General Forum
RE: need advice
if you're married and have a child and looking to either cheat on him or trade him in for some other guy, how can you expect anyone to respect you?
if you're having problems with your husband, working those out and resolving them should take top priority.
reverse the situation and asked yourself one question: would you enter into a relationship that you hope to be meaningful with someone you know for a fact would cheat on his wife? wouldn't you recognize that that would most likely mean that you would end up being cheated on as well?
if you're having problems with your husband, working those out and resolving them should take top priority.
reverse the situation and asked yourself one question: would you enter into a relationship that you hope to be meaningful with someone you know for a fact would cheat on his wife? wouldn't you recognize that that would most likely mean that you would end up being cheated on as well?
RE: need advice
lets see if i got this one right. you met a wanker on-line and you think you want to leave husband & child for guy you never met in person. lol.
RE: need advice
I think you should tell the guy the truth and be prepared to accept what ever happens...... If he leaves and never returns then it was probably the best or if he still stays and still visits you online, you can go from there....Still consider your child and yourself in this whole picture as the top priority... good luck
RE: need advice
In my opinion AvrOra is looking at this in the most practical way.When a child is going to be involved in the decision you make,put your childs well fare above your own.That can somestimes mean "sacrifice" on a parents part.But ultimaltely the decision will be up to you.Not the CC forum.
RE: need advice
How well do you know "The charming man" ? If it is just from this site then you don't really know him at all. Even I can appear to be charming on this site sometimes :P
Does he tell you he loves you or indice he has any feelings for you at all ?
If it serious then I would say tell him as you have no chance of being with him without telling him. If it isn't serious then just go along as you are taking his money and spending it :)
Does he tell you he loves you or indice he has any feelings for you at all ?
If it serious then I would say tell him as you have no chance of being with him without telling him. If it isn't serious then just go along as you are taking his money and spending it :)
RE: need advice
I think there are several important things in your message.
First you say that you think you have already fallen out of love with your husband (before you met the charming guy), and this is an issue all by itself. I don't know what you have done to try and make tings work with your husband, do you know why you have fallen out of love, have you tried to relight the spark that brought you together before? How about your child...how important is the relationship between your husband and yourself for your child? Decide what you want to do with your husband totally seperate to any decision concerning the charming guy. Don't have the charming guy as any factor in this decision, as any new guy you meet can always just be a fleeting experience.
Secondly, if you speak to the charming guy, then hopefully he will already respect you as a friend, and he will be happy to keep you as a friend even if he knows you are married or if you have a child. If this is not the case, then maybe he is not as charming as he first appears!
I think first you need to make the decision regarding your husband...decide what you can do there, see if there is any way you can make it work together.
At the same time you can continue your friendship with the charming guy, but he does not need to know anything until you have decided what you are going to do about your husband. You may want to bring up the fact that you have a child if the conversation demands it - try not to deceive the charming guy, if he asks questions then you should either not answer, or answer truthfully. Lies are a sure way to destroy any relationship before it starts!
If (and it's a big IF) things totally break down between yourself and your husband and if (and again a big IF) you still feel that the charming guy is still charming and if (one more big IF) there is any chance of a relationship working (does he live close enough, and if not, would either of you be realistically able to travel to the other) then you can start to take the relationship with the charming guy forwards.
First you say that you think you have already fallen out of love with your husband (before you met the charming guy), and this is an issue all by itself. I don't know what you have done to try and make tings work with your husband, do you know why you have fallen out of love, have you tried to relight the spark that brought you together before? How about your child...how important is the relationship between your husband and yourself for your child? Decide what you want to do with your husband totally seperate to any decision concerning the charming guy. Don't have the charming guy as any factor in this decision, as any new guy you meet can always just be a fleeting experience.
Secondly, if you speak to the charming guy, then hopefully he will already respect you as a friend, and he will be happy to keep you as a friend even if he knows you are married or if you have a child. If this is not the case, then maybe he is not as charming as he first appears!
I think first you need to make the decision regarding your husband...decide what you can do there, see if there is any way you can make it work together.
At the same time you can continue your friendship with the charming guy, but he does not need to know anything until you have decided what you are going to do about your husband. You may want to bring up the fact that you have a child if the conversation demands it - try not to deceive the charming guy, if he asks questions then you should either not answer, or answer truthfully. Lies are a sure way to destroy any relationship before it starts!
If (and it's a big IF) things totally break down between yourself and your husband and if (and again a big IF) you still feel that the charming guy is still charming and if (one more big IF) there is any chance of a relationship working (does he live close enough, and if not, would either of you be realistically able to travel to the other) then you can start to take the relationship with the charming guy forwards.
