule and udachi vam c ekzaminami.
RE: The CC Addiction
the addiction come from ours lack of something in life. else here it's a supermarket of ours hope, dream , illusion. Take a cigarette fellow
Don't Play Russian Roulette
Ladies, I have heard from a number of you that you don't like it when a guy uses a condom. Well, guys don't like using them either. But make sure you understand that unless the guy has not had any possible exposure for six months and then is tested for illnesses such as HIV, there is no way to know for sure if he can infect you.
(It is possible that it could take a year or more for the illness to show up on a test, but if all is fine after 6 months, it is extremely unlikely that there will be a problem later on. And if a DNA/RNA type of test such as a PCR test is used, unless there is a problem with the test, you can get a definite answer within a month.)
So put the cover on. Insist on it. Guys, that goes for you too. And, as much as I hate to say it, that goes for oral sex too although the chances of catching anything from unprotected oral sex are much lower.
And gentlemen, as well as ladies, the number of cases of cancer of the throat is on the rise due to HPV and oral sex. A vaccine is available for women at this time, and one for men may have just been released. But I don't think that the vaccine covers all types of HPV so choose your partners carefully.
One must enjoy life, of course. Just be careful how you go about it.
(It is possible that it could take a year or more for the illness to show up on a test, but if all is fine after 6 months, it is extremely unlikely that there will be a problem later on. And if a DNA/RNA type of test such as a PCR test is used, unless there is a problem with the test, you can get a definite answer within a month.)
So put the cover on. Insist on it. Guys, that goes for you too. And, as much as I hate to say it, that goes for oral sex too although the chances of catching anything from unprotected oral sex are much lower.
And gentlemen, as well as ladies, the number of cases of cancer of the throat is on the rise due to HPV and oral sex. A vaccine is available for women at this time, and one for men may have just been released. But I don't think that the vaccine covers all types of HPV so choose your partners carefully.
One must enjoy life, of course. Just be careful how you go about it.
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
ohh you sound like my grandpa:(
We all are big girls here and know about HIV, ok?
Who told you that we, ladies, don't like sex with a condom?
Usually men say they don't feel enough that way.
And it may be hard to reject that kind of sex when the guy is begging you "in the heat of the moment" and you are young and tend to trust people and believe in good things. Nobody is ideal.
We all are big girls here and know about HIV, ok?
Who told you that we, ladies, don't like sex with a condom?
Usually men say they don't feel enough that way.
And it may be hard to reject that kind of sex when the guy is begging you "in the heat of the moment" and you are young and tend to trust people and believe in good things. Nobody is ideal.
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
I didn't want to attack the member but he doesn't seem to differentiate the psychology of men and woman (at least Russians).
I myself have never came up with an idea of having sex without a condom with a guy I had not known for a long time.
And I have never heard from my Russian friend girls that they just needed sex without a condom to feel the pulse of life or whatever.
But I heard from almost all or even all of my bfs that sex with a condom is not sex all... etc. and let's try it because I love you so much... and...and...
I myself have never came up with an idea of having sex without a condom with a guy I had not known for a long time.
And I have never heard from my Russian friend girls that they just needed sex without a condom to feel the pulse of life or whatever.
But I heard from almost all or even all of my bfs that sex with a condom is not sex all... etc. and let's try it because I love you so much... and...and...
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
"...after 6 months, it is extremely unlikely ..." >>> ' extremely unlikely ' is too strong of term for this point. Some STD infections in women are unknown or latent until much later in life, such as at the happy time when you and husband want to have a dear baby but cannot because of damage due to your promiscuios behavior earlier in life. Guys to get called to account for your actions. Check out the possibilty of later in life prostrate cancer from your dalliances.
Oral sex. While those of the post - clinton era do not consider it sex, dont forget to take a look at photos jaw bone loss from oral cancer too.
Did someone forget to mention green monkey virus?
Condoms (even when rarely installed correctly) fail way more often then you realize. And the failure rate goes way up for the more rough 'anal sex'. BTW - has anyone invented a condom for the memory, mind, emotions and heart?
