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closer to 30 ;)

helen's birthday is tomorrow 1st dec and she is 24 yo :)

opppppssss i mean she will be 25 today and HAPPY BIRTHDAY helen wish you all the best kiss

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Well Sad Host, Sorry to see that you are feeling sad about Christmas coming up and that you for the post. From what I can see in your post your feeling a little down.

Try to keep faith that you will find someone to make you happy and take care of you. I am sure that you will find this special person!

Cheers,

Johnny

so why dont u listen your own advices???? Yeah , i know, u sad, but do something abt. it , cos if u dont , noone will for u, noone will save u from that life, if u dont do it ...

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sorry that your life has not turned out how you wanted.
I have a girl on here and hard as i try she cannot see beyond tomorrow and the next pay cheque, there are more important things in life like marriage and family.

If I were you I would visit my family for holidays, and make more time for myself. Working on CC cant be named a carrier but money are made easily so you better enjoy life more, go out, play hobbies, create opportunities to meet the ONE, or at least try it. I saw many movies about VIPs crying for a regular life and poor people dreaming to be famous..why dont we learn more from other's "mistakes"? Being in between wont kill us. Make a list with what you REALLY want from life and try to do everything for those. Good luck and start thinking positive. Thanks for reminding us the time is passing by too fast and we need to enjoy every little thing in it.

dont b depresssed:)ur love time is not come yet,but must b it is very closer to ur door ;) and maybe after christmas it will come2 u ,so u need2 wait patiently..dont b also disapointed in guys,many are very good ;)and dont forget that if u want to find somebody u need to look for.not sit near the pc all the time.(if u dont want virtual love only ofcouse;)) 25 its still very younge and u have time to find and even chouse the one which u will like.try not to kiss with guys as long as possiblt :P maybe its will keep u happy longer?;) christmas is sa great time and not need to asseciate it with stuff that u r alone.ur parents and friends still love u,and the stuff that u r not rich and popular its not so important realy,there r more important things in life...:) The good things happends with thoes who can wait... all will b good with u soon,if u will go move positive wave :)xxx

maybe what you want is not advice, but a personal contact that might be new and interesting?

maybe a bad idea but i put my real ID here for you to contact me sad host. i know why you dont want to put your ID and really i don't either. but i won't know who you are without it.

i feel something of what you feel. the one i thought really cared for me did not, and dismissed me as nothing. i don't say it for pity, only to show i feel similar.

i have many friends in this city, but family far away, and no gf at this holiday time.

what do you say we make a date for christmas only. no promises, just something to look forward to?

If you are from Bucharest you can e-mail me,im not a handsome charming guy, but i can be your company around the holidays if you wish.Atleast to go out, to decorate a Christmas tree and to join my friends & family for the traditional dinner and stuff.Or maybe to go somewhere in the mountains if you enjoy the winter sports and the spicy warm wine :).
Anyways...no matter what...think about the positive sides...you are an independent woman,with a nice look,you seem a sensitive and nice person aswell and who knows how many other qualities you have...cant mention more aslong as i don't know you.
Just raise your head and throw the negative thoughts at the bin, when your eyes wont look in the ground anymore you will notice there is a path forward, follow it and enjoy every small and simple thing that can make you smile.
Cheers,
Alex

your a very nice person with a big heart (and boobs) Alex

Thank you...your compliments just made my other big asset wriggle with joy on the couch :)

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Yes i remember you, we will talk about this, I like the ideea :).

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Bebe am i invited too?))))

Always :D,wish you could do it and my cousin too i bet, he is missing you :P

Awww say hi to him)))) I miss this funny buddy too))))) Both of u((( Wish i cud make it but not this year for sure((((

Anybody still have doubts why Alex is the most cherished girl on this site?

