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male? shemale? female?
If a person is born as a "male" and step by step wants to change sex at what point is it a "female"?
wearing women's clothing
identifying as female even if still fully male
in full hormone therapy
when breasts are implanted
when penis is cut off
when vagina is constructed
NEVER (if born a man you are always a man no matter how you chaneg your body)
wearing women's clothing
identifying as female even if still fully male
in full hormone therapy
when breasts are implanted
when penis is cut off
when vagina is constructed
NEVER (if born a man you are always a man no matter how you chaneg your body)
RE: male? shemale? female?
My balls get sucked into my body cavity when I am afraid or I meet a girl. what does that make me?
what do you think about fetish fantasies?
do you like anybody can get your used underwear to feel fetishes fantasies?
can you feel excited thinking about anybody is smelling your personal aroma?
sometime you have sent your used personal items by pleasure?
can you feel excited thinking about anybody is smelling your personal aroma?
sometime you have sent your used personal items by pleasure?
RE: MY NICE fetish fantasies?
I think you forgot smoke fetish too
kissing your majestic feet Mistress ORIGAMI
kissing your majestic feet Mistress ORIGAMI
RE: what do you think about fetish fantasies?
i love to have hosts panties. they send and watch me sniff :) particularly asian girls:)cool no?
I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
well , my husband just watchs tv ,and dont do anything exciting , life is so boring , i m 24 , no kids , and love to go out , he doesnt , i have met other guys from cc before , this guy is special , i been dating him since 12 september , first time i saw him , i went to meet him cause i was so bored and lonely , he showed me a good time , wasnt just about sex ..... he told me many times he would marry me tomorrow .....if he could , second datei met his family for dinner :) was nice
i do love my husband and i know he care about me ....... i dont want to give up on him but i m so misserable , i try to talk to my husband but he doesnt seems to understand what i want , i want someone to do things together to share my life with , and have fun :(
i guess i will keep dating this guy from epson and see how it goes and how long i can keep both happy :( i feel sad but i m scared to make the wrong desition :(
i do love my husband and i know he care about me ....... i dont want to give up on him but i m so misserable , i try to talk to my husband but he doesnt seems to understand what i want , i want someone to do things together to share my life with , and have fun :(
i guess i will keep dating this guy from epson and see how it goes and how long i can keep both happy :( i feel sad but i m scared to make the wrong desition :(
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
whats your horoscope say?
IS this really the best place to ask such advice. Good luck anyway
IS this really the best place to ask such advice. Good luck anyway
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
wow, you're very selfish.
the truth will set you free, sweetcakes, you should really give it a try.
the truth will set you free, sweetcakes, you should really give it a try.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
Don't judge her so hard, you ever had a relationship that made u feel dead inside, not exciting at all on any plan? A relation that makes u feel life is boring and that u get old before the age comes ?
I think that if she had a happy marriage and a great relationship with her hb she wouldnt have been tempted to meet the other guy.
Just put yourself in her situation,dont just throw with stones.
I think that if she had a happy marriage and a great relationship with her hb she wouldnt have been tempted to meet the other guy.
Just put yourself in her situation,dont just throw with stones.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
if her relationship with her HUSBAND is shit, she should tell him so. if he doesn't care to do anything to make her life at least bearable, then she should leave him - not wait for some other shmuck to come along so she can latch herself to him first, but leave him and leave him now.
sorry, but I have no symapthy for people who live to be pleased by others - for people who need others to give them a life in the first place. what she's doing is dishonest - i don't know how she can stand herself for what she's doing.
and i have no idea how any guy who knows that she's married can go out with her expecting anything more from her for himself than how she treats the man she actually married - and that kind of treatment isn't worth anything.
sorry, but I have no symapthy for people who live to be pleased by others - for people who need others to give them a life in the first place. what she's doing is dishonest - i don't know how she can stand herself for what she's doing.
and i have no idea how any guy who knows that she's married can go out with her expecting anything more from her for himself than how she treats the man she actually married - and that kind of treatment isn't worth anything.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
I didnt say its great what she and her lover are doing.But just dont throw with the stones like you never commited any sin, i dont say about cheating in particular, but none of us here are saints.
About telling her hb i think she is just at that point now, where she doesnt know whats better, tell him what she feels and that her heart belongs to another man or just listen to what the morals say and stay caught in her insipide marriage.
I personally been thru a relationshop, not marriage but close to one,where i was telling my bf everyday that i want to split and that its not working and he always pretended he doesnt believe me and that he thinks im joking, hoping that one day ill just give up my ideea and remain with him.
I know how it is to feel dead inside near someone and in the same time to feel the heart is breaking because when ill leave i will break his heart.Thats why i try to put myself in her shoes, before just accusing her that shes the worst woman in this world.By the way...are u a saint ?
About telling her hb i think she is just at that point now, where she doesnt know whats better, tell him what she feels and that her heart belongs to another man or just listen to what the morals say and stay caught in her insipide marriage.
I personally been thru a relationshop, not marriage but close to one,where i was telling my bf everyday that i want to split and that its not working and he always pretended he doesnt believe me and that he thinks im joking, hoping that one day ill just give up my ideea and remain with him.
I know how it is to feel dead inside near someone and in the same time to feel the heart is breaking because when ill leave i will break his heart.Thats why i try to put myself in her shoes, before just accusing her that shes the worst woman in this world.By the way...are u a saint ?
