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Porn is at the forefront of all kinds of innovation. Porn drives internet growth and new technology.

lol

True, without porn the VCR would probably still be just a novelty and DVDs would never have been created.

to inscrease the size of the penis its worse

They better find a way to make men grow bigger dicks LOL

only if they have power , and most wont have any , so im guessing east coast guys wont be around

Don't believe the hype of the fear mongers and politicians. Its only a tropical storm with minor damage, very minor flooding and a few power outages. The Media are just trying to boost TV ratings with all the hype. Its all much ado about nothing.

Few power outages? You mean over 4 million. Sure it didnt have all the wind they thought but there has been a foot of rain that has fallen. Where I live, the main road to get from one side of the state to the other, that road is closed because of flooding....

be sure and inform NJ about that "minor" flooding

I am in asheville, NC. and no problem here just winds and really minor flooding.

jersey's floods should set records the next two days

So will ours War. We are losing bridges left and right.

boo hoo

WOW! you're one of those people bright enough to sit in the path of a category 4 or 5 hurricane! CONGRATULATIONS! where do we send your diploma?

Hopefully Jersey will remain under water. ;-))

I was thinking the same :-P

shhhhhhhhhhhhhh tissue! dont be giving away NY's greatest desires

You live in Georgia where they had no storm?

37 dead, $7 billion in damage, over 7 million homes and businesses lost power. I guess you think it would be better if nobody was evacuated so that maybe the number of dead could have been higher.

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maybe you finally understand the mentality of some of the hosts on here now. you are right, some of them dont care who is hurt in the disaster. the only thing that is important is if they come to cc to spend money.

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leave it to people in the forums to make a ig whiny deal that way off the topic

Very well put hostie! Ann this is not the welfare line this is your job to earn money that you chose. Be your best which is to entertain members that pay you and the money will follow. What you earn anyway.
I too care about the people in the Irene disaster or any disaster and their well being and I agree that the original post sounded self serving.
Tired of hosts that are waiting for a chance to attack members and as if they owe you something! Ann you gave a great example of that. Time to get on board the world does not rotate around you. Big difference from Hostie's post.

This is the job you choose and not bad working conditions if I might add! Why should the members come here to feel sorry for you? They are here to
have a good time and not support you outside of what it costs already to view you. Wow you girls are so quick to jump into your pitty parties...

"whats the most important- they should be online, dressed sexy ,with make up and strip."

Yes that's it exactly. Each of us is responsible for our own well being. That goes for hosts and members.

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I suppose it all depends on what the lie is. If a host is pretending to be friends with a member then one could argue that she is just doing her job. If she is promising marriage etc then that, in my opinion, is wrong.

All new members should ask themselves one question (or two depending on the answer to question one).

1. Do I really believe that this beautiful sexy girl would fall in love with me ?

2. If your answer to 1. was yes then ask "What the fuck am I doing on this site when I could go out and find a girl in my own town who is just as beautiful and sexy as the girl on cc.

it was not a host ...it was member....

Wow sorry to hear that scenario as well!! So does your hurt come from that he used you for free video's? Did you meet him in person before he changed his direction? Did you hear what you wanted to hear or how guys talk when they are not being committal yet getting to know you? This is a fantasy site just as dating sites are until you are actually around the person and can actually feel the chemistry and if it is there or not. I am sure you flirt and tease and compliment with members as well and it all feels real but it isn't until each can actually be in the others presence. Online we show our best and what we want to others to see and believe and in real it we are just us and trying to be on our best behavior. Online others visualize how they want to think of you with minimal information but with their own stored information that might not even be close to who you really are but what they want you to be.
I am sorry if you feel that you were robbed in some way!! I feel your tone as bitter and yet you certainly sounded like a member where a host had advertised and led you to believe differently. How can a member diceive you with only words while he is experiencing a sexual experience and wanting to tell you anything at a distance to turn the experience into his own fantasy? I am confused how a member telling you what you want to hear is deception.
Please share if you want honest opinions how this person did not benefit you through the experience and $$ (that is what you are here for, right) and as a friend? You are asking but with such general comments....Hard to understand other than your hearing your anger from hurt!

Dont mess private life and work. If you get paid, you have to play in that games that offer to you a customer (this why they pay you for), dont take things too serious till the moment you feel really something special to a member, then you should continue with him off any adult sites.

"Dont mess private life and work. If you get paid, you have to play in that games that offer to you a customer (this why they pay you for), dont take things too serious"

Excellent advice. Outstanding!

"So please can anyone tell me why so called friends lie?"

You answered your own question with the "so called" part.
"Why do people bother to say things that are not true"

Because, although you don't want to hear it, in most cases it is about the money and video.

"We are online for heavens sake, it is not like we are going to see each other in person, so why bother lying?"

See answer above. I could also ask if you are never going to meet why does it matter that you are being told lies ?

"It makes no sense to me, I would think that people would want the nice things that are said to them to be honest and sincere"

Of course we would but given the option of :-

a) ImNotYourFriend you are the sweetest member on here and I love being in video with you (Now this is either a lie or the way I ask a girl to get naked and use her toys must be so much better than the way other guys do)

OR

b) ImNotYourFriend you are so fucking boring that I am seriously thinking of putting my price up to compensate myself from having to listen to you but on second thoughts no amount of money is worth it so you are blocked you fucking ugly boring dickhead.

I will choose option a) everytime. Although, strangely, option b) does hold a certain charm for me :P

So in summary, although I am sorry you got hurt, not all of us want to hear the truth. If all I get is the truth then no girl will ever admit to me, in video, that she has slept with nearly 100 men (and that was just his week !!!!)

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it's a fantasy site. it should have been evident that the host was simply doing her job and giving you the kind of relationship you wanted from her because you were paying her. i don't get why that's so difficult for some guys to understand.
don't take this place so seriously. just relax and have a little fun. it's easy.

Yeah that right its internet just have fun. But Please TO ALL HOSTS STOP LIAR TO ALL MEMBERS OK? If CONTINUE liar then we will not take any hosts in video! Why cant Host tell us the whole truth? Dont be chicken out!!!

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and it is male that has done this and not just one, and it has nothing to do with money...

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Then you are taking your job here much too seriously!! Are you really here to make friends that you can confide in your deepest thoughts or are you here to make money from pleasing guys?? Also do you lead them to believe what you want them to...or do you tell them your deepest truths? Keep your personal life separate and please your friends here with their desires and you will understand. No don't lie to others but when they are coming to see you and paying you do you really think that these are like your friends or close family?? If so get another job because you will be hurt over and over again! We all know when members come here they will say what their little brain is thinking to get pleasure. Having a sad host here with all her personal problems can kill a friendship here in no time...sorry but that is what the little brain says! They might not being lying in their eyes at the time. If they say you have a great *ss and I want to marry you then it is what they are feeling at the time...meaning they want you close NOW! Do they mean to lie? NO that is how they feel at the moment.
This is a great fantasy place and there are some that get serious but this is your job and until they come to pay you to hear your personal problems, then it is a business deal and you are the cheerleader!.
Are you sure you only tell the truth or how you feel at the moment?

here's a revelation.what you consider your moral barometer is unlikely to be the same as others,especially when you add in distance etc.it may suprise you but i'm betting there are people in this world who would think your standards aren't as high as they should be.never judge others by your standards & always expect nothing.if you expect nothing your expectations will always be surpassed.
bottom line you're not stupid,you're like everyone a fallible,emotional mortal,who lives,gives,shares,cares & dares to hope & dream :--)

i did not have expectations, was just a fluke that i found out about the lie...and it is not the first time nor the first male to do it....i have even been stupid enough to visit men from here only to find out it was not friendship they intended to try to screw with me the whole time.

after it happens enough times it is just hard and very disheartening, because I was honest every time, and I was assured every time, noooooo ...only as friends and every time it was lies....

can you give a few more details about the lie.. I have been lied to aswell and i agree its so so stupid its not hard to be honest. I'm a member not a host, But i'm curious what has happened to you?

