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What happens when you bump into someone
Let's assume you happen to live in the same country with a host you viewed - once or many more times.
She is working somewhere in contact with the public - shop , supermarket , travel agency , club , pub , hotel etc .
You see her and ofc recognize her , maybe she hasn't actually seen you . Would you say anything ?
And what if she works for the same company and your her well higher then her boss , would you say anything to get her sacked from her job ???
Just random i know , but some of us have real jobs outside here , good or bad ones not important and i was curious to know what you guys think
Ta
She is working somewhere in contact with the public - shop , supermarket , travel agency , club , pub , hotel etc .
You see her and ofc recognize her , maybe she hasn't actually seen you . Would you say anything ?
And what if she works for the same company and your her well higher then her boss , would you say anything to get her sacked from her job ???
Just random i know , but some of us have real jobs outside here , good or bad ones not important and i was curious to know what you guys think
Ta
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
Since you block your home country, I don't see how this can possibly happen.
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
I can see where this could be an issue for hosts from western Europe, but most hosts are from eastern Europe. From my perspective as a viewer in the US, most viewers are from the west and most hosts are from the east. So that is how I reached my conclusion.
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
Firstly, unless the member knows about where she lives and works he may not immediately recognise her. It is not always easy to recognise someone away from their usual context, especially if they are wearing a hotel or supermarket uniform. If the host was one i had only been to video occasionally I would probably not say anything. But if she is a host I had visited and chatted with a lot I would choose a suitable moment to discretely say hi.
If we were working in the same company I would certainly not do anything to get her sacked. I do not consider that working on CC is a reason for sacking anyone.
If we were working in the same company I would certainly not do anything to get her sacked. I do not consider that working on CC is a reason for sacking anyone.
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
...why should someone would have someone sacked???Just don't get it.Fuck her if she wants to,say hi only if u feel like it,don't say a word if u are a coward...Cmon-some just don't get a life of their own and don't know waht to do to hurt others.LOL.
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
Nothing would be said, because outside CC all business and 'relations' end.
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
Why would i want do anything bad to her, cant find any reason to. Probably wouldnt tell her i seen her nude but maybe i try talk to her
RE: What happens when you bump into someone
I certainly would not cause her any grief.
Similar real life example: several times have run into dancers from strip clubs..we recognized each other..said hello..usually they were not alone..surpise..when I saw them next time at the club, they actually thanked me for being nice to them outside of the club.
No reason to think less of someone or treat them bad for working here, any more than I would a dancer from a strip club.
Similar real life example: several times have run into dancers from strip clubs..we recognized each other..said hello..usually they were not alone..surpise..when I saw them next time at the club, they actually thanked me for being nice to them outside of the club.
No reason to think less of someone or treat them bad for working here, any more than I would a dancer from a strip club.
RE: question to viewers
the foto it is the main factor... price probably also matter more or less. but ofc the charm inteligence and quality of show which garantee a good satisfaction.it is not enought to be pretty here. as well need to be smart witty charming and so on..some girls have 3-5 members in their rooms for hours..i think it is the secret..
RE: question to viewers
When I browse, I use small pictures with description. I can be attracted by what is written in the description or by the profile picture. Then I check price, then read profile. And yes I do notice her rating. Then I ask any questions I have in free chat, that is assuming there is free chat. There are a number of hosts that either have a password protected session or they have a msg in free chat that says video only.
In the case of password protected session , I move on. In the case of video only, it depends on how hot her archive photos and what her open price is.
In the case of password protected session , I move on. In the case of video only, it depends on how hot her archive photos and what her open price is.
RE: question to viewers
The Profile photo is VERY important..to catch interest. Then the text..tell me what to expect and not just write.."XXXXX"..or "U will find out"... the price and photo-album comes 3rd to me to look at...more than 2 $ at minut..I usually go on to other host...the photo-album gives me more impression about the babe..and to see 50 photos of her in the same position is boring and makes me think she is lazy...1-5 photos is also lazy...minimun 10 photos of different positions, outfits and so on..then I think the babe is creative and gets my attention...
RE: question to viewers
I look for young or sexy looking maybe a little shy. But most of all now I am unemployed I have to look for price too
RE: question to viewers
Pictures are vital to first get a guys attention aswel as a non-generic filled out profile(express your personality),also a reasonable price helps which conveys a lacks of arrogance and sense of entitlement lastly to actually keep a customer once he has entered your room its some sort of connection and chemistry,or failing all that big tits.
RE: question to viewers
This one is easy for me to answer. The first attraction is beautiful eyes, long dark hair, nice smile and then admittedly gorgeous legs. Rarely do i go into a video session if profile pics don't show the face. I think for all guys price is a factor too. I've been a member for over four years (spent a small fortune during this time) but have met many a sweet and adorable lady for under 2/min. I really don't understand why some of the prices can be 3 or more. I may be tempted to vid those who attract me tho I won't patronize such costs. Btw...I do read profiles too and ratings don't necessarily scare me away.
RE: question to viewers
The most important is a very good profile pic, because that's what catches my eyes first...If the pic is very sexy or somehow "interesting", then i click on the host's profile to watch more of her photos (It is important to have some new photos at least weekly.)...and to read about her...so its important to have a proper answer on questions what turns you on-offs...and the most important part, what can i expect from your show. I hate it when the answer is "come in and you will find out" only. I don't wanna find out anything...i prefer to know almost "everything" before the show starts. If i don't find enough answers there...then i enter to text chat to clarify what can i expect from the show. When i see a message there, that "only videosession is available"...then i leave the room without any hesitation and never looking back...