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
You should clear things up with your husband, try in different ways until he gets it. I've experienced something like that before, and i was dieing a little everyday. Very sad. Only that i wasnt married.... Maybe you two dont communicate the way you should, try to find things in common, to do things together. If you love your husband you need to try this before thinking seriously at someone else.
Good luck
Good luck
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
yeah sm...u got it right...don't run to someone else for short term comfort. leave your husband for awhile and give him a real wake up call...see what happens. i'm sure there's two sides to this story...sooo...feel the pain...you might learn smthg about yourself.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
the decision to leave her husband should not be made based on having another man to run to, but on the state of the state of the marriage. no one should remain in an unhappy relationship
the other guy should not factor into that aspect.
the other guy should not factor into that aspect.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
Was he so boring before you were married? If yes, why marry him and if not, what changed?
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
thank you every one :) XXXX life sucks :)
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
It sounds to me as if it's your husband who needs help more. Try talking with him. Find out why he hides in front of the television set and you'll be helping each other. Good luck.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
as i see it, her only real trouble is that she feels bad for getting some loving on the side.
if she wants to ease her conscience all she has to do is pay a hooker to seduce her husband. after the deed is done and she knows that her husband screwed another woman, she can go on hopping on different guys without all that pesky guilt.
piece of cake.
if she wants to ease her conscience all she has to do is pay a hooker to seduce her husband. after the deed is done and she knows that her husband screwed another woman, she can go on hopping on different guys without all that pesky guilt.
piece of cake.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
Since September she's met him multiple times and even met his family?
Either she's full of poop in this whole story, her husband is a retard not to know she left the country numerous times to screw some strange guy or he doesn't care as long as the new guy gives her money.
Either she's full of poop in this whole story, her husband is a retard not to know she left the country numerous times to screw some strange guy or he doesn't care as long as the new guy gives her money.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
you hit the nail right on the head !
children get married
They get married and they forget the courtship ends and the relationship enters a new phase. Life always has changes and "x" gives good advice, you must MAKE change and excitement, it doesn't come to you.
RE: children get married
like i always said many times here...love has nothing to do with sex...get married and find out.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
marriage changes everything. dating is fun, going out, it's new and exciting...fall in love...get married...exciting few months...then reality sets in......OH my god.. I will be having sex with this same person for the next 40 years.
My advice is to talk with you husband now before you have kids. Ask him what's wrong? Does he want out? Does he want another lady? Does he think you are fat now? Find the real problem and try to fix it, if you can not...you have to live for yourself 1st....but don't jump out of one bad relatiopnship into another.
My advice is to talk with you husband now before you have kids. Ask him what's wrong? Does he want out? Does he want another lady? Does he think you are fat now? Find the real problem and try to fix it, if you can not...you have to live for yourself 1st....but don't jump out of one bad relatiopnship into another.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
well hurt girl i might have felt sorry for you if you had come asking for help on how to fix your marriage BEFORE you had been out screwing multiple guys that you met online at CC and then getting involved in a long term affair with one of them. Why should anyone have any respect for you or feel sorry for you? Why should we offer you advice on how to fix your marriage and hide the truth from him about your infidelities? Why do people feel it is perfectly acceptable to jump into someone else's bed simply because their mate is boring? It's not acceptable. Don't try to pass the blame for it off onto your husband, it was not his doing, it is YOUR doing. Grow up and take responsibility for your actions and behavior. It was your lack of character.. of integrity... of loyalty.. of morality that led to your unfaithfulness and you're using your husband for an excuse so that you can feel better about yourself. Many people have endured far worse in life and have not been unfaithful to their mates.
You want advice. OK I will give you some advice. First I want you to remember your wedding day. Remember when you were standing at the front of the church looking into the eyes of your husband and vowed to him... in front of God and all your friends and family as witnesses... that you would love, honor and obey him until death do you part. Now do you remember anywhere in your vows that said it was okay to screw around with other guys if you were bored or didn't like the TV shows your husband watched or any other stupid reason. Nope? Wasn't in your vows was it. It's not in the Bible either. However, it does mention in the Bible that it is acceptable to get a divorce if your spouse is unfaithful. So you have given your husband a way out of your marriage if he so chooses. The only way to begin moving foward is by confessing everything to your husband, telling him the truth.....the whole truth... everything you have done... all the affairs... all the guys you have been with. Do not try blaming him for it, do not hide anything to make yourself look better... accept responsibility for it and tell him everything. If you hide these affairs from him the truth will eventually come out and if your marriage was going better it will destroy all of it. If you tell him everything now, he may choose to end your marriage... and he is perfectly within his right to do it. But then again he may choose to stay with you and work to fix your marriage. If he chooses to stay the marriage will have a strong foundation cuz he knows the truth and there will be no surprises that could destroy that later. But all of this depends on you ending any other relationships you have with other men and being 100% faithful to your husband. you can't have both.
