General Forum
Internet addiction
Dealing with Internet Addiction is no different than dealing with any other type of addiction. Whether you are addicted to heroin, gambling, cigarettes, sexual deviancy, or eating Milky Way bars, all addictions have certain basic elements in common.
The purpose of this Special Report is to review some of these common elements, so you can see if they relate to your own situation. While all addictions can ultimately be cured, this is not always an easy or painless process. A high degree of commitment to breaking established habits is required, as are persistence, dedication, honesty, and self-compassion.
A. Denial
All people who are addicted (to anything) have some degree of denial. Without denial, most addictions would not have become established in the first place.
Denial can take many forms. At the milder extremes, a person may believe "I can handle this problem whenever I decide to do so." The fact that one has a problem is at least acknowledged. At the other extreme, denial often takes the form of: "What problem? I don't have a problem. You've got the problem, Dude. And besides, you're beginning to tick me off!"
Denial can sometimes be so strong that a person's whole life begins to deteriorate, and they still maintain everything is "just fine." Jobs can be lost, marriages can dissolve, a person's health can become affected, and all of these things (and more) can be present for some time before the person ultimately recognizes there is a problem to be solved.
B. Failing to Ask for Help
The second hallmark of most addictions is that people affected are very reluctant to ask for help. The mindset of most addicts is: "I can beat this myself." Addicts are often very proud individuals. Not only are they reluctant to ask other people for help, but even when they do, they don't accept the advice of others easily. Another mistake most addicts make when they do decide to seek help is they ask the wrong kinds of people. Asking family members and friends is not often productive. You would think addicts would avoid asking people who have identical or similar problems themselves, especially if they haven't been successful at dealing with them, but such is not the case.
The best thing to do is to look for individuals or professionals who know how to cure addicted people. While these resource people are rare, you should keep looking for them. If you hook up with someone who claims to have this ability, look at your results and don't hang around too long with this person if you don't see yourself making progress. Keep looking for the right experienced helper and you will eventually find one that works well with you.
C. Lack of Other Pleasures
One thing that is true about most, but not all addictions, is they are often either the only or the strongest source of pleasure and satisfaction in a person's life.
People who become addicted often do so because their lives are not fullfilling. They can't seem to find passion, enjoyment, adventure, or pleasure from life itself, so they have to invent these experiences in other ways. Whether such feelings come to them through gambling, getting "high," "tuning out," or becomming overinvolved with the Internet, their work, their hobbies, or anything else, there is often a lack of other pleasures that drive people (at least in part) to crave pleasure from their addictive behaviors.
This becomes important when you try to end your addiction. If you try to eliminate your main source of pleasure in life without being able to replace it immediately with other sources of pleasure, it is doubtful you will be able to stay away from your addictive behavior very long.
The purpose of this Special Report is to review some of these common elements, so you can see if they relate to your own situation. While all addictions can ultimately be cured, this is not always an easy or painless process. A high degree of commitment to breaking established habits is required, as are persistence, dedication, honesty, and self-compassion.
A. Denial
All people who are addicted (to anything) have some degree of denial. Without denial, most addictions would not have become established in the first place.
Denial can take many forms. At the milder extremes, a person may believe "I can handle this problem whenever I decide to do so." The fact that one has a problem is at least acknowledged. At the other extreme, denial often takes the form of: "What problem? I don't have a problem. You've got the problem, Dude. And besides, you're beginning to tick me off!"
Denial can sometimes be so strong that a person's whole life begins to deteriorate, and they still maintain everything is "just fine." Jobs can be lost, marriages can dissolve, a person's health can become affected, and all of these things (and more) can be present for some time before the person ultimately recognizes there is a problem to be solved.
B. Failing to Ask for Help
The second hallmark of most addictions is that people affected are very reluctant to ask for help. The mindset of most addicts is: "I can beat this myself." Addicts are often very proud individuals. Not only are they reluctant to ask other people for help, but even when they do, they don't accept the advice of others easily. Another mistake most addicts make when they do decide to seek help is they ask the wrong kinds of people. Asking family members and friends is not often productive. You would think addicts would avoid asking people who have identical or similar problems themselves, especially if they haven't been successful at dealing with them, but such is not the case.
The best thing to do is to look for individuals or professionals who know how to cure addicted people. While these resource people are rare, you should keep looking for them. If you hook up with someone who claims to have this ability, look at your results and don't hang around too long with this person if you don't see yourself making progress. Keep looking for the right experienced helper and you will eventually find one that works well with you.
C. Lack of Other Pleasures
One thing that is true about most, but not all addictions, is they are often either the only or the strongest source of pleasure and satisfaction in a person's life.
People who become addicted often do so because their lives are not fullfilling. They can't seem to find passion, enjoyment, adventure, or pleasure from life itself, so they have to invent these experiences in other ways. Whether such feelings come to them through gambling, getting "high," "tuning out," or becomming overinvolved with the Internet, their work, their hobbies, or anything else, there is often a lack of other pleasures that drive people (at least in part) to crave pleasure from their addictive behaviors.