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Thank you :)

can u help me with pine tree too? :D

Well, pine tree or fir , i would help you with pleasure...doesnt really matter...we can decorate even a wild bush...who cares aslong as we have the good spirit and let's not forget the wine :P

ok, i will send u ticket tomorrw ,or we can rent carpet-plane, :P, u prefer red dry wine?i need2 get ready :D

I understand how you feel, but remember also that this season is also about appreciating the blessings in your own life, and perhaps how you might share those with others. You are healthy, beautiful, and intelligent; you have much to share.

This season can be difficult also for those of us who have lost loved ones, no matter how long ago. But recognizing this pain and having compassion for yourself can help you to open your heart to others. And I think opening your heart is the way to heal emotional pain.

Just get over it geez. Some people in here.

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Try a more traditional dating site if you're going to stay around as an 'online' person ... keep on with CC as your money earner but I think it's a chance in a thousand to find a genuine guy who you will like 'in real life' here - and will trust in the future. This site is a secret fantasy playground for most guys.

Sorry to hear you are depressed but you are young and have many many good years ahead of you never rush into anything. Holidays both make us sad and also happy , try to dwell on the good things you have in life , your health , you do have a family that loves you they are just not close to you and obvious friends from here thinking of you. If you wanna chat through emails by all means dont be shy im always a good shoulder to lean on.

Tony

Sorry to hear that you are feeling sad. This can be a difficult time of year as depression, loneliness, financial burdens, family conflicts, feelings of loss, feelings of failure, and alcohol abuse may intensify. I'm not qualified to offer advice to you here but I can tell you that you are not the only one who feels that way.

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And me who always hope that Santa Claus will bring me a perfect woman in a box in front of my Christmas tree .... that i dont have ...... pfff
Dare to give your name, dont be ashamed , and i m sure u will have a tons of friends :)

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lol I may need to try this and then visit my 10 favourite hosts on cc to see if it works :P

Wait did I say 10 favourite hosts. Oops what am I saying I only have 1 favourite and she knows who she is. (Not mentioning her name will make the 100's of hosts I have told that too think it is them :D)

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well, a favorite host, and a favorite list of hosts are two different things. for me, the favorite list is for those hosts I want to visit again, some regularly. A favorite host is the host I like far above others and will probably visit more than anyone else.

No I do only have one favourite. Although my favourite does change quite a lot to whichever host happens to be getting naked for me at that particular moment :P

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mmmmm sexy stuff, tell me pls what you bought from here zz :)

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mm cool, i like it :)

there is no translator for english???

google toolbar translates pages

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I would add... do any of these sites accept orders from USA and then will ship them to the host in romania?

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love this song to pp---hope she will make a lot of money from this one-good singer

i think she will--tata--powerful voice and has that style to go along with the music--also good dancer

I love her music--thanks for sharing

oh bummer :(

Looks like terrorism... Huge bummer. :-(

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Death toll is now at 39. Idiot terrorists are probably responsible. :(

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Well i hope they find out who it i was , i know as of today noone had claimed responsibility.

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Well it could have been a blond guy too! :D

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umm ....good?? ... Are you blonde by any chance? :p

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Then again I act like a blonde sometimes.

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Happy Thanksgiving Day to all who celebrates it))) I soooooo love turkey steaks, i think thats my fav meat ever))) Shame that its not popular in Russia lol))

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What the heck is a turkey steak? Never heard of that one. Just had a beautiful barbecued turkey today and while carving it didn't see anything resembling a steak. Where is it? White meat or dark?

I only ate it in Croatia...Keep looking for it since then lol but doesnt seem to be popular elsewhere))) As far as i remember its brown, i think its coocked on grill, oh hell knows))) But it looks like a steak))) With that wonderful green spocy butter on top))) Mmmmmm)) Tatses like paradise)))

hmmm. that does sound good. I'm playing golf tomorrow and wild turkeys roam some of our golf courses here in California so maybe I should put a shotgun in my golf bag. Unless maybe you want to come along and we can try to catch one with our hands. Are you fast? Can you imitate a female turkey's call?

an escalope,

I am assuming that it is, what we in the UK call, a turkey escalope. A thin piece of skinless breast meat.

Monika is right. They are delicious when done in breadcrumbs.

