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sweetie, what u want? she is a host. this is her job. i tell my members diferent stories depending on waht the member wants. some members get turned on to know i am married and others want to hear i am single. maybe she is honest with u and what u want? that she says that she love a man she met on internet to all men? no, she is here to earn money not to lose it. sorry she broke ur heart. try to look for woman in ur town. here u need to be very open mind and cool on what ur gf say and do with other men.

My personal thoughts on that is if you know it is a fantasy that a member is indulging then fine and well to tell him what he is wanting to hear. But if the member cannot distinguish fantasy from reality, or if he really believes your story, then it is wrong for you to tell him what he hears. You are no better than a used car salesman who is lying about the car in order to make a sale. I think honesty is best, as I think it must be very hard to tell if it is just a person's playful fantasy or his real-life expectations. Of course, being honest doesn't mean you have to give every detail of your life, but it does mean not promising love when there is no love, or a possible real-life relationship when there is no such possibility. Personally, hosts who play to a person's mistaken expectations, while they may be making money, are despicable deceitful persons. The rules for chathosts, I believe, are that you are not to lie to your customers, promising things that are not so. Isn't that right?

Grrrr, well I didn't express myself too well on that. What I'm trying to say is that Hosts who intentionally mislead a viewer into thinking there is a relationship when there is none, are doing a very wrong thing just to make money. Playing with a person's heart and feelings is bad. If he knows it is all just a fantasy, okay, but it appears that there are quite a few who truly believe the lie. Yes, they are wrong to be so gullible, but so is the host for taking advantage of it.

Just my opinion.

Many times people perceive and hear what they want to. If she lied and broke his heart he should be thankful that he found out now and not down the road. It is sad to say but there are some greedy hosts on here that will literally do anything for money....makes all the rest look bad too :(

Well, I would add, that there certainly are members who come in here expecting the wrong thing, and setting themselves up for hurt and maybe worse. Whether or not hosts will meet a member is really not what this site is about. it is about virtual relationship, fantasy-enjoyment, and pleasure. When we take it to what it is not really intended to be, that is a dating site (and yes, I know that Make New Friends and Long Term Relationship acknowledges that as a purpose -- but still this is not first and foremost a dating site) then a person is setting himself up for problems. The sad thing is, there are lonely people who are in bad or unfulfilling relationships in real life, who "latch on to" a host's affections and attentions and interpret it as "love", when maybe 99.9% of the time it is business.

I see your point but imagine you are a host and you have a choice.
1. Tell the truth, don't hurt anyone and earn 2 dollars.
2. Tell what viewers want to hear, nothing close to the reality and potentially earn a few grand down the line.

What would you go for?

do everthing ...we pay

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It is a common story. Members fall for hosts and lose more than just money. I've done it and so have many others. All I can say is that time heals it.

I'm not sure that anything can be gained from confronting the host.

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Believe me she likes you too. There are not many guys here who can be so tender and considering and are genuinly interested in us. I remember some guests I met here 4 or 5 years ago. Some (a few) people differ so much from the rude, disappointed mainstream. They just have something. It is like magic and you don't believe it can be real. Maybe that's why she is protecting her heart. If we truly believe in magic- the fall back to earth can be very hard. But believe me I sometimes regret I have not met one of those few special guys...

It's all about the money, broken heart. It is the driver of all good and all that is wrong.

Hosts know that a guy's ego is fragile and will tell you anything to take advantage of it, but there are many hosts here who have the courtesy and kindness to let you know where they stand.

Also, do not confront her with it. Nothing good will come from that approach. Just let the heart heal, and the world will turn.

Good luck to you.

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You wouldn't believe how many viewers tell me they are single and do not bother even taking their wedding ring off when showing their cam!
I guess you need to approach falling for hosts on here with care, find the balance and don't shut your heart off completely because you may miss out on the greatest love of your life. Good luck!

Have you heard the saying
ignorance is bliss?
It is good that you know now,
that this is a fantasy place.
The chathosts that work here are performers,
actors. If you see a television program or movie,
does it upset you, when they say it is not real?
You feel not happy and maybe a little angry.
If you confront her with what you did, you will only
feel worse! The chathost was only doing her job.
Giving you a fantasy.
How can you justify being deceptive, to try and tell
her, you want her to be honest?
There are millions of women for you to meet!
Go and find a real and good woman, you will be happy!

You nailed dude. This is a place for fun and fantasy. Period.

I agree too. The girls here learn so much stuff in this job that they will not make a good wife anymore... I know many hosts that got married and left this job, but still want to meet me in real... only with me? lol.

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maybe for u its was real she - .and for other guy, who is u also.. she was fake.?

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Also many members lie. Correction; ALL members lie.

I don't

Speak for yourself...which is, of course, all in reality you can do but often forgotten when people deceive themselves into thinking they have the intellect to make representative statements.

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I don't lie. Correction: only about age, name, and size of my dick..opps, nose.

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you meet a guy there in your country and didn't work, belive me if you loving him all stuff wil be good amd he too,try and try to keep the relationship. you are cute girl, and with the members ....belive no chance with them, they lie a lot. they no how to play theatre, like us :) .
So go for it girl don't give up. i passed once again and i didn't go to other...its not ok again and again ...belive i staid with my man i liked him the way he was and the same he ..and i will mary with him. and with him it was hard in the beging. but i had patience.. and now everthing is ok. he took some months to be himself. Go and talk with him.. belive me with the members really...nothing working they are from another country and you don't have trust....because you don t know what will happend out side is very dangerous with this people it s ok first time then is BAD ... belive me talk again ...and you wil be good and with the future :) and babyes :P

maybe try to get back you relationship back with that man from your country ...and resolve it to back togheter....AND with the members belive me DANGER with them just take them money ....and love the person from your country ;) kiss baby and GOOD LUCK >:D< :*

LIE LIE LIE LIE LIE LIE nothing just LIE
just for fuck ......try to have your relationship back ;) not friends ...succes

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hey thats not true...we never lie! or maybe im lying and we really do lie...or am i lying by saying that we lie but we dont really lie? damn now im confused :(

You never in video...so what are you talking about??

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yes with other countrys is not good with this guy's....i tried too much and is better with your country :)....i am independent women too and with the members belive me no trust ...a true man dosen't belong here ;) ...and too choose not so poor man juts to live with happines and a member .... let me see "not so poor man juts to live with happines" it's better i m married now, and i m great i have what i need kiss and good luck

ever thought that maybe i lie hen i say i dont got vid but really i do? think about it.....members lie ;)

I reckon you go to video under different screen name. Or you really are a sado with no money and nothing to do with his time only hanging around here.

u described me to a T....well done :)

I’m so sorry that you get hurt, if you ask me; you should go and talk with her, clear the situation. Maybe she had a good reason to tell you those lies. The fact that she works on other sites has nothing to do with you; she’s just trying to earn her living. Maybe she once was hurt, like you now or maybe you are just a paycheck, she is the only one who knows for sure the truth, we only can speculate. So go and talk with her maybe you’ll kiss and virtually made-up. I’ll keep my fingers crossed
Kisses

No offence INYF but Balderdash. The chance of this working out for Broken Hearted is probably less than the chance of him winning $20 million in the lottery. If he pursues this he'll almost certainly just stretch out his heartache and financial loss.

