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I recommend asian :)
Or even better, an asian from Russia :)

and sense make of this what?

well believing is a good start but also be realistic..

and i would say , look at actions not just words, There are a mix or personalities here like everywhere, some nice some not , some just after $$ and some who actualy do like to have friends here,,I mean friends not just customers,,, Sorting the players from the others is hard to do..
and of course some players , change their minds..

i met a few here, some , we just had a drink, chat and parted, enjoyed nice company, others became friends, and often , not the ones u would have expected..
its sometimes the pretty ones who are the most defensive and have the biggest problems trusting guys..
trust takes time.. as there are many here trying to ruin and bad mouth people.. so take time..
If the lady is smart she will make her own mind..

then see ACTIONS , speak more than words,,

did she call u back, did she IM u and ask how u r , does she actualy care at all. does she miss you if u r away .. . simple ..

I am lucky , still getting real mail, IM , and email from a few girls long after they leave CC, guess thats proof that some lovely ladies do come here,,

:-)

there is a way to break the cycle.

Either you meet them in real and realise there aint no connection between you. And how they look in real is wayyyy different from how they are in real.

Or...

you visit a good looking high class escort instead and watch her amazing body over yours. Get you kicks that way:)

~Believe me either way works:) :)

Remember this. If it were not for the money the pretty girls would not be here and they sure as hell wouldn't give you the time of day let alone flash their hooters.

This is adult entertainment that you pay for. Period. Next case.

it aint all blk and wht buster

I believe that you are right as far as the money goes. The hosts would not be here if were not for the money. However, I suggest that you also consider the fact that some hosts are single and are looking for a significant other in their lives. Just like some of the members are. Please don't put them down for this, it can be a beautiful thing.

Well whenever I have made post it is usually removed by host so what is the point

because we are as lazy as you are in these things, do you thank us by email or small message for what we do??

most dont, either too lazy, too self absorbed, or bad manners, or all.

well maybe you not AMAZING to all.

and what will i write?

yes i do write,, often,,,

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who said????? she didnt post her name :P

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Would you want me to leave biblical passages in your personal forum?

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Only if asked by the host which is not that often. Once when I was particularly disgusted by a stalling, scamming and lying host. The irony was she did not delete the post for almost 6 months.

I only post for a host that puts on a really good show and I think deserves a positive message left for others to see. If it's a average show, I don't leave anything.

I post part of the time. this is usually when I notice that the host has responded to other posts. That way I know that it is being read by the host.

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If I were a host, the biggest form of flattery I could receive is for the viewer to return time after time in my paid videochat. Like the old saying "Cash talks and bullshit walks".

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so true Gortik - far too many (bosses) give promisses way over their head

Also some profiles were written for the first girl who had the name and never changed it....

Some just put "********" or "----------" or "mmmmm" in all the spaces.

most are too lazy to fill in all details

Lol...anybody who regularly reads this profile will know that your profile is not very informative about what they might come to expect from you.

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I dont need to read your profile LonglegsL..i'm happy with chatting with you and just seeing your cute face and pretty eyes!

Discount available in my shop to CC members

not lazy, it's just some host do different things on different days depending on her mod...in a good mood? then sure DP sounds fun...in a bad mood? then suddenly I'm a perv for asking to see a close up of her pussy cat.

Often what a host says she does or does not do in her profile has no bearing on what she really does. It can also depend on mood, how much money she made that night and how she feels about the member asking. I think members go in this order. Picture. Picture profile. Video price. Text chat. Video chat. Few read the profile. My opinion.

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A picture is worth a thousand words.

A computer is worth a thousand pounds. That might mean something to her too haha

because most lie in profile to attract saps

welcome back TNT :-)
true true, most lie, esp you can detect the biggest lies in
\" ..........\" or \" ****** \" , or \"xxxx \" ( as thedetective mentioned )
or stupid smileys :))

thanks, but I'm back already, only took a few minutes to run to the local store for KY.

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Never has such true words been said, Charlotte communication, comunication, communication the 3 C's. and of course Trust :))

i thought the three c's were communication, crabbiness and castration

I know the four Roman emperors were Ceasar, Squeezer, Hump Her and Dump Her.