Its looking more and more like 'The Creator' knew what he was talking about when he said wait until marriage, and then only with the 1 marriage partner do it and and then do it often and enjoy each other in it.
Oral sex. While those of the post - clinton era do not consider it sex, dont forget to take a look at photos jaw bone loss from oral cancer too.
Did someone forget to mention green monkey virus?
Condoms (even when rarely installed correctly) fail way more often then you realize. And the failure rate goes way up for the more rough 'anal sex'. BTW - has anyone invented a condom for the memory, mind, emotions and heart?
Its looking more and more like 'The Creator' knew what he was talking about when he said wait until marriage, and then only with the 1 marriage partner do it and and then do it often and enjoy each other in it.
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
Nobody is an angel nowadays. Sex will be done here and there with no regrets. It's like children being free in some playground. The Creator made punishes for those who fail to obey the laws of life. Unfortunately, there is no way to escape the hammer. You follow a nice life and dont even consider being unfaithful, but your "supposed" soul mate, the one you trust, makes his/her wise and smarter moves 100% sure you'll never know. Ha! There is nothing hiddent between heaven and earth. Sooner or later or lies come afloat and slap us on the face when we less expect. Will they ever learn? Not until they live it on their own... Then its too late...
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
Ehm.. I didn't quite understand the role of the "supposed" sould mate in that.:)
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
oh sorry! I read once again and now I seem to understand your train of thoughts:)
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
How is that meant to protect you from AIDS? Everyone knows you can get it from coffee cups and toilet seats. Anyway, AIDS is so 80's. We should be more worried about the polar bears!
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
I don't use public toilet seats or coffee cups! !
BTW - AIDS is 100% fatal everytime.
P.S. - Did you invent a condom to protect the heart, mind and soul?
BTW - AIDS is 100% fatal everytime.
P.S. - Did you invent a condom to protect the heart, mind and soul?
RE: Don't Play Russian Roulette
thats why virtual sex such a good thing...no pregnancy..no any infections
RE: AIDS
you need to talk with professionals at a rape crisis centre .
only if u want post the name of ur country and i will try post more informations for you
only if u want post the name of ur country and i will try post more informations for you
RE: AIDS
omg, I am so sorry, that is horrible. My advice? You have been through trauma. Seek help, both medical help and counseling. Take it one day at a time.
RE: AIDS
It is impossible for anyone who has not been through what you have to understand exactly how you feel. We can only try to be understanding for you.
You do not say which country you are from so I don't know what sort of counselling you can get for this. If there is anything available then please seek it out. Get to a clinic as soon as possible and be tested for all diseases as well as pregnancy. The chances of you getting HIV/AIDS from a single encounter like this are small but having the tests is the only way to put your mind at rest.
You do not say which country you are from so I don't know what sort of counselling you can get for this. If there is anything available then please seek it out. Get to a clinic as soon as possible and be tested for all diseases as well as pregnancy. The chances of you getting HIV/AIDS from a single encounter like this are small but having the tests is the only way to put your mind at rest.
RE: AIDS
This sounds like a horrible story and should be dealt with by your local authorities as soon as possible. Rape compounded by physical assault is, as far as I am aware, illegal in most civilised countries.
AIDS is a syndrome caused by HIV , a virus that specifically attacks the human immune system. A person can be infect with HIV but not display symptoms for months or even years and in fact there is no guarantee they will develop full blown AIDS anyway.There has been many advances in medicine since the first discovery of HIV and many more are yet to come once we start to finally get an understanding of how the immune system works. Get yourself tested anyway, but don't think that infection is the end of the story. It would radically affect your life and the relationships you might develop but if anything it should just make you more focus and less willing to throw away days of life when you could be living.
Don't be afraid and seek help from friends and family and the people who really care about you. Find professional help and if you can keep your clothing and any garments in a bag, unwashed, so they can be used as evidence.
Poor soul. My thoughts are with you.
