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Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
I'm only here for a cheap cyber thrill. I don't want your yahoo ID, Skype or anything else. I am just here to have some adult fun, naked if possible, but sexy chat every now and then is ok too.
And I have to believe I'm not the only member that only wants some on line fun and nothing more. I know many of you think all members are bald middle aged, small dick fat losers who do not have the courage to speak to a woman in the real world and hide behind a computer screen here and feel like a big man. But that's not me. I am a total voyeur and pervert, but am married with 3 kids. I have a good job and like to have the ultimate in no strings safe sex. No way to get STDs on line.
So I am your customer/client and you are a service provider. I don't want to meet you and do not want to be your friend, just a friendly customer. And no I always ask politely for what I want and never ever bark orders or make any demands at all. And one other thing, unless I am very badly mislead or out and out lied to , I rate 5 stars 99.9% of the time.
And I have to believe I'm not the only member that only wants some on line fun and nothing more. I know many of you think all members are bald middle aged, small dick fat losers who do not have the courage to speak to a woman in the real world and hide behind a computer screen here and feel like a big man. But that's not me. I am a total voyeur and pervert, but am married with 3 kids. I have a good job and like to have the ultimate in no strings safe sex. No way to get STDs on line.
So I am your customer/client and you are a service provider. I don't want to meet you and do not want to be your friend, just a friendly customer. And no I always ask politely for what I want and never ever bark orders or make any demands at all. And one other thing, unless I am very badly mislead or out and out lied to , I rate 5 stars 99.9% of the time.
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
Thats exactly for what I come here for. I am not loser, in my early 30's, not bald, and not fat and work out everyday. I am also married and 2 kids. I have a great job and I am aware I can go in any club and find a woman to get laid and no need to pay, but this is putting my life on the line. The risks of getting a STD high nowadays if you fuck with an unknown person.
I come here solely for a little extra excitement without the risks. Many hosts asked for my Yah, my email, and my mobile. I come to their vid for the 2nd time and they tell me: I love you, I miss you and I want to meet. Some even become sad. Might be acting, but i doubt it. One got very upset even block me when I say I can't meet and dont lover her. I feel sorry for them because I am not here for relationship. I will never meet and start a new relationship. Its just not right, I already have a great life. I hope hosts understand that not all members are here trying to find a wife and realize that we are here to spend our money on adult entertainment.
I come here solely for a little extra excitement without the risks. Many hosts asked for my Yah, my email, and my mobile. I come to their vid for the 2nd time and they tell me: I love you, I miss you and I want to meet. Some even become sad. Might be acting, but i doubt it. One got very upset even block me when I say I can't meet and dont lover her. I feel sorry for them because I am not here for relationship. I will never meet and start a new relationship. Its just not right, I already have a great life. I hope hosts understand that not all members are here trying to find a wife and realize that we are here to spend our money on adult entertainment.
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
You said 3 kids in your initial post... it's 2 now. Where's the 3 child gone? :D
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
I know, from host comments here, it seems they think we're all just pathetic guys trying to meet every host we talk to.
I'm actually not interested in meeting anyone i've met here either. I'm just using you to get off, and ur just using me for money. It's a nice relationship lol
I'm actually not interested in meeting anyone i've met here either. I'm just using you to get off, and ur just using me for money. It's a nice relationship lol
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
damn i hope that is only for hosts & you're still open to meeting members.you sound like a cool,funloving guy who doesn't take life too serious & knows how to parteeee.cc mail me if it's so big boy :--)
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
Oh boy, you are becoming and sounding more gay everyday.
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
lol roggy bb.even if i am we know both know you're safe.a virile,skirt chasing stud muffin like you,would never succumb to the latent homo inside you,no matter how charming,well hung & promiscuous i am :--)
RE: Dear Hosts; I DO want to meet you in person if u r in to it
I'm married with 3 kids 3 too! I like extra spice here at CC. I also like extra spice for real. So I am happy to meet or not. But if I meet it is just for sexy fun, NOT another relationship. My wife is great. I dont want to leave. I just want more sex!
RE: Dear Hosts; I DO want to meet you in person if u r in to it
fidelity and loyalty in relationships on a sex site??? I have a wife for that. She is loyal and faithful for both of us! I'm the yang to her yin.
RE: Dear Hosts; I DO want to meet you in person if u r in to it
she likes to be faithful. I dont. We got it worked out. So it is ok for us. Not everyone is a saint like you.
RE: Dear Hosts; I don't want to meet you in person
i can't make out if your being sarcastic or not, if you are then respect to you.
If your not then your wishing that your husband or any man your having a relationship with, visits other hosts behind your back, nice, very nice :)
If your not then your wishing that your husband or any man your having a relationship with, visits other hosts behind your back, nice, very nice :)
god created woman then man....
after 3 weeks in the garden of eden,god comes to visit eve & asks"so how is everything going?"
"it's all so beautiful god,"she replies."the sunrises & sunsets are breathtaking,the smells,the sights,everything is wonderful but i have just 1 problem.it's these breasts you have given me.the middle 1 pushes the other 2 out & i'm constantly knocking them with my arms,catching them on branches & snagging them on bushes.they're a real pain."eve goes on to tell god that since many other parts of her body come in pairs,such as her limbs,eyes,ears,she feels that having only 2 breasts might leave her body more'symmetrically balanced'."
"that's a fair point,"god says."but it was my first shot at this,you know.i gave the animals 6 breasts,so i figured you needed only 1/2 of those but i see you're right.i will fix it up right away."
and god reaches down,removes the middle breast & tosses it into the nushes.3 weeks pass & god once again visits eve.
'well eve,how is my favourite creation?"
"just fantastic,"she replies,"but for 1 oversight.you see,all the animals are paired off.the ewe has a ram & the cow has her bull.all the animals have a mate except me.i feel so alone."
god thinks for a moment & says"you know,eve,you're right.how could i have overlooked this?you do need a mate & i will immediately create a man from a part of you.let's see...where did i put that useless boob?" :--)
"it's all so beautiful god,"she replies."the sunrises & sunsets are breathtaking,the smells,the sights,everything is wonderful but i have just 1 problem.it's these breasts you have given me.the middle 1 pushes the other 2 out & i'm constantly knocking them with my arms,catching them on branches & snagging them on bushes.they're a real pain."eve goes on to tell god that since many other parts of her body come in pairs,such as her limbs,eyes,ears,she feels that having only 2 breasts might leave her body more'symmetrically balanced'."
"that's a fair point,"god says."but it was my first shot at this,you know.i gave the animals 6 breasts,so i figured you needed only 1/2 of those but i see you're right.i will fix it up right away."
and god reaches down,removes the middle breast & tosses it into the nushes.3 weeks pass & god once again visits eve.
'well eve,how is my favourite creation?"
"just fantastic,"she replies,"but for 1 oversight.you see,all the animals are paired off.the ewe has a ram & the cow has her bull.all the animals have a mate except me.i feel so alone."
god thinks for a moment & says"you know,eve,you're right.how could i have overlooked this?you do need a mate & i will immediately create a man from a part of you.let's see...where did i put that useless boob?" :--)
RE: god created woman then man....
he's just frustrated because you're the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.a dream he wants but knows he can't have :--)
Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
Girls, it is a real turn off when girls fake stuff. Like anal "fingering" with finger folded back underneath. I just leave when this happens and rate 1. If you do not do something, just be honest. There are many hot girls here with certain limits. That is fine. But promising one thing and not delivering really pisses me off.
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
But it can also be a no-win situation for the hosts. If they are honest and say they don't do something, they still risk getting rated 1* by a member for the refusal, as some people get upset if their every request isn't obeyed, like the hosts are some sort of automata.
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
good point. I always tell them first. If they admit it, then we can continue. It is only when they continue to lie that I rate 1.
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
he did not say you had to do anal, just do not fake it. if u dont do it, just say no! We pervs will go elsewhere or try some other distraction
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
at least it's better to be pissed off than pissed on(for the majority) :--)
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
Only dumb :)
I'm always up for faking anything that can be done!
No girl enjoys any sort of penetration when not horny, and let's face it, if we're horny we'll go have sex or pause and masturbate without anyone interrupting.
I'm always up for faking anything that can be done!
No girl enjoys any sort of penetration when not horny, and let's face it, if we're horny we'll go have sex or pause and masturbate without anyone interrupting.
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
But I have to say who care? Impotant is that the guest with money is horney! But I know many girls always like it also when not horney! You are ok to get used for single use tissue and you use us for our money. So fair deal, all win!
RE: Pls No Faking, it gets a 1 from me
viewer forum about faking... would be nice to have had some of you reply to jerksauce's post on this, rather than just having those saying they don't care if hosts fake....
RE: To you...
I'm glad you had such a lovely time. Obviously you didn't get any visits from members like me :D
RE: To you...
inyf why you think that?i thought you were the strong,silent cum early type... :--)
RE: To you...
You sound like a nice girl (or woman if you prefer) and I wouldn't want to do anything to change that by making your stay here less than pleasant :)
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
Don't exaggerate. Most things stay there. What were the topic(s) of the post or posts you made that were deleted. SOmetimes it is not what is said but how it is said that causes a post to be removed.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
i'm talking about it being 'viewer only' when nothing can be said there that doesn't make its way out to all of cc...
so everything might as be well just be posted in general forum
actually i rarely post there, or here for that matter
so everything might as be well just be posted in general forum
actually i rarely post there, or here for that matter
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
I like not having to hear hosts responses. A better question is why is the host forum not viewable unless you're a host, but you don't have to be a member to look at the viewer forum.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
Because hosts can learn from the remarks but private host information would not have any interest to viewers.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
That's a double standard, we should still be able to see. If it wouldn't interest us than why does it matter if we can see it?
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
It would not matter if viewer forum unreadable by hosts, because most of the time it is viewers that go and tell their hosts when something is written about them and they tell them what is said. and then their host will simply get that viewer to respond for them.
Hosts can not respond in viewer forum..
Another thing if viewer forum was made so hosts can not see then you would see a lot more hosts joining the site as a member just so they can read and respond to viewer forum.
There are those of us members that have joined as a host just so we can read host forum, and believe me, there are times that you do not want to read what is in there. Unless you want to read about hosts and their monthly and womanly problems....and I for one really do not want to read about such things. loool....
Besides that, we members have said that we don't want to read about hosts complaints, that we are paying customers and we come here for fun and we are not here to hear about host and their problems.
So if that forum was open to members, it would only cause more of those same complaints.
We can not have it both ways guys.
Hosts can not respond in viewer forum..
Another thing if viewer forum was made so hosts can not see then you would see a lot more hosts joining the site as a member just so they can read and respond to viewer forum.
There are those of us members that have joined as a host just so we can read host forum, and believe me, there are times that you do not want to read what is in there. Unless you want to read about hosts and their monthly and womanly problems....and I for one really do not want to read about such things. loool....
Besides that, we members have said that we don't want to read about hosts complaints, that we are paying customers and we come here for fun and we are not here to hear about host and their problems.
So if that forum was open to members, it would only cause more of those same complaints.
We can not have it both ways guys.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
Host are the business owners for their rooms why should that interest the customer?
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
I don't know why I bother. I post, occasionally, but I have no idea if anyone there cares what I think lol, and I don't get much useful information there myself. I would rather just talk to hosts.
Since I've been here (2008), the most thoughtful posts I've read from members have been in the general forum, as a general rule.
Since I've been here (2008), the most thoughtful posts I've read from members have been in the general forum, as a general rule.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
"Since I've been here (2008), the most thoughtful posts I've read from members have been in the general forum, as a general rule."
But are they really members? No way to verify. I agree there are some very silly posts in viewer forum, but the real silly ones are from these morons that post about getting free naked shows in non adult and getting hosts in softcore that do not strip for others strip only for them.
As far as throwing "mud" on a host, yes that happens in in many cases it is done wrongly, but there are also cases where viewers have exposed some bad hosts. Yes, most hosts do a good job, so let's praise them and tell our fellow viewers about the bad ones.
But are they really members? No way to verify. I agree there are some very silly posts in viewer forum, but the real silly ones are from these morons that post about getting free naked shows in non adult and getting hosts in softcore that do not strip for others strip only for them.