This becomes important when you try to end your addiction. If you try to eliminate your main source of pleasure in life without being able to replace it immediately with other sources of pleasure, it is doubtful you will be able to stay away from your addictive behavior very long.
RE: Internet addiction
as well as the psycho symptoms there are a host (no pun intended) of chemically related side-effects.
Happy Birthday, Stasya (QuietSunset, AngelVicioso)
In spite of busy times due to studies, I wish you a joyful and bright birthday, hoping many CC members and hosts know where to send you a little or big gift!
RE: Member Stats?
wonderful to see it is obvious that most of the women here are so much brighter than most of the men - so fkn glad I was born male
interesting
that you ask
i first started live chat with another site that you needed to buy credits to see models in private, point of saying all that?
they could see how many credits you had it account so thier show
or stalling factor was dictated the moment you thier freechat screen
i first started live chat with another site that you needed to buy credits to see models in private, point of saying all that?
they could see how many credits you had it account so thier show
or stalling factor was dictated the moment you thier freechat screen
RE: interesting
I know they can see the money you've spent on THEM specifically. But can they see what you've spent on others, specifically, or in aggregate? I doubt it. But I could be wrong. I doubt they can see the total amount of money that a member has spent on cc. Just what they've spent on that host personally.
RE: interesting
btw...that goes for any of the number of host that populate them...and there r a lot.
Meet and Greet
Following on from below with how many you met / slept with etc I am curious as to what happened after meeting and the sex ........ so hosts ....
1. How many invited you to their own countries or to live with them ?
2. How many proposed even ?
3. Did you talk as much with them after the sex as before ?
For the record i met two , slept with both and remained friends after but talked less .. I think we all moved on and neither was going to be long term .........
1. How many invited you to their own countries or to live with them ?
2. How many proposed even ?
3. Did you talk as much with them after the sex as before ?
For the record i met two , slept with both and remained friends after but talked less .. I think we all moved on and neither was going to be long term .........
RE: Many Happy Returns of the Day Wayne xoxoxox
alpha is right it is 2morrow...but thank u jellykins for the wishes...huggles...and thx to alpha also...kiss
RE: Many Happy Returns of the Day Wayne xoxoxox
Happy Birthday for tomorrow me old china - you are always a lot of fun and rude and just don't give a fuck but it's all part of what makes you unique. :P
RE: Many Happy Returns of the Day Wayne xoxoxox
Happy bday buddy)))))Have a great one)) (K)(K)(K)
RE: Many Happy Returns of the Day Wayne xoxoxox
happy birthday--by the way if you get any free videos for birthday--give me the password i be there to help celebrate it---nahhh just kidding dude--enjoy your day wayne and many more
RE: Many Happy Returns of the Day Wayne xoxoxox
wow! what a load of crap that is.damn! nah,just kidding shy twat. HAPPY BIRTHDAY MATE! hope you have a great day and hope that you have many many more.
Birthday
Just in case some of you don't know, Imshy (Wayne) has a birthday tomorrow. I know how old he is, and I could be persuaded to tell. (lol)
Have a good one Wayne.
Have a good one Wayne.
RE: Birthday
<<Just in case some of you don't know>> I should imagine that in fact *most* of us don't know...or indeed care.
RE: Birthday
totally agree wqith ya aggie coz i too dont care....its just another day closer to death :)
new guy
hello people, im new to this so go easy on me, lol i really like your name young lady
RE: new guy
dont reply, the thread is about her you idiot.he asking her about her name.guess its you that doesnt understand
RE: some news...
Well, I'm really shocked, so unexpected, but it really couldn't happen to a nicer couple. :D
RE: some news...
so what - people have right to get in love- here were so many famous couples started with loco&asianlady - fester&tiny - stormangel&kris - tasha&fog - the beauty&the beast - chaser&pie - Gala&jiver - mondo&freeda - etc. erling time:D go erling
RE: some news...
hahahaha.....see what u started with that joke in chat Cathy?...lol....jeez....
Have Any Chathosts Devloped an Adult Career from Here?
I've been a faithful visitor to CC for maybe 6 years now and I've been thinking lately (believe it or not)...
Have you ever seen any of the chathosts here 'diversify' and go further afield? I mean, if they work in studios (or alone), they often have worked on different webcam sites.. but have you ever seen any of them as 'real' models, working as pornstars, seen them 'on the street' out in public, etc?
I'm curious, because one of the girls I first met on CC years and years ago, had been working the webcam sites, off and on - maybe working a year at a time on a webcam site, followed by a year not working ANY webcams, and so on... but in between the periods of working on webcams, photos of her could be found on a fetish web site...
I know the official story is the chathosts are often on here 'for fun' but we know some of the girls are using webcams as their primary source of income... and I sometimes wonder if they actually can develop an 'adult industry' career by starting-out on here...
What are your thoughts? ...from both viewers and chathosts, please..
Have you ever seen any of the chathosts here 'diversify' and go further afield? I mean, if they work in studios (or alone), they often have worked on different webcam sites.. but have you ever seen any of them as 'real' models, working as pornstars, seen them 'on the street' out in public, etc?
