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become a priest ? or maybe sexy lingerie better then nude.

Come to me - we will speak about that)))

you mean virtual nudity ? it is normal :)

Type with your eyes closed or try nuncams

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I feel the same. I am only going to buy shows now from girls who make a living in front of a camera and claim to be "too shy to strip."
A girl and her sweater vest..... mmmm now that is exciting!
Friends and Family here I come!!!!! Wooohoooo!!!!
Tease Me, Seymore!!!

ask her to put stockings on and let her dance ;)

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wow-sounds strange and suspicious for me;)

Actually, the problem he's experiencing is not strange or suspicious at all. In fact, it's a growing problem for men in the digital internet age and become a bit of a debate in the medical community. The common term used by psychologists for this is "porn creep." LOL and no, I don't mean "creep" like he IS a bad guy orcreep. What I mean is this...from being online or surfing porn or looking at too many cam girls or whatever...basically, from looking at too much porn...the sexy images they've seen online have now creeped into their mind and taken root. So now the only way they do get excited is by a woman who looks like a true porn model... I mean absolutely perfect in every photographic way... or by an escalating series of dirtier and kinkier things, much like you can constantly ramp up your porn. In other words, a guy who used to get excited just from the idea of being alone with a woman and quietly getting a blow job now has to think about being with an all-out slutty woman as she is gang banged. That's what I mean when I say it goes from a simple turn on to growing...and growing...and growing in the mind.

Mind you, this is NOT physical. If a man suffers from this problem and he goes to see his physician, the doctor will run blood tests...check his testosterone levels...etc, etc, etc. Odds are the tests will come back normal...maybe the doctor will prescribe some viagra or cialis to help things along...but basically the doctor will say "There's nothing PHYSICALLY wrong with you. You should be getting excited as usual."

And that's when the physician will say his "excitement performance problems" (to coin a phrase) are probably due tosomething on his mind. It could be nervousness...it could be job stress....or, as psychiatrists are seeing more and more in the internet age, it could be "porn creep" where the guy's vision of sex and his expectations of the woman and what she'll do and what will happen are more porn and fantasy based rather than reality based. And since the woman isn't living up to true online hardcore porn standards....he finds no excitement in her simply being naked (as was the case here).

I see........ good to know..

lmao,lucky you're not my doctor,i'd need a specialist or a shrink afterwards :--)

Dr. Desmond Morris researched & compiled a list of stages of intimacy:

Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.

Bonding refers to the emotional covenant that links a man and woman together for life and makes them intensely valuable to one another. It is the specialness that sets those two lovers apart from every other person on the face of the earth.
These stages, described below, represent a progression of physical intimacy from which a permanent commitment often evolves.

1. Eye to Body. A glance reveals much about a person ...

2. Eye to Eye. When the man and woman who are strangers to each other exchange glances, their most natural reaction is to look away, usually with embarrassment. If their eyes meet again, they may smile, which signals that they might like to become better acquainted.

3. Voice to Voice. Their initial conversations are trivial and include questions like "What is your name?" or "What do you do for a living?" During this long stage the two people learn much about each other's opinions, pastimes, activities, habits, hobbies, likes and dislikes. If they're compatible, they become friends.

4. Hand to Hand. The first instance of physical contact between the couple is usually a non-romantic occasion such as when the man helps the woman descend a high step or aids her across an obstacle. At this point either of the individuals can withdraw from the relationship without rejecting the other. However, if continued, hand-to-hand contact will eventually become an evidence of the couple's romantic attachment to each other.

5. Hand to Shoulder. This affectionate embrace is still noncommittal. It is a "buddy" type position in which the man and woman are side by side. They are more concerned with the world in front of them than they are with each other. The hand-to-shoulder contact reveals a relationship that is more than a close friendship, but probably not real love.

6. Hand to Waist. Because this is something two people of the same sex would not ordinarily do, it is clearly romantic. They are close enough to be sharing secrets or intimate language with each other. Yet, as they walk side by side with hand to waist, they are still facing forward.

7. Face to Face. This level of contact involves gazing into one another's eyes, hugging and kissing. If none of the previous steps were skipped, the man and woman will have developed a special code from experience that enables them to engage in deep communication with very few words. At this point, sexual desire becomes an important factor in the relationship.