As far as throwing "mud" on a host, yes that happens in in many cases it is done wrongly, but there are also cases where viewers have exposed some bad hosts. Yes, most hosts do a good job, so let's praise them and tell our fellow viewers about the bad ones.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
Oh I agree there's no way to tell who is posting, but that doesn't really matter if the content is persuasive and thoughtful.
As far as the viewer's forum being useful... rarely, for me... that is a matter of whether the member posting is 1., evaluating a host using criteria that I can relate to; 2., relating an experience that is close to what actually happened; and 3., not someone with an ax to grind, or some agenda to advance.
Certain hosts get bad press, as a rule, and based on my own experiences with them, they don't deserve it. And I'm pretty close to a host on another site, and can appreciate a host's experiences of what a chat site is like through her eyes. That, for me, causes me to discount a lot of what i read in the viewer's forum.
Anyway, I pretty much do my own thing here, so I don't seek advice about hosts for the most part. YMMV
As far as the viewer's forum being useful... rarely, for me... that is a matter of whether the member posting is 1., evaluating a host using criteria that I can relate to; 2., relating an experience that is close to what actually happened; and 3., not someone with an ax to grind, or some agenda to advance.
Certain hosts get bad press, as a rule, and based on my own experiences with them, they don't deserve it. And I'm pretty close to a host on another site, and can appreciate a host's experiences of what a chat site is like through her eyes. That, for me, causes me to discount a lot of what i read in the viewer's forum.
Anyway, I pretty much do my own thing here, so I don't seek advice about hosts for the most part. YMMV
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
"Certain hosts get bad press, as a rule, and based on my own experiences with them, they don't deserve it."
I've seen the same thing but, I've of the opinion there is no such thing as bad publicity on this site. I've gone to see hosts that were trashed in the forum out of curiosity and I'm others have as well.
I've seen the same thing but, I've of the opinion there is no such thing as bad publicity on this site. I've gone to see hosts that were trashed in the forum out of curiosity and I'm others have as well.
RE: Viewer Only Forum, why bother?
feet then viewers is like having a gf or being married? ::--)
A positive post
Ever wonder why positive posts go mostly unnoticed. Yet negative or whining posts get everyone's attention. People reply stating there is too much whining time after time. So they must love replying to whining posts. So every one loves to bitch about something. And when there's nothing to bitch about, they bitch about not having something to bitch about. Well human nature, a funny thing I guess. I'd wait to see if anyone replies to this post, but since its positive, no one will. So I'm off to bed. Goodnight Gracie.
RE: A positive post
your right, i have noticed the same thing, would really be nice to have more positive posts, the negative ones just brings things down, and ruins the atmosphere.
This site has so much to offer and there are many beautiful women on here. and there are also some very nice members.
:)
This site has so much to offer and there are many beautiful women on here. and there are also some very nice members.
:)
This place is a blnd 'date'
To be honest, i never really spend money on girls here i didn't meet on other sites. Where i could see her in the chat before hand, and talk to her, get to know her and see if i want a pvt. This place is more of a 'blind date' as opposed to other sites. There's really only so much you can tell from a profile, and just pics, which can be really misleading.
I know most of the hosts prefer this, as it cuts down on freeloaders i'm sure, it really puts me off of meeting new girls though.
I know most of the hosts prefer this, as it cuts down on freeloaders i'm sure, it really puts me off of meeting new girls though.
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
Like i said, i'm here for the girls i know who i met on other sites.... which is my point. They prefer we pvt here because they get a higher percentage, and it doesn't affect me at all so i oblige. i'm just talking about how the site is different in that way, and while i see it as a good thing for hosts, i can see how it can be really off-putting for new members meeting new hosts.
Just something to talk about, I wasn't crying about anything, or even saying it should change.
Just something to talk about, I wasn't crying about anything, or even saying it should change.
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
Excellent post my friend. But as you can see one of the many hosts with a bad attitude has taken a first shot at you.
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I know, and i tried to word it as delicately as i could. Should i even reply?... i'm gonna reply...
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I don't take you too seriously Gem. I just think you're fucking crazy :P
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I want to meet with any host and ask her to meet in real for on date! :)
re Gentleman stop doing that
guys stop bugging chathosts with meeting in real, this is a business site, we all have a life and this is only a JOB
RE: re Gentleman stop doing that
ok I will lie all and say yes for meeting in real with members just because they insist but never show up at date :) some think we chathost have to return theyir dollars somehow , guys grow up LOOL
RE: re Gentleman stop doing that
Waaaay up over your head if you look really really hard you will see a point flying by.
It's not a shooting star.
It's not a shooting star.
RE: re Gentleman stop doing that
I'm not stop doing that! Host ask me to meet her in real? I say to her " Sure, Why not", She say that's wonderful then let meet in real soon! :)
ok Gentleman do that
after that pls dont complain on forums and qualify all chathosts being like the ones you meet , good luck
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
That is too bad for you because you could be having more fun. To take the risk of meeting her you could go into chat first and then check her out in video for 1 min and see if she might be someone worth meeting.
Doesn't sound like too much a gamble actually.
I don't do FLV on any site so sorry you'd never meet me anyway. :)
Doesn't sound like too much a gamble actually.
I don't do FLV on any site so sorry you'd never meet me anyway. :)
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I would rather talk in text before video, then member does not waste his money, that is too bad that you do not want to take the time to speak with a host before video. and that you have to be seeing her too...oh well, each to their own.
Sorry it such a turn off for you....but then it sounds like you have what you like as it is....:)
have a wonderful life....:)
Sorry it such a turn off for you....but then it sounds like you have what you like as it is....:)
have a wonderful life....:)
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
a blind date....you mean we grope,fondle & feel never getting what we want but leaving satsfied with no eyewitnesses? :--)
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I have seen those other sites and they are a horror show. The hosts are constantly bombarded with message after message....most of them are rude, idotic or asking the host to get naked or worse...in free video. I cannot see how anyone could carry on a conversation with the host at all.... I do agree however that you have an opportunity to see the host as she looks then and there. That is an advantage. I still think hosts should be able to post a 60 second promotional video as part of their profile.
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
I think hosts can get more business on sites like that too. It's a trade off i suppose. More privacy and less freeloaders for less exposure and traffic running through. I would never suggest a model start hosting here first, without anything else. Find regulars elsewhere, and then bring them here. That's how i came here actually, a host invited me.
RE: This place is a blnd 'date'
if i waited for an ivitation,i wont even be at my funeral :--)
RE: please a serious question
i would have many ideas but i believe that they are worth nothing when i just throw them at you. you should take your time and think about the two of you and then find something which is really meaningful and very special to only you two.
i will not spoil this feeling with shallow unpersonal quotes.
think into the two of you. feel it. feel the love. and then choose.
and believe me that you will make the right decision and your partner will feel that.
i hope this can help you.
jarle
i will not spoil this feeling with shallow unpersonal quotes.
think into the two of you. feel it. feel the love. and then choose.
and believe me that you will make the right decision and your partner will feel that.
i hope this can help you.
jarle
Online Life versus Personal Life
Host2 said this below: "I think sometimes guys don't realize how many people we come in contact with and how out of control it could get. They wouldn't consider giving out their personal emails and phone #'s to all their customers they work with....so why should we?"
Guys aren't stupid. We know that a pretty host comes into contact with LOTS of other men as she works. But let's be honest -- more often than not, a host will actually GIVE OUT her personal email or a phone number because she WANTS a guy to think he's special. And she will specifically TELL a guy that she's interested in being friends or even lovers off site. This isn't about guys getting the wrong idea. This is about hosts PUTTING the idea into guys heads.
But it's just a GAME to most hosts. The reason they give out their contact info is simply because they WANT to string gullible guys along, to get repeat business from them. And of course, the moment that a guy expects a host to act like a REAL friend or lover would act in REAL life, that is when a host will always pull out the bullsh*t line: "I never meant any of it. I was just doing my job and giving you a fantasy."
The moment that a host GIVES a guest her personal contact info, she GIVES UP the idea that her online life and personal life should be 2 different worlds. Because that's the moment when SHE crossed the line. So if you really want them to be separate, STOP giving out your info. STOP playing this silly game. And while you're at it, STOP playing with guys emotions because you're chasing the next dollar. Try to show a little decency towards the feelings of another human being.
Guys aren't stupid. We know that a pretty host comes into contact with LOTS of other men as she works. But let's be honest -- more often than not, a host will actually GIVE OUT her personal email or a phone number because she WANTS a guy to think he's special. And she will specifically TELL a guy that she's interested in being friends or even lovers off site. This isn't about guys getting the wrong idea. This is about hosts PUTTING the idea into guys heads.
But it's just a GAME to most hosts. The reason they give out their contact info is simply because they WANT to string gullible guys along, to get repeat business from them. And of course, the moment that a guy expects a host to act like a REAL friend or lover would act in REAL life, that is when a host will always pull out the bullsh*t line: "I never meant any of it. I was just doing my job and giving you a fantasy."
The moment that a host GIVES a guest her personal contact info, she GIVES UP the idea that her online life and personal life should be 2 different worlds. Because that's the moment when SHE crossed the line. So if you really want them to be separate, STOP giving out your info. STOP playing this silly game. And while you're at it, STOP playing with guys emotions because you're chasing the next dollar. Try to show a little decency towards the feelings of another human being.
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
Well I guess it goes both ways then. I never offer and yet I am asked repeatedly so I made my point. Yet the host that posted said that guys always ask her to be their friends, etc. and she trusted them and found out their intentions were different than they stated initially.
So I guess there certainly is another group of hosts that intitiate the sharing of personal information for many of her members to leed them down the road of deception as well.
I will tell you what I told her and anyone reading.....don't buy into it. When you do it usually ends up in a rude awakening it sounds. There are ruthless people but there are also some that come for honesty and sincerity and this is certainly not the place to assume that.
Sounds like you also are experiencing alot of hurt too...sorry to hear that. Hugs:)
So I guess there certainly is another group of hosts that intitiate the sharing of personal information for many of her members to leed them down the road of deception as well.
I will tell you what I told her and anyone reading.....don't buy into it. When you do it usually ends up in a rude awakening it sounds. There are ruthless people but there are also some that come for honesty and sincerity and this is certainly not the place to assume that.
Sounds like you also are experiencing alot of hurt too...sorry to hear that. Hugs:)
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
Any emails i have the host offered to me unsolicited. In fact I think it's pretty standard for hosts to have a 'work' email or messenger for such members
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
AND a phone number just for cc :) Which they dont use for real life ;)
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
Some wariness is healthy, but you sound so miserably distrustful...
Sometimes it doesn't hurt to also try to see the good side in people. Doing so would help us all in this cruel world.
We members are also humans with moods and feelings! Some with errors but mostly trying to be nice and fair... We are not all the same! Your posts are usually reasonable, but why do you lump us all together just to make it easier to stereotype people?
That's just not fair, some people deserve a little trust and respect...
Sometimes it doesn't hurt to also try to see the good side in people. Doing so would help us all in this cruel world.
We members are also humans with moods and feelings! Some with errors but mostly trying to be nice and fair... We are not all the same! Your posts are usually reasonable, but why do you lump us all together just to make it easier to stereotype people?
That's just not fair, some people deserve a little trust and respect...
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
"But it's just a GAME to most hosts. The reason they give out their contact info is simply because they WANT to string gullible guys along, to get repeat business from them. And of course, the moment that a guy expects a host to act like a REAL friend or lover would act in REAL life, that is when a host will always pull out the bullsh*t line: "I never meant any of it. I was just doing my job and giving you a fantasy."
I agree 100%. Thanks for the honest post.
I agree 100%. Thanks for the honest post.
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
That there is a group of hosts that offer their personal information for the sole purpose of misleading members and romance them to keep them coming back with lies.
Please don't put all hosts in that classification. It simply isn't true. Sad that these hosts that are actually preditors hurt so many people and discard the fact that they have done anything wrong. To expose them seems like the best way so that others will be forwarnded. No one should protect the ones that intentially decieve. No host here needs to stoop that low either.
Please don't put all hosts in that classification. It simply isn't true. Sad that these hosts that are actually preditors hurt so many people and discard the fact that they have done anything wrong. To expose them seems like the best way so that others will be forwarnded. No one should protect the ones that intentially decieve. No host here needs to stoop that low either.