What i ate wasnt thin...It was a good piece of meat)) Just like steak))) Oh man, where can i find it now...)) Memories woke up my appetite)))

Thin maybe wasn't the right word to use, as in the UK they can be up to 2cm thick. So thin when compared to the whole breast.

I think you had an Ostrich Steak , I have been eating for over 40 years and never seen a turkey steak but i have seen an ostrich steak , i recommend an egg for breakfast :))

No it was turkey cmon! If u never ate it, doesnt mean it doesnt exsist;) I can give u the addy of that restorant in Croatia, where i tasted it;)

And btw put "turkey steak" on Googe and ull find many links of the cooking sites, there u can see how to cook it and that they actually exsist))))))

It's Ostrich Steak not Turkey Steak, LMAO!!!

U really think i dont know what i ate?

if it was big and thick...probably not...lol

Geeez people lol... i dunno about the rest of the world, but turkey "steaks" are somewhat popular in south europe. The same goes for chicken "steaks", for that matter. I'm just not sure about the brown colour Monika mentions, as they're originally white. That should have been due to the way it was cooked though.

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Well said, Jewel! You have the real Thanksgiving day spirit!
Thought I might mention that it was originally started by Pilgrims (not catholics) who had just come to America in the early 1600's. The original meal is supposed to have been shared with Native Americans. Anyway, whatever the reason or occasion or religion it always seems like a good idea to be thankful.

Happy holiday to all and give thx - we usually have all we need and can handle but dont see it; enjoy life - muahaaa

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im thankful to god about im alive and my famaly too and all r healthy.we must to b thankfull for this..not for material stuff..seems a nice holiday.i want turkey

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Lol...I am back from visiting family. Happy Thanksgiving!

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Okay this thread is getting old, its over already, can we go on now. Geez, people take things too far.

Can we drop this thread? It's gotten old real fast. I'm kind of tired of it already.

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New studio-different ID, decided to try working from home...different ID, hosts change IDs to get fresh market position...rebranding, some had problems in the past or got a new look and want to make it appear brand new..sometimes they change category...non to adult or adult to non and want a new ID to match the new behavior....plus a woman is a woman and can do anything she likes with no reason whatsover..but the first ones I mentioned are most likely.

lol...I like the "woman is a woman and don't need a reason" thing most :-P

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Well, you kind of mentioned this .... but surely Rating has something to do with it.

I mean, if I had a 5* rating, no way I would change my Nick, but if I had a 2* rating I would do it asap, no?

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Dunno, me and all my hosts friends were playing Casablankas puzzle.

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AbovexBeyond...for sure

Most popular puzzle is how to pay credit card bill in 10 days time :)

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I will

I wonder.. a host asking for advise?.. In general hosts are self satisfied. To succeed as host you have to forget your scientific behavior.

It's quiet because the members are saving their money to afford Christmas presents for their wives.

presents for their wifes..damn and i ve thought that every vieuw here is single..they all told me that..lol

And you still believe all what is said on this site ??? Hosts make lies about their private life... why members can't do the same ???

Funny, all the hosts I've met are supposedly single, as well. How 'bout that?

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girls work here, they are afraid to telling u whole truth! :((

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the 4 Ps of CC... Price, Performance, Personality and Presence. If the price is right, if you give a good show, have you are friendly and sexy and if you look good...face, body, clothing, cam, lighting, background, noise, etc. ....you will be successful. Follow those in order and you will do great.

The same from Glam Cats :-) !

from my experience you can see 2 girls pretending to like each other, and do some not particularly realistic pretend pussy licking

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Almost always a disaapointment because the girls are not truly lesbian or even bi but friends. Lots of attempted scamming in this category so spell out specifically what you expect to see and have them do before your video. Certainly you will catch a pair that are hot and into it but always ask so you are not disappointed.

I've never even heard of such an apparatus, much less a host who has one. Just ask a host to stuff her bra with socks instead.