Well it is simple, as i said in my original post, they say all kinds of nice things, but then you find out that they not mean it.

As for visiting people, some i knew for a while, and they knew that it was only friendship and agreed, but when I got there, they were completely different and said that they figured they could change my mind once i was there.

then I was given the guilt trips of "well if you really like me you will" "if you are reallly my friend then you will"...."i guess you not really like me or you would"....and you know the funny thing is I did like them, I just was not going to jump into bed right away to prove it.....and I was not going to jump into bed and have them think I was easy and not want to know me any more.

I did not go with any expectations, because i had said right from the beginning that I was not going to jump in bed with anyone and i was only meeting as friends, and they agreed, and i have learned that if you have expectations then there is a good chance you will be hurt or disappointed. I simply take people as they are and it wasnt like I had just met them nor known them for only a month or two.

so each person that I thought was a friend, turned out I was wrong....I guess on here when a member says he is your friend, I should take it with a grain of salt...

and as for those that say "i love you" ..."your the only one"..."can we try for more because I really want to know you".....well it seems they were saying the same thing to others too..and some even admitted once the lie came out that they say it to a number of other hosts.....heck i even got a mail from one saying all kinds of things, only problem was the name in the mail was not my name but another host's name...lool..

and again for me money and videos had nothing to do with any of it. In fact I i stopped doing video because I did not want them thinking that it was only the money i was after.

I really thought that those that were saying we are friends, really meant it, and those that were saying the nice things and wanting more really meant it.

and noooo I did not once say anything to lead them on, i did not say lies to keep them...I am a rather quiet person and It is not easy for me to let people in. but each time I have, i have gotten screwed over.

it just seems to always happen.

You know another funny thing, everyone of these people complained of how hosts and women they know in person lie to them and how they would never do that to anyone. well i guess even that was a lie.

I am just way to stupid to believe. But I can say that this last time of being screwed over, has changed my opinion big time, and I do not believe nor trust much of what comes out of a members mouth any more.

And I am sorry but when a person comes complaining of being lied to, you really do not expect them to do the very same.

NO the posts are right, people do not want to hear the truth when it is hurtful. however, that is when you are talking about a typical host -member situation. yes men come here and want a host to say yes i like you and oh yes you are good and ohhh yes that really turns me on. even if in their heads they are thinking of what they going to make for dinner that night.

I have no problem with members saying they only here to get off that is fine. but when a member is the one that is saying he wants friendship, or when it is a member that says he wants than a host member relationship, then why lie about it.

if all you want is to get your rocks off then fine, there is no need to lie and lead a person on.

Members expect hosts to say all kinds of things and lie to get their money. and they know that hosts have many men come threw their room, just like hosts expect members to see other hosts. heck a host would be blind to not expect members to have a list of hosts they see. So why would these members feel the need to lie when money and video has nothing to do with it.

So i really do not see the point

Do you come here to make friends and have them travel to see you only to buy you dinner? This is a fantasy sit about sex! If this is where you find friends then you need to realize that it is not about friends. You must have had some expectations of something if they are spending money to come to see you....come on. I am sorry that you are so young and do not realize that guys that are friends from here do not spend money to have a friend that is a girl! Are they lying or do you not understand guys? Sorry that you are just learning that it is very rare to have a guy as a true friend that is not with sexual expectations when they spend money and meet you at a sex site.

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It is confusing to read what you say. You say some members tell you they want to be your friends and then they come to you or you go to them and they want to go to bed with you, right? They met you here on a sex site and want to be your friend and then when you meet then they want sex? What did you expect? Why did you meet them? How were you going to benefit? There is a reason that you met them and it is not clear why.
The second is that you meet some that say I want to have a relationship with you and then it sounds that they tell other girls the same so you are hurt about that when you find out. Did they also come to have sex?
You think you are being clear but you are not. Give details #1 then #2 and more if you want real answers.
Most people are good with good intentions and then some are not. Why do it happen to you so much? Tell all story if you want to get right answers not they all do this and they all do that.

i have a situation that i would describe similar and i would not want to get to much into the details just that i know there is many lies involved.. And it doesnt' feel nice... Maybe the worst feeling when you really start to believe and then you are lied to even little silly lies when you find out hurt so badly.. Btw. I'm a member not a host but it goes both ways i'm sure... Were all humans... All just people breathing the same air.. Life Goes On ... Keep your Chin up you sound like a very nice girl..

In reading your posts it is like trying to figure out the situations with no details. You meet guys here thinking that they want to be friends or realtionsip and then you are naive to sleep with them? Not being mean but why do you come here if you want to meet a guy or a friend? Are you in marriage/long term realtions? Are you lonely or is this your job?
If they come to see you then I dont think they mean to lie but guys think with their c*ck when they meet a host especially fi they saw you naked before. Not stupid just searching in the wrong place so maybe naive. Sorry but truth is this sounds very one sided and it is you that needs to make different choices what you are here for.

What in the world have these customers told you that you feel so bitter and hurt about? Did they start seeing another host or Mistress or did they quit coming to your room? What are talking about? Members say what they feel at the moment and if they return it is because they want to see you again. This is all anonymous for both sides and to make each feel good this not life! It is a hosts job to make the member feel good when he comes to your room (and not the other way around like some hosts expect). Who is paying?
Are you a jealous host that finds her regulars are not cumming to see you on a regular basis when you need the money. Do you cry your personal life to them and they quit coming because they want to be happy when they come here? Confused!
I love CC because it is a fantasy and all should have fun when they come here and when I see someone again that is good if it is happy. If I see them again then it is great if it is happy. If I spend money and see them again and they are all bummed out with life then I don't want to spend money to hear it because I know they will figure it out and I should still be able to come here and feel happy!

Dear disappointed, your anger and hurt is very much seen, heard and felt. Please take a deep breath and tell me if I am in the right area ok?

First: I have read all that you have posted and I think the thing that is confusing people is that you are talking about two things that are different from each other, yet all boils down to lies. Yes?

Second: One you are talking about friendship and the other you are talking about members who say nice things and say they want more with you, meaning a relationship. Yet in both cases it is always lies. Yes?

Third: When you talk about friendship do you mean on this site or online in general or here and online in general?

Some people are just liars.

A scorpion comes to a riverbank and needs to get a cross. He sees a turtle and asks' "Hey can you give me a ride across the river?" The turtle say "If I do, you'll just sting me and we'll both drown". The scorpion comes back with " Now is that logical? Does that make any sense at all? Like you said If I sting you we both die. I don't want to die". The turtle thinks for a moment and says " You're right that wouldn't be logical. Okay climb on my back and I'll take you across" The scorpion gets on and when they get out to the middle of the river he stings the turtle. As they are sinking down to the bottom to their deaths, the turtle asks " Now why in the heck would you do that??? It is not in the lease bit logical???" The scorpion replies "It has nothing to do with logic...its my character"

wow i really thought that people would consider the question instead of jumping the conclusion that i did something wrong, or going on about this being a sex site, not a dating site and dating people and people paying to meet me in person. how easily a simple question can be turned around soooooo badly and so misinterpretded. goes to show just how stupid i really that even asking a simple question it taken completely wrong.

while other posts jump to accusing me of just saying crap just to get money out of members.