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
Wow, some of you guys are so jaded. I think it's time you got off this site for a while and took in a little real life. In all walks of life there are scammers and con artists, but here, as in real life, the majority of people aren't out to get you. Don't tar all hosts with the same brush, there's always two sides to every story and most are just trying to earn a wage in as honest way as they can.
"Guys aren't stupid" - Don't be so sure. I used to believe that my gender wasn't stupid, but my gf is a host here and some of the things I've seen members ask her makes me think otherwise.
There are guys here who ask to meet in real life within five minutes of their first ever video, others ask her to move to their country and live with them after talking for only a few minutes, many think that they can purchase anything from her with their mighty dollar. I've seen a lot of very stupid and incredibly rude behaviour from guys here, but I don't assume that all members are like that, so I suggest you don't assume all hosts are the same just because you've been hurt.
The latest gem she received was from a guy she's never even had in video. It just said 'I come to your country and pay you $1000 to have sex. If no, don't worry there are plenty of other girls here who will.' (paraphrased to make the English a little better!) You sure guys aren't stupid?
"Guys aren't stupid" - Don't be so sure. I used to believe that my gender wasn't stupid, but my gf is a host here and some of the things I've seen members ask her makes me think otherwise.
There are guys here who ask to meet in real life within five minutes of their first ever video, others ask her to move to their country and live with them after talking for only a few minutes, many think that they can purchase anything from her with their mighty dollar. I've seen a lot of very stupid and incredibly rude behaviour from guys here, but I don't assume that all members are like that, so I suggest you don't assume all hosts are the same just because you've been hurt.
The latest gem she received was from a guy she's never even had in video. It just said 'I come to your country and pay you $1000 to have sex. If no, don't worry there are plenty of other girls here who will.' (paraphrased to make the English a little better!) You sure guys aren't stupid?
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
Good post.
I am very close to a host who works on another site. You can readily understand why hosts might become jaded and mistrustful when you hear about the stupidity and sheer weirdness guys are capable of.
The way I think of it is that a host has to wear a mask while she is working... she is the hot girl; the desirable, sexy one; the easy, but smart one; or whatever role she plays that appeals to members.
You're not going to get the person behind that mask until you've established a lot of trust AND she decides to let you see her as she is.
This is really no different from anyone you might interact with, except the interaction is a lot more intimate and can involve a high degree of vulnerability on both sides. So that "mask" isn't going to drop easily. Perhaps the mistake a lot of guys make is that they think the mask has dropped, when it hasn't.
My two cents anyway. YMMV
I am very close to a host who works on another site. You can readily understand why hosts might become jaded and mistrustful when you hear about the stupidity and sheer weirdness guys are capable of.
The way I think of it is that a host has to wear a mask while she is working... she is the hot girl; the desirable, sexy one; the easy, but smart one; or whatever role she plays that appeals to members.
You're not going to get the person behind that mask until you've established a lot of trust AND she decides to let you see her as she is.
This is really no different from anyone you might interact with, except the interaction is a lot more intimate and can involve a high degree of vulnerability on both sides. So that "mask" isn't going to drop easily. Perhaps the mistake a lot of guys make is that they think the mask has dropped, when it hasn't.
My two cents anyway. YMMV
RE: Online Life versus Personal Life
I am a phone with video guy. Love it. And many hosts have given me their personal cell phone numbers. Frankly I think they are nuts to do it but I never keep the number and ask them in any subsequent video to give me the phone number again as I didn't save it. I have also had tons of hosts say no to the request. Which I understand and respect. I think a host giving you her number says a couple of things...some of them are a bit naive and some will do anything for a buck.
No need to complain Glam and little shy hosts
I agree that over the years, softcore hosts have been demonized in this forum. But lately the hosts members are complaining about are in not shy and IA. So why are so many softcore hosts complaining?
I personally have never complained about softcore because cc rules are very clear, softcore hosts are not required to do naked shows. They can if they choose, but are never required to do so. My issue has always been with hosts who agree to do naked shows when they sign into not shy or IA then decide they prefer to talk on and on.
So just chill softcore hosts. Most members only want a host to do what she agreed to do when she signed on as a host.
I personally have never complained about softcore because cc rules are very clear, softcore hosts are not required to do naked shows. They can if they choose, but are never required to do so. My issue has always been with hosts who agree to do naked shows when they sign into not shy or IA then decide they prefer to talk on and on.
So just chill softcore hosts. Most members only want a host to do what she agreed to do when she signed on as a host.
RE: why softcore hosts complaining?
I personally complain that some members dont understand glamour area, I tell them no nude just soft tease and they beg and insist for mooore so really the rules and what I wish dont matter for them
RE: why softcore hosts complaining?
Because it's a man (even human, I'd say) thing, to get what they can have, to make them feel better, they won something.
RE: why softcore hosts complaining?
I personally don't have many members that come looking for hardcore unless there are some hardcore hosts performing in softcore. Then they tend to think that all girls in glam category do the same. I personally think those hosts should get penalties for performing in the wrong category because it is rude to others that belong in glam. My opinion!
Mostly are guys seeking a spicy, attractive girl that doesn't have to be naked to excite them. They like to
seduce rather than sit and watch a strip show with toys etc. Those are the members that I enjoy and that is why I am in Glamour. The guys that don't understand it assume that all guys think the same and they are wrong. There are obviously plenty of softcore members to support that category and appreciate what it has to offer. Rather than blaming the girls in shy and glamour they should just avoid those categories :))
Mostly are guys seeking a spicy, attractive girl that doesn't have to be naked to excite them. They like to
seduce rather than sit and watch a strip show with toys etc. Those are the members that I enjoy and that is why I am in Glamour. The guys that don't understand it assume that all guys think the same and they are wrong. There are obviously plenty of softcore members to support that category and appreciate what it has to offer. Rather than blaming the girls in shy and glamour they should just avoid those categories :))
RE: why softcore hosts complaining?
CC cant monitoring private sessions in adult categories, how cant you understand it?! If only a member will complain to CC that girl do hardcore instead softcore, but I am pretty sure it's rare a case, as that members encourage girls to do more hot shows then it should be and hosts do it because of money.
RE: why softcore hosts complaining?
I don't care what a host does in 121 either as long as she doesn't advertise hardcore in softcore or do it in open. It makes it very confusing for members when hosts aren't in the right category. It is greedy for a host not to stay in the category that best fits what she is doing....you said it yourself...it's all about money and no conscience of how it screws things up. There is a reason for the different categories. Works best if all work within those guidelines. What don't you understand??
RE: No need to complain Glam and little shy hosts
This job is so easy and fun once you know the trick. I tried to please all members with all their ideas when I started. Some stayed in my vid for 10 mins others just 3 mins. Then I got nice members who only wanted to chat in video and all changed. Now I choose what to do or not do and I am not so worried they will not come back because I have my regulars that like me for who i am not for a sex show.
RE: No need to complain Glam and little shy hosts
Exactly. the hosts who try so hard to please everyone, wearing themselves out for guys wanting this or that, they just exhaust themselves for no reason. Do what you want, be yourself (for the most part) and you'll find guys who enjoy it and come back again and again. That equals $$ too.
RE: No need to complain Glam and little shy hosts
What I see is there are different categories for different activities. As long as the hosts are in the right category for what they do there should be minimal misunderstandings because the categories were intended so that members can find you easily for what their preference is. Some get lost and expect IA in softcore etc. but for the most part it all works if hosts stay in the right category.
Lately the complaint from members has been that the hosts in hardcore are acting like they are softcore hosts which is totally against the rules. Funny but instead of just following the rules then they move to softcore and preform hardcore there.....too funny how they think. That's when it all get's confusing...
Lately the complaint from members has been that the hosts in hardcore are acting like they are softcore hosts which is totally against the rules. Funny but instead of just following the rules then they move to softcore and preform hardcore there.....too funny how they think. That's when it all get's confusing...
RE: No need to complain Glam and little shy hosts
it is funny I look in little shy category as whose online and I see besides hosts' names,....i am wet and ready to f..k, or they showing thier naked ass in the air, or saying I will do what ever you want.
Well sorry ladies but your in wrong category, sort of thing is not being shy nor is it appealing to a member who is looking for a shy female.
When a member wants a shy host and sees that not only is it unappealing, but it takes away from any mystery and any enjoyment of being with a shy host.
Why do you hosts do such things, if you gonna say I ready to f..k or I am wet and ready to fill every hole and do all you ask. that is misleading. Unless you are trying to take over the whole site.
So please ladies, do not be in little shy category and advertise that you will fill every hole you have or that you are horny and ready f..k ....just go to either instant action or not so shy category. let members have the enjoyment of finding out what a shy host will do.
No wonder there is soooo much frustration and negative posts on here, and no wonder members go to shy and glamour demanding to see pussy, fingering and all sorts of things, because of you hosts who claim to be shy yet you advertise things that do not make you shy at all.
To the ladies who do belong in shy category, I appreciate you, to the ladies who do not belong in shy category, move to the right category (instant action or not so shy).
keep up that good work ladies that belong in shy and glamor categories..
Well sorry ladies but your in wrong category, sort of thing is not being shy nor is it appealing to a member who is looking for a shy female.
When a member wants a shy host and sees that not only is it unappealing, but it takes away from any mystery and any enjoyment of being with a shy host.
Why do you hosts do such things, if you gonna say I ready to f..k or I am wet and ready to fill every hole and do all you ask. that is misleading. Unless you are trying to take over the whole site.
So please ladies, do not be in little shy category and advertise that you will fill every hole you have or that you are horny and ready f..k ....just go to either instant action or not so shy category. let members have the enjoyment of finding out what a shy host will do.
No wonder there is soooo much frustration and negative posts on here, and no wonder members go to shy and glamour demanding to see pussy, fingering and all sorts of things, because of you hosts who claim to be shy yet you advertise things that do not make you shy at all.
To the ladies who do belong in shy category, I appreciate you, to the ladies who do not belong in shy category, move to the right category (instant action or not so shy).
keep up that good work ladies that belong in shy and glamor categories..
Are hosts greedy?
I have to say no. They charge whatever the market will bear. Its called the FREE market. All prices are clearly marked. There is fierce competition in this business. If you don't like a price, shop around. Its really that simple.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Just because the market will allow something doesn't make it fair. According to your logic you're only greedy if you don't succeed, which is wrong.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Natural doesn't equal fair. People act 'naturally' and still lie, steal, murder, etc. You're saying do whatever you feel like doing. That's no way to have a fair and balanced system. I'm not really talking about camming in particular, but what you say about free trade etc. isn't entirely sound, and has already been shown by nobel winners and others that it isn't a good system for the world to work under.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
And yet other Nobel economists have argued that a free market is the most fair.
You do understand that there isn't just one, sweeping, centrally organized global economy, don't you? Nations compete as much as they trade with one another. Some nations intentionally keep their systems less "fair" in exchange for more economic power, whereas other nations pine for a sense of fairness and so enact regulations that only diminish their economies.
Competition is good. it begets innovation, efficiency, wealth. Misguidedly constrained for some nebulous, undefinable sense of "fairness" and all you're left with is stagnation and a fairly shared misery.
You do understand that there isn't just one, sweeping, centrally organized global economy, don't you? Nations compete as much as they trade with one another. Some nations intentionally keep their systems less "fair" in exchange for more economic power, whereas other nations pine for a sense of fairness and so enact regulations that only diminish their economies.
Competition is good. it begets innovation, efficiency, wealth. Misguidedly constrained for some nebulous, undefinable sense of "fairness" and all you're left with is stagnation and a fairly shared misery.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
It creates inequality. it begets wealth for one person while creating poverty for another. Every dollar you have is a dollar someone else doesn't have. If we turn everything into a competition, that inherently means there are losers. This must be great for those who win, but it's not the best way. I'm sure all the child labor factories, crooked politicians, crooked/ exorbitantly wealthy ceo's and anyone else taking advantage of the system love it. Does it not bother for one second that you can live the life the way you can because they pay the people at the bottom next to nothing to make it? We just take advantage of the smallest person, that's how it's always been done in the name of 'fair market'. We buy our clothes and eat our food so easily with the money we 'earned' because someone else got paid next to nothing to grow/pick/make etc. it.
