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What gives YOU the right to tell other people what they can say or post? ?

The same thing that gives you the right to ask "What gives YOU the right to tell other people what they can say or post? ?" Freedom of speech and an opinion.

dingleb they r not the same thing

What aren't ?

She was not claiming any right. She simply gave her opinion.

It's true, contests stir up a lot of emotion, both positive and negative, and that gets reflected here. I say something positive, and then get criticized for not being negative lol.

Some members come here hoping to feel better about themselves. When they don't, they blame the host. On the other hand, some hosts seem to feel entitled to take all they can get.

The rest of us, the vast majority, are decent people who occasionally get drunk, stoned, horny, angry, depressed, howl at the moon. Maybe on this forum. That's just life.

And you know what? That's okay. Gadflies like "member" keep us grounded to a certain extent. I certainly don't agree with much, if not most, of what he says, but he articulates his thoughts well and gives his reasons.

And others react perhaps more emotionally, with no less conviction, and deserve no less consideration.

So in the end, maybe let's just agree to respect each other, and we'll be okay.

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You get sour grapes from the ones who did not win anything in the contest.

Fair enough. And just for the record, in terms of when I have been "member", I have never made a false allegation against a host. The truth is damning enough so I would have no reason to make things up. Nobody here has broken my heart or anything. They've just done things I consider inappropriate.

Just to give some examples of what I have experienced...

1. a host disconnecting me from video because I didn't vote for her fast enough during the bikini contest (her response, as we all saw, was basically "well, i never invited you into the room in the first place"... that should tell everyone here that I was not lying and what her true attitude about members really is.) This was reported to CC and dealt with as she well knows.

2. hosts acting like they are my best friend solely with the expectation that I will spend a lot of money on them during a contest. Even if I spend over $100 on them, which even though I can afford it, still is a lot to most people, that still wasn't enough. The one host mainly discussed here lately is the one I am referring to.

3. Once again, the one host mainly discussed here, has revealed personal information to me about a host (including that host's real name). She is clearly jealous of this host based upon what I have heard and has made up lies about her to steal members. I of course don't know all of "the truth" but to reveal personal information about another host is clearly out of bounds.

4. Again, the host most discussed her recently, has tried to lure me to another site for a contest they were having. CC knows about this as well, as I gave them proof, but I guess they have given her another chance.

5. The host mainly discussed here was knowlingly using two accounts at the same time with video in both accounts at the same time in not just a clear violation of CC's rules but also clearly showing her greed and disrespect for other hosts.

6. Hosts on many occasions not respecting the rules in categories that require nudity if requested in both open and 121 and stalling to milk the clock and my wallet more.

It is situations like these that I post about in the forums or report to CC. Nothing more. Nothing less. Fortunately, most hosts are not like that, and that is why I continue to come here. But there are a few hosts I wish would go elsewhere.

By the way, in terms of example #5, that was during a contest. She had video in both accounts at the same time and did it continuously until CC caught up to her.

You use the phrase "host most discussed here" as if to say that you would never stoop so low as to engage in this sort of mud slinging whilst actually making it obvious who you mean and when in fact you are the main one discussing her.

actually, in terms of the host mainly discussed here, i do not believe that I have posted about her in a very long time other than two recent posts. One was where LTGDboo69 posted below about how sweet she is and i said yes, she was until i was not playing enough during a contest. The second was where the host referred to in point #1 responded to something earlier in that thread.

Sorry to disappoint you, but the "host mainly discussed here" has a lot more detractors than just me. Moreover, I notice you do not attempt to refute anything I have said. You just defend her and apparently approve of her behavior.

I am not condoning the behaviour of the host in question. I do not know how you manage to infer that from my post. It is the self-righteous attitude in your post that makes me want to throw up.

i apologize. i took your attack at me as a method of defending her. And the only reason i didn't name names is that CC sometimes won't post critiques if you get too specific. It wasn't about being self-righteous. again, i am sorry that i misunderstood your response.