My original post and clearly saying this has nothing to do with money nor videos and yet pretty much majority of responding posts are filled with accusations and accusing questions. and even two hosts sit there and throw dirt at me. thank u soo much for making a stupid person feel even more stupid and even cheap.

Usually posts like this come from members so I think the vast majority of posters, including me, thought you were a member rather than a host.

Perhaps if you had made that clear in your original post the answers would have been different.

But the bottom line is that a lot of hosts lie to get more money and a lot of members lie to try and get sex.

"But the bottom line is that a lot of hosts lie to get more money and a lot of members lie to try and get sex. "

Amen brother!

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GNORE the fact that this is a sex site, because in the post it makes it very clear...making money has nothing to do with it, video has nothing to do with it. It is simply about friendships, relationships, people and lies.

Thank you to the very small few who actually read the post without jumping on me and making me feel even worse than i do. and actually responded without accusing or telling me in so many words that i did something wrong or jumping to the wrong conclusion.

First: To all that jumped on me NO I DID NOT COME HERE TO MEET FOR DATES, NOR TO MEET PEOPLE IN PERSON FOR SEX, NO PEOPLE DO NOT PAY TO VISIT ME IN PERSON FOR SEX. I CAME HERE TO WORK, AND I AM NOT SOME YOUNG PUP WHO DOES NOT KNOW BETTER NOR WHO JUST STARTED HERE, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MAKING MONEY NOR VIDEOS, I DID NOT JUST START WORKING HERE, USUALLY I JUST SHRUG THIS OFF AND CONTINUE ON,

AND TO THE HOST THAT SAYS SEPARATE PRIVATE FROM WORK, AND TAKE THE FRIENDSHIP OR RELATIONSHIP OFF THIS SITE. WELL SORRY BUT THAT DOES NOT ANSWER MY QUESTION BECAUSE AGAIN MY QUESTION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MAKING MONEY NOR DOING VIDEOS.

WHY IS THAT EVERYONE HAS TO ASSOCIATE MY QUESTION WITH VIDEOS, MAKING MONEY AND WORK. DOES IT TAKE A HAMMER TO SEE THAT THE QUESTION IS IF A PERSON WANTS TO BE FRIENDS THEN WHY SPEND THE FRIENDSHIP LYING. AND IF A PERSON WANTS TO A RELATIONSHIP WITH SOMEONE THEN WHY LIE.


Maybe I should have posted this on a site that is not a sex site, so people will get off the one track road about why hosts are here. when that has nothing to do with my question.

THIS IS SOMETHING THAT HAS BEEN BUILDING FOR THE LAST FEW DAYS AND TODAY IT REACHED ITS BOILING POINT and when writing all the lies that i have told me all jumbled in my head, it just all came out. and it took the posts from those few that did not jump on me and especially the post from thinker to help me be able to look at what she asked in order to write this. And I thank thinker's post and those few that did not jump on me for thier posts. and for helping me to write this.

I HAVE NO PROBLEM WITH THE FACT THAT MEN COME HERE TO GET THEIR JOLLIES. I KNOW IT IS A FANTASY/SEX SITE, I HAVE AND HAVE HAD MEMBERS SAY I AM NOT HERE TO MAKE FRIENDS I AM ONLY HERE FOR ONE REASON AND THAT IS FINE, THAT IS NOT EVEN CLOSE TO THE POINT.

ok taking a deep breath...

Yes thinker you are right there is much anger and hurt, and what you said in your first remark makes sense, in my original post I thought I had made it clear it is simply about lies and then when I read the other posts with the assumptions and accusing questions it felt like i was being attacked and other things, which got me even more upset that my question was taken so very wrongly which is evident from the above and when I tried to explain my writing got haywire and confusing and that again brought accusations, assumptions and accusing questions questions. which caused my anger, hurt and frustration to get even bigger. I appologize for not being my usual calm self..

Your first point:

Yes again you are right it is two different things but and yes it all boils down to lies!!!

Your second point:

YesI am talking about friendship and also those members who say they want a relationship and both cases it involves lies.

Your third point:

When I talk about friendship I mean in general, on this site and online in general.

It has nothing to do with being jealous, it has nothing to do with members going to other hosts, nor any of the other things that many have said, in thier responses. it has to do with lies.

I am sure that there are some hosts that get members coming to them very angry and hurt because those sweet little lies that other hosts do tell came to light.

It is simply about lies. Be it on here, or online or in person or in general. Why do people who say they want to be friends lie? And why do those who say they want a relationship lie?

We have all had people lie to us, be it hosts, members, people in our personal life, and those who are suppose to be friends, those who supposedly want a relationship.

My original post and my question is WHY DO THOSE ONLINE WHO SAY THEY WANT TO BE FRIENDS LIE, AND WHY DO THOSE WHO SAY THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP LIE? BE IT ON THIS SITE AND ONLINE? WHEN IT COMES TO ONLINE AND WANTING TO BE FRIENDS THEN WHY BOTHER TO LIE?

Yes there are hosts on here that lie in there text and in video to make money. Yes there are hosts who lie in thier profiles. Yes there are members that lie to get what they want sexually. Yes there are members who lie to try and get a host to meet them in person. I have even had my fill going to the bar or anywhere and people lie just to try to get sex. and that is not new and that was not the point of my question. Even tho it sucks and makes it hard for many and can hurt many as I have read over and over again. I am use to all that.

It is not me looking or asking to be friends nor have a relationship it is members/people coming to me asking to be friends. or wanting relationship, so if that is what they want then why lie, it makes no sense.

But when a person comes to you and says they want to be friends or a relationship, then why spend that frienship or relationship with nothing but lies?

I have had my fill of members saying sweet things that were just bs, it was just that the last few days and today especially I have been finding out that those that claimed to be friends have lied big time and there was no need to lie, I tell people, I would rather know the truth then be lied to, it is fine if I am not a persons type or if I do something or say something that turns them off, I can not change things that are in my control if I do not not know about it.

and I am sorry but I really am not good at saying oh yes baby you are the hotest thing since sliced bread, yes I love you, or all the other lies that hosts say to members because for one many of the members that I do get have come angry and hurt because they had hosts that said all that to them and the member fell for it and got hurt cos he found out that it was not true. and the second reason I dont do it is because I know it is not true and it hinders with me being able to honestly enjoy the time with the member. so when a member asks me a question that I know I can not answer the way he wants I find a way to answer it without lying but still making him feel good about himself. altho if a member is crude and demanding and arrogant and asks then I will say I am sorry but you need to find another host that will say the things you want to hear.

As for hearing repeatedly members saying they are in love with thier wife or gf and family and only here for what ever reason and such, that does not bother me, i do hear that, and it is nice to hear that they are in love with thier partner, because often i have found that what is lacking with thier partner can be changed too, there have been many times that a member has come to me saying about a partner and what is wrong, and I have made suggestions and they have said wow I did not think of approaching it that way, I know most hosts would call me a nut for not just rushing them into video and taking there money, but there are enough members on here that just want to get thier rocks off and either dont care about thier partner or dont have a partner, so if it is possible to help a few members be able to have thier desires met with thier partner then great, I am happy to talk with them in text and help that way. because I know that for many on here having that need met by thier partner is not possible, so when the chance is there to help in that way then why not help in that way.