Who cares, i don't wanna pay more for my shoes just so some kid on the other side of the world has a better life, forget that, right?
Who cares, i don't wanna pay more for my shoes just so some kid on the other side of the world has a better life, forget that, right?
RE: Are hosts greedy?
That would be the greedy manufacturers that are responsible for that so that they can make a larger profit. People buying Nike for example pay huge bucks for the brand and they labor it out to poverty countries. As a consumer do you think we should boycot all products from major brands? I hate calling customer service for any of them...they are all in India. The fact is that we as consumers still pay the high prices and it is the manufactures that are greedy.
I don't understand how it could be compared to the hosts here. There are hosts from around the world that can make enough money at .50 and she considers that good. The cost of living is also very low where she is from. The price you pay often with those hosts is that their english is minimal or they work with a studio that makes her deceive members.
I don't understand how it could be compared to the hosts here. There are hosts from around the world that can make enough money at .50 and she considers that good. The cost of living is also very low where she is from. The price you pay often with those hosts is that their english is minimal or they work with a studio that makes her deceive members.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
I wasn't specifically targeting the hosts with that last post, just more to the other responds i had pertaining to free market theory. And i don't buy anything Nike, (you'd think with all the child labor they wouldn't be so expensive lol) We're gonna run out of third world countries to exploit someday...
I know models will charge what they can get, but i wish people wouldn't pretend they're aren't getting a good deal out of this job. If it wasn't more pay for easier work, well they wouldn't be here, they'd be doing something else. Where as when i and others look at the end of month or year how much we end up spending here, it's surprising sometimes how it adds up.
There are certain hosts who i'm really referring too, not models as a whole. Those who act like we should be grateful and eternally in their debt for letting us pay them to spend time on cam with us. That's what irks me.
I know models will charge what they can get, but i wish people wouldn't pretend they're aren't getting a good deal out of this job. If it wasn't more pay for easier work, well they wouldn't be here, they'd be doing something else. Where as when i and others look at the end of month or year how much we end up spending here, it's surprising sometimes how it adds up.
There are certain hosts who i'm really referring too, not models as a whole. Those who act like we should be grateful and eternally in their debt for letting us pay them to spend time on cam with us. That's what irks me.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Life creates inequality. Nature creates inequality. Basic human emotions such as greed, fear, jealousy, pride - those create inequality. Inequality is fundamental to the world we live in. And Wealth is not a zero-sum game. Because one person is able to make money from his labor does not mean that another person is somehow conversely and necessarily limited in his own ability to produce wealth. My dollars or those of anyone else are not some commodity of fixed amount and permanent value. Money supplies are expanded and contracted, the value of currencies are manipulated toward larger macroeconomic ends, and if the taken-advantage-of really knew how much those politicians who contend that markets should only be "fair" are really screwing over them and their longer term economic interests, I can't imagine they'd have much hope for their future. I'm sorry, but political/economic systems that purport to make things fair for everyone only eventually make everyone despondent and content with doing as little as possible because doing anything more becomes fruitless.
I completely understand your want for everyone to be happy and equal and free to live a life of riding merry-go-rounds and petting puppies and never ever wanting for anything more than they already have - to live in that kind of world would be totally awesome. But that's not life, my friend. I applaud you though for always buying fair-trade and eating organic and being a strict vegan and thinking only positive thoughts. I imagine that that's a pretty difficult way to live. But who knows, maybe someday you really can can spur some kind of peaceful revolution by living your life as such a shining example of how we all should be living - wouldn't that be great?
I completely understand your want for everyone to be happy and equal and free to live a life of riding merry-go-rounds and petting puppies and never ever wanting for anything more than they already have - to live in that kind of world would be totally awesome. But that's not life, my friend. I applaud you though for always buying fair-trade and eating organic and being a strict vegan and thinking only positive thoughts. I imagine that that's a pretty difficult way to live. But who knows, maybe someday you really can can spur some kind of peaceful revolution by living your life as such a shining example of how we all should be living - wouldn't that be great?
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Just because someone does make money DOES take money from someone else though. Say i have a store, i make my money from it, and tn another store opens up down the street. Now i'm splitting the business that goes through that street between us, any money he makes is money that would've gone to my store. Now he's free to do that, i'm just saying that money isn't limitless, and any money spent at one place is money spent there instead of another. Ofcourse i have a family to feed and i can't afford their clothes and food with half the business i'm used to doing. If we trust any fair 'natural' system, it's acceptable for my family to just die out, it's natural right? We're trying to live humanely, and to do so means we cannot act animalistic and selfish which is what a fair trade free system is designed on. It's just an economic 'survival of the fittest' which doesn't work in a society. Just letting the less successful die off isn't acceptable.
Also, not meaning to come off angry or anything, it's just really interesting to talk about such things, i've actually rather enjoyed arguing lol.
Also, not meaning to come off angry or anything, it's just really interesting to talk about such things, i've actually rather enjoyed arguing lol.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Walmart coming in and driving local businesses out of business is a perfect example of what i'm talking about in that last post.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Who said life is fair? You are going a whole different direction with the original post. It was about prices and girls setting them at what they feel they can get....period!
RE: Are hosts greedy?
The market is a mechanism to evaluate the fairness of a price. What else is there? Your "sense" of what you ought to pay? That is bound to be different from what a host thinks you ought to pay. Then you negotiate.
That is called the market.
There is no camcontacts corporation dictating what price you pay here. Besides, the services being provided here are luxury services... not necessities! Hello?
There is no God-given right to wank.
Only God-given abilities... :))))))))
That is called the market.
There is no camcontacts corporation dictating what price you pay here. Besides, the services being provided here are luxury services... not necessities! Hello?
There is no God-given right to wank.
Only God-given abilities... :))))))))
RE: Are hosts greedy?
He says you charge what the market will bear, meaning you charge what you can get away with charging, so if you are too greedy and charge too much you won't get away with it because you've priced yourself too high.
That's what I meant by in his logic you're only greedy if you fail because you priced yourself too much and no one's buying. But you can be greedy and still find people to pay. Girls here charge per hour what others like psychiatrists for example might charge.
I'm not saying you shouldn't be allowed to work here and make money, and some may not have as much luck as others, but you have to admit the potential for money here is way more than 'fair' compared to many other jobs. If it wasn't i expect you wouldn't be working here and would be doing another job that didn't pay as well. But you are working here, and it's because of that potential to make more money than other jobs.
I'm fine with it, just don't pretend you aren't overpaid for it.
That's what I meant by in his logic you're only greedy if you fail because you priced yourself too much and no one's buying. But you can be greedy and still find people to pay. Girls here charge per hour what others like psychiatrists for example might charge.
I'm not saying you shouldn't be allowed to work here and make money, and some may not have as much luck as others, but you have to admit the potential for money here is way more than 'fair' compared to many other jobs. If it wasn't i expect you wouldn't be working here and would be doing another job that didn't pay as well. But you are working here, and it's because of that potential to make more money than other jobs.
I'm fine with it, just don't pretend you aren't overpaid for it.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
I think that you are thinking if a hosts is busy the entire hour. Geez yes then that would be in comparison to a professionls income. It simply isn't the case though. A better comparison might be like a sales person that works on commission. Some days are great and other days are nothing. There are slow times and busy. Which averages a lot lower income than you imagining. If a girl makes $3000 a month here that is still only $36k a year. Most girls that make that much put in full time hours for that and some put in full time hours and don't make half of that. I also don't believe it is luck...it is about what you put into it. Even the ones that are making 36k a year have an investment of time and expenses. Meaning the gym, clothes, shoes, lingerie, make-up, hair etc.
I think it is funny that members make it sound like it is so much money that hosts get. So many of the hosts here are also very educated and even the ones that are not could make better in a 9-5 job. That is reality!
This is a luxury for members and yet it is a job for hosts.
Hardly greedy!
I think it is funny that members make it sound like it is so much money that hosts get. So many of the hosts here are also very educated and even the ones that are not could make better in a 9-5 job. That is reality!
This is a luxury for members and yet it is a job for hosts.
Hardly greedy!
RE: Are hosts greedy?
The average yearly income in the world issomething around 5 thousand. 36K sounds pretty good, it's more than i make anyways.... And once again, even if they are not as successful as other models, that doesn't make the work they're doing any harder.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
i just don't get what the subject of yearly income levels across the entire world has to do with anything. it's not like you can compare the cost of living in a place like moscow with some hell hole like mogadishu.
it only makes sense that a woman should get whatever she can earn here. to say that she's overpaid or greedy rings to me only as pettiness and jealousy.
it only makes sense that a woman should get whatever she can earn here. to say that she's overpaid or greedy rings to me only as pettiness and jealousy.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Because the host said she makes ONLY 36,000 which is perfectly fine money, worlds better than many many people. And no it's not petty to say someone is overpaid. Is it petty to say lawyers are overpaid? No. The point isn't that they are overpaid, it's that most hosts pretend they get paid next to nothing. 36,000 is damn good money, especially for this job. As hard as putting u with jerks (which is their own fault for not telling them to go away and finding the nice guys) I'd be perfectly willing to work in my home and deal with them for that kind of money.
Like another said, they make more than a day's minimum wage shift in a day at most places in 30 minutes, and that's conservative. Are you telling me you can spend several hours here and only get less than 30 minutes of pvt? There's no way that's the norm.
The issue was is it greedy, but it turned into them saying it's hard and not well paying, which is not true.
Like another said, they make more than a day's minimum wage shift in a day at most places in 30 minutes, and that's conservative. Are you telling me you can spend several hours here and only get less than 30 minutes of pvt? There's no way that's the norm.
The issue was is it greedy, but it turned into them saying it's hard and not well paying, which is not true.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
The only places I see greed here is when hosts take on more than they can do well. They can charge whatever price others are willing to pay for their services (which vary with hosts) but to have so many rooms open so that they can earn big $$ and not focus on being the best they can to each member that comes in is just pure GREED!
What they don't realize is that greed can be easily detected by others in any industry and if the price and the services are not acceptable then others have the choice of going else where and it can totally back fire on them. Especially in a service industry :))
Not sure why you brought up this subject but in general I agree with you.
What they don't realize is that greed can be easily detected by others in any industry and if the price and the services are not acceptable then others have the choice of going else where and it can totally back fire on them. Especially in a service industry :))
Not sure why you brought up this subject but in general I agree with you.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
If you are able to handle it from the members perspective then there isn't a problem. Too often there are complaints about hosts ignoring or be distracted by others in video. If you're not one of them then of course that would not refer to you.
Not all can do it well and who knows maybe the members have a different perspective than yours if you handle it well.
Not all can do it well and who knows maybe the members have a different perspective than yours if you handle it well.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
loool yes... managing several rooms at once can be done well, and I would have no objection to how you handle your time. It's your business, after all!
I think what happens, in the example I mentioned in the other forum, the host works too many hours and juggles too many members from too many sites, all at once. All in an effort to maximize income, but at the price of alienating many of her members here (as is obvious, from the comments).
I don't know who you are, but you probably rock... loool.
I think what happens, in the example I mentioned in the other forum, the host works too many hours and juggles too many members from too many sites, all at once. All in an effort to maximize income, but at the price of alienating many of her members here (as is obvious, from the comments).
I don't know who you are, but you probably rock... loool.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
You like the phrase FREE market and you really wanted to somehow use it in a post.
Well done. Mission Accomplished.
Well done. Mission Accomplished.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Considering i know a lot of hosts who take 2,3, or 4 trips to other countries a year, for a couple weeks at a time, i'd say they're paid VERY well for their time. Greedy? That's an opinion, you can't blame them for getting the most they can. But I agree to think this job doesn't pay well is kind of silly. I mean, just having a member spend 10 minutes in pvt is already better paid than minimum wage.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
Hosts are here to make money. They will do anything to get you into a video, stay in a video and keep you coming back for more. This is a tough place to work. Lots of competition and the economy doesn't help. If greed is working hard then yes we have greedy hosts. If greed is scamming then yes we have some greedy hosts. If greedy is trying to make money and get ahead in life then I would suggest most members are greedy too...how else could they afford to come here?
