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STC's
In case you are not texting yet, the texting world has all sorts of abbreviations to keep your text messages short. These are new STC's ( Senior Texting Code ). I wonder which one's imshy will use the most?
· ATD : At The Doctor's
· BFF : Best Friend Farted
· BTW : Bring The Wheelchair
· BYOT : Bring Your Own Teeth
· CBM : Covered By Medicare
· CUATSC : See You At The Senior Center
· DWI : Driving While Incontinent
· FWB : Friend With Beta Blockers
· FWIW : Forgot Where I Was
· FMI : Found My Insulin
· FYI : Found Your Insulin
· GGPBL : Gotta Go, Pacemaker Battery Low!
· GHA : Got Heartburn Again
· HGBM : Had Good Bowel Movement
· IMHO : Is My Hearing-Aid On?
· LMDO : Laughing My Dentures Out
· LOL : Living On Lipitor
· LWO : Lawrence Welk's On
· OMMR : On My Massage Recliner
· OMSG : Oh My! Sorry, Gas.
· ROFL... CGU : Rolling On The Floor Laughing.... And Can't Get Up
· SGGP: Sorry, Gotta Go Poop
· TTYL : Talk To You Louder
· WAITT : Who Am I Talking To?
· WTFA : Wet The Furniture Again
· WTP : Where's The Prunes?
· WWNO : Walker Wheels Need Oil
· ATD : At The Doctor's
· BFF : Best Friend Farted
· BTW : Bring The Wheelchair
· BYOT : Bring Your Own Teeth
· CBM : Covered By Medicare
· CUATSC : See You At The Senior Center
· DWI : Driving While Incontinent
· FWB : Friend With Beta Blockers
· FWIW : Forgot Where I Was
· FMI : Found My Insulin
· FYI : Found Your Insulin
· GGPBL : Gotta Go, Pacemaker Battery Low!
· GHA : Got Heartburn Again
· HGBM : Had Good Bowel Movement
· IMHO : Is My Hearing-Aid On?
· LMDO : Laughing My Dentures Out
· LOL : Living On Lipitor
· LWO : Lawrence Welk's On
· OMMR : On My Massage Recliner
· OMSG : Oh My! Sorry, Gas.
· ROFL... CGU : Rolling On The Floor Laughing.... And Can't Get Up
· SGGP: Sorry, Gotta Go Poop
· TTYL : Talk To You Louder
· WAITT : Who Am I Talking To?
· WTFA : Wet The Furniture Again
· WTP : Where's The Prunes?
· WWNO : Walker Wheels Need Oil
Does this make sense?
A host who says she's a single mother of two, but wears a ring on the left hand & can't show me pics of kids. Also seems shy in video for someone I would think would need money badly
RE: Does this make sense?
I mean she says she has none on her pc to send to me or share with me on Yahoo
RE: Does this make sense?
Only an idiot would send pictures of his or her kids to some strange guy on a porn site. Get real dude.
RE: Does this make sense?
If she is crying that she is so poor and can not support her two kids...I don't blame him for his doubts...with some of the girls here they are hardly honest...sad to say but seems especially obvious in a few countries in particular. I think he is right on not to trust her!!!!
RE: Does this make sense?
U really think that a woman wanna show the pix of her KIDS to strangers she meets on a porn site? Are u for real? Get a life!
Too shy for someone who needs money? Jeez.......Its so sad to be u, really..
Too shy for someone who needs money? Jeez.......Its so sad to be u, really..
RE: Does this make sense?
The relationship is serious, or at least it was. I have another friend who I met on a site who sent me pics of her child & even had her on cam on Yahoo when she wasn't working. The point is this girl said she had no pics of her kids on her pc. That's what I asked. If she had said she had pics of them on her pc, then I would have asked to see them
RE: Does this make sense?
Saying "I dont have pix of my kids on my pc"-is just one of the "polite" ways to say "no, i dont wanna show u pix of my kids". What are u, 12? If one woman has no probs showing pictures of her children to men she meets here, doesnt mean all should be this way. I dont even show pictures of my boyfirend to few members that know that i have one, if u had kids, i would never show them to anyone on here, its too precious to connect it in any way with my virtual life.
RE: Does this make sense?
«Saying "I dont have pix of my kids on my pc"-is just one of the "polite" ways to say "no, i dont wanna show u pix of my kids"»
Hahaha i guess someone needs to get one of those fancy women language translators =))
Hahaha i guess someone needs to get one of those fancy women language translators =))
RE: Does this make sense?
I think he might be referring to you is why you are attacking him so bad. He said it was getting serious with her.....if she wants his money then she should prove her sad story. I think she could be a scam. Why wouldn't she hold up their toys or their clothes or something to prove their existence? Amazing how some hosts here huddle here to defend their dishonest ways.
RE: Does this make sense?
And just to throw another spanner in the works, unless there is something like writing in the video shot to use as a point of reference, you could be looking at either the left or right hand: webcams are often projecting a mirror image!
RE: Does this make sense?
does this mean all the hot sexy ladies here have no life outside cc :(
RE: Does this make sense?
@eastman: I never thought of that. But I think she has rings on her ring fingers of both hands. She did say it was okay for me to post on fb that we are in a relationship. I'm so confused
RE: Does this make sense?
One obvious question is is she definitely working from home not a studio. If she could be at a studio it makes sense that she does not have pics of her children on her computer. In any case it is easily understandable that she does not want to give you pics of her kids. Just because another host did this does not mean all should. People differ. If she wears a lot of rings then the fingers they are on may not be significant.
RE: Does this make sense?
So I'm just suppose to take the word of a chathost without proof? They love it when we do that. lol
RE: Does this make sense?
If she is in a relationship with him and telling all her personal life then it is his business.....it always ticks me off when I hear a host protect another one when it seems obvious that she is trying to be dishonest. He has all the right in the world to doubt her and he is best to not play her little games and find someone else. Think she is playing games and you do the same or you wouldn't be so supportive of her.......
RE: Does this make sense?
I agree that you should be leery of her if you are feeling it then it more than likely is the case. If it feels like a duck it is probably a duck.....Keep shopping and you'll probably save yourself a lot of heartache and money :)
RE: Does this make sense?
Your original post asked if it made sense that she wore a ring on her left hand and couldn't send you pics of her kids. Several people have posted replies saying how this does make sense. Why are you so obsessed with seeing the pics of her kids?
RE: Does this make sense?
I am divorced and i sometimes put a ring on my ring finger to hopefully keep some men away.....granted many men dont care if ur married and simply say who gonna know...loool...but it does help at times to have one on...
As for pics of kids and family...maybe she really does not have pics on the pc she is using...or maybe she just does not want to show them....as for the rule of cc to not show other people that is true....but does not hold for sending in a mail...
Sounds like u have much doubt about her....and that ur trust is not so concrete...
But i will say be careful...if u are having feelings that something is not right then go with ur gutt feeling...and take it slow....
Also look and think back on ur conversations and see if there are any inconsistancies...
Many on here both male and female....are not as honest as they may try to lead u to believe...
Good luck.....
As for pics of kids and family...maybe she really does not have pics on the pc she is using...or maybe she just does not want to show them....as for the rule of cc to not show other people that is true....but does not hold for sending in a mail...
Sounds like u have much doubt about her....and that ur trust is not so concrete...
But i will say be careful...if u are having feelings that something is not right then go with ur gutt feeling...and take it slow....