I do not need to have a member tell me that he loves me if it is not true, I do not need to have a member tell me that I am the hottest female he has ever seen, because I know that is not true, and well when someone is telling me something that stinks to high heaven that is a turn off. a simple you have a nice smile, or your are pretty is fine if it is true, that will get me in the mood to have fun, and when a member says what it is that he is wanting and the sort of things that he likes without being crude, well that lets me know what I can do and gives ideas of how to please him, rather than hearing well do what you do best or they say well you know what I want, well sorry but no I do not know if you do not give me ideas of what you like and what turns you on. loool

There are ways to please a member and make him feel good without having to lie to him, there are ways to answer a members question without hurting his feelings and lying to him, and you can still make him feel good about himself.

Not all hosts need to lie to a member in order to be able to please that member,

SO IGNORE the fact that this is a sex site, because in the post it makes it very clear...money has nothing to do with it, video has nothing to do with it. It is simply about friendships, relationships, people and lies.

So my question in my post still stands.....Why do people who ask to be friends with you lie? Why do people who ask for a relationship lie? What is the point in one asking for a friendship or relationship is only going to lie?

I think it is as a valid a question as anyone can ask. Why do we lie period?

I have often pondered this myself and although I cannot claim to be whiter than white I do consciously try and behave as I would like others to behave to me. In my experience though not everyone likes or even wants the truth all the time and perhaps being too honest is as bad as being dishonest? Despite that though, is it not better to be at least true to yourself so you can be the best you can to others?

Friends can lie. To protect feelings, to try and avoid heartache and trouble to even save you from yourself. But it should always be done with a guilty conscience and the belief that you do what you do because it is right and because you care.

I must admit that I have never felt as publicly passionately about being lied to as you demonstrate but personally I think that just shows the passion with which you feel betrayal like this. It is to be commended, as I have always felt it is better to care too much than it is to not care at all. *sighs*

It all boils down to what friendship really means for people and how serious they take that as a commitment to each other. It is not about power or prestige it is about sharing and caring when no one else would.

I feel for you, disappointed, how could I not? I take friendships very seriously too. May you never change in that respect.


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I know talking to oneself is bad but, then again, do I really care what people think?

A thought just occurred to me that the basis for any relationship that is founded on a lies must come from an insecurity of one or the other parties. Either they feel they have to compensate about not being who they really are, or they wish to believe someone else is not something they really are either.

There are no hard and fast rules about how many lies build to make a relationship false but it is a pretty good bet the more lies you need to pile onto each other the more of a fiction your life will be. Some people truly are so delusional they manufacture entire worlds in which they are the centre and you seem to always be on the outside looking in.

Ultimately I think all relationships, including friendships, fundamentally come down to a commitment to each other. That is a willingness to sacrifice things that are important to you in order to help EACH OTHER. Quid pro quo, as they say.

Unfortunately this is not always what happens and friendships just like relationships can become very one sided, with one party giving all and the other only taking.

To disappointed, I would begin question myself how valid were those relationships when you think about how balanced they were?

You are right in that it is not always about money but about self sacrifice of others. When someone does something for you they don't have to do is it out of the purest motives, to care for you, or is it out of some deep seated self serving plan they have?

It troubles me a little I came to this thread late but what tis done is done and I am glad to vent my thoughts about it. It reminds me that the forums can still come alive when real people are moved to post real feelings about real issues. Something I had truly given up on till now.

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"not everyone likes or even wants the truth all the time"

I agree, often times truth hurts.

You are always so sexy, love you sexy man, mmmmmuuuuuaaaahhhh!

Are you telling a lie or do you really love him?

Sexy?? Hmmm...actually he is not sexy at all (how I understand sexy), but a good teller, that is true.

that was very cold and mean of u host, as disappointed also stated in her posts, there are ways to tell someone what you think and still be honest without being cold and cruel.

Disappointed has most certainly shown just how cold and unsuportive many can be.

If we were stop and think about it, we have all had such a thing happen to us, and we can all remember how we felt, yet to read many of the responses on here it seems like many have forgotten those times that all of us, both men and women have all been lied to and how it hurt and made us angry.

All we have to do is look at many of the posts in both member and general forum and we can see that many have written about a host that has lied in her profile as well as in video and in text, and some responses to those posts are supportive to the member and then some are critical and telling the member to get a brain. but many of the responses are supportive to the member. Yet a host posts about the same subject and is thrown to the wolves by both members and hosts. with most posts showing no support and pretty much saying that she did something to cause the hurt to herself and that she did something to create this to happen to her, even tho she has repeatedly stated that it was the member(s) who came to her asking for the friendship or relationship. Yet she still gets responses blaming her of doing it.

It certainly is ironic.

Well, I think many men dont really sexy or (look sexy). At least for men not really so important look sexy. Why to lie they are if they are not? The point of "disappointed" to tell truth, so why now you say you dont like to hear the truth? I am sure THT knows it himself and doesn't care about it too much,as he is not gonna hosting here. ;) By the way I can read in viewers forum much meaner words about hosts (women!)...that they are not sexy, old, look strange and other crap...almost no members who say that is so mean and insulting (and believe that is for every hosts).

I did not say you had to lie. I simply said that how you said it was cold and cruel.

I also said that there are ways to say the truth without being so cold and cruel. maybe you should learn to read all of what is said instead of just picking out certain words.

Disappointed also said that there is a way to tell the truth without being mean and cruel.

"mmmmmmm" complimented him by saying he is sexy, so to her he is. Maybe to you he is not but you could have easily said he is not your type.

Yes I know members are cold and cruel, but that does not mean that you have to be just like they are.

But ok if you to bring yourself down to their level then fine.

I guess if I were to come to your video and then write that you are ugly, instead of saying you are not as appealing as I like.

You see my dear, it is not what you it is how you say it!!!

So for you is no difference between men and women, huh? Look INYF keep telling that he is not really attractive man, I believe him he is not, but it doesn't damage him, he knows women like him not for the beauty of his eyes.lol Once again I didn't call anyone ugly even, I just say "no sex" there, but if she thinks he is....hm I am happy for TNT then, it something really new about him for me.

You keep missing the point, it is not what you said it is how you said it.

You can say all you want the fact is that how you said it came across as cold.

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Either the language barrier is preventing her from understanding what you are saying or she is choosing to not understand, and by the way she has continued to respond,

It is obvious that she is choosing to not understand and does not care. Otherwise if she did care she would say just say that she did not mean for her words to sound cold. So do not waste your time or energy, as you are only banging your head against a brick wall loool.

TNT knows who his friends are.

It is funny how she says ..

"I am not paid here to talk warm words about anyone....especially about who never pays me."

Well she is not paid to talk cold words about anyone either. It just shows that you have to pay this particular host then she will say warm words.

Altho I am not sure if those warm words are real or just the money talking, which is a small example of what disappointed was saying.

Just know thinker that I also agree that when I read what she said, it came across as cold too.

I understand what he is talking about, but I am experienced enough not searching friends in sex-chat sites, as I dont want to be disappointed then. Also I dont allow guys to take advantage of his "friendship" anymore.

Well now that shows those of us that do know TNT, that you do not know him.