I'm curious, because one of the girls I first met on CC years and years ago, had been working the webcam sites, off and on - maybe working a year at a time on a webcam site, followed by a year not working ANY webcams, and so on... but in between the periods of working on webcams, photos of her could be found on a fetish web site...
I know the official story is the chathosts are often on here 'for fun' but we know some of the girls are using webcams as their primary source of income... and I sometimes wonder if they actually can develop an 'adult industry' career by starting-out on here...
What are your thoughts? ...from both viewers and chathosts, please..
RE: Have Any Chathosts Devloped an Adult Career from Here?
I know of a couple of hosts (one of them has been working on CC for a few years now) who also do hardcore porn, either with guys or alone.
Since i didn't like them, i didn't visit them here. But they're pro- pornstars, that's for sure.
I've also known from girls in here about studios owners that "encourage" them to also do some girl/girl or girl/guy kind of porn - the one you can find in any random porn site.
Since i didn't like them, i didn't visit them here. But they're pro- pornstars, that's for sure.
I've also known from girls in here about studios owners that "encourage" them to also do some girl/girl or girl/guy kind of porn - the one you can find in any random porn site.
how do they do it...??
how do these girls sit around for hours and sometimes walk away with so little money???
RE: how do they do it...??
they stand up after they are finished here.....and....left foot forward....then right.....left again...then right again....till they reach the door....
RE: how do they do it...??
I have just tried what you suggested Charlie and I can confirm that it does indeed work.
RE: how do they do it...??
Yeah... me too, I got the proof that I can walk away from here with so little money :))))))
RE: how do they do it...??
well hmmm
i think that the left ight left theory works, i meen , i sit her for hours as well and i too leave with so little money
i think that the left ight left theory works, i meen , i sit her for hours as well and i too leave with so little money
RE: how do they do it...??
from comments seems to prove the general IQ of those that frequent here.
RE: how do they do it...??
It was just that I assumed it was a rhetorical question as surely someone with such a superior IQ would be able to work out the answer to such a simple question themselves.
RE: how do they do it...??
INYF, are you Stephen Fry? Not gay I mean, just a witty funny clever fucker. :P
RE: how do they do it...??
seriously now...what kind of answer did you expect to get from your original question?...i took it on a humorous spin....there was no other way to take it as far as i could see.On your 2nd post you attempt to insult the intelligence of those who responded.....not a wise move.Intelligence Quotient classes are held on Thursday nights 7 pm at CC University.....be there...or be square.i would highly recommend the course for you.look up the meaning of this phrase brother(or sister,whatever you are)...."tongue in cheek"
RE: how do they do it...??
the IQ remark was meant to stimulate some thoughtful responses but of course brushed delicate egos instead...oh well...next time.
RE: how do they do it...??
personally, i rather prefer the pointless virtual circle jerk of the panty wastes who live in this forum day after day. makes me feel better about myself:)
RE: how do they do it...??
typical human interaction. with all the bickering...whatever ounce of truth there was in the beginning was ultimately lost in the end.
joke
After many years of marriage a man wrote this letter to his wife:
My Dear Wife,
You will surely understand that I have certain needs that you with your 54-year-old body can no longer supply. However, I am very happy with you and I value you as a good wife. Therefore, after reading this letter I hope that you will not wrongly interpret the fact I will be spending the evening with my 18-year-old secretary at the Comfort Inn Hotel. Please don't be perturbed, I shall be back home before midnight.
When the man came home, he found a following letter on the dining room table
My Dear Husband,
I received your letter and thank you for your honesty. I would like to take this opportunity to remind you that you are also 54 years old. At the same time, I would like to inform you that while you are reading this, I will be at the Hotel Fiesta with Michael, my tennis coach, who, like your secretary, also is 18.
As a successful businessman, and with your excellent knowledge of maths, you will understand that we are in the same situation, although with one small difference...........
18 goes into 54 a lot more times than 54 goes into 18. Therefore, I will not be back until lunchtime tomorrow!
My Dear Wife,
You will surely understand that I have certain needs that you with your 54-year-old body can no longer supply. However, I am very happy with you and I value you as a good wife. Therefore, after reading this letter I hope that you will not wrongly interpret the fact I will be spending the evening with my 18-year-old secretary at the Comfort Inn Hotel. Please don't be perturbed, I shall be back home before midnight.
When the man came home, he found a following letter on the dining room table
My Dear Husband,
I received your letter and thank you for your honesty. I would like to take this opportunity to remind you that you are also 54 years old. At the same time, I would like to inform you that while you are reading this, I will be at the Hotel Fiesta with Michael, my tennis coach, who, like your secretary, also is 18.
As a successful businessman, and with your excellent knowledge of maths, you will understand that we are in the same situation, although with one small difference...........
18 goes into 54 a lot more times than 54 goes into 18. Therefore, I will not be back until lunchtime tomorrow!
happy bd Angelina(Princessss)
To me, fair friend, you never can be old,
For as you were when first your eye I eye’d,
Such seems your beauty still.