So all in all...you must have a good profile pic, lots of fresh photos, a good profile with lots of information and of course a very good price. If these are all together, then i jump in your room...and from this point its your job to keep me in your video as long as you can...so a good show is a big must...then maybe i'll come back for more:)
So all in all...you must have a good profile pic, lots of fresh photos, a good profile with lots of information and of course a very good price. If these are all together, then i jump in your room...and from this point its your job to keep me in your video as long as you can...so a good show is a big must...then maybe i'll come back for more:)
RE: question to viewers
Honestly most of the women I see I meet first in Community Chat where I can talk to them for a while and get a feel for their personality. If a host catches my attention there, then most other things don't matter that much. I have had videos with women of all types of looks and prices, but since I rarely have a video that is less than one hour, how often I return will depend on price, but it only affects the frequency of our visits.
As for looks, if a woman appears to care about her appearance that is very attractive, but I really don't like ones who really go over the top with makeup, Just keep your hair and cloths neat and don't try to make faces like in the porn movies lol and you will be beautiful in my eyes. A sweet smile is better than lots of makeup every time.
As for looks, if a woman appears to care about her appearance that is very attractive, but I really don't like ones who really go over the top with makeup, Just keep your hair and cloths neat and don't try to make faces like in the porn movies lol and you will be beautiful in my eyes. A sweet smile is better than lots of makeup every time.
RE: question to viewers
First i choose category and then check the pics, the face and body. Then i check her price and if seems ok i put her to my favorites. This i do every now and then. Then sometime i check the favorites list and some of the girls i try in prv, if its no good i leave fast and never go back. Some girls been on my favorite list many years back, its 5-6 .
RE: question to viewers
Smart question to ask :)
Interesting, most comments are in general agreement. For me:
Your picture is indeed the first thing that will get my attention...then I check price. 2.00 or less, otherwise forget it. Plenty of hot girls at that price or lower, so why pay more. Then check other photos you have to get a better idea...see if you seem to look as good as that first photo that got my attention. Then check profile to see what you will do. Major agreement about not liking vague statements..like come in and see. Don't try and scam me, just tell me.
Next is text chat...basically tell you what I want...which is pretty basic; one part of that is to verify that you have sound...don't lie about that, or it'll be a real short session. Once I tell you what I want in text chat, and confirm you have sound, Im on to private for a good time. Give me a good show and I'll be back. However, if you're rude to me in text, for some reason, then you won't see me in private...which is way stupid on your part if your are rude ..because if im in text, then Im just a hair's breath away from entering private with you. So don't ignore me or bitch because Im asking you a couple simple questions.
Regarding Return visits: Put on a good show..have some passion for God's sake..enjoy yourself..the more the better. Have a good time and a good attitude. One simple rule: Text is for talk, Private is for aciton...don't suddenly try and scam me by asking my life's story..a thousand questions when I enter private...just get to it.
Treat me well, and I'll treat you well...and come back several times.
Good luck to you Lady :)
Interesting, most comments are in general agreement. For me:
Your picture is indeed the first thing that will get my attention...then I check price. 2.00 or less, otherwise forget it. Plenty of hot girls at that price or lower, so why pay more. Then check other photos you have to get a better idea...see if you seem to look as good as that first photo that got my attention. Then check profile to see what you will do. Major agreement about not liking vague statements..like come in and see. Don't try and scam me, just tell me.
Next is text chat...basically tell you what I want...which is pretty basic; one part of that is to verify that you have sound...don't lie about that, or it'll be a real short session. Once I tell you what I want in text chat, and confirm you have sound, Im on to private for a good time. Give me a good show and I'll be back. However, if you're rude to me in text, for some reason, then you won't see me in private...which is way stupid on your part if your are rude ..because if im in text, then Im just a hair's breath away from entering private with you. So don't ignore me or bitch because Im asking you a couple simple questions.
Regarding Return visits: Put on a good show..have some passion for God's sake..enjoy yourself..the more the better. Have a good time and a good attitude. One simple rule: Text is for talk, Private is for aciton...don't suddenly try and scam me by asking my life's story..a thousand questions when I enter private...just get to it.
Treat me well, and I'll treat you well...and come back several times.
Good luck to you Lady :)
Instead of...
Instead of criticizing others for what they want or like here in CC, or saying they are wrong, or trying to convince others that our way is the right way...
Why can't we just accept the fact that we all have different tastes, different expectations, different desires?
Why can't we just accept the fact that we all have different tastes, different expectations, different desires?
RE: Instead of...
Some suggestions are good not criticism. CC is my favorite site tho I think they, owners, admin & managers, do read and consider some of our thoughts. For those that honestly don't like certain aspects of the site, move on!!
RE: Instead of...
I'm not speaking of suggestions or even critical comments about services here at CC, or how CC does things. I'm speaking of the attacks on persons because what they like doesn't match what someone else likes, and they are put down as "money slaves" "sissy boys", etc. Yes, there are people who do fit that category and seek sexual gratification as a result of it. but when folks are criticized and called such simply because they like to chat, rather than "get down to business" so to speak - that is the kind of criticalness I'm speaking of. We are all different, have different likes, different desires. And to assume that someone is wrong or stupid or messed up because they don't match our desires or purposes in coming here - that is just plain unacceptable in my opinion.
RE: Instead of...
...because we are humans...the most arrogant creatures of this planet. Although this behaviour helped us to become the dominant race on planet Earth, but we still wanna defeat others...the nature...other people..etc...this is in our genes.
RE: Instead of...
You're Definitely correct..reading the majority of these posts, often instead of people having healthy discussions, they piss and moan and pick away at each other over Nothing. It's like walking into a room and seeing a couple 5 year olds fighting with each other. Just pathetic.
RE: Instead of...
There have been times I've read the forums, and the tone was so negative, that after reading them I was no longer in the mood to go visit a host..