8. Hand to Head. This is an extension of the previous stage. The man and woman tend to cradle or stroke each other's head while kissing or talking. Rarely do individuals in our culture touch the head of another person unless they are either romantically involved or are family members. It is a designation of emotional closeness.


The Final Steps. The last four levels of involvement are distinctly sexual and private. They are:
(9) Hand to Body,
(10) Mouth to Breast,
(11) Hand to genital, and
(12) Mouth to genital
(13) Intercourse. (Genital to genital )

In the Progression each stage does not satisfy to the degree that it first did.

Well even without a partner ,in cam or not, I've done the 'Hand to genital' all my adult life and I'm not bored of it yet! ;)

Yeah ... I go with good old Desmond Morris ..... the hors d'oeuvres may titillate the palette - but they were only invented to lead to the Main Course. There's only so many bits of bruschetta you can take before getting restless.

The sex/food metaphor was going great there - but I'm worried what the dessert course could be? I'll never think about Chocolate Pudding the same way again now ....

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hello) very interesting fetish....maybe i could try)) kisss

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It certainly sounds odd at first, but from a chat host's perspective, it's almost the easiest to play along with. Think of it - you don't have to strip naked or dance sexy, or even wear uncomfortable outfits. All it entails is being able to hold still for a couple minutes, and occasionally change positions mechanically like a character at Disneyland.

I think we could speak about it))) muahh

Of all the fetishes I have heard about on here this one, for some reason sounds a little appealing. Well, not with you.... but with one of the girls.

ok wait.................this guy has this weird fetish and gets responses but when i ask about hosts that wear black,thigh high,7"heel stripper boots,i get nothing.go figure.

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I think there's a few hosts that will do this for you and you won't even have to ask. Look for the ladies with the self-centred primadonna style profiles :-)

that is funny ted, I have found a few ladies. they really do a great job. But i am always looking for any others who would like to show how well they can pose and appear.

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So a Logitech Quick Cam Pro 9000 will do fine ?

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as for me i like Loqutech Quick Time AF. good quality and many options

I heard that digital cam will be better then web at any case

digital cam is much better then webcam, even if it is expencive webcam.

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oh really? do anyone know the price?

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eeek ... cognitive therapy time again already??

Skills in Gestalt Counselling & Psychotherapy (Skills in Counselling & Psychotherapy Series) - by Phil Joyce and Charlotte Sills

TA Today : A New Introduction to Transactional Analysis - by Ian Stewart and Vann Joines

Those are 2 books written without a whole lot of 'big fuck off scientific' words ..... or maybe I just dreamt that? ;)

Ohh thx for advice)))

well its quite young and very interesting direction.
Arnheim R. Visual thinking. Berkeley and Los Angeles: California UP, 1967
heard its good one;)
Good luck in ur studies)))

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shes on vacation with husband and childern

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do you know when ?

where is you??? long time not see you.....

well, the priests are marching 'round and 'round and blowin' their trumpets and shouting and the walls are crumbling down

Sounds good) i need to do one as well)))

but, if you want me to look at yr first recording, post a free one.

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i wish i could see)))

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Because some people are only in a happy land when they have something to complain about.

The challenge! The challenge of cracking the ice maidens/bitches. Some of us guys just can't resist seeing if we can crack them.

have a go with femina, maybe you can crack her ice

hmmm ... I dunno if thats gonna work .... but hey its your money and I'm sure they are nice to the shop assistants when they buy themselves food and clothes with it

Who said anything about paying? You can soon tell in free chat if they are likely to crack or not.

It isn't difficult to get a pretty woman to reject you for free in the real world. Why pay?

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I've yelled at the TV while watching a recorded political announcement. is that the same thing as chatting with a recording?

:)

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Not normally, but the other day I went into a video playback and the video started chatting with me. I started wondering what I was smoking. Then remembered I've never smoked anything. Turns out the host was there even though she was only in Video playback.

if the hosts dont tell a short description of what is in the playback video. No price you set will matter - not gonna enter any again.

The thing about video is you have no control. You just have to wait and hope you get what you want. I'm tired of waiting then the video resets to the start and I didn't get it. Need to know what will come.

max 0,60 pr min............

I think it depends of quality and plot of session)))

thank u alot,SUCH A nice begining of day:):)WOW :Dxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

For some reason Borat's voice got into my head when I read this :D

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I'll try to say this in better English, DirtyPunk lol...