AIDS is a syndrome caused by HIV , a virus that specifically attacks the human immune system. A person can be infect with HIV but not display symptoms for months or even years and in fact there is no guarantee they will develop full blown AIDS anyway.There has been many advances in medicine since the first discovery of HIV and many more are yet to come once we start to finally get an understanding of how the immune system works. Get yourself tested anyway, but don't think that infection is the end of the story. It would radically affect your life and the relationships you might develop but if anything it should just make you more focus and less willing to throw away days of life when you could be living.
Don't be afraid and seek help from friends and family and the people who really care about you. Find professional help and if you can keep your clothing and any garments in a bag, unwashed, so they can be used as evidence.
Poor soul. My thoughts are with you.
RE: AIDS
Its terrible what happened to u...Im sorry..But i dont think ppl here on cc can help u. U need to talk to specialists. And go check at ginecologist's asap. The faster u do it the better. Good luck hon. And dont lose faith in ppl in general. There are jerks and good ppl always. All i hope is u will be fine and those 2 assholes that did it will get caught and get their asses torn in 2 pieces in jail. Good luck.
RE: AIDS
dont be afraid. go and ask profesional help. i had the same thing hapened to me when more young. i und. you completely. i did not want to see a man anymore and i was afraid of many things like you are now. this violence ruined part of my life and social relation for 5 years or more. its a hard thing to forget. i hurt other people i met becuase i always saw the same bad men in every man i saw. but finally im more trusting people and now have a good relationship with someone that loves me. dont be afraid and move on. hopefully you are not with aids. i hope not. people who do this are miserables and sooner or later life will punish them 2 times in return for their bad things.
RE: AIDS
Most importantly make sure you get very good counseling. Rape has nothing to do with sex and is a crime of control and viciousness. Rapists are, IMO, the most animalisitc of human predators.
As has been said many times get medical help to be able to partially put your mind at ease.
Do not let this change who you truly are as a person.Do NOT feel bad about yourself, you did nothing wrong.
Lastly look at the compassion and understanding coming to you and take strength in that compassion.
As has been said many times get medical help to be able to partially put your mind at ease.
Do not let this change who you truly are as a person.Do NOT feel bad about yourself, you did nothing wrong.
Lastly look at the compassion and understanding coming to you and take strength in that compassion.
RE: AIDS
I am sorry for what has happened to you. Try to talk to your family and friends and do not feel embarrassed. It is NOT you fault what has happened. Hopefully, you have love ones that will be there for you during this time.
I believe there is a drug you can take within 24 hours of potential HIV exposure to prevent HIV infection, but I am guessing that amount of time has passed. Still, ask a doctor right away about what you can do now. Maybe there is still time to prevent infection as well as pregnancy. Otherwise, I believe the earliest you can get tested for HIV is in about a month.
I believe that the earliest that you can test for HIV is 28 days. You will need a test that is called a PCR test. It is highly accurate but expensive. I haven't looked into this issue for awhile so maybe there are some other tests that you can take sooner and/or cost less. If you cannot afford the test, you will need to wait three months to take a standard test which will give you 95% accuracy and then confirm the results 3 months later (a total of 6 months after you were exposed).
Also note there are two types of HIV (HIV-1 and HIV-2). It is very unlikely you will run into someone with HIV-2 since it is primarily found in people from western Africa. I believe that a separate test would be needed if you are concerned about HIV-2.
You also need to be tested for Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C. I believe that there are PCR tests for these as well. Again, if you cannot afford the PCR test for these illnesses, you will need to wait 3 months to be tested and then another 3 months (6 months total) to confirm the results.
Those are the illnesses to be most concerned about. You should also be tested for other sexually transmitted diseases.
Good luck.
I believe there is a drug you can take within 24 hours of potential HIV exposure to prevent HIV infection, but I am guessing that amount of time has passed. Still, ask a doctor right away about what you can do now. Maybe there is still time to prevent infection as well as pregnancy. Otherwise, I believe the earliest you can get tested for HIV is in about a month.
