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Happy Birthday Crystal! :)

Happy Birthday CDDDDDDDDDDDDD (kerry) have a pint for me!

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Kerry happy belated birthday xxx

as stated....they were US Presidents and also democrats

two were certainly womanisers so perhaps the third was aswell (its Carter I am worried about he does not look as if he liked women on the side!)

Carter like peanuts (well grew them!) did the others like them too?

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what do you call a blind reindeer?
and then what about a blind reindeer with no legs

no idea (no eyed deer)
still no idea

and a reindeer with no eyes and no legs having sex

still fucking no idea

my answer is: I don't know!!!.....Does this mean i'm hired?:))

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Bye dear, enjoy your time!

good luck cath , wish you luck with everything you do , take care .

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Cath, you know I will miss seeing you here. I wish you all the best for the future, and I hope we will meet again somewhere, sometime. lots of love xxx

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cherry your the sexiest guy i have every seen

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Lisecharmeel has lovely nipples and she's great all over. Check her out.

Are we talking large in circumference or large as in long, pronounced nipples themselves. I personally like the small puffy ones sometimes called Angels.

try BurninLove. She has great nipples and is a real nice and sexy woman.

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HOTTIEhoney has very long nipples :P

I am going to meet a lady I in the next couple of weeks....she is down in the Islands....if all goes well...she may come back here to USA.....I am sure a USA visa figures in there some where, but what the hell...I have been married for "love'...and that did not last and she was not half my age.(:)) I will keep you posted...

Its probably just a simple extension of the chemistry made in vid/chat. Guy gets flirty with girl .... girl gets flirty with guy .... guy wants to jump her bones .... guy works out only way to do that is to meet ..... guy knows that its probably madness ..... guy's knob thinks its great idea

I have met several hosts in real but in every case it was a long time after our first contact on CC and by the time of our meeting we were maninly chatting in yahoo. In a couple of cases our initial contact was via yahoo not CC.The primary purpose of meeting was never to have sex but simply for two people who it seemed enjoyed each others company to spend time together. I would never ask to meet a host during a first (or even second or third) video. In every case the meeting was enjoyable for me and I think for the host as I am still in some contact with several even though they no longer work on CC.

the most honest & sensible post since...
RE: choose ImNotYourFriend ‎(30 Apr 2010)
I'll take the dumb girl as she and I are likely to have much more in common. :--)

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<<<<Wouldn't be better just to dream about it together and stop annoying each other with "promises"?>>>>
Why no? It builds my self-confidence and makes me feel good. I dont mind if its fake or true. After all i know not even my next neighbor wants to meet me at the door :-P

I think every member likes to imagine meeting a host. Traveling to a foreign country. Having a fling with a beautiful young host. Falling in love. Have amazing sex. Having a beautiful life together. A nice thought. However, most members can't actually do it because they don't have the money to do it, they don't look anything like they say they do online nor are they as young, and finally their wife would probablly object. Still...there is an excitement in asking a host...would you like to meet me? Of course if the man took the time to think...what girl in her right mind would agree to meet a man who she only knows through a sex site? Sure some do it and in rare cases it "works" out...but really guys....these girls are far from stupid.

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If the offer comes from me, it is for real. Can't think of any possible reason I would tell someone here that I wanted to meet if I didn't really want to. If Visas weren't such a big problem I would definitely have sent at least two girls tickets. I wouldn't expect sex. I might hope for it, but wouldn't expect it. As I get older I have learned to expect nothing from others, it just leads to disappointment. I you get something then its all the nicer because its "unexpected"

How weird it is depends on how much you are able to keep your work and personal stuff separate in your head. I agree to meet out of pity is awful but I do notthink that ever happened to me, except for one possible exception when the meeting was unplanned. The final answer is that sometimes the offer is genuine, sometimes it is not, reagardless off whether it is the host or member that is doing the offering.

Yeah, Applebum should not say that in forum! She need to speak with a member whoever crazy about her!

