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For those that go to clubs and other crowded events
It was indeed a tragedy what happened in Perm. It looks like the Russian government is well on its way to bringing justice for the victims, and the owners of the club have already been arrested from what I heard. It is even more of a sad situation since the owners were warned of the dangers the day before according to news reports.
As someone posted below, this type of thing has happened before. What people who attend these type of events need to understand is that it is very important to locate the emergency exits when you first walk into such an event. What happens is that once the fire starts, everyone panics and the instinct is to run out the way you came in so everyone rushes for the same door. Apparently, there were two exits at this club, but everyone ran towards just one. If people had located both exits before the fire started, maybe some would have gone towards the other exit and lives could have been saved. (Why there were only two exits is another story since if over 100 people died, I would think that it was a pretty big club and should have had additional emergency exits and such things should be required by law, but anyway...)
The same type of advice applies towards things like flying on a plane. You should count the rows towards the exits behind you and in front of you. A plane will fill with smoke very quickly and you will not be able to see, but you can feel the seats and count the rows as you try to escape.
As someone posted below, this type of thing has happened before. What people who attend these type of events need to understand is that it is very important to locate the emergency exits when you first walk into such an event. What happens is that once the fire starts, everyone panics and the instinct is to run out the way you came in so everyone rushes for the same door. Apparently, there were two exits at this club, but everyone ran towards just one. If people had located both exits before the fire started, maybe some would have gone towards the other exit and lives could have been saved. (Why there were only two exits is another story since if over 100 people died, I would think that it was a pretty big club and should have had additional emergency exits and such things should be required by law, but anyway...)
The same type of advice applies towards things like flying on a plane. You should count the rows towards the exits behind you and in front of you. A plane will fill with smoke very quickly and you will not be able to see, but you can feel the seats and count the rows as you try to escape.
RE: For those that go to clubs and other crowded events
I just heard on the news that the people at the club didn't know about the second exit and that there was no announcement regarding it. I think that they were just told to calmly use the one exit.
In the USA, exit signs are usually illuminated (lighted) so that you can see them in the dark and so that they are obvious at all times. For example, in a movie theater, you will usually see one or two exits where the screen is and of course the entrance where you came in. I am not sure about the laws in Russia or other countries.
Again, it is very important to look for other exits in such situations. Even if there is not an obvious sign that says "exit", most businesses have a front and back entrance so there are probably at least two exits. And if you only see one, you should not be shy about asking someone about others. It is your life at stake.
In the USA, exit signs are usually illuminated (lighted) so that you can see them in the dark and so that they are obvious at all times. For example, in a movie theater, you will usually see one or two exits where the screen is and of course the entrance where you came in. I am not sure about the laws in Russia or other countries.
Again, it is very important to look for other exits in such situations. Even if there is not an obvious sign that says "exit", most businesses have a front and back entrance so there are probably at least two exits. And if you only see one, you should not be shy about asking someone about others. It is your life at stake.
RE: For those that go to clubs and other crowded events
People naturally try to escape by the way they came in - same things happened in 2003 at "The Station" in West Warwick Rhode Island where again 100 people died after the band "Great White"'s pyrotechnics started the fire.
RE: For those that go to clubs and other crowded events
Of course you need to take into account the reason for the US has regulations regarding signs etc. The tragedy at the Boston Mass club the Coconut Grove in 1942. Apparently a busboy used a match to see while he changed a lighbulb in a crepe paper covered coconut tree. Though nobody noticed it at the time the match started the paper smouldering. When the fire broke out there the club goers who headed for the side exits discovered all except the main entrance/exit were chained and padlocked to prevent people from sneeking in without paying the cover charge. It also prompted regulations requiring streamers and similar decorations to be treated for fire retardance. 492 died and many more were injured to prompt the passing of the legislations.
It's a joke
A young lady came home from a date rather sad. She told her mother, "He proposed to me an hour ago."
"Then why are you so sad?" her mother asked.
"Because he also told me he was an atheist. Mom, he doesn't even believe there's a hell!"
Her mother replied, "Marry him anyway. Between the two of us, we'll show him how wrong he is."
"Then why are you so sad?" her mother asked.
"Because he also told me he was an atheist. Mom, he doesn't even believe there's a hell!"
Her mother replied, "Marry him anyway. Between the two of us, we'll show him how wrong he is."
Perm Tragedy ; Enough
Ok lets wait host's responses and not fill the page with the same topic!