RE: Are hosts greedy?
It's true, greed is normal today, but all the people pretending it's not greed should wake up. Living in a fair world like the op says doesn't mean it's not greedy too.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
what constitutes fair? what constitutes greed? are the fine people who run camcontacts greedy for taking their share of a high per minute fee? if you think so why are you a customer here? why are you contributing to the perpetuation of a system that's so unfair and inspires so much greed? or are you here just to evangelize some dopey kind of collectivist idiocy?
sorry, but there seem a very unrealistic if not utterly stupid line of thinking going on in this thread.
sorry, but there seem a very unrealistic if not utterly stupid line of thinking going on in this thread.
RE: Are hosts greedy?
The guy that seems to be doing all the talking does seem like an ass LOL, but he's atleast half right. I know i'm gonna get every dollar i can for what i do, not just what I think is fair amount. I'll take all i can get lol. Hosts aren't money grabbing rich girls either though, it's not as easy as he thinks, but if i were an attractive woman i'd give it a shot (or a half decent guy lol). Would've probably beat the hell out of some of my first jobs.
RE: Thanking
"I personally want to thank to all my members( pervs and the sweet guys alltogether) "
Wow, you get pervs in your pvt? And do you tell the pervs to go to hell or IA or both?
Wow, you get pervs in your pvt? And do you tell the pervs to go to hell or IA or both?
RE: Thanking
All guys that come here are pervs they just have different attitudes. I like the less agressive ones in Glam :) I am also a different host than started the thread!
RE: Thanking
"I like the less agressive ones in Glam :) I"
Translation; the members that only want to chat in 1 2 1
Translation; the members that only want to chat in 1 2 1
RE: Thanking
Very sarcastic and absolutely not true. I was referring to the "pervs" that come in and say get naked, show ass, etc.
Dang I didn't think that would be so hard to figure out that I would have to explain but then I wasn't expecting someone to come here with a sarcastic remark that had nothing to do with the original comment.
Dang I didn't think that would be so hard to figure out that I would have to explain but then I wasn't expecting someone to come here with a sarcastic remark that had nothing to do with the original comment.
RE: Thanking
Its not sarcastic and it is true. Just admit the truth. Even the Bible says "The truth will set you free"
RE: Thanking
I agree with that I think CC is a great site and for the most part it is a great place for hosts and members alike. I think that they are very fair in their % that they take from hosts income for the opportunity to be here and in turn for the most part again it keeps prices down for the members. I love the great selection of categories that it provides to the hosts and and if all use it properly then it makes it easy for the member to find what he is looking for.
It seems like most of the complaints come from people not staying in the right category and following the guidelines for the expectations that are defined. CC doesn't police the site so that can be good and bad but overall their expectations are that if you are over 18 and mature then you can read and follow the rules and guidelines. The ones that don't respect that are the ones that cause the majority of the problems....
I enjoy the members that I meet here and I respect the design and the plan that CC offers :))
It seems like most of the complaints come from people not staying in the right category and following the guidelines for the expectations that are defined. CC doesn't police the site so that can be good and bad but overall their expectations are that if you are over 18 and mature then you can read and follow the rules and guidelines. The ones that don't respect that are the ones that cause the majority of the problems....
I enjoy the members that I meet here and I respect the design and the plan that CC offers :))
RE: Thanking
"I love the great selection of categories that it provides to the hosts and and if all use it properly then it makes it easy for the member to find what he is looking for. "
Therein lies the problem. There is much confusion in the categories. And it starts with the hosts being in the wrong categories.
Therein lies the problem. There is much confusion in the categories. And it starts with the hosts being in the wrong categories.
RE: Thanking
I so agree and it chaps my hide because they don't care that it causes comfusion if they benefit some way!!
RE: Thanking
Very well put, you sound like the type of model i'd love to know. It's nice to hear some 'customer appreciation' lol We appreciate you for what you do too. :)
RE: Manners
"I'm in one of those "I don't know if I want to undress, but I'd gladly chat with you" categories"
Lately, that can be any category on site, as many hosts make up their own rules and ignore the rules set forth by cc.
Lately, that can be any category on site, as many hosts make up their own rules and ignore the rules set forth by cc.
RE: Manners
There's a cure to that: write to CC.
I'm really not the best placed to judge what the other girls do, but if I don't get what I want (in other places than CC), I complain, if I wasted my money and time, on top of that.
Customer service seems to be rather good here :)
I'm really not the best placed to judge what the other girls do, but if I don't get what I want (in other places than CC), I complain, if I wasted my money and time, on top of that.
Customer service seems to be rather good here :)
RE: Manners
First I do not understand how 1 member can see what a another member is typing to you or was it voice that they could hear?
The part that surprises me is how many girls call themselves sluts here in their profiles! Usually in hardcore but some drift into softcore too. That sends a message in itself. So are those the hosts that complain here about the rudeness of members? I wonder sometimes because I see it often in hardcore.
It has been rare that I have heard that in my room but I also don't ellude to anything close to that in my profile. If it does happen why not communicate with them that I am a lady and I don't appreciate being called that. Yes there are ladies here too that enjoy teasing and playing and nudity. I think some girls over react and take it very personal where others enjoy it. Wish the girls complaining would identify their category and name so all could figure it out. If one girls is getting it often then I wonder what is in her profile that might attract that or if she is in hardcore and other girls are referencing to it a lot.
The part that surprises me is how many girls call themselves sluts here in their profiles! Usually in hardcore but some drift into softcore too. That sends a message in itself. So are those the hosts that complain here about the rudeness of members? I wonder sometimes because I see it often in hardcore.
It has been rare that I have heard that in my room but I also don't ellude to anything close to that in my profile. If it does happen why not communicate with them that I am a lady and I don't appreciate being called that. Yes there are ladies here too that enjoy teasing and playing and nudity. I think some girls over react and take it very personal where others enjoy it. Wish the girls complaining would identify their category and name so all could figure it out. If one girls is getting it often then I wonder what is in her profile that might attract that or if she is in hardcore and other girls are referencing to it a lot.
RE: Manners
Just like the hosts the member has the option to chat in open (so all can see it) or chat privately to the host.
RE: Manners
Aaahhhh I see. I wish more of my members would do that so they could see how many I am trying to keep up with at once.
RE: Manners
If I were a host here I wouldn't take crap from any member. Just because its a sexy site doesn't mean good manners should not be required. If you are not a gentleman here, you won't be a gentleman anywhere else either.
RE: Manners
As you see from some answers, some members consider they are paying and they can order their fast sex as they order their Big Mac, and the dish they order should be conform to the menu (of categories), that's it!
Some others do think there is always a person who has own personality and who deserves some respect, and usually the quality of services they get is more enjoyable.
There are all kinds of tastes (fast food or gastronomy), all kinds of educations and cultural backgrounds, I admire you hosts for being able to deal with such a variety of guys and keep smiling whatever you might feel inside. Hopefully a majority of your guests comply with your profile
Some others do think there is always a person who has own personality and who deserves some respect, and usually the quality of services they get is more enjoyable.
There are all kinds of tastes (fast food or gastronomy), all kinds of educations and cultural backgrounds, I admire you hosts for being able to deal with such a variety of guys and keep smiling whatever you might feel inside. Hopefully a majority of your guests comply with your profile
RE: Manners
" Hopefully a majority of your guests comply with your profile"
I agree and hopefully hosts will comply with their written profile and the category requirements they agreed to.
I agree and hopefully hosts will comply with their written profile and the category requirements they agreed to.
RE: Manners
Even getting a Big Mac can take more than 3 minutes :D depends on who's in charge ;)
Some of us put up with what we get, some don't. I was always taught that respect has to be mutual; I don't get any respect, the other person won't get it either from me. I may overreact it at times, but at least I admit it and I'm the first to say that I have a lousy character. But as long as I am not given a reason to be pissed off, I will stay nice and play nice :)
Some of us put up with what we get, some don't. I was always taught that respect has to be mutual; I don't get any respect, the other person won't get it either from me. I may overreact it at times, but at least I admit it and I'm the first to say that I have a lousy character. But as long as I am not given a reason to be pissed off, I will stay nice and play nice :)
RE: Manners
"usually these guys after talking about dirty sluts, c*nts etc. say "thank u good bye""
That's me :D
That's me :D
RE: Manners
I tried to do the same as well, at the begining. I found out I'm less willing to do things if they treat me as a "sexual server" as a member called us.
I try to use humour with guys like that and if they continue to be nasty, I won't even care about my rating, I'll just be happy to get rid of specimens like that.
I guess we grow and change a lot while being here.
I try to use humour with guys like that and if they continue to be nasty, I won't even care about my rating, I'll just be happy to get rid of specimens like that.
I guess we grow and change a lot while being here.
RE: Manners
members complain about how hosts are rude and have no manners, yet they do the same to a host and expect the host to be all smiles and aroused and such.
well if members dont like when hosts are rude and have no manners towards them, how in the world can they expect hosts to like it.
Just because the member is paying does not mean he has the right to be this way.
We all know that if it where to go to a members place of employment and talk to them the way they talk to us they would not like it, and if we were to say well we paying so we can say what we want when we want, they still would not like it, and they would not want to deal with us.
Please guys just because it a sex site and you are paying does not mean that we do not deserve to be treated with a little respect.
Just my two cents worth...Be well everyone and have fun....
well if members dont like when hosts are rude and have no manners towards them, how in the world can they expect hosts to like it.
Just because the member is paying does not mean he has the right to be this way.
We all know that if it where to go to a members place of employment and talk to them the way they talk to us they would not like it, and if we were to say well we paying so we can say what we want when we want, they still would not like it, and they would not want to deal with us.
Please guys just because it a sex site and you are paying does not mean that we do not deserve to be treated with a little respect.
Just my two cents worth...Be well everyone and have fun....
RE: Manners ~ T
I guess it all depends on your upbringing and experience. Courtesy costs nothing so it is not like there is any reason not to show it, but a guy who has never been told what he says is rude, uncouth or unwanted will go right ahead and behave that way to every girl he meets.
I suspect that that sort of behaviour begins with young inexperienced hosts to whom English is not their first language. It is amazing how many insults you can suffer when you don't really know what they are nor can respond to them correctly. But as their grasp of English improves they begin to appreciate a politer more creative and over all more pleasant manner. Women do loved to be wooed despite their protestations to the contrary ;)
Manners maketh the man they say. I wonder how many real men there are on CC as opposed to just rude boys?
TNTAGWAGM
I suspect that that sort of behaviour begins with young inexperienced hosts to whom English is not their first language. It is amazing how many insults you can suffer when you don't really know what they are nor can respond to them correctly. But as their grasp of English improves they begin to appreciate a politer more creative and over all more pleasant manner. Women do loved to be wooed despite their protestations to the contrary ;)
Manners maketh the man they say. I wonder how many real men there are on CC as opposed to just rude boys?
TNTAGWAGM
RE: Manners
On another site with free chat, where all the members can see the dialog as it happens, often a rude guy will be chastised by other members or even ridiculed out of the room. Perhaps that's even one advantage of a free chat situation. It gives us white knight types a place to vent :))))
I guess the whole "hi slut" thing can be funny, but too often it's someone's private joke. It's a huge turn off for me, and if it is not handled well, I leave the room, 'cause I don't need to lose my mood over some asshole.
Anyway, for a new host: a hello... some civil chatting, inquiries about privates, all the while mindful to not waste too much of a host's time but be satisfied about my own expectations. I think at minimum this is what you should expect (and I hope usually what you get).
I guess the whole "hi slut" thing can be funny, but too often it's someone's private joke. It's a huge turn off for me, and if it is not handled well, I leave the room, 'cause I don't need to lose my mood over some asshole.
Anyway, for a new host: a hello... some civil chatting, inquiries about privates, all the while mindful to not waste too much of a host's time but be satisfied about my own expectations. I think at minimum this is what you should expect (and I hope usually what you get).