You want advice. OK I will give you some advice. First I want you to remember your wedding day. Remember when you were standing at the front of the church looking into the eyes of your husband and vowed to him... in front of God and all your friends and family as witnesses... that you would love, honor and obey him until death do you part. Now do you remember anywhere in your vows that said it was okay to screw around with other guys if you were bored or didn't like the TV shows your husband watched or any other stupid reason. Nope? Wasn't in your vows was it. It's not in the Bible either. However, it does mention in the Bible that it is acceptable to get a divorce if your spouse is unfaithful. So you have given your husband a way out of your marriage if he so chooses. The only way to begin moving foward is by confessing everything to your husband, telling him the truth.....the whole truth... everything you have done... all the affairs... all the guys you have been with. Do not try blaming him for it, do not hide anything to make yourself look better... accept responsibility for it and tell him everything. If you hide these affairs from him the truth will eventually come out and if your marriage was going better it will destroy all of it. If you tell him everything now, he may choose to end your marriage... and he is perfectly within his right to do it. But then again he may choose to stay with you and work to fix your marriage. If he chooses to stay the marriage will have a strong foundation cuz he knows the truth and there will be no surprises that could destroy that later. But all of this depends on you ending any other relationships you have with other men and being 100% faithful to your husband. you can't have both.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
well tell me nicollette, will her having affairs with other men fix her marriage? besides hurt girl never said that her husband does not show her affection or tell her he loves her. she just said that he doesn't like to go out places and prefers to just spend his free time at home. there is a big difference between the two. but either way, having affairs is just avoiding the problem. if she is unhappy in her marriage and is unable to fix it by any means then she should end the marriage BEFORE sleeping with other men and looking for bf's.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
another thing u must remember, nicolette, is that hurt girl is giving her side... acting like she is just a poor victim in all of this and trying to paint herself in the best light possible. i sincerely doubt she is telling us the whole story. maybe there is a good reason why the husband does not like to go out places with her. maybe she likes to get drunk and embarasses him in public with her behavior. maybe she hangs on other men and flirts with them trying to make the husband jealous or trying to start fights between the men for attention. maybe she is spoiled and wants to be taken to expensive places that the husband cannot afford and she complains when she doesn't get everything she wants. maybe she only wants to do what she wants when they go out and doesn't care about what the husband wants. maybe they have very little money and can't afford to pay their bills and husband feels it is irresponsible wasting money they need to survive on going out. there are many possibilities. but if she married him, i am sure it was because when they were dating he was fun and liked to go places... if that changed since they got married then it stands to reason that there is something happening when they go out together that the husband does not like and it is why he prefers to stay home now.
RE: I m so confused and in pain ....... thanks for the help
maybe it's coz you are host here and show your body to many many men everyday, plus I bet you make more money than him, perhaps it's messing up his mind.
RE: Finally a good movie
yes it is a very good movie. your friend was right to tell you about it.
RE: Finally a good movie
good movie indeed MissCBT,,, and a little background info for you,, the location of the prison use in this movie is the Old Tennessee State Prison in Nashville, about 20 miles from my house-cool
RE: Finally a good movie
Well hi there, neighbor :) I'm from Atlanta and have done that little 75/24 trek up to your neck of the woods more than once. Great city, Nashville .... always had an awesome time there. Big Dawg fan here, so I'm counting on your 'Dores to take care of business for me over in Knoxville on Saturday! Cool? :P
RE: Finally a good movie
yeah, speaking of good movies, I just saw Jaws for the 1st time and thought it was great. (I live in a small city and it takes a while for movies to get here)
RE: Finally a good movie
it must be a very small and remote city if it takes almost 30 years for movies like Jaws to get there. Was it shown in a public theater there like it was a newly released movie? LOL
RE: Finally a good movie
my god, u will be dead by the time jaws 2 and 3 reaches you. your grandkids may get to see it though
What is contest prize?
What is the prize money hosts are competing for? It must be something worthwhile. The "big three", (Bunny/Sophie/Beyond) seem to be working 24/7 these days.
RE: What is contest prize?
Curious as to financial motivation - these girls are really working hard for the prize.
RE: What is contest prize?........LOL
I think the winner gets some sort of cash prize since the more money you spend in video the more votes you have to use for the host you happen to be in videochat with.
RE: What is contest prize?
Ohhh i want to win also but im not a robot to work 24hrs.like others do(lol)...but i don't mind as long as im making money:)...Good luck to all of you!
RE: What is contest prize?
Many words came to mind when I thought of your ass, but lazy was never one of them :)))
RE: What is contest prize?
better give on that day all host 100 % instead of 50% from there earnings that day.
Experience with Prostitute?
I'm curious, who out there has engaged in the company of a prostitute and what is your feeling about the experience? Was it terrific sex with someone who really knew how to please or was it just "business" for her therefor little passion? Or was it something else altogether? I'd be interested in your views. Hosts, feel free to weigh in on this too. Thanks.
RE: Experience with real girl on the street
I was recently in an East European city as part of a vacation and i was walking down a darkened street when a young girl called from a doorway and she and her two girlfriends approached me and started light touches and pidgen-english that made it clear what she was offering. She was young and pretty cute, but I had to refuse because:
1 - There were three of them and I don't like to be out-numbered
2 - My wallet and passport were too accessible and I was afraid her fingers would find them too easily
I didn't get the idea that she was a streetwalker per se, but that she was a hustler out to get some money whatefver way she could. If it was by picking my pocket, by the three of them jumping me and taking my valuables or a hand/blow job I don't think it would matter to her.
I could be wrong and she just wanted to make a few bob, but I couldn't take the chance.