Also look and think back on ur conversations and see if there are any inconsistancies...
Many on here both male and female....are not as honest as they may try to lead u to believe...
Good luck.....
RE: Does this make sense?
Explanation for wearing ring on left ring finger: Plays with right hand & doesn't want to hurt herself. Umm then why not just not wear the rings while working?
Explanation for no pics of kids on pc: Doesn't want to use up memory. Umm. So why can't she store them on a disk if there are that many?
Explanation for two open chatrooms set to pvt all day on new years eve: A contest. umm what good does keeping them open do if you're away from the pc?
Explanation for no pics of kids on pc: Doesn't want to use up memory. Umm. So why can't she store them on a disk if there are that many?
Explanation for two open chatrooms set to pvt all day on new years eve: A contest. umm what good does keeping them open do if you're away from the pc?
RE: Does this make sense?
Why are your suggestions for the first two points any better than what she did?
RE: Does this make sense?
To "A Viewer": Because she could avoid the whole question of her marital status bt not wearing rings online & she could pop a photo disc into her pc to temporarily save a couple pics of her kids to her pc, long enough to show them to someone & prove they exist
RE: Does this make sense?
Why should she feel any need to put rings on in a particular way to avoid questions on her marital status? Also why should she have any obligation to prove her children exist to someone she meets on line? Maybe there is more behind your questions than you are saying here but at the moment you simply seem too demanding.
RE: Does this make sense?
then my dear i am sorry to say but....i think u just answered ur own question...
if i was given those reasons ...i would be suspicious too...
one is on two sites cos f contest...then o u dont stay away from pc unless it is to tinkle or get something to drink....
something does not add up .....
but to everyone else pls do not say that all hosts are this way ...or are deceiptful ...because that is unfair and not true...
take care Mr Yayho and go with ur gutt feeling....hugggggg
if i was given those reasons ...i would be suspicious too...
one is on two sites cos f contest...then o u dont stay away from pc unless it is to tinkle or get something to drink....
something does not add up .....
but to everyone else pls do not say that all hosts are this way ...or are deceiptful ...because that is unfair and not true...
take care Mr Yayho and go with ur gutt feeling....hugggggg
RE: Does this make sense?
Regarding your last point were the rooms on CC or another site? How do you know she was not at the PC. What you say makes less sense than what she told you.
RE: Does this make sense?
If i remember the beginning of this post was someone asking what he was experiencing with a host made sense..
think back gentleman of the times u realised u were being played for....and with what Yayho has described ....not it does not add up....
if a host is adding someone from here to her messanger and telling him that he can post on other places that they are in a relationship....then what he is being told does not make sense...and smells fishy...
if u gonna be on messanger with someone and let them post that ur in a relationship on a popular none sexual site that ur in a relationship....that has nothing to do with cc....and it is simply someone not being completely truthful,...
i wish u the best Mr Yayho
think back gentleman of the times u realised u were being played for....and with what Yayho has described ....not it does not add up....
if a host is adding someone from here to her messanger and telling him that he can post on other places that they are in a relationship....then what he is being told does not make sense...and smells fishy...
if u gonna be on messanger with someone and let them post that ur in a relationship on a popular none sexual site that ur in a relationship....that has nothing to do with cc....and it is simply someone not being completely truthful,...
i wish u the best Mr Yayho
RE: Does this make sense?
Thank you. I ended the relationship 2 days ago. Deleted her from Yahoo messenger & contacts and blocked her on Facebook
Advance notice
another site i belong to allows hosts to know when a member comes online, if that member has visited them before.. is it true here also?
RE: Advance notice
I know that site too and you can turn that feature off. Yes hosts know if you have visited them in pvt before.
RE: Advance notice
Hosts on CC cannot tell when a member who has visited them before logs on to CC.
RE: Advance notice
hi joe....
NO on this site a host will not know if u log on here....only way she will know is if u enter her text or her video....if u enter her video then it will show a host if u have been in that video before unless u have changed ur name....altho sometimes a repeat viewer will enter my video and it will say first time even tho it is not and even tho it is same name used before...
But NO...when u log on to this site a host will not know unless u tell her or enter her text or video....
Good luck...
NO on this site a host will not know if u log on here....only way she will know is if u enter her text or her video....if u enter her video then it will show a host if u have been in that video before unless u have changed ur name....altho sometimes a repeat viewer will enter my video and it will say first time even tho it is not and even tho it is same name used before...
But NO...when u log on to this site a host will not know unless u tell her or enter her text or video....
Good luck...
XBIZ Awards Nomination
We have been telling CamContacts for years that they are great... Looks like others agree... CamContacts is in the shortlist for "Live Cam Company of the Year" in the XBIZ Awards. Hopefully this means that we get Full Screen really soon - can´t blame a man for trying ;-). Good Luck CC
RE: XBIZ Awards Nomination
No a viewer who has marked a chathost with an alert gets a notice, but it does not work the other way round
help text chat video chat
I like to chat in text chat first before I enter a video chat I dont know if this is a bad thing or not. However I would like to know if a host goes in to a video chat and I am still in text chat can she still talk to me
RE: help text chat video chat
Yes she can, even if she is in 121. She can see what you type and she can type back to you, but the good ones will ignore you out of respect for the person who is paying.
RE: help text chat video chat
I try to limit myself to under a minute in free chat and almost always do, in most cases less than 30 seconds. I mainly go there to see if host is available for video. I do my best to be considerate and polite and ask most questions in open video. But even doing this does not ensure a polite reply from host. Last night I was called weird and stupid in 2 videos and was told I was fucked up by one host. To to be fair, most hosts are very pleasant. But there are definitely some rude hosts that need to go.
RE: help text chat video chat
Once a host enter video.....yes she can still type to u ....but if u type back to her she will not see it...she will only see that u r still in her text....but she will not be able to see what ur typing to her...but she can still type to u.....
Good luck
Good luck
a request
I'm looking for a host who can eat pistachio ice cream while wearing boots with high heels so thin they sink when worn in the snow. Anyone?
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
Get a dog and let it sleep on the bed, they will curl right up beside you.
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
I think that is a very good suggestion and they hear sounds and become very protective. It is a serious problem that you have that fear of sleeping alone prevents you from sleeping at night. Google it at least and find out about your condition and try to find solutions. Not sure how you figure here would have the answers to your problem??
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
Joe has been seeing a psychoanalyst for four years for treatment of the fear that he had monsters under his bed. It had been years since he had gotten a good night's sleep. Furthermore, his progress was very poor, and he knew it. So, one day he stops seeing the psychoanalyst . A few weeks later, Joe's former psychoanalyst meets his old client in the supermarket, and is surprised to find him looking well-rested, energetic, and cheerful. "Doc!" Joe says, "It's amazing! I'm cured!"
"That's great news!" the psychoanalyst says. "you seem to be doing much better. How?"
"I went to a pub the day we were supposed to have our regular session," Joe says enthusiastically, "and the bartender cured me in just ONE session!"
The psychoanalyst asks, "How did he cure you in one session?"
"Oh, easy," says Joe. "He told me to cut the legs off of my bed."
"That's great news!" the psychoanalyst says. "you seem to be doing much better. How?"
"I went to a pub the day we were supposed to have our regular session," Joe says enthusiastically, "and the bartender cured me in just ONE session!"
The psychoanalyst asks, "How did he cure you in one session?"
"Oh, easy," says Joe. "He told me to cut the legs off of my bed."