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All depends on the type of visa...immigrant (green card) versus non-immigrant (tourist or student). A tourist visa shouldn't be difficult to get. Check the US Embassy website for information as to how....I know there is a fee involved as well. A student visa will require an arrangement between the student and a university, so will require some work ahead of time.
Immigrant visas are getting more and more difficult to get, mainly because of the debate regarding the illegal immigrant problem we have in the US. The poor economy isn't helping matters. There is a diversity lottery held every year (which closes at the end of this month for the 2011 lottery)...but only use the official state department website for this and not one of the brokers.

I've heard that it's not easy for young Russian women to get tourist VISAs because many stayed in US after their VISA expired. If she's married, has good job or traveling with family then it's not so hard.

yes because USA sick and tired about several girls from any different countries who came to USA looking for married with guy then stay him for top up to 1 between 2 years then she run away from him! Never come back with same guy :( she been used with USA guys for money not in love! shame on her !!! I hope someday USA will deport her back to her country! this is cruel!!! I rather to see couple is happy together forever but not look for money money money!! why they want money for what?? greedy!!!!! snob!!!!!!! Be careful guys keep your money in safety! and make sure to sign contract "pre-nup" mean promise in contract like bla bla.

sure

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The majority of hosts who come to the US do so on a summer work student visa. I knew at least a dozen hosts who were able to participate in this program through their universities. Other than that tourist visas can be tricky. You must go to the embassy and pay a fee and prove you will return to russia. You own real estate, have a thriving business, have a home and children..bascially a compelling reason to return and not stay in the US. So...young girls with no assets other than physical and nothing to really keep them in Russia have a much harder time. DO NOT mention she has a possible bf or admirer in the US ..that kills it immediately. There is a fiance visa process for romance and that is very difficult and takes forever. Strict tourism. I want to see the Statue of Libery, the Golden Gate Bridge and the Washington Monument (not a members monument). They also must have a return airline ticket naturally.

Hint: If she makes it here and you are in love....have her apply for a student visa at a junior college. She must pass the TOEFL and have a decent mastery of english. Then she can come for two years as a student. You will have to pay the tuition and you will miraculously provide the apartment. Within those two years while she is in the US legally as a student...you get married and apply for permanent residency and a green card. Easiet way to get a girl into the US. Costs some money but you have two years as she studies to determine if she is really for you. Good luck.

japanese are no problem to enter??

Japanese are randomly blocked, just like certain hosts do here

ooohh..

yes, like yuki block everyone too!

not the uk, uk is safe :)

Don't abuse me on this forum, too

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well axb is number one., aND NOBODY CAN B EVEN CLOSER TO HER FROM OTHERS BLONDS..EVEN if some r trying hard to copy her... she will stay the best:)

A&B is a brunette

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There are many gorgeous blondes on CC (actually gorgeous women of all hair color).

I agree that ABX has a very distinct, sculpted statuesque look however I really prefer Chaneldoll's look.

It seems to be much more natural. In pictures she has a true model's sense of style and can look cute, sensuous, classy at different times.

ABX is always stunning but I think the versatility and range that Chaneldoll shows in pictures gives her the edge as to being the best blonde (and maybe best photographic model) on CC.

axb is natural too.only tits are fake..but look in her eyes.,.they cant b fake anyhow.all her sharm in her eyes..she is tall.and kind one... im not into chanel doll,at first i dont liker short girls,at second chanel seems more fake inside.,,if axb is outside..,chanell just average looking pretty girl.only good pics.,but on cam shes nothing spesial..but axb..mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm. i will say chanell is pretty girl.but axb georgeous..and btw why to discuss chanel...shes is not number 1 host.. axb i love uuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu..wish u were bi.. :P

I beg to differ, but to many Chaneldoll is a "number 1 host" as you say ....I also believe your premise was about photgraphs and the best blonde here.

I also differ with you, older pictures show that there are more than breasts that have been manipulated. I don't mean that as an insult, it is each woman's prerogative to enhance their beauty as they see fit.