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lol nah don't have any problem! :))

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The romance fantasy can be part of the fun too - as long as both people understand that it is a fantasy and nothing more. When people start promising to meet for a night of wild sex or a lifetime of love then things get complicated and people get hurt. It isn't going to happen!!!!!

well, there used to be an Escort category, presumably to meet a host your can arrange a meeting with, but even without - lots of women on this site have disregarded their social mores in exchange for money, so meeting and having sex for money is just another step along that path. And for those members and hosts who will now stand up on their soapbox and scream, "We are not whores!". I think even the most naive of them will admit that the likelihood of finding a girl who will agree to have sex for money is better on this site than in the general public....so you never know unless you ask.

This site is listed under porn sites NOT dating sites

But some cc affiliate sites linking in to CC suggest dating/romance, even marriage.

True. And there's a whopping 9 hosts online under the long term/marriage category right this very moment.
Renting a virtual wife for the long term for a per minute fee, ain't the internet wonderful?

ROFLMAO

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Well, English speaking guests, not american guests...
That's good that communicating here helped. It would be nice if it worked in reverse for us who speak one language, but have limited exposure to other languages.

It can...I ask my lady to speak to me in Spanish....takes longer but she appreciates my efforts.

Well I can only speak for himself as I talk welcome you is for that. Good luck in you for the imminent employment

hahaha. yes learned at CC school :)

"Mr. Ambassador, Madame Secretary wants to know if you would like to continue this discussion in 121."

I hope this doesn't mean those of us who aren't fortunate enough to be americans bring poor quality english here...

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I am often astounded by the ability of hosts to speak english...several speak like natives (both text and spoken). I think it is a tribute to the foreign language schools that exist in many countries and the perserverence and hard work of the hosts. I speak passable Spanish and I had it in high school and college. I can get by but some of the girls here would have no problems stepping into an American city and aside from the accent be well understood. Keep up the good work ladies.

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whoever is hotter because I would break up with both of them after awhile.

The one with the bigger boobs.

Damn you Dixit. That was going to be my answer lol

the dumb girl .

I'd date the dumb girl that knows she is dumb and knows it's alright. Usually the girls that think they are smarter are outspoken and most of the time say dumb things. The problem is that they think they are smarter! Well, I found out the most adorable girls are the ones that talk less, listen more, and only say value things when needed.

Dito!!!!

I'll take the dumb girl as she and I are likely to have much more in common.

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Well you never know. You could be that unlucky lol

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the one who only knows yes,not no or maybe :--)

I have never met a dumb women yet in my life...I have met several that act dumb, say they are dumb, people say they are dumb ...yet somehow they manage to outsmart a lot of men. I think I would prefer someone who was a compliment to my personality and who is curious about the world and fun to be with. Someone who supports me. Someone who cares about me. That does not take intelligence it takes heart. And some of the smartest women I know have no heart.

.... it was worth the money
..... the dog starts barking
.... it's probably masturbation

If the sex is good...never tell your wife/gf.Just keep humping the milkmaid.
If the sex is good...pop another viagra and keep going.
If the sex is good...put some baby oil in your hand...it will make it even better.
If the sex is good...then you certainly aren't awake.
If the sex is good...don't regret that you have to pay her and add a nice tip...it might be even better next time when you call for her services.
If the sex is good...never wear kinky outfits with studs, you might accidentally blow the inflatable doll.
If the sex is good...change the hand once in a while, it can get even better.
If the sex is good...it's obvious there is something wrong with you.
If the sex is good...then you wont ever have an account on this site and will never get to read this.

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lol MEN!!! A bunch of chickens aren't we.
My one good quality is that if I say I'm going to do something....I do it. So I am careful what I promise. Sure I regret doing somethings I have promised but I just chalk it up to a learning experience. I like to be able to know I can at least count on myself. About the only thing you can control in this world.

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lol. got it some.

Creating a relationship here is part of the fantasy. Members and hosts alike can create a make believe love affair that intensifies and personalizes the CC experience. The issue is its is indeed fantasy for most of the hosts. They have lives, loves and desires that are totally different from their presence on CC. I think members lose sight of the fantasy angle more often than hosts. All is all hosts here are very pleasant, very intelligent and very savvy business women. They will do or say anything you like to keep you coming back and keep you in video. If you fall for the line personally then welcome to the club.

remember she posted about falling in love with a member .
she left soon after :( she was stunning

I have never videod with her but after your description even I miss her :(

Nooo ... you'd be too alike it would never of worked! :p

Yeah you're probably right. She could maybe have handled the fact that I had bigger boobs than her but once she saw my toy collection her jealousy would have been too much for her to contain.

