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Mature Host
ok room,, i been reading the forum's and its seems people are thinking about older host...Well here is your lesson for today from Doctor Love (chase). I'm not going to call them older host,, lets use a better word and more mature,,, mature host. Today topic is why do younger men preferred mature women. This is part 1 of 2 studies so you can soak it in and be tested on it later on through your life.
1. Relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love. Mature women seems to have it.
2. Wonderful sense of humor and is very giving. Think about it, mature women are not to quick to judge.
3. Young man seems attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. You ask what is self-possesion, ask a mature woman and get your answer.
4. Enjoy sitting to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation they can appreciate and enjoy.
5. Younger women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with mature women.
6. Mature women know themselves, they have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. Don't seem to get bored of sharing experiences.
7. Mature women offered the young man space, devotion and herself to the man. The younger man depends on the mature woman for answers.
8. Mature women become your best friend and builds your confidence and self-esteem. In other words a soul mate, because they have experience life.
9. Mature women can be more playful, they are more relaxed, they are not just looking for guys, who will be good fathers, they know who will be good fathers.
10. Just the fact that there's so much to learn from an mature woman, that they have so many more life experiences to draw upon, is an adventure to younger guys. It's like a rush.
Ok enough to ponder on for now,, but you get the message on why younger men preferred older women. After this has settled in I will give you part 2 of the series. And by the way I also have a 2 part series on why younger women like older men I will shared later-cool
1. Relationship is unique, because it's not just built on sex, but on trust, respect and love. Mature women seems to have it.
2. Wonderful sense of humor and is very giving. Think about it, mature women are not to quick to judge.
3. Young man seems attracted to a woman who has some degree of self-possession. You ask what is self-possesion, ask a mature woman and get your answer.
4. Enjoy sitting to dinner with someone who has a level of conversation they can appreciate and enjoy.
5. Younger women are sometimes too focused on starting families and that is rarely an issue with mature women.
6. Mature women know themselves, they have so much more to offer and they are looking for different things. Don't seem to get bored of sharing experiences.
7. Mature women offered the young man space, devotion and herself to the man. The younger man depends on the mature woman for answers.
8. Mature women become your best friend and builds your confidence and self-esteem. In other words a soul mate, because they have experience life.
9. Mature women can be more playful, they are more relaxed, they are not just looking for guys, who will be good fathers, they know who will be good fathers.
10. Just the fact that there's so much to learn from an mature woman, that they have so many more life experiences to draw upon, is an adventure to younger guys. It's like a rush.
Ok enough to ponder on for now,, but you get the message on why younger men preferred older women. After this has settled in I will give you part 2 of the series. And by the way I also have a 2 part series on why younger women like older men I will shared later-cool
RE: Mature Host
hmm-- actually gala I was thinking about the study I was part of...and to see what happens on the next study they are conducting, why younger women preferred older men,, maybe I will know more how younger women feel, I don't have a answer for that one right now.
RE: Mature Host
mature women know how to cook and do get out laundry stains, young women only know how to dress up and show off their sexy firm bodies. mature women know the meaning of growing old with a house filled with cats. Young women forget to drop off the dvd rental. Mature women like to sit at home under a warm balnket, young girls like to go for a late night skinny dip with a few sexy freinds and a bottle of wine or case of beer.
Yes, I've made up my mind on which one I like.
Yes, I've made up my mind on which one I like.
RE: Mature Host
Not talking about your choice, but about your "mature women are this way, young aren't" .Generalisation.
RE: Mature Host
thanks doctor love I am thinking about what you are saying and I cant wait until your study on why younger women like older men.
RE: Mature Host
One flaw in your otherwise excellent reasoning chase is that for me the older woman needs to be in her 80s - not many of those in CC! :-(
RE: Mature Host
ally, To paraphrase W.C. Fields, "I'd rather have four women of 21 than one of 84." But hey, each to his own taste. Some like their cheese very ripe, huh?
RE: Mature Host
Reminds me a saying by Rodney Dangerfield; "I slept with a "10" once, they were five 2s"
RE: Mature Host
Lol Sam! Rodney was always one of my favorites. The first line of his I heard was, "I got into a cab the other night. I told the driver to take me where I could get a little action and he took me to MY house!" lol!
RE: Mature Host
hmm when I was 46, I fell in love with a 73 year old woman - she turned me down cos I was too young! :-( Now I'm 65, my gf is 24! :-)
RE: Mature Host
Actually me, if you are being serious, I have never found my age to be a problem - some women are very conscious of age difference, others aren't - it's mostly men who seem to have difficulty with the concept, especially when they are young, as I did once. :-)
Older you get, the less self-conscious you become and the more interested you become in others - many intelligent young women find that attractive, they are already bored with self-possessed young bucks. Not all, many older women adore young male bodies and young ones wanna be in love, marriage, kids or just enjoy a good time with a guy of a similar age.
Whatever, if a woman fancies me and I fancy her, who gives a fuck about age?
Older you get, the less self-conscious you become and the more interested you become in others - many intelligent young women find that attractive, they are already bored with self-possessed young bucks. Not all, many older women adore young male bodies and young ones wanna be in love, marriage, kids or just enjoy a good time with a guy of a similar age.
Whatever, if a woman fancies me and I fancy her, who gives a fuck about age?
RE: Mature Host
I said, "and young ones wanna be in love, marriage, kids or just enjoy a good time with a guy of a similar age."
Fine if it works better for you. Everybody is allowed to be different. My gf is very different from you. Neither of you are wrong.
Fine if it works better for you. Everybody is allowed to be different. My gf is very different from you. Neither of you are wrong.
RE: Mature Host
You disappoint me - your remark sounds like it's from a man who can't imagine a woman wanting him for himself. My relationships with women are not based on money.
This will amaze you - a woman paid me to teach her (English) - she then asked me to break her virginity - she 26, me 58. Go figure - she was paying!
No offence to you but I know you are wrong from personal experience.