I believe that the earliest that you can test for HIV is 28 days. You will need a test that is called a PCR test. It is highly accurate but expensive. I haven't looked into this issue for awhile so maybe there are some other tests that you can take sooner and/or cost less. If you cannot afford the test, you will need to wait three months to take a standard test which will give you 95% accuracy and then confirm the results 3 months later (a total of 6 months after you were exposed).
Also note there are two types of HIV (HIV-1 and HIV-2). It is very unlikely you will run into someone with HIV-2 since it is primarily found in people from western Africa. I believe that a separate test would be needed if you are concerned about HIV-2.
You also need to be tested for Hepatitis B and Hepatitis C. I believe that there are PCR tests for these as well. Again, if you cannot afford the PCR test for these illnesses, you will need to wait 3 months to be tested and then another 3 months (6 months total) to confirm the results.
Those are the illnesses to be most concerned about. You should also be tested for other sexually transmitted diseases.
Good luck.
RE: AIDS
Often men are worse than beasts.
I'm a man, so forgive me to be it.
Do all ur possible for ur health, body and soul.
Time will help u to forget, but never jump from the window, never think about it, life deserves to be lived.
Good luck girl! A God bless u!
I'm a man, so forgive me to be it.
Do all ur possible for ur health, body and soul.
Time will help u to forget, but never jump from the window, never think about it, life deserves to be lived.
Good luck girl! A God bless u!
RE: AIDS
Well I don't think you will get those illnesses.
Years ago, when I was younger and more stupid, I also agreed to have unprotected sex with a guy who later told me he had Hepatitis (B, if I remember right). A while ago I did (good and expencive) tests for all Hepatitis forms and for HIV and they told me that despite the unprotected sex I don't have any forms of Hepatitis.
But I had treshhold values for HIV...so they tested my blood once again in a different way and I did 1 more test 1 month after the first one and still I had those treshhold values...
You can imagine how I felt like!
In the end, according to those tests- I have no HIV but my immune system is pretty weak...strange because I try to eat healthy food and do sports...maybe I have been working too often at nights and had too much stress... I don't know how to test the immune system:)
So- if the first results of ur HIV test won't be good- don't be too scared!!!
I wish you good luck and believe me- time cures all wounds! You are angry now...but believe me- 1 year from that drama at the latest you will be able to think calmly about what happened.
Many hugs.
Years ago, when I was younger and more stupid, I also agreed to have unprotected sex with a guy who later told me he had Hepatitis (B, if I remember right). A while ago I did (good and expencive) tests for all Hepatitis forms and for HIV and they told me that despite the unprotected sex I don't have any forms of Hepatitis.
But I had treshhold values for HIV...so they tested my blood once again in a different way and I did 1 more test 1 month after the first one and still I had those treshhold values...
You can imagine how I felt like!
In the end, according to those tests- I have no HIV but my immune system is pretty weak...strange because I try to eat healthy food and do sports...maybe I have been working too often at nights and had too much stress... I don't know how to test the immune system:)
So- if the first results of ur HIV test won't be good- don't be too scared!!!
I wish you good luck and believe me- time cures all wounds! You are angry now...but believe me- 1 year from that drama at the latest you will be able to think calmly about what happened.
Many hugs.
RE: AIDS
yes, when we are young and living alone we do stupid things in life and we never listen to our mother. i believed a perfect stranger i met in a club and had unprotected sex with him the same night i met him. after sex i told him that i liked him very, but he told me he could not be with me again becuase he has aids. He told he was sorry that he wanted sex, but i think he was selfish thinking. Imagine my terror??? Two days after i did test and they came out fine, i have no aids. I felt that life gave me a second chance, i was careless and had sex with other boys and not protected. i never thought a young, clean, and nice looking boy will have aids. you never know in life what things you can find where you least expect.
RE: AIDS
Oh I am very sorry to hear that too...Brr!
Hm... did you do the test 1 month after the sex with that guy?
I don't want to scare you but HIV can only be found in blood minimum 1 month after the infection...at least my doc told me that.....
Hm... did you do the test 1 month after the sex with that guy?
I don't want to scare you but HIV can only be found in blood minimum 1 month after the infection...at least my doc told me that.....