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It helps to say EXACTLY what lies you refer to. And did you have a quiet chat with hiom and listen to his opinion in the matter?

Trust can only be developed from an actual meeting.As for love, never say you love someone till you actually have met them. It's very easy to say the words "I love you" but what is it you love? can't be the person, because on the internet you can create a character, you can never know the real person until you meet in real. I knew from the very beginning of dealing of a host here that it wasn't genuine or sincere. But I just going along with it, just out of boredom more than anything. Some of the things that happened, that told me it wasn't real from her side are as follows:
- Emails that she sent, about what she thought about me were
numbered 1,2,3 etc These were sent to other people.
- Lots of chats talked about how little money she had, constantly
saying "If you loved me, you would help" "prove you love me"
- When taking breaks from webcam work, all communication
Stopped.
- Only answering her mobile, or sending sms messages during the
time she was at work. (on webcam)
- Or at first "I don't have a phone" even though you seen her using
one, and the excuse given "not my phone, it belongs to another girl
in studio, I had to phone my mother" (while with a dildo between her
legs)
- One of the best lines when asked what you remember about me
after a year of talking and a 4 week break "I have a bad memory, I
only remember your age, I think" instead of saying "your money"
- "I can't read e-mails on this computer I need to use admin" even
though 2 days previously and countless times before (and after)
she was reading e-mails from that computer and sending them.
- Talked about real meeting, always used delay tactics "I'm away that
month" or "I want to arrange your stay here as a surprise" never
gets arranged.
- Even did the no paid video, "I want you to save your money" that
lasted 3 days.
- Always over talked the feelings side of things "I love you"

So as you can see from my little list, I could add more but I'm sure you probably switched off by now lol So be careful out there, and if any or all the above seem familer, know its not real. As for me, I can afford to spend the money I do here, thats the advantage of being a Millionaire. But what concerns me are those that come here and ill afford it. I hope this has been some help to somebody here :)))

What is needed to make a good relationship?
Communcation
Understanding
Nuture
Trust
or as I like to call it C.U.N.T., without cunt a relationship is doomed to fail, so ladies if you want to make your man happy, make sure he gets plenty of cunt.
Now I'm off for a few days rest...C U Next Tuesday

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no don't laugh it off, I like it - kiss

funny thats why im laughing:P...love it!hugzzz!!!

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Don't misunderstand me, I'm not saying everyone is dishonest. I have got to know some great people on here and through internet in general, also met up with a few too. All I'm trying to say is be careful out there. There is a minority who aren't what they seem.

Keep smiling and enjoy :)

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you are gay

You're telling me that because you want to be my first male lover?

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Actually, quite an old tactic from at least the 1970s.

Did it work for you or are you still a virgin?

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that means knock-backs from a new gender.

lol ;)

Slapper

Such a high quality of hosts from these fair isles. Makes me proud to be British.

yup

yes

did it , but not easy , needs trust ,and thats hard here ..
good luck.. if u try hard anything can work,,

but so many here will try and ruin it

Umm is right, i tried to ruin his relationship by introducing his chathost gf to huge dildoes.

sure, it's easy to wait till you/I go on vacation and really have sex with a host. It's a new ballgame to try and keep the relationship going as a bf/gf after you leave.

10 months, then jealousy and stupidity as I was on my way to meet her.

bloody hell............... what happened? she gave u wrong directions ?

Yes, but it should be 'friends-only' until the real-life meeting. People are quite often very different in reality as opposed the what they are in the dark at a keyboard typing to what is essentially a fantasy figure.

I once had a pen-pal in England and we wrote the most interesting letters for many months, but when we met in reality it wasn't the same and I actually got on great with her friends, as she faded into the background..

I have had some very hot sexual textchats with hosts in cc (including you), but in reality I am a shy guy who could never be as cheeky face-to-face.

Don't get angry/jealous if you find out he is talking to other hosts as he should never challenge you for having hot chats with many members.

Until a real meeting, nothing on cc counts.