RE: need advice
i cant believe this is really happening to me,that i let myself into this situation.Think i must add some details to the story...fact is i am depressed for awhile this happened during pregnancy when husband didnt understood my extra attention needs and it got only worse after birth, we tryed to make things work we did lots of talking but nothing changed i wanted to leave him but i cant because is more complicated if i would leave him i would have to go to my familly and thats far far away and dont want my baby not to have relations with his father...the charming guy is also far far far away so i could never move with him,and yet i am dreaming of some miracle solution:((((( the charming guy and i we dont talk about love,for love i think we would need to meet in real but there is atraction and he always makes me smile,this influenced also my day to day moods i become more happy more alive as if he brought me back the sparkle...there are other guys i could fall for,but i did for this one so i dont think was just my need of affection..i decided i will stop beeing selfish and think at him also and tell him the truth :((
RE: need advice
This is just as much as a fantasy for you as it may be for your charming friend. Be realistic. This is not the best place to seek love. In addition, many guys will accept a divorced woman but the child really complicates this issue. Some guys may accept you but not with a child. My advice is if you decide to leave husband, find an older gent who will accept your background and your child. Good luck.
RE: need advice
Tell him the truth, as others have already mentioned.
It will be a fire test for him... and if he passes, then it proves he's the right guy for you (at least for now :P).
It will be a fire test for him... and if he passes, then it proves he's the right guy for you (at least for now :P).
RE: need advice
I dont think your husband loves you anyway if he lets you work here so just get rid of him.
RE: need advice
Just go ahead and meet him and marry him...and pretend the kid was left on your doorstep...he will believe you...you work at CC.
RE: need advice
Tell your friend the truth and insist that you wish to start a real relationship on a concrete base without any lies or untruths!
If he leaves, he wasn't worth it anyway.
In any case start divorce proceedings before the meeting, I do not/or wish to, know your country, but you could be divorced for adultery and loose your child if you divorce after the meeting!
And as they say in a country very dear to me "bafta"! "noroc"!
If he leaves, he wasn't worth it anyway.
In any case start divorce proceedings before the meeting, I do not/or wish to, know your country, but you could be divorced for adultery and loose your child if you divorce after the meeting!
And as they say in a country very dear to me "bafta"! "noroc"!
RE: need advice
you have a dead marriage no matter who you meet. You should get divorced now; another man will show up one day..................
RE: need advice
you're telling her to bank on some foreign guy who she has only known through the internet to come to her and marry her and help raise her kid? and you're expecting him to do this after she tells him for the first time ever that, "oh, by the way i'm married and i have a child."
are you high?
are you high?
RE: need advice
it wouldn't be the first or last time. A few years ago I met a girl i chatted with for 1 year and 3 months. she always told me she was single and lived alone, but when i showed up at her city she told me the truth: she was married, but separated with a 3 year old kid. At this point everything was ok, but thats not all! she also had a guy she was dating, but she wasn't sure if she liked him or not! what a mess! girls say they are single, not dating anyone and dont like guys from their town, be careful, it can be all different!
YOU never had him
if you think you do then think again, chances are once he learns your really not single no child and now your married with a child. personally , id think you are a lier and untrustworthy.granted fantasy site we all lie so i think that lie is forgiven however if he is here looking for a gf then most likely he isnt looking for a ready made family.
good luck on everything
good luck on everything
RE: need advice
Hi, I dont envy what you must be feeling. Been there done that. :(
You're feeling caught up in an emotion of wonder and euphoria. Break is dowe to its components. The child. True a child is better of with his/her natural parents, but what life sill it be in a house without the parents loving each other. A non-biolocgical father can be as good if not better than a natural father in some situations. IMHO
Are you happy? Yes, it maybe be selfish to think of you, but without your happiness you can not achieve your full potential. Be it for your child or for your own well being. At the end of it all, will you say you lived a good life, or just dealt with it the way it was handed to you.
You asked a mans advice if you told us what you need to tell him. If it were me, and I cared for you as you seem to care for him. It wouldn't matter. I understand why you have to have secrets here. Anyone with any type of maturity has to realize the same. Some of my hard core regulars, who we are now good friends, were worried sick that I would be mad that there name wasn't what they first told me it was. I totally understood why they did it. Your guy should too, in fact, he should be flattered that you told him such a venerable part of your life.
You're worried about losing him. You have to take that chance. Now before you meet in real. If he leaves, it wasn't meant to be, You have to just believe that. If he doesn't run screaming, I would set up a meet. Don't tell anyone yet. But meet him, people are so different in RL than virtual. If you don't and he still wants to be with you, you will always wonder what if. The fact you were able to, and let yourself wonder this far, shows that you need to at least indulge the possibility. This could be the fairy tail ending we all seek.. It could be a fiery crash to hell also, but you owe it to yourself to see.
I wish you the best of luck sweety.
You're feeling caught up in an emotion of wonder and euphoria. Break is dowe to its components. The child. True a child is better of with his/her natural parents, but what life sill it be in a house without the parents loving each other. A non-biolocgical father can be as good if not better than a natural father in some situations. IMHO
Are you happy? Yes, it maybe be selfish to think of you, but without your happiness you can not achieve your full potential. Be it for your child or for your own well being. At the end of it all, will you say you lived a good life, or just dealt with it the way it was handed to you.
You asked a mans advice if you told us what you need to tell him. If it were me, and I cared for you as you seem to care for him. It wouldn't matter. I understand why you have to have secrets here. Anyone with any type of maturity has to realize the same. Some of my hard core regulars, who we are now good friends, were worried sick that I would be mad that there name wasn't what they first told me it was. I totally understood why they did it. Your guy should too, in fact, he should be flattered that you told him such a venerable part of your life.