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
do you have bf ? Try to sleep with him. I expect you know how is it. :) Try to think at him, talk with him. I tried to talk with him and worked.
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
me too, i had a fight with my bf a good one who marked me and i marked him .....for few days and know we are togheter... i can't live without him and he too. I didn't sleep 3 nights.
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
leave your bf from other country , and make one in your country :)
RE: affraid of sleeping alone
try to sleep at daytime and work at nights...if you are host here it's possible to do
RE: СС promised some changes
HD Resolution will show more details, could be that viewers may lose their illusion of perfect beauty for some hosts ;)
RE: СС promised some changes
For sure bigger video window is requested often by members, but for hosts having clear high quality video is most important. It won't help you get more videos if your video quality is not so good because of cam, lighting or background. Bigger video window will only make bad video look worse.
I've seen a lot of girls who look like "models" not get as many videos as other girls who have personality or know how to "perform" and charm the $$$$ out of members pockets. So I wouldn't say those girls got videos only because their cameras or bigger video.
I've seen a lot of girls who look like "models" not get as many videos as other girls who have personality or know how to "perform" and charm the $$$$ out of members pockets. So I wouldn't say those girls got videos only because their cameras or bigger video.
RE: СС promised some changes
my webcam provide HD video, but it's useless here, as resolution of video very low anyway....thats why i asked about it.
RE: СС promised some changes
Your HD cam is not useless if you also have good lighting and background. You'll have clear sharp video for standard video of all cam sties.
I took another look at one site and yes they do support HD video, but even in small window you can see quality of cam for girls who had HD logo. However those sites also support larger windows and as I said in other place it make bad video look worse at 2x or larger.
I took another look at one site and yes they do support HD video, but even in small window you can see quality of cam for girls who had HD logo. However those sites also support larger windows and as I said in other place it make bad video look worse at 2x or larger.
RE: СС promised some changes
If you get really a good webcam lightining is not so important, even with small light quality is good enough...and btw soft light bring more intimacy. Background? I have nothing special, just wall and bed, viewers come look at me not at my background. :P
RE: СС promised some changes
Personally I haven't seen real "HD" video on other sites. I think it's only marketing hype. They usually just use the scaling functions of Adobe Flash video software to display regular 320x240 video in 2x or full screen views. Usually the bigger video isn't very clear.
I don't think sites want to spend more for higher internet fees to transmit higher resolution video. Another problem is what to do with chat windows when viewing full screen video. I guess it's no problem if you're using 2 way audio.
I don't think sites want to spend more for higher internet fees to transmit higher resolution video. Another problem is what to do with chat windows when viewing full screen video. I guess it's no problem if you're using 2 way audio.
RE: СС promised some changes
When someone refers to something happening "this year" they don't necessarily (or rarely) mean with immediate effect from 1st January. I guess you just need to be a little patient. Though it would be nice if CC would contribute to this thread to advise what and when.
RE: СС promised some changes
then again, they have an entire year, minus three days to implement any changes :D
RE: СС promised some changes
What are you hoping for? You sound so disappointed and yet this site is great as it is.....
RE: СС promised some changes
Yes, but it's probably also reason why prices are usually lower here. If there was free preview the min price would probably be $3 because CC would have to cover cost of internet bandwidth used in preview.
RE: СС promised some changes
No would be $1.99 and there are very few on here lower than $1.99 anymore
RE: СС promised some changes
Usually In Glamour, Littleshy Not Shy and fetish categories most hosts are still less than 1.99. Only in Dungeon and IA (plus the multihost categories) are the majority 1.99 or higher,
RE: СС promised some changes
You are wrong about Glamour, it is the highest priced category on site
RE: СС promised some changes
At the moment there are 83 hosts on line in Glamour. 59 od them are less than 1.99 for open video. That is about 71pct.
RE: СС promised some changes
And none do show in open and not many do even in 121 at double or triple the price
RE: СС promised some changes
You really need to check your facts. Hosts cannot charge triple their open price for 121. For most hosts in Glamour the 121 price is 50pct or less above their open price. The ones whose 121 price is double their open price are generally those whose open price is $1.00 or less.
RE: Just read the viewer forum
Thats why it is really great we now have this other viewer forum where only real viewers can enter, with invitation
RE: Just read the viewer forum
Why would you be hurt if many say a video playback session is too expensive? The market is driven by offer and demand, you can't just decide on the offer and hope demand will follow.
In my opinion price for a recorded should be definitely lower than open session, maybe half, as there is no interaction and no guarantee the show is worth it.
In my opinion price for a recorded should be definitely lower than open session, maybe half, as there is no interaction and no guarantee the show is worth it.
RE: Just read the viewer forum
because my dear, no one except the woman i love is worth $5 in pre recorded and i don't need to pay her if i just wish to see her.
RE: Just read the viewer forum
it has to be one hell of a playback for 5 bucks a min.....loool ...considering so many in Glamour and shy say they not do anything in open sessions ....lool
Glamour.....not everyone will pay that for a playback unless it is one heck of a video...but it is not fair nor is it reasonable to expect everyone to like u and be willing to pay 5 bucks for a playback....
if u are new on here then u better get prepared to hear some people say they not think what they saw is worth what they paid.,..
unless u are posting this as a way to get people to come to ur playback just to see what the big deal is about...and if that is the case then smart thinking....then it might work if some of ur attitude was not so cold...
some will find imcinderalla's playback worth it ...but there are those that wont...just like some think i am expensive and some don't ....and i am no where near charging 5 bucks a min for anything....lool....
the only person i would say is worth $5 bucks a min in a playback is the one i love who is worth a heck of a lot more than 5 bucks..loool..
good luck my dear and to all hosts and members on here....:)
Glamour.....not everyone will pay that for a playback unless it is one heck of a video...but it is not fair nor is it reasonable to expect everyone to like u and be willing to pay 5 bucks for a playback....
if u are new on here then u better get prepared to hear some people say they not think what they saw is worth what they paid.,..
unless u are posting this as a way to get people to come to ur playback just to see what the big deal is about...and if that is the case then smart thinking....then it might work if some of ur attitude was not so cold...
some will find imcinderalla's playback worth it ...but there are those that wont...just like some think i am expensive and some don't ....and i am no where near charging 5 bucks a min for anything....lool....
the only person i would say is worth $5 bucks a min in a playback is the one i love who is worth a heck of a lot more than 5 bucks..loool..
good luck my dear and to all hosts and members on here....:)
RE: What is Love ?
lol :)) that was funny... but really ....can someone tell me what is love ?
RE: What is Love ?
Theres a great video to this song, with Jimm Carrey and 2 other dudes))) Looooooooooooooove it:D
RE: What is Love ?
OMG "2 other dudes"!! How on earth cud i forget that there is Will Ferrel there?? My Willy boy!))
RE: What is Love ?
Monikababe..... as in the host monikababe.
Wow!
i'll have to come and say hello next time your on :D :D
Wow!
i'll have to come and say hello next time your on :D :D
RE: What is Love ?
Hes awsome! Check his video "The Landlord":) There is his lil baby daughter Pearl too, shes adorable:) And "Greenteam")) Those are my favourites:)
RE: What is Love ?
You would probably love the video he does making fun of Neil Diamond. It is hilarious!! There is one where he portrays Neil in a mock VH1 Storytellers special and makes him out to be a hard partying rock star, living a life of debauchery. And there is another where he is recording a song with an actress playing Christina Aguilera. It's not on youtube, but some obscure site. You really must do yourself a favor and check it out.