This will amaze you - a woman paid me to teach her (English) - she then asked me to break her virginity - she 26, me 58. Go figure - she was paying!
No offence to you but I know you are wrong from personal experience.
RE: Mature Host
ok, either it's for the money or the woman has some creepy daddy issues.
btw, eww.
btw, eww.
RE: Mature Host
creepy daddy issues? looooooooool
you must be either a young man who just lacks the imagination to see outside your own box or an old man who just doesn't have my talent! ;-) if you are young woman, don't think I'd fancy you either
you must be either a young man who just lacks the imagination to see outside your own box or an old man who just doesn't have my talent! ;-) if you are young woman, don't think I'd fancy you either
RE: Mature Host
1. so are relationshops between two young people, they don't all jump to sex
2. you mean no young girl has sense of humour?
3. ok, here I have no idea
4. again: young women are stupid? they can't have a real conversation? and why would a young man be able to?
5. sometimes is not a good enough reason to take out of the ecuation young women
6. and young women don't know themselves? they don't want to try new things?
7. space and devotion ? huh? why'd they go together and why only in the case of older women?
8. and why wouldn't a young man be able to find his soulmate in a young woman?
9. more playful? relaxed? ha! you're kidding me, right?
10. ok, you're finally right
Don't get me wrong chase, I can understand why younger men go for older women, but it's not why you mentioned.. definately not.
2. you mean no young girl has sense of humour?
3. ok, here I have no idea
4. again: young women are stupid? they can't have a real conversation? and why would a young man be able to?
5. sometimes is not a good enough reason to take out of the ecuation young women
6. and young women don't know themselves? they don't want to try new things?
7. space and devotion ? huh? why'd they go together and why only in the case of older women?
8. and why wouldn't a young man be able to find his soulmate in a young woman?
9. more playful? relaxed? ha! you're kidding me, right?
10. ok, you're finally right
Don't get me wrong chase, I can understand why younger men go for older women, but it's not why you mentioned.. definately not.
RE: Mature Host
its because Psy..--your not thinking hard enough,, and it doesn't mean that ALL young men like older women, we all know young married young and old married old and young married old and vise-versa it a lot of cases and it hasn't gotten anything to do with the therory of all woman,, young, middle or older ages,, its a study, that states this is some reasons why younger men preferred older women,, if you dont fall into this category thats ok the world is a big country and was not based on every human being--and this is my no means any disrepect to you or any other person on here, everyone has a thought-thats cool
RE: Mature Host
You generalised.. it ain't so, as CharmLadyx said it, it depends from one woman to another, you can't put them in categories, humans are too different, too varied to fit into categories, and your rules were facing a some mature women to all the young girls you think you know.. Those aren't the right reasons.. well, I don't see them to be right...
RE: Mature Host
Chase, I've got to support Psy on this one. I don't think he is saying you are putting forth a "theory of all women." He also isn't contesting your claim that some young men are attracted to mature women and for some of the qualities you enumerate. But he is contesting your claim that these qualities are only found in older women. Older women have no monopoly on being good conversationalists. I also think experience would prove young women no less supportive than their elders. I have met quite a few shrill and bitter mature women who did not improve (mellow) with age. If a woman is a nasty bitch at twenty five, it's highly unlikely that she will undergo a miraculous transformation and become a loving, supportive, soul mate.
Chase, I hope you do not take offense if I press you a bit further on this. First, let me say your question is a good one, but I must ask you of what your "study" consists? What method(s) are you employing? Impressions and feelings can be helpful when trying to understand something, but they can also be misleading because our perceptions can often be mistaken and our feelings are more mercurial than an exacting measure of something.
Chase, I hope you do not take offense if I press you a bit further on this. First, let me say your question is a good one, but I must ask you of what your "study" consists? What method(s) are you employing? Impressions and feelings can be helpful when trying to understand something, but they can also be misleading because our perceptions can often be mistaken and our feelings are more mercurial than an exacting measure of something.
RE: Mature Host
Could be I understood wrong, I'm really sleepy, but you called me a "he"?
If it's the case.. I'm not offensed, but.. amused :D
If it's the case.. I'm not offensed, but.. amused :D
RE: Mature Host
Psy, It's not self-evident by your moniker, though I suppose I was predisposed to believe that a "psy" (short for psychologist?) is a man. Clearly that is not always the case. I too am amused.:)
RE: Mature Host
As I have answered previously.. yes, it comes from psychologist, what I'd like to become someday...
And yeah, indeed, it's not that obvious :)
Funny, still :D
And yeah, indeed, it's not that obvious :)
Funny, still :D
RE: Mature Host
Chase, Seems like you've given it some thought. The only reason you left out is Freud's classic Oedipul Complex: These guys have an unconscious desire for a mother figure.
RE: Mature Host
yes melomane, both you and Psy have good comments and thoughts. Let me tell you this study since your asking what it consisted of, involve 10 topics. We all know life has more than 10 ingredient's to it, but this study involve (1) trust (2) respect (3) love (4) feelings (5) thoughts (6) companionship (7) age's (8) desires (9) needs (10) any other comments. This was what college students at this particular campus was thinking and studying about relationships. We all know we don't live in a perfect world and that all people are not alike, and thank God for that in many ways. But just think if we were all alike what would this world be like. Also if this is true, why do we have so many broken homes, separtion in marriage and love. I know one thing some of the topics they were studying are cool and I'm glad to see they are thinking about relationships more.-
P.S.: good grief I think I'm becoming the next gortensia on here,, please will someone give me a beer. This studying at this school is beginning to get to me, but it is very interesting to see a lot more people thinking about others more.-cool
P.S.: good grief I think I'm becoming the next gortensia on here,, please will someone give me a beer. This studying at this school is beginning to get to me, but it is very interesting to see a lot more people thinking about others more.-cool
RE: Mature Host
:-) keep well and happy Vika - kiss - shit, I'm starting to sound like bela! :-(
old hosts
o one "complained about old hosts"..some members said they weren't into old hosts...big difference. but then again your misreading and blowing it up into something it was not gets the lapdogs out of the woodwork to shower you with praise.