"Why do hosts do this? Should I face her about all her lies??"
Don`t listen to all advices above.
WAKE UP!! She does not love you, don`t spend anymore time or money on this host

doesnt sound like u love HIM...u love the person he is pretending to be.....and yes he is very stupid by changing who he is just to suit u

he is changing for me because he loves me and that it\'s good for him and for me. I know, he will be better. and i feel this. For what to give up for another person ? For better life with no love, no tnx. because in that life, is not for me and i know it, i ve been passed once again and belive me, better like this ;)

u dont get the point i guess..oh well...good luck

Its better for him?
He may have changed, but that rarely lasts.....

And are you changing for him ? If not I'm in agreement with shy.

he really love's me...and i love him, i don't want have another relationship, for what to tell to someone "my story" again. Belive me IMSHY and his not stupid for what hi is doing. first time , he is doing for our love and second for him. This is much better And really i love him...i spend all the time with him and to give up, now ? no tnx.
and if he love s me... not letting me down no matter what !!! ;)

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So long as the couple are kind/considerate and faithful to each other, then i agree with you Corinnee... we should accept the flaws.

wb so soon after you were leaving forever ......lmao

Corinnee, who are you welcoming back?

You have not been specific enough in what has passed between you and your bf for imshy or anybody else to comment sensibly on the situation so, don't worry, their comments may be safely ignored and you will be none the worse for it.

she was specific...she called him "stupid" when he was being himself...and she is trying to change him to what she wants...rather than change him she should find the person that IS that way already...it will end in disaster...for him..not her!

lol....seems like the spirit of the late Clare Rayner has found a new body to inhabit already!

who the fuck is clare raynor?and er...thank you?

LOL How do we know if ur bf is stupid or what? We never met u or ur bf in real!! Anyway Why u asked us here instead of ask ur friends, co worker, family in real!!!!

Very good point Gentleman....like the opinions here have all the details of the story...LOL.

Aren't the foundations of love kindness and faithfulness? – although each to their own. If yr man is changing to more ethical conduct or acting more considerate to you then this is positive. And I am sure he wants the same of you. On the other hand, if changing means accepting yr unkindness and unfaithfulness or inconsiderate behaviour, then he is a fool. If you want him to meet yr needs while accepting yr bad behaviours then it is a slave or a robot you want, not love. Where there is master and slave there is no love. If he has respect for himself he can find better.

wtf? some of u guys seem to be reading another post or have some agenda of ur own ur trying to push here, master/slave jeez! it's quite common for girls to fall for the bad/cheeky guy and then hope to change him as they grow older. why don't u give the girl a break, she loves him and if he doesn't want to change then he has a brain in his head to make his own choice. just cracks me up u guys come here (same as me) to stare as half or fully naked women and jerk off and now ur all experts on love and relationships.

she posted the thread seeking responses. Anyway if you read properly, i gave 2 scenarios. I said if she just wanted the man to change for her needs while behaving badly as she wants. Attilassx didn't specify the changes she wants in her man,so we areleft to guess. Next time don't jump in unless you've understood the post.

Another thing Mr Joe, not everyone comes here and jerks off. Don't measure all by yr own low standards.

I think all depends on how he is changing- if she inspired him to give up smoking or loose some weight or to start with a new occupation- it's good for all. I mean it is a tangible change. Not just his words of how much better he is becoming...

Peace and love for all!
xxx

ah low standards because i admit i come here to wank, i do love being preached to by the high and mighty. if it wasn't for the wankers on this site there would be no site for you to come to and "talk" to hosts

Keep in mind promises are words and actions always speak louder than words :) Addictions only change when it's the choice of the person with the problem....not ever for relationships or other people!

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There is a new study about women and how they feel about their asses: the results were pretty interesting.

30% of women think their ass was too fat.

10% of women think their ass is too skinny.

The remaining 60% say they don't care - they love him, he's a good man and they wouldn't trade him for the world!

Good One!! :))

My first 2 wives thought I was intelligent when they met me then realised I was stupid after we got married. My 3rd wife realised I was stupid before we got married but that I was intelligent enough to marry her. The first 2 were stupid to marry me, the 3rd was intelligent enough to know I was stupid but intelligent enough to recognise a good thing when I saw it. I hope this helps.

I learned my lesson after one wife. I bought a dog

are you intending to make love to someone special :P?
Will you give us any particulars on that ?

(I hate poetry in general but I like your mysterious thoughts)

Search to google :)))

me too i love my boy .i don't care his most time stupid ...but I LOVE HIM ... i think he will be great in future :X love him

i am glad for you ....maybe tommorow i will make some LOVE with my bf ;;) :P

Then why are you still working on this site? Go girl and get some work you both can be proud of, without exposing yourself to strange men.

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I agree with my home girl Boombaby. In fact many guys get turned on strange guys looking at their g/f nude or even having real sex with strange guys.

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You hubby or b/f does not have to worry about you showing anything in pvt.

What a hypocrite!

Surely theres no 'strange men' on CC?? I find it too hard to believe!

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go and do some love with your man.. woman.
and make him love too and try to share the problems in 2 :P. kiss

But make sure you do it in One2One and not in open!

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the ending is a bit vague as a good poetic ending should be... I didn't understand who should please whom after all *blush* But the verse was sexy ;)

we should try to please the one's who pleases us. And not expect so much for our efforts. That's all i meant. Contentment is the only cure for expectations.

so, if we have great and good expectations, it is better to have them fulfiled?

I hear the one who had his wife AND mistress waiting for him has asked to go down again :)

Yeah he may have to "go down" twice now.

I couldn't agree more. Over half of them are out now, Let's just hope that it continues to go so smoothly.

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23 have been rescued now.

It's wonderful!

All 33 Chilean miners have been rescued, safely.

Again, Michael Moore has his facts wrong.

He questioned, on Larry King Live, why wasn't the USA down in Chile helping out. The fact is, it was a USA hard rock drilling company that drilled and placed the casing for both the pilot hole to the enlarged hole where a basket could be lowered; and, it was a drilling rig made in the USA that was used to drill the hole; and, it was a drilling bit made in the USA at the biting end of the drilling rig; and, it was an American, and his colleagues, that operated the rig that enabled the rescue effort.

Screw you, Michael Moore.

Michael Moore and Larry King should be lowered into that mine and kept there

yeah, i agree, both clowns deserve some kind of lesson.

I don't know how Moore gets away with his sh*t. He is now accepting some fancy award for a life of achievements. Damn!! I thought that award went to people who actually achieved something.

he has....he achieved to be the worlds biggest idiot....but i'll take that award from him some day....watch this space!!

LOL I will keep my eyes peeled for it.

Also NASA helped design the rescue capsule.

And I do agree that if they are not going to reopen that mine, then Michael Moore should be left down there, but they will have to drill a bigger hole first just to fit his head lol.

Does that mean they'll send it to Mars?..