RE: Perm Tragedy ; Enough
ok: our hearts and prayers are with the families. tisme; has somebody step on your territory
RE: Perm Tragedy ; Enough
me want to send my thoughts, prayers and heavy heart that is burdon with this tragedy to all the families who lost son, daughters, wifes, husbands, mothers and fathers, etc.. me hate when i see things like this happen around the world-lets all have peace and love and get along with each other
RE: Perm Tragedy ; Enough
ummm,no but i'm sorry i missed your point.i was just being a bit sarcastic because i thought it was a bit presumptuous of the op to tell how,where & when people should express their feelings on a general forum.yes even a little bossy,emotions are a personal thing & how,where & when individuals express themselves is their choice.it's not something to be bottled up until we are marched indian file to write condolences on a single"wailing wall".damn, all this from"yes boss".que sera sera :--)
Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
My God I just heard about this explosion and fire in a Perm nightclub, apparently caused by pyrotechnics. I hope none of our CC hosts were hurt, or worse... my prayers and thoughts go out to our Russian friends.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
Ditto.
I did see one host from Perm online today. Glad to see she's okay.
I did see one host from Perm online today. Glad to see she's okay.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
I am glad you were not there and that you are okay...I hope none of your friends were
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
My friend from France called me and told me abt what happened in my city, asking if im okay, and i was just working and had no idea...
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
omg every week somthing terrible is happends,:((((
RE: unfortunately...
Yes... xCandyLadyx also know xVirusx, immaculate, WithSisley or as xIRIAx was killed on December 5th. Noone here on CC can be more sad than me or her real friends in Perm. She was 26 years old, nearly finished with her University work, and planning to leave Russia and all its dangers. Unfortunately she will never leave Russia now. May she rest in happiness as she showed to others she loved.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
it always happen... Club owners have these great ideas and bring the best firework shows and the night clubs end up being a deadly trap for everyone in it.... This is not the first time nor it will be the last. When will they learn to be more careful? Never, they want to have the best shows and bring more attention taking all and any risks regardless any hazzards.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
From what i have read the problem was not primarily with the fireworks, although these may not have been suitable for indoor use, but that the material of the ceiling, and possibly in the rest of the club, was too combustible. There were clearly many secondary factors too.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
Some would say Health and Safety has gone too far in Western Europe and they are probably right. If you've been to Russia, however, you'll see the total disregard for fire regulations and the safety of people in clubs and bars. So many are just blatant fire traps.
For as long as the inspection of premises works on a system of bribery/backhanders, people in Russia will continue to die in fires when they could so easily have been saved by a few basic safety measures.
For as long as the inspection of premises works on a system of bribery/backhanders, people in Russia will continue to die in fires when they could so easily have been saved by a few basic safety measures.
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
Very well said! When I took a friend to my home country he was shocked to see a person in a chair hanging on a rope painting the side of a tall building, he even took a picture of it. No health and safety in eastern europe! :( God bless
RE: Perm (Russia) Nightclub Explosion
It is a tragedy and my heart goes out to all who were affected. This time it appears to be the result of negligence, not terrorism. That is, of course, little consolation to families that lost loved ones.
Nightclub blast in Perm
I hope that none of our hosts or members were there:
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/eu_russia_nightclub_blast
http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/eu_russia_nightclub_blast
Explosion in Russia...
CNN reports there was an explosion in a club in central Russia? Any more details. Any CC hosts from that area? I hope not.
there are LOTS of Perm hosts here...
It was an anniversary party at a popular nightclub. I'm sure at least a few hosts know someone who was affected by this.
May the memory of the victims be eternal.
May the memory of the victims be eternal.
RE: Explosion in Russia...
This night club is mostly for older ppl, 30+ not a lot of young ppl there..Its a type of restraunt-club.
Shame what happened in Perm.... explosion in nightclub
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/europe/8396587.stm
:(
Just heard about the explosion in Perm. So sad.. I only know a few people from there and fortunately none seem to have been clubbing at the time but I don't dare think that others are not affected.
My thoughts go out and I hope all who have friends or family in Perm are ok.
TNT
My thoughts go out and I hope all who have friends or family in Perm are ok.
TNT
Geez
First Train Crash in Russia killing at least 22 people and now a blast at a nightclub in Perm killing at least 76 people , whats going on over there?