How can I use my camcoder as a webcam??
I have a Sony handycam and Just want to know how to connect it so it can work as a webcam. thanks
RE: How can I use my camcoder as a webcam??
http://www.google.com/search?q=How+can+I+use+my+camcorder+as+a+webcam
RE: ummm...what about Romania..
Hi Tatyanna... I just came back from Romania and will go again in May. Hope you are doing well.
RE: ummm...what about Romania..
Had a few invites . But been very busy ,, Went to Russia to meet friends,,
would love to see romania too. Have some very nice friends from there, here in uk and on Internet.. ,, So hope to someday ..
would love to see romania too. Have some very nice friends from there, here in uk and on Internet.. ,, So hope to someday ..
RE: ummm...what about Romania..
i do, and i am. first week of May! woooooooooo hooooooooooo!!!!!
there is a lot more, but only to be shared with a special lady :)
there is a lot more, but only to be shared with a special lady :)
RE: continue about summer
im visiting a couple of hosts when their member boyfriends have returned home ;)
RE: continue about summer
Ben traveling a lot lately , been to Russia 3 times ,, maybe will not go again this year.. would like to ,,
Met some great people..
Met some great people..
RE: continue about summer
many good friends there - went in 2005 and 2006 - this year, Romania I hope
RE: continue about summer
Just been to Russia in mid March. Not enough time to see Moscow; I was there on business and want to go back some time. Hope this or next summer!
RE: Can you...
hmmm--if you call heartless, someone that has no heart,,, good question,, maybe i can and maybe i cant,, why you ask
RE: Can you...
That wud..., Not sure what you mean. Do you mean can we be heartless when called upon to act heartlessly, or do you mean can we be heartless when called upon to help someone and we refuse? Or something else?
This question has potential and should be included in the final game board version of "Can you?" The question of human heartlessness is worth discussing and is certainly more elevated than "Can you masturbate with two hands?" and less mundane than "Can you swim?...Can you salsa dance?...and Can you cook?" But perhaps you could create three editons of the Can You? game. The present question, upon clarification, could be a question in the Standard Edition. The masturbation question could be a part of an Erotic Edition and the last three questions above could be a Children's Edition, ages 9-12.
This question has potential and should be included in the final game board version of "Can you?" The question of human heartlessness is worth discussing and is certainly more elevated than "Can you masturbate with two hands?" and less mundane than "Can you swim?...Can you salsa dance?...and Can you cook?" But perhaps you could create three editons of the Can You? game. The present question, upon clarification, could be a question in the Standard Edition. The masturbation question could be a part of an Erotic Edition and the last three questions above could be a Children's Edition, ages 9-12.
RE: Can you...
Member with no name, Are you asking me to explain (if so, what?) or are you, as I am, asking "That wud..." to clarify his question?
happy birthday
if anyone is coming down to the basement, bring a light bulb with you--its dark,,, oh by the way happy birthday katy
I Know....
by the age of 55 the amounts of Testosterone secreted by the testis is significantly lower than it was at the age of 40 years.. By the age of 80 most of the male hormone levels decrease to pre-puberty levels..
hmmm: so by this research i have a lot of more years left in me before pre-puberty levels decrease.
hmmm: so by this research i have a lot of more years left in me before pre-puberty levels decrease.
RE: I Know....
We begin our lives wearing diapers and drooling all over ourselves and at the end of our lives... we are wearing diapers and drooling all over ourselves. Life comes full circle.
RE: I Know....
The late comedian, George Burns, was asked at his 90th birthday party, "What's it like making love at age 90?" Burns replied, "It's like shooting pool with a rope!" lol!
RE: viewer forum
very right Anne! I think most would like to retain their youthful beauty, but that does not mean we lose our beauty as we age, or our passion and desires. Some people even become more beautiful as the years go by. Kisses beautiful one!
RE: viewer forum
So, you're of the opinion that incest is somehow less gross than feeling the swoon of physical want for the foxiest Golden Girl?
You're sensibilites are wacked.
You're sensibilites are wacked.
CC PEACE ACCORD: Proposal to Very True & Banana
Gentlemen,
On behalf of the CC Security Council I am pleased to offer you and fellow members a written copy of the final draft of the Accord that you and the council members have tentatively agreed upon:
CC PEACE ACCORD OF 2007
WHEREAS aggressions between members “Very True” and “A Banana (aka “to Very True”), hereinafter referred to as First Party and Second Party, erupted on 3 April 2007 and were witnessed by an international delegation of third party members of CamContacts and…
WHEREAS said delegation met in emergency session to address these aggressions whose volatility threatens the security of a region already fraught with numerous conflicts and…
WHEREAS the aggressions have presently ceased between the parties of the conflict and…
WHEREAS the CC Security Council has proposed a solution to the conflict and has submitted a copy of the written proposal to the two parties for their examination and has secured from each a promise to move forward to a formal accord with the qualification that amendments may be proposed and adopted by the two parties of said conflict as well as members of the Council’s conflict resolution team,
We HEREBY submit for comment and consideration the tentative provisions of this Accord, which provides for the following:
1) The Second party will make a public apology for insulting the First Party’s grandmother.
2) The First Party formally acknowledges that any tryst the Second Party may have had with the First Party’s grandmother does not and would not under any construction or interpretation constitute incest.
3) Both Parties formally acknowledge the other’s right to pursue the affections and sexual favors of octogenarians if they so choose, but with the following stipulations:
a) That the particulars of said relationships be kept altogether private with no mention thereof, including but not limited to any written exchanges on walls of toilette stalls.
b) In choosing one woman of 84, they permanently forfeit their right to four women of 21.
WHEREFORE, we pray the Parties to this conflict sign this Accord prepared by members of this Honorable Council, given on this 4th day of April 2007.