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depends, is the man a 50 year old balding fat man, trying to hook up with a sexy young lady?

not balding.... LOL

But I do think Maya (and some of her colleagues who I accidentally met) are very special. I have had hot text conversations with some of them and dropped into (non-sexual) video for a few minutes from time to time to help their star rating.

I don't think a host or member should get resentful or jealous about anything that happens pre-real life meeting. Once a meeting happens you can judge the "connection."

True, the cultural/age differences can be daunting, but it all depends on the personalities involved. Some April/September relationships can be as strong or stronger that those of the same age.

No way.

I would say you only know anything till you meet in real life. It is a good idea to meet as soon as possible. Also switch to voice chat not text chat as much as possible because that is closer to how you would interact in real life.

anything is possible,though not always probable.anything worthwhile takes effort.that's what makes achieving it worthwhile.

It is not easy, but it is possible. I fell in love with a host after having known her for about a year. I agree with those above who says that nothing really counts until you meet in person; stay friends until then, and let the past be the past (easy to say, not to do!). In our case, meeting in person for the first time this spring, we both liked each other and felt comfortable with each other. In a way, it is easier to communicate having been friends first. We will meet again in a couple of months. Being in a long distance relationship is not always easy, but it has some advantages as well. Perhaps really missing someone and wanting to be with them makes the experience even sweeter when you finally can be together. Anyway, as you've already seen, be prepared for a lot of people tell you that it is not possible. Also (assuming that you are not the host...not clear to me if you are or not), like someone else said...be prepared that if your gf continues to work there will be some very sick, envious people trying to ruin your happiness. Sad, unfortunately true. If you both are committed, you will overcome this. Best of luck to you both!

Hehehe...just read Sexyseduce's post again...I think it is fair to assume that she is a host, not a viewer. First, the name should have given me a solid hint, second...she signed the post with a kiss...doubt that a viewer would ever do this! Some of the other replies threw me off when they were adressing her as if she were a viewer. Well, sexyseduce, the answer was to both of you anyway! ;)

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I have had many real meetings. Most were as "friends only" with no expectation on my part for furthering the relationship. However, I have always been open to the possibility.

There have been several that I took tentative steps with, but it would have only been a one-night stand. I did fall deeply in love with one one and though we are now apart I still have my hopes to be with her.

met many here , chatted without any plans to meet,
about 1 - 2 years after first chats ..then traveled and told them i might be there ,,, would u meet me if i ask,, . many said yes a few said no.

when i traveled , met with 4 on 1 trip ,
location 1 was met at airport by friend, ( we are still friends now tho she is married with kids now) she introduced me to 4 other girls 3 i knew as hosts , all knew me from chats .. 1 girl , a host i did not expect to be so good with spent most time with me all paid 50:50 so was just 4 the fun of it..

location2 called 3 girls all washing their hair lol. but 1 met me ,,,
had 3 great days , realy hit it off, ended up having realionship for 18 months , stilll good friends now ..

location3 . met 2 hosts , had great fun. dancin and stuff, spent 5 days ,, really wild time , really nice girls .. 1 was a really great dancer.. was sorry to leave ,, still keep in touch ,, 3 i met have now visited UK and stayed , and i showed them about .. - only 2 are still at CC ,,

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remind me to tell u these when ur jugs are hanging down to ur knees and u keep trippin over ur prolapsed vagina

have fun...hugs!

im sick of umbrella tho

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any host that trys to play background music needs to be impalied on her own dildo. It always comes off like a low budget porno movie

TS? Yikes!!

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"Winnie the Booh?" No such item listed.

Sorry; not proofreading. As Lansing pointed out, it's Winnie the Pooh.

It is "Winnie the Pooh Neck Massager Walt Disney" and it is halarious. I think I will bid on it and send it to my favorite host. She will get a kick out of it. LOL

Thanks for the link, MasterTech.

Hun, always expecting something in return is a fruitless venture. Just be glad you did send them a note, and, be glad you recived 5% return on your investment. Heck, I would take 5% anyday.