RE: AIDS
to be honest... no. i did not know it, my doctor never said nothing about more tests later. it is 3 years olready.... i will do another, now i am scared again... thx for ur post.
RE: AIDS
Read my post a few posts above here in this thread. You definitely need to be tested again.
RE: AIDS
I am soooooo Sorry. You did nothing wrong and should not blame yourself. Blame the monsters that did this to you and may the guilt eat at them from the inside.
Seek help. Your doctor, the police, counselors, family and friends. Don't be alone and don't do anything drastic. These people can help.
Seek help. Your doctor, the police, counselors, family and friends. Don't be alone and don't do anything drastic. These people can help.
RE: AIDS
I would consider twice before going to the Russian police. They only ask diguisting questions about how it all happened in details and it is one more trauma by itself... And unless you know those 2 men- it would be pretty difficult for the police to find them... my 2 cents.
RE: AIDS
agree...my cousin was raped by 3 guys in her 15 and even she knew that guys the russian police didn't help and didn't arrested them. :(
RE: AIDS
its sad to say this, but in russia men know the police will not do anything to punish them if acussed by women. I was raped by my ex-boss in other work. Police went to him, but did nothing. My ex-boss said we had relationship and its not true. I never liked him. He always harrassed me, but I never accepted. I only stayed there working becuase it was my only chance to work in my career as engineer. I moved on and tried to forget, but its sad we dont have a law that protect us women from these monsters here in russia.
RE: AIDS
it has happened to more than a handful of my friends who work here over the years Ive been a membre.
Membres need to be especially sensitive to those hosts.
Looking for smaller
Am interested in extremely cute Glamour hosts with smaller breasts. I'm not into oversize. Any suggestions?
RE: Looking for smaller
I was assuming "cute" mean small, as in short also, but a very cute and taller host you might want to visit is JustLaFemme.
RE: Looking for smaller
looooooool... why don't you bring them over here, honey, and let me gauge the firmness quality? besides, I thought Finn was asking about... smaller? I don't think you qualify :P
RE: Looking for smaller
She's not in glamour, but i would recommend FreeAttitude, great girl, sweet, and "pretty." And best of all, not overrated or overpriced. She's one of my all time favorites.
RE: Looking for smaller
I'd agree and suggest FreeAttitude. She's a great girl and is extremely cute with a great smile. Excellent English too so you can actually hold a conversation with her! ;)
RE: Looking for smaller
I would advise you INFINITYYY (littleshy ) or UltraKitty ( in glamour). She have nice small breasts. tall. and i like ur sense of humor. funny girl anyway.
RE: Looking for smaller
It's been a few months since she's been online, but if Nothingelse comes back, check her out. Small, but nice and perky.
RE: Looking for smaller
Yeah, she's a hottie, but i dont think she's coming back. I miss her shows :-(
think-could be
Hello, here is something to think about, if a man has a chance to moved to another country and become a boss or lets say if a woman has a chance to moved to another country and become a boss,would you considered doing that or just stay where you are
RE: think-could be
i'd jump at the chance to start fresh in a new country....but it would have to b somewhere i know.....somewhere where the "conditions" r good.....places like Afghanistan ect r a big no no
RE: think-could be
I'd move, however only if it will improve my work resume and helps me move closer to my goals. Many boss positions aren't exactly helpful for your career's goals.
RE: top 10 glamour girls
hmmm--top to glamour girls
1. 09876234
2. 98765231
3. 78645272
4. 87602341
5. 48764230
6. 76523481
7. 32789011
8. 98762345
9. 09825672
10. 10
---is this so important here to know who is the top 10 here, we all have our own favorites--just like some host do, it wouldnt be fair to name here--this would be better in the viewer forum--okie dokie
1. 09876234
2. 98765231
3. 78645272
4. 87602341
5. 48764230
6. 76523481
7. 32789011
8. 98762345
9. 09825672
10. 10
---is this so important here to know who is the top 10 here, we all have our own favorites--just like some host do, it wouldnt be fair to name here--this would be better in the viewer forum--okie dokie
Text chat
Hi,
I am just curious about the text chat. For the "just talking" (are there any?) members it is a nice feature - but how do you hosts think of that? You don't get any money for talking in text chat, so what do you do, if guests enter and don't stop writing? The rude way and ignoring - not answering anymore? Or the nice way?