1 - There were three of them and I don't like to be out-numbered
2 - My wallet and passport were too accessible and I was afraid her fingers would find them too easily
I didn't get the idea that she was a streetwalker per se, but that she was a hustler out to get some money whatefver way she could. If it was by picking my pocket, by the three of them jumping me and taking my valuables or a hand/blow job I don't think it would matter to her.
I could be wrong and she just wanted to make a few bob, but I couldn't take the chance.
RE: Experience with Prostitute?
Have to say i tried real prostitute. Was pretty good, and cheaper than CC as 1) i stayed away for long time (afraid i'd catch something) and 2) per minute was something like $0.50!
RE: Experience with Prostitute?
imagine the sexiest chat host here and then going to meet her and watch herl f*ck your cock up her sweet ass. :)
That is my experience of 'Escorts & Massage' on CC:P:) all night for $200. Amazing fun :D
That is my experience of 'Escorts & Massage' on CC:P:) all night for $200. Amazing fun :D
RE: Experience with Prostitute?
I got f*cked in the ass by a girl in little shy and that cost me around $10,000.
bitch lol
bitch lol
RE: Experience with Prostitute?
some good some bad, same as in real life.
There is a saying you aren't paying them to stay, you are paying them to leave....lol
If you are looking for the GFE (girlfriend experience) I'd suggest try the asian girls) they sell it for a living but will make you feel you are the one they realy love (many suckers fall for it too).
There is a saying you aren't paying them to stay, you are paying them to leave....lol
If you are looking for the GFE (girlfriend experience) I'd suggest try the asian girls) they sell it for a living but will make you feel you are the one they realy love (many suckers fall for it too).
For your listening pleasure
I saw the light, I've been baptised by the fire in your heart and flame in your eye. I'm born to love again, I'm a brand new man. - Love that song.
Oil Prices and the falling dollar
Petrol and diesel is averaging $2.16 a liter here in the UK
how much is it in your country?
how much is it in your country?
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
about 1.16 euro in Germany...as I remember ... and are growing:((
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
.80C USD unleaded
.92C USD low sulfur / high octane undeaded
and we complain too ;)
.92C USD low sulfur / high octane undeaded
and we complain too ;)
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
Keep on falling US Dollar.. It makes CC all the more cheaper for us Aussies... :)
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
whether the dollar rises or falls, to an american a girl in cc that's a $ is still a $
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
You are correct about the sagging US dollar. Its the failed monetary policy of Fed Chairman Ben Bernacke, who is a complete moron. As bad as Alan Greenspan was, he's twice as bad. We need to get Paul Volker back to save the country from completely imploding.
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
Screw that. Just get rid of the damn Fed entirely, I say.
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
devaluing the dollar is actually helping to soften the sub prime debts
Their is reasoning in what seems to be madness
Their is reasoning in what seems to be madness
RE: Oil Prices and the falling dollar
cool...so maybe those people who shouldn't have been borrowing in the first place can soon go out and borrow more to pick up a swank new chinese-made lcd tv or some shit......rock on.
RE: CHEAPEST OIL......LETS MAKE BUSINESS.......LOL
only if you promise not to shout all the time
info needed
hi all, i'm wondering if anyone knows if Visa Electron works for camcontacts.
thanx in advance
thanx in advance
OMG
how come since the two of us have gone offline this forum is soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
quiet??? :D
miss some of you, glad to be gone from others... and anyhow, hope life treats you well!
quiet??? :D
miss some of you, glad to be gone from others... and anyhow, hope life treats you well!
RE: why not in heaven?
does this mean that you wish all your regular viewers dead or that you love them so much, that you want to be with them in the after life also?? ;)
RE: i am
by the children, they have always been here and always will be.
of course you might meet someone here... but there are better places for sure.
i do hope that you can find someone or something to fill that lonelyness, it is not the best feeling for sure.
of course you might meet someone here... but there are better places for sure.
i do hope that you can find someone or something to fill that lonelyness, it is not the best feeling for sure.
RE: i am
there's some chick here looking to trade in her husband of 4 years for a complete stranger...perhaps you can swoop in and pick up what she's throwing way.
RE: i am
we hide from fatties. for the girls with rock hard abs and buns of steels, we will run through traffic to get a whiff of her fart...lol
please read and help me :( i m in pain
hi everyone :( i have been so sad , i m married and i been hosting for over 2 years :( i met a guy here on cc and i love him so much , we see each other 2 or 3 times a week :( i dont know what to do i think im going crazy :my husband will find soon if i keep meeting him :( Should i leave my husband and try wiith this guy ??? he is a guy who i met online on cc , and i been with my husband for over 4 years , should i throw everything away for a stranger ?
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
if you are seeing him 2-3 times a week in real life, perhaps you should have a talk with him to see what it is he really wants before yo make such a rash move. as for your marriahe whether you leave now or not would appear you have some problems there that need to be worked through or you will just leave at some point anyay or be unhaapy
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
no way should you throw away your marrige for a member of what is mainly a pornographic site .
you really should take time to be with your husband and seperate yourself from your "member lover" .
your " member lover " is probably married and if not you should ask why not ???? (wtf is wrong with him ).
you really should take time to be with your husband and seperate yourself from your "member lover" .
your " member lover " is probably married and if not you should ask why not ???? (wtf is wrong with him ).