RE: Manners
I agree...hosts deserve respect. But...the rude members line in profiles is also to tell members not to expect them to strip at the command of the member when in video....I know. Several hosts after a few minutes in video will respond...you are being rude....if you ask the host to strip....they would, naturally, prefer you to stay in the video for a long time before the strip...they know fully well it is a matter of minutes between them stripping and you popping your cork. So rudeness is not cool...but if the host defines it to keep you in video...that's not so cool either.
RE: Question to members
for a small percentage of men, it's a fetish and they are wild about it. for the rest it's a huge turnoff...
RE: Question to members
i wouldn't say its a fetish. A pregnant woman is just natuarlly beautiful. The shape of a pregnant womans body is just purely beautiful and you looked amazing pregnant
RE: mostly to members
I know and expect girls to be here to make $. Why else be here? It is a job. You can enjoy your job, but you get paid, so it is a job. My problem is with hosts that say they do this for fun.
RE: mostly to members
I doubt the people at the pizza cafe love their job. They're probably thinking 'i hate this, why am i here. Here's another stupid customer.'
RE: mostly to members
Sorry that you have a problem with that.....if it wasn't fun then I wouldn't do it!!! Presuming that you don't know every host on here and what she personally gets from it, perhaps keeping your mind open would be my advice. It is not such a horrible thing for all girls to work here. I personally enjoy the interaction and attention as many girls do. It definitely can be a self esteem builder when you consider all the compliments that we receive. I can be bored to death with my day and hop on here and laugh and have a great time. It is fun to flirt and tease and try new sexy moves. Before this I never practiced on a very sensual sexy strip :)
When I am done playing on here and see what I made it is awesome but I don't think about money while I am having the fun and its not usually why I decide to come on. I am sure for some girls it is all about the money but not all my friend!
When I am done playing on here and see what I made it is awesome but I don't think about money while I am having the fun and its not usually why I decide to come on. I am sure for some girls it is all about the money but not all my friend!
RE: mostly to members
Totally agree girl! When you keep the two separate it is best. Meaning CC and your personal life because it allows us to be good at what we do, which is excite men from all over the world and strangers and keep our personal lives safe and anonymous like they are entitled to as well. I think sometimes guys don't realize how many people we come in contact with and how out of control it could get. Especially since it is a common request. They certainly wouldn't consider giving out their personal emails and phone #'s to all their customers they work with....so why should we even if it is not all about the money. Keep it fun and on CC! :))
RE: mostly to members
i totally agree and as a long term member i have to repeat myself.
no real feelings. you sell yourself and your body and you should use the security and clean safe rules which camcontacts provides to protect your privacy. i also buy escorts sometimes and they stay anonymous if they are real professional whores. i buy and use her body and not the person. we all know it. they work to sexually please and satisfy more or less strangers and that can be dangerous.
the job is just the same as here. sexual satisfaction vs money.
obviously being used by men is ok for you but be careful that this is not the same as being abused! try to keep your dignity at least a little bit. you are more than just a piece of meat or a weak female whore! you are a professional and also deserve respect for your services. ask for this! i also respect my escorts. i thank them and everyone gets what they want. so give only what you are willing to give and serve your customers to please them as they want it.
and so use this perfect platform called camcontacts for your anonymity. use the regional blocking and serve your customers. i am happy that openhearted girls like you in here exist for people in a situation like me. be proud! not everyone can take this step and do what you are doing! you are doing a great job. my credit card can tell!
j
no real feelings. you sell yourself and your body and you should use the security and clean safe rules which camcontacts provides to protect your privacy. i also buy escorts sometimes and they stay anonymous if they are real professional whores. i buy and use her body and not the person. we all know it. they work to sexually please and satisfy more or less strangers and that can be dangerous.
the job is just the same as here. sexual satisfaction vs money.
obviously being used by men is ok for you but be careful that this is not the same as being abused! try to keep your dignity at least a little bit. you are more than just a piece of meat or a weak female whore! you are a professional and also deserve respect for your services. ask for this! i also respect my escorts. i thank them and everyone gets what they want. so give only what you are willing to give and serve your customers to please them as they want it.
and so use this perfect platform called camcontacts for your anonymity. use the regional blocking and serve your customers. i am happy that openhearted girls like you in here exist for people in a situation like me. be proud! not everyone can take this step and do what you are doing! you are doing a great job. my credit card can tell!
j
RE: mostly to members
Thank you that was a nice post!
I will assure you that I do not do anything more than I can feel comfortable with here. I do not berate myself because I keep it clean and fun and put my safety #1.
I appreciate your comment to the girls that can't find peace in what they do here!
Hugs :))
I will assure you that I do not do anything more than I can feel comfortable with here. I do not berate myself because I keep it clean and fun and put my safety #1.
I appreciate your comment to the girls that can't find peace in what they do here!
Hugs :))
RE: mostly to members
My problem is that many hosts don't appreciate the members paying them. You have maybe the easiest job in the world, are VERY well paid for sitting, talking, or masturbating, something you do anyway. While we have real jobs. This isn't a real job, so save the replies. The hosts i visit aren't like this, and when i meet one that is, well that's it, i move on. I enjoying our time and don't mind helping them out with a little money. But don't act like you're doing us a favor or anything by letting us pay you too much. It's insulting.
RE: mostly to members
I know spanish, not fluent, enough to get by, and i'm learning french and german in my free time. I'm in okay shape, not ugly or anything. Like i said, the hosts i visit are fine, but many are so arrogant, like they're doing us a favor by allowing us to pay them what works out to something like 150-200 dollars an hour. In what world is that not well paid. Like i said, that doesn't apply to everyone, so quit acting like it does, not everyone is the same. I never once said all hosts are like this. I specifically said the hosts who act like this are the ones i'm talking about.
And this job is ridiculously easy, anyone who says different is completely insane.
And this job is ridiculously easy, anyone who says different is completely insane.
RE: mostly to members
I honestly dare you to come here and show me how easy it is for you to make money!! There are male hosts here as well and some do very well I understand. Would love to hear how your days went not only finacially but what kind of experiences you had with members that joined your room. I am sure you would get a few like you...haha.
In your first post it did sound very general about hosts and not specifically to one group of arrogant hosts that make $150-200 and hour. In fact I think your facts are not from this site at all. I don't believe there is one girl here that makes that kind of money or even close with the exception of during contests and certain hosts come here for those only.
It is very easy for anyone to sit back and belittle someone elses job until you actually do it yourself! I dare you!!
In your first post it did sound very general about hosts and not specifically to one group of arrogant hosts that make $150-200 and hour. In fact I think your facts are not from this site at all. I don't believe there is one girl here that makes that kind of money or even close with the exception of during contests and certain hosts come here for those only.
It is very easy for anyone to sit back and belittle someone elses job until you actually do it yourself! I dare you!!
RE: mostly to members
Many make that kind of money, many members here can verify that there are girls who they almost never see sitting in text chat open without a pvt.
RE: mostly to members
So what if they are hardly in private...that isn't me. So what if there are ones in private often...they don't make that much! That is quite an assumption and also getting away from the point of the first message.
RE: mostly to members
Not making money doesn't mean it is hard. Would u say u work hard but aren't making money? No, you're just not getting the pvts u need. It'd be different if u were getting pvts all the time and still not making money. This job is still easy, you're just not successful at it.
Obviously not everyone can make money here, bad personalities or ugly people could have trouble.
Obviously not everyone can make money here, bad personalities or ugly people could have trouble.
RE: mostly to members
You just get ruder by the minute!
How dare you turn it around and tell me that I am not a successful host and don't get enough privates. I do very well here and you are disillusioned by the fact that girls make that kind of money here. It simply isn't true. I think it's interesting how you always post another before yours. How would you know how much hosts make here? There is not a host that makes that kind of money consistantly here while she is online...that is bull!
How dare you turn it around and tell me that I am not a successful host and don't get enough privates. I do very well here and you are disillusioned by the fact that girls make that kind of money here. It simply isn't true. I think it's interesting how you always post another before yours. How would you know how much hosts make here? There is not a host that makes that kind of money consistantly here while she is online...that is bull!
RE: mostly to members
I know many hosts that do that kind of money, i visit a couple personally, on here i mean. You said you doubt there is ANY girl that makes the kind of money i talked about.. I didn't say every girl does, simply that many do and it is very possible.
And i know they do because we've talked about it, and i see how much business they get when they're online. I've seen it for myself, so if you don't make that much money, it would make you less successful, it's not an insult, it's true though.
Let me ask you, do you make more than 8 dollars an hour? If so, you're better off than many working in a kitchen at some fast food place all day or waiting on customers in stores.
And i know they do because we've talked about it, and i see how much business they get when they're online. I've seen it for myself, so if you don't make that much money, it would make you less successful, it's not an insult, it's true though.
Let me ask you, do you make more than 8 dollars an hour? If so, you're better off than many working in a kitchen at some fast food place all day or waiting on customers in stores.
RE: mostly to members
Well working in a studio is just a stupid idea. it's far worth buying the equipment yourself than split it with a studio. And girls get 80% from members they get to come here from other sites. So there's the money maker, regulars they brought from elsewhere. And 50 dollars an hour is still amazing.
I'm only trolling because everyone is trolling the opposite. Your average young person wanting extra work gets a job in a store or restaurant etc. This job pays more than that, yes or no? They act like they live on the street and come in for a cam show just to buy a daily meal.
I'm only trolling because everyone is trolling the opposite. Your average young person wanting extra work gets a job in a store or restaurant etc. This job pays more than that, yes or no? They act like they live on the street and come in for a cam show just to buy a daily meal.
RE: mostly to members
Yes I challenge that member to come here and use his body and sales skills to keep people paying him with his presence....he might not think the way he does now :))
Also not sure where he is coming from I don't chat about
sex all the time in my personal life or masturbate continually or take my clothes off in front of strangers! If that is his visual then he is way out there. We must be a unique group of girls that work here if that was the requirements for our personal lives....lol
Also not sure where he is coming from I don't chat about
sex all the time in my personal life or masturbate continually or take my clothes off in front of strangers! If that is his visual then he is way out there. We must be a unique group of girls that work here if that was the requirements for our personal lives....lol
RE: mostly to members
But you have masturbated before right? And you have talked about sex before right? And probably didn't charge the guy you were with, right?
I don't do what i do at work for free when i'm not at work.
Not everyone can make money here, ofcourse. But the ones that do do it easily. If you're not attractive enough is a different story.
Say i did start working here but didn't do well. That doesn't mean the job wasn't easy, just that i wasn't making much money doing it. The difficulty of a job doesn't always equate to how much money it earns. You can have a hard job, and make no money or lots of money, or have an easy job and make lots of money or no money.
I don't do what i do at work for free when i'm not at work.
Not everyone can make money here, ofcourse. But the ones that do do it easily. If you're not attractive enough is a different story.
Say i did start working here but didn't do well. That doesn't mean the job wasn't easy, just that i wasn't making much money doing it. The difficulty of a job doesn't always equate to how much money it earns. You can have a hard job, and make no money or lots of money, or have an easy job and make lots of money or no money.
RE: mostly to members
The point being that it is not an "easy" pasttime as you make it out to be. If you were to take my dare then you would quickly find out to do well here takes preparation, a certain talent, time and money. Not anyone can just jump on here and do very well. The ones that get out of bed and turn on the cam without putting effort into it usually don't do very well. It also requires some skill if you're not being a deceptive host. So say what you choose but until you take my challenge you will not know that you are wrong. This most certainly is a job for many and they support themselves through it and take it very seriously. Just like any job the ones that put a lot of effort into being their best will do well others that don't won't.
No I don't masturbate and I don't talk sexy with anyone other than my lover. Certainly not your business but it doesn't matter if I did because I would still expect for others to respect my fee for services when I come here. For you to play down what is required to do this job well is the point and others that think they should do it for free by giving their personal information (as the original post stated) are usually taking for granted that this is a job in exchange for money.
Non the less I found your post intentially degrading to play down the value that hosts should charge and not referring only to the arrogant ones. Girls charge stated fees for their services for entertaining members and that should be respected and it's non negotiable just as your job isn't.
No I don't masturbate and I don't talk sexy with anyone other than my lover. Certainly not your business but it doesn't matter if I did because I would still expect for others to respect my fee for services when I come here. For you to play down what is required to do this job well is the point and others that think they should do it for free by giving their personal information (as the original post stated) are usually taking for granted that this is a job in exchange for money.