Are there any hosts, who had long text chats? What was the longest one you had? Was it by accident or does it occur more often?
Or is the text chat just a verbal "sneak preview" for asking what a girl is doing (e.g. in adult categories)...
I am just curious about the text chat. For the "just talking" (are there any?) members it is a nice feature - but how do you hosts think of that? You don't get any money for talking in text chat, so what do you do, if guests enter and don't stop writing? The rude way and ignoring - not answering anymore? Or the nice way?
Are there any hosts, who had long text chats? What was the longest one you had? Was it by accident or does it occur more often?
Or is the text chat just a verbal "sneak preview" for asking what a girl is doing (e.g. in adult categories)...
RE: Text chat
lol u hosts.. u should try to make up your mind for why you are here :)))
Most host in community chat and forums are saying that this is not just a job for them, and they dont even like if members talk to them like this is a job, they say they are not here for money, money is just nice extra.
They are looking for smart intelligent guys to chat with, they dont like to do show, it is not a show, it is not a job!!
Hah and if member go to their text chat and talk.. soon they are here whining about member who in text chat just talk and talk for free, taking hosts valuable time for free and bothering her, propably wanking when asking sexual questions about show lol
Comon girls.. show some respect to members too, because that is what we are trying to show to you when we come in text chat for friendly talk, ofcourse i cant talk for others, but i go in text chat just for that, friendly talk, and get to know a host a little better, before taking her to video, or sometimes just to say hi and let the host know that i been thinking about her and not just forget her like a machine after the show.
Most host in community chat and forums are saying that this is not just a job for them, and they dont even like if members talk to them like this is a job, they say they are not here for money, money is just nice extra.
They are looking for smart intelligent guys to chat with, they dont like to do show, it is not a show, it is not a job!!
Hah and if member go to their text chat and talk.. soon they are here whining about member who in text chat just talk and talk for free, taking hosts valuable time for free and bothering her, propably wanking when asking sexual questions about show lol
Comon girls.. show some respect to members too, because that is what we are trying to show to you when we come in text chat for friendly talk, ofcourse i cant talk for others, but i go in text chat just for that, friendly talk, and get to know a host a little better, before taking her to video, or sometimes just to say hi and let the host know that i been thinking about her and not just forget her like a machine after the show.
RE: Text chat
I go in text always before every session, to know a liitle about host and to ask permission to enter in video. If host askes me soon to go to see her without answer to my few questions i say bye and go away.
RE: Text chat
All girls here act like my friend if I am paying them.
I roleplay to be poor and go in text chat only for some days to find hosts who are really truely nice - and then progress into long term video relationships.
I never think twice about those hosts who only like my money and not like ME.
I roleplay to be poor and go in text chat only for some days to find hosts who are really truely nice - and then progress into long term video relationships.
I never think twice about those hosts who only like my money and not like ME.
RE: Text chat
i do have enought friends in yahoo to chat4 free..if guy come in in chat i can polite talk 3-5 minuts.to reply him if i can do things what about he asking me..i polite tell him that he is not the one in my text.usua;ly 2-3 guys siting there..so its hard2 talk with all.GUYS TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT WE HOSTS WANT TO REST FROM VIDEO TO VIDEO, simple look tv .drink tea.,reply on mails etc...we cant talk in text chat.THOES WHO WANT TO TALK IN FREE PLEASE WELCOME IN COMUNITY CHAT :)
RE: Text chat
Wow things have changed around here in the last yrs...or maybe I was an exception back then also. Anyhow, the longest text chat without interruption or sleep (except random video sessions - I remember it was a slow night) was for an entire night.The guy was interesting enough to keep me going without asking him not even once to join my video. And, yeah, he became a strong regular after that night. In fact, I always preffered to text chat between videos and never pressured anyone to join my video...most of the guys offered to enter after 10-15 minutes of text chat anyway. But, of course, anyone is entitled to do their own thing, thats why CC used to be and still is wonderfull.