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
yet more proof that the chicks here ain't exactly the type worth marrying.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
you're in pain? sounds like an ideal situation. many girls and guys play this game...especially when you're young...seems exciting. why r u in pain...be specific? maybe then we someone can advise you more in depth.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
why the hell do people even bother getting married anymore?
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
hmmm,,, curious you brought up a good question,, why do people get married anymore, but honestly we know the answer is true love, and I know you meant why hurt girl is asking this question, I think that is why she is hurting and needing some advice, sorry hurt girl, dont know what to say except pray about and stay cool
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
People often cheat (emotionaly, physically, or both) because there is a problem in their relationships. In other words, instead of cheating for sex, they could really be cheating because they are lonely. Maybe your husband is not giving you the attention you need whereas this guy from CC is filling that void. Perhaps you just need more attention from your husband and you will forget about the CC guy. On the other hand, maybe this CC guy is better for you, although that is a very high risk gamble.
I think that you need to talk to your husband (maybe with the help of a marriage counsellor of some sort) about whatever is making you unhappy in your relationship that would cause you to feel you love this man from CC and see if things improve with you and your husband. If that does not work, then it might be time to leave your husband. I have no idea whether you should be with this guy from CC if you do end up leaving your husband. I don't know him or you or the nature of your relationship. You will have to be the judge. But be careful: your judgment might not be great if you 1) are leaving a man that you met and married in real and 2) fell in love on CC while married. I am not trying to be nasty by the way.... I have been there myself. In fact, I am there too, lol, but not married. But as Dirty Harry (Clint Eastwood movies) once said "Man's got to know his limitatons" so I am trying to be more careful this time around. Make sure you are careful with this CC man too if you ultimately decide to pursue a relationship.
I think that you need to talk to your husband (maybe with the help of a marriage counsellor of some sort) about whatever is making you unhappy in your relationship that would cause you to feel you love this man from CC and see if things improve with you and your husband. If that does not work, then it might be time to leave your husband. I have no idea whether you should be with this guy from CC if you do end up leaving your husband. I don't know him or you or the nature of your relationship. You will have to be the judge. But be careful: your judgment might not be great if you 1) are leaving a man that you met and married in real and 2) fell in love on CC while married. I am not trying to be nasty by the way.... I have been there myself. In fact, I am there too, lol, but not married. But as Dirty Harry (Clint Eastwood movies) once said "Man's got to know his limitatons" so I am trying to be more careful this time around. Make sure you are careful with this CC man too if you ultimately decide to pursue a relationship.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
DP NOT TRUST CC FRIENDSHIPS, especially if you have a real-life relationship. If your husband is a drug addict and beats you and cheats on you constantly that is a separate question to be solved.
But why leave a decnet guy who loves you and who you have made life-long committment to. You have built a life together and you are actually thinking of leaving him for a guy you know absolutely nothing about?
Let me tell you a little story. A guy told a host he was really sick and was going into the hospital. Then he stopped talking to her except for an occasional vague e-mail.
She was frantic and asked me, a virtual stranger to call him to find out how he was.
With his name, home town and phone number I was able to find out that he was lying about his age, his job, his residence, his income, his family and his health condition. About the only thing that was true was that he was a man. His mom (unknowingly) gave me quite an earful.
But why leave a decnet guy who loves you and who you have made life-long committment to. You have built a life together and you are actually thinking of leaving him for a guy you know absolutely nothing about?
Let me tell you a little story. A guy told a host he was really sick and was going into the hospital. Then he stopped talking to her except for an occasional vague e-mail.
She was frantic and asked me, a virtual stranger to call him to find out how he was.
With his name, home town and phone number I was able to find out that he was lying about his age, his job, his residence, his income, his family and his health condition. About the only thing that was true was that he was a man. His mom (unknowingly) gave me quite an earful.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
This is true there is a certain amount of that that goes on. But don't for one second think that is the end of the story.
Yes CC relations are fraught with dangers, some invented some not. But the key thing in ANY kind of relationship is that you treat someone as you wish to be treated. Trust is not an box you tick just because a host gives you her phone number not a stamp of approval just because a member gives you his. It is all about setting realistic goals with realistic expectations and remembering there are real people behind it all.
I too have been asked to play detective, but the bottom line is if you have no faith in someone you need to check up on them, then that relationship is doomed pretty much from the beginning.
That goes for members and hosts alike. Trust is earned by being trustworthy, not by passing some arbitrary test of whether you can be trusted or not.
TNTWSMSDOW
Yes CC relations are fraught with dangers, some invented some not. But the key thing in ANY kind of relationship is that you treat someone as you wish to be treated. Trust is not an box you tick just because a host gives you her phone number not a stamp of approval just because a member gives you his. It is all about setting realistic goals with realistic expectations and remembering there are real people behind it all.
I too have been asked to play detective, but the bottom line is if you have no faith in someone you need to check up on them, then that relationship is doomed pretty much from the beginning.
That goes for members and hosts alike. Trust is earned by being trustworthy, not by passing some arbitrary test of whether you can be trusted or not.
TNTWSMSDOW
to clarify...
She only wanted to know if he survived his health crisis. When I told her all the stuff I dug up (wthout he asking me to) sje seemed to be rather unconcerned.
And my point was to suggest to "hurt girl" that she reconsider dumping her husband for a guy from the internet she knows nothing about.