I have given people many presents in my time without expecting anything in return. But, that is the real world. This is virtual where the press of a key deletes all troubles.

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You get a 10% return rate??!!??!! See how much it works?

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Yes, it's called marketing. In this case you'd add: "I hope we can spend more time together the next time you come to my video."

What are you going to do after the vid anyway, play online poker? Waste an hour with "inside talk" in comm chat?

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Do you REALLY believe one toothpaste makes your smile sexier? They \"lie\" to you. It\'s called marketing.

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Charlotte's kinda got the right idea here. Complain about being harassed in comchat but not happy if after u've spent ur money u don't get some kind of follow up service. Go in, toss off, sleep. Life's a breeze.

The truth emerges!

Don't be shy. Let your true emotions surface.

i couldn't agree with you more. and thats why i left your video abruptly today i notice you're looking around acting bored. i know how to fix that. i needed to MOVE ON and try to be a little less boring with the NEXT GIRL!!

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This could get ugly....

um no you cannot retract Miss 5 star cc goddess. (k) :)

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Every day seems to be the day you woke up on the wrong side of the bed. Where is in the heck is your sense of humour? Oh, that's right, you don't have time for one.

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It's called marketing and building a list of regulars.

Of course, its intention is for those who think their traffic isn't busy enough. Some girls are "stars" and don't need the business if their income is satisfactory.

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Give me a free video and I will send you a candygram.

Aha, The old "Land Shark" ploy. Don't open the door ucallmebaby,,, It's a trick...

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Some marketers would call a 5% feedback rate to be perfectly within acceptable limits. It's not necessarily supposed to be fun, it's work. It's why you make a few variations on a form letter and "cut & paste" it into a ccMail.

...and then wait for the posts complaining about spam mail etc.
what u see is what u get...if u make a deal with a host and as part of that deal she sends u a mail saying "baby ur the greatest" that's up to you. If not then stop whining and put ur dick away

"Thanks and come again" soon after a visit is not spam. Spam is message after message unconnected to an event.

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I'm not the businesswoman who often complains of lack of members and lower earnings. If you have enough (or too many) viewers this whole idea is NOT for you.

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looks like an opertunity here ..

if so many dont do this ,,

and all are looking to diferentiate from " the crowd" then be different ,,,

I am always pleased to get a mail... isnt anyone ...

if its not just a come to see me ..

but something relevent to our chat ..

i had 3 today .. its my sons birthday , and i had 4 IM - so seems some are doing the normal friendly comunication.

but very few..

will i spend more time with them ..

yes 4 sure i will..

( though now i have met 2 so we are friends )

Baby come in my chat. I make love with you. You my special man.

Sure. Would work on me EVERY time! :D

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Who said that the host had to write an email full of bullshit and lies to the member? If you are too lazy to do it, fine... but there is no need to try to put an evil spin on it and demonize the whole thing to try to back yourself up and act like you are doing it in the best interest of the members here. That's the lie here. The truth is most hosts could easily write a short email to a member after video to thank them... they don't have to fill it with bullshit and insincere compliments, just personalize it.... mention something from their chat together that she enjoyed or found interesting or whatever. It's not difficult for christ's sake. The last thing you want to do after typing all day is type more? well welcome to the real world. millions of people leave their jobs every day, only to go home and do more work, research, reports... whatever... to stay on top of their jobs and keep advancing in their careers. they are the ones that reach the top. the ones that go home and sit on their asses or whine about having to do the extra when they are not on the time clock are the ones that find themselves on the employment lines these days. You are correct that even if you do not send an email that members will still return to video chat... the question is, will it be your video chat? are you so rich that you can afford to have your viewers returning to other hosts instead of you?

i think the bigger underlying problem here is that so many of the younger generation have become so reliant upon and addicted to the instant gratification of text messaging, instant messaging and cell phones that they have acquired the attention span of a knat. they can't even shit without calling or texting their best friend to tell them all about it. but suddenly having to sit still for a whole 5 minutes to type a letter, even to their mother, becomes an unbearable torture. imagine how they would suffer if they actually had to pick up a pen and hand write a letter. OMG the inhumanity of it all! i'd say it's laughable, but in truth it is just sad.