I find it interesting you take offense to people saying Chanelldoll is "on par" with AXB just because "you dont liker short girls" I personally dont like fake breasts or people morphing into what others believe is perfect. But that is only my opinion and I respect that AXB is a beautiful woman and respect your opinion.

I also think its very tacky to take a shot at a hosts being "fake inside". Especially since few members (or hosts) know the REAL people involved.

As I stated, IMO the artistry and style of Chaneldoll's pictures and the variety of her looks for a photographer (not just cam aficionado) makes her look more like a model not just cam performer.

I beg to differ, but to many Chaneldoll is a "number 1 host" as you say ....I also believe your premise was about photgraphs and the best blonde here.

I also differ with you, older pictures show that there are more than breasts that have been manipulated. I don't mean that as an insult, it is each woman's prerogative to enhance their beauty as they see fit.

I find it interesting you take offense to people saying Chanelldoll is "on par" with AXB just because "you dont liker short girls" I personally dont like fake breasts or people morphing into what others believe is perfect. But that is only my opinion and I respect that AXB is a beautiful woman and respect your opinion.

I also think its very tacky to take a shot at a hosts being "fake inside". Especially since few members (or hosts) know the REAL people involved.

As I stated, IMO the artistry and style of Chaneldoll's pictures and the variety of her looks for a photographer (not just cam aficionado) makes her look more like a model not just cam performer.

Ok, check 11Cat4you :)

Noone else can compare with her!

For me A&B - the best legs on CC. Chaneldoll- the best eyers. But some others even better here. Just my opnion.:-P

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I couldn't agree more with you!

Love to visit hosts over 40, but not sure though why an entirely separate category for them would be necessary. Its simple enough just to do a search, but I do get p****d off when some younger hosts put 99 as their age and distort the search results

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No. And I think they should get rid of most of the categories they have now.
The host search page lets you search by age.

searching by age would be a more useful function, and of course, hosts telling the truth about their age, lol

And telling truthfully about themselves. All are supermodels here, lol

im not:P

Nope, not supermodel. Just super.

mmmmmmmmmmmmm - muahaaaaa

oh, u can search by age, lol... i never do since hosts don't usually update it or tell the truth... guess i forgot u can actually do it.

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lets evaluate. if I am an older man, do I want to diddle someone my own age. I think NOT.

Agree. Reminds me of the 84 year old guy who married a 28 year blonde with a perfect body. People asked him why in the heck he would do something crazy like that. He just said. "I'm sorry, I don't understand the question."

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And now they are both dead... AN-S

is that couse you cant keep up with someone your own age:P heheeheh, muahaaaaaaaaaaa

It seems that nobody pays attention to the Age column in my Profile...lol Almost every guest asks me about my age ... though my mature age is (was) mentioned there - so strange... So I decided to take it away from my profile at all ...hehe

and btw the idea about new category is not bad...

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While they are surely members who get off on that I doubt the majority would be interested. Most members in my opinion come here for young girls who would be outside of their reach in real life. Face it a young attractive girl would laugh or get grossed out at an older man making a pass at them let alone suggesting something sexual...here it is possible and that is the main draw.

Yes

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well melissa...ive had my laptop for 2yrs and a pc for 5yrs...and i can tell that my eyesight has changed...i went to the eye doctor and now in a few years he said if i dont stop getting too close to the monitor that i will have to have glasses..and im 39..and always had perfect vision...but then again...maybe im just getting older and my eyes changing on me

I ended up wearing permanent glasses starting this year mainly because of working with computers, but I have been spending ridiculous amounts of time in front of the PC on a daily basis for over 10 years (IT classes at the Uni + the computer at the office + cam sites and whatnot at home = an average of 6 hours/day of screen-staring).
I think if you start having problems after 3 years of working with computers is not really normal though, and there are things you can do to at least delay the effects, like wearing protective computer glasses (I always wore those), taking a few minutes breaks once every hour, looking off in the distance, keeping your monitor about 30 inches away from your eyes if possible.