On behalf of the CC Security Council I am pleased to offer you and fellow members a written copy of the final draft of the Accord that you and the council members have tentatively agreed upon:
CC PEACE ACCORD OF 2007
WHEREAS aggressions between members “Very True” and “A Banana (aka “to Very True”), hereinafter referred to as First Party and Second Party, erupted on 3 April 2007 and were witnessed by an international delegation of third party members of CamContacts and…
WHEREAS said delegation met in emergency session to address these aggressions whose volatility threatens the security of a region already fraught with numerous conflicts and…
WHEREAS the aggressions have presently ceased between the parties of the conflict and…
WHEREAS the CC Security Council has proposed a solution to the conflict and has submitted a copy of the written proposal to the two parties for their examination and has secured from each a promise to move forward to a formal accord with the qualification that amendments may be proposed and adopted by the two parties of said conflict as well as members of the Council’s conflict resolution team,
We HEREBY submit for comment and consideration the tentative provisions of this Accord, which provides for the following:
1) The Second party will make a public apology for insulting the First Party’s grandmother.
2) The First Party formally acknowledges that any tryst the Second Party may have had with the First Party’s grandmother does not and would not under any construction or interpretation constitute incest.
3) Both Parties formally acknowledge the other’s right to pursue the affections and sexual favors of octogenarians if they so choose, but with the following stipulations:
a) That the particulars of said relationships be kept altogether private with no mention thereof, including but not limited to any written exchanges on walls of toilette stalls.
b) In choosing one woman of 84, they permanently forfeit their right to four women of 21.
WHEREFORE, we pray the Parties to this conflict sign this Accord prepared by members of this Honorable Council, given on this 4th day of April 2007.
RE: viewer forum
CharmLady, People tend to revise their opinion about what age is young, middle-aged and old. When someone is in his teens, he or she thinks people in their 20's are young, people in their 30's middle-age and anyone 40+ is old. When the observer is in HIS 20's, he now thinks people in their 30's are still "young", people in their 40's middle-age and those 50 and over are old. As people age they continue to revise these definitons. To octagenarians those in their 50's are still "young," middle age not beginning until at least age 60!
RE: viewer forum
Don't worry to much Anne Dear, Some just like to complain for the sake of it, Airheads they are ..
RE: viewer forum
I believe that you are only as young as you feel. As far as anne is concerned she is a incredible host. I admit before I met her I believed younger was always better. But she showed me how wrong I was. Her being older only adds to her beauty and charm. Besides she is not old I am past 30 too. lol
RE: viewer forum
I know I'm as young as I feel, and basically I like to feel 18 year olds...lol
RE: viewer forum
The youngest ones are sometimes most fun to look at, but in reality who wants a child? Give me a 30 year old anytime.
RE: viewer forum
anne--your not old,,you are the sunshine of many people here, very beatuiful woman with a great personality,, cc needs more like you here--cool
RE: viewer forum
not all 18 year olds are airheads and not all 30 somethings are mature, but generraly speaking I would agree with you. So I comprimise and gor for the 25 year olds...lol
RE: viewer forum
For reality, make it a few years older... 27 at least. By that time many realize they aren't little girls anymore and they can appreciate things more.
RE: viewer forum
self confidence, sense of humour, intelligence.. often has NOTHING to do with smb`s age
RE: viewer forum
well done Anne, be proud of your age, and many men appreciate women in there 30's, least your honest about your age, so many on this site lie and pretend 2 be younger, Wos the point in that ??? Ur happy and confident in yourself, if viewers have a problem with that, then its THERE problem not yours, continue beeing a sweety. hey im 34 and proud of it
this is a place of fantasy...
We are all here for different reasons and we have different fantasies. Just because you do not fit into someone's fantasy and they say so doesn't make them bad.
Is my fantasy to be in bed with a 55 year old woman? No. Do I want to see a 55 year old woman doing a pole dance? No. Does that mean I don't respect her as a human being? No.
Is my fantasy to be in bed with a 55 year old woman? No. Do I want to see a 55 year old woman doing a pole dance? No. Does that mean I don't respect her as a human being? No.
RE: this is a place of fantasy...
" think about before to judge others about their age"
once again, you didnt!
once again, you didnt!
RE: this is a place of fantasy...
she said: "I did read viewer forum and i was amazed by people complaing about old hosts." Apparently she didn't read the viewers forum very carefully. No one was complaining about old hosts...some members said they weren't into old hosts. ....but Anne took it personally as "complaints" and then posted this OP...which resulted in an inital slew of lapdogs "anne you are wonderful blah blah blah"
RE: viewer forum
And how many of the guys who use this site are under 30? And those that are, why the feck are you here?
problem
I did pictures..I liked to do sexy show:) but I type slow. Can it be problem? waaa.nobody visit me:(
RE: problem
Slow typing shouldn't be the end of the world as long as you explain early on that your English is not very good.
Also your price is probably more like a not so shy host than a shy one so possibly changing categories so that you are where slightly less chatting is expected may help a bit.
Finally it is possible to program certain phrases into your computer so that with a few key presses you could have a common phrase typed out which would save a little bit of time (it depends how bad your typing/english is though I suppose) but things like "Hi, I'm Mike from Canada. How are you?" would save some time and maybe give you a chance to start typing the next thing while the member is typing
Also your price is probably more like a not so shy host than a shy one so possibly changing categories so that you are where slightly less chatting is expected may help a bit.
Finally it is possible to program certain phrases into your computer so that with a few key presses you could have a common phrase typed out which would save a little bit of time (it depends how bad your typing/english is though I suppose) but things like "Hi, I'm Mike from Canada. How are you?" would save some time and maybe give you a chance to start typing the next thing while the member is typing
RE: problem
yes and like: how r u, where u from? how old are u?, oh, a nice age (whatever he says) - lol
RE: problem
Looked at your pics :D As long as your naked you can type as slowly as you like :P
Summer 2007
The Summer trip to Russia is definitely going to happen. Either June or July, I hit the road running. Heading for Moscow and a 350Km radius for a start (and maybe the finish).