<<Also NASA helped design the rescue capsule.>>

I don't have verification of that, so I will have to believe you, but it doesn't surprise me. NASA typically overdesigns and overbudgets everything they do. I thought it looked too simple a design for them.

Oh, and the mine will remain open, just that part of the mine where the 33 there were will be closed for good once the casing is closed.

the drilling bit was made in europe not usa ;)

You are misinformed, hmmm. It was made in a Nevada foundry. Check your source.

This is what is best about the human race....

YES YES YES I'm very happy that all 33 Chilean miners alive and doing as well!!! :)))) I hope they will have a nice life in future also!!

mmmmm chili.

Block them from what - sending you CC mail? How bad can it be, dude? You host magnet, you. Oh well, when ya got, ya got it, right? Anyway, if you think these pesky cyber-stalkers are posing a threat to your well-being, try clicking "deny user" at the top of the page when you are reading a message from someone.

When she comes at you, throw your arms in the air and raise your knee.

That's true. And if you can do both together that's even better :D (Unless she is laughing because of your boner.)

Story of my life :(

Sounds like the video I had back in 1998 with a host who fell off the back of a couch, but there was some alcohol involved with that one lol. I think she did it more than once too. A few years later same host tried doing a hand stand against her bedroom wall but didn't realize how far she was from the wall. Her feet hit the wall so hard that it knocked photos off her neighbors bedroom wall lol. Took a little explaining for her that time. One of the best friends and hosts I ever knew, thanks for the good times Sunny.

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text chat should be 5 hours long followed by a weekly 5 min video at .50c

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Totally agree! Isn't the purpose of cc for people to meet other people from around the world?

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I limit myself to 2 minutes or less. The I either go or go to pvt. I respect the host's time and ask her to respect mine. Also I think viewer should have to be in pvt at least 5 minutes before he can vote for host. But hosts should know viewer has option of no vote also.

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I know ure joking rushost,we cant be always serious and cruel right :)))? im just being honest about my room, not full of lyes like others. its true,i can be a bitch sometimes but also a loyal and honest friend for who deserve it. love me or hate me :P

Yikes a little too mercenary for me. Glad to know ahead of time, though :)

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If text chat were meant to be as you say it, cc would limit a member to 2 minutes, then it would time out. Most other sites let you SEE the girl and do text chat, paying only for private video. So don't be so stuffy about it

And the girls on these sites show more in freechat than most of you hosts in open

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yes....why ure here if u prefer other sites? oohhhh....i remembered......only here u can find girls charging only 0.50 cents/min....cmon u make us laugh guys,u really think we are all that stupid? think again! and by they way...my room my rules,im not giving u my time for free coz ure in the mood to talk FOR FREE. u dont go to a restaurant eating the starter and not payng,same here. if u dont like when a woman have bigger balls than u back up sweety :)))))))))))))))))))))))))

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The pattern of CC is already on Freechat, but you girls don`t use it.
Your Open Sessions are "Paid Freechat"
And i have seen CC-Girls performing simultaneously on these other sites.
You ask for loyalty of us members, but what about your`s?

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Boombaby, you can do whatever you want :) it is your business. We are the customers to choose what we like, and i think i like you.
Nobody expects a chatgirl to sit in freechat all time of her schedule, but it would be a good attitude to give her free liveview maybe 15 - 20 min per shift.

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Hm, i understand...
Yes, there are a lot of childish lurkers around...

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Some star at 1.99 and some start at .98 And some are free can tip is you choose.

actually other site price start at .49, and freechat with video, but these site pay smaller % to hosts, and thats why i prefer to have video here, because most of us members actually do think what is better for hosts, still you often seem to forget it

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Here is the facts on other sites and why guys stay here. This site is more like a community, they feel a sense of belonging. When they want to see a show, I bet a lot of them are going someplace else and watching for free or spending minimal money to get what they want. As some of the hosts who work on different sites can tell you, they are earning more other places right now.

Let me ask this to all hosts. How is your traffic? Is it slower? Earnings less? IF you answer yes to those, why do you think that is? I am willing to bet that its not because of the members are making less money, they are just choosing to spend it other places where there is not the attitude that you have expressed.

I have spent over $200,000.00 on c.c., but not this year. This year I have spent my money on those "other sites". Push us away if you wish, but there are a limited number of us.

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i think you missed the point. So many of you say go away, and he did just that.

Whaaaaaaaaat? 20 millions of $...lol I dont believe you, sorry.

200 thousand not 20 million. I probably spend about 20 thousand on here that I don't anymore cause I can get what I want else where and there is no attitude.

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The attitude that "I am too good to talk to you in text chat". I get that its a job and the hosts are here to make money but it seems that more and more have an attitude that if you spend more than a minute in text chat that you are a loser and not worth the time.

Why would you keep going to the hosts that do that?? That is not the majority on this site at all!!! Not a good reason for your attitude. Yet you come here to make posts??? What is your problem? That is an excuse not a reason!!

I don't have a problem. Sure I still come here and post sometimes and talk to some people in com chat from time to time but my money gets spend elsewhere, thats all.

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For a member a perfect text chat would be long and uninteruppted and full of jokes, and exhanges of information, and flirting and finally a discussion of what the video would be like....and that is fantasyland as that type of chat rarely happens.

For a host a chat would be short, and interuppted by other members waiting to start a video, a quick joke, an exhange of info (mostly false) and an agreement to go to video right away and strip.....

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Tanned , long dark hair , light eyes , full lips , round forms

preferably 2 legs 2 arms

Exotic is a woman thats different in a sexy way. Big dark eyes, cinammon skin. Dark hair. Could also be blonde and tanned skin. Exotic is not the everyday type or your next door neighbor's daugther unless she is hot as some hosts here :-P

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sure, exotic for u is green skin, blue hair, 3 eyes, 4 arms and 6 legs?

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Mysterious, rare.

I think of mostly of an island beauty, not Asian, but more South Pacific, dark silky hair, deeply tanned olive skin, dark penetrating eyes.

long wavy dark hair. big dark eyes, long lashes,long legs, long fingers,tall,big breast,.....white flower in hair :P.... slednder body..... nude :P

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coming from a culture with predominately brown and to a lesser extent blue eyes, other colors are exotic to me esp green.

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Exotic for me means TellMeMoree topless again

exotic = expensive

just like an exotic car :)

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Besides, being exotic isnt only about the colour of hair and the tan. Lots of girls paint hair in balc colour and tan, or use fake tan, but they dont look exotic at all, its about facial features too, in my opinion:) Cant change that, unless ure willing to get a plastic surgery lol:)

I discovered for myself the band Poets of the Fall, and even tho i dont usually like rock music, im in love with them! Must be the voice of the singer:) So today's song for me is Carnaval of Rust:)

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He sounds like a young Frank Sinatra. Cool!

There's only one way to rock - Sammy Haggar

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Agree!!

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In other words be more honest. I could not agree more

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Like I have said all along....easier to have just two categories

nude
non-nude

OK I'm not as funny as INYF, no one is. But when I said "
THEY BOTH SUCK! No wait that's me. I suck. ok after a long investigation and thought by me of about hmmmm 2 minutes here it goes. "

This was my attempt at humor. I posted as the blood sucker Dracula, its almost Halloween. Get it?