And my point was to suggest to "hurt girl" that she reconsider dumping her husband for a guy from the internet she knows nothing about.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
No self-respecting husband would let his wife work at a porno site. There are exceptions to every rule. Some marriages are open and not monogamous. These marriages rarely last very long.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
You should dump him and find a nice guy on CC. There are plenty of us here looking to meet someone nice!
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
This would be a very tough decision. It is one that you have to make on your own,because only you know the entire situation. I think you have to consider the following:
1. How is your present marriage going?
2. Does that marriage have a future?
3. The guy on cc - is the meeting in person or is it online only?
4. What does this new guy have to offer to the relationship that your present husband does not?
5. how long do you think the 2nd relationship would last?
Lots of things to think about, but you and you alone have to make the decision on which way to go. Take your time in making that decision.
1. How is your present marriage going?
2. Does that marriage have a future?
3. The guy on cc - is the meeting in person or is it online only?
4. What does this new guy have to offer to the relationship that your present husband does not?
5. how long do you think the 2nd relationship would last?
Lots of things to think about, but you and you alone have to make the decision on which way to go. Take your time in making that decision.
RE: please read and help me :( i m in pain
you need to sit back and decide how much you truly love your husband! 4 years is a long time, but if you are falling in love with someone else, there must be something missing from your marriage! why not try to find out what that is and then work on your marriage?
You should...
...dump that husband, he isn't rich enough. Don't you know all foreign guys are rich and you'll have cars and clothes and servants to do all you want. You'll never have to work and you can have all you want.
RE: i am here
Pretty girl. Decent body. Your pictures are not bad. Not great but fortunately you are attractive enough to shine through lousy pictures. All in all a nice appearance and you seem to have some enthusiam which is a plus. Many of the hosts here are comatose in video. You made my fav list so maybe we will hook up in video. By the way....are you really Juicy?
stupid demands...
i really can t understand viwers who ask ya to undress before they come in vid or who r scared about 2 $ in 121 when u really do all.guys go on another sites where can be 5 $ for a min when the girl look good...or go where is cheaper if u can find...but don t be so stupid to just rate the host bad because she charge 2$ or because she don t undress before vid.omg some can be very rude here
ps:this is just for that kind of members no offens guys
ps:this is just for that kind of members no offens guys
i like...
I like to chat up a couple girls in text at the same time and then I go to video with the one who talks hotter and promises the most in video. It seems to work quite nicely.
RE: stupid demands...
ur right , alot of the members here are spoiled and cheap... most sites 2 or 3 dollars in the minimum for vid. They need to realize how good they have it here and learn to play nice and be more polite, hosts are people and deserve respect. Wherever we work we wouldnt want people to treat us that way and need to remember this is work for most girls and should make it a fun place for them so they want to stay !!!!!
RE: stupid demands...
If you can get $5.00 a minute at another site why are you working here? Comparison to the charges at other sites doesn't matter. The only thing that matters is the costs on this site. Within the CC world 2 dollars a minute is very expensive. Some members can afford it some can't. So members are not complaining because they are cheap but because of their ability to pay.
However, asking a host to strip before entering a video would ruin the video for me. The whole point is for her to strip slowly and sensually. For me that is 95% of the action.
However, asking a host to strip before entering a video would ruin the video for me. The whole point is for her to strip slowly and sensually. For me that is 95% of the action.
"If you can get $5.00 a minute at another site why are you working here?"
I *LOVE* that question.
RE:
she's not complaining about the money here but about the whining miser members here,in my opinion.still,i think,you know that :--)
RE:
are you kidding? when i go into video and you are typing anf typing with other guys you are either in yahoo ot giving your first attention to some other site, so cc is a bonus
RE:
Then you don't understand the realities of working as a chathost. Other sites may charge more but they may also take more. Not just in a percentage cut, but also in how quickly hosts get paid, how many chargebacks a host gets, how customer complaints are handled etc etc..
There a dozens of reasons why host prefer to work on CC as opposed to other 'more expensive' websites.
And contrary to popular public opinion it is not just because I am here ;)
TNTWMIICH
There a dozens of reasons why host prefer to work on CC as opposed to other 'more expensive' websites.
And contrary to popular public opinion it is not just because I am here ;)
TNTWMIICH
RE: Another bad movie
I base my opinion of Eastern Europe on that movie. I thought it was a documentary at first.
RE: Another bad movie
umm, yeah...i don't think that's the type of flick people watch with an eye out to marvel over plot.....it's all about blood and guts and the desire some mouth-breathers have to revel in that kind of depraved, violent shit.
RE: Another bad movie
Hostel, Turistas, Saw....all those types of flicks scare the crap out of me. Who needs those dreams. I would rather dream about the hosts here.
RE: Another bad movie
Hostel and Saw--not to much western scenes in them, but good movies anyway and yes MissCBT I rather be dreaming too, but about host here-stay cool girl-love your reviews on the movies
another good movie
watching "Bury My Heart At Wounded Knee"--another cool movie--catch it while you can. Do anybody else know of any other newer westerns or indian movies out there.
RE: GREAT good movie
dear origami--i cant go to sleep until shift is over-cool,,,,hmmm never heard of that movie--but sounds like a cool one-brb
RE: another good movie
The most recent remake of Last of the Mohicans (1990s) was pretty good.
RE: another good movie
Find a copy of "Lonesome Dove" a 1989 made for TV mini-series with an all-star cast led by Robert Duvall. 6 hours of outstanding western. The book it is based on, written by Larry McMurtry, is outstanding.