Sephinroth's advice to give your eyes a break now and then is very good, especially to look off in the distance so you are not always focusing up close.

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Hmmmmm. I guess "it" can make women blind too. :p

I can't read any of this.

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My eye doctor said I will need tri-focals soon

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OSHA and other office regulatory bodies have done studies on this and there are some CRTs and LCD screens that are better than others for reducing eye strain. It is not so much the display however as the constant focusing. In real life we vary what we look at but in an office or studio setting we are focused on the screen for hours. Also body position is important. Chair height, angle, back support, arm support, wrist support, etc. Taking frequent breaks and changing your angle on the screen will help.

I don't feel anything to became my eyesight badly, I got lasik operation in 2007, my eyes are both 1.2-1.2. I keep all the time they are good, I don't feel any my eyes getting tired to watching computer, the only thing which my eyes making tired is I help sometimes translate german-japanese translate it, and my typing faculty is 515 letter/min even enlglish-japanese, so those small letter to watch making my eye sight tired ..ooohhh..

Seems like you experienced a breach in financial confidentiality. Why not do like most of us and get a credit card rather than use your ban account. Or set up a different account with an on-line bank.
However i agree with your comments on CC's payment system. In my case the multiple low value transactions from abroad trigger the card company's anti fraud software so the card is frequently "awaiting authorisation".

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yes Host , unfortunately that seems the case in many , but there also many good friends that look after each other as well, and are very happy in helping their Fav Friend also and not just during events, this I know as a fact....

this contest i understood who r realy cares of me..and who just call me friend for get discount...

Discount???? Who said discount??? Where?? When?? :)

I'm sure if you do the maths for one year, its maybe better to have your regular guys coming to you for whatever price you set rather than risking turning them off you by making them sound cheap for not blowing even more money on you during a contest. Contests are for contest minded people I guess.

not sure that u understood what i meant...anyhow who cares,,i just understood ,how important i am for mr..... and mr ..... .think contest will change my mind and feeling to some of my vaf guys,,...its all

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There is no price on friendship it is a common feeling felt amongst people, the base of friendship is Understanding .... so if your so called "friends" were indeed friends there would be no negotiating of your price, instead there would be alot of understanding that you are there to work and earn money, and that they be at your side no matter what the cost.... Hugs to you

We should have a choice, either buy blocks of time, not for one host just a block of time to spend where we wish, or direct bill like we do now.

Yes 007, is exactly what I would like to see as well being able to buy Blocks of time or Credits, to use ON CC as we wish with whom we wish whether it be favorite host, a friend or a video, plus knowing the amount of Time available is helpful you will know how long you can stay or add to it before visiting ty all for replies

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Enchantressa, you are absolutely right with your reply You are a beautiful person with a heart so warm and understanding
This I know and not just as a member "Showing" your thoughtfulness and "Doing" your Caring I am very pleased to been able to Help and show my Support in every way I was able whether it is during a contest or just for always, we may have not won any prize this week, but I am for sure a winner for I have your true friendship, and as Woody said in ToyStory,, " You have a friend in me..." Always in my thoughts and Best wishes for all things to come.....You are the Best GL Incognito with everything Im sure you will figure out the best way , cause don't think CC will change things for 1 post, but you never know...

Well, there is only one way for them to know about CC and sites like it, and that is to have gone to the sites themselves even if they never joined. Saying "CC networks" or whatever on your credit card bill doesn't tell them what the site is. I guess the 100 charges in a row might make them suspicious, lol, but still, they need to go to the site first to check it all out, and who's to say what they did once they got here?

I would also be very angry about how they embarrassed you and violated your privacy. That ship has sailed so it is time to return the favor. I would definitely be in the manager's office and demanding disciplinary action, and if the manager was involved, then I would be meeting with the regional manager very soon.

I would not tolerate what they did to you. Make them fear you next time they see you. And let them know if there are any repercussions such as identity theft by a fired employee since they have your personal information, that the first stop of the authorities will be your bank.