RE: What is Love ?
Here is Wikipedia's short definition of love ....
Love is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.[1] In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. In religious context, love is not just a virtue, but the basis for all being ("God is love"[2]), and the foundation for all divine law (Golden Rule).
The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" can also refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros (cf. Greek words for love), to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship,[3] to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. [4] This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.
As is often said, if you dont yet know what love is then you have not experienced it yet and you will only know what it is when you finally find it.
This is probably very little help but its my offer. Good luck with your search. :-)
Love is the emotion of strong affection and personal attachment.[1] In philosophical context, love is a virtue representing all of human kindness, compassion, and affection. In religious context, love is not just a virtue, but the basis for all being ("God is love"[2]), and the foundation for all divine law (Golden Rule).
The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure ("I loved that meal") to intense interpersonal attraction ("I love my partner"). "Love" can also refer specifically to the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love, to the sexual love of eros (cf. Greek words for love), to the emotional closeness of familial love, or to the platonic love that defines friendship,[3] to the profound oneness or devotion of religious love. [4] This diversity of uses and meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.
Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.
As is often said, if you dont yet know what love is then you have not experienced it yet and you will only know what it is when you finally find it.
This is probably very little help but its my offer. Good luck with your search. :-)
RE: What is Love ?
Another definition that I personally like:
"Dr. Sternberg (a psychologist who studied love) put forth an article speaking of the different aspects of love. In short, there are three vital components that make up true love (or consummate love). These components are Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. The intimacy portion of love is that of friends; You enjoy spending time together, and have grown rather close strictly within the realms of "personality attraction." The passion aspect can attribute to many relationship losses. Although physical attraction is necessary in a relationship, this feeling does not need to be acted upon without full fulfillment of the intimacy aspect. If you rush head-first into passion without considering the needs of a very close friend, somebody is going to end up hurt. The final, and equally important, aspect is that of Commitment. There are two forms of commitment, short-term and long-term. Short-term commitment is the thought of simply saying "I am willing to love this person" this may not involve a necessary long term commitment, but it is the initial choice that one makes before entering the relationship. The long-term aspect (and the one we're discussing) is the choice to remain with said person for an extended portion of time. When all three aspects are fulfilled, consummate love is attained."
"Dr. Sternberg (a psychologist who studied love) put forth an article speaking of the different aspects of love. In short, there are three vital components that make up true love (or consummate love). These components are Intimacy, Passion, and Commitment. The intimacy portion of love is that of friends; You enjoy spending time together, and have grown rather close strictly within the realms of "personality attraction." The passion aspect can attribute to many relationship losses. Although physical attraction is necessary in a relationship, this feeling does not need to be acted upon without full fulfillment of the intimacy aspect. If you rush head-first into passion without considering the needs of a very close friend, somebody is going to end up hurt. The final, and equally important, aspect is that of Commitment. There are two forms of commitment, short-term and long-term. Short-term commitment is the thought of simply saying "I am willing to love this person" this may not involve a necessary long term commitment, but it is the initial choice that one makes before entering the relationship. The long-term aspect (and the one we're discussing) is the choice to remain with said person for an extended portion of time. When all three aspects are fulfilled, consummate love is attained."
RE: What is Love ?
That was so very interesting....thank you for that info. What about those that have no concept of intimacy, commitment or passion?
RE: What is Love ?
I see what you mean, that idea crossed my mind as well.
I would look at other people who seem to understand or have experienced that and listen how they talk their experience. Also watching pieces of art may be helpful...
Doing seemingly crazy things that would help you to look at it in a new way. And look closer at the people that you didn't think are your type... who knows...
And make yourself lovable:)
I would look at other people who seem to understand or have experienced that and listen how they talk their experience. Also watching pieces of art may be helpful...
Doing seemingly crazy things that would help you to look at it in a new way. And look closer at the people that you didn't think are your type... who knows...
And make yourself lovable:)
RE: What is Love ?
I think love is learning to put your special persons needs and desires
on an equal level with your own. And always to think about her/his heart and soul... and to always stand up for them, and speak well of them. Fight for them if you love them) Being comfortable with them even when thay get in your face. Commitment. Trust.
these are not simple things to achieve)))
on an equal level with your own. And always to think about her/his heart and soul... and to always stand up for them, and speak well of them. Fight for them if you love them) Being comfortable with them even when thay get in your face. Commitment. Trust.
these are not simple things to achieve)))
RE: What is Love ?
I believe it is a relationship that is very connected and both feel the same is what can create love between them. On the other hand must know what it feels to love a family member, a pet, a friend?? If you can say yes to that question and you are asking what is love then perhaps you are incapable of feeling it? Seems like an odd question without any further explanation than that.
host likes to marry a member -)
have seen lots of topics on here about relationships between members and hosts. now feel so lonely and asked myself if i would marry member :)
cute, not too old,not too poor (lol), seeking for a wife and ready to take care about his wife. not pervert, not slave or sub.
so.. guys.. would u marry a host?! :)) no jokes, i'm serious :)
cute, not too old,not too poor (lol), seeking for a wife and ready to take care about his wife. not pervert, not slave or sub.
so.. guys.. would u marry a host?! :)) no jokes, i'm serious :)
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
yes, i m cute not old , with money, but you must do what i want :)
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Well i know a host here i certainly would marry if i ever got the chance:p
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I married an ex-member here. He is just the one you have described. The problem is that I really learned who he is when we started to live together in his country. And I tried hard to improve the language, to make his friends like me, earn money (here) etc. And neglected my own likes and didn't pay much attention to the people important for me. And in return he proved to be too unyielding in some points, imprortant for me. To the point that I want to run off and start to regret that I didn't choose an older and perhaps richer guy with whom we seemed to "click" but who seemed to be was a bit more explicit in his sexual wishes:)
Not sure how it all will end. I cannot leave all and return to my home country, cannot meet a member from here since I am not single and it is hard to be independent in a foreign country.
Not sure how it all will end. I cannot leave all and return to my home country, cannot meet a member from here since I am not single and it is hard to be independent in a foreign country.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
tnx very much for ur reply ;) i live in western europe so prefer member / husband from Europe but US why not.
just want to meet a real good guy to live together and bild smth serious...
just want to meet a real good guy to live together and bild smth serious...
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I am also in Western Europe now. It is really not too hard to find a well-established man here. In Western Europe people cannot fall to hard because they get supported by the state subsidies and that's why many seem to be too relaxed and don't attempt to achieve much.
It is hard to find a really good man of course because even the best of people change over years...and there is little you can do about that.
But it is worth trying- good luck!
It is hard to find a really good man of course because even the best of people change over years...and there is little you can do about that.
But it is worth trying- good luck!
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
euh maybe coz of my job but i dont know how to find a well-established man on here -))) so would like to find a good guy member :))
tnx 4 u and Happy New Year! -)
tnx 4 u and Happy New Year! -)
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
here there are good people and bad ones as in every other part of the world......but nothing is impossible try to discover the character of a person although not always easy :))
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
You expressed the fears i had, when i decided not to pursue a host i knew that really liked me and i really liked her (many invitations to meet, not on my money etc.) I always thought there would be doubts on both sides, and then there's that whole lingering CC thing hanging over our heads. Would have been worth the try maybe, but I know od too many failures from here. Good luck!
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
oh I don't freak out about the CC thing and problems all the time. I watch my marriage and the international problems as a new enhancing experience.