RE: Summer 2007
thanks for letting us in on your travel plans, we waited all month for such info.
Please keep us updated on when you are geting your next haircut, we need the excitment.
Please keep us updated on when you are geting your next haircut, we need the excitment.
RE: Summer 2007
The second word is "off", the choice of first is up to you.
btw, haircut is tomorrow.
btw, haircut is tomorrow.
behaviour
many members think that they r supermen in CC.if u think that u r supermen in real life it's not surprising that u r alone.......
RE: behaviour
Nah with a name like slutpuppy you probably think of yourself more as UnderDog than Superman. LOL.
RE: behaviour
is sad to see how some members try to pretend they are superior by attempting to correct the english of the chathosts - and much much sadder when the chathost's english was actually correct and the member is not even aware that his difference comes simply from the fact the american spelling of some words is different from the english spelling.
RE: behaviour
As officeboy stated "chathost" just used the UK spelling of the word.All you do is show your ignorance of the world outside of the USA.
RE: behaviour
OMG, you mean there is a world outside the US????
lol, of course I know there is, it's called Mexico, lol
lol, of course I know there is, it's called Mexico, lol
RE: behaviour
Do you really expect me to list every English speaking country and the way they spell behaviour?The point is that it can be spelt more than one way and had the poster not been so insular in his thinking he would have realised that.
RE: behaviour
There's a world outside the good ole US of A? What color is the sky there? Do folks have three heads and stuff?
RE: behaviour
'behavior' looks so illiterate to me but then that comes from conditioning as to what is 'correct'
RE: who wanna marry?
into my 3rd marriage now - I think maybe I got better at it with practice
Chinatown
Walking through Chinatown,a tourist is fascinated with all the Chinese restaurants,shops,signs & banners.He sees a building with the sign"Hans Olafson's Laundry".Odd...
So he walks into the shop & sees an old Chinese gent.The tourist asks"How did this place get a name like'Hans Olafson's Laundry'?"
The old man says"Is name of owner."
The tourist asks"Well,who is the owner?"
"Me."replies the old man.
"You?How did you ever get a name like Hans Olafson?"
"Is simple,"says the old man."Many.many years ago when come to this country,was stand in line at documentation centre.Man in front was big blond Swede.Lady look at him & go 'What your name?' He say 'Hans Olafson.'"
Then she look at me &go"What your name?"
"I say ' Sem Ting"
So he walks into the shop & sees an old Chinese gent.The tourist asks"How did this place get a name like'Hans Olafson's Laundry'?"
The old man says"Is name of owner."
The tourist asks"Well,who is the owner?"
"Me."replies the old man.
"You?How did you ever get a name like Hans Olafson?"
"Is simple,"says the old man."Many.many years ago when come to this country,was stand in line at documentation centre.Man in front was big blond Swede.Lady look at him & go 'What your name?' He say 'Hans Olafson.'"
Then she look at me &go"What your name?"
"I say ' Sem Ting"
RE: Chinatown
Lol! In fact, it was not infrequent that Immigration officials botched someone's name and this became his legal name in America.
An acquaintance of mine tells a true story about a Jewish guy named Ferguson. When asked how he wound up with this Irish name he said, "My grandfather was a German speaker. When he passed through US Immigration there was no German speaker to translate and my grandfather spoke no English. So, when the official asked him, 'Do you speak English?' my grandfather replied in German, 'Ich habe vergessen.' (=I forgot). So, the official heard 'vergessen' and thought my grandfather was saying 'Ferguson.' So, he asks my grandfather, 'Ferguson?', And my grandfather thinking the official understood 'vergessen', said, 'Yes.' So, that's how he got the Irish name."
An acquaintance of mine tells a true story about a Jewish guy named Ferguson. When asked how he wound up with this Irish name he said, "My grandfather was a German speaker. When he passed through US Immigration there was no German speaker to translate and my grandfather spoke no English. So, when the official asked him, 'Do you speak English?' my grandfather replied in German, 'Ich habe vergessen.' (=I forgot). So, the official heard 'vergessen' and thought my grandfather was saying 'Ferguson.' So, he asks my grandfather, 'Ferguson?', And my grandfather thinking the official understood 'vergessen', said, 'Yes.' So, that's how he got the Irish name."
nickname
what used to be Ur nickname or if U still have it...what is it??? ( and I don`t mean the CC nickname, just the way U`r called:D)
RE: nickname
not really a nickname of sorts,just a variation of my real name.everyone has always called me paulie and still does.
RE: nickname
Ohh I've been called sticks or "onion woman" when I was little - my uncle used to make fun of me cuz I was too skiny, he used to say "you r onion woman - take her cloths off and u start crying instantly" =))) - then I grew up and people started calling me princess, cat-woman, fairy, femme fatale or black widow =)))
But I rather you call me by my name or Char, Lotte or Charlotte , thanks a lot :D
But I rather you call me by my name or Char, Lotte or Charlotte , thanks a lot :D
RE: nickname
kate,hun,can i tell here only one and that would be the one ive liked most?Because my real name is Anka-short from Ancutza(by the way my name was choosed by the older sister and broder:D) ppl &friends used to called me different ways but ive liked the most Anky -this one all the dear pers from my life used to call when they were happy in my presence and when they wanned to show me how loved im by them:):):)
RE: nickname
oops i did it again:-S i just missunderstood the post msg
well my nickname one of the hated one was ''little bowl'' cuz of my stupid haircut wich my mom did it to me once:(( i had suffer very much at that time cuz of that most when the boys called me that way(K)
PS kiss the ppl who would not have fun of me now knowing my ''dirty lil secret'':D
well my nickname one of the hated one was ''little bowl'' cuz of my stupid haircut wich my mom did it to me once:(( i had suffer very much at that time cuz of that most when the boys called me that way(K)
PS kiss the ppl who would not have fun of me now knowing my ''dirty lil secret'':D
RE: nickname
I was called PooBear for a long time cause women found me to be cuddly!! I always found it interesting that women that did not know me came up with the same name. Maybe it was the yellow hair!