You're worried about losing him. You have to take that chance. Now before you meet in real. If he leaves, it wasn't meant to be, You have to just believe that. If he doesn't run screaming, I would set up a meet. Don't tell anyone yet. But meet him, people are so different in RL than virtual. If you don't and he still wants to be with you, you will always wonder what if. The fact you were able to, and let yourself wonder this far, shows that you need to at least indulge the possibility. This could be the fairy tail ending we all seek.. It could be a fiery crash to hell also, but you owe it to yourself to see.
I wish you the best of luck sweety.
RE: need advice
i couldnt explain it any better then"2cents" did...thanks to everyone who took his or her time to read my message and reply to it...i just needed a double check if i did the right decision when i decided to tell him the truth,and looks like is the best choice to do right now after he will know the truth we will pick it up from there on...
RE: need advice
The only way is to tell him the truth. Have you considered the possibility that he may be keeping a secret/s from you? It is very, very, very easy to construct a fake profile or personality on a site like this or on the web in general This is true of both hosts & guests.
I once chatted with a girl who traveled to France to make a new life with a guy she met online. When she got there the first thing she finds out is that the guy is 48 & not 42. this she could live with. It was when the guys wife tuned up at knocking on the door that she realized that something was very wrong.
Be careful boys & girls!
I once chatted with a girl who traveled to France to make a new life with a guy she met online. When she got there the first thing she finds out is that the guy is 48 & not 42. this she could live with. It was when the guys wife tuned up at knocking on the door that she realized that something was very wrong.
Be careful boys & girls!
wedding dresses
I'd like to hear from any viewers out there who share my fetish for girls in wedding and prom dresses and any hosts who like dressing up! Hehe! Write to me at ccmail.
swimming
congrats to the US mens relay medley. they just barely beat France who was heavily favored. chalk up another gold for the US.
RIP Isaac Hayes (aka. "Chef" from "Southpark")
Isaac Hayes on his treadmill. First Bernie Mac, now him. Too bad. Good memories though...
RE: Whats happen in the sport?
Dont have internet - just a direct link to camcontacts from my pc - thats all i need :-)
ATTENTION COLUMBIA STUDIOS
Get the cams and terminals out of the closet and give the girls some room to move. i can't see more than the pussy and a corner of the tummy or the tits and maybe one arm at a time. Forget even seeing their faces and tits in the same frame.
closed
Did they close down the Uzbekistan studios? Those were some of the hottest girls I ever met!!!
why are they surprised...
when you can suss out that they are fibbing a bit when they claim to be only with you in video? can't they understand when they are typing typing typing and no words appear on my screen I know they are chatting with others in our "it's only you bb" vidoeo... either that or working on a term paper...
RE: why are they surprised...
...or how about when they don't realize they are broadcasting their audio and you hear "incoming contact" in the background?
RE: why are they surprised...
I think he was complaining about girls lieing about it. Some girls tell you when there are other members in vid which is better.
RE: why are they surprised...
I am not saying this is the case every time but sometimes the video and text can be a long way out of sync. What you see her typing may be the words that appeared on yr screen 10 seconds before.
RE: why are they surprised...
I forgot to also mention that some hosts use translation programs so their is a time lag between them typing in their language and sending the text to you. These programs sometimes generate gobbledygook which adds further delays.
RE: why are they surprised...
If she is in a studio that "incoming contact" could be from the pc of the girl working next to her.
RE: why are they surprised...
Some chathosts use video stream splitting programs and they are able to broadcast simultaneously to many accounts on many sites.
Some others might be responding on MSN or Yahoo pals.
Truth is that the ones that pay full attention to their visitors, regardless of how many accounts they have are the ones that are most successful and have loyal visitors.
Some others might be responding on MSN or Yahoo pals.
Truth is that the ones that pay full attention to their visitors, regardless of how many accounts they have are the ones that are most successful and have loyal visitors.
Question please?
Why is it that so many women from Romania are into domination? Just a question for members and hosts? Thanks for your answers.
RE: Question please?
i was just curious. all of the Romanian women i have met are attractive just was wondering why so many were in that category. thank you for your answer.
RE: Question please?
There are Romanian girls in all categories. Romanian girls have strong personalities and often a good level of english which means they can do well here as dommes.
RE: Question please?
and yet so many of them tell me it's easy work and they get to keep there clothes on mostly. oh
1 they are smart aren"t they?.....lol
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1 they are smart aren"t they?.....lol
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RE: Question please?
All beautiful women use their beauty to their advantage. Or, at least they try to.
However, beauty is not a litmus to intelligence.
Beauty with "smarts" (assuming academic inteligence, not street smarts) is a byproduct of a good upbringing, well read, and educated (or if unable to afford it, finds time to honorably and persistently pursue it within herself).
What was your question?
However, beauty is not a litmus to intelligence.
Beauty with "smarts" (assuming academic inteligence, not street smarts) is a byproduct of a good upbringing, well read, and educated (or if unable to afford it, finds time to honorably and persistently pursue it within herself).
What was your question?