Yo INYF come here and add some of your great humor to my pathetic post.

2 minutes thought huh? That's about a minute and 50 seconds more than most of us. I, for one, appreciate your hard work.

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I still have xmas lights in my room, never put them in the closet, so i guess im the first who started celebrating Xmas lol))

mmm u looking so good and mystery in this lights babe >:)

U look awsome in any interior hun;)

you both would look great under my christmas tree in the morning .

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christmas lights have been up on my house for three years, got you all beat hehe ;)

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to make sure u don't see how fat their asses are until ur payin for the privilege. heh

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Isn't that against CC rules? Is it not a violation of Age Verification requirements and jeopardise compliance with 18 U.S.C. § 2257 ? Personally, I appreciate being assured that models and their depictions are of legal age. Pics of non-verified persons, should be forbidden and those posting them as their own hosts should be banned.

I am real... *:)

xoxooxox

I have mentioned this to CC on many occasions and nothing much is done except a few token efforts. Heck, I have even copied the pics and sent them proof. Age verification? Pfff!!!

Amazing....sounds like something studios bosses would do!

Aha, a Dominatrix comes out of the closet! Let's be honest. Camcontacts has become Dominatrix Central!

Assuming a metal padlock is involved somewhere it would make air travel security staff have a good laugh anyway!

What would you do if you found out he had shagged someone else anyway? Tie him to a post in the Town Centre and have everyone throw stones at him then paint his balls red?

It's 21st century now ....

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as i said it s a bit of a sorta fantasy as well
he s opened to new stuff and we do experience a lot with different things so why not this???
i have suggested him and i think he d do it for me , though he s not convinced of my reasons. and he doesnt really needs to be wanking as he s away from me 1-2 nights a week so im sure he can survive without wanking. but the idea is he wouldnt be allowed to wank or anything else anyways
i did asked for non patronizing answers btw

So you want everyone in agreement with you?? When you post in an open forum, especially here, you get what you get :)

Another Cuckold wife

how do you arrive at the conclusion the wife is cuckold? do you even understand the meaning of cuckold?

he doesn't, he just liked how smart the word 'cuckold' sounds:))

google MCD chastity device, it's all plastic and great for beginners..have fun using it;)

He obviously does not understand the meaning of the word Cuckold. So I have tried to think of what it was he did mean. Perhaps CLUCKOLD, derived from an ancient word for Hen, meaning, his wife is an old hen (or Clucker). Or perhaps he meant COCKOLD meaning a wife who objects to the same old, same old cock. Or perhaps he meant F*CKOLD, meaning his wife is an old F*ck. Just some thoughts on the subject :)

You are right about my wife being an old bag. I think you are on to something. I think I'll become a tranny chaser like you. Youmay be on to something with the trannys. No PMS. No big dick requirement as those trannys in Bangkok and Manilla have no exposure to BBC. But I just can't get my mind around sucking a cock as you apparently have mastered.

Why does that bother you so much? Why should you care?

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Yes I do. Have extensively and cuckold wives deny their hubby sex while having sex with a BBC before their eyes. It is the fastest growing lifestyle in the US with about 20 million couples taking part according to USA Today.

CB3000 or curve. He'll need to try a few to find the most comfortable.
the CBs are made from light weight plastic, stay securely in place, easy to wash his pvt bits without taking it off. If you don't allow him to take it off and wank in the end he may even start cumming without wanking but "it's not as satisfactory" one of my boys told me :)

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I am currently locked in the CB 6000. I find it comfortable (& inescapable), although it requires that I sit to pee.

I think your boyfriend will really enjoy it. The pleasures of denial can be strangely intense.

Hope ur French is better than your English, I'm not exactly sure what you're saying

I hope you don't have to talk often with non-native speakers if you don't understand that.
She is planning to visit Paris next year to celebrate a special occasion and would be grateful if anyone who has already visited Paris can recommend a nice hotel in a good location and reasonably priced. She realises this is a difficult request.
As it is addressed "hi girls" I guess she meant to post it in hosts forum. Probably so she would not get unhelpful responses like yrs.

Can you give an idea of how much you are willing to pay and what time of year you plan to visit.

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ETAP and IBIS are safe choices. I think you will find most Mercure hotels are out of your price range at that time. I would also suggest looking at sites such as Expedia and Trip Advisor.They will give you a good idea of what is available in different areas in your price range. Once you have identified some hotels you can check their websites directly.

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I stayed in a Mercure hotel in Paris. Not sure about its exact name now. It was a *** hotel but it looked just great inside and was very near to the metro station. I believe it was in a 13th or 14th arrondissement of Paris but in 3 metro stations you are in the city centre. And it was much better than the **** hotel in Vienna. I always relay on the standard Mercure-hotels service. We were there in March but I believe that in high season that hotel did cost much more. Like 90-120 euros per night. You have to book early. Good luck! xxx

The hotels recommended above are mediocre at the very best. I was very disappointed when I visited Paris, it wasn't the romantic place I expected. My first impressions were very dirty, full of dogs poo and not many white people around. In the end I had a good time but only because my company was fantastic. There are a lot better places to visit in Europe but if you've made up your mind I wish you have a great time there. I often use a site called booking.com to book hotels, maybe you can try it and see for yourself. It's very user friendly and has huge selection of hotels and guest houses.
Good luck!

If all this doesnt let u feel and enjoy the spirit of this amazing city-oh well, but dont blame the city, blame the ppl;) Paris is a special place, u feel romance in those tiny streets, little caffes, boulangeries with a smell of the fresh, tastiest bread in the world:) I have no words to describe how i love this city. Dirty-yes, but its a capotal, the population is high, let along all the tourists that come every day! I dont notice all the dirt, i see the beauty, cuz its far more important to see:) Been in lots of cities around the world-Paris is my vote:)

Reminds me of Definitions I have heard:
Pessimist: one who sees the glass half empty
Optimist: one who sees the glass half full.
But they both see the same glass :)

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cc mail me:)

Lots of posts and hardly any recommendations. I enjoyed Hotel Luxembourg. Right beside Luxembourg Gardens, a Metro stop at the front door and walking distance to all the major downtown attractions.

You got a very wrong impression about me there. I'm happy, smiley always positive and optimistic. Paris just didn't rise to my expectations! There are a lot more beautiful places in the world!!!

You look in your photos as you describe yourself: happy, smiley, positive. I was not making a comment about you, Just that both of you were describing the same thing from two very different perspectives.