For as you were when first your eye I eye’d,
Such seems your beauty still.
RE: happy bd Angelina(Princessss)
happy birthday princessss may your day be as special as the days you make for others. hope you are haveing a good day and get lots of new shoes :P and time to go shoe shopping :D (K)(K)(K)
RE: happy bd Angelina(Princessss)
Zay, happy bday))))))))) Wish u lots of happiness)))) Love ya lots)) Kiss))
RE: happy bd Angelina(Princessss)
Hope it was a great one ,,
will leave u a mesg.
Hugss Gorgeous xxx
will leave u a mesg.
Hugss Gorgeous xxx
So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
After a minor difference of opinion over a video credit with CC I have decided to pack it for good. I have visitors coming from South America for 5 weeks and I don't think I will have the time, money or opportunity to log on let alone practice my backhand. I am hopeful between that time away from CC and the minor slight from CC customer support I will be able to break away for good. Wishful thinking I know.
I want to wish everyone the best of luck. I have the utmost respect for the hosts and pretty much total distain for the members including me. I can't say I made any lasting friendships but I did fall in love a few times, got my heart broken a few times and regrettably hurt a few people along the way. I have seen some of the most beautiful women in the world and had some good and sometimes very odd experiences. I could have done a lot with the money I spent here but while I wince when I realize how much I spent I do not cry over split milk. Plus some hosts were worth every penney.
CC is the best of times and the worst of times. But all things do come to an end. Peace to all of you.
I want to wish everyone the best of luck. I have the utmost respect for the hosts and pretty much total distain for the members including me. I can't say I made any lasting friendships but I did fall in love a few times, got my heart broken a few times and regrettably hurt a few people along the way. I have seen some of the most beautiful women in the world and had some good and sometimes very odd experiences. I could have done a lot with the money I spent here but while I wince when I realize how much I spent I do not cry over split milk. Plus some hosts were worth every penney.
CC is the best of times and the worst of times. But all things do come to an end. Peace to all of you.
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
I'm sure we'll see you back again. Maybe with another new name and being even nicer to the hosts :P
I'm with you on the hosts and members thing though :D
I'm with you on the hosts and members thing though :D
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
INYF i thought you had stopped thinking of members' things :--)
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
lol I did for a while tisme but like all addictions :(
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
u will be back with an addition to ur long, long list of names. but that time away will give u more time to find pics online that u can send and say is u. :-)
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
shame, I'll miss you - good luck with whatever you do
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
no no no nick he isnt a TS!!! well, i dont think he is hmmmm maybe u know something i dont know about wtf!! LOOOL
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
ur so not clever, but then i had no need to say it did i. it's self evident
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
Man you are so jealous of this dude. You need to get a life man. Find a hobby or get a dog to kick. Christ.
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
Dude??? first u need to grow up and talk ur age! LOL then u need to settle down cos i didnt mean any harm to ur boyfriend!! there it is out in the open now u dont need to be ashamed, tho u should be. anyway. i dont need him or a dog to kick around. u will do nicely!! :-D
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
and one more thing, i DO see why ur "redruffnsore"!! LOL
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
another "dress" rehearsal?? Or is this the final performance ??? Exit stg left...?? Swan Song...sayonara?? I can go back to using the moniker...well...i guess. :)
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
Ye bb, take a break and see ya soon))))))
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
Anyone ever told you to keep your mouth and legs shut ?
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
always a few bitter ones here..
some u win some u dont - live goes on and round and round , cheap shots at Monika , just show u up, and certainly will not effect her. She will be a cuty , however u treat her..
some u win some u dont - live goes on and round and round , cheap shots at Monika , just show u up, and certainly will not effect her. She will be a cuty , however u treat her..
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
oh, the monika defense team swings into action !
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
I do know the lady a little,
tho she never really liked me , But that does not mean I like to see cheap shots...
I know a few hosts extremely well , some still here and a few long time gone.. But I saw how it was , and i will not forget..
tho she never really liked me , But that does not mean I like to see cheap shots...
I know a few hosts extremely well , some still here and a few long time gone.. But I saw how it was , and i will not forget..
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
Yes, I am with all the way on that M. Monika is one of those supremely beautiful intelligent women who arouse resentment in losers like the ones here who give her a bad time. They know they could never interest her in real life so they vent their frustrations here.
Pity them. Whatever they type, we both know they are deeply unhappy.
Monika is a supremely fanciable babe with an intellect that can cut those losers to shreds.
And no, not more fkn advertising you pathetic anon losers just genuine appreciation for a truly beautiful woman.
Oh, and please, do try to be witty for once in your anon replies! :-))))
Pity them. Whatever they type, we both know they are deeply unhappy.
Monika is a supremely fanciable babe with an intellect that can cut those losers to shreds.
And no, not more fkn advertising you pathetic anon losers just genuine appreciation for a truly beautiful woman.