RE: Question please?
Just be weary, Lorac. They may be cute, gorgeous, and sexy, but they are very cunning. If you are able to overlook this characteristic and be aware of it, you will do just fine.
However, don't give money even if you feel compelled to do so whether they ask or not.
And, by no means attempt to meet any one of them in real...that is, don't expect them to show up at OTP or even answer their phone when you arrive. They do not want to see you in real unless you are a rock star, movie star, or they know you are a rich American. Then, maybe!!!!! lol
The above has been my experience which ocurred a few years ago. Granted, two incidents does not make a crowd, but three might. lol
The majority here think they are above their raisin'.
However, don't give money even if you feel compelled to do so whether they ask or not.
And, by no means attempt to meet any one of them in real...that is, don't expect them to show up at OTP or even answer their phone when you arrive. They do not want to see you in real unless you are a rock star, movie star, or they know you are a rich American. Then, maybe!!!!! lol
The above has been my experience which ocurred a few years ago. Granted, two incidents does not make a crowd, but three might. lol
The majority here think they are above their raisin'.
RE: Question please?
>>wow ! Sir !!! Calm down !!! If you meet some "cute" women in your >>life doesnt meant we are all the same.
If you read the post properly, you will see I did not.
>>.A simple analogy lead us to the idea that this apply for men as >>well ... And as far as I lived I saw kinda same reaction on men 2
You must be referring to immature men....those that are younger or more prone to f**k and run. lol
>>men will meet you in real ..sure if they are over 50y.o. and can >>have a piece of fresh,young pussy
Your bias shows your true colors as well. What is wrong with a older man wanting to meet a younger woman? Huh?
>>Let's try to be less judgmental ! Hm ?Doesn't sound as a good >>idea for some "adult" people ...more for some "open minds" ?! ;-)
I am stating fact, from experience. It is you, Miss, who is being judgemental to think ALL men are as you say.
Good day to you. 'enuf said.
If you read the post properly, you will see I did not.
>>.A simple analogy lead us to the idea that this apply for men as >>well ... And as far as I lived I saw kinda same reaction on men 2
You must be referring to immature men....those that are younger or more prone to f**k and run. lol
>>men will meet you in real ..sure if they are over 50y.o. and can >>have a piece of fresh,young pussy
Your bias shows your true colors as well. What is wrong with a older man wanting to meet a younger woman? Huh?
>>Let's try to be less judgmental ! Hm ?Doesn't sound as a good >>idea for some "adult" people ...more for some "open minds" ?! ;-)
I am stating fact, from experience. It is you, Miss, who is being judgemental to think ALL men are as you say.
Good day to you. 'enuf said.
RE: Question please?
I eat. Sorry to hear of you striking out with Romanian girls.
I've met 8 of them so far in the past 4 years, most recently was just a few months ago. I've found them all to be incredibly beautiful and smart and each visit was fun and memorable.
Not that I've gone with any illusions of romance or expected sex from them, so maybe that might be where you fell over.
Always trust your instincts and have a backup plan! I guess I'm lucky that I already have some good friends there so should any meeting go awry I am covered.
Your mileage may vary, as they say.
I've met 8 of them so far in the past 4 years, most recently was just a few months ago. I've found them all to be incredibly beautiful and smart and each visit was fun and memorable.
Not that I've gone with any illusions of romance or expected sex from them, so maybe that might be where you fell over.
Always trust your instincts and have a backup plan! I guess I'm lucky that I already have some good friends there so should any meeting go awry I am covered.
Your mileage may vary, as they say.
RE: Question please?
Aussie:
My intentions were honorable. We had, up to that time, known each other for over a year. It was she, actually, who invited me. So, I was excited about the idea. However, when I arrived at OTP, she was not there to pick me up as she said she would. So, I called her cell phone. Got someone, who claimed to be her brother, that she went to the mountains. Oh, well!!
So, I caught a bus to the Continental Hotel, walked down the street and went to a prearranged breakfast house. The next morning, I paid the hostess, and then caught a taxi back to OTP. My backup plan was in Frankfurt. lol
Been there several times since then on work related business. Did some planning on a housing project in Buch. that was financed by the US and Israel. Nice housing, actually. And the pricing seemed reasonable, I guess. I was not aware, at the time, of the medium income level.
One thing is for sure, Romanian women do love to dress up just to walk to a grocery store. lol
My intentions were honorable. We had, up to that time, known each other for over a year. It was she, actually, who invited me. So, I was excited about the idea. However, when I arrived at OTP, she was not there to pick me up as she said she would. So, I called her cell phone. Got someone, who claimed to be her brother, that she went to the mountains. Oh, well!!
So, I caught a bus to the Continental Hotel, walked down the street and went to a prearranged breakfast house. The next morning, I paid the hostess, and then caught a taxi back to OTP. My backup plan was in Frankfurt. lol
Been there several times since then on work related business. Did some planning on a housing project in Buch. that was financed by the US and Israel. Nice housing, actually. And the pricing seemed reasonable, I guess. I was not aware, at the time, of the medium income level.
One thing is for sure, Romanian women do love to dress up just to walk to a grocery store. lol
RE: Question please?