RE: Geez
I do not live in Perm but i work in air traffic system and we with co-workers had some secret materials about it. We actually did, listened recordes where pilot-in-command was just....f***g drunk! If you would listen it too, you would believe that and not fact of terrorism. By the way, the documents weren't find, it's just people's gossiping. When the plane was supposed to land, it required control of 2(!) pilots, because the aircraft was not new and had some problems like unstable rudder, and young co-pilot couldn't do it only by himself. And also plane was far off the track when was landing... By the way it couldn't be terrorism by another reason..there is some secret phrase which pilot had to spell to air traffic controller, if terrorists would be on board..and it didn't happen... I know it's better to believe in fact of terrorism, otherwise nobody would fly anymore...
Also, do you know why "Aeroflot" rejected to support "Aeroflot-North" after that case???
Any way, even if i do not live in Perm, i still can't believe this crash happened, and i really feel sorry for those people who were just KILLED by one guy who took their lives in his hands and didn't save it....
Also, do you know why "Aeroflot" rejected to support "Aeroflot-North" after that case???
Any way, even if i do not live in Perm, i still can't believe this crash happened, and i really feel sorry for those people who were just KILLED by one guy who took their lives in his hands and didn't save it....
what going on??????
where all members.... its like 90% of members just disapeared tghis 2 week ?whyyyy?:((((((((((((( i bored
RE: what going on??????
Need more business? I'd start by competing with lower prices... just a suggestion. ;)
RE: what going on??????
Perhaps members spent all their money on the contest; or received their credit card statements; or spent $ on sites with Thanksgiving sales; or spent too many $ on US Black Friday sales or they are saving money to buy gifts for their wives. ;)
RE: what going on??????
None of my favorites are here for the last 5 days either.
I thought you all have exams or something but I look at who is online and I see normal numbers online. Just not my favorites. Odd.
A guess at why members might be missing, with this bad economy, there is not much time left to pay for Christmas.
I thought you all have exams or something but I look at who is online and I see normal numbers online. Just not my favorites. Odd.
A guess at why members might be missing, with this bad economy, there is not much time left to pay for Christmas.
RE: what going on??????
Its the holiday season. Thanksgiving - Christmas - New Years. People are busy this time of year here in the USA. Shopping, parties, family, extra work to pay for it all. Also people are being a little more careful with their money this year. Lots of american football games on TV and college basketball is starting up. Give it a few weeks. After the new year most will be back hale and horny.
RE: Snow**********
i want snow too...want at least -10 :) this weather sux....hope we will get some snow asap:P
RE: Snow**********
at least all the little bunnies and minks or whatnot that went into making your coat won't be so cold:)
RE: Snow**********
In Bucharest didnt snow much in the last years...I already forgot how is Christmas with snow :O And its damn crowded to leave city during this season, like at the mountains or something. I want a Christmas with lots of snow :)) And the same PRESIDENT!
RE: Snow**********
Plenty of snow around here. I'd ship some too you but I want to save my $ to spend on hosts. :)
RE: Snow**********
I would be happy if it snowed on Christmas Eve a bit and then never snowed the rest of the year. Snow to me is a pain in the neck. I know some people love winter and winter sports but for me...give me a bikini filled beach any day. Come on summer.
RE: Snow**********
I like winter just few days, ok maybe a week...for Christmas and New Year :))
Philco
Where are you TellMeMoree??? Miss you lots! I know you read us here. TellMeMoree... the BEST girl here guys!!!
RE: poll time
are you ch0cotati ? Sounds like her :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
RE: poll time
Porn is boring. CC is live so its fun. Now if I could watch hot pron while in bed with a CC girl that would be cool.
RE: poll time
I used to watch porn but it's getting more and more boring. I prefer having a nice video session with a nice, cute and hot CC girl :) and right - watching porn together with a CC girl that would be awesome :-P
RE: poll time
Then again I would like to get fucked hard and fast and have the guy cum inside me.
RE: poll time
Because it makes the time with the girl next to you more fun, and not only? You know, it doesn't mean the guy (or the girl) need porn because the partner next to them doesn't turn them on. It simply enhances the experience, perhaps even provides some new ideas. And to think being on an adult site would help up become more... open minded, lol the irony.
RE: poll time
right....having a girl next to me and start watching porn - well, I guess the porn movie would become obsolete after some minutes :P ....
RE: poll time
I totally agree. Watching porn with a partner can be very exciting open up new doors in the relationship.
RE: Fav porn star ?