Further, in expressing my outrage, I would use the non adult section to give you cover. "I was having some fun chatting in a yahoo/icq/other chat room and met a nice girl there. It turned out that she worked on CC and was using chatrooms to get business. She was in an adult section, and while tempting, I really wasn't interested in that type of stuff. But I also saw that there were some cute women in the non adult section, and once I started chatting with them, I got a little hooked." (You might want to rehearse this so you can say it with a straight face.)

Good luck.

Member thank you for sharing my anger and understanding how embarrassing it was, I will in fact take some steps for the display of loyalty I was shown, probably in the form of closing all my present accounts there and moving on... ty also on the tip of non-adult section but Im content with whom I visit here on CC for they are more than anyone can ask for in friendliness and fun Thanks again for the reply you are a cool person TC

The non-adult stuff was just to tell them why you were here. We know why you are probably really here, hehehe.

Anyway, if you want to close your accounts, that's your choice, but if you have a good deal at your bank, why penalize yourself because of a few idiots? Make the idiots pay. You shouldn't be the one to pay. That was the point of the post.

Let them know that if they make one more mistake, be it with you or another customer, they are gone! The manager will get it, and if not, I guarantee the person above him will.

You own these people now.... make them understand it!!!! Say something like, "In my view, your staff demonstrated a complete lack of professionalism, invaded my privacy, humiliated me, and treated me with total disrespect. I will be speaking to your supervisor in the near future, and I have every intention of making sure everyone involved in this incident has what I believe to be completely inappropriate conduct documented in their personnel files." Adding, "For all I know, people here violated various privacy and other statutes." is also a nice touch.

Just don't threaten or state things as facts. It is YOUR OPINION that they were unprofessional, NOT that they were in fact unprofessional. You are NOT threatening to sue or anything else, rather, you are just speculating that someone might be able to. You are NOT demanding an apology, et cetera OR else. You are simply going forward with this matter regardless of what apologies come your way since this type of behavior shoudl be documented. Threatening, even just to get an apology, can get you in trouble. Watch your words to keep yourself out of trouble but make sure they get the message, and they will kiss your butt for the forseeable future.

I expect a lot of "I'm sorry's" to come your way. But don't fall for their bullshit. If they say stuff like "We regret this incident, Mr. X. It is most unfortunate, and we are sorry you had to go through it," tell them to go f... themselves in so many words. (Don't actually use profanity or lose your temper.) That is just code for NOT taking responsiblity. They need to be sorry for WHAT THEY DID so make them say it. Mistakes weren't just made.... Mistakes were made BY THEM! Make sure they say it, and that they say they are sorry for what they did to you.

Unless they explicitly take responsibility and apologize for their conduct, keep working your way up the management chain. It won't go beyond the branch manager's supervisor. He didn't get to where he is by not being smart enough to keep things from going to his boss, but the branch manager might not be so smart. If need be, you could write a letter of complaint, but you might feel a bit hesitant to do that for obvious reasons.

(By the way, "member" is actually very nice. It is just that member does not like people fucking with him and takes it personally since member goes out of his way never to fuck with others. And in this case, member can see himself possibly having been in such a situation, because member has had to call his credit card company numerous times, like other people here, to let them know his CC charges are okay. Further, these bastards made InCognito feel bad about himself, and that is inexcusable and unprofessional on their part. He wasn't volunteering to pay to be a slave and humiliated for a dungeon session, lol.... He was just going to a bank, and it is outrageous that the people there made him feel the way that they did.)

Yeah - I got a call from fraud control at my bank too, needing me to authorise the charges. CC really need to allow members to change the billing threshold to something higher when they are spending a lot.

It's not as if I can't challenge many small payments any less than one big payment - and if I'm a member with a proven history of payments without issues then please don't cause my statement to be swamped with so many small payments when just one or two large payments would cover the amount.

yes, its exactly what I would like to see also, illiminate the multiple charges that will trigger the anti-fraud part and allowing larger purchases of time instead of every single activity whether is 10 minutes or 4 hours
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