I have met over 10 Romanian hosts in real, some more than once. I have never been stood up
RE: Question please?
Yep, I suffered repercussions. LOL The repercussion I suffered consists of not trusting you. LOL
RE: Question please?
>>Wrong guess ! It's our personality and not only. We're damn smart >>too , and when there's beauty + intelligence , there is POWER.
Your reply did not answer the original poster's question. I guess that goes to show that you may be smart in your own humble way, but not very attentive to others.
So, your answer to what now?
Your reply did not answer the original poster's question. I guess that goes to show that you may be smart in your own humble way, but not very attentive to others.
So, your answer to what now?
RE: Question please?
Lol, you have a great style and sharp mind. Shame everything has to be predicated on all this dom/submissive stuff, which does nothing for me at all, as i reckon you would be great company otherwise.
RE: Question please?
Just following your words. That is all!
BTW, I eat ginko all the time. LOL
And, BTW, your wording and sentence structure implies you are not from Romania. However, you previous posts do.
Perhaps someone with a higher level of English skills wrote it for you. Or, perhaps, Long Term Member did...it sure does read as if he did. LOL
And, answering indirectly is not answering at all.
Good day to you.
BTW, I eat ginko all the time. LOL
And, BTW, your wording and sentence structure implies you are not from Romania. However, you previous posts do.
Perhaps someone with a higher level of English skills wrote it for you. Or, perhaps, Long Term Member did...it sure does read as if he did. LOL
And, answering indirectly is not answering at all.
Good day to you.
RE: Question please?
please angell, don't flatter yourself too much. just because you can put a sentence together doesn't automatically qualify you for MENSA membership. Being the smartest Romanian domme isn't exactly a badge of honor. its like winning a gold medal at the Special Olympics,
RE: Question please?
I know what it means.
What invitation? I didn't see a invitation. Was I required to read your entire post as Long Time Member assumed we all would his?
What invitation? I didn't see a invitation. Was I required to read your entire post as Long Time Member assumed we all would his?
RE: Question please?
You're a real charm factory mate, maybe you should try using that scroll bar on the right, then you might be able to read the whole post! ;-)
RE: Question please?
I agree, beauty plus brains are the ingredients of a strong aphrodisiac named "Power", but it comes down on to whom and how such persons exercise that power, because at the end they might become victims of their self.
RE: Question please?
i am sorry i asked this question. i am going to set back international relations 100 years. lol
RE: Question please?
This battle has been raging for many years, at the least. LOL It was bound to flair up again sooner or later. Much prefer sooner just to get it out of the way. lol
RE: Question please?
From what I noticed, particularly the guys I met for business, they drink too much. I don't drink. So, anything past 5 bottles per hour is a bit too much. It hurt just to watch them. LOL
RE: Question please?
Thank you, dear. I hope I have succeeded in bing disliked. It has been a New Year's resolution to be disliked. Next year, I will be pushing for assh**e. Ah, I love goal setting. LOL
Cats
Cats
They’ll pay a visit to our place
Just when our eyes are free of pain,
Let pain appear, - they won’t remain:
The hearts of cats feel no disgrace!
It’s funny, poet, wouldn’t you say,
How hard we try to make them tame.
They will not play the roles of slaves:
The hearts of cats will not obey!
We can’t entice them quite enough,
It matters not what treats we feed them,
A moment - and they run to freedom:
The hearts of cats contain no love!
They’ll pay a visit to our place
Just when our eyes are free of pain,
Let pain appear, - they won’t remain:
The hearts of cats feel no disgrace!
It’s funny, poet, wouldn’t you say,
How hard we try to make them tame.
They will not play the roles of slaves:
The hearts of cats will not obey!
We can’t entice them quite enough,
It matters not what treats we feed them,
A moment - and they run to freedom:
The hearts of cats contain no love!
RE: Cats
The opening line, "They’ll pay a visit to our place" shows the author has no understanding of cats. All places are THEIR places, and if we please them they allow us to share that space with them.
My friend has a plaque hanging in his home that explains it quite nicely, "Dogs have owners, cats have staff."
My friend has a plaque hanging in his home that explains it quite nicely, "Dogs have owners, cats have staff."
RE: difference
The difference is in what the host is obliged to do. In Not Shy may chat for some time before starting a show. In Instant Action the host has to start her show within a minute or so of the member entering video.
RE: difference...instant action
so what about if you are not the first person in video? can a host in instant action refuse to strip if the first person in video only wants chat?
RE: difference...instant action
of course a host can refuse any request except in AI where they must strip to simple request to "just strip". if they refuse strip it is cause for credit.
RE: difference...instant action
If a host in not shy or IA refuses to strip at all if requested then the member can request and would normally get a credit for the session. You are right that the host can refuse the request but if she does so she will not get paid.
RE: difference...instant action
If a host in not shy or IA refuses to strip at all if requested then the member can request and would normally get a credit for the session. You are right that the host can refuse the request but if she does so she will not get paid.
Facinating
I find it curious that hosts only ask other hosts how to increase there earnings. I can say that pictures alone dont do it. Sure they help a little. Why dont hosts ever ask members????