You are constantly coming to us with your panties in a bunch.

Not that there's anything wrong with that. But we are getting tired of it.

lol... maybe i go commando.

and actually, some good comes of all of this... whether people agree with a criticism of a host or not, it forces that host to be a better host because the moment she steps out of line in the future, it just made any criticism seem more believeable. Hosts will say "I don't care. I won't change anything." But between a public criticism and a note from CC, they will change even if they don't want to admit it. CC is a great opportunity for hosts, and they don't want to ruin it.

And I don't think anyone here is the devil or anything even if i don't think they are people i would ever want to be friends with. But it will make CC a better site by being able to point things out that members don't like especially when certain behaviours violate CC's rules and policies, and in terms of any criticisms I have made, almost every case is one where the host violated CC's rules and policies.

Thanks for the information......saved me some money and frustration!

Very true. Life's too short for running around bad mouthing people. I do exactly as you suggest when a host does not satisfy me. move on and find one that does :)

If members could read the host forum just like hosts can read the viewer forum so that members knew what hosts were saying about members just like hosts know what members say about hosts, AND if everyone was required to use their id to post in all forums, then I would have no problem with CC making it so our true identities accompanied our posts. But until everything is out in the open, I would not be in favor of such a rule.

In terms of any allegations I have made about any host, CC usually knows about them, and even if my posts do not accompany my name, the host knows as well (unless of course she is doing the same thing to a lot of guys lol).

I was going to post on this topic but I forget whether I'm allowed to express my opinion or if I'm not allowed to express my opinion if someone doesn't agree with my opinion so now I've forgotten what my opinion was so I won't post anything.

well, after my first two attempts didnt get posted, maybe the third time is a charm. yes, i can vouch for everything "member" says, as I have had similar experiences with her (except in contests, coz i don't play)

ally I had exactly the same thought and decided it wasn't worth it.

don't worry ally,if i want your opinion i'll give it to you :--)

and ?

I do not know why you posted this but considering you titled the post Restricted Video I point out that what you posted has no direct connection with restricted video sessions that have been discussed in forums recently.

Dont you just love the legal jargon? I wonder does a lawyer go home to his or her partner and say " I, in the first part, being the entity known as (name) hereto known as 'the applicant', do formally request that you, (name) hereto known as 'the supplicant' should remove any under articles of clothing and other vestments thereto concealed below the normal apparel and relocate to the room known as the master bedroom. Once 'the supplicant' has reached said vestibule, then should assume the position of both elbows and both knees being firmly placed on the bed covering with the face being pointed downwards. Once this position has been assumed the supplicant shall verbally make it known that they consent to an act of sexual nature while breathing in a fast and vigorous manner.??

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Very well said, thankyou! : )

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Dani...well-considered words. CC shouldn't be about hurting yourself; that is, unless you really want to heehee...

Speaking of which, your post about how to play mermaids in Dungeon was the wittiest post I've read on the forum in a long time. Sooooo funnnnny. I couldn't come up with anything to match it before your post got buried under the onslaught of contest pleas and whinings.

Just wanted you to know somebody was paying attention :D

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You are welcome ;) Nice of you to thank us here :) ...well one day you can return the favour as you said. We should help eachother and our members to win if we can. Unfortunatelly not every host think like that.Anyway, take care, was my plesure to help ;).

You are a classy host, I hope to vid you soon.

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Hope that you treat "your friends" better than you treat the members. Maybe one day you will realize that you need members to survive cause you have no other job and will stop treating the majority of us so badly.

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Thanks for proving my point. People see you for what you are, a rude person who thinks the world revolves around her. One day you will be knocked from your ivory tower and there will be nobody to help you.

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hun.. she is a goood persone;) but not for all people;) jerriko i like u vrery much;) stay yourself;)

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I don't see your name on the list of winners... I guess people are starting to catch on about you. Though you have only won 4 times in the 4 years you have been here, I would give up on contests if I were you cause you are pathetic the way that you beg everybody to vid you. You are too thick headed though to take any advice that is given to you.