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yes..happy birthday to them also..great girls..wish them all the happiness they deserve

Happy Birthday xFUNNYBUNNYx my Cuckhold Honey

OMG is FreeHeart turning 19 yrs old AGAIN this year ??
lol
seems like 3 years in a row she became "19"

happy bday roger , welcome to the fortys

Happy bday)) Have a good one))))) Mwa)

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hey its my birthday..go get your own...lol

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Good luck. I hope you can find many BBCs. Love you my analisious girl

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happy birthday lover (K)

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ooooh...the testosterone is seeping out of my monitor:-) lol

yeah, it's big company, and we have to be prepared and have mind to work followed the company rules. but we work normally over than 12 hours/day. and the viewers visit us very unregulary, U should guys have to kinda understand the host's life. if someone stayed here 3-5 yrs, it's one of their life, but the host has children, family, sometimes just missing a slight thing, if you guys have a bit more consideration & understanding & patience, it makes our business/community more better. Well even though we understand the company rules but we are not robot or computer who can put on make up or wear pretty for 24 hours/7days.

That's right, we have lots of things to do, clean/buy/cook etc.

We try lots of nice intention to meet U here guys, but I used to sleep also near by the bed before, but I wouldn't try that. because if guys complain, it would be more penalty points here. so I never sleep when the session is on. but for the starting hosts it's normal, they take sleep sometimes it just take just 2-3 sec of them to seat in front of computer again though, we hear that big sound :)

so we get up like a lightning. Well, I'm saying we try to fit with this

atmosphere, but we are not perfect, sometimes there come which we didn't expect, and which we didn't want by other people/circumstance.

If you guys of girl like really pretty doll or perfection/professional here, there will be really a slight amount who really fit this company, and make U guys pleased and can work here.

just my opinion, what I felt last 3 yrs :)

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Why not to say "you look not like I expected, good bye baby". It will be honest. :)

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I agree.
Its also about money..lets bitch...lol

I am online only if i with my make up and when I dress up, earings ant etc. My hair look fine always don't need special preparings. But anyway i get 1-3 mins viewers everytime i am online. some just come to video and say something "ah beautiful!, gorgeous and etc." and gone without bye. I have no idea why..maybe they just curious how model look in live video but haven't credit to stay longer, don't know.

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Maybe some guys like girls who are just waking up ;) If a woman looks good at that time, then she is going to look good all day.

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Can't they delete negative posts in their personal forum?

We can, but will be know why you gone and try to change something. Or for you more important to spoil someone business here. :P

I don't want to spoil someone's business and am glad you can easily delete negative personal forum posts

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What did that have to do with the subject? Did you delete the bad comments?

i said to you i didnt get any bad comments in my forum. So nothing to delete.

Yes they can but they would read it first and hopefully learn and wake-up from it hehe. That is literally sleeping on the job....LOL

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The comment was sleeping in bed when a member comes into your room. The issue wasn't about if you wear make-up or not, it is sleeping and being online at the same time...unless you are in fetishes and post it in your profile and your pictures show that....it really isn't being honest.

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Exactly!! Why are you sleeping when you are supposed to be awake and working? Can't you make enough sitting in front of the computer with no makeup and pj's? Why would you stay online while you are in bed?? Can't wait to hear your answer :)

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I have a fetish about girls with wet hair and in pyjamas :)

I do not feel like the title has anything to do with the subject.
For the girls that are at their computer and have a great session
with a guy in video.....why doesn't he say good-bye? Did he wank
and not want to touch his keyboard or just doesn't think it's important
after spending some pretty intimate time with a host??
Honestly it feels kinda like Wham Bam No Thank You Mam and not
even a bye :(
Any insite on that??

Say good night Gracie

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I loved Gracie

i meant 1 min, not 10 - meaning if the girl cant be bothered to even stay awake, why waste my time with a goodbye?

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I still love her

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if you are in the other room or in the bathroom, fine - no one expects you to be chained to the computer. but if i come into the room, and see the light get turned on, and the host sits up and rubs her eyes...how is she even going to pretend to be sexy and ready for me?

Why does a host says 'Hello',
I answer 'Hello, How are you?'

then - SILENCE......................

I think the first hello is system message lol

The silence that gets me is the one where she is obviously online in her chatroom (sitting in front of computer, looking at monitor). You've said Hi to the system "hello" and she just sits there staring at the monitor. You see her type, but no words appear. You type some more, but still no words from her appear. You give it a couple of minutes, thinking "Maybe she is trying to make sense of my words or using a translator because English isn't her language." Then finally, it dawns on you: she's chatting with another viewer in another session, maybe even on another site, and maybe doesn't even know you are there. And you think to yourself: "Man! Why did it take me that long to figure that out?" LOL

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Having you in the nude is a nice compromise.

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What if I ask you to be Bugs Bunny or Daffy Duck instead? :)

I KID! I KID! Sorry if some guys are giving you a hard time, ClaudiaCam.
You ladies work hard and don't deserve that, so best wishes to you.

Hosts can dress in Daffy Duck costumes? Hot damn!

Yeah, Drip-Along Daffy.

lol I was going to give a similar answer :D

i can't wait to be blocked by you ;)

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... but surely a Speedy Gonzales costume would be quick to put on and take off?

beep beep

you confuse with Road Runner :P

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My wife wears her's all the time

A smart viewer would have asked in Text Chat before entering video :) That way you have enough time.

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Its great but very rare to see a host from IA post here. I'm used to softcore hosts ho have nothing better to do complaining about rude viewers. When they are not posting about how cheap and lousy the viewers are, they sit in their rooms wringing their hands and waiting for the next dope that wants to go pvt with them and spending $200 to $300 while she sits on her ass and types messages back and forth

That comment is uncalled for. First of all, what evidence do you have that they are not "busy", other than your own prejudices? Second, I see more members complaining than hosts, and those hosts who complain are relatively few. Whether their complaints are legit or not, I do not know, but I'm sure it must be quite frustrating to them when they are performing within the parameters of their category?

Maybe the real "dope" is the person who simply cannot allow that different people have different preferences and different expectations, and cannot allow that those differences are just as legitimate as your own.

I think you like to hear yourself say the same rude things over and over. Too bad there is no intelligence in your writings :)

great reply :)

My vote is DirtyPunk anytime))

thanks for the compliment,but i suspect i'm funny peculiar,not funny haha.ohh & you forgot unclejoe & wondering :--)

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lol gem. he may not be a winner but he is a whiner or is that weiner,maybe both :--)

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dont worry no one understands tisme, but we all still laugh at him .

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my favourite comedian is the member who complained he vidded a non adult host who refused to strip

INYF!!!!!
The others don't come close.
Most of his posts make me smile :)

Thank you. I'm glad I can make someone smile :)

1. member
2. long time member
3. viewer

These are my favourites

You left off me.

I vote for WTF in his heyday....

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It`s OK

It's a good idea. It's also embarrasing for the member to be real horny and enter video to see the host eating her chicken soup. Something like a sign: Your host will be back in 30 mins. And a digital clock ticking off backwards to let the viewer know you will be back soon or no.

As I can't see any disadvantages you can have my vote.

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huh?

Why not just log off and log back on? Is it that much work to do that?

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Oh, okay, so only those who are in agreement should answer? Yes, Massa, I do as you says. I bow down and lick your boots, so's not to upset you.

As usual.... EveDesi lost in space.....