He is one of few here that does not take advantage of his "friendship" with people.

"I understand what he is talking about,....."

Who r u talking about when you say "he"?

I said about "thinker".
I have no illusion why some guys come to sex-site just for chatting in forums, comm-chat, text-chats and etc even they know very well most hosts here about the money not about "making friends". I call it "take advantage of friendship". Myself I meet many guys like that, yes they are nice, say only good and right words, that every hosts like to hear....but they never spend any money on hosts. All they need is to find any ears to chat hrs about themself. Sorry I am pass.

I do not recall seeing anywhere where thinker indicated being male or female.

I feel that you dont get what I want to say.
Even if I really sound a bit cruel and cold, I might have reasons for it, that is all. And I agree with saying "better bad truth than nice lie" and if you have read first post of author, that is exactly she stated.

ohhh we know what the first post was...

"mmmmm" You are always so sexy, love you sexy man, mmmmmuuuuuaaaahhhh!

and even tho that compliment was not directed at you in any way, you chose to jump in coldly with...

"Sexy?? Hmmm...actually he is not sexy at all (how I understand sexy), but a good teller, that is true."

You had no business even saying what you did, because you were not defending no one, you simply chose to be cold and mean towards someone that did not even deserve it.

I think I better nip this in the bud before it becomes too aggressive.

It is true I have never claimed to be another Brad Pitt, that much is obvious, but as a good friend of mine likes to say "Intelligence Is Sexy" so perhaps it is to this that mmmm was alluding to.

I fully appreciate that there are different strokes for different folks and one of the lessons I have learned from experience is that you just cannot please all the people all the time so there is very little point in getting upset when you and a host don't 'click'.

Not that I feel 'host' is hostile to me, she is just being candid in a way she knows I would appreciate.

I am a fan of plain speaking but it is true that sometimes it is better to say nothing than to say something barbed that you know is spiteful.

Were you being spiteful host? I think not. I am just a sexy boy to you ;) That is fair enough as it takes more than just a pretty face to catch my attention too but that is a whole other thread.

Better to be true to yourself so others can be true to you or to be more poetic about it lies become heavy on the tongue when repeated.. the truth is very light.

TNTETR

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Like the old saying "Cash talks and bullshit walks". Start walking TNT!

Whoops you are correct of course I did mean to say I am just _NOT_ a sexy boy to you ;) Guess I was in a rush. Happens sometimes.

That being said I guess it all comes down to a persons imagination. Words can be exceptionally sexy if used in the right way and in the right context but for most people that seems an impossibility. Often though they forget there was a world before webcams and it is not always what someone looks like determines how attracted you are to them.

However I am resigned to remaining unsexy in your eyes as I doubt I will ever see you in video. Don't take that personally, it is just the way it is.

Take care and thank you for your veracity, I appreciate it.

TNTWHLPFTT

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"so why bother lying?""

Pathological liars get their jollies from just the lie itself

OMG! I can not believe she is being attacked so much for her simple comment. She made it clear that she didn't find him sexy but she thought is was sharp in his thinking.....so what! You can't tell people what they have the right to say. It is her place to say what she chooses.
Get over it....you made your point!!

You are very wise to believe me. But women like me ? Where are they ? Please tell :P

My eyes are sore for the very long post. "So my question in my post still stands.....Why do people who ask to be friends with you lie? Why do people who ask for a relationship lie? What is the point in one asking for a friendship or relationship is only going to lie? "

I have absolutely no fucking idea. I have a personal policy of believing nothing I read and only half of what I see. And as is written in so many hosts' profiles "Having expectations lead to disappointment" So having no expectations is the only way to go.

No one is wanting to be mean here yet you come to a sex and fantasy site to ask a general question with out specific details and you call them all "liars"! That is your perspective of the truth and not the entire story. You are bashing guys here that you came in contact with and they all lied to you on a sex site. You can ignore that fact if you like but it is the truth!! Wonder what their side of the story would be? Maybe you misunderstood especially again working on a sex site and they assume that you are not a virgin or a prude or you would not be here! So they might be thinking one thing and you another. Give youself some relief and do not come here for friendships or relationships! That is the simple solution because no one can give you an honest answer until they hear every situation both sides.
Do you always tell the truth? Do your parents and family know that you work here? Do all your friends and co-workers know? Do you put down you exact age or one that you picked? I bet one of those things you did lie to others so answer that and you will have your answer!
It is ridiculous for you to come here and ask over and over a question when no one has the truths which is the whole story not just your version.
Guys are known for bullshitting to each other just read the forums....they make me laugh. They are sales people to get what they want. Sure on a sex site they will tell you anything they think you want to hear to get what they want. So does that make them all liars? NO!
If someone wants to have a relationship anywhere but especially on a sex site they mean they want to get to know you. If at any point they change their mind during the process does not make them a liar. It means they changed their mind.
You decided to post here for some reason and you want a simple answer without details and then you start yelling at others in CAPS because you are angry. You should confide in your real friends and let them lie to you because they don't want to hurt your feelings of if you do have a real friend then they will tell you the truth and I bet you would not take it well just from your response here!

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#1 This is a sex site and regardless of what you say you must look at the reality that it started with a member with video and money! Yes you also posted this on a sex site and you want answers. Who can tell you without lying to try to make you feel better? We know nothing about the people that you are referring to to tell you why or if they lied.
#2 I personally have only a handful of friends in my world that I honestly can trust and that was proven to me over time. All the rest are associates. It does not freak me out if they lie about something. I have a choice whether I want them in my life or not. If I feel decieved by them then I make the decision to talk to my friend directly about it and hopefully get to the reason. An associate friend I can choose to talk to them directly about it or let them go or the situation go. Not all people that you get to know are true friends and that is determined over time.
#3 I feel like if you come here and believe what others tell you without seeing proof over time that you are making yourself very vulnerable. I take most of the things that are told to me with a grain of salt. Actions always speak louder than words. In fact I consider myself on the "show me" plan. I don't leave myself vulnerable to believe all that others say but over time if they show me with actions that supports their words then I begin to believe what they tell me but not until then. I consider anyone that I meet here an assoicate friend but in reality they are really my fantasy friend because we both talk about happy fun things not my inner most thoughts. We have fun here and that is what it is all about and sex :)
#4 Guys are totally different. They think different and on a sex site they have one thing on their mind when they come here and it is sex. I am a different person when I am on here than my friends know me. Guys also get a lot of rejection from the opposite sex through time and they learn to say what you want to hear to get your attention. You are on a sex site and they had hopes that it could be more when you went to visit them. That's how guys think!
#5 I hear your anger, disappointment and hurt as others here do and the truth is that no one here can make you feel better or take that feeling away from you. You need to give it to higher power, learn from it and move forward. The more that you dwell on it the bigger and more hurtfull it becomes. Instead of letting each incident go and realize that it is killing you inside. You are giving your energy to the negative feelings. The opposite of that and the healing way would be to think about the positives that each one brought. There are positives out of each relationship and even though you don't want to talk about money there certainly was a financial gain and I am sure other positive things that came out of it. If you focus on the negative then you will attract more negatives. If you pick the positive out of each and let it go then you will attract positives in your life. It is the law of the Universe. It is over, it's done and it was all in the past...now let it go and free your mind and soul from it.
#6 Food for thought: Those members that came into your life did not do it with the intention to hurt you or change you as a person. They might have had their own agenda in mind but they certainly were hoping for the best for both of you. Instead of thinking that it would screw over your world they were thinking there might be a potential for an intimate realtionship. It is a sex site and it is easy for them to assume that you too must enjoy it or you wouldn't be here. The ones that wanted a relationship, well something along the way changed. We don't know all the details if it happened before you met them in person or after but one thing for sure is that it also has happened to every single person here when things don't work out. If they changed their mind maybe they thought it would hurt you to tell you so they just quit contacting you. That is how guys think. When I don't see a relationship going somewhere that is how I deal with it. I don't want to hurt someone I just figure that by avoiding it, then it will come to an end. It is awkward when you try to tell someone because more than likely their disappointment will turn to anger. If I am asked then yes I will confirm that my interest isn't there any longer but I don't want the confrontation. Does that make me bad and a liar because I don't feel the same way that I once did? I don't think so, it means that when I got more information then I lost interest.
I hope you can heal inside and not stack up all your hurts and hate because it will only effect you. Yes make some changes in your choices and do things differently to avoid being disappointed and so vulnerable. Let others prove through their actions that they deserve your trust and don't keep reliving the past. If you meet guys through a sex site know that they are thinking that sex will be in their intentions. Be selective who you accept as true freinds. Know that long distance relationships usually do not work out. Put yourself in the position to meet locals to you so that there is no fantasizing through phone calls and computer. That is not real. Dating someone and being around them physically is the only way that a chemistry and honest relationship can develop otherwise it is a pure fantasy for both.
Sorry that you feel hurt and I hope you can heal and let it go. Best Wishes