Of coures now that I am a little older with some digestion issues, I am fat old fart
Of coures now that I am a little older with some digestion issues, I am fat old fart
RE: nickname
nicknames..i had many..fat cunt (still used to this day and so true) cute fucker (though i think that chick was partially blind) and shit head (but thats coz i used to have my head flushed down the loo in high school)
RE: nickname
looooooooooooooooooooooooooool,shy:D:D:D funny enough to give u a kiss even if after ull trow up:Pi still call u aaron lewis dont matter how much ull call me blind needing glasses ....hehehe (by the way can u reply whit my misspleling:))
RE: nickname
vic-my nickname was chaser, thats why I use it here too, I had this nickname every since I was 8 years old, mother started calling me this because I used to run along trains as they passed the house and then the neighbors started calling me chaser. Now I use it here because I'm chasing something else.
Had another nickname when I was in High School some people call me LDD (stood for Long Dick Donnie), although it didnt stick to me very long after a couple of girls seem my tattoo on my penis
Had another nickname when I was in High School some people call me LDD (stood for Long Dick Donnie), although it didnt stick to me very long after a couple of girls seem my tattoo on my penis
RE: nickname
whoooooooooooooooooooo aaaaaaaaaaa don:O:O:O
by the way miss u and kiss u a lot:D
by the way miss u and kiss u a lot:D
RE: nickname
hey anka,, kisses and hugs to you too and vic, the tattoo say's
Chattanooga Choo Choo Express Line, Chattanooga, Tennessee with a train above it--cool
Chattanooga Choo Choo Express Line, Chattanooga, Tennessee with a train above it--cool
girls and guys what would u feel if.....
u found out that the one person u are beginning to like or let say u really like/love is already with his/her own kid,and he/she just tell u when u are ready to propose or something more than that..do u care?....do u feel betrayed or maybe disappointed....?will u begin to forget all abt him/her???? ......:(( or understand her and learn to accept it ??
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
it's fine, no problem - I don't demand a full explanation of her life until I and she are ready to commit -then I tell her about my 3 kids :-)
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
well, i think it all depends - partly on, to what extent i felt i was misled about whether she had a child (as in if we had been chatting for months and growing very close then i would have expected her child to have been mentioned or at least vaguely hinted at) and also whether that meant she also had a current bf/husband (which would again be something you would hope had been mentioned).
basically if you truly love the other person whether they have a child shouldn't really change that much (although it does make things more difficult in the actual relationship - he says from experience!) unless you feel that you have been misled too much (obviously you accept some untruths here - especially when chatting initially - how long have you been working here, whether you are studying or working full time here and don't want to admit it and many more - but some things can become very serious if they are not mentioned for a very very long time after a trust between you has been built up.
sorry for such a rambling post - but had a couple of phone calls half way through and lost the thread a little bit.
good luck anyway - assuming this is your secret
basically if you truly love the other person whether they have a child shouldn't really change that much (although it does make things more difficult in the actual relationship - he says from experience!) unless you feel that you have been misled too much (obviously you accept some untruths here - especially when chatting initially - how long have you been working here, whether you are studying or working full time here and don't want to admit it and many more - but some things can become very serious if they are not mentioned for a very very long time after a trust between you has been built up.
sorry for such a rambling post - but had a couple of phone calls half way through and lost the thread a little bit.
good luck anyway - assuming this is your secret
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
I like to know sooner because it's one thing to be responsible for one other person, but two or three is more challanging. Plus a mom will often put the child #1 in her life and her new husband only #2. Sometimes when there is a question she will ALWAYS trust the child no matter what else. The mom often feels guilty about not having a full family and overcompensates by maikng the child the center of the universe.
The guy must take the mom and kid as a full package. If the kid has an attitude to the step-dad he can ruin th marriage. It can be a difficult balancing act. I have met three hosts and their kids and I can see that I am not compatible with two of the kids.
It's funny because if I rated the 3 hosts the one with the best kid is third on my list of three. She's still very nice, but not at the top.
However, if you MADE me choose one host I would pick the one with the best kid, as long as I still liked the mom a lot.
The thing about a lot of western guys is that they view the marriage as a full partnership, whereas the traditional eastern way is that the women is the cook and bed-partner, not a non-stop life partner. This must also be smoothed out as time goes on.
On the other hand, I know one host that married a member and he told her the kid is always first. The host didn't believe this to be absolute, but it was. He buys the daughter clothes and car and pays for everything for the girl while the wife must work just to buy underwear. The ex-host is now the servant to the daughter and her friends and is treated like a slave by the family.
The guy must take the mom and kid as a full package. If the kid has an attitude to the step-dad he can ruin th marriage. It can be a difficult balancing act. I have met three hosts and their kids and I can see that I am not compatible with two of the kids.
It's funny because if I rated the 3 hosts the one with the best kid is third on my list of three. She's still very nice, but not at the top.
However, if you MADE me choose one host I would pick the one with the best kid, as long as I still liked the mom a lot.
The thing about a lot of western guys is that they view the marriage as a full partnership, whereas the traditional eastern way is that the women is the cook and bed-partner, not a non-stop life partner. This must also be smoothed out as time goes on.
On the other hand, I know one host that married a member and he told her the kid is always first. The host didn't believe this to be absolute, but it was. He buys the daughter clothes and car and pays for everything for the girl while the wife must work just to buy underwear. The ex-host is now the servant to the daughter and her friends and is treated like a slave by the family.
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
If i love him i will love his kids and acept them ofc as my own:)
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
Another funny story.
I know a host from Ukraine who hooked-up with a South American guy and she offered to leave the kid in Europe if the guy didn't want him.
I know a host from Ukraine who hooked-up with a South American guy and she offered to leave the kid in Europe if the guy didn't want him.
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
Well, that is a very honest (albeit also somewhat judgemental and selfish/narrow minded) reply.
RE: girls and guys what would u feel if.....