RE: Guilt
I don't see why forgiveness should be automatic just because someone says "sorry", even if they are sincere about. If you hurt the guy quite a few times, maybe you're just going to have to live with the consequences of your past actions, and the best you can do is just try and behave better in your future relations.
RE: Guilt
No, I cannot agree that "that is how it was meant to be." That is a cop out that you hope absolves you from blame, but the fact that you still feel guilt, means that deep down inside you know your treatment of the other person was wrong. I am not trying to heap guilt on you, just recognizing what you already feel.
The most important thing is to apologize and then do your best not to repeat the behavior you have felt guilty about.
As ~host said, apologizing and changing your behavior does not guarantee the other person will forgive you.
By apologizing, and changing your behavior, you have put the ball back into his court. It's up to him now to choose how to respond. Nothing more you can do except to hope he will forgive. By the way, apologizing, and asking the person to forgive you are two different things. Both are needed, in my opinion.
The most important thing is to apologize and then do your best not to repeat the behavior you have felt guilty about.
As ~host said, apologizing and changing your behavior does not guarantee the other person will forgive you.
By apologizing, and changing your behavior, you have put the ball back into his court. It's up to him now to choose how to respond. Nothing more you can do except to hope he will forgive. By the way, apologizing, and asking the person to forgive you are two different things. Both are needed, in my opinion.
RE: Guilt
The conversation was about how YOU treated the other person and how YOU felt about it (guilt), not about how the other person treated you. You are responsible for your actions,and yours alone, not his or anyone else's. If you think I'm playing "God" then that is your problem, not mine. You can listen to advice or not, it matters not to me. You asked for advice on YOUR guilty feelings, and that is what I addressed. So do with it what you want.
RE: Guilt
Just get another drink and forget about it... Then all you have to think about is the hangover:P
RE: Guilt
Guilt is something that will eat at you if you let it, I have hurt people at times. not intentionally and often without even knowing it. If I know I have then I apologize sincerely and hope that the person understands and accepts my apology. It bothers me to when I truly did not mean to do it.
Doing it once without knowing or realizing is one thing, but to keep doing it is another.
If it is done repeatedly and you know that you have done it each time then you can not expect a person to forgive you every time.
Doing it once without knowing or realizing is one thing, but to keep doing it is another.
If it is done repeatedly and you know that you have done it each time then you can not expect a person to forgive you every time.
RE: Guilt
EASY answer - don't have a relationship just use prostitutes. It will be cheaper in the long run too.
The Glamour host double standard
I understand the Glamour host doesn't want to act or be treated like an IA host. Fine, but she should be at least expected to be fluent in English and able to carry on a conversation. If she can't speak English well, maybe should should be in IA.
Is it too much to ask to require a host that does not strip to be able to speak English well?
Is it too much to ask to require a host that does not strip to be able to speak English well?
RE: The Glamour host double standard
I do not mean to be harsh to the host but...if she does not strip nor able to hold a conversation then what does she do?
NO it is not too much to ask that a host be able to speak english well enough to have a conversation. I quite understand that there are hosts that are not able to speak english very well and that is fine as long as she does other things to make up for it, but if that is all she is doing is having a conversation and not strip then she should be able to hold a conversation best that she can.
Maybe the host should put in her profile that her english is not so good and maybe that will ease the frustration for those who are willing to pay to just have a conversation, and also it might bring her more members who speak her language.
NO it is not too much to ask that a host be able to speak english well enough to have a conversation. I quite understand that there are hosts that are not able to speak english very well and that is fine as long as she does other things to make up for it, but if that is all she is doing is having a conversation and not strip then she should be able to hold a conversation best that she can.
Maybe the host should put in her profile that her english is not so good and maybe that will ease the frustration for those who are willing to pay to just have a conversation, and also it might bring her more members who speak her language.
wondering about not so shy category
I was wondering can a host who is in little shy category be in not so shy category and not use toys?
I have asked cc and have been told that in not so shy category a host is only obligated to be nude in an open session when asked but anything else she is not obligated to do in an open session so I am not asking that. I have asked a few other hosts about this yet I have only gotten cold responses from them. So I am now asking members about this, are there many hosts in the not so shy category that do not use toys?
I am only curious so there is not need for any rude nor arrogant cold responses please and thank you. :)
I have asked cc and have been told that in not so shy category a host is only obligated to be nude in an open session when asked but anything else she is not obligated to do in an open session so I am not asking that. I have asked a few other hosts about this yet I have only gotten cold responses from them. So I am now asking members about this, are there many hosts in the not so shy category that do not use toys?
I am only curious so there is not need for any rude nor arrogant cold responses please and thank you. :)
RE: wondering about not so shy category
sweetie, any category you host in has rules for the chathost behavior, not for the props/toys she uses. I used to host in different categories here, includin IA, NSS or Glam and never used toys. They are not mandatory and anyone who would tell you they are is a liar lol
Good luck!
Good luck!
RE: wondering about not so shy category
Not so shy rules;
"By signing into this category the Chathost, if asked, commits to:
* EXPLICIT nudity.
To include:
o Close-ups
o Open Legs
* Masturbation by fingers.
If a viewer wants toys, or other specific action they must ask the Chathost first to ensure the Chathost is both willing and able to accommodate the request."
"By signing into this category the Chathost, if asked, commits to:
* EXPLICIT nudity.
To include:
o Close-ups
o Open Legs
* Masturbation by fingers.
If a viewer wants toys, or other specific action they must ask the Chathost first to ensure the Chathost is both willing and able to accommodate the request."
RE: wondering about not so shy category
thank you long time viewer...I know of what you posted...but my question was about the toys...I know that the nudity is an obligation in open session when asked.and that I have no problem with....but the rest is not an obligation in open session.... the host is not obligated to do the masterbation with fingers, close ups and spreading in open session but is in closed session if asked....at least this is what I was told by cc staff...