Leksa seems to be a lightening rod for some rather mean comments sometimes (of course she is not the only host who gets this). She really doesn't deserve such treatment.

Leksa is sexy, curvy, wild, and hysterically funny when you get her going. And fun. She is also passionate and emotional, but you are right SweetMan, she is essentially a very nice person. And yes, she's a buddy of mine.

hehe, I didn't mean to take away from the original comments, it just seemed funny to me at the time how my mind perceived the words and added sound to them..
I've never met Casablancka but always figured she was nice, and funny, from her posts here... and seeing her pics I see she is pretty too.
Guys who need to make stupid personal attacks against a host just so they feel for a few seconds like they actually have balls are easily ignored and should be laughed off by the host. You just know that what's sitting in front of his keyboard is a hell of a lot more pathetic than any words he can make come out of it ;)

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Nothing like an instant action type show in glamour :D

I am with you John. Well said.

That's a fair expectation. John. Personally I respect the hosts time and don't expect a lot of "free" attention, but some reasonable amount of conversation before jumping to 121 helps to find out if you want to spend time together. And girls, this is only good marketing. When you aren't earning money you should be marketing yourselves ... unless you have something better to do while you are waiting for a private session.

Favourite host...Definitely! Another host, maybe. I wish my favorite host had videos up :-(

Would really like if the hosts told a short description of what was in the playback video. I would go on more if I knew this information.

I come to CC for live girls. I never watch playbacks.

Well, my favourite host I would only visit life - not in playback :D
Other girls I would maybe visit in playback - depends on the price...

90% price and 10% what the playback is about.
Visiting a life video depends on the girl and not that much on the price.
But playback definately on the price....

I see the playback video in two ways:

(1) Sneak preview. Have a look on the girl, how she looks like, and so on
(2) "Fast Food" (sorry for that expresion)....If I am just in naughty mood - no talking and so on, only action by myself :D

Yes I would go if it was cheap enough. I would expect to see a sex show as there is absolutely no point in going to playback otherwise.

I would also see a playback of a host I had never seen before. But I will admit that this is usually to see if she looks as good in video as her photos suggest, to check out how good her cam is etc.

I would go to a video playback of a favourite chathost, if she was eating a peach! :P :D

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The only reason I have ever watched recorded content was to check out a host before making the decision to take her private.

The video would need to have the right amount of sexiness for me. It is probably difficult for you hosts to decide on that because we members all have different tastes. I find erotic teasing in a sexy evening gown or lingerie to be quite seductive. Others may prefer more hard core action or have specific fetishes.

Live with a good host is so much better than video anyway.

It should be great, but only from my favourite girls and there are only two at moment

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Just wait until next year - he'll take you to the beach and confess he's been unfaithful :) :p

Didn't you say something yesterday about deep throating the teddy bear? Does that count as being unfaithful and would you need to confess it on a beach?

(just teasing) :)

It was a genuine misunderstanding - the manufacturers should state on the label that a Gummy Bear isn't an oral sex toy.

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Why does one partner have to be experienced? Danger of the wrong hole or something? It's pretty easy to work things out. Anyone with half a brain can figure how to have sex in a way that pleases both.

It's funny but the people I meet who seem to genuinely have had the best sex lives (i.e. something that is totally mutually fulfilling rather than just a constant futile search for something ever more exciting) are the ones who have never slept with anyone but their current partner.

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Yeah, that part was a joke.

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Yes I agree with you !

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yes

when i jump into vid..i jump so hard..i jump out of vid....i guess i have to watch my step..lol

well, I guess we members ask about girls because of the scamers.
Of course not all girls/hosts are scammers. But I bet almost every member has once entered a video and the girl promissed him almost everything....later and of course in one2one she stalls and tells she is shy and so on...

So, the asking about the girls is more a safety not to be scamed...

Exactly.

I've never asked one of those questions myself, but I think I can understand why some members want to ask other members directly.

Some members may consider it impolite to go into video and leave if the model was not what he or she was looking for. Nobody wants to have to reject a model to their face. .

Then there is that small minority of models who waste member minutes in private. Members usually recognize it right away but many are too polite to tell them to stop or to disconnect.