Oh, and please, do try to be witty for once in your anon replies! :-))))
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
you're giving lol far too much credit nick. lol isn't just any loser, he carries the same things to bitch about and snipe at for years. he isn't intelligent enough to come up with anything new. always the same old story. how many years on the same topics now lol?
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
been a big fan for years, have you?
wow, the image of you haunting this place and keeping tabs on the posters you dislike - no, that's not at all pathetic.
wow, the image of you haunting this place and keeping tabs on the posters you dislike - no, that's not at all pathetic.
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
parents still proud as punch of their sweet little girl?:)
RE: So long, farewell, auf Wiedersehen, goodbye ...
u can call it many things .. some say confidence - some other things..
but im sure you can find the type and style u like here, - these cheap shots - make u feel better ?
but im sure you can find the type and style u like here, - these cheap shots - make u feel better ?
Lack of Civility in Hosts
I leave cc email to some of the hosts I view and although some are very good at replies many will not.
If that is the case i drop the host like a hot potatoe because it shows her character and attitude toward viewers so a lesson for those wise enough to read this.............................
If that is the case i drop the host like a hot potatoe because it shows her character and attitude toward viewers so a lesson for those wise enough to read this.............................
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
I agree. It is common corteousy to reply. Come on you bad hosts get writing those replies NOOOOOOOWWWWWW !!!!!!
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
i have had that very same problem, only different. hosts not anticipating me writing them an email and answering me before i actually write to them :( if they would do that then i would never have to write another email ever :) come on hosts, get busy!!
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
sorry INYF - I will write to you soon to say how much I appreciated the time we spent together. Kisses...
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
Thanks :) Not getting a ccmail from you was the one that hurt the most :(
Over 400 videos and not one ccmail you bad TS
Over 400 videos and not one ccmail you bad TS
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
I promise I'll write the next time. You keep me up all night...as it were.
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
Unfortunately I have to be honest. You never did the same for me :(
RE: Lack of Civility in Hosts
I get replies most of the time, but not all. If I do not get the reply then I do not continue sending them cc mail
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
Its ok sweety; its probably the AIDS virus eating your brain out................
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
ohhhh sweetty,you can meet me as 14 th,kisses
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
Met a quite a few ... slept with .. hmm i dont think I slept with anyone exactly from camcontacts
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
met only one and slept with only one. I guess that is what happens when you are going to marry the one...lol
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
Okay but can I tell everyone that it's one and one ?
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
whats past is past and im not her to pass judgment on u, naughty host. i am here simply to find out who u r for real so that we can meet and i can be one of the ones that u reject and not sleep with :(
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
i met 5, 4 from romania, one from poland....had sex with all
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
based on averages here it looks like meeting hosts is the way to go
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
honestly,they were more than 10 and i slept very well with all
to ''things work out when you try''
why are u still coming to cc if u are married with a girl you met on here?You got YOUR OWN CC GIRL, why the need to be here?Please ,please tell me that you are not seing girls on vid anymore...
RE: to ''things work out when you try''
I occasionally visit here to read discussion forums. My wife was from Bacau, Romania ( a beautiful country btw). I have never done a vid here,,lol,, as my bank won`t allow my CC usage with this sites bank.
So,,,,,yes,,,,,,,i`m not here doing vids or meeting women.
I realize this may generate the usual responses from the "peanut gallery" that frequents this site. My memories of the chathosts i`ve met in the past are generally good, I was always upfront i could only chat and do no vids.So I wouldn`t waste any chathosts time.I met and made a few friends here,,,most have moved on,, and my wife and I still keep in touch with them . Treating people as you would wish to be treated is how i live my life,,it is how I am. Luckily for us there is a reasonable number of Romanians in our area..makes my wife less homesick.I don`t think of it as I have my own CC girl here,,i`ve found a wonderful woman whom I love very much and she loves me. We also have an age difference of 18 years,,doesn`t seem to matter too much . Bottom line,,,,we are all just people,,,sometimes we meet and things work from there.
Best wishes to all.
So,,,,,yes,,,,,,,i`m not here doing vids or meeting women.
I realize this may generate the usual responses from the "peanut gallery" that frequents this site. My memories of the chathosts i`ve met in the past are generally good, I was always upfront i could only chat and do no vids.So I wouldn`t waste any chathosts time.I met and made a few friends here,,,most have moved on,, and my wife and I still keep in touch with them . Treating people as you would wish to be treated is how i live my life,,it is how I am. Luckily for us there is a reasonable number of Romanians in our area..makes my wife less homesick.I don`t think of it as I have my own CC girl here,,i`ve found a wonderful woman whom I love very much and she loves me. We also have an age difference of 18 years,,doesn`t seem to matter too much . Bottom line,,,,we are all just people,,,sometimes we meet and things work from there.
Best wishes to all.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
this proves that old theory: first liar never has a chance!!!
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I dont think anyone assumes anything..
u can visist 2 rooms and get 180 degree different views , everyone is different .