RE: wondering about not so shy category
When it comes to an open session, Many hosts have posted when this topic came up that in an open session they have a show that they do when there is more than one member in open session in not so shy category, and that show that they do does not always include masterbation but a strip show and that anything more than just stripping and being nude in open session they let the member know to go to a closed session and then they will attend to the request,
Now I know there are hosts in not so shy category that do more than strip, but in an open session a host is only obligated to be nude. Yes she is obligated to do the masterbation, close up and fingering in the not so shy category if asked, but she is not obligated to do that fingering in an open session.
Now I know there are hosts in not so shy category that do more than strip, but in an open session a host is only obligated to be nude. Yes she is obligated to do the masterbation, close up and fingering in the not so shy category if asked, but she is not obligated to do that fingering in an open session.
RE: wondering about not so shy category
" but she is not obligated to do that fingering in an open session."
I disagree. She is obligated.to do just that in open session. If she for any reason is not comfortable with that, she should move to little shy.
I disagree. She is obligated.to do just that in open session. If she for any reason is not comfortable with that, she should move to little shy.
RE: wondering about not so shy category
Thank you Long time viewer...your comment has help me to decide that it is best I stay in little shy and to do those things there for those who do not demand it nor pressure for it....it is much more enjoyable and easier to do it without someone saying that you have to do it or else.
I did want to venture out more into the not so shy category, because I do enjoy the pleasure that comes with letting oneself go, but not when forced to do it with a lot of people watching and barking orders. I am glad that I asked because it seems that even tho staff of cc says to be in the not so shy category a host is obligated to do all the things listed, But the only obligation in and OPEN session is to be nude when asked..but what they say does not seem to matter when it comes to members...would be nice if they would say that when describing the category.
So I will stay in the little shy category and do my venturing there.
Thank you again to those that responded. Have a wonderful time here on cc..:)
I did want to venture out more into the not so shy category, because I do enjoy the pleasure that comes with letting oneself go, but not when forced to do it with a lot of people watching and barking orders. I am glad that I asked because it seems that even tho staff of cc says to be in the not so shy category a host is obligated to do all the things listed, But the only obligation in and OPEN session is to be nude when asked..but what they say does not seem to matter when it comes to members...would be nice if they would say that when describing the category.
So I will stay in the little shy category and do my venturing there.
Thank you again to those that responded. Have a wonderful time here on cc..:)
RE: wondering about not so shy category
You're welcome, glad I could be of some help. I've known a few girls that used to be in IA and or NSS and moved to Glamour or LS for some of the reasons you stated. This site gives many options to its' hosts.
The allure of softcore
I've seen many posts over the years about how much members love the girls in softcore categories and the games played. It seems there are many members that try to use a pvt with a softcore girl as a substitute for the real thing. That is to say that members equate videos with softcore hosts to encounters in the real world. The small talk, the games, the seduction and finally the payoff. I will admit I've done it a few times and had a lot of fun. I spent a lot of money, but mostly it was fun.
But like most, I too have my moods and many times prefer the fast hitting action in IA or better yet very hard hitting action seen only on a few other sites I also go to. But this is really the only site I've found that has the array of softcore hosts and does leave the outcome of the video to chance to some degree. It is very possible to "strike out". There are no guarantees in softcore. You are on your own. And there have been times when I've gambled and lost, especially in Glamour. It is the allure of the "forbidden fruit" or that men always want what they can't have.
Have a nice day.
But like most, I too have my moods and many times prefer the fast hitting action in IA or better yet very hard hitting action seen only on a few other sites I also go to. But this is really the only site I've found that has the array of softcore hosts and does leave the outcome of the video to chance to some degree. It is very possible to "strike out". There are no guarantees in softcore. You are on your own. And there have been times when I've gambled and lost, especially in Glamour. It is the allure of the "forbidden fruit" or that men always want what they can't have.
Have a nice day.
RE: The allure of softcore
I was simply complimenting softcore hosts and the site for their success. I know negative posts garner more attention. but I just wanted to do a positive one for a change. And since regular forum readers are used to negative posts, they simply did not recognize my positive post for what it was and left sarcastic replies.
RE: The allure of softcore
I rarely if ever go to Comm Chat. But I would bet you live there and never do paid videos.
RE: The allure of softcore
Well I for one appreciate ur post and i thank u...ur right usually this place is quick with negative ...so thank u for ur compliment...have a wonderful evening....:)
choir times
Three priests are out taking three choirboys fishing, when the boat starts to sink.
"We've got to save the boys!" screams the first priest.
"Fuck the boys!" roars the second.
The third looks nervously at the water flooding the boat and asks "Do you think we've got time for both?"
"We've got to save the boys!" screams the first priest.
"Fuck the boys!" roars the second.
The third looks nervously at the water flooding the boat and asks "Do you think we've got time for both?"
it's only a joke
"Have you done a sex video with your wife?" I said to my mate in the bar.
"Yeah of course!" he replied.
"Me too!" I said. "I've got an idea: when we get home, you send me yours, I'll send you mine, we can have a quick jerk off then delete them so no-one finds them, what do you say?"
"You're on!" he said excitedly as he rubbed his hands together and hurried home.
That was a week ago. I've not spoken to him since.
Maybe he felt a bit awkward watching me fucking his wife.
"Yeah of course!" he replied.
"Me too!" I said. "I've got an idea: when we get home, you send me yours, I'll send you mine, we can have a quick jerk off then delete them so no-one finds them, what do you say?"
"You're on!" he said excitedly as he rubbed his hands together and hurried home.
That was a week ago. I've not spoken to him since.