RE: Text chat
I think 5 minutes in text is enough to find out if you click with the host. Like its been said, CC has best rates for video...take advantage!
AND OMG...PLS DONT SAY THAT WORD "SHOW" we dont want to go there again!!!! LOL
AND OMG...PLS DONT SAY THAT WORD "SHOW" we dont want to go there again!!!! LOL
RE: Text chat
I have only a few host I ever see in video, and those I usually spend hours talking to in free chat. I never say much unless they also are talking to me, because I know when they are quiet they are busy with someone else. Most of my video sessions last for hours, not minutes, so I wonder if it is worth the time if free chat for the host when video does happen?
It's not right for a member to try to get a free text show, so don't do it. But for host who just outright push away someone who wants to engage in some chat to get to know them, you should be careful because you could be sending away one of the best regulars you could ever have.
Honestly if I only wanted a "show" from someone I wouldn't bother coming here and wasting money, I would find some free porn. Those rare few host here who know who I am I will have to say you are the most wonderful women I have ever met, beautiful, intelligent, witty, caring, and most friendly in the world. You are the friends I will remember all my life, the rest..... well I guess I will never know.
It's not right for a member to try to get a free text show, so don't do it. But for host who just outright push away someone who wants to engage in some chat to get to know them, you should be careful because you could be sending away one of the best regulars you could ever have.
Honestly if I only wanted a "show" from someone I wouldn't bother coming here and wasting money, I would find some free porn. Those rare few host here who know who I am I will have to say you are the most wonderful women I have ever met, beautiful, intelligent, witty, caring, and most friendly in the world. You are the friends I will remember all my life, the rest..... well I guess I will never know.
smoking
Do any ladies smoke brown cigarettes? If so let me know I would like to come and watch..
RE: smoking
I don't :D And i guess is about a smoke fetish ,which is not something that each host can do it .
RE: Glamour girls in 121
women are bizarre creatures :).....Most in glamour force u to go to 121 or they wont strip
RE: Glamour girls in 121
Glamour is at the middle between adult and non adult. 80% from glamour hosts are very smart girls with you can talk about history ,literature,art,movies,music, but they also have hot smoking bodies and can do very hot shows.
Incredible or not ,i am not on CC only for sex. My family is away,all my friends ,work mates have families ,i feel very lonely and many times I need only company and someone to laugh with.Are my money and i decide how to spend it.And if in one night i want to talk with a particular host and when i enter i find her having an orgasm most probably i wouldn't come back at her again.I know is their job,they all get naked at a certain point ,i just like privacy. Glamour girls are a special category.
Incredible or not ,i am not on CC only for sex. My family is away,all my friends ,work mates have families ,i feel very lonely and many times I need only company and someone to laugh with.Are my money and i decide how to spend it.And if in one night i want to talk with a particular host and when i enter i find her having an orgasm most probably i wouldn't come back at her again.I know is their job,they all get naked at a certain point ,i just like privacy. Glamour girls are a special category.
RE: Glamour girls in 121
For the sake of accuracy that percentage (itself admittedly arbitrary) could also be applied to the hosts in all categories, that share the same attributes and talents.
RE: Glamour girls in 121
I try don't lose control.....but sometimes it's happen, sorry guys. :-)
RE: Glamour girls in 121
If you post your host name here some may come to see you. And at least they will know what to expect. :)
RE: Glamour girls in 121
Dunno ... I don't like to share the girl with anyone. And I don't like to watch voyeur shows ( when are multiple viewers ). 2 men never want the same thing from a girl. So if you can't afford a proper 121 ,move on. Instanct action ,NotSoShy .
RE: Glamour girls in 121
I have a favourite host (won't say who) and before she moved to Glamour from non-adult (many urged her to!) she would always get warnings when she danced too provactively and became very flirty. Now she can tease more (and she's very good at this!) without the fear of warnings. I'm now happy and all her members are too!