RE: another good movie
"Pow Wow Highway" produceed by George Harison. Best movie nobody ever heard of.
RE: another good movie
speaking of films...any of u russian girls seen..."the italian"...a russian film?
RE: another good movie
Last of the Mochicians, Tombstone and Lonseome Dove...good movies already seen and thanks for reminding me of them
I need to watch them again. Brokebacke Mountain and Deliverence not my cup of tea movies, but i trust you xpun and pimp I quess were good cool movies too and Mulholland Drive and Pow Wow Highway havent heard of those movies I do some researching. Ok this has been a chaser moment review at the movies-stay cool all, party on, love your neighbors and smile more.
I need to watch them again. Brokebacke Mountain and Deliverence not my cup of tea movies, but i trust you xpun and pimp I quess were good cool movies too and Mulholland Drive and Pow Wow Highway havent heard of those movies I do some researching. Ok this has been a chaser moment review at the movies-stay cool all, party on, love your neighbors and smile more.
RE: another good movie
Actually, looking at that list I'm surprised we missed an obvious one, bit hit, award winner, so you've probably already seen it, "Dances with Wolves"
Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
This is it. The time has come to say goodbye to you all.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
I've been doing some serious soulsearching, and I decided that it is time for me to leave this site. I will spare you all the details, but the short version is that I used the forums to distract myself while my gf was working as a host. I actually enjoyed the forums quite a bit, but logging in and out all the time represented too much of a temptation to go back to my old ways. I really cannot afford that now. By the way...this is not a ploy to impress my gf either.
By writing this I am putting myself on notice. Please be assured that I am not asking for attention or expecting anyone to beg me to stay. I have made some good friends here. I will not mention names, because I am afraid to leave anyone out. You know who you are, members and hosts. To those of you whom I humiliated or made look stupid...I am sorry but you had it coming.
The only person I will mention is Xelina18...whom I've never even seen a picture of, but whom I know must look like an angel. I just need to mention you Eeina because I know you'll be all uspet about my post. I want you to understand that when I said "see you all in hell," i didn't mean that anyone here is actually going to hell or even that hell exists. On the other hand, if hell does exist, I know YOU won't be there. However, in that case I would for sure meet some of my other cc friends there...and let's just pray that they have high speed internet access.
Love you all...take good care always...hugs and kisses!
PS! I am not sure if CC will allow me to post my yh account. I will check my cc mail for the next few weeks if anyone wants to stay in touch. God bless.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
well............................bye i wont miss you.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You though you were safe now, heh? I am not quite gone yet...so please crawl back to under the rock from whence you came.I will of course read here for at least the next few days, but I will try not to post. I made an exeption just for you, "spawn"., So I hope you feel special. I could say so much more....but it would not pass the smell test with the cc moderator. In any case....read the beautiful post laughing girl wrote to me and then just try to imagine how good that makes me feel. Then I wish you good luck...
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Ah Azterix...don't know what to say...it's so suddenly!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
I so like your posts and your jokes that seems this forum will become a bit empty without you. I so used to see your name here that will miss it really :(
But well, everyone makes his choice sooner or later. And I am just glad to hear you made not so easy job to put all things on their places. Hope you will keep them right.
By the way, hell exists...and there are so many ways to go there but also we all are free to avoid those ways...
Wish you reconcile all the things with your gf, get concensus and finally get her back to you :) Would be great if one day you will come and tell us that everything is ok :)
Take care too and good luck!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix stay cool and wish you the best, hope all works out
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Dam!im playing "Return To Innocence"while reading your post!i was surprised!are you serious Azterix???does it mean that you start avoiding me also?:(:(...well,Good luck for everything!!!but dont forget im always here for you!if you need me,you know where to find me...
ROTFLMAO
soulsearching to leave an adult site? - laughing my ass off
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
beg you to stay? - falling off the chair
a host being all upset that you are gone? - rolling on the floor in hysterical laughter
RE: ROTFLMAO
Do you conclude that all forum posters (or addicts as you call them) are "delusional" based simply on the fact that they spend time here? Please elaborate your "reasoning".
RE: ROTFLMAO
I'm sure his reasoning is based on this particular member based on the points I made. He said "addicts" in particular, he did not say all those who read/post in toto.
RE: ROTFLMAO
As Nietzsche said, sometimes cynicism is the only way for some to find the truth. (And Azterix is not the cynic).
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
gonna lavea and re-enter with another nickame eh?
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
well played my frind, your gf will never know. And this way you can enter her room with a new nick name an see how many minitues it takes her to say I lov you to the next schmo
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
good luck bro...hope all works out 4 ya...i with pimple on this one..we aint never gonna leave :( oh well shit happens...pass the joint sem :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we are all losers imshy, maybe we should consider leaving our other's basement also.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
we could do that but then that means we gotta see and talk to other ppl...u think u can handle it?...u go first and i'll follow if u survive :p
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Let's hold hands and do it together. November 20 will be our last day ok? deal?
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
stay in the basement shy the other people won't survive you and sem
good luck az
good luck az
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
You'll be back, trust me. Just next sure you come back you think carefully about the reasons.