Maybe he felt a bit awkward watching me fucking his wife.
looking for young girls with sound
I have a fantasy that is a bit perverted that requires a younger girl to role play with me. If you are out there, send me a ccmail.
RE: looking for young girls with sound
there are new rules on cc. we cant cc mail to members if they never been in our video..
RE: looking for young girls with sound
Of course they can, it only takes replying to his post using their real screen names :)
RE: looking for young girls with sound
I did not know that about the mail, but, like erin said, if you reply with your real screen name, I will contact you.
RE: looking for young girls with sound
Hey, no sarcasm of any kind involved, simply meant whoever offers what he's looking for could respond to his post with their screen name, you replied to another host's message not his so I don't see how you thought I was being sarcastic
Take care x
Take care x
RE: looking for young girls with sound
as his post said to cc mail him...your response was not only a bit rude, sarcastic and uncalled for....seeing as the request was to mail him ....the point was only being made that to ccmail a member who has not been in your video is not possible and as many members no longer know this fact now they do...
RE: looking for young girls with sound
Wrong!, if he has your screen name he can mail you and you can reply. you do not have to go to someone's vid as long as the emember has sent you mail first
RE: looking for young girls with sound
the point is he asked that a host cc mail him....well a host can no longer mail a member if he has not been in her video...that is the point that was being made.
RE: looking for young girls with sound
I just want an answer to my question, not an argument between hosts. If you can do it, leave me your cc address, and we will talk
RE: Whatever happened to...?
so to the girls that still work here all the time ...this isnt a real job ?
RE: Whatever happened to...?
is the office job for 300-400$ per month? no, thx-I dont need it- too"real" for me..hehe
RE: Whatever happened to...?
as i know she married USA guy. so in usa salaries are kinda different as in russia or Ro :)
RE: Whatever happened to...?
Hmm, i worked as housekeeper in usa for 2 months via student programm work&travel, i worked 5 days a week, 5 hours a day max, and getting 1200 per month, all rest of time i was enjoying on the beach and going to clubs and shopping. Life in USA is pretty cheap, so yes for 1000$ you can do whatever you want, for a short time of course, you can't buy house for that )))
anyone remember
a host who used to use the names Gerardina or xNookiex? I visited this girl several years ago when she used those names, but lost track of her. Obviously, those names haven't been used in a long time, but it was likely that she changed names.
She was a very nice person and I'm just curious as to what became of her over the years.
Thank you in advance for any information.
She was a very nice person and I'm just curious as to what became of her over the years.
Thank you in advance for any information.
RE: anyone remember
yes, she is still around occasionally. If she wants u to know her current screen name, I am sure she will see your post and react accordingly. Good luck.
chathost connylive
absolutely stunning woman, but boy does she stall, she shouldnt be in a hardcore section in my opinion and certainly isnt worth $2 per min no matter how pretty she is. I beleive the word is prick tease and its reflected in her rating.
RE: chathost connylive
you are the customer, the john, the king. you are the boss. you decide here on CC...
if you think she is too expensive for you you just should not visit her. she will find her price. and her customers. they sell themselves however they want. it is a free market.
j
if you think she is too expensive for you you just should not visit her. she will find her price. and her customers. they sell themselves however they want. it is a free market.
j
RE: chathost connylive
Im talking about value not affordability, shes stunning but doesnt deliver the goods.
RE: chathost connylive
In hardcore it is more than tease...his point is well spoken and I don't think he was looking for sarcasm... Wonder if the hosts were the ones putting out the money what their attitudes would be if they just wasted a handful of cash on someone being deceptive?
RE: chathost connylive
I just checked her profile and she was live in not so shy. I only checked her profile, I did not talk to her.
RE: chathost connylive
You need to get your facts straight buddy, why would I complain about a chathost stalling in a softcore section. As another poster said sarchasm and flippancy isnt needed, more like constructive debate. As you seem incapable of that I will no longer contribute to this thread.
RE: chathost connylive
Aye aye sir.
One thing useful in a debate is posting in the right place and then reading all the posts. K, pal?
One thing useful in a debate is posting in the right place and then reading all the posts. K, pal?
RE: troll wife
Well-just ask her for discount-as for so may times you understood she's having a headache..lol.
RE: troll wife
damn, i didn't know i knew someone from facebook on here, and yes it was only a joke
RE: troll wife
i don't know but i wrote that exact joke on my status a few days before i saw this thread, maybe a mutual friend copied it or what i don't know but OMG we perverts are breeding!!! NOOOOOOOO!
RE: troll wife
well yea, i guessed you shortened it, because i typed it like this:
"a friend of mine got caught by his wife at a brothel,
"how can you be visiting this disgusting place? she screamed at him.... In a some feeble attempt at self defence he replied "I'm a man! it's been so long, i feel u don't want me anymore, i feel disconnected and i needed to feel desired!"
"Thats your fault..." she replied "you never told me you were willing to pay for it!!!"
lol
"a friend of mine got caught by his wife at a brothel,
"how can you be visiting this disgusting place? she screamed at him.... In a some feeble attempt at self defence he replied "I'm a man! it's been so long, i feel u don't want me anymore, i feel disconnected and i needed to feel desired!"
"Thats your fault..." she replied "you never told me you were willing to pay for it!!!"
lol
RE: troll wife
wait a second...... mommy, is that you?!!? lol
don't worry, no need to delete.... i'm not looking for another fb friend
and no im not romanian, and i don't think i know any!!!
scary how things get around to people i've never meet..... i think i should be alil more careful in future though
don't worry, no need to delete.... i'm not looking for another fb friend
and no im not romanian, and i don't think i know any!!!
scary how things get around to people i've never meet..... i think i should be alil more careful in future though
RE: troll wife
No disrespect to bootysupreme, but your version, eggars, makes sense. Booty went overboard in condensing it, evidently, and it lost coherent meaning. Thanks for filling in the missing details.