Members who are asking questions here may be the members who are looking for the longer 30, 60 or 90 minute privates anyway and just want to be sure.

Finally, money is tight for some members and perhaps they are being careful with the money that they do spend here.

Just a couple of ideas from a member. :) Best wishes all.

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The same reason you don't give a curious member a free video just to find out...money! It can cost quite a bit to find out the host is not what you expected or a scammer or does not offer what you wanted in a video. It is free to ask the question to other members and based on several answers (one answer good or bad is always suspect) you then decide to invest in the host.

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The point is that the impression the member gets from you in the "free" chat will determine whether he even goes to paid or 121 with you.
And this is the point of asking in the viewer forum. Of course, the viewers realize there will be a difference from member to member, and the ever changing moods of the host and whatever else... but they are asking anyway to get a general feel for what the host may be like.

There is no way I'm going to jump into paying every host whose profile I visit and who I may be curious about on seeing here just to see what she is like. On the sites that do offer free chat, I am more likely to visit a host and then move to paid chat based on that. Here, I am more likely to visit your profile, look at your pics, then move on to another profile without even getting to the point of saying hello to you in video.

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why shy in freebie - and not shy in paid, and even more not shy in 121?

m o n e y ? ?

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m o t i v a t i o n

ok dear all clear about you - why do you even bother to bring up the false premise of shyness then ? ? ?

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The member is a consumer, members are buying/paying. (Dont get offended by this comparrison) - do you buy fruit at the market without looking at if first?, or buy it before you know something about it first?

Same deal here. Members want clarity and value.

Dasha the answer to you is: members ask other members for tips about hosts for same reason hosts ask other hosts in host forum where is a good place to buy online sexy clothes, bra, panties etc... ( risk management ~ risk aversion )

Why do you worry about it? If you have excellent "fruit" ( product / service ) for sale - you should welcome the member who does some research to investigate you - he will undoubtedly discover you have superior "fruit".

P.S. - A few bad hosts give the rest of you a bad name - so the member is a wary shopper.

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hehe..do you think so.. anyway I saw her pics in her new profile. I think she change her hairstyle and color but still the same beauty.. i go there as soon i find her online.. By the way I like your pics aswell.. and perhaps i pay you a visit too.. If you want..

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Making love to Angelina Jolie and Brad buggers me behind

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That is perverted...
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Sex with my gf in our bed

and with the lights off.

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careful tho - I tried that and imagine my gfs surprise when she turned the light on and found me deep throating her teddy bear

She was probably more embarrassed that you found out her teddy bear had a dick :)

Do u have the required security clearance?...:)))

where's UncleJoe? i'm sure he has some perverted fantasies to share

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Maybe she "un-dyes" her hair between contests

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if you remember her axb as yourbarbie you would see she does look like Anna

....they are 2 beautiful and unique women.
But everyone will think what they want to.

and stripper boots,filled with your favourite flavoured stripper, happy birthday pacman,i hope tomorrow you have the hangover that your celebrating deserves :--)

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have a vip room on me with 2 of your favorites paco
and a case of bbc
enjoy buddie have a great day

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sure you can come to , but bring a friend for me.

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awww, thanks everyone! you are the best!

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Have you tried asking any of them??? You might be pleasantly surprised. :D

I have to agree. CC staff has always been excellent with me. Now if they could give us frequent flyer miles or something...

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Well I say I'm married about 25% of the time ;)

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32.5%.

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i'm a single single one

I could not care less, but for the not so good looking and old ones I am always married, engaged, partner, bf whatever comes to mind lol

roflmfao

That seems a little bit mean to say...especially since you put a mocking LOL on the end. It would be kinder and nicer to remember that beauty is always in the eye of the beholder. The man that you consider to be "old" or "not so nice looking" might be a perfectly fine to many others, but more importantly he could have a good heart and have lots to offer. He might not look like a movie star, but he could be a genuinely kind and decent man.

And just remember the wheel of life spins around on everyone -- yes, even you. Which means the day will come when gray hairs will start to appear...some wrinkles too and a few other things will start to sag...and then how will you feel when people decide how they'll treat you based on YOUR age and looks? And why do I suspect when the day finally comes that you are a bit older and your looks start to fade that is when you'll mature a bit and realize it's not only about looks -- it's what is on the inside that counts.