If your toys are anything like mine she would be sooo Jealousss,,

i have boxed dinky toys from 1970's in mint condition ,

How about That !!!

Now that is a cool collection of toys to make anyone jealous. Do you have the Ford Capri Rally Car ? I used to have it but I lost it when I stuck it up my ......... Oh never mind :P

Yeah. She is the real deal. One of those girls where you say "I can't believe I am seeing this"

so mike ... you had her too... what did she do special for you? any pics ;)

Sorry, I'm not really a kiss and tell type. Let's just say, she understands men.

yes...she tells them she loves him only and enjoys his $$$ and then gets married to another...

"she had great big tits and loved playing with her toys..."

Call me twisted, but I can't help thinking that that would make for one hell of an epitaph.

That made me laugh so hard as well. I already can imagine passing by someone's tomb and reading it, LMAO!!!

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Forgive my ignorance Mr. Fan, but there's a kazillion hosts with big tits who love playing with toys (or put up one hell of an act and make it look like they love it). That's one awesome way to write about a fav host lol.

she did have perfect tits ... i'd like to know what happened to her too... spent a lot of $$$ and she used to do girl on girl too!!!

let me elaborate ... she was stunning visually, tits near perfect size and shape ... and even though in "glamour" would pull out a lovely big dildo and use its full length to cum particularly loudly... just wondering if she is doing more of same on other site...

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..... and was sex involved ?

To stop the thread becoming too repetitive any hosts who I have had a video with can post about their second best day :P

hmmmmmm

how abt ....

I have no idea

I give up !

How about discussing the saying "If at first you don't succeed try try and try again" :P

thumbs up !

chuck norris jokes maybe?they always get me:)

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what about this phrase that is written on forum frontpage,
"freedom of speech"
what is your opinion, is there freedom of speech in this forum
where moderators choose what posts can be published?

(You MUST read them out loud or it doesnt make as much sense)...
1) Thats not right........ Sum Ting Wong
2) Are you harboring a fugitive................... Hu Yu Hai Ding
3) See me ASAP............. Kum Hia Nao
4) Stupid Man...................... Dum Fuk
5) Small horse... Tai Ni Po Ni
6) Did you go to the beach?... Wai Yu So Tan
7) I bumped in to a coffee table... Ai Bang Mai Fa Kin Ni
8) I think you need a face lift... Chin Tu Fat
9) It's very dark in here... Wao So Dim
10) I thought you were on a diet... Wai Yu Mun Ching
11) This is a tow away zone... No Pah King
12) staying out of sight... Lei Ying Lo
13) He's cleaning his automobile... Wa Shing Ka
14) Your body odor is offensive... Yu Stin Ki Pu
15) Great... Fa Kin Su Pah
For the losers who didnt get it..... ur dumb

Wai Yu So Tan-ROFL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)))))))))))))))

Great one, thx))

1. Thou shall not sneak out when there parents are sleeping (why wait?)

2. Thou shall not do drugs (alochol lasts longer)

3. Thou shall not steal from K-mart (Walmart has a bigger selection)

4. Thou shall not get arrested for vandalism (destructon has a bigger effect)

5. Thou shall not steal from their parents (everyone knows Grandma has more money)

6. Thou shall not get into fights (start them)

7. Thou shall not skip class (take the whole day off)

8. Thou shall not go to strip clubs (Hooters has better food)

9. Thou shall not think about having sex (like Nike says... just do it)

10. Thou shall not help old ladies cross the street (leave them in the middle)

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why the hell do people even get married anymore?

Easy. You need to talk your best friend into seducing and fucking your husband. Once that's taken care of, you can then divulge your filthy little secret to your husband without fear of him judging you too harshly, then he can do the same and you both can live happily after fucking whoever you both want.