RE: troll wife
well, I kind of got it, but had to really try to fill in details. It was clearer in eggers' version, at least for me.
Interesting profile
I saw this interesting bit in a chat hosts profile:
"Unless you're outrageously rude,it's IMPUSSYBLE NOT to get me naked"
Seems like the lady loves to get naked and quickly.
Her name is BlakeLee
Interested to see if it is true
"Unless you're outrageously rude,it's IMPUSSYBLE NOT to get me naked"
Seems like the lady loves to get naked and quickly.
Her name is BlakeLee
Interested to see if it is true
RE: Interesting profile
Her whole profile looks perfect for all the guys who have been posting here saying a host should say clearly what she is willing to do in video.
RE: Interesting profile
she looks hot enough, and sometimes I like the girls in that catagory because you don't know for sure. Kind of like going to a new asian massage place. You hope, but you don't know. It is just a little more fun when you don't know for sure, at least until you pay
RE: anyone has knoledges in working in photoshop ?
You will need a pen tablet for that sort of drawing, if you do not have one,you're much better off using Adobe Illustrator instead of Photoshop, which means you'll be working with vectors to create shapes, then use Photoshop for coloring and other graphics.
After you're done drawing all of your frames and whatnot... how familiar are you with Adobe AfterEffects?
My personal software of choice for what you're after, would be 3ds Max though. Quite easy to use for 2D cartooning and such.
After you're done drawing all of your frames and whatnot... how familiar are you with Adobe AfterEffects?
My personal software of choice for what you're after, would be 3ds Max though. Quite easy to use for 2D cartooning and such.
RE: anyone has knoledges in working in photoshop ?
For someone just starting out, how well do you think experimenting with certain Free/Open Source options might work out?
For instance, are programs such as GIMP, Blender, and Synfig any more difficult to learn and use than their commercial equivalents?
For instance, are programs such as GIMP, Blender, and Synfig any more difficult to learn and use than their commercial equivalents?
RE: anyone has knoledges in working in photoshop ?
While I never used them, the basic principles are quite similar, I think the biggest difference between free open source software and license programs is mainly in the software coding and size, and the advantages of proprietary software are mostly technical, i.e. tech support, regular updates, very user friendly formats.
With that in mind, a beginner, someone who's just experimenting, can learn the basics of, say, 3D rendering in Blender, and switch to 3dsMax, Maya or something else later on. The learning difficulty of open source vs commercial is rather similar, and once you can harness one software, getting accustomed with others from its category becomes quite easy.
With that in mind, a beginner, someone who's just experimenting, can learn the basics of, say, 3D rendering in Blender, and switch to 3dsMax, Maya or something else later on. The learning difficulty of open source vs commercial is rather similar, and once you can harness one software, getting accustomed with others from its category becomes quite easy.
domestic violence
thank you for taking the time to reply to my threat below.
this is indeed a bad relationship but we are both at fault for letting it go that far. He is the perfect man , till he raises his hand at me. And neither of us know when to stop. I dearly love him and i know you all say i should get out as soon as i can but there is something that tells me we can still save this and fix it.
I know all the good times and the nice loving behaviour he shows don't compensate for when he loses his temper. He is very insecure due to me being up and down all the time , not making him feel wanted and sometimes loved . Both of us think we are not good enough for each other , that the other can do so much better and we are always weary and with me to be honest i find it difficult to open up and say everything i feel. He says it all the time but i find it difficult to believe it.
He has suggested on numerous occasions to go counceling together , to try work things out. He offers to go deal with his anger . Someone once said couples break up because they are easy to give up and not willing to work through their problems.
I worked here for a few months back when we started dating and in the end i told him and ever since he cannot let go of this , he cannot understand and accept it and this is when everything started going down hill.
I know you will all probably say i am trying to find excuses for him. I probably am .
Just thought some men around here have been through a similar situation and they over came it.
No one is proud to be hitting a woman and you never know what everyone is capable of.
this is indeed a bad relationship but we are both at fault for letting it go that far. He is the perfect man , till he raises his hand at me. And neither of us know when to stop. I dearly love him and i know you all say i should get out as soon as i can but there is something that tells me we can still save this and fix it.
I know all the good times and the nice loving behaviour he shows don't compensate for when he loses his temper. He is very insecure due to me being up and down all the time , not making him feel wanted and sometimes loved . Both of us think we are not good enough for each other , that the other can do so much better and we are always weary and with me to be honest i find it difficult to open up and say everything i feel. He says it all the time but i find it difficult to believe it.
He has suggested on numerous occasions to go counceling together , to try work things out. He offers to go deal with his anger . Someone once said couples break up because they are easy to give up and not willing to work through their problems.
I worked here for a few months back when we started dating and in the end i told him and ever since he cannot let go of this , he cannot understand and accept it and this is when everything started going down hill.
I know you will all probably say i am trying to find excuses for him. I probably am .
Just thought some men around here have been through a similar situation and they over came it.
No one is proud to be hitting a woman and you never know what everyone is capable of.
RE: domestic violence
Well if he suggests counseling then I think that is hopeful. In the end it is your life, and your decision; I for one do not believe someone out there has a plan for us, but that we create our own destiny. I wish you the best.
RE: domestic violence
Yeah, that struck me as a pretty fucked up way to describe a relationship also.
I think counseling, whether as a couple or individually, would be good for both.
I think counseling, whether as a couple or individually, would be good for both.