Maybe I can get rid of it in my head because I was not too young when I became a "showgirl" and I already had had life wisdom behind me. In addition, I met my husband in the very first week of my being on CC so it was all fresh, fun, innocent and exciting:) All relationships slow down at times...so I wouldn't blame CC in all sins.
I wish you good luck as well !
Maybe I can get rid of it in my head because I was not too young when I became a "showgirl" and I already had had life wisdom behind me. In addition, I met my husband in the very first week of my being on CC so it was all fresh, fun, innocent and exciting:) All relationships slow down at times...so I wouldn't blame CC in all sins.
I wish you good luck as well !
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I am good looking charming have good job
and what about you? are you good looking charming?
and what about you? are you good looking charming?
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
i'm adult girl already, live in western europe but originaly asian. cute, not tall, not fat ;) what is ur member's nickname? will send u private message :)) lol
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
are u serious? u cant be that desperate. im sure u can find someone outside of this fantasy world on ur own. granted there are some halfway decent guys here (like myself :P) who are worth meeting, but for most of these members ur just going to be a notch on their bedpost.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I suggest you find a dating site in your area rather than look world wide. Wouldn't that make much more sense or are you looking for someone to beam you up and save you?
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
i would marry a host from here and i have been building to this for awhile now with a host, if nothing happens this year then i will end it.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Of hundreds of hosts I spoke to here and more or less go to know...there were only a handful I would consider dating...dating usually is a good idea before marrying....I work in a university where hundreds of foreign women go to school and frankly I like them better than most American women. They have a different outlook on life...more traditional in many ways without being subservient...healthy about sex....smart, funny, loving and most importantly....dedicated to their families. Plus some can cook
That being said...it is a long expensive road to go from CC host to girlfriend (in real life), to fiancee, to bride..... So you must have deep pockets and love beyond wanted to bang the host 24/7....take it from me...as nice as that sounds it gets old and you get tired after a few months.....
That being said...it is a long expensive road to go from CC host to girlfriend (in real life), to fiancee, to bride..... So you must have deep pockets and love beyond wanted to bang the host 24/7....take it from me...as nice as that sounds it gets old and you get tired after a few months.....
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Maybe, and yes i would, but i remember this....
In reality people like you for who your are, not what you have!
(thats the true bit) so if it cost you money to met a girl, develop something with someone then that's not much to substantiate a relationship upon.
Especially long term.
If you want equality in a life then it's the wrong way to go.
For a guy who pays for it then he normally feels he should be getting something back for that.
So you will nearly always be a 'toy' of some type to him / her.
It's like taking a girl to a really expensive restaurant for a first date, you "set the bar" for the rest of the relationship and what is expected of you.
Like putting an open tap onto your wallet....
Most real girls would prefer a trip to Macdonald's a Big Mac, and 2 hours of laughing so much they nearly pee'd their pants...
Tis the second reality, if you chose to go to the internet to find someone then surely that points out quite loudly that if the member has been unsuccessful in their attempts to find someone in real life then surely there is a reason why?? ;)
Perhaps that they have such issues that have been said in other replies... lol :p
In reality people like you for who your are, not what you have!
(thats the true bit) so if it cost you money to met a girl, develop something with someone then that's not much to substantiate a relationship upon.
Especially long term.
If you want equality in a life then it's the wrong way to go.
For a guy who pays for it then he normally feels he should be getting something back for that.
So you will nearly always be a 'toy' of some type to him / her.
It's like taking a girl to a really expensive restaurant for a first date, you "set the bar" for the rest of the relationship and what is expected of you.
Like putting an open tap onto your wallet....
Most real girls would prefer a trip to Macdonald's a Big Mac, and 2 hours of laughing so much they nearly pee'd their pants...
Tis the second reality, if you chose to go to the internet to find someone then surely that points out quite loudly that if the member has been unsuccessful in their attempts to find someone in real life then surely there is a reason why?? ;)
Perhaps that they have such issues that have been said in other replies... lol :p
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I understand you well. And share your opinion in some points. There are definitely some lazy men here, gamblers, liers or men having "issues", or overestimating their material and mental potential to start a relationship with a host.
But I think that there are some men who work too hard to be able to find a girl in a usual way. Or maybe they work in a purely male team... or maybe they work as a doctor, lawyer, teacher- and their moral standards don't allow them to start dating their collegues, clients, students... You never know:)
Happy New Year!
But I think that there are some men who work too hard to be able to find a girl in a usual way. Or maybe they work in a purely male team... or maybe they work as a doctor, lawyer, teacher- and their moral standards don't allow them to start dating their collegues, clients, students... You never know:)
Happy New Year!
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I don't believe you cause It's about money money money!!! :((
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
what? you don't believe me that different kind of men come to see girls?
You know, I don't believe many myself because I cannot check it.
You know, I don't believe many myself because I cannot check it.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Burgerking?? :D
ok, was just an example... try to take my words lightly :) (never serious:p)
ok, was just an example... try to take my words lightly :) (never serious:p)
Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
I don't know if a host and member could marry and REALLY be happy. Maybe I'm being a bit too sour today because I've known the disappointments that come from falling for a host, but look at the replies here. Hosts will talk about wanting to find happiness -- yet far too often the first qualification they want in a man is his bank account. And then he must be good looking...and this and that...and finally love gets mentioned somewhere down the line. Which always cracks me up. Hosts will say they want to be taken care of... and I realize that's important in life...but then they say they don't want to be with a pervy guy or ordered around sexually. Well, sorry, ladies -- but if all you care about is a guy's wallet, then he should have every right to buy the prettiest girl in exchange, who is willing to sexually serve him at his will. At that point, it's just a business transaction between two adults.
And if that sounds offensive to you, then it goes back to my point -- STOP talking about money so much. You should be talking about LOVE first, to show you're interested in being with a man FOR WHO HE IS -- the same way he should care about you. Last time I checked, the marriage vows say "For better or for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part" -- which means you're supposed to be uniting REGARDLESS of money and because your hearts pulled you together. THAT should always be Reason #1 for marrying someone.
And if that sounds offensive to you, then it goes back to my point -- STOP talking about money so much. You should be talking about LOVE first, to show you're interested in being with a man FOR WHO HE IS -- the same way he should care about you. Last time I checked, the marriage vows say "For better or for worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part" -- which means you're supposed to be uniting REGARDLESS of money and because your hearts pulled you together. THAT should always be Reason #1 for marrying someone.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Well, hang on a minute... Lets just give em a chance...
Girls / Hosts... Define money or wealth.
If their talking about shopping spree's daily, holidays monthly, the fast - hollywood lifestyle then ok... Gold digger!
But, if what their talking about is security then maybe you have to let them have this one.
Ultimately to provide for the 'One you love' , to look after them, keep them safe and warm etc is surely just basic instinct for a man.
No girl wants to head out into the wilderness with little to hope for and nothing to hold on to.
Surely providing her with 4 solid walls and a good roof over her head, along with some of the basic qualities in life is something that is a no-brainer really.
So exactly what they as individuals define as a guy who "Has money" is really down to them to explain.... :)
Girls / Hosts... Define money or wealth.
If their talking about shopping spree's daily, holidays monthly, the fast - hollywood lifestyle then ok... Gold digger!
But, if what their talking about is security then maybe you have to let them have this one.
Ultimately to provide for the 'One you love' , to look after them, keep them safe and warm etc is surely just basic instinct for a man.