RE: Facinating
There are factors other than price and the way the question get posed has nothing to do with price. It assumes that price has already been taken to consideration. Then what other factors are important? Since hosts are happy advising each other with an emphasis on just pictures, not much members can add to help since you girls already know it all.
RE: Member...
Some girls are sexy enough to get customers just showing sexy body even they cant pose good but knowing how to pose of course gives more value to the show. Not being focused when in video makes at least me not to return anymore even if I dont interrupt the show when im there. The pics girls put up gives a good hint about what to expect from their show - especially in little shy - at least to members who been around for a while.
Its also good be able to chat with the member on his level. Asking the same old boring questions every time - whats ur name, how old are uand where u from - is the worst thing.
Its also good be able to chat with the member on his level. Asking the same old boring questions every time - whats ur name, how old are uand where u from - is the worst thing.
RE: Member...
To chat with most members on their own level the hosts would need to dumbdown:-)
RE: Member...
I usually try to start a conversation with a discussion of quantum mechanics or special relativity or string theory. The latter usually has them start to pull off their thong which leads me to a better understanding of the unified field theory.
dear EroticOnCam
Sweetie - I spent 20 minutes online with a host one night running down point-by-point how to generate parallel revenue streams, improved business models and creative marketing that could easily double or triple her bottom line. In the end she said it was too much like work and she preferred to sleep in front of the cam waiting for the video buzzer.
RE: Facinating
Well, i still think intellectual discussion of something interesting will keep me coming back at whatever price!
RE: LAST WEEK IN CC
Take care of yourseld OMP I'll miss you.
Oh and I am your friend but don't tell everyone :P
Oh and I am your friend but don't tell everyone :P
RE: LAST WEEK IN CC
ok pussy:)))but remember,you will back one day:)))its a narcotic:))))hehe. hope if you will back its will be for fun only- not for money:)))xxx
RE: LAST WEEK IN CC
bye bye Cathy!!!!!!!!!!!! i will miss yah sis and take care about yah sweety pussy....... ;) iam sure u will be happy and everything in yah life will be great!!!!!!!! good luck beauty!!!!!!!!! many many kissesssssssss
RE: LAST WEEK IN CC
I never meet you Cathy but for a pay site it never ceases to amaze me how many here are really part of a community especially when you mix sex with money.
But no matter as I said it really is a community for many even if its between just hosts.
Best wishes to you in your future...........................
But no matter as I said it really is a community for many even if its between just hosts.
Best wishes to you in your future...........................
Do you want puzzle again????
Do you want puzzle again????if you are a member,you will be try to win $ again?
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
No.
The puzzle games are designed to increase revenue for the site and the hosts. They work very well for that, but do nothing for me. It takes a lot of money to get enough pieces to come close to winning, and in the case that I do "win", I am only getting site credit. Not exactly recovering what I put into it.
Another thing is that hosts that are into the game go into "puzzle mode" during that time, which is that their purpose for being is to get viewers coming in and keep them coming in for as long as possible. Doing quality shows is not really a priority. So during puzzle time, I tend to stay away from video or go to hosts that don't seem interested in the game (yes, there are some, lol.)
Sure, they can be fun, and kind of addictive in a way too. But the site goes into a bit of a quality withdrawal when they are on. Others may not feel the same, but this is just what I see from personal experience.
The puzzle games are designed to increase revenue for the site and the hosts. They work very well for that, but do nothing for me. It takes a lot of money to get enough pieces to come close to winning, and in the case that I do "win", I am only getting site credit. Not exactly recovering what I put into it.
Another thing is that hosts that are into the game go into "puzzle mode" during that time, which is that their purpose for being is to get viewers coming in and keep them coming in for as long as possible. Doing quality shows is not really a priority. So during puzzle time, I tend to stay away from video or go to hosts that don't seem interested in the game (yes, there are some, lol.)
Sure, they can be fun, and kind of addictive in a way too. But the site goes into a bit of a quality withdrawal when they are on. Others may not feel the same, but this is just what I see from personal experience.
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
I can't stand these puzzles and games. Hosts are only into winning the contest and not being with me
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
Really hard to understand why hosts were eligible for prize moneys. Wasn't it good enough for them to realize increased revenues? Also consider the fact that there are far less hosts than the total number of members meaning hosts had better chances to win. Just dont get CCs thinking.
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
well,for me AWARDS is most important that shity 500$ (im not saying about 2000;)))lol) we are a girls:))cc stars:))hehe.and we like awards:)))lol.
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
no, I did not care for puzzles and No, will not try to win if there is another one
RE: Do you want puzzle again????
Is puzzle good for ur country? increased national and local taxes? (LOL)
Time to give it a rest, lol.
I have finally have gotten my need to post out of my system and am retiring my use of the name "Longtime member". I suppose that someone else may start to use that name, but it will not be me.
I never meant to be the "Longtime member". Many people have used that name before I ever did. I just happen to pick that name one day a couple of weeks ago and it stuck.
In terms of my reason for posting so much, quite frankly, I was bored. And it also was a way to keep myself busy without spending so much money in video chat but still be connected to the site. I have spent several thousand dollars over the past few months which is a bit excessive even if one has the money.