Lets face it, if a woman works on a site like this, her moral compass has got to be pointing somewhere other than Mother Theresa's. It's no surprise therefore that the site would attract the emotionally disingenuous.

Sorry, but it IS for money, because if a girl makes you think you can have her in reality, or that you are somehow "special" then you'll keep coming back and spending more in chat Even if it's only 30 minutes once a month, it's still worth a few minutes of bull**** every now and then.

My thank you to all the responses, majority of the posts most certainly has let me know just how stupid I have been and am...

There were a number of posts giving instances and then asking if i thought they a liar or are lying, no that is not what i was saying at all, if u change your mind then fine at least have the balls to say so but then don't keep coming back asking for something that is really not wanted. i am sorry that my questions had people thinking the way they did, that was not what i said at all.

I wish everyone well, Goodbye..

I think u r young, not stupid. Pls post yr nuckname. I would like to chat with you

Perhaps it is just me you hardly scream honesty when you don't post with your real member name so people can contact you. Why on earth would you feel disappointed should post hers so you can talk to her?

It sorta typifies what she has been saying about people with ulterior motives who lie to become friends, lie to become lovers, lie to get what they want without any concern for others.

I somehow doubt you will be haring from her any time soon, she is prolly fed up of people never saying what they mean and I could not blame her. Just leave her be, she has had enough 'helpful' advice on this matter. I don't think she wants or needs any more.


TNTIAEBSPOB

It should always be remembered that members can have multiple real names - even ones specifically purposed for ulterior motives. Sad but true.

I think it best just to accept this place for what it is and not risk anything too precious here. Fun can still be had, I think.

BTW, what on earth does TNTIAEBSPOB mean?

How perceptive! I am impressed!

Bottom line: Guys want sex and when they come to a sex site they think they are meeting girls that want sex too! Ever heard of friends with benefits? Well when guys want to be your friend here that is what they are thinking. Once you understand that then it should reduce future misunderstandings.
I am a host here and I experienced meeting a member 1 time that also disappointed me when I met him. Yep he wanted sex and yet we had agreed to friends only. He also was nothing like he sounded through conversations. I let it go and took it as a compliment that I am just as sexy in person as I am online :). I felt stupid at first with the illusion that after seeing me in lingerie here that he would hold to his word. I don't know how many times in my life I have heard let's just sleep together and 'just" cuddle, no sex....lol. Learned from that one too! Now I know how men think and I don't put myself in circumstance where they have to lie. So it is hard to relate to the fact that they are all liars when they are just being a guy and being attracted.
All hosts here are approached as you are daily because this is a sex site and we hosts look hot. That is a good reason to NOT pursue friendships here at a personal level if you don't want to have sex with them. On the other hand girls are here to make money so guys need to realize that if a host is telling you things like I want to be your friend or I love you, etc.they see you as another member that they want to keep you coming back. Not that I am accusing you of that at all but so many here do just that. So many members get hurt when they find out that she is also telling others the same thing and has no intention of anything personal. Unfortunately these are the games on a sex site for many and also in real life sometimes.
The only insurance that anyone can have to not get hurt here is to keep your relationships here and virtual and not take it to a personal level and don't believe everything you hear. Doesn't make it ok but it is reality.
You are so annoyed with all here because we don't feel your hurt and hate but just maybe we understand very well and we put it all in a different perspective than you. If you understand the nature of the beast then you can avoid future disappointments and heal from the past. It sounds like your anger is blocking a lot of reality you don't want to hear.
Good luck with getting beyond your hurt and anger and I hope that you never have to experience it again!! Hugs!

All men are pigs! Oink oink

As long as they have the bacon that is good :)

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i always have that problem too im always standing on my head its not my fault tho it always hang out of the bottom of my trousers :)

lol! I like from A to E (F are the worst, no matter what size)

i found myself to be a H LOOOOOL...HEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELP

9) Sex with a canary - Norwich Union

Not forgetting:-

Sex with a vacuum cleaner - General Accident

;)

Sex with a prostitute - Commercial Union

haha same here

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I think CC has been making more important changes this year ie changing the video screen size, HD pictures etc.... I am sure we can keep waiting for the CCmail thing considering they are making bigger changes. its not that big an inconvenience!

Got me laughing :))

can i marry you PalomaNegra? ur brilliant!

Tahts baucese the eye and mnid sees waht it wnats to see and deonst for intsnace crae aobut the mdidle of a wrod, olny the bigennnig and end of it!

Good one!!

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a 3some with me? what if i dont wanna?

I will sub in for you. :)) HAHAHA!

Your bf posted this a couple months ago...

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His wife:P

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who started that nonsense lie anyway paloma?

so now i have a gf AND a wife? wooohooo i'm a fricking god...do i have any kids i dont know about either??

If you do I hope they got their mother's looks :P

and dont forget you still have corin , :))))

Did anyone give YOU permission to breed? NO!

Thats funny!

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LOL Honestly best wishes to you and all others in the path of Hurricane Irene!! Advice from a Florida Hurricane survivor that lots of gallons of water, easy accessibility to candles and flashlights with good batteries come in very handy days after a hurricane if the power is down. Prayers to all members and hosts in the path of Irene for safety through the next days!! We'll be here waiting for you when it's over :)
P.S. Nice priority list....hehe!

whatever you do, just don't forget to hunker down.

send her all ur money now!

you should ask her to increse the price for you slave, the biggest is the best :-)...and enjoy your slavery!!!

See a mental professional now!

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Probably not the best thing to say for business.

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Guys pay money for a woman to make fun of the size of their cock? Really? I get that every weekend for free...boy are those guys lame. :)

Not for her business. Her cuckold sissy boys are in SPH and CBT.

What do u consider a small cock??? In size i mean, hard not soft..

Anything under 8" ;)

Theres a free small cock quiz in my website. "Only 4 cc members"

Enjoy!!

:)

That is what they want you to do is laugh at them.....I am too sweet to do that for them....feels very mean.