No girl wants to head out into the wilderness with little to hope for and nothing to hold on to.
Surely providing her with 4 solid walls and a good roof over her head, along with some of the basic qualities in life is something that is a no-brainer really.
So exactly what they as individuals define as a guy who "Has money" is really down to them to explain.... :)
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
You are talking from a very narrow, and parochial cultural perspective. For instance, and many other equally compelling arguments could be cited, your views are repudiated by the majority of Indian marriages, where the decisive initial factor is not one of "love" - and the marriages are none the worse because of it.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
i agree with u RC. looking at some of these hosts responses, it makes me think even more that financial security is a priority to many people here.
i'm curious if the roles were reversed. what if a member wants to marry a host who happens to make a good living here because he doesnt want to have to depend on himself to be financially secure? sure there's love, but if i could marry someone who can work at home and make a good living supporting me then why should i have to be the bread winner?
i think what most of the members are trying to say here is that love and the mutual desire to want to share lives together should be the reason to have a "relationship" here. unless someone wants to be a sugar daddy (or sugar mamma), leave the money thing out of it.
i'm curious if the roles were reversed. what if a member wants to marry a host who happens to make a good living here because he doesnt want to have to depend on himself to be financially secure? sure there's love, but if i could marry someone who can work at home and make a good living supporting me then why should i have to be the bread winner?
i think what most of the members are trying to say here is that love and the mutual desire to want to share lives together should be the reason to have a "relationship" here. unless someone wants to be a sugar daddy (or sugar mamma), leave the money thing out of it.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
It is good working here when you are young and single and want some adventure. But work as a host to support a healthy guy?! That requires impossible compromises with your conscience.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
my point exactly. now u can see how some members feel when hosts feel its ok to meet someone for financial security.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
I would agree with you if it was about meeting a man from my country where there are no additional costs involved. And by the way I would not meet a man from my country who knows I am a chathost.
If it is about an international relationship- a lot of expenses are involved. + host run the risk meeting a man who knows how she earned her money.
If you are not absolutely naive- many hosts would be shy when meeting a guy that saw her naked or almost naked. We mostly play a role of a self-sufficient girl who has no problems getting naked. Only a few have an additional well-paid job.
And the guy who meets a host is sitting comfortably in his country with his job, friends and expect the host to do anything because of the "true love"?
If it is about an international relationship- a lot of expenses are involved. + host run the risk meeting a man who knows how she earned her money.
If you are not absolutely naive- many hosts would be shy when meeting a guy that saw her naked or almost naked. We mostly play a role of a self-sufficient girl who has no problems getting naked. Only a few have an additional well-paid job.
And the guy who meets a host is sitting comfortably in his country with his job, friends and expect the host to do anything because of the "true love"?
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
I think he's just making an example. Why don't you direct that comment to some of these other hosts?
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Well Daddy do your looks and beauty compare with any of the hosts here? Maybe you want it all....beautiful woman, she supports you and takes care of the house, shopping, children and you just enjoy...haha you live with your head in a cloud. I doubt you have a dime, good looks or good manners or else you would truly appreciate a beautiful, good woman that would meet all your needs in a loving caring way......go to a dating site and find your equal :)
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
you must really be sad to try to argue with me on this one. i'm pretty confident in my looks and i dont need to start bragging about it like some of you hosts need to. obviously if these posts affect you to the point that you have to start insulting members then you must be someone these members are referring to.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
I think your perspective is rather warped and you truly don't appreciate a beautiful woman and what she brings (if she is also a very good and caring woman) to a mans life. I laugh at your response that insinuated...how dare I argue with your comments....lol. I was no more insulting than you were with yours.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
holy crap! get off your high horse missy! you are the kind of host these members are talking about. regardless of looks, if there is a mutual attraction between two people (even if one of them is less attractive than the other) there shouldn't have to be any settling, whether its money, sex, or whatever. it's gonna be a sad day when reality hits you.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
hehe...most men still want beautiful, stunning woman nearby, but don't want to pay for it...nice! so in that case you get someone who looks like you...not very attractive maybe but without finansial problems :P
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
So typical male.....they can't find a beautiful woman in real that would tolerate their lack of manners, inability to be sensual with a woman and expects her to meet all his desires and give up her job here because he wouldn't want to share her.......lol.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
And she should just accept you as you are which I am sure is much less than a knight on a white horse....lol.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
>> "And she should just accept you as you are...lol"
Why are you scoffing at that? Isn't that what love is supposed to be? Accepting someone for who they are? Maybe you are only interested in the money.
Why are you scoffing at that? Isn't that what love is supposed to be? Accepting someone for who they are? Maybe you are only interested in the money.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Look at the list you provided. You said "Consider all the things a host has to offer as opposed to an average girl/woman you meet at a dating site. She is more than likely above average looks, very nice figure, and you can more than likely know her sexual/sensual side." So you're admitting that the #1 selling point for a host is her looks, and a man needs to be wealthy to "earn" a woman like yourself. Apparently because you believe you're "worth" more than the "average" girl. That means you are trading your looks for money and you're not basing the relationship on love...which was Reality Check's whole point.
I think he's right. Whenever this topic comes up, too many hosts say they want a good man. But when naming the qualities they seek, money usually tops the list and gets mentioned before love which is very revealing.
I think he's right. Whenever this topic comes up, too many hosts say they want a good man. But when naming the qualities they seek, money usually tops the list and gets mentioned before love which is very revealing.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Reality Check's comments have been discredited elsewhere in the thread.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
I don't think he's been discredited. It's the same old argument we always see here. Hosts will say money is important in a relationship to know they will be taken care of. Guys will say a relationship should not be built on money. This argument is pointless because money will always be #1 to a host. The idea of paying for love and attention is how they make a living. So basing their real lives on the same idea seems perfectly logical to them.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Money is not important to the guys that are accusing the hosts of this thinking....lol. Hell yes or the guys wouldn't be making it appear like the girls are just looking for money.....give it up.
RE: Can a host and guest REALLY be in love?
Yes a host and guest can really be in love....the heart can not and does not decide to love because of what a person does for a living or a persons race or anything else....other than how u feel about a person....
However, it is difficult to know if it is true love or not...I have fallen in love on here before only to find out that the male was saying the same things to other hosts....
So yes it is possible for a host and guest to really be in love...but to find out if it is true love or not....then see how the relationship goes when u not spending ur money in her video....if it is true love then she will not expect u to be spending money in her video and she will want to have contact with you away from this site without u having to pay .....
Good luck
However, it is difficult to know if it is true love or not...I have fallen in love on here before only to find out that the male was saying the same things to other hosts....
So yes it is possible for a host and guest to really be in love...but to find out if it is true love or not....then see how the relationship goes when u not spending ur money in her video....if it is true love then she will not expect u to be spending money in her video and she will want to have contact with you away from this site without u having to pay .....
Good luck
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Bargirls and models thats a nono to marry or be serious with but now i been dating a model anyway a few month
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
No I will not marry you. I am a total stud muffin. Brad Pitt takes notes from me. I have a dick too big to be measured. I have a gazillion dollars. I've banged every super model on the planet. I own the Hall of Fame of Stud Muffins. Yet I remain modest. I think I'll marry my horse.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Well, he may be up to 50 y.o., moderately fat but smart... and sex at least every week!
P.S. how often can one expect sex from such a guy? Is it still hard down there? Anyone experienced?