But I would guess ... based on many years here..
only 30 % would never ever meet anyone , these are the strict rules. types / or the married / taken / or just very shy/scared types..
of therest well, meeting people is the nicest thing we have in our lives, and meeting someone we really get on with is what we all desire ..
and u just never know who it will be that has that " chemistry" so better to try and see what happens ..
life is fantastic - just go out and live it - dont wait for it to happen .. DO IT...
or regret at leisure
u can visist 2 rooms and get 180 degree different views , everyone is different .
But I would guess ... based on many years here..
only 30 % would never ever meet anyone , these are the strict rules. types / or the married / taken / or just very shy/scared types..
of therest well, meeting people is the nicest thing we have in our lives, and meeting someone we really get on with is what we all desire ..
and u just never know who it will be that has that " chemistry" so better to try and see what happens ..
life is fantastic - just go out and live it - dont wait for it to happen .. DO IT...
or regret at leisure
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I agree. I think maybe 20%-30% of the hosts would not meet a member period, for whatever reason. But I think the vast majority, if they meet someone here that they like, are happy to meet them in real life. And the vast majority of that group will have sex with the members they meet. (Hey, we're all adults here and have adult desires - member and host alike.) Most - but not all - hosts probably aren't interested in meeting a member unless they are already attracted to him, except in cases where it's some 50+ year old guy who's just really friendly and - for lack of a better term - harmless. I don't, however, think that many hosts are interested in meeting guys that have asked them to do to stripping, hardcore, etc. on cam. At least not using the screen name that they know and like. ;) I think most girls here who aren't in a serious relationship will meet a guy that they genuinely like and are attracted to. The problem, from what the hosts I've met have said, is that most of the members don't fit into this group. They're either too old, unattractive, strange, or don't have the funds, time or flexibility to come meet them. It's that simple. Of the six hosts I've met, four had met members before me, and of that four, two had sex with the members (or so they told me). So, there's a lot of hooking up going on in this community. No doubt about it.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
sure..
im not so young but , still attractive, to many anyways,,
I actualy had as much fun and nighjts out meals and dancing with friends of hosts , some who did not know the work the host did (i did not let on ) Its just nice when you visit a different city to have some local friends to get about with , and see the sights..
sex and stuff will be there as at home if it feels right.. its nothing to do with being a host or not..
some of the ladies at russian night clubs were gorgeous , and not ageist at all , if they like u they like u .. (and not being a wealthy guy it was certainly not the $$ as I certainly just try and fit in)
travel and meeting is fun...
im not so young but , still attractive, to many anyways,,
I actualy had as much fun and nighjts out meals and dancing with friends of hosts , some who did not know the work the host did (i did not let on ) Its just nice when you visit a different city to have some local friends to get about with , and see the sights..
sex and stuff will be there as at home if it feels right.. its nothing to do with being a host or not..
some of the ladies at russian night clubs were gorgeous , and not ageist at all , if they like u they like u .. (and not being a wealthy guy it was certainly not the $$ as I certainly just try and fit in)
travel and meeting is fun...
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
of course you paid for the meals...no doubt??
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
from what i remember ..
we all put into a pot and shared in the bars ..
at resturants we all split the bill
( i did pay for some meals same as in Uk , but after been taken on a few boat trips and shown around 4 free for a few days , so seemed fair) -Back in Uk she did the cooking and ironing and i bought the food. and drove the car..
another looked after my kids on many occiasions so I took her out a few days ..
same as in Uk ...
was given food in family houses and was advised it was polite to take a small gift ,
at a night club won some giant vodka in fun dance comp and shared it with our group.
is not expensive to drink and eat in most of these places...
we all put into a pot and shared in the bars ..
at resturants we all split the bill
( i did pay for some meals same as in Uk , but after been taken on a few boat trips and shown around 4 free for a few days , so seemed fair) -Back in Uk she did the cooking and ironing and i bought the food. and drove the car..
another looked after my kids on many occiasions so I took her out a few days ..
same as in Uk ...
was given food in family houses and was advised it was polite to take a small gift ,
at a night club won some giant vodka in fun dance comp and shared it with our group.
is not expensive to drink and eat in most of these places...
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
and exactly how well do old western men "fit in" in russian night clubs?
do you really think that no assumptions were made about you?
do you really think that no assumptions were made about you?
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
Old ?
fit in the same as as anyone does in any country, bars clubs / dancing / sports clubs / country does not change how you get on ..
fit in the same as as anyone does in any country, bars clubs / dancing / sports clubs / country does not change how you get on ..
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
met over 20 , in uk and in their own countries..
had relations witha few,,
actualy dated 2 who were friends i met thro the hosts..
still friends with most,
enjoyed meeting and getting to know some lovely people..
had 3 different visits here in UK and some stayed over - used me as a base for visits .. great company always
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
i wouldn't meet or fuck anybody i've seen on these forums.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
a mirror doesn't count, especially twice lol
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I am free on Saturday 24th May. Any chance I can be number 4 ?
Once you've made me a cup of tea and I've drank it we can get down to the sex. Oh and would there be any chance of a lift back to the airport on the Sunday ?