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does anything ever really become of the suggestions for change posted in the forums?

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most members are male and may not want their picture on a site in this marketplace.

are there many women viewers on here? would a guy have any chance of making money?

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shes wondering why members dont like to send cam when in vid , cam 2 cam .

Only a mindreader could see that... you are?

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maybe your right, not really sure.

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if i was paid every time i see a guy wank... oh wait, i am! :D

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Or smartass replies

why only care about what you dont see instead of what we do see , and thats sexy beautiful women from all over the world .

and its not as it used to be....
cc is falling behind other sites for not renovating. The only one thing that "keeps some" of the members is the fantasy and interaction between host and member. Performance and host service is far better found in other places.

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Wow I never thought of each dollar going a certain place for a bisquit or 2 bills. Wouldn't like the desperate feeling of being online if I thought of it that way. I think of what fun it can be while in video and to assure the member also has fun. Is always a nice surprise when I log off of how much that fun paid :)

1. Free public videos - have this .... even saw nudity in one but i guess that isn't allowed

2. Tipping - i am sure a host and u can find ways to get her more money lol..


3. HD video - this will happen sooner or later but connections not good enough for many hosts and members

4..Member friendly contests - if u win and didn't spend a lot, it is friendly, lol, and the one where we jumped in and out of video every 5 min was member friendly since hosts kept prices low but it was annoying

5. A reduction in the number of categories.- two were eliminated about two years ago... could be more if need be

6. REAL porn stars - there are at least two i can think of that i have seen on cc somewhat recently... look for hosts that use first and names such as kylie nash.... some of them could be porn stars.

other than the above, ur 100% correct lol

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If I wanted to see a porn star, I would rent a DVD for far less than a video chat would cost. And most porn stars look more like plastic Barbie Dolls and real women.

With the exception of HD video that would be my list of things I never want to see on CC.

Exactly. That's like my "please don't do these things" list.

1. Tipping. If tipping is allowed, it will become expected. Hosts will complain about members who don't tip, or tip less than they hope for. The same members who complain now about having to spend 30 seconds in video before the host strips will complain 10x as much about hosts not doing things because they weren't tipped last time.

Real Porn Stars? Actually, there are a few here. But it's not as if they're exactly hard to find, either at their own sites or other networks. As others have said, most members here like the fact that most of the hosts are regular women -- students or whatever, just better looking and sexier (and willing to talk to us).

Fewer Categories: Why? To make it harder to find what I want? To increase the amount of misunderstandings between members and hosts? If I'm not interested in a category, I just don't go there.

HD Video: I have enough video problems without trying to shove lots more bytes down my connection. By the time I have the capacity, I predict CC will have it.

Totally agree!! More changes usually cause more technical problems and it works fine now. Another site that has tipping also keeps 2/3 of the tip and the girl gets 1/3. Who needs it!
Happy with CC and it works fine....

Free Public Video: What would this site POSSIBLY gain from that. First, hosts universally say they hate it. I started at a site that had it, years ago. Don't miss it one bit. I can't imagine how I host could possibly get tired of posing for drunk jerks, answering "where are you from" and "hi" 500x each hour, and thinking of creative responses to "show your tits" (or pussy, or whatever). If you want to know what a host looks like, you can look at her photos. If you go in video and she doesn't look like her photos, you're out 1 minute of video, and if you can't afford that you should probably focus your $$'s on important things like paying your mortgage and keeping the electricity turned on than on video chat. And if you want to know what a host will do, you can always ask in text chat or a mail -- yes, they could lie, but they're a hell of a lot more likely to lie in free video.

Absolutely correct about FLC on other sites. They make you do it so that you can utilize other benefits including not having to do it after so many hours. All hosts hate it and it brings very few paying customers. It has never been worth the torture that you have to endure during FLC. Sure cheap guys can get their jolly's and wank away harassing the hosts to take it off. Other sites the hosts pay is dependent on tips so they do it. The hosts could start blocking every member that doesn't come into private or tip...guess they didn't think of that....meaning the members that love it so much.

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Have you ever thought in your moments of despair with this site that not all thinks like you and those things might not have any value to others? With the execption of HD I think most don't really need those things. When saying HD I am pretty sure it is mostly guys that want the fine details. If this is upsetting you so much that you have to look ahead to create more sadness for yourself then I suggest seeing your Dr.

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Exactly, If I wanted those things, I would visit other places instead of here, but here is the only site I visit so maybe those are not so important.

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Steak menu on a cheeseburger budget.. its always the same thing here...
People want the moon.. don't want to pay for rocket fuel..

That was very good and so true!!

Remember it is the HOSTS who don't favor teaser vids, not the members.

While some of these things are probably never going to happen here, I have thought about them and would like to chime in as a long-time visitor to CC.

I don't want free vids so much as a more accurate up-to-date view of the host. Yes, I can go into vid but that still costs money, no matter how little. Profile pics are sometimes VERY outdated and the host could have a new hair color or style, for instance. Once in a while it is even an entirely new host. There are viewers who value things like that. Also, I hate jumping into chat and finding no host there. Some ideas:
a) Update the profile photo with snaps from current or most recent video session. The host could even take the snap themselves to avoid pics that show too much (if they care about that).
b) Allow the host the option of posting a preview vid. It can be a short "Hello I'm so-and-so" or they can do (or show) whatever they like. Again, it could be optional, but it might attract viewers to a host if they see a personality versus just a "posed Glamour Shot".
c) Have a "quick peek" of the host's current video session. A short 10 seconds maybe from their profile page. This could even be a pay service offered by CC themselves, though I personally would not pay a lot for it (maybe $10 for a year? who knows).

HD video is definitely high on my wish list.

Other things I would love to see here:
1. More detailed profiles. CC has one of the most generic and least informational profile setups out there. There are many physical features that some viewers find more desirable. Breast size, height, how they trim themselves below, etc. "Body type" tells me almost nothing. I am sure some girls are self-conscious about putting weight on there, but maybe guys are interested in that as well.
2. A better evalutaion forum or comment area for viewers. One that cannot be edited by hosts! It is extremely rare to find ANY comments about a host in the very poorly designed "Forum" on their profile. Yes, it can be abused but that is the case on every other cam service site out there. Maybe it will make some of the less-personable hosts a little more wary. These could be moderated, I guess, with foul language and personal attacks being unallowed.

Just tossing some thoughts in there. Some might agree or not, but hey. this is a discussion forum, is it not? Personally I feel that CC has fallen behind in the technical aspects, not necessarily in cost or host quality. I mean, it took years for them to do anything about updating the video area, and pictures still only work halfway.

What?

Have the forums sunk to a new low, that a thread is started making fun of people with serious mental illnesses. I thought your previous postings had been reasonably sensible...just shows how wrong one can be!

Oh get off your politically-correct high-horse.

A group of senior citizens was going to the movies and Betty was asking John if she could sit next to him, John said "sure you can". Betty then asked " can I hold you hand during the movie" John said "sure you can". Betty became more bold and asked John "can I put my hand in your pants and hold your member during the movie" John said" No, Irene gets to do that"

Betty becomes upset and asks" What does Irene have that I don't?"

John replies " Parkinson's disease "

That was terrible.
I fucking loved it.

LOL!

Well....I might have Alzheimers but thank God I don't have Alzheimers...