I love Veronika Zeminova... and her current tits are implants. 100% certain. There are many photos on the internet of her before she got implants. But I agree that her implants hang like the real thing. But they are not. Which is one of the reasons I think she's so hot.
RE: Fav porn star ?
She has for sure had her boobs enlarged. She used to have big natural boobs, but now she's got HUGE fake ones.
RE: Fav porn star ?
Guess it reflects my age, more than anything else, but it has to be Sylvia Kristel.
RE: Fav porn star ?
It has to be Jane Darling... or Angel Dark... or maybe Rita Faltoyano!! :-P No.... definately Jane Darling... i think!! Hehe. ;-)
RE: Fav porn star ?
Better yet I'm about like a porn star with all the guys I have fucked around New York.
RE: Fav porn star ?
thank you for this topic- i didnt see many porns and more over would never look whats the girls name but i must say - wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww - they are gorgeous!
RE: Fav porn star ?
they have names??? I think I must fast forward the titles and never make it to the end credits ..... :p
RE: Happy Birthday to you, Shybabee
awww ty...but ur a few months late now.....ohhhh u meant the host...damn ok..happy birthday shybabee enjoy ur day :)
RE: Happy Birthday to you, Shybabee
thank you shybabee...im glad someone wishes me happy birthday even ifit is late.....u should teach rachel to do that :p
RE: Happy Birthday to you, Shybabee
well done on getting 100% very clever of u :)
and ur a bad influence on rachel coz she was a bit "dizzy" too....not good...could at least invite me too :(
ur both meanies
and ur a bad influence on rachel coz she was a bit "dizzy" too....not good...could at least invite me too :(
ur both meanies
What happened ?
All of a sudden the forums seem to be moving. Plenty of nonesense for me to read as I drink my coffee :D
RE: What happened ?
We did it for you. It is xmas time, and this is our present to you, even if you are not our friend.
Merry Xmas INYF from the gang at CC.
Merry Xmas INYF from the gang at CC.
RE: What happened ?
There is actually a very specific reason. You could guess it but I doubt anyone will.
RE: What happened ?
Members have less money after contest and need to buy xmas presents so they are using the forums to stay in touch with cc.
RE: What happened ?
That might be true, but there was a burst in one day and now slowed down again.
RE: Australia...
as an Aussie... its the only place to be... :)
Just get out of the cities and look around... dont do it alone and take plenty of water 'just in case'
Just get out of the cities and look around... dont do it alone and take plenty of water 'just in case'
RE: Australia...
Definitely come visit. Lots of Aussies here I'm sure can give you advice. Thee are so many options of things to do and paces to see, do you want more specific suggestions?
RE: New Year!
If you're female you just subscribed. However if you're male you have to go to antartica and fill out several 1000 forms in triplicate and then get them delivered to me by tortoise (preferably one who does not have long to live). :D
does this host really care about me?
question for all.
yes, i know this is not 'technically' a dating site. i have grown close with a host on here. it is difficult for me to see her often because of how much money i make. and yet every time i suggest that we start a 'real' relationship and videochat on yahoo or something like that, she gets extremely mad at me.
so tell me hosts and viewers, am i just fooling myself? am i just another viewer to her? should i expect if she really cares for me that we stop meeting here and meet like two normal people on yahoo video chat or something like it?
yes, i know this is not 'technically' a dating site. i have grown close with a host on here. it is difficult for me to see her often because of how much money i make. and yet every time i suggest that we start a 'real' relationship and videochat on yahoo or something like that, she gets extremely mad at me.
so tell me hosts and viewers, am i just fooling myself? am i just another viewer to her? should i expect if she really cares for me that we stop meeting here and meet like two normal people on yahoo video chat or something like it?
RE: does this host really care about me?
re: yes, i know this is not 'technically' a dating site
You don't need quotes around the word "technically." This not a dating site, plain and simple.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, go to a real dating site. Nothing wrong with that.
No, this host does not care about you. She cares about your wallet.
You don't need quotes around the word "technically." This not a dating site, plain and simple.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, go to a real dating site. Nothing wrong with that.
No, this host does not care about you. She cares about your wallet.
RE: does this host really care about me?
I've said this before a few times... this site is different things to different people. For most folks, it's a porn site where they jerk off to chicks stripping, sticking objects in their asses, etc. Which is great.
For some folks, however - and I'd count myself as one - this is a "foreign adventure planning site." I travel in Europe a fair amount on business and so I meet girls here, chat them up a bit, and a decent percentage end up wanting to meet me in person... and so we meet for fun and adventure. Nothing wrong with that either, I'd like to think.