You seem to know just what everyone needs. Get over yourself.

I don't think I have ever claimed to know what everybody needs. I am only talking from my experiences with one host. I wonder how many members she has asked to buy her outfits for contests or for money to do other things. I bet that list is long. Just my two cents.

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well, he isn't me Lia - I still love you even when you call me a fucking loser! :D

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Humour Lia, humour. But anyway, thanks for thoughtful mail you sent.

I am probably any member you have come in contact with in your 4 years on this site. A leopard can't change its spots. How many members have you begged for help in contests or for money?

google it ma friend google it ;)

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im another member she begged money from, just to help her out. i'm sure there are others. honey if u think the idea that you need members is so laughable, then quit asking them for handouts...

wow she really sounds like a piece of work - i will avoid

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oh no, THAT wouldn't be the reason to avoid you

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My pleasure sweetie

For some reason my mind is now getting this image of a big old bear crawling into a dark cave for his period of winter hibernation :D

Lena, I had a great and wonderful time helping and I am disappointed we did not win together but, we both won. I am hurt about people says bad things about Bowiya. Glade we won. Luv B:-)

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I've known ChanelDoll for years, I haven't helped her during any contest for a very long time, she is still sweet and nice to me.

dito. She is wonderful. I guess these boys don't know how to respect a woman.

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why not be like with the hearts and u can only win if you team up?

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Should she decline? Of course not. Should you have disconnected me during the bikini contest because I didn't vote right away after the first 5 minute, again, of course not. Unfortunately, some hosts go insane at contest time, which is all the more reason to stay away from certain hosts such as the both of you.

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i entered ur room in open session. i thought it might be nice to meet u. all i asked was to see what u wear... no nudity or anything else. then the first 5 minutes went by and u said time to vote... i said could i at least see what u wear and u disconnected me. this was after ur leaving the cam to go close the door in the other room for 2 minutes. i guess i did see for 2 seconds when u came back, lol, but all i wanted was just to look for a minute. i hardly think that was an unreasonable request. i will let the members judge for themselves.

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hmmm. being as its you let us geuss/ you enetered her text chat with 200 wuestionms "wondering" why and she rejected you? small wonder

questions*

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This happens every time we do this puzzle contest. Someone accuses a host of being selfish for rejecting a combine request.

It happened to me a few years back. I sent a join request to a host. She explained that a friend had spent a lot of money playing with her and she was waiting to join with him. I understood and had no reason to doubt her.

ChanelDoll is one of the sweetest people that I know. And I agree. She is cute.

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And if she got "thousands," so what? Popular hosts do very well during contests; she's not the only one. And, how many times do you have to be told? This is a BUSINESS!

Besides all that, I'm with Frank. Lena is a total sweetheart. If she declined a "join," she had her reasons.

hoo, name me one host that you don't love, lol

yessss hoodoo love all hosts here:)i notice he compliment all.but who know whathe realy think of them..

Well if you just want to bash me that's fine. It's easy to do.

I've posted about Lena before, and as I've said, I recognize she's a competitive person. But she is also helpful and kind to other hosts. She has also been very nice to me in difficult times, personally. So yes, I will speak up for her.

we all have to be nice and sweet with our clients. But don't forget we work here.

Thank you. My credit card bill does serve to remind me of that fact.

Hoo You say many nice things about Chanel and yes u r right. She is a wonderful and caring person. She is my favorite host for many reasons. and FYI she was waiting on me.

I found her to be exactly the same way until I chose not to play all that much in a contest awhile back.

Try other girls :)

It means none of the girls have that piece, but don't worry, guy: "pieces are issued randomly and can be repeated"

let me guess , u need no 13 from chanel ??

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No, 24 from PureMiracleX, but same situation...

arghhhhhhhh

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I guess for each puzzle there is one such piece missing, maybe other number, wait until later tonight when it will be releseased...

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i have it.:)

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i said my members about u,hope u will win

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