Could you explain what my mistakes in English were please? Thanks
RE: sale
im not mean,just my opinion,she looks ok,just not the kind of lady i go to see,thats all.
RE: sale
i do really not care about him and "someones".... i can say more i do not care about many many ppl and theirs opinions and words about me :)
im bad, cruel, have my own opinion about every thing and not gonna kiss anyone`s ass for some cash :)
i caring and sweet only with my close friends :)
im bad, cruel, have my own opinion about every thing and not gonna kiss anyone`s ass for some cash :)
i caring and sweet only with my close friends :)
RE: sale
Charlotte I would never take advantage of you, I'm sure you're much to nice for that to happen !!! We're gonna chat soon, be patient lovely lady.
Muahhhh..... Alan.
Muahhhh..... Alan.
RE: sale
Hey- But kate .. your one of the sexiest ladies here ..
so very different to Hypno girl lol..
so very different to Hypno girl lol..
RE: sale
shes in Love & marriage cat, thats why she doesnt do shows, dont be so flamin rude as 2 assume every1 is here 2 perform 4 u. shes a lovely looking lady, lovely pictures. (personally dont blame her 4 not entertaining you. if u want an adult show, go IA, pay the price 4 the show, and dont expect shows in non adult cat.
RE: sale
I never asked for anything adult ..!!!
just was told I dont do shows ..!!!
i see many non adult .. and all have done shows . of 1 kind or another , some just smile some dont even do that lol..
some just ask for $ and walk off screen ,, and u sit there
looking at an empty chair for 30 mins ,,
Just so pleased she let you in her room..
lol..
if your not here to offer something ..
however dull - or uninteresting
then why bother switching on your cam
lets save the planet and stop wasting electric lol..
and there are many here that would really like someone to come and be polite and chat ..
thats all ..
just was told I dont do shows ..!!!
i see many non adult .. and all have done shows . of 1 kind or another , some just smile some dont even do that lol..
some just ask for $ and walk off screen ,, and u sit there
looking at an empty chair for 30 mins ,,
Just so pleased she let you in her room..
lol..
if your not here to offer something ..
however dull - or uninteresting
then why bother switching on your cam
lets save the planet and stop wasting electric lol..
and there are many here that would really like someone to come and be polite and chat ..
thats all ..
RE: sale
shes in Love & marriage cat, and maybe had no affinity with you, and therefore showed you the door in her room, sounds like a straight up host, who isnt going 2 waste any1s time with false promises.
RE: sale
If i want sexy shows i will ask..
and i do got to IA and not shy , and shy ..
i merely asked after making a few compliments , did she show her stomach as she did on her pictures..
NO
and was then rude..
what the F is that about ..
is like a monty python show..
i came here for abuse lol
and i do got to IA and not shy , and shy ..
i merely asked after making a few compliments , did she show her stomach as she did on her pictures..
NO
and was then rude..
what the F is that about ..
is like a monty python show..
i came here for abuse lol
RE: sale
Cecil (K) I'll show you my stomach tomorrow and you can be in open sessions with no problems :) (K)
RE: sale charlotte4U
Thank you !!!!
its a lovely stomach too ,, wow ..
and u even move like a dancer ..
fantastic.!!!!
its a lovely stomach too ,, wow ..
and u even move like a dancer ..
fantastic.!!!!
RE: sale
Good to hear 0.6 is a sensible price,,
I saw you when you were not so hard,., when you were more fun.. and enjoying life more,,
You smiled well ,, and tried to be sexy too.. i enjoyed seeing you.. i prefer more curves myself,, but you seem a nice girl..
wish you luck , hope you get happier again...
I saw you when you were not so hard,., when you were more fun.. and enjoying life more,,
You smiled well ,, and tried to be sexy too.. i enjoyed seeing you.. i prefer more curves myself,, but you seem a nice girl..
wish you luck , hope you get happier again...
RE: Photo Archives
I look till I see a ass photo, If there are none, I usually go to the next profile
Joke: The Man Who Lived Alone on the Prarie
There's this guy who lives alone in a prairie house in a desolate area of the American Great Plains. He has lived a solitary life there for years. One day he is sitting on his porch and a guy pulls up in a truck. He looks at the man sitting on the porch and says, "Howdy neighbor!"
The man on the porch looks at him suspiciously and replies, "Neighbor? I didn't reckon I had any neighbors."
With a friendly reassuring smile, the man answered, "Yeah, neighbor, you see that ridge down yonder? Well, I live just beyond that ridge. And as a matter of fact neighbor, I'm havin' a party this Saturday and I'd be much obliged if you came!"
Now intrigued, the prairie dweller asks, "Oh yeah? What kinda party is it gonna be?"
"Well neighbor, there's gonna be some drinkin'; there's gonna be some fuckin' and there's gonna be some card playin'"
Finally won over, the solitary man responds, "Sounds good to me. What should I wear?"
"You can wear anything you want," the man said with an impish smile, "because it's only gonna be you and me!"
The man on the porch looks at him suspiciously and replies, "Neighbor? I didn't reckon I had any neighbors."
With a friendly reassuring smile, the man answered, "Yeah, neighbor, you see that ridge down yonder? Well, I live just beyond that ridge. And as a matter of fact neighbor, I'm havin' a party this Saturday and I'd be much obliged if you came!"
Now intrigued, the prairie dweller asks, "Oh yeah? What kinda party is it gonna be?"
"Well neighbor, there's gonna be some drinkin'; there's gonna be some fuckin' and there's gonna be some card playin'"
Finally won over, the solitary man responds, "Sounds good to me. What should I wear?"
"You can wear anything you want," the man said with an impish smile, "because it's only gonna be you and me!"
Can you...
...be competitive against a woman, or will you let them win?
...be competitive against a man, cos you know they will win? :p
...be competitive against a man, cos you know they will win? :p
RE: Can you...