For those who have said I should "get a life", you are right to some extent. I was not working because I don't really need to and wasn't in the mood. I was in between relationships. And I like to do physical activities such as working out but I was nursing an injury. That left me stuck home watching tv and cruising the internet more than usual.
It was always strange to see comments that I wanted some type of power here or that acted like I was an authority of some type so that my opininions mattered more than another person's. I surely do not feel that way. The only thing is that I think that one needs to back up his opinions when possible. If we are discussing which is better, chocolate or vanila, then I guess there isn't much more to say than one's preference. But with many other issues, people should support what they say instead of making statements without backing them up. And rather than just let something go, I simply wanted to know why somebody felt a certain way.
I know that some posts of mine bothered a few people and that they seemed obsessive or even "creepy". But other than a couple of posts that listed a few hosts that I think should be avoided, I don't think that I began any negative threads. For example, in the viewer forum where there was a long thread about someone that criticized a particular host, the whole thing started with 1) his repeated criticism of the host at issue and 2) my simply asking why he felt that way. It was not until the member did not want to give a straight answer and then posted an answer that was ridiculous that I began to challenge him. Maybe I should have let it go once it was obvious that he had no basis for his opinion, but sometimes people annoy us to the point where that is not so easy to do.
I have always said that I don't care if someone agrees with me or not, but I think that there should be substance and facts behind one's posts. When I have criticized anyone, I have always tried to back it up. And if someone were to have asked, I would have provided more details if possible instead of saying something along the lines of "it is none of your business" or that "the details don't matter, just take my word for it.".
What I find to be "creepy" are people that would attack another person's character without merit or make baseless statements, and I apologize to all if I am a little obsessed with my search for accurate information. If I am obsessed with anything, it is simply that I want the truth to come out, nothing more, nothing less, even if the truth were to prove my opinion to be wrong. I guess that some people do not care about the truth and just want to vent. Others "can't handle the truth," because of their fears or their egos, but I am not such a person.
Granted, I may have difficulty letting things go at times, but certain things are worth debating. And for example, when one host on my "host to avoid" list attacked my lengthy posts, you may notice that other than one comment to someone on a sub-thread of a different post, I let her have her fun. It was obvious to all why should was making her comments so why bother to join in?
I am sure that many of you are happy that I am leaving or at least not gong to post very much. I must admit that I am confused as to why my critics would read my posts or even get so far into a post that is as long as this one if they don't like what I have to say, but I guess that speaks to something inside of them instead of something about me. In any event, I may or may not post at times in the future. In the past, I would just pick a name at random like most people, make a comment (sometimes even a short one, lol), and forget about it so maybe I will do that in the future.
The only thing I want to focus on now is getting back into the gym, enjoying the olympics, and either finding some volunteer work to do or maybe a new job if I find something interesting. I don't know how chathosts sit here for so long because after just a few weeks, I am worn out, and I am sure CC's staff that has to read my posts feels the same, lol.
Finally, I ask CC to let everybody attack me as much as they would like. Please do not delete this post or any responses to it no matter how ugly it may get. I really don't care what people other than those close to me think about me, but I at least hope that everyone will support their comments about me or anything else with facts. And I promise not to respond to any comments about me, be them negative or positive, accurate or inaccurate. Maybe people will say nice things, maybe they will say nasty things, or maybe they simply don't care. Whatever the case may be, it is fine by me.
It is a nice day here so I think I will eat something and go outside.
Good luck to you all in the next contest, to your countries in the Olympics, and in life in general. :))
I never meant to be the "Longtime member". Many people have used that name before I ever did. I just happen to pick that name one day a couple of weeks ago and it stuck.
In terms of my reason for posting so much, quite frankly, I was bored. And it also was a way to keep myself busy without spending so much money in video chat but still be connected to the site. I have spent several thousand dollars over the past few months which is a bit excessive even if one has the money.
For those who have said I should "get a life", you are right to some extent. I was not working because I don't really need to and wasn't in the mood. I was in between relationships. And I like to do physical activities such as working out but I was nursing an injury. That left me stuck home watching tv and cruising the internet more than usual.
It was always strange to see comments that I wanted some type of power here or that acted like I was an authority of some type so that my opininions mattered more than another person's. I surely do not feel that way. The only thing is that I think that one needs to back up his opinions when possible. If we are discussing which is better, chocolate or vanila, then I guess there isn't much more to say than one's preference. But with many other issues, people should support what they say instead of making statements without backing them up. And rather than just let something go, I simply wanted to know why somebody felt a certain way.
I know that some posts of mine bothered a few people and that they seemed obsessive or even "creepy". But other than a couple of posts that listed a few hosts that I think should be avoided, I don't think that I began any negative threads. For example, in the viewer forum where there was a long thread about someone that criticized a particular host, the whole thing started with 1) his repeated criticism of the host at issue and 2) my simply asking why he felt that way. It was not until the member did not want to give a straight answer and then posted an answer that was ridiculous that I began to challenge him. Maybe I should have let it go once it was obvious that he had no basis for his opinion, but sometimes people annoy us to the point where that is not so easy to do.