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Thanks for clarifying. Your explanatin is far clearer than UKDreamgirl's. As you know, I am lost in space. However, I still don't think it's a good idea. The suggestions given by UKDream are extended absenses. I used to host another site. Was never much problem to log off and log back on when I was going to be away more than a few seconds. It's not that its a bad idea, just an unnecessary one in my opinion.

" I used to host another site." You are/were a host? May I ask what category?

GHA was

Girls Home Alone?

Was that Shy or Not So Shy? Does that mean that you are a female?
Now you are a member?

the site I was hosting on did away with using terms Girls and Boys, and used Women and Guys. There were no Not shy or Little Shy for any categories on that site.

I know that site.

sorry. to be more specific, i'm a guy

cause we forget

NOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOOOO NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAYYYYYYYYYYYYYY Then host in open wont let us in. because she is stripping for someone else i say no way

lol...more viewers in video...more money. If someone want special time then pay for one to one.
UKdreamGirl -yes! It can be useful.the idea already was told. Host should have rights decline the video.

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Accept button, or no accept button, either way, you would still have to be within earshot of your computer to know that someone wants to enter your vid. If you are away doing something, you you are going to lose a customer either way, so doesn't that make an accept button redundant? They only advantage I can see to an accept button is to deny access to a rude or annoying members, but if they are persistent, it can easily be circumvented with a new account. At least under the current system, you will get something, depending on how much you charge per minute, and how long the member stays around waiting for you to show up.

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I agree because during slow times some hosts are doing other things or laying down and that way she can always be at her best when a visitor comes in. That way the visitor isn't disappointed with her state of being that was unexpected and not wasting his money or having a less than great experience. Like answering the door....she can make sure she's got herself together or come from another room. I don't think that there is too many girls here that are going to turn members away :) If they wanted to do that then they could simply use the block option.
According to CC recently member complaints are that they enter into a hosts room and no one is there. That would alleviate that problem and not waste visitors minutes.

"According to CC recently member complaints are that they enter into a hosts room and no one is there."
How is this any different than you showing as "online" but not being there to press the proposed accept button? I would still feel like I am being ignored. Then I will move on and not come back.

Not ignored just not at the screen at the moment. Seems like that would be better than paying and no one there. You'd have the option of coming back in a few and she will be there. Like a door bell :)

im sorry but i vote against, considering that it is good for hosts but its a disadvantage for members because imagine how you will feel if you have been looking for someone and when you finally find her online it will tell that she did not accept you, so i disagree....i know this work is different from any other but imagine going to the bank and the teller will not accept you,usually they put the sign that its closed....or else imagine going to buy something from a shop and the seller will tell you im sorry i cannot sell you anything now....i dont think its a good idea im sorry.
but its only my honest thoughts so if someone disagrees with me he/she is welcome to tell that im not right

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"when a member try to enter my video he will see im not there to answer and he will be back,hope so"
That can already be done without an accept button and I might cost me 50 cents or a dollar - no big deal. At least that way I can see if the host really isn't there.

well thought out & constructed.i see only one drawback with the post.something so reasoned & logical is out of place on this forum.you have now set a standard that most of us will find difficult to emulate :--)

i vote against! All u need to do is sign off then cum back in 30 minutes or 8 hours whatever, it's no big deal! Easy way is all u can leave message in your profile and let members know when you cum back online. Thats simple!

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haha i know you're joking dream.i'd be happy to go in vid & the host is eating.makes a change from the run for the door i usually get :--)

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Honestly if you're going to take a shower.....log out please that is a long time for members to keep trying you. Wonder if girls would leave themselves signed it 24 hours and sleep too....hhhmm.

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Hey, you asked folks for their opinion, then you slam them when they disagree with you. Sheesh!

You're getting all worked up for nothing, and quite offensive, too. Like someone said earlier, not everyone who replies is going to agree with your idea, be it hosts or members, but it doesn't mean you should insult them for thinking it differently.

Personally I think an accept button is rather useless because:
a) just because you're online doesn't mean you have to stare into your monitor 12 hours or however long you spend online; there's no one stopping you from watching telly, reading your Cosmo or a Kafka novel, work out. It's not like members will start running away if they see you eating a sandwich or expect you to look ready to dry hump from the first second in video.
b) you can simply take a break when you feel you've had enough for 30 min or longer to unwind and recharge your batteries or change your outfit, whatever.
c) for quick/long trips back and forth to the toilet, kitchen, door etc you can simply use the pause button.No point in leaving your session open if you're taking a nap, or a shower, and an accept button won't change that.
Just my 2 cents.

please either accept button or viewers not being able to rate unless they spend 4 min in video like on AW

Chill out....u r the one that thought there should be a button to accept so that you could go take a shower......excuse me that is too much. For god sakes sign out if you are going to be gone that long. Also many host sdo try and stay online 24 hours and let the bell wake them up from sleep seems pretty tacky to me. YOU asked and there you go. No go take a chill pill or have a drink....omg too much over reaction!! I didn't say it wouldn't be good to have an accept button...

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UKD, I'll have to disagree with your idea. As good intentioned as it may be, it causes more confusion, aggravation, and loss of members to see you. Right now, hosts do have an option to let members know they are out for a little while....the free text chat.

All you have to do is post a comment that you are unavailable and will be returning at a specified time. It is sort of like a door sign...Out to Lunch, return at 1pm but without the clock hands. lol

And for those who like to just pop into your vid without going to text chat first, that is their choice, but you did let everyone else know. However, you can display a sign on your bed, chair, or sofa that you are out for the moment. Then they can complain to CC customer support and get their response that the member was fairly warned.

Good luck to you, but I do not think CC should use your particular suggestion.

Maybe CC can design a sign (and clock) as I suggest and you can then set the return time manually, and display it on your profile, or entry page, on your text chat page, or all the above.

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Or, Getting Married -- See you in an hour. rotf

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Nope, seems more like a spoiled child who throws a temper tantrum when she doesn't get her way, or when someone disagrees with her. BTW, are you my daughter?

Damn, ED, you are brutal. lmao

Well, I suffer from ED, how else would you expect me to be? LOL

good come back. rotf

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This SEEMS like a good idea at first, but there's also a BIG problem with it, too. That's because it all comes down to HOW the hosts would start using an "accept" button. As some guys have already said, if a host really needs to take a long break -- for example, to cook something or take care of something around her apartment or even take a little time off to refresh herself -- she could simply log off. On the other hand, I understand WHY the hosts hate that idea. Because if they log off completely, then they might miss a regular good-paying customer who suddenly stopped by and now he thinks she's gone for the day (or night).

RealPornStar said: "If I log off while I do homework, I could miss someone special coming into my room". But that's exactly the problem with an "accept" button. Because what you're REALLY talking about is the creation of a button that would allow hosts to do things with their cams turned off -- like their homework -- at which point they could start to SELECTIVELY choose WHEN and for WHO they'll make themselves available. In other words, hosts could start picking and choosing when they're willing to put down their homework and start performing again.