Non the less I found your post intentially degrading to play down the value that hosts should charge and not referring only to the arrogant ones. Girls charge stated fees for their services for entertaining members and that should be respected and it's non negotiable just as your job isn't.
RE: mostly to members
You are wrong If this job wasn't easier and better paid than alternatives, than you wouldn't be doing it. Pure and simple. If it is so difficult, you're doing it wrong. Don't do anything you don't wanna do, you'll still make money. The girls i know who making VERY good money are in complete control of their pvts and don't do anything they don't wanna do.
RE: mostly to members
"I don't chat about sex all the time in my personal life or masturbate continually or take my clothes off in front of strangers!"
Just remember if I come to your video please pretend you do :P
Just remember if I come to your video please pretend you do :P
RE: mostly to members
OK just remind me that is your fantasy when you enter video :P I might forget.
RE: mostly to members
Did i say help out by getting free shows? I drop 100 dollars every few weeks or so when i can, am i jerk for not spending that every single time i see them? So i'm either spending a lot or i'm a freeloader, black and white eh? Well you don't sound like a host i'd like, so i guess we have no problem.
RE: mostly to members
The original post was about guys asking for personal messenger, etc. outside of CC to get free shows.
You answered with something about you don't mind giving them a little money....
So does that mean that you are one that comes to girls rooms and asks for her yahoo messenger cause you gave her a little money and that was enough?
The attitude of your post since this is not a job then a little money is all they derserve. Heck we masturbate, chat and take off our clothes all the time anyway in our spare time.....it's not a job!
You answered with something about you don't mind giving them a little money....
So does that mean that you are one that comes to girls rooms and asks for her yahoo messenger cause you gave her a little money and that was enough?
The attitude of your post since this is not a job then a little money is all they derserve. Heck we masturbate, chat and take off our clothes all the time anyway in our spare time.....it's not a job!
RE: mostly to members
The OP was about members saying hosts are all into money. Which i don't agree with, but is what my posts refer to. The hosts i know outside of here actually tell me i don't have to go pvt, though i still do. I have a friend i'm meeting in england in the spring i met here.
She knows she makes great money here, and doesn't mind telling the jerks that you're all complaining about from your pvts to go away and quit bothering her. And the guys that do go pvt and keep going pvt respect that she doesn't have to pretend to like them, so they value their time more.
i wouldn't want to spend time in a pvt chat with a girl who was being patient and secretly waiting for it to end. I spend it with someone i like talking to and enjoy talking about our different days and what we have in common etc.
She knows she makes great money here, and doesn't mind telling the jerks that you're all complaining about from your pvts to go away and quit bothering her. And the guys that do go pvt and keep going pvt respect that she doesn't have to pretend to like them, so they value their time more.
i wouldn't want to spend time in a pvt chat with a girl who was being patient and secretly waiting for it to end. I spend it with someone i like talking to and enjoy talking about our different days and what we have in common etc.
RE: mostly to members
You are completely right in what you say.
It seems it will always be the same.
Some guys trying to get chathosts to do for free,
saying they love them etc.
Some chathosts saying they love viewers so that
the viewers will spend more and send money to them.
What's important is that we are all aware of this and
do not let other people take advantage of us.
It seems it will always be the same.
Some guys trying to get chathosts to do for free,
saying they love them etc.
Some chathosts saying they love viewers so that
the viewers will spend more and send money to them.
What's important is that we are all aware of this and
do not let other people take advantage of us.
RE: mostly to members
it's fine. you are a professional and provide a service. but don't complain that we don't care about your problems or your sick mom, etc. or we are cheap because we don't want to spend 20 minutes chatting before you strip. i don't want to be your friend same as you don't wanna be mine. i got plenty of friends. we have a friendly business transaction and that's it. i pay my money so i can shoot my load and go on with my day. no drama, please...
RE: mostly to members
I am sorry but "we" is not really appropriate in those statements. I appreciate that is how you feel but just like hosts are all different so are guys. Perhaps a group of guys might agree with your comments but another group feels differently and has different likes.
Appreciate your two cents though :)
Appreciate your two cents though :)
Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
In most hi tech business constant change is a given. But here on this site the status quo is preferred by most hosts and by at least a fairly good amount of viewers. CC is a member of Twitter and Facebook which change by the hour it seems some times, but here at CC everything is just peach keen.
So just how does a business in the computer age stay the same while all around it is constantly changing?
So just how does a business in the computer age stay the same while all around it is constantly changing?
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
Oh no here we go again! Is this what they consider subliminal programming...lol. If so it's been proven that it is not effective.
That really isn't your question at all. You simply wrote to make an issue again that you want to see changes on CC, correct? You are one of the viewers on here that is very disturbed because CC is not implementing certain features that you would like that other sites have and in a timely manner!
So let's stop the bull! It is sarcasm.
That really isn't your question at all. You simply wrote to make an issue again that you want to see changes on CC, correct? You are one of the viewers on here that is very disturbed because CC is not implementing certain features that you would like that other sites have and in a timely manner!
So let's stop the bull! It is sarcasm.
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
" You simply wrote to make an issue again that you want to see changes on CC, correct?"
Not so. I proposed no changes. I stated the fact that hi tech is constantly changing. I also stated that most hosts did not see the need for any changes. None. And you and the other respondent proved my point. Thank you.
Not so. I proposed no changes. I stated the fact that hi tech is constantly changing. I also stated that most hosts did not see the need for any changes. None. And you and the other respondent proved my point. Thank you.
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
I merely asked the question. I gave no opinion.
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
As a long time member you must know that CC has already changed a lot over the years and I am sure will continue to do so. Few hosts I talk with are opposed to changes that take advantage of technical developments. Just because someone objects to specific changes that are proposed does not mean all hosts or members do not want any change at all. However whether changes are made should take into account the CC ethis and what makes CC different from other videochat sites.
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
Well my post was overly sarcastic, but was done to make a point. And yes there have been changes since 2000, but a lot less than than could have and should have been done in my opinion. But every time anyone suggests any changes, the post is met with an uproar from hosts opposing any change at all.
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
Oh no here we go again! Is this what they consider subliminal programming...lol. If so it's been proven that it is not effective.
That really isn't your question at all. You simply wrote to make an issue again that you want to see changes on CC, correct? You are one of the viewers on here that is very disturbed because CC is not implementing certain features that you would like that other sites have and in a timely manner!
So let's stop the bull! It is sarcasm.
I guess you feel the need to lie too think we are all stupid! When are you going to realize that most are happy with CC and if they make changes I am sure they
will think it out so it is good for all.
I am relieved to not have to come to a site that is constantly having technical problems because they over implement options that overload the system and the customer service and technical dept.with the ongoing problems. One site was completely down recently for 24 hours and all you could get was an error code when trying to open the site. That isn't progress that is pure greed! The results are a lot of ticked off members and hosts that weren't able to work during that time. So in theory it might be a grand idea to add some of the things you want but along with it comes a lot of expense and crap to follow. Just enjoy CC for what it is and the cheap rates you get here!
That really isn't your question at all. You simply wrote to make an issue again that you want to see changes on CC, correct? You are one of the viewers on here that is very disturbed because CC is not implementing certain features that you would like that other sites have and in a timely manner!
So let's stop the bull! It is sarcasm.
I guess you feel the need to lie too think we are all stupid! When are you going to realize that most are happy with CC and if they make changes I am sure they
will think it out so it is good for all.
I am relieved to not have to come to a site that is constantly having technical problems because they over implement options that overload the system and the customer service and technical dept.with the ongoing problems. One site was completely down recently for 24 hours and all you could get was an error code when trying to open the site. That isn't progress that is pure greed! The results are a lot of ticked off members and hosts that weren't able to work during that time. So in theory it might be a grand idea to add some of the things you want but along with it comes a lot of expense and crap to follow. Just enjoy CC for what it is and the cheap rates you get here!
RE: Ask any host, CC is perfect now, no need for any changes
I am not sure why you felt the need to ask this question because the answer is perfectly obvious: they just keep doing what they are doing :) According to the facts you presented the majority of members and hosts are happy with the site....it works fine!
I do wonder what your motivation is though.
We get various people that come into our rooms and try and get us to join other sites. Maybe you are one of them and trying to make us think that CC is inferior. Perhaps it is also aimed at the members that come here.
Makes sense and that is why you bring it up constantly in the forum. Best for you to know that our agreement with CC is to turn in anyone that approaches us.
I do wonder what your motivation is though.
We get various people that come into our rooms and try and get us to join other sites. Maybe you are one of them and trying to make us think that CC is inferior. Perhaps it is also aimed at the members that come here.
Makes sense and that is why you bring it up constantly in the forum. Best for you to know that our agreement with CC is to turn in anyone that approaches us.
meeting member
one member want to come in my city.well he is old friend. he want to meet 3-4 girls in my city.all he say its hi hope u ok.in yahoo 1time a wekk. but he do not contact me at all more... im even do not talk about video chat. but he not mail me. not come in text.usualy if member seeking to meet a host.he is coming in video everyday before,or yahoo .but this one even not bother to say hello 1 time a day.im thinking if its worth to meet him. or he just want me for his collection?im disapointed .i like to meet friends. like to meet nice mebers. but when i see that person is not exited about this meeting its make me want do not meet..
RE: meeting member
Do as your heart wish. I also think is weird that he does not contact you anymore. Maybe he is putting more attention on someone else or maybe he is busy getting ready for the trip? I hope you can talk to him before he travels and you can see if he is still interested in you. Just keep your eyes open. Good Luck.
RE: meeting member
Don't bother, and you won't be disappointed.
If you do meet him, we'll read about you later in the viewer's forum as one of the trophies he collected on his trip (no matter what happens in that coffee shop lol).
If you do meet him, we'll read about you later in the viewer's forum as one of the trophies he collected on his trip (no matter what happens in that coffee shop lol).
RE: meeting member
Yes you are exactly right! Of course he will also add any details he chooses to make the point that coincides with the post that he is relying to and not necessarily the truth.
Don't bother meeting him and forgetaboutit!
Don't bother meeting him and forgetaboutit!
RE: meeting member
yes i decide to meet only who realy care of me.. and i better will spend evening earning money here than meet someone who are not much interested :)
RE: meeting member
I never meet members, and I advise you to work and collect money one evening than to waste your time with him, what for, to be one more easy bitch in his list?If he cared of you be sure he spent his money for you, as he afford a travel, my oppinion this is onlye a f*** trip for him, from 3-4 maybe catch one
RE: meeting member
I am surprised to hear that girls actually want to meet strangers from a sex site! I meet many nice guys here but I know nothing about what they do when they are not here and talking nice to me. Seems very risky to me and I hope you keep safe.
Curious what country you are from that you feel that it would be so safe? Also, do you meet members from here because you think it will increase the videos that they have with you? Do they bring gifts? Just wondering why you would feel comfortable with meeting them :)
It certainly doesn't sound like you want to meet him this time and so if I was you I would not consider it. Hugs and safety to you!
Curious what country you are from that you feel that it would be so safe? Also, do you meet members from here because you think it will increase the videos that they have with you? Do they bring gifts? Just wondering why you would feel comfortable with meeting them :)
It certainly doesn't sound like you want to meet him this time and so if I was you I would not consider it. Hugs and safety to you!
RE: meeting member
well if you know a guy long and trust him then meeting is ok. i meet guy was super
RE: meeting member
yes. I met a host in coffee shop that she picked. It was fun. Then she showed me around her city for the day. I bought lunch. A fun visit. No sex, just little gift for her, and she gave one to me. We still have fun on CC. If I had been a perv, she was safe. We were in public the whole time. (she knows who she is!!)
RE: meeting member
Was that "guys" that you have met or one single "guy"
I stand with that I would not meet guys from here or anywhere that I met online without talking to other people that actually know them, or a criminal background etc. You can't trust everything you hear especially when he is meeting you on a sex site...girl!
I stand with that I would not meet guys from here or anywhere that I met online without talking to other people that actually know them, or a criminal background etc. You can't trust everything you hear especially when he is meeting you on a sex site...girl!
RE: meeting member
" I would not meet guys from here or anywhere that I met online "
Then you would not meet guys you met at a "dating site", not here but a mainstream dating site?