You're welcome.

omg!dont fuck nobody pliz:O wtf???if they will say somthing to hubby.then deny all. say that they tryed2 fuck u but u said no.and they mad now.

are you for real?? :)))))))

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Have sex with him and then, if you are lucky, he will tell one of his friends and so on :D

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Yeah but I am mean lol

Are you the same person who posted a couple of weeks ago about whether to have sex with your husband's best friend?

can i be next ? this will humiliate ur husband . if ur husband was a bad man you wouldnt have had sex with his friend . u know it was wrong and you have to find a way of stopping this . start with "losing ur phone " (buy a new sim card ) and avoid these people

Ok now i seriously think that all this is a big (not the best one) joke and ure mocking us all. God bless u, really, if im wrong.

I thought the same thing.

tell your husband and just hope for the best...but looks like you're going to get divorced either way (depending if your husband is up for having an open marriage).
But from what it sounds like you don't deserve him

hmm , u should fuck all his friends to buy their silence !

your secret would be safe :))))

U should consider changing your name into a " not so smart woman"...what if the dude has another 100 friends?Ull end up doing them all...?

i'd fuck the second one too, you dont want ur husband to find out and who knows maybe its even better than the best sex you just had. :-))

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u already made the first mistake by fuckin the first guy.....whatever happens ur gonna hurt ur hubby anyway so i wouldnt fuck the second guy but tell ur husband what has happened already and that u made a mistake and hope he forgives u....u got urself into this shit...u deal with the consequences

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<<what should i do?>>

Get some morals! Sorry to be blunt, just an honest response.

Morals on CC?

lol

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Easy! Just tell your husband everything, but let him know that no more freebies and that you will charge every other friend of his. And Congrats, you just found yourself your new career :-P

We cant help u cause its your responsible! You have deal with your husband but do not involved with us because what if we gave u mistake or bad advice to you? I'm sure that u would BLAME on us!!!!

I THINK SO.

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Oh please, ppl, why u take this crap so serious? She(or he) is proly having a good laugh now reading all these posts)) If not-well ill lose faith in ppl))))))

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You should fuck the other friend too, you don't wanna take any chances. For security purposes only, you should fuck all of his other friends, even the female friends if any. While being at it, start a progressive cuckold training with your husband. Once you're don with all of his friends, he will WANT you to fuck them, so you can start the circle all over again.
The moral: If you need diversity, look for it somewhere far from home.

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Lets go we all have fun in dugeon category..lol

I said "progressive cuckold training" - the training was progressive, yanno, really small baby steps cause hubby is a newbie lol. But here:
Aggressive cuckold - One who was forced into it and accepted his wife fucking his friends, but sometimes breaks loose and hits her with the frying pan he just used for cooking dinner while she was "busy".
Passive cuckold - one who doesn't give a flying fuck. She was a pain in the ass between the sheets anyway. Screw her, he will stay at home, do house chores and let her work (his friends) for money. AND pay him for his maid and cook services.
Passive-aggressive cuckold. One that doesn't mind her fucking all of his friends, because he beats the b-jesus out of her every time she comes home, but only after cleaning her up.

Eh? How's that?

actually i think this is where HE wanted to get , maybe some sort of fantasy fulfilled on the forum :) dont u find his name too obvious , if you were a woman writing all this would you name yourself like that ? yes , if you would do your be to convince :))

What a fucked up slag you are.My sincere condolences to your hubby,now bend over !

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Be married, have a wedding engagment means somethign for you ? or it seems not ... why people are married and continue to fuck anybody else , as it seems u even dont think refuse to fuck with the friend of friend....
strange

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I have been fucking my best friend's wives for years now....... my wife's a HO for cheating on me FN "byotch"

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men who aren't constantly on the prowl for new pussy aren't worth any pussy at all.
you're very wise megan fox.

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never mind his flirting with other women, you should dump his ass for being so possessive that he actually forbade you to speak to any other guy ... seriously, that's fucked up.