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wrong again cupcake... and on so many counts. it is you who made the big fuss about it and all your blah blah about tricking people. for all the times i heard you tooting your own horn in here about being so "mature" you still cannot grasp simple concepts that grown ups should be able to. instead you keep returning over and over again to the same bullshit point about.... decieving and tricking people, insincerity, false compliments. i guess it shows where you are coming from personally. just because you may be incapable of saying a kind word to a member without it being a pack of lies and bunch of bullshit doesn't mean other hosts are. none of the members who said they would like to recieve thank you ccmails from hosts said they wanted to be lied to or recieve insincere compliments... you are the one that kept coming back and posting about lies and trying to convince everyone over and over again that your opinion is the only right one. seems you were pointing your finger at the wrong person when you said i am unable to accept other peoples point of view.

as for me not being able to accept other points of view, that is just more of your bullshit. i have no problem entertaining other peoples opinions, but if i think it is bullshit i also have no problem calling them on it... as i did with you and the way you repeatedly tried to demonize a simple thank you note.

and lastly about this grand business you supposedly had built from the ground up, it is probably more of a grand exageration than anything else. i do not believe you possess the maturity, patience, or the people skills to achieve such a task.

Would have been better if you'd put "Sugar Tits" in place of "Cup Cake" :)

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they want the thank you notes so their fragile egos feel like they are being stroked,so they feel special,imo.

I have to disagree with cap'n. The majority of the posters requesting a thank you note either did not stipulate that it had to be sincere (just that they wanted one) and most of the remaining ones stated that it would be a good marketing tactic (again implying that it did not necessarily have to be sincere). Surely a thank you note written to say thank you and mention something from the chat is just as bad as a note filled with "bullshit" if that note is not written with any real feeling but only because the member expects or wants it.

you're not a man.

WHO TOLD YOU!!?!?

well said & well taken.at least you have a sense of humor

I agree haha.I'm actually starting to warm towards Ted

During my current sexual turmoil, the receipt of your warm parts could be a good thing :)

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how can i help you if you dont post your real name?...CC mail me..

CC mail me if you like.
And see!
You have two people who care! :)

would somebody care abt me too?:)

sure Cherry but it would have to be strictly platonic...no sexysex or anything

Having visited you a number of times, I am surprised to hear you think no one cares about you. I happen to think you are very kind and interesting, not to mention you have some great assets. :)

You are correct. You are worthless and weak. Oh well.

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You have some of the best archive photos I have seen on this or any other site, but after seeing you quote passages from the bible like some far right wing wacko turns me right off.

did you look up the refence? are you afraid of other points of view?

I don't think biblethumping has a place on a porn site.

a mention is a thump??

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You would be right, if that is what she was doing.
But that is not the case here.
Take it easy.
Don't over react!

sorry ur not ok origami.

regards
syl

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USE CAPS!!!!!!!!!

when you find what you are looking for,& you will,it will make it all the more precious.nobody is ever totally alone though they may not realise it.open your heart,let the sunshine in.you will be surprised what grows.

I hope that someday we will be able to put away our fears and prejudices and just laugh at people.

sheeep

but i like sheep. got my velcro gloves ready.

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yep got them ,, but im not welsh, u know that lol

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Well it depends on how many of us there are

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got the boots, kilt (so they don't hear the zip) and a splash of odour sheep dip ;-) we salt 'em you eat 'em

isnt it just easier to slip something in their drink while they are not looking?