TNTCTDOWOB
TNTCTDOWOB
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Azterix leaving CC???i don't believe it!do yah really want to go to hell?i think we've been there already!(lol)...well.just take a break and cum back with different name like other members...:P...hugzzz!!!
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
I actually enjoy the things your "gf" does and says in pvt.....she sure has a purtty mouth
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
As Azterix said in a previous post "Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it." he remains a lead pathetic master of the forum and chat telenovela.
RE: Members and hosts - see ya all in hell!
Well, I have no idea why my previous post wasn't posted by CC and maybe finally it will appear...but I have to assure you Azterix, it was not me who posted under my nickname such a nonsense with invitation to 121 and all the other horseshit. But I am almost sure you can easy get which ones are truly my posts and which are not :)
RE: about the comp
exatcly who will take first place. she's a blonde, and has been here a long time. any guesses?
RE: about the comp
yes, but sex is dirty and needs to kept in the closet, hidden and never talked about beween family members.
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
The olny acceptable osition is th missionary all other will land you in jail or hell.
I need to go take a shower after talking about such discusting things.
Good Day
RE: about the comp
ok them member side og me wants to say whoever wins..im available for the trip ;)
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
now the host side of me..vote for me...i need the money and another holiday...and if u spend enough in my vid i MIGHT consider takin u with me :D
RE: about the comp
wayne if you're this scary at your age how bad will you be when you reach mine.........sheesh
RE: about the comp
U sound like a bore...And who are u to judge anyone here? We live our own lives and we are all grown ups here. And if we do what we do, if we are on cc-means we have our reasons to be here. Cheers
RE: about the comp
if girls have something to be ashamed off - what about you - what are you doing here?!!!
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
omg you are the worst kind - hypocrite
heheheheheehehehhe
A question for the ladies
Hello ladies,
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
I have a question. I have an online relationship with a woman that I hope will lead to something permanent one day. Since we are not near each other, I use the internet as my sexual outlet. I was wondering how women felt about their boyfriends doing this, particularly their online boyfriends. (I think that if I was with my girlfriend for real, and if she was willing and able to have sex, it would probably be wrong to look at other women on the internet.) I am not cheating with anybody in real life, and I also have stopped paying for shows too. What I do is look at pics or videos that I can find online for free. I am not chatting with anyone when I play and nobody else can see me. It is basically the same as buying a Playboy magazine and masterbating to it. I am just doing it high tech. There are times that I can play with my online girlfirend too via the internet or phone, but I don't enjoy doing this much. It seems to cheapen the relationship a bit if we do it too much. I am a former heavy user of sites so I will admit that I like the variety of seeing different women in pics and videos, but I expect that once I can have sex again for real, I won't really need to see anybody else. But right now, without the possibility of real sex, I feel like I will explode and need a constant release. What are your thoughts? (And yes, she is a host so she gets to see other guys, although she doesn't seem to enjoy it. She seems to honestly just want me.)
Thanks for your input.
RE: A question for the ladies
I know this was directed towards the ladies but when I heard the words relationship and CC in the same sentence I was compelled to answer. Do you own a pair of jumper cables or could you borrow them? If so attach a positve and negative clamp to each nut. It does not make a difference which one. Your nuts are not polarized. Then have a friend rev up his car and attach the other ends to the battery. It would help if he also robbed you of several thousands dollars right before the voltage hits. This way you will get the same experience of a relationship here without all the wasted time, fuss and muss. Ez breezy.
RE: A question for the ladies
Well put well. I can attest to that. Just remember, people thrive on drama sometimes. We say we don't want it, but we continue to seek it.
RE: A question for the ladies
and I thought history dictates that humanity continues to make the same 'ol f**king mistakes? maybe there r exceptions after all ;)
RE: A question for the ladies
hon, just so long as you pay her (could be me for all you know) we/I will be happy and you can do what ever you want so long as we gat a peice of your paycheck
RE: A question for the ladies
she no care bout u. she all want money. if u stop see her, no problem. she go on to another member. simple! hosts are not stupid.
RE: A question for the ladies
why is it Ok for her to finger her self to me and others, but you cant?
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
and what are you waiting for, if she's worth it, take her away from here, or stop whining please.
Guess what, she'll never leave.
RE: A question for the ladies
i m married my husband do that too...look on internet on adult sites watching porno bla bla...sure that hurt but i m very carefully to be close to him when he do that so he can t masturbate...and sure i don t make sex with him too then...sure hurt but men r men they will always do...is something u can always asociate men-porno :)))))))))
RE: A question for the ladies
Hello, you sound like my ex fiancée...It was soo nice to trust him, it was soo good feeling to know that he is not paying other girls..I appreciate you, Sir...the girl you have found is a lucky one!
interesting to see
Love , sex, and money three things we all have, need , or desire.
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
How do you see these, I'll go first
i have money
i desire sex
i need love
RE: interesting to see
Without love the other two are meaningless. Wait...maybe not sex. Wait...Money can buy sex. Wait if I have money and sex who needs love?
RE: interesting to see
I have desires, and I need what I want, you figure out the rest, I'm going to bone the girl sleeping in my bed.
RE: interesting to see
I think that love is by far the most important. I am talking about love in a broader since such as the love of life, love of nature, and love of others. Money and sex also are nice to have to help with love.
RE: interesting to see
i don t think money can buy love maybe u can buy your love if u have money but no one will love ya just because u have money (will love ya money and real love u ll never feel)
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