Now, perhaps I'm in the minority... but the point is that this site fulfills different needs for different folks.
For some folks, however - and I'd count myself as one - this is a "foreign adventure planning site." I travel in Europe a fair amount on business and so I meet girls here, chat them up a bit, and a decent percentage end up wanting to meet me in person... and so we meet for fun and adventure. Nothing wrong with that either, I'd like to think.
Now, perhaps I'm in the minority... but the point is that this site fulfills different needs for different folks.
RE: does this host really care about me?
It doesn't sound like it. If she did she would be willing to chat on Yahoo with you on the understanding that when she gets a video on here she leaves you.
RE: does this host really care about me?
LOL!
She only wants meet you when money for her is involved and you ask, if she really cares about you?
She only wants meet you when money for her is involved and you ask, if she really cares about you?
RE: does this host really care about me?
You are kidding yourself. It is not a dating site, its a PORN site. The hosts are here to make money, like any other job. I bet the strippers at the local strip club also love you....
You are just another member and if you develop feelings for the host, all the better for her cause she knows that you will be there to video with her. Clearly she does not feel the same way about you....
You are just another member and if you develop feelings for the host, all the better for her cause she knows that you will be there to video with her. Clearly she does not feel the same way about you....
RE: does this host really care about me?
If you ask the host about this.. she will probably say the same.. "this is a porn site".. or "this is a fantasy site". But i had the same experience and felt the same as you. My recommendation.. use the site as it is designed and let her be your porn. If you have been paying only to chat.. stop! Make her earn your money, because your money has been much too easy! Also, she is probably married or committed to someone else, and you have been supporting him too.. but i am sure he appreciates it! lol
RE: does this host really care about me?
You draw conclusions for which there is no evidence when you tell anon that he has been had. Maybe he has had adult shows from her in video, or maybe the host is in a non-adult category. There is nothing in his post that suggests she has deceived him in any way.
RE: does this host really care about me?
Hello this is your wake up call ..... DUHHH Come on man you already know the answer to that...you want to date her here pay her.... she's your role playing lover...it's her job and her BF thanks you for the beer she buys him with your money that you work so hard for.
RE: does this host really care about me?
I am not surprised she gets mad at you for suggesting you videochat with her in yahoo. Hosts get requests from members to videochat in yahoo almost every day. You are effectively asking her to work for you for free whilst preventing her from earning money in video on CC. If she works in a studio it could cause her big problems with her boss. It must make her wonder how much you really care for her or understand her situation. If you want to see how the two of you get along in a non-cc relationship suggest that you chat in yahoo but in texy only without requesting her to send her cam. If she has her CC session open at the same time understand that when a member enters her video she has to talk mainly with him.
If you really get along well with the yahoo chat it is likely that she will sometimes send you her cam for at least brief periods. If she is not interested in just chatting with you in yahoo then this is a sign that she does only see you as a viewer and is not interested in taking things further.
If you really get along well with the yahoo chat it is likely that she will sometimes send you her cam for at least brief periods. If she is not interested in just chatting with you in yahoo then this is a sign that she does only see you as a viewer and is not interested in taking things further.
RE: does this host really care about me?
I am not saying you are wrong but is it not also possible that she may have some feelings for him but then feels disappointed? One minute he says he cares about her as a person and next he acts like a cheapskate member and asks her for video in yahoo.
RE: does this host really care about me?
well anon...hard to say....does she work from home?..if she does..then probably ok to do a yahoo chat before her work or after....i see no problem with that...but her getting mad it this..makes no sense unless she only wishes for u to vid chat here..what excuse does she give you when u ask about vid chat on yahoo?
i used to have a friend that i would chat with on yahoo before she works..sometimes we even used to.... if u know what i mean..but she has moved on to bigger and better things...but i wish ya good luck
i used to have a friend that i would chat with on yahoo before she works..sometimes we even used to.... if u know what i mean..but she has moved on to bigger and better things...but i wish ya good luck
RE: does this host really care about me?
I agree with angel and have another analogy. Imagine you meet a girl who works in or even owns a bar. You come to her bar regularly as a paying customer and the two of you get along well. Then you suggest she ignores her other customers or closes her bar and gives you drinks for free. Even if she cares about you I think she would get mad about this.
Frankly the way you say "every time I suggest ..." makes me think that, by raising this topic many times, you have lost your chance with her and she has you categorised as a member ready to tell her anything to get free video.