So -- just as an example -- RealPornStar could log on, but immediately turn off her cam and stretch out on the couch to read her school books. Then when a guest wanted to enter her video, a BING would go off on her computer. At that point, she MIGHT hit the "accept" button -- IF she sees it's a regular of hers or someone she knows will spend good money on her. But, you see, that also creates a big problem. Because now that she's armed with an "accept" button, she could ALSO shrug her shoulders and say "Ah, screw it. I've gotten comfy on the couch and into my homework. And I don't feel like touching up my makeup for a first time guest. So, no chat or cam show for you, buddy. I'll just wait till someone I know shows up, where it'll be worth it."

So, let's be honest -- basically an "accept" button could easily and quickly become nothing more than a "polite" version of the ignore button. Hell, think about it -- a host could even leave her "taking a break" status running for an entire shift. Then she could do whatever she wants behind a closed cam all day long…as guests stop by, she could pick and choose who she's willing to "accept" as the mood hits her…all while never having to log off, in case one of her high-paying regulars swings by. Hey, from a host's point of view, I can see why you'd love this idea. For you, it's the best of all worlds.

Look, I know that being a host is a tough job. You have to deal with a lot of guys who treat you like crap and nothing more than sex objects to be used and abused, as opposed to the warm and wonderful women that you are in real life. And I know hosts can easily get bored or tired from sitting on a couch or bed for hours on end, trying to cobble together enough paying customers to make the day worth it. So, I have no objection to hosts taking breaks throughout the day (or night) to recharge themselves. Or to take care of a personal matter that suddenly came up.

But if Hosts want to take breaks and NOT log off…so they WON'T lose customers or a chance to make money…then instead of an "accept" button -- which I think would quickly get misused and abused -- I think Richard had the best idea. In fact, it was so freaking brilliant I'm actually stunned that CC hasn't done it already. There should simply be an option for a host to set a "clock ticking down" on her profile page, as well as leaving a personalized message ("Be back in 20 minutes, my bb honeys!"). That way a host could take some breaks as needed...she could even decide how long she wanted to be gone...but at the same time, the guests would know when she was going to be available again. It just seems to me THAT would be the easiest and fairest solution for everyone all around.

Great post, well explained. BUT I think the petition was not as well explained by UKdreamGirl. What she wanted to say was that right now CC offers a signal warning for members entering our video which usually lasts for 2-3 seconds, and immediately the viewer enters in . In 2-3 seconds, you can not come back from the other room, leave the "soup" aside without spill it over, or simply put ur bum down in the chair if you were doing god know what other things , every day things, near computer. So the result is the viewer enters almost immediately, sees an empty chair, or a host eating or finds her in a not appropriate pose and he , most of the times , is leaving. Her suggestion would have been more welcomed probably if the petition sounded like : Would you like as a member to enter a host room with a ringing which would last, for example 10-15 seconds? Of course a message would pop in telling us a viewer is requesting to enter -IT DOES NOT HAVE TO SHOW THE NAME OF THE VIEWER!!- and of course an option with yes or no should be on that pop in window, for the host to answer SOONER than those 15 seconds max, and let the viewer in . With other words, the longer sound warning is not asked by hosts in order to accept or not a particular viewer, but to have enough time to leave whatever is she doing and come back to the computer, and for the viewer to not enter an empty room and pay for a minute of video he did not have. Then , if the host returns in those 15 seconds (for example) she has the opportunity to click YES quick enough and accept the viewer, rather than the video starts promptly like it does now, most of the times with the sonor signal still buzzing when the member is already in the room.
If you think of it, its not such a bad idea, and yes, hosts will spend much more time in video and loyal fans would find us more often, and members wont find empty seats anymore , but if you do think the 15 seconds of knocking at our door dont make a difference....let us worry for that, i am confident a lot of girls would fit in these 15 seconds and everyone would be happy! (again, excludes here showering or other long time activities:P )
So, yes, i agree with you UKdreamGIRL, lets just hope CC will look into this in the future!

You filled in the details well, thanks :) I also agree that with the accept button that it would not list the members name so there wouldn't be any choosing of members. Of course as we have heard here the members fear that they will be selectively chosen or not when really the main reason for the accept button would be so that they are not coming into an empty room or chair and paying for those minutes. The idea of being prepared and not caught off guard so that we can be our best would be the real benefit to the host and member.
Of course there are always those that use things in the wrong way and so there would need to be some safeguards incorportated into
it so that it works great for everyone. My concerns are the ones that want to stay logged in while they sleep, taking a shower or doing something else that you wouldn't normally be able to do while working. Those girls need to log off and come back when they are alert and ready to work.

Thanks for the nice words,Tease -- and you wrote a great post too, that was well thought out as well. And since I'm obviously not a host, your explanation actually helped to clear up a few things. But you're right -- perhaps this whole idea could have been explained a little better at the start, so that people (in particular the guests) wouldn't have taken it the wrong way.

And you're right about another thing. If CC created this "accept" button and simply made it so a host could NOT see "who" was trying to enter her video, that would immediately remove any fears or accusations (from the guests) that they were selectively being picked and chosen -- or worse, being ignored or pushed aside on purpose. To be honest, this is not something I'm emotionally worked up over. As the saying goes, I don't have a horse in this race. But if the hosts think this idea could make things better, then if I ran CC... if I was the boss...I'd probably give it a shot anyway. Then over the course of 3 or so months -- sort of a test period -- I'd see if the hosts were using it properly...I'd see if the guests had no problems or complaints either... and then you could decide to keep it or not. As I said at the end of my post, whatever solution is presented should always be balanced between both the host AND the guests, so everyone can feel it's fair. That's just good business all around. In the meantime, best to you and thanks for the reply!

I'm not sure why CC hasn't been into this matter by now, as you probably know this button does exist on other websites and if CC was keen to adopt it, that would have happened by now...But i merely wanted to make it little more clear for the members in special what UKDG wanted to say , 'cause i was really surprised to see so many hosts against the idea for no apparent reason...if the button does exist on other places too and majority of chat hosts do work on other platforms too, why such a big issue then for bringing up the idea to this forum too? A little awkward if you ask me...
Thanks for reply too, best of wishes and a have a great week.

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i agree. log on when you are ready to work. i dont get to cook, eat dinner, change a diaper, clean the fridge when i am at work. i love how you make a suggestion, and when someone disagrees, we are just not smart enough to understand....

One big difference is that you are probably paid by the hour or job.

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How can you know how a member rated you? I've been accused on several occasions by hosts of rating them low when I actually gave them all 5 stars. In these instances I wish I could have had a 2nd vote. I actually asked cc how the ratings system worked and they gave me a very vague answer saying something to the effect that although there is not set time to be in pvt to be able to vote, but time and or money spent in pvt had a big impact. In other words a hater giving a host a 10 second 1 star would not count for much. On the other hand a long pvt would count more heavily and it is rather unlikely you have a member rate you any lower than 5 after he spend a significant amount in your pvt. Think about it

That isn't correct. A rating posted by a member regardless of the amount of time in video is automatically calculated and effects the overall rating. Not sure where you got that from but it is not correct.

Read my post again, I emailed cc and got a reply

I remember one time I visited a new host with no stars. I stayed for at least 2 hours, maybe even closer to 3. After the session, I rated her 5 stars, then went back to add her to my favorites, and she suddenly had five stars.