Considering what may have been fairly (but perhaps cruelly) said in response, I think you put that very tactfully.

I'm not very young or a stunner and I don't argue the fact that older, not so good looking guys may have a lot to offer and good hearts.
It just amuses me how viewers who live in a radius of 100miles from me, come to my room and think I will meet them by default. How wrong can they be eh! Most if these guys are on average 15-20 years older than me, not earning more than 30-40k and probably in their little fantasy world i can't do better LOL
And even when I get grey hair, and all wrinkled I doubt I will be looking for guys in their 20s or who knows I may be super rich and be able to afford one hee hee :)

Wow! You are just a little peach! I respect your honesty, but maybe you should hold back just a little? It sounds like you want a man that makes a certian income first... which isn't very attractive. But if that is what is important to you, god bless!

Money is very important aspect of every day life and of course it matters to me a lot. A man should at least match my income to be considered good meeting material. How would he spoil me otherwise?!
I struggle having friends for the same reasons. My current so called best friend Liz makes me hang around in cheap clotehs shops for hours and can't believe I wouldn't buy anythign from there. She'd want to go to cheap pubs every time cause of early birds, bogof or whatever meal deals there are. Sick of it! I like good quality clothes and fine dining but the people around me don't seem to be able to afford it :(((
No hard feelings, good luck all! xxx

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Ugly and ordinary guys have the confidence to keep asking to meet you. What do you think this says about you?

genuinely kind & decent don't give knee trembling orgasms.i ride the roller coaster,not the merry-go-round. i want my world rocked, not reorganised.

Sorry, but I beg to differ with that statement A LOT. What the hell are you talking about? Now this conversation has drifted into a whole new direction, and it suddenly seems like a pile on against anyone who is a nice guy. And I consider myself to be in that category, so I'm going to stick up for all the other nice guys out there. Seriously, think about what you just said. Why in the world would a "genuinely kind & decent man" NOT be able to give a woman "knee trembling orgasms"? Why is a guy who is kind and decent suddenly a LESSER lover in bed or an amusement park ride that is more plain and dull (as you compared things)? Here is something that is actually MORE true in life, statistically speaking...

People often assume it's the "bad boy" who will be the great lover in bed because...well, because he's the bad boy...while the "nice guy" will only be plain and average, both in life and in bed. Yet more often than not, guys who are nicer or gentler or quieter on the outside ARE the red hot, firey, and even MORE kinky "Hey, let's try this too, honey" kind of lovers on the inside. They have firey and creative passions they usually don't show or let out UNTIL they're in the privacy of the bedroom where they actually become even MORE LIKELY than the bad boy to give a woman a knee trembling orgasm.

For crying out loud and just for the record, that's how the common phrase "It's always the quiet ones" got started in the first place...

It's funny, but women who talk like this are often the worst wives imaginable.

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But that's only on the surface. People should be deeper than that, and THAT is what everyone should be judged on -- who they are on the inside. Why? Because no matter how hard a person might try to hide it, eventually it will come out that the person was not full of self-esteem (which can be a good thing if handled correctly), but rather they were simply full of themselves. In short, it's not about self-esteem but rather being totally self-centered. And if you stop and think about it, that is a BIG difference in life.

And honestly -- who wants to share or build a life with a person like that? Which brings us full circle and back to Ted's point which was correct. When it's all about money and not about love, women who think that way do make the WORST wives possible. And to be fair, any guy thinking that way -- putting money above love -- would be a lousy husband too.

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I agree, its all about confidence. I value you a lot. :)

yes, self confidence is hot ;)
especially in nice people (LOL)

You're no oil painting yourself.

I have a similar policy.

Just so you know, I'm married.

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I was married when we had first bid, now I'm not :-)

thinking on the lines of your messages i had to check your profile,and i have to say there's no class and expensive clothes in your pics,not a single bit. dunno what you consider expensive.PRIMARK???

This is exactly where I've been dragged every time pfff and believe it or not I have never bought anything from there! No need to try being sarcastic, I don't even wear clothes in my pics. Wouldn't put any nice top on cam to only spoilt and stretch it by pulling and putting it on and off.
Have fun! x

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Correct! :)

was ment i don't see any class in clothes,make up shoes etc etc wink wink

Looks like my original questions got lost in the cat fighting!

Huh? There was a question?? :)