Once you've made me a cup of tea and I've drank it we can get down to the sex. Oh and would there be any chance of a lift back to the airport on the Sunday ?
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
in all my years here i met over 40 hosts always had a great time with all..as for sleepin with them...i dont kiss and tell :)
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
wow that many?
well i didnt have great time with you
well i didnt have great time with you
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
first of all u shoulda put ur name...i could do with a laugh....secondly..u probably never met me...and if u did meet me and didnt have a great time...oh well shit happens...hope u enjoyed me spending all my money on ya tho...have a nice day :)
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
you really do need to get a life...my friend.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
got one thx and lovin every minute of it..what about u?
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
wouldn't call it a life but u seem to enjoy the self indulgence so have at it my friend.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I have met none and slept with none for real.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I met with 9, slept with none
Naughty gentle host, you know what to expect if we meet ;-)
Naughty gentle host, you know what to expect if we meet ;-)
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
I communicated with one host for over a year almost daily after we meet in non adult.
I can say we were so close that distance did not matter since we both used the multi media of the net so well; the fidelity of Skype is another dimension of interaction since you can hear any number of subtle sounds no telephone can transmit.
We both have the same world view and our compatibility is seamless but there is reality of it all too.
By that I mean that one of us is going to have to leave our country, friends, family behind. Unlike many hosts here she left CC and got a great job and even has her own flat which is quite expensive. She also lives near her parents and loves her country.
Even if she was not doing so well I can easily see that leaving either her or my country would be a traumatic experience for either one of us. Yes it can be done and is done everyday expecially where there is real disparity in living standards usually in the man but it really shows what a sacrifice this kind of long distance relationship imposes on both members.
In the end no matter how good the match I decided it was just not worth the cost and the potential problems it might generate down the road. I don't say this as a generality for others but for me that was the conclusion I reached.....................the best to all no matter what happens because there are many here who have very sincere feelings for each other.
I can say we were so close that distance did not matter since we both used the multi media of the net so well; the fidelity of Skype is another dimension of interaction since you can hear any number of subtle sounds no telephone can transmit.
We both have the same world view and our compatibility is seamless but there is reality of it all too.
By that I mean that one of us is going to have to leave our country, friends, family behind. Unlike many hosts here she left CC and got a great job and even has her own flat which is quite expensive. She also lives near her parents and loves her country.
Even if she was not doing so well I can easily see that leaving either her or my country would be a traumatic experience for either one of us. Yes it can be done and is done everyday expecially where there is real disparity in living standards usually in the man but it really shows what a sacrifice this kind of long distance relationship imposes on both members.
In the end no matter how good the match I decided it was just not worth the cost and the potential problems it might generate down the road. I don't say this as a generality for others but for me that was the conclusion I reached.....................the best to all no matter what happens because there are many here who have very sincere feelings for each other.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
You struck a note and point out the most difficult part of such relationships, the cultural change not to mention the financial difficulties.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
well, the host supplies the financial wherewithall by mining various members at random so why should you be concerned about it....russian culture is in turmoil upside downside and looking for direction.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
excellent. however, 29 years later...the playing field has changed substantially....wouldn't you say ??
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
Your post caught my attention because I was confronted to same questions long time ago. There was no PC, no internet, international phone calls were expensive, and I was corresponding by letter (so called snail mail) with a girl from another continent.
After 2 years corresponding, I took a flight to visit her for a week. Next Summer she came to visit my country for 2 weeks. The third time I visited her country again and we got married. She came to live in my country, and we managed regular holiday sojourn in hers.
Yes, quite a challenge, but if you have strong feelings for each other, they help you overcome obstacles and create a new family cell, whatever the country.
I nearly forgot to say: I got married 29 years ago and I'm still.
After 2 years corresponding, I took a flight to visit her for a week. Next Summer she came to visit my country for 2 weeks. The third time I visited her country again and we got married. She came to live in my country, and we managed regular holiday sojourn in hers.
Yes, quite a challenge, but if you have strong feelings for each other, they help you overcome obstacles and create a new family cell, whatever the country.
I nearly forgot to say: I got married 29 years ago and I'm still.
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
excellent. would you say that the playing field has change substantially since then?
RE: how many cc guys /girl did you meet in real life
met 5, all in Brazil, sex with 3, continue to have sex with 1 and remain friends with 4.
RE: im looking 4 a sugar daddy
nt takinit up my ass yet,but in time maybe we ll make it happen
and i takeloads of presents and u should rotten spoil me and treat me like heaven;)
and i takeloads of presents and u should rotten spoil me and treat me like heaven;)
PalomaNegra
Paloma is one of the sweetest, smartest, and loveliest people I know on or off cc. She has always been nice to me and I can only hope that I prove to be just as good a friend to her. I think more should stop by and say hello. But, be nice! She is a lady. She is my friend.
RE: PalomaNegra
Of course you are just as good a friend to her...you pay 1.70 a minute to talk to her. Who wouldn't want a friend like that??
RE: PalomaNegra
If you find someone you like and who likes you, screw the money. If this is the only way I can see her, this is where I will see her!