Then you would not meet guys you met at a "dating site", not here but a mainstream dating site?
RE: meeting member
I have before in public places but I also have learned that how one perceives themselves in their explanation to someone else is totally different after I got to know them a bit. Without going into all the details I have learned that unless I want to take all the neccessary steps to find out information ahead of time then it is something I would not do again.
An example would be if you are a guy that shot his wife, obviously you are not going to be married to her any longer and everyone that knows you also knows that. So you go on a dating site and meet girls and they have no idea. That is an example that happened to me. Where else would he go to date and meet someone new? The sites don't do background checks on people! He isn't going to offer that information. Yes it happens all too often!
So my answer still stands....
An example would be if you are a guy that shot his wife, obviously you are not going to be married to her any longer and everyone that knows you also knows that. So you go on a dating site and meet girls and they have no idea. That is an example that happened to me. Where else would he go to date and meet someone new? The sites don't do background checks on people! He isn't going to offer that information. Yes it happens all too often!
So my answer still stands....
RE: meeting member
"I am surprised to hear that girls actually want to meet strangers from a sex site! I meet many nice guys here but I know nothing about what they do when they are not here and talking nice to me."
See that is why you should meet me. I am a LOT nicer in real life than I am on here :P
See that is why you should meet me. I am a LOT nicer in real life than I am on here :P
RE: meeting member
That's funny, i always wonder if i'm talking to a host too much if i do everyday. Don't want to seem clingy or always in her business or anything.
But your guy sounds bad to me. He's lining up 3 or 4 girls to meet? weird Is he trying to be romantic? or really just friends.
But your guy sounds bad to me. He's lining up 3 or 4 girls to meet? weird Is he trying to be romantic? or really just friends.
Penis Enhancement
I got a penis enhancement. Now with the implants, my testicles are 36DD
Why am I here?
Sometimes I really don't know. In my opinion it is largely a chatcentric site. And I have always been an action and visual type of mainstream pervert. But I find myself doing a lot of chatting and actually enjoying it. And no, I'm not a money slave or at least in the sense they talk about in this forum. We are all slaves to money as we all need money to live and go to cam sites, etc. I do believe if a place of business has rules, they should be adhered to by all. Otherwise why have rules in the first place? Going into pvts both here and at other sites is very, very expensive. Its a whole lot of fun, but man it costs a ton of money.
So why am I here? Well I have no clue. I hope I can figure it all out before I loose my house.
So why am I here? Well I have no clue. I hope I can figure it all out before I loose my house.
RE: Why am I here?
Everything in moderation! I agree with the other host that with any interest should come with a budget and then it takes the self discipline to stick with that budget. Not all girls charge too high in 121 and if you have some favorites that you see all the time maybe ask if she would consider working with you for the same price as open in password or something. If she really appreciates you then I think she would consider it. If not then find a lesser expensive host. There are plenty to choose from here! Just don't modify your finances to support certain hosts here especially if is as scary as losing your investment on your home!! You can't have champagne taste on a beer budget but with the wide selection on this site you can have your cake and eat it too :))
Rules for Not So Shy
In Not So Shy, I was in open video. After a few minutes, I asked the host to please get undressed. She said go into 121 first. I said no thanks. She then said she would not undress in open video. I said this was against the rules. She said it was her decision.
Who was correct?
Who was correct?
RE: Rules for Not So Shy
YOU! She needs to learn the rules for the category that she picked. Think that I would do whatever possible to wake her up! I am not a host that supports hosts that breaks the rules for their financial gain. Utilize the options available to you that CC provides which are write CC, post in forum to warn others and not return to her room so that she gets the message and quits manipulating others.
My opinion! Good Luck there are many hosts that do follow the rules!
My opinion! Good Luck there are many hosts that do follow the rules!
RE: Rules for Not So Shy
instant action, your required to be ready to strip and perform no stalling. That is cc rules.
Not so shy, your required to strip when asked to no stalling, if a member wants anything else besides stripping then the member is required to ask that host first. that is also in cc rules.
Strip hi lo card game, if host chooses to play this game, Each time the host looses a hand, she is required to remove that item of clothing not stalling. only way that will change is if it is agreed upon between the host and member before hand.
Glamour and not so shy, member and host should talk about what is wanted, and if host agrees then she should not change her mind once in video, but at same time when something is agreed upon then the member should not enter video and change and pressure for more than what was agreed to. they agree on something before video.
fun to all
Not so shy, your required to strip when asked to no stalling, if a member wants anything else besides stripping then the member is required to ask that host first. that is also in cc rules.
Strip hi lo card game, if host chooses to play this game, Each time the host looses a hand, she is required to remove that item of clothing not stalling. only way that will change is if it is agreed upon between the host and member before hand.
Glamour and not so shy, member and host should talk about what is wanted, and if host agrees then she should not change her mind once in video, but at same time when something is agreed upon then the member should not enter video and change and pressure for more than what was agreed to. they agree on something before video.
fun to all
RE: task
Yes, so pathetic!
He can't hold it and is soo tiny!
I wonder if anyone can break his record, 4 inches hard and cums in less than 10 sec?
He can't hold it and is soo tiny!
I wonder if anyone can break his record, 4 inches hard and cums in less than 10 sec?
RE: task
Oh no, you couldn't be more wrong!
First of all he just spent a few hundred in my room!
And 2nd, he can't really jerk off, twice up and down and he's cumming.
I just wanted to confirm he's the worst case on site!
First of all he just spent a few hundred in my room!
And 2nd, he can't really jerk off, twice up and down and he's cumming.
I just wanted to confirm he's the worst case on site!
RE: task
you should be a host. There may be girls or guys who want to humuliate a pathetic little shrimp dick. Yr name could be: TinyMember
RE: task
Huh? You are even more funny then he. Such guys get pleasure from humiliation, not hosts, hosts just do it for them. I believe is no woman ready to pay to humiliate any guys.
Expectations lead to disappointments
I see this in more and more hosts' profiles. I have come to expect it in the softcore categories, but lately have started to see it in the so called nude categories. So I have come to the conclusion that I have no expectations on this site, except that I will be charged for videochat sessions at the amount stated on entering the open or 121 session. This way I can never be disappointed ever.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Yes I think you are correct. I have no idea when a member comes in what they will want, how they will act, or how long they will stay. So I have no expectations and treat each one as a mystery until it reveals itself. I would constantly be disappointed if I thought each one would be the same and I would approach it differently. Without any expectations I am almost always pleased by the outcome and get a lot of nice surprises too. I don't set any goals other than to have a great time and be fun so that they enjoy too :)) Hope that you experience the same results or better!!
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
LOLOLOLOL. Well put. I love that "no expectations" line they use. Sorry but I have some expectations. If I didn't why the hell would I come here. If I go to a topless bar I expect to see girls without their tops on. Call me crazy.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
You have got me wrong. I enjoy chatting very much. I never go to IA or not so shy. I like to chat, but then I like to do something. About 50-50 actually. I am just saying if a girl says not to have expectations about her vidchats she can't "expect" me to come in.....because I won't.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
"You" can be used in its plural form too :) So I wasn't talking about you specifically as I don't know you.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Obviously you don't understand what posting in a forum means.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Dude. I got news for you. If you come to this site, you are EXPECTING something. It may not be sex, but you are EXPECTING something. "Have no expectations" is a buzz phrase that one of the girls came up with and others have followed. Its ludicrous.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Agree. They might as well say "Be prepared to be disappointed". lol
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
A "plural" you, I think, would be meant to include me since you replied to my secondary post. Maybe you are thinking of an "indefinite" you which doesn't apply to anyone in particular.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
I don't like when you use that phrase "have no expectations" in your profile.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Dude. You think you can paint everyone with the same broad brush, and then you get picky with details.
T.'s point is that you (the average member) may need to put some effort into making sure you are understood , because not every host speaks flawless English, not every host can read your (the average member's) mind. Or perhaps such generosity is beyond your comprehension (Dennis), in which case I understand your response.
T.'s point is that you (the average member) may need to put some effort into making sure you are understood , because not every host speaks flawless English, not every host can read your (the average member's) mind. Or perhaps such generosity is beyond your comprehension (Dennis), in which case I understand your response.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Omg. Why are you repeating to me what T is saying? In case you didn't notice, T can take care of herself. She's a smart cookie. You're getting kind of school yard aren't you?
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
lol yes, I was complimenting you. In fact I would like to challenge you to a debate on another topic as I think we have beaten this one to death. Naturally, in keeping with the theme of this site all debaters would be naked. I looked up T in "search chathosts".......nothing. grrr
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Then there's your challenge, you need to find me :D
"T" is a letter of my screen-name :D
And thank you.
Why naked? I can think properly with my clothes on too, even if being naked doesn't bother me. As long as someone pays for it.
"T" is a letter of my screen-name :D
And thank you.
Why naked? I can think properly with my clothes on too, even if being naked doesn't bother me. As long as someone pays for it.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
lol. Let me know when we are finished, so I can smoke a cigarette.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
Ah, that was rather uncivil. My apologies. I get on a track and have a hard time getting off of it, like many of us I think.
In general, the tone of the discourse on this and the viewer's forum could be taken down a notch and we might actually be able to talk. I hear too much belittling of "sissy boys" and "money slaves."
Sissy boys and money slaves are people too.
:))))))))))))))))))))
In general, the tone of the discourse on this and the viewer's forum could be taken down a notch and we might actually be able to talk. I hear too much belittling of "sissy boys" and "money slaves."
Sissy boys and money slaves are people too.
:))))))))))))))))))))
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
You, my friend, have character. Nice to see on here. Thanks.
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
I don't intend to change your mind but give you some additional thoughts that maybe you didn't consider when you see that expression. She might mean that don't expect her to do identical to another host that you see. That the experience is always different with each member and is not specifically a show but more like let it go where the two of you take it which is kinda what softcore category is all about.
Enjoy and have fun!
Enjoy and have fun!
RE: Expectations lead to disappointments
" That the experience is always different with each member and is not specifically a show but more like let it go where the two of you take it which is kinda what softcore category is all about. "
Exactly! The Twilight Zone.
Exactly! The Twilight Zone.
RE: Explain plz
This is not an escort site it is a sex and fantasy site. Virtual sex that is! You can have lots of sex with the palm sisters....hehe. Most members wank here why watching sexy girls or women :) If you are looking for immediate nudity etc then not so shy or instant action are your best bet. If you are seeking an in person sexual experience then that is a whole different thing and chances are that it won't happen....
RE: Explain plz
They are models and hostesses, NOT Whores..
Treat them with respect and kindness. yes its a web cam sex fantasy site and you can have great fun here..but its not a brothel.. go elsewhere for that.
Treat them with respect and kindness. yes its a web cam sex fantasy site and you can have great fun here..but its not a brothel.. go elsewhere for that.
RE: Explain plz
It can happen. There are girls here that aren't exactly angels, lots of them, and "might" open the doors of possibilities, but... are you willing to get on a plane and travel 100's or 1,000's miles for just 1 day just for a fuck? Sh*t, that will be at least a $2,000 fuck. I know I can have lots of fun here in my town with that kind of $$$
RE: Explain plz
He must've thought it was a really good offer for you. Who knows, maybe he's the next Brad Pitt :))
what is the difference btw girl and woman?
some call me girl and some call me woman...why???
RE: what is the difference btw girl and woman?
u r over 18, so u are a woman. But calling you a girl or baby is just a term of endearment.
RE: what is the difference btw girl and woman?
Or in some women's minds, a demeaning, sexist term.
RE: what is the difference btw girl and woman?
some may feel younger than their age if they date or seduce a girl rather than a woman... provided of course you pretend (at least) to be overhelmed by their irresistible charm!
RE: what is the difference btw girl and woman?
Well you didn't give us your age so it makes it hard to define closer. I think some guys think that it is a compliment to call you a woman to indicate maturity in body development and maturity in thinking. Actually I don't consider a girl a woman until she is in her 30's. Just my thoughts.
RE: what is the difference btw girl and woman?
Then that means that you have not developed into a woman yet but you will get there eventually. I knew when I was a woman and not a girl anymore but did question it until I got there.