If she had no stars, she was new. You were her first viewer. Don't take my word email cc yourself.

I agree with all three of you girls. Some hosts here are amazing and this job is just not for all girls. If they can't make enough money working here a reasonable amount of hours a day so that they can take care of their personal life outside of here then it might not be a very successful job for them. Part of the problem might be that it is the quantity of hours that they are trying to squeeze and not the quality of what they are offering. If they can't determine what hours work best for them traffic wise and there is a lot of lag time between guests then maybe they aren't that good at what they do.
My opinion.

i would like to know where from and when people like you have decided this is a JOB?? im confused, really...If we go back to the basics, every website of this nature, CC included, advertises this chatting thing on their first page as something like" do you wanna make some money on your free time, from the comfort of your own bedroom ?"
Lets not get things mixed here girls, this is hardly what a job really means, but if some of us really transformed this chat thing into a serious job, maybe those ones really come to "this job" when they feel ready and in no need for such a button....But for the rest of us, this is just a hobby, a thing to do in "free time" and we choose weather or not we sit in front of the computer for hours or simply do other things too....And then , yes, we do need such a button, as i explained a little above this post to freelance writer.
As a P.S. it seems to me a little hypocrite from the chat hosts who were against this petition to dismount UKDREAMGIRL in so meannie ways when we all know that this button exists on other websites too and no one had any complains about it or tried to make a move in forums for its removal...So, why all of the sud some chat hosts seemed annoyed by it , its beyond my understanding...Maybe just for the sake of knocking someone over when she simply stands out with an idea...
A bit more tolerance in a violent world would be so nice.

Well if you read all the posts above here and that are posted frequently you will see this is a job or only source of income for many girls here. Some even work while they are sleeping...lmao. To you it might be a hobby but not to all.
Other sites might also have that accept button but they are also different from CC in the way that here there is Open and 121 as options. I'm not aware of that on other sites.
Also to consider all aspects of adding this option and how it will effect not only hosts but members too, is the most responsible way to look at it. UKdreamGirl went into full attack and yet all the reasons that she presented were not acceptable. To implement it so that hosts could be away for extended periods of time while they are showing online does not make sense. For example to take a shower ...how many guys would be rejected during that time because she can't hear it? What about the people that come into chat also during that time? Nobody would respond to them. Seems with that being one of the uses alone that it would be very frustrating for members. That was one of her examples. Why show online if you're not available?
UKdreamgirl went into attack because others didn't agree with all she was saying.....like it was more like a campaign rather than wanting open discussion.

And the number one question in chathost FAQ is "Can I make money at this?" Or did you miss that one? Get a grip. Anytime anyone accepts payment for services rendered, IT IS A JOB!

I did refer to money too, get a chill, or you dont want to read it all ? What angel says was that "This is a job and as in any other job u cant be at home cleaning ur house and when u wanna eat ur have a break time" and i can't agree to that in totally, cause it would be taken too serious , dont you think? Is this really a job, with the full list of demands and rights a normal job has? Come on, i think you need to get a chill pill and relax...its well explained above, if you care to read before to attack, i know its hard, but try it sometimes, it makes wonders :))

Your exact words "But for the rest of us, this is just a hobby, a thing to do in "free time" and we choose weather or not we sit in front of the computer for hours or simply do other things too....

To you this is a hobby not a job

Yes dear, im trying to tell serenangel that this is Not A JOB for all of us, as she tried to say , thats all! She made a general statement starting with "this is a job....." when its not generally true. I tried to explain my point, it is under serenangel message post not under UKdreamGirl post, even its in same thread. This is not a job for all of the chathosts, so we can have different opinions, or this is a court instead of a forum and those who dare to be different are shut off?

This is not a job for all of the chathosts, so we can have different opinions, or this is a court instead of a forum and those who dare to be different are shut off? "

You are entitled to your on opinion but not your on set of facts. If you get PAID it is a job if even a part time job you work at only a few hours week. If you did free video, then yes it is a hobby? Do you do charge for you videos or are you a volunteer?

Oh one other thing, it is ok to like or even love your job and to think of it as a hobby, but legally and technically it is a job if you receive payment. Check out job at Wikipedia.

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The problem with the petition is this: Many members, including myself, are told sometimes by girls "I don't strip." But, sometimes you can enter her video right after somebody else's very long video ends and catch her before she redresses.

Yes it's a shitty thing to do, but it works quite often. I caught a lot of liars this way, and also made some great friends that otherwise I'd never return to after being told "no."

Also a host in open video could be showing, or could be showing on another site using the same feed. Giving her the option to accept or reject a video will ruin many such opportunities for members.

To host: If you don't want to be bothered, log off CC. Otherwise consider yourself available.

This goes on a lot where a host in one of the softcore categories refuses to strip and then gets naked and nasty on another hardcore site. I take delight in going to see a host that refused me here on another site where she is required to strip. Makes my day.

Stalker? Some people get their jollies from the strangest things :)

I once entered a vid where a girl was eating a banana .... though her teeth must have been sore because every time she stuck the damn thing in her mouth she groaned and grimaced a lot and never seemed to take an actual bite. It was a terrible shock.

YESSSSS PLSSSSSS put accept button.
I even got a fine for ignoring 8 people within 1 month.

then stop ignoring them hehehehe

Who is John Lennon?

If you don't know, feel sorry for you as you've missed a whole realm of music that changed the world in the 1960s and influenced the music we hear today

I wasn't born tll the 90's

julian lennon's father :--)

Yoko Ono's husband but not Julian Lennon's mother, obviously.

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A Glam host asks a member if he would like to see her nude? I'm sorry I find that extremely hard to believe.

Why not? I do it too. Find us.:P

I have seen well over a hundred hosts in Glamour and not one ever suggested a nude show. Not one. I have seen nude shows in Glamour, but only in 121 and only after I asked ,not the host. Like the old saying, seeing is believing. And when and if I see it, then and only then will I believe it.

ANd how many times have you been back to a host two or three times without ever asking her to strip?

In some cases as many as 10 times. And usually by the 2nd visit the host assumes I or any other member just wants to talk. And in most cases they are correct. But Glamhost was disingenuous when she said after a member came back after a few visits she would suggest a nude show.

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Who said I asked him if he wanted me nude??? Wasn't me!! My exact words verbatim were:
After a couple of visits sometimes I ask them and usually they say they didn't want to offend me and yes they would love to see more but without any kind of pressure to me.

After a couple of visits sometimes I ask them "

Ask them what?

You didn't read the whole sentence........more...... was the key word not nude!! Big difference!

Yes in a courtroom. More is code for nude in the context of a porn site. Duh.

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Nudity is allowed in Glamour and I have seen many nude in Glamour.who all asked me if I wanted to see more I would have to go 121.

Agree. I have seen a lot of hosts in glam, all of them asked me for 121 to see more, and they showed all of their goodies. I don`t understand why this subject about glamour cat. is coming up in new threads everyday. So tired about it

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So nice to see a post from you! You're a sweetheart :-)

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Isn't that what non adult is supposed to be for?

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