Frankly the way you say "every time I suggest ..." makes me think that, by raising this topic many times, you have lost your chance with her and she has you categorised as a member ready to tell her anything to get free video.
RE: does this host really care about me?
If you've asked this girl to strip for you or otherwise do anything in the realm of porn... it is HIGHLY unlikely that she has any interest in you beyond your wallet. Why should she?
If, on the other hand, you've done nothing but chatted with her, then she should be willing to chat with you "offline" for free. And if she's unwilling to do that then, again, she's only interested in your wallet.
Just my 2 cents.
If, on the other hand, you've done nothing but chatted with her, then she should be willing to chat with you "offline" for free. And if she's unwilling to do that then, again, she's only interested in your wallet.
Just my 2 cents.
RE: does this host really care about me?
It certainly was designed for fantasy....but, there is a real person on each side of the screen, and if you recognize that, then it is very possible to establish a very real relationship.
Anon, if you respect why she is here, and how valuable her time is, you will likely get treated with the same respect. If not....you know what to do.
Anon, if you respect why she is here, and how valuable her time is, you will likely get treated with the same respect. If not....you know what to do.
RE: does this host really care about me? start survey
Anon, I too have a thing for someone here...and yeh bla bla bla this isnt a dating site, so what..just be smart about it.
I think this is a good opportunity to start a survey: "signs that she cares"
1- she lowers her rate for you.
I think this is a good opportunity to start a survey: "signs that she cares"
1- she lowers her rate for you.
RE: does this host really care about me?
Obviously none of us can know what is in the hosts heart, but the information you have provided suggests that the host is NOT interested in a real relationship with you. IMO, this is a fantasy site and hosts are here to play a role for a fee. It is a job for them and a fantasy for us.
Sorry and I hope that this doesn't cause you too much grief. Many of us have been there and learned over time to guard our hearts here. Real relationships are better left for the real world.
Sorry and I hope that this doesn't cause you too much grief. Many of us have been there and learned over time to guard our hearts here. Real relationships are better left for the real world.
RE: does this host really care about me?
you know the answer already.. She only wants your money, nothing more. If she led you to believe something else, shame on her. But she probably already has a husband or bf. Did you ask her about that? The best advice is this.. this place is probably the only place that it is ok to let your little head think for you. Letting your heart get out of hand (or chest) is a risky proposition here. Get your sexual satisfaction and move on brother. Because your "love" is probably telling me or others the same things she has told you.. how does that make u feel?
RE: does this host really care about me?
one time man fall for me and start asking questions like this here- got her answer same as you just did and i got him out of my life! either you trust your feelings, her feelings, life, god what ever or you not; and btw - u gave only one example- video chat at yahoo, as what bothers you; u r forgetting she is working girl and probably working at least 8 hours aday - sleep 6-7, now you count the rest - when to meet you on yahoo?!!!
and yes this is not a dating site but ive met my husband here = the main quality he had that made me stick with him was "he never question his visits to my video"- for me that is showing the respect for woman and showing that you are serious; do you have any idea how many man try to get us to yahoo?!!
and yes this is not a dating site but ive met my husband here = the main quality he had that made me stick with him was "he never question his visits to my video"- for me that is showing the respect for woman and showing that you are serious; do you have any idea how many man try to get us to yahoo?!!
RE: does this host really care about me?
You can't beat it when this sort of topic comes up ..... all us frustrated men speaking from our past experiences.....
Live your dreams anon, after you crash and burn you can join the 'been there done that' club and we'll be reading your replies to topics like this in a while :)
Live your dreams anon, after you crash and burn you can join the 'been there done that' club and we'll be reading your replies to topics like this in a while :)
RE: does this host really care about me?
Yeah, maybe it is something we all have to go through - a type of initiation. Maybe also we should all save our advice to forlorn members posts so that we can cut and paste them into these threads instead of retyping every time ;)
RE: does this host really care about me?
While it is possible to find love anywhere the odds of anyone overcoming the obstacles of falling in love and marrying a foreign host are slim. If you are in the USA it is a long, tedious, trying and expensive process to bring in a gf or fiancee to the USA. Once there the clock is ticking for you to get married and go through the green card process. That assumes you met a girl who is telling the truth and honestly loves you and not for other reasons. In the best of circumstances love can be dicey....falling in love with a CC host adds several more layers of complications. But...love will find a way.