P.S. how often can one expect sex from such a guy? Is it still hard down there? Anyone experienced?
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
I'm 50, not fat, and sex how many times a week? It depends on how many women. Just like an old bull, he can have sex all day, but not with the same cow. So for me, same woman sex 2 times a week. New woman, sex 3 times in one day.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
lol
Thank you for sharing.:)
Hm if my man banged other cows...his horns would grow as well:)
I very much like the 2 times a week schedule then:) If these are 2 times of quality sex.
Thank you for sharing.:)
Hm if my man banged other cows...his horns would grow as well:)
I very much like the 2 times a week schedule then:) If these are 2 times of quality sex.
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
LO VE, you would be a new woman, and I bet a very sexy one! so we would start at 3 times a day. After a month or two, maybe it would be only 2X a week! lol
RE: host likes to marry a member -)
Thank you for your prospect. I will keep you in mind when starting to search for a guy:)
I am just trying to figure out how that "friendship stage" before sex might work...
I am just trying to figure out how that "friendship stage" before sex might work...
RE: Day for asking free video
Lets try a little integrity test. I believe there are also rules that hosts shouldn't themselves offer videos elsewhere, for payment through different channels, or simply just asking for money to be sent. Are you just as eager that all members should report the hosts in these circumstances too, or are you selective in what rules should be followed?
RE: Day for asking free video
if asking for free vid is against the rules..then why does cc have free session option....give me a break...if a host wants to give a guy a free vid and he ask....cc will not do anything...your just tired of guys asking....get used to it "glamour"
RE: Day for asking free video
i think ur over thinking the rule. for instance, most members have hosts in their yahoos for no other than to talk
oh damn we're all subject to being banned
oh damn we're all subject to being banned
RE: Day for asking free video
lmao-this is a joke right-give us all a break glamour and quit complaining
RE: Day for asking free video
actually she's right about part of it. there are members that do nothing but sit in host's free chat looking for freebies.
RE: Day for asking free video
LMAO to-suck up warchant-whats wrong with asking for a free show every now and then-it beats just sitting around and doing no videos at all
RE: Day for asking free video
where did you get the idea i dont vid? as usual the children of the forums just make it up............lol
RE: Day for asking free video
actually i kind of what of wan to know this..............who is it i supposedly suck up to..........kind of escapes me
oh i get it , i dont suck up to you whoever you are
oh i get it , i dont suck up to you whoever you are
RE: Day for asking free video
i dont spend time in girl's free chat, nor have i ever asked for a free vid little man............as usual the children in the forums have no clue, the just make it up
RE: Day for asking free video
damn...i missed asking for free vids on the 1st and 2nd....im losing my touch....well....better late than never...can i have a free vid? :D
RE: Day for asking free video
I see free loaders on every site and off site. I think all free loaders should be shot on site. They are just taking up space. They are all Liberals who think they are entitled to sit on their ass and let the rest of us work and pay for their lazy asses.
RE: Day for asking free video
well im not a "liberal" and i dont sit on my ass all day....quite the opposite...i try to stand as much as possible coz i have a really great ass :)
RE: Day for asking free video
Agree with you paying member! All that free loaders should be blocked from site.
If you don't spend money here, you shouldnt get a membership and wanking at hosts photos and waste host's time for nothing. I think they are all losers without penny in pocket.
If you don't spend money here, you shouldnt get a membership and wanking at hosts photos and waste host's time for nothing. I think they are all losers without penny in pocket.
RE: Day for asking free video
ur right i dont have a penny in my pocket :( i have euro's and cents....shame on me :(
RE: Day for asking free video
you have no money and have no even friends to chat with if you are here every day...sorry for you really
RE: Day for asking free video
wow so now u know all about my life? thats just super cool....can u tell me other things that i dont know about me? pretty pretty please!!!!
RE: Day for asking free video
Then just ignore them but don't let them effect your attitude towards good members that want to get to know you before video. A bad attitude can hurt you worse than the losers.
RE: Day for asking free video
That is crap....cc will not punish a viewer nor a host for asking for free video...
cc will punish if host mentions other site in ur text or video..they will punish if they know host is asking for payment away from cc...it is called detouring traffic....
a member can ask for free video and can mention going to messanger...which happens to just about all hosts on here
if the member is trying to get u to work on another site that is different...then yes that is against the rules and should be reported.... as cc might punish the host as it says in the rules a host must report anyone who is trying to get u to work on another place...
I get members that ask for free video often and i also get them asking me to add them to messanger and to send pics and such...and i simply say no thank u...
If a viewer is trying to get u to work on another site then yes u r suppose to report them....but not if they asking for free vid
just like hosts can be reported if they break rules...rules are there for a reason and there are both members and hosts that break these rules and nothing happens to them..i for one do all i can to not break the rules of cc...
Good luck
cc will punish if host mentions other site in ur text or video..they will punish if they know host is asking for payment away from cc...it is called detouring traffic....
a member can ask for free video and can mention going to messanger...which happens to just about all hosts on here
if the member is trying to get u to work on another site that is different...then yes that is against the rules and should be reported.... as cc might punish the host as it says in the rules a host must report anyone who is trying to get u to work on another place...
I get members that ask for free video often and i also get them asking me to add them to messanger and to send pics and such...and i simply say no thank u...
If a viewer is trying to get u to work on another site then yes u r suppose to report them....but not if they asking for free vid
just like hosts can be reported if they break rules...rules are there for a reason and there are both members and hosts that break these rules and nothing happens to them..i for one do all i can to not break the rules of cc...
Good luck
Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
I can't believe it we in a new year here at cc and I don't see a post about what is your new years resolutions. Well I will start it with mine.
1. Eat Less
2. Make more money
3. Exercise more
4. Only have sex 2 times a month
1. Eat Less
2. Make more money
3. Exercise more
4. Only have sex 2 times a month
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
maybe he needs more time for #3, or maybe he's spending way too much to have sex, and it's his way to do #2
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
1. To be more serious this year
2. Start my own business
3. Travel more
4. .....and give more until it hurts
Happy 2011 Year you all-stay cool, keep on smiling and love your neighbors and to the fine folks at cc-thanks for a good 2010 year.
2. Start my own business
3. Travel more
4. .....and give more until it hurts
Happy 2011 Year you all-stay cool, keep on smiling and love your neighbors and to the fine folks at cc-thanks for a good 2010 year.
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
mine would to put some more weight on, love my wife more, don't drink as much beer this year
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
I'm going to spend more time with my friend wife, my wife is a host here and she doesn't care so there-Happy New Year
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
1. Be as funny as INYF
2. Double the size of my dick from 1 to 2 inches
3. Cut my weight in half from 1200 pounds to 600 pounds
4. Raise my IQ from 2 to 4
5. Be more shy than imshy
6. To stop making resolutions
2. Double the size of my dick from 1 to 2 inches
3. Cut my weight in half from 1200 pounds to 600 pounds
4. Raise my IQ from 2 to 4
5. Be more shy than imshy
6. To stop making resolutions
RE: Wow Not A Topic About Resolutions
yes one was to quit smoking...
I lasted from the time i feel asleep to the time i woke up....i guess i shouldnt have bought that extra pack of smokes the day before...loooool.....
I lasted from the time i feel asleep to the time i woke up....i guess i shouldnt have bought that extra pack of smokes the day before...loooool.....
My anal gf
It took me almost 3 years to convince this glamour host to do anal. Is this typical?