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:P

name: cato
age: 21
from: japan
meeting place: how about at Chizo Plaza Hotel -room 504

why on the 5th floor--i dont like heights

You used to like them chaser;) esp when the elevator wasn`t working :D

yeah--i must admit CK i did--thanks and it is so glad to see you back my friend

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what about that beach,we ..the stars,the sounds of the ocean,the music of life and joy..no need names ,not informations about identity because we will recognize eachother anyway(love have own language-when ull find it u will just know!!!!)still u might write that song and ill try to sing it for u:):):)kisses

she's on vacation, will be back in sept

lucky men there than ;)

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when she will return? did she go to someone?

to her bf who lives there

ablond4you, i would have to side with Lansing on this one. if you send thank you notes and such to your viewers, good for you, but i would say you are in the minority of hosts that do this. i can tell you honestly, as a member for several years here, that i have recieved far more ccmails from hosts that i have never met or visited before asking me to come to their rooms and meet them, than i ever have from the hosts i know... especially the ones i know very well. the biggest excuses are "oh i am so busy, i never have free time" or " i thought i would say when we talked instead", but the real truth is they really don't want to bother doing it cuz ur not important enough to them to take a couple minutes out of their day to write you a short note. that's it in a nutshell.

Good retort.

Hun:

I have yet to receive a thank you note for the visit and visits (take note of the singular and plural) I have made to many a chat host. Not one. (Oh, well, I am sorry, there was one but I practically had to beg for it.)

The truth of the matter is, and captain caveman hit the nail on this, is there are basically two kind of hosts: the long term know how to market; and, the short term don't know how to market. Market meaning using marketing techniques - not going to an outdoor super store. I lot of the out of country hosts would think the latter rather than the former and use it to make a silly and stupid remark. (ok, hosts, hit me with both barrels. lol)

No host (present company excluded though I have never visited you) will take the time to answer an email from a viewer. Perhaps there are some as you eluded to; but if they do, then the Gods Must Be Crazy. Imagine a message from a host fell into my inbox like a coke bottle from the sky. What shall I do with it? Should I walk around the world to give it back or find the source? This is what probably goes on in the mind of most host's' and it probably scares them (or not).

Now, I am not taking sides...vulgarity and rudeness abounds on both sides of the virtual fence. But, when a good person (viewer) does visit, that person should receive, at the minimum, a thank you note for the money he (or she) has spent watching the host fake an orgasim. I am aware that may sound deragatory, but in all actuality it does have a basis.

It is good you are taking care of your viewership; but, the majority?...they do not.

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that you expect a thank you note from everybody you purchase from in life both goods & services.

That is a poor and silly analogy. I am sure you can think of something with more bite to it.

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Totally. This false "come back baby - I love the time with you" stuff is bullshit. Sure, I'd like it if a host sent me that, but only if it was sincere - i.e. they MEAN it.

Fuck this American idea of "service". It's all false smiles and bullshit. I want someone to serve me what I pay for, not give me a complimentary fucking rim job. If anyone really needs one of these letters, write it your fucking selves as it will be no less genuine!!!!

Thanks for reading :)

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of course you would think that because you don't.so why is this service any different.only because you want the thank you note to stroke your damaged ego.begging for platitudes is sooooo pitiful.

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The song says: "birth, school, work, death." It's life, with some love mixed in if you are lucky.

Kisses to you from the man you hate.

I believe to fate but we can change it and our lives ourselves. All ppl - bad or nice - have their troubles and moments of happiness. But as we know all good things come to an end - even human's life
Best wishes to all )))

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i say share life while you can,, not just only with a love one, but all, and when death comes we will be together again, but as long as we are here--smile and stay cool

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didn't i read that on a hallmark card?

Here is my deep thougth for today: "I can picture in my mind a world without war, a world without hate. And I can picture us attacking that world, because they'd never expect it."

It takes a big man to cry, but it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.

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At that price you may have to wait a while before you meet many members. Or if you really want to meet people lower your price to reasonable levels and let the party begin.

It`s the IA category, d`oh!

she and Bela70 got married, they are in boy-girl couple catgeory giving relationship advice.

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Dude... ALL my original chatfriends have moved on in life, much to my chagrin.

She has her reasons
other priorities , and im sure the nasty messages here would not encourage her here ,,

she is till saying hi to a few friends , but is " away"

she having health troubles, for more info i suggest you to write her an e-mail

thanks to gravity she is semi retired.

yeah i heard they get tucked into her waistband.

you are probably two boys in their 50's doing the only thing you are capable of. blowing it out your asses

anything is probable, but in this case you are wrong