RE: domestic violence
There are so man good guys out there that WON'T hit you. Why stay with him because he MIGHT change and quit hitting you? Cut loose, the sooner, the better, and get over him. Maybe if he changes he can keep the next girl, but i've already lost respect for him and i'm aghast that you haven't
RE: domestic violence
I know why u say u love him..the edge that turns him into a woman beater makes him the man he is. However u run the risk of getting seriously hurt and if u have kids with this man he may hit them too. U need to take him to a counsellor for your own welfare. If he refuses help u have to consider the whole relationship. He may be looking for help or he may just be a violent man. Take care.
RE: domestic violence
as i said before, you both are in some ways addicted to that kind of violence. take your own therapy, and find out, why, and if you need it
RE: domestic violence
I use to be with abusers...seems i always use to pick abusers for some reason..at first they were nice and all was good ....but then they changed..they would do it once and then say sorry and that it would not happen again..but it did happen again..and they would say sorry each time..then they would say it was my fault ...and then i would think it was my fault...if only I had not done ......well it does not stop...no matter how much counseling no matter how much u try to fix it...they do not stop ...i have experienced all types of abuse...physical..emotional..mental...verbal...all of it..the abuser does not stop...i finally got the gutts to leave each time...then found one who did not hit me ....u can keep with ur abuser thinking he will change...but he wont...he might stop for a while...but it will happen again...
My dear host...i know u want it to work and change..but he will do it again...it is up to u if u will stay or not and if u will allow it...please do not allow it to happen again...but if u do stay and it does happen again...will u then say it is ur fault again...and how many times will u allow it?
to those who do not understand why we would stay..there are many reasons...we love the person and we do want to believe it will stop....and then after a bit we get scared ....we also think that we do not deserve any one better...we think that it is our fault....'No one knows exactly what they will do until they are in that situation...everyone will say they know what they will do.. but like any situation until u are actually in it...no u do not know ....
Good luck to you same host...please be very careful...and remember no matter what u say or do...it is not ur fault ....no many should hit a woman no matter what...he should have the balls to walk away and calm down then come back and talk..but never hit....
My dear host...i know u want it to work and change..but he will do it again...it is up to u if u will stay or not and if u will allow it...please do not allow it to happen again...but if u do stay and it does happen again...will u then say it is ur fault again...and how many times will u allow it?
to those who do not understand why we would stay..there are many reasons...we love the person and we do want to believe it will stop....and then after a bit we get scared ....we also think that we do not deserve any one better...we think that it is our fault....'No one knows exactly what they will do until they are in that situation...everyone will say they know what they will do.. but like any situation until u are actually in it...no u do not know ....
Good luck to you same host...please be very careful...and remember no matter what u say or do...it is not ur fault ....no many should hit a woman no matter what...he should have the balls to walk away and calm down then come back and talk..but never hit....
RE: domestic violence
While I am no professional and can only give my personal opinion I have to say that I find your posts a bit disturbing. It sounds to me like you are trying to find someone else to help justify both of your behaviors in this situation (his abuse and your making excuses for it) by saying that they "got better".
There is NO justification for abuse. Period.
If he truly cared and believed that his behavior was wrong he would not "offer" to get help. He would get it. I urge you to seek professional help with this before it gets even worse. I doubt a few random opinions posted on an internet forum will fully resolve this for you. I truly wish you the best of luck whatever you decide.
There is NO justification for abuse. Period.
If he truly cared and believed that his behavior was wrong he would not "offer" to get help. He would get it. I urge you to seek professional help with this before it gets even worse. I doubt a few random opinions posted on an internet forum will fully resolve this for you. I truly wish you the best of luck whatever you decide.
RE: domestic violence
It is NEVER your fault; stop saying that and stop letting him say that. NOTHING you can say or do makes you deserve to be physically abused. If he gets so angry with you that he can't stand you, he should leave, period.
You say he has a problem with you working here. Many men don't like their women to make more money than they do and hitting you is a way for him to assert his "superiority" over you.
Ask yourself if you really want a long term relationship and a family with such a man. Would you trust him around your children? If he can hit you while saying he loves you, what's to stop him from hitting them? And, of course, it would be THEIR fault for making noise or getting bad grades in school etc, etc.
I think you posted here because you need to hear someone tell you that he can change. The answer is, yes, he can. But I doubt he wants to, or he would seek help, not just talk about seeking help. And why should he make the effort to change, anyway? You're staying with him, finding him excuses and constantly apologizing for who you are and what you do.
Do you feel you deserve love and respect or abuse? There are plenty of men out there who will love and appreciate you (the real YOU, not a mask), but if you're staying in this relationship you will never meet them. Is it really worth it, for a man you've been dating for only a few months?
You say he has a problem with you working here. Many men don't like their women to make more money than they do and hitting you is a way for him to assert his "superiority" over you.
Ask yourself if you really want a long term relationship and a family with such a man. Would you trust him around your children? If he can hit you while saying he loves you, what's to stop him from hitting them? And, of course, it would be THEIR fault for making noise or getting bad grades in school etc, etc.
I think you posted here because you need to hear someone tell you that he can change. The answer is, yes, he can. But I doubt he wants to, or he would seek help, not just talk about seeking help. And why should he make the effort to change, anyway? You're staying with him, finding him excuses and constantly apologizing for who you are and what you do.
Do you feel you deserve love and respect or abuse? There are plenty of men out there who will love and appreciate you (the real YOU, not a mask), but if you're staying in this relationship you will never meet them. Is it really worth it, for a man you've been dating for only a few months?
RE: domestic violence
While calling him "THE PERFECT MAN", all other flaws (his as well as your entire relationship's) are canceled.
He is the perfect man for you, because you subconsciously feel you deserve such treatment. You only make claims of knowing how wrong it is, because consciously, you do agree to the negative feedback you receive. You were in fact hoping you will hear similar stories, with a happy ending. There is a good reason why you haven't, and you won't in the future.