Pfff.. they were saying today on the radio that around the earth, theirs something like 1500 earthquakes a day.. virtually all are in places no one notices or to small to notice. Nature is always active.. the earths not going to end. It will be here long after what we know today is nothing but dust..

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Richard Dawkins?

We should all be more environment earth friendly. Unfortunately we are the ones causing through time the natural disasters that we see today. Our weakened ozone layer from what we put into the air, how long can we drill into the earth before it starts to cave in causing earthquakes, tsunami's, etc. How much pollution can we bury in the ground and toss recklessly into waterways and ocean before we create toxins. Man kind has done this and we are just now becoming aware enough to implement safeguards. Many are still too lazy to change. Have fun here while you can go out with a smile at least :))

Whilst I agree we should all be environmentally friendly, it serves the cause no favours to make extravagant claims, and earthquakes and tsunamis will continue to be caused by natural tectonic plate movement, irrespective of any drilling by man.

People don't willingly give up anything. The only hope that particular cause has is a huge culling of humankind.

Humans are no more to the Earth than a flee on the back of an elephant. We really won't even make it itch and definitely not make more earth quakes and such with our little tiny effects. Only in the movies can we make such problems for the planet.

Google "Hank Johnson Guam" and click to view the YouTube video in the first link.

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Every day we are one day closer to our death, regardless of the date. And how do you know we will make it to 21 december 2012?

All you can do is try to be a good person, help others and be happy. I don't really think you can stop natural disasters although perhaps global warming increases the number of floods, hurricanes and tornadoes. But earthquakes and volanoes... don't think we can stop those or that we do anything to increase their number.

We are definitely not causing the earth quakes and volcanoes and honestly the whole global warming scare is only the earth naturally warming as it comes out of the last ice age. The earth has been much warmer in the past and instead of everything dying, life actually exploded with much faster growth at those times. The only thing man will lose because of it will be the cities we built too close to the oceans. We try to hold back the changes nature throws at us and we always lose in the end, this will be no different. If we will stop worrying how to stop it and begin planning on how to adapt we will be much better off.

Just like all the floods in the middle of the US this year were caused by man trying to keep the rivers from flooding, more damage along the coasts will be caused by man trying to control nature instead of learning to adapt to it.

Don't worry! Once you're gone you'll have no memories of what you're missing :))

No need to do that here; there are other sites better suited for that.

I agree completely. You can ask any host and they will tell you they hate free public video. We don't have that here and that is the No1 reason hosts are here.

he didn't say "free"

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Public?? No I don't schedule shows in Public :) I think in most places it would be against the law to do a strip show in Public, that's why I come here!

As I mentioned in a post a while back Dave Dave the Rave would arrange for a host to do a wet t-shirt contest and let all his buddies know. So the host would do an open video with a wet t-shirt and strip and there were several men watching. It was a lot of fun and the host walked away with making far more per minute than she ever could in 121. Think about it ladies....

I would watch if it was a fun host

Yeah they were pretty much fun girls with good english and a sense of humor...plus they were hotter as hell. Also smart enough to figure out it was a win-win for them. I know I went back to see a couple of the hosts who did a group show on my own. The issue is the process started in Comm Chat. Back a few years ago there were a bunch of fun regulars...now it is like walking down a street in a red light district....just solicitations.

a host could post here, and set a time, and we could all show up! Any girla like the udea?

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there are no better/worse categories, just categories for each and everyone, d'uh!

the original post is on the money.

the idea that guys like to come here and watch the dollars mount while watching a woman do nothing more than type is ludicrous. And that's basically all that Glamour offers. It's a useless category.

Most of the discussion it garners expresses frustration with it.

You are a hardcore viewer and do not think like viewers that appreciate softcore and glamour. Speak for yourself since you do not know how others think that appreciate it. Stay in hardcore and you should be happy!

It isn't necessarily a better category to the hardcore viewers it is a pain in the *ss for them and those are the complainers that post here. Before you get yourself in a fluff with feeling "glamour is better" i think you should read the comments posted...

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The girls that do hardcore in glamour do not do well because they are not hardcore viewers that hang there. They are not looking for a show and toys etc. If hosts and viewers would stay in the categories that they enjoy all would be fine and wouldn't get so confused....those are the ones that post here.

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my fav categories are Not So Shy and Fetish, many great girls. And IA is too expensive.

"men dont care about the one they fuck but they care about the ones they dont get!"

Very true. Men want what they can't have and hosts in Glamour and shy take advantage and makes loads of money because of it.

They don't do well for long....sorry that you are so confused in your comments.

Glamour is about tease and play by a host that is very glamorous and doesn't necessarily strip. Guys that appreciate girls there do not post here often. They enjoy the interaction in getting to know the host and get excited by her beauty and tease and play only. It is the seduction for them that is their foreplay.
The guys that complain here constantly are hardcore viewers that get lost and go to softcore expecting the same action and they don't get it. Funny but the girls that don't belong there and perform hardcore usually end up at the bottom with low stars. It's like a love hate for the guys that complain here. They are not a typical softcore viewer that enjoys that softer category. Hardcore viewers would be more apt to have a one night stand. Softcore viewers that frequent softcore would never consider sex with a stranger without developing a relationship.
So what you see here are generally complaints about Glamour and the ones that enjoy it don't post here. It's not necessarily good comments here because they don't understand the difference where honestly they should stick to hardcore shows.

"Glamour is about tease and play by a host that is very glamorous and doesn't necessarily strip. Guys that appreciate girls there do not post here often. They enjoy the interaction in getting to know the host and get excited by her beauty and tease and play only. It is the seduction for them that is their foreplay."

Exactly! But you forgot to mention the money slaves, money pigs, cuckolds etc.

They belong in fetish or dungeon along with the hosts that like to play their games :)

"They belong in fetish or dungeon along with the hosts that like to play their games :)"

I agree. But they are everywhere on site. All hosts in Glamour are Dominas

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That's true. This site has become "Slave Central".

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"What is the use to work on a porn site if you dont do porn "

Most members and hosts agree CC is NOT a porn site.!

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Maybe he need to go out more, but you too and need too look into the mirror... 'Gentlemen', 'appreciate', 'woman'... Thank you for the laugh.

Maybe you wouldn't know because you have to be a lady before you can attract gentlemen...

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What is PPS?

password protected session

"i don't get it, why would anyone complain about a host using this?"

If you are referring to the post about hosts in not shy/IA using it, the post was asking if hosts in not shy/IA could require 121 for show as softcore hosts do.

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"Just don't be asking every host here to do it!! "

No, was not saying hosts in hardcore require 121 for show, but some do.

thank you but i have found out what it means.

enjoy the site and have a great day.... :)

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To Wondering,
You should have answer what "sit mei narro bonus"? Cause u already post here so i don';t think that would be fair to all of us "host and Members" if u refused to answer then next time we will not help u at all... You are smart in ass because u use wondering as "host" nickname lol

I do apologize for not saying what it means...... it means "he is mine now say goodbye". i was not in any way trying to be unfair, so i apologize again for not saying what it meant.

I am not sure what u meant when you said "You are smart in ass because u use wondering as "host" nickname lol " is there a problem with me using the name wondering, so many on here (both hosts and members) use other names such as host, another glam host, a host, good point, don't panic, and so on....did i do something wrong with using the name wondering?

I hope I did not upset anyone as again my question nor my not answering was meant to upset.

YOU SUCK!!!!!
there you go, i hope it helps! :p

Good for you. I say the same when I leave work too. Totally different work but never-the-less.