There is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with an innocent flirting, ESPECIAALY as u said-in the beginning! Come on!

so he didnt cheat . he was just being friendly . do you ever say hi to another guy

nothing bad with flirting ))) man need it time to time

well aren t we supposed to be super inlove and not have time to think of anyone else in the begining of the relationship. he was as inlove with me back then as he is now and he blames me for emailing this woman because i treated him bad. but if i treated him so bad shouldn t he just leave me and go somewhere else? he said in a email her picture is all he s keeping him going and i cannot take it out of my head whatever i d do. i only seen a short list of emails he admited and showed me once i saw the first one ,were like 4-5 in total and he says he never spoke with her ever since and they were only friends. but how would i know he hasn t? maybe covered his sorry ass and deleted them . i think i have a problem trusting men but when i say i love someone and mean it i wouldn t be doing what im demanding the other person not to do. He s so jealouse that every male family friend work coleague etc etc i have im having an affair with . neither of us would have time for an affair to be real but maybe he knows what he s up to and is affraid im doing the same?
my head is going round in cercles as this man has done everything to keep me and yet again why would he risk it like that???

ive changed my mind . you would be better off finding a man who loves you and isint so insecure as this jealous guy .
dating can be fishing sometimes you may need to cast a wider net .
or the other saying you have to kiss a few frogs to find your prince
best of luck with your decision !

Seriously, are u 13 yo? Or maybe u watrch too many romantic movies where couples are crazy, crazy in love and dont say even HI to anyone of the opposite sex but their beloved ones? Its a real life honey, its not like in the movies, ure saying he loves u and u still dont wanna forgive (im not even sure that forgive is the right word lol, as there is nothing to forgive) him his lil mistake? Its so hard to find love and u just throw it away so easily cuz he isnt perfect? Well none is, and trust me, u will never find a man who will not look at other girls when u dont see it, but then again, there is nothing wrong with it, as long as he doesnt cheat. Get real, and grow up, really.

Amen! My eyes are always working 24/7. I just don't gawk and drool or make it obvious! A beautiful women deserves to be admired. lol

Dump him. Some people here think that looking is flirting. Flirting is flirting. If you really love someone, flirting with someone else won't even enter your mind. When I was with my last girlfriend (8 years) I had no desire to go after another woman. She was all I wanted. And I don't care what anyone says....If you are flirting....you are looking for something else...maybe just a little....but you are looking. And for someone to tell you to grow up is way off. A person who flirts around is the immature person not the other way around. OMG.

Sorry but to me flirting is totally different from looking. Even though I am in a relationship with someone i love very much I still sometimes flirt verbally with girls or women who do not attract me in any way sexually - and i am sure the feeling is mutual. One of the good things about flirting with female friends is that we both know it is not serious and will never go further. You seem to feel that once you fall in love you should sever all contact with friends of the opposite sex.

You work here, yes? Isn't this "paid" flirting and more (for some)?

once flirting takes place, by either side...trust may vanish, doubts may be present. Trust and truth are the base of any committed relationship, once they are gone.. relationship is over.. you were wise to leave...

well, he said it was just flirting, i dont know...if u go into a 121 witha chathost and then he played hide the cucumber. I consider it more than flirting.

Dump him.
A decent man knows not to flirt with others when in a relationship.
If it happens once it will probably happen again.

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I guess it depends on what you define as flirting. In my opinion most people (men and women) flirt all the time and as long as it stays as flirting it is harmless. I do not like his attitude to her, requiring that she has no contact with any other male. To me they both seem so jealous and immature I can't see any hope for their relationship.

i see your point but when i first visit a host it can be a chance to take and in my expierence higher price doesnt guarentee a better time . what i dislike most is a host who after a few visits starts to increase their price each time . i never tell a host in advance im coming .

I do believe quality is better than quantity, however I dont think this rule applies in this case. The hosts are human beings and not machines that will do quality shows all the time for every member that enters her video. Sometimes their show depends on their mood, member, or mutual symphaty between member and host. I did believe that high priced hosts were special and I would see a 5 stars show if I spend $5.00 a min with a host, but I was wrong 90% of the time. Some of the high priced hosts did not performed on par with the lower priced hosts that gave great shows with no stalling. After 5 years on cc I now only visit low priced hosts whose prices are no more than $1.80 per min in 121. Using this rule I am now able to stay longer in video with the host. In case the host chooses not to perform I will not lose so much as compared to a host charging $3.00 per min.

You also have to consider that members decide based on what they can afford. Take cars for example. I love Porsches and think they are good quality cars but i have never been able to afford one. I also like BMW's and have owned three of those (not at the same time). Howver times are a little tougher now and I have a Honda. Still excellent quality but a lower price. A few years ago could afford to regularly spend time with the BMW hosts (charging $1.50 - 2.00 in open vid) and would sometimes visit a Porsche host at a higher