RE: My anal gf
Did it take that long for you ton convince your bf to bend over and take it up the Hershey Highway?
RE: My anal gf
No, actually I think you are very lucky because this Glam Host wouldn't consider it if it was 20 years of pleading and suggesting. In fact you certainly wouldn't have been around after asking 4-5 times ;)
What a lucky guy if that is your thing.....
What a lucky guy if that is your thing.....
RE: My anal gf
Not all females do anal....
Actually if females only knew what will happen to them when they get older from doing anal ...i dont think they would do it....just like if men knew what will happen later in life to the female from doing anal ...there will be more men that will not ask for anal if they care about the female....
Actually if females only knew what will happen to them when they get older from doing anal ...i dont think they would do it....just like if men knew what will happen later in life to the female from doing anal ...there will be more men that will not ask for anal if they care about the female....
if the Guys.
it seems they interested in that Girl, giving nice expression to her & get intimated. after all, he tried to make fun of her, in front of many people. and throw something to her, (like on her head), or doing plaing the flying jet/helicopter controle with the remote controle, make the plain get crashed into her, is that really he mean to her? or just for fun?
RE: if the Guys.
He may be immature and doing those things is the only way he knows how to get the girl's attention. Like very little boys pulling the hair of the girls they liked at school.
However he could also just be being mean. I suppose it depends on how big the helicopter was that he tried to land on her head.
However he could also just be being mean. I suppose it depends on how big the helicopter was that he tried to land on her head.
RE: if the Guys.
thanks for the answer, ya, he done to me also tickling, which one I'm really bad at, like torture, was really hard to bear, the helicopter wasn't big, like dragonfly, but mostly it was weird that he says something badly, which one I really cant understand
RE: if the Guys.
Strange and immature behaviour. Get him alone away from his friends and with a firm grip on his scrotum ask him to treat you with a little more respect or go back to being a little scared kid in his 'gang'.
RE: if the Guys.
No helicopters will impress her and not even a big cosmic love or a new model railway. I think I it is about the marriage- that's the problem of your desperate behavior. Or maybe you fly in your sleep which means you are growing. Besides you definitely need to free your mind.
RE: if the Guys.
oh, I've got it thanks. but I cant still forget it, the words he said to me and the heavy tickiling torture to me. anyway I've got his facebook. but don't care. bcs I've got it, he's nothing in his job at all. lol
Who is the best service host??
Who is the best host here? if you visit her, she\'s most same like her currently pic/main hanging pic on her profiel. and what you expected. and what is fit with her price.<br />
Who is the best host is giving the service, the exactly that you find, & visiting regulary often. there might some criteria though,<br />
<br />
what if, if you follow the displayed things which I\'ve mentioned over there.
Who is the best host is giving the service, the exactly that you find, & visiting regulary often. there might some criteria though,<br />
<br />
what if, if you follow the displayed things which I\'ve mentioned over there.
Hosts; what annoys you most about viewers?
OK I know you all like to say the politically correct thing and say all members are wonderful, but come now, no one will tell if you tell us how you really feel.
RE: Hosts; what annoys you most about viewers?
yes ! im with you ! i think its the best reply. each host here will say the same ..
RE: Hosts; what annoys you most about viewers?
Annoying tell what u will do in video? Why would a guy waste time visit lousy prvts. There a few hundred girls here cants testdrive all
Glamour/Little Shy host; Is this site what you thought it was when you joined?
And has your opinion changed since then?
RE: Glamour/Little Shy host; Is this site what you thought it was when you joined?
No sir, not really, just think cc can eliminate this category
RE: Glamour/Little Shy host; Is this site what you thought it was when you joined?
Think the original poster wrote and answered his own question...LOL
Yes I think it has totally lived up to my expectations of what I choose to do online and my guests seem to totally enjoy as well!! CC is the best and I love the Glam Category!!
So what is your beef??
Yes I think it has totally lived up to my expectations of what I choose to do online and my guests seem to totally enjoy as well!! CC is the best and I love the Glam Category!!
So what is your beef??
RE: Glamour/Little Shy host; Is this site what you thought it was when you joined?
I got news for you I'm not the original poster (LOL)
Happy New Year ...cc !
to all cc-team, cc-members and cc-hosts, let.s be positive and move forward to a better future ! Cheers everybody , Happy 2011 !
RE: Happy New Year ...cc !
Boys and Girls, welcome in 2011 !
Cam Contacts for us is heaven :)
Wish you with sincerity,
Health, love and prosperity!
Now lets party for new years eve,
Later come on Cc and never leave :p
XOX
Cam Contacts for us is heaven :)
Wish you with sincerity,
Health, love and prosperity!
Now lets party for new years eve,
Later come on Cc and never leave :p
XOX
worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010?
Just another stupid poll.
For me any topic that has to do with meeting a host. A close second would be any topic about why glamour hosts don't strip. Come to think of it this topic is pretty annoying too. Hope it makes the list.
For me any topic that has to do with meeting a host. A close second would be any topic about why glamour hosts don't strip. Come to think of it this topic is pretty annoying too. Hope it makes the list.
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010?
You're annoying Nestor. Just kidding. The meeting hosts thing has been going on since 2000. The Glamour thing since Glamour started, before that it was little shy. Well you know if assholes could fly this place would be an airport.
And the most annoying people are these shitbirds that post they are such stud muffins they get even non adult girls to rip their clothes off as soon as they enter open video. And they also have had sex with every host they have chosen for real. Again since they have movie star good looks and a 14 inch dick. And of course we all know these fat losers couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a handful of pardons. And oh lets not forget the "white knights" who come to the rescue when in reality 100% of this fair white girls only wants a Big Black Cock because they know all of the "white knight" have small pencil dicks and the sexual attraction of a wet fart.
But hell we need these losers to keep us all entertained.
And the most annoying people are these shitbirds that post they are such stud muffins they get even non adult girls to rip their clothes off as soon as they enter open video. And they also have had sex with every host they have chosen for real. Again since they have movie star good looks and a 14 inch dick. And of course we all know these fat losers couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a handful of pardons. And oh lets not forget the "white knights" who come to the rescue when in reality 100% of this fair white girls only wants a Big Black Cock because they know all of the "white knight" have small pencil dicks and the sexual attraction of a wet fart.
But hell we need these losers to keep us all entertained.
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010?
hmm-sounds like you are one of us Chester the Molester-Happy New Year and welcome to the cc club
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010?
I'm hearin ya loud and clear Chester! Keep it real dude!
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010?
The "Glamour Topics" are No1 of all, so tired of everyday coming up the same questions about it.
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RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010? + a question to CC
I totally agree. For me the best example of members complaints resulting in a "fix" to something that wasn't really broken was the introduction of 121.
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010? + a question to CC
I doubt that glamour will be removed. Obviously many hosts and members like it and it also enables softcore hosts to have two sessions open at the same time.
RE: worst or most annoying forum topic of 2010? + a question to CC
I agree,if anything they may add yest another softcore category. Like maybe Not So Shy But No Nude.
another annoying question for hosts
My experience here is that some hosts also get jealous when their regular members see other hosts. Just out of curiosity, is it because they have actually become emotionally attached to their viewers or is it due to financial reasons?
RE: another annoying question for hosts
If I was guessing, I would say both, but I'm not going to guess anymore and don't care, I'm here to have fun-thanks.
Glamour/non nude hosts; what kind of site did you think this was when you signed up?
And has your opinion changed since you became a host here?