He is not the only one who needs therapy, you do too, and the sooner you will make that step, the better.
He is the perfect man for you, because you subconsciously feel you deserve such treatment. You only make claims of knowing how wrong it is, because consciously, you do agree to the negative feedback you receive. You were in fact hoping you will hear similar stories, with a happy ending. There is a good reason why you haven't, and you won't in the future.
He is not the only one who needs therapy, you do too, and the sooner you will make that step, the better.
RE: domestic violence
It doesn't get better only worse with time....statistics don't lie. I didn't understand the cycle until I went to domestic abuse counseling and could see the profile that fit so perfectly to what I was dealing with. Your situation isn't unique at all regardless of the income bracket. I happened to be very well off and so was he. It wasn't until I went into hiding (the separation or abandonment is how he sees it and is the worst part and there is generally violence then) and spoke to his ex-girlfriend that I could understand it was never going to change. Most will never go to counseling but will promise it and the world if you give them another chance. The sooner you leave him (safely) the sooner you will be able to get over it and find a healthy relationship. As long as you stay...you are giving him the white flag to continue his behavior which is out of control. It doesn't matter how nice he is or what he promises or how much he loves you....most never change. I feel lucky that I am not one that lost my life like so many women do. Get professional counseling specifically about abusive men and you will learn a lot! I personally think they should have a caution sign imprinted on their foreheads because it takes a long time to see it's true colors....usually after you have fallin in love. They never consider themselves abusive and always hope that the right woman will stop it from happening again. Low self esteem and insecurity is a common trait. Good Luck!
RE: domestic violence
no it is not silly to hope that a person will change...there are aspects of a person that one can and do change...however an abuser...rarely changes, especially when he is forgiven, allowed to continue the abuse and excuses are made for why it is not the abuser's fault...to those who have not been abused it is not really fair to be so harsh to someone who is in that situation...
It is a known fact that none of us know exactly what we will do in any situation until we are in that person shoes...we can all guess and assume what we will do..but until we are actually in that situation we do not really know for certain what we will do..I use to say what I would do until I was in such a situation, then it was a whole new ball game until one day I told myself no more, but it was not an easy thing to do. So do not judge a person on what they do until you have walked in their shoes.
It is a known fact that none of us know exactly what we will do in any situation until we are in that person shoes...we can all guess and assume what we will do..but until we are actually in that situation we do not really know for certain what we will do..I use to say what I would do until I was in such a situation, then it was a whole new ball game until one day I told myself no more, but it was not an easy thing to do. So do not judge a person on what they do until you have walked in their shoes.
Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
Anyone have any good tips for Cheltenham? Only had one winner out of 4 today, looking for inspiration for next 3 days, or a couple of winners
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
National Hunt Steeple Chase - Harry The Viking or Alfie Spinner
Queen Mother Champion Chase - Finians Rainbow or Big Zeb (tho i'm sure the fav will be last years winner Sizing Europe who will also have a great chance)
Cheltenham Gold Cup - easy really Kauto Star for sure...possible place bet could be Synchronised
Grand Annual Chase - I'msingingtheblues or Oiseau De Nuit
good luck dude
Queen Mother Champion Chase - Finians Rainbow or Big Zeb (tho i'm sure the fav will be last years winner Sizing Europe who will also have a great chance)
Cheltenham Gold Cup - easy really Kauto Star for sure...possible place bet could be Synchronised
Grand Annual Chase - I'msingingtheblues or Oiseau De Nuit
good luck dude
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
what huh? the dude asked a question...i answered...how difficult is that to comprehend?
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
Thats almost £20k on a £10 accumulator, or more realistic up to £3500 on £11 yankee bet.
If these come in, I'm going to be able to afford a couple of minutes on here, cheers mate
If these come in, I'm going to be able to afford a couple of minutes on here, cheers mate
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
go for a lucky 15 or 31, and if enough maybe a 63 (cant remember howw many u need on that) hope it works out,let me know at the end of the week :)
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
i like horse too....tastes very nice...specially in a stew with potato
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
a cannibal is one who eats his own kind. you calling imshy a horse's ...?
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
you do know a stud is a male horse used for breeding purposes? LOL
and yes, you can eat horse meat. I've eaten it. Not knowingly, however, found out after I ate it what kind of meat it was
and yes, you can eat horse meat. I've eaten it. Not knowingly, however, found out after I ate it what kind of meat it was
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
Actually a male horse used for breeding is a "stallion". A "stud" is the breeding establishment. A "stud-horse" can also be used as a term for a stallion, but not "stud" in isolation.
RE: Tips for Cheltenham Festival?
most race horses have better lives then most humans on earth .
Vasectomies and March Madness
Just read this in the news: "Experts say the number of men getting vasectomies jumps by 50 percent this time of year and they admit it's all to enjoy the big NCAA Tournament games while they recover."
Seems like there would be less uncomfortable ways, cheaper ways, better excuses, to be able to watch basketball tourneys LOL
Seems like there would be less uncomfortable ways, cheaper ways, better excuses, to be able to watch basketball tourneys LOL
RE: joke)
does it mean, when a girl tells a man, "you are handsome", she does not want him, but she wants him to masturbate????? :):)
RE: just cuirious haha XD
I still try to accept as normal that some people yell/argue/speak at the camera about all kind of bullsh*ts , AND record them self AND make ,well....their personal opinions, public afterwards.
I do my best ,I really do...but no positive results yet....
I do my best ,I really do...but no positive results yet....
RE: just cuirious haha XD
Cause she makes bucket loads money doing that... she gets paid per hit.. she gets millions hits per video..
sometimes shes hilarious..others not so..
sometimes shes hilarious..others not so..