I have always said that I don't care if someone agrees with me or not, but I think that there should be substance and facts behind one's posts. When I have criticized anyone, I have always tried to back it up. And if someone were to have asked, I would have provided more details if possible instead of saying something along the lines of "it is none of your business" or that "the details don't matter, just take my word for it.".
What I find to be "creepy" are people that would attack another person's character without merit or make baseless statements, and I apologize to all if I am a little obsessed with my search for accurate information. If I am obsessed with anything, it is simply that I want the truth to come out, nothing more, nothing less, even if the truth were to prove my opinion to be wrong. I guess that some people do not care about the truth and just want to vent. Others "can't handle the truth," because of their fears or their egos, but I am not such a person.
Granted, I may have difficulty letting things go at times, but certain things are worth debating. And for example, when one host on my "host to avoid" list attacked my lengthy posts, you may notice that other than one comment to someone on a sub-thread of a different post, I let her have her fun. It was obvious to all why should was making her comments so why bother to join in?
I am sure that many of you are happy that I am leaving or at least not gong to post very much. I must admit that I am confused as to why my critics would read my posts or even get so far into a post that is as long as this one if they don't like what I have to say, but I guess that speaks to something inside of them instead of something about me. In any event, I may or may not post at times in the future. In the past, I would just pick a name at random like most people, make a comment (sometimes even a short one, lol), and forget about it so maybe I will do that in the future.
The only thing I want to focus on now is getting back into the gym, enjoying the olympics, and either finding some volunteer work to do or maybe a new job if I find something interesting. I don't know how chathosts sit here for so long because after just a few weeks, I am worn out, and I am sure CC's staff that has to read my posts feels the same, lol.
Finally, I ask CC to let everybody attack me as much as they would like. Please do not delete this post or any responses to it no matter how ugly it may get. I really don't care what people other than those close to me think about me, but I at least hope that everyone will support their comments about me or anything else with facts. And I promise not to respond to any comments about me, be them negative or positive, accurate or inaccurate. Maybe people will say nice things, maybe they will say nasty things, or maybe they simply don't care. Whatever the case may be, it is fine by me.
It is a nice day here so I think I will eat something and go outside.
Good luck to you all in the next contest, to your countries in the Olympics, and in life in general. :))
RE: Time to give it a rest, lol.
we will be missing you:)))dont leave us:)):))btw im sure you will be back again:))cc its a drug ;)
RE: Time to give it a rest, lol.
About time LTM , I by the way didnt say you was a stalker rather you show signs of stalker like qualities . Get yourself in some fresh air , enjoy the remains of the summer , keep the computer switched off and you will make a full recovery .
RE: Time to give it a rest, lol.
Gee, was this pseudo-nickname copyrighted? I've used this nickname too, quite a number of times....
RE: Time to give it a rest, lol.
Jeeez, even your goodbye is lengthy.
It is not so much what you say or how you say it, it is the length. Though I have to admit I didn't read past the third paragraph, it is apparent your intent may be an honorable one, but, jeez, guy, you are just too wordy.
Anyway, good luck to you and no hard feelings. Hope you find work when you really need it.
It is not so much what you say or how you say it, it is the length. Though I have to admit I didn't read past the third paragraph, it is apparent your intent may be an honorable one, but, jeez, guy, you are just too wordy.
Anyway, good luck to you and no hard feelings. Hope you find work when you really need it.
Congratuations China
What a fantastic opening ceremony to the Olyimpic Games. It was just awesome. Good luck and best wishes to all the countries and competitors taking part and thank you China for a great show.
Peace brothers and sisters everywhere
Cheers !!!
Peace brothers and sisters everywhere
Cheers !!!
RE: Congratuations China
Right. Reminded me of what Ive seen from Olympic openings 1936 (was a documentary cause im not that old) very good discipline
RE: Congratuations China
Well done China. Awesome opening ceremony.
Best of luck to all the competitors.
Best of luck to all the competitors.
RE: Congratuations China
Yes, nice (cough, cough) and sad that coaches family member was killed
wonderful feet
Pedicure for womens feet with polish..hosts with feet photos tell me where you are love to see your sexy feet
RE: Sad lil man HardLiquor
I dont see any reason to be cruel about things. The stories I hear from some of my regulars confusses me why people need to be abusive. If abusing and insaulting someone gives them pleasure, I sure feel bad for that person. You really need to make yourself feel more supierior by insaulting a chathost? Nice... What a sad life you must have.
"Don't foul the well, you may need its water" -I like that Well put!
"Don't foul the well, you may need its water" -I like that Well put!
RE: Sad lil man HardLiquor
Anita ( Uneducated )
Your actions of hypocrisy are a true sign of why I put you on ignore the minute you enter Community Chat. You have been nothing but rude, insulting to others with your harsh words. Look into the mirror before you point fingers at others. Treat people nice, and they will treat you with respect in return.
Your actions of hypocrisy are a true sign of why I put you on ignore the minute you enter Community Chat. You have been nothing but rude, insulting to others with your harsh words. Look into the mirror before you point fingers at others. Treat people nice, and they will treat you with respect in return.