RE: PalomaNegra
I am glad the two of you are happy but her price is just too high. She is, based on my opinion, not worth half that. But it is nice you gave her an endorsement now go collect your free video.
RE: PalomaNegra
Seems a lot have no class. If none of you want to go see my friend, don't. No problem with me. I'm sure she doesn't want to talk to people like you anyway. All I know is I like spending time with her. Wish she was around much more often. She has been there for me during some bad times. I'm going to be there for her if she needs me.
RE: PalomaNegra
I will charge you $0.85 I promise I will be ur best friend after u stay in my vid 3 hours, lol
RE: PalomaNegra
an other scammer...
showing only her tits in pvt... and after a long video...
don't worth 1.70... :(((
showing only her tits in pvt... and after a long video...
don't worth 1.70... :(((
RE: PalomaNegra
I was thinking that the most overused and misused word on CC was the word "Love".... :D
I realise that, with some host in "glamour", the most overused and misused word is "Friend" .... :(((((((((((
How can some people use this word when money is involved ??? :((((
Stop s(p)ending money, and you will see what really mean the word "Friendship"...
See you back in 6 months.... :)))))))))))
I realise that, with some host in "glamour", the most overused and misused word is "Friend" .... :(((((((((((
How can some people use this word when money is involved ??? :((((
Stop s(p)ending money, and you will see what really mean the word "Friendship"...
See you back in 6 months.... :)))))))))))
RE: PalomaNegra
Ok, so refer to her as you wish after 10 videos, but to her, you are a regular customer.
RE: PalomaNegra
just amazes me ,u all knew her prices and still click the video,so why give hard time.next time check prices before u click.she is a nice lady .if u was looking for nude then maybe u should had went to the nude section
RE: PalomaNegra
Well said. Seems everyone is bad mouthing her but they all know her fees and all seem to have gone for at least a visit. Stupid morons. Think before you type.
RE: PalomaNegra
am i missing something because when u click on the video it says there prices,and she is in a non-nude section .so why the bad rap on her.she is a sweet lady and a a great friend to have.get to know her talk first in free chat before u click ask questions first . i am sure u will get to know her if u talk first what she does in prt instead of prt first
CC is the Greatest Babe Finder
I'm a young and really good looking guy with a great job and future and I happened to bump into CC while surfing one day.
The fact that there are so many terrific looking women here was my first impression but after I interacted with several it really got me thinking because I like to travel too on my vacations and CC allowed me to pre screen a lot of women to visit and understand them as people not just objects so the probability of me and them getting along was very much increased.
I know its primary purpose is for fantasy sexual expression but for men like me its a really great way to meet compatible and great looking women on travel both business and pleasure.
The fact that there are so many terrific looking women here was my first impression but after I interacted with several it really got me thinking because I like to travel too on my vacations and CC allowed me to pre screen a lot of women to visit and understand them as people not just objects so the probability of me and them getting along was very much increased.
I know its primary purpose is for fantasy sexual expression but for men like me its a really great way to meet compatible and great looking women on travel both business and pleasure.
RE: CC is the Greatest Babe Finder
If you're young and good looking, why the heck are you here and not out entertaining women in your own area?
Are you too good for them?
Are you too good for them?
RE: CC is the Greatest Babe Finder
As I mentioned I have to travel for my business to EU and I also was in the military before and love to travel. Never did much in eastern euro but now I love to go there; its so full of history and once you get to know the people there they are ver warm to foreigners...................
RE: CC is the Greatest Babe Finder
Didn't you read his post? He "bumped" into it while surfing. Yeah right, probably like I bumped into it after I did a search for "live webcams".
i ve met 2 members in the last couple of weeks
and i ll marry both of them and have thier babies and ripp them off thier money
hahahahaha
fun life i have,don ti?
:p
hahahahaha
fun life i have,don ti?
:p
RE: i ve met 2 members in the last couple of weeks
Damn I wish I'd been one of them as I fire blanks and could have soooo much sex trying to give you the babies before you ripped me off for all my money. Even sex once for my fortune of £9.52 would be a good deal :D
RE: i ve met 2 members in the last couple of weeks
you just made INYF fall in love.......again..............lol
RE: i ve met 2 members in the last couple of weeks
gee, i'd blush but i forgot how long ago
good luck
good luck
RE: I`m back! :D
Oh well I guess it's true. All good things do come to an end :P
As for the gossip. I have married and divorced 16 hosts. Got another 18 pregnant. Turned another 30 into lesbians. Johnz still likes boobs. Well is still being nice. Imshy still isn't. Nick is still a perfect gentleman. Jaz still likes to wank. That's about it.
As for the gossip. I have married and divorced 16 hosts. Got another 18 pregnant. Turned another 30 into lesbians. Johnz still likes boobs. Well is still being nice. Imshy still isn't. Nick is still a perfect gentleman. Jaz still likes to wank. That's about it.
RE: I`m back! :D
TTTTTTTTIIIIIIIIIINNNNNNNNNNNAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA WB kissess