RE: Glamour girls in 121
The majority of hosts will now not do much if anything in open video. They say it is because they are shy or don't want to be disturbed but the truth is clearly they get more money for 121. Glamour is indeed an odd category ranging from chat only (what aren't you in Non-Adult) to full double pentration (why aren't you in Instant Action). In general I find the host agreeable to a sexy show being at least topless. Like alwasy clealy and specifically ask what you want. Not just strip...what does strip mean.
RE: Glamour girls in 121
hmmm--why do you go to glamour to begin with-if you expected more-go to instant action-- pay a little more up front to see what you want to see instead of asking them to do something they are not comfotable with
RE: Glamour girls in 121
I think going into 121 has less to do with money than it does with privacy. Many hosts don't seem to do the same things for the same members. This is especially true for some hosts that keep their 121 price close to their open price.
On the otherhand, there is the thought that the open price is for chat and the 121 price is for a show. Personally I don't mind either reason.
On the otherhand, there is the thought that the open price is for chat and the 121 price is for a show. Personally I don't mind either reason.
RE: Glamour girls in 121
In theory then, according to some on here, 121 in glamour is for privacy, if this is the case, why does 121 always cost more money?
RE: Glamour girls in 121
Please make yourself an Non Adult account and try to say co*k or wear a pair of short jeans that reveals half of your butt and after that you will understand why Glamour is at the middle .
RE: Glamour girls in 121
members already know what to expect from a host in I.A. or Not So Shy Cat. Glamour, mainly, is the surprise and playful cat. where the members fool themselves thinking they still have the skills to conquer a hot and smart teenage girl when in fact the members in his middle 40's. Look at AxB, she was in Not So Shy for long time, but she's now famous now that she's in glamour and not only her, many other hosts that found Glamour to be a spotlight for their biz. Lighten up, its just a game.
RE: Glamour girls in 121
well, I like Glam and Little Shy categories...I prefer entering a video and having a nice chat with the girl. If she is funny and smart and flirty - well, who knows what happens further :)
I like the "open end" - you don't know where the chat will lead to :-) And I must admit after some nice and funny conversations I experienced a lot of Glam-Girls who where not that shy. And I understand that they want privacy in such case - like I do.
An absolute no-go for me is - if after some nice and funny words the girl spoils the chat by saying she won't do anything. For me the thrill is, not knowing what to get but there is a possibility to get :) If you know from the very first moment that nothing will happen - well, I miss the excitement :)
I like the "open end" - you don't know where the chat will lead to :-) And I must admit after some nice and funny conversations I experienced a lot of Glam-Girls who where not that shy. And I understand that they want privacy in such case - like I do.
An absolute no-go for me is - if after some nice and funny words the girl spoils the chat by saying she won't do anything. For me the thrill is, not knowing what to get but there is a possibility to get :) If you know from the very first moment that nothing will happen - well, I miss the excitement :)
RE: Glamour girls in 121
most girls in glamour danced and stripped for me without the need to say stupid jokes and long talks about what I ate last night ;-)
To Female Hosts, Romanians (and Moldovan) in particular
I know many hosts on sites, and for whatever reason, it seems that many of the Romanian and Moldovan (often of Romanian ancestry) ones tell me that they have ovarian cysts (chist in Romanian). I don't hear this from hosts from other countries, not that I am discussing this type of thing too much with anyone, lol. Is there a problem with Romanian women and this issue or is it common for all women to have this problem? I ask because it is easily an issue with 25% of the Romanians/Moldovans I know, and probably a higher percentage.
RE: To Female Hosts, Romanians (and Moldovan) in particular
The percentage may be higher in Romania but ovarian cysts are very common in all women. Romanians seem to be more willing to talk about intimate health issues than people from some other countries. I have found out more about the gynaecological and other health problems of Romanian hosts from a few on line chats than I know about girls that have been friends for years or even girlfriends. Hosts from other countries also disclose far less personal health information.