I always let a man win, well it depends ofc how much a like him:P If i like him a lot i let him be a winner coz every guy likes it:PPP Besides, i like only winners:)
RE: romanian hosts
Women I know readily concede how vicious women can be toward each other. One host here told me that one of her regular guests told her that another woman, whom the first woman thought was her friend, had been maligning her and telling male guests not to go to her. How malicious!---as if there aren't a sufficient number of guests to go around. And who knows, perhaps this woman could not abide the idea that she might not be THE Queen Bee on CC.
I've always liked H.L. Menken's definition of a misogynist: "A man who hates women as much as women hate each other." lol!
I've always liked H.L. Menken's definition of a misogynist: "A man who hates women as much as women hate each other." lol!
RE: romanian hosts
Usually popular girls get insulted by other girls;)Not on the contrary:P
RE: romanian hosts
it is a shame when any person feels the need to put another down, does not matter why they do it, pettyness, jealousy, or any of that. the simple truth is it is wrong. people need to start learning to treat others better, to treat them how they wish to be treated and not in such negative manners.
RE: romanian hosts
No Charlotte, you are not alone. There are more than just a few folks here that believe as you do.
RE: romanian hosts
I know this may seem anti-romanian, but I have found hosts from this country to be the most critical of other ro. hosts, even to the point of making cruel personal comments in cc and forums. I know of one who rarely hosts but frequently bitches and makes very hurtful, personal remarks about other ro. hosts.
RE: romanian hosts
I am not naming names, so I am not "kicking her pussy". I was just surprised at the vehemence of her actions. She is not the prettiest of the most pleasent conversationalist by any means. She believes she is "superior" to other hosts, she does not like people lying, but freely lies when it suits her purpose. I guess she is here to get her kicks, like most of us.
RE: romanian hosts
One has the impression from this thread that all ro hosts must know each other. That is an unsettling thought. :)
RE: romanian hosts
some ppl lost their sense of humour :-s
U come to comm chat to have fun , dont see anything wrong in teasing..........and didnt notice any insults from romanian hosts so far....sarcasm maybe....but thats smth different...as for criticism...whats wrong with that??? there is a saying" to avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing"....smart ppl should get the jokes and if they feel offenced...should fight back
If I`d get upset everytime hosts/members BS I`d have been dead already
U come to comm chat to have fun , dont see anything wrong in teasing..........and didnt notice any insults from romanian hosts so far....sarcasm maybe....but thats smth different...as for criticism...whats wrong with that??? there is a saying" to avoid criticism, do nothing, say nothing, be nothing"....smart ppl should get the jokes and if they feel offenced...should fight back
If I`d get upset everytime hosts/members BS I`d have been dead already
RE: romanian hosts
start calling people names, people who have only been nice to you kate that is just not right. maybe you find it funny but i am sure you noticed that others did not. some also dont feel the need to fight over such things and it is the better man/woman who avoids such petty fights and takes the high road. maybe you should look at it as a lesson learned. good luck to you !
RE: romanian hosts
huh??? when did I called smb names??? why dont u put ur name here I wonder??
RE: romanian hosts
telling me about learning lessons:)...ok....1st tell me who u really r before acusing me of things I didn`t do....fair enough, don`t u think?
and then u can "throw stones at me"...since that makes u happy
and then u can "throw stones at me"...since that makes u happy
RE: romanian hosts
good point,kate dear!!!noone have right to judge ppl without atleast show who is it ...i mean how its feels to be shut in the dark not knowing even who did it???maybe im overreacting a lil but yes if u wanna acuse and take nice behavior lessons then u must be fair enaugh and asume the responsability of ur identety ...corect???
RE: romanian hosts
girls are funny :) so much effort to just find out who someone is that made a point. why do you care so much? if you think they are wrong, then you move on. but maybe you care so much because you are guilty?
my advice would just to put it behind you and move on with your lives!
my advice would just to put it behind you and move on with your lives!
RE: romanian hosts
i am a guy, not a girl. i choose not to give you my real nick because i do not wish to get abusive mail from anyone, thank you very much.
of course you are welcome to say all you wish, i was just saying it was kind of funny how you appeared to be a bit stressed over it is all.
shall we agree to disagree kate? let this thread end here?
of course you are welcome to say all you wish, i was just saying it was kind of funny how you appeared to be a bit stressed over it is all.
shall we agree to disagree kate? let this thread end here?
RE: romanian hosts
oh sorry:)...stressed?? lol yeah...must be the PMS....as for ending the thread...suit yourself:)
RE: romanian hosts
you, With all due respect, I think you are being rather patronizing here by discounting and trivializing a legitimate grievance. I'm sure you would agree that it is wrong for anyone to hurl insults at another in the first place. But to then have to endure someone who comes anonymously preaching moral lessons about "taking the high road," is a bit presumptous. And coming under an assumed name because you do not want to get "abusive mail" is rather like a cleric wearing a mask while giving a sermon because he fears his high moral tone might provoke the animosity of the rabble who are his congregation.
RE: romanian hosts
"when you," I quite agree that it is wrong to call people names---period!--not just those who have been nice to you. However, unless you are alluding to something that happened outside this thread, I don't see the basis for your comment to Kate. She neither insulted anyone, nor said anything that would suggest this behavior is "funny."
I also agree with you that in many, if not most cases one should take the "high road" and not even dignify such behavior. However, I can understand if someone draws the line somewhere and no longer takes the 'turn the other cheek' position. We need to pick our fights for sure, but I think if somebody is pissing in your face you have a right, some might even say duty to defend yourself from such insult.
I also agree with you that in many, if not most cases one should take the "high road" and not even dignify such behavior. However, I can understand if someone draws the line somewhere and no longer takes the 'turn the other cheek' position. We need to pick our fights for sure, but I think if somebody is pissing in your face you have a right, some might even say duty to defend yourself from such insult.
RE: romanian hosts
because they seem not to be romanian???
oh well....stay away from romanians=))
oh well....stay away from romanians=))
RE: romanian hosts
lol, just keep your money in sight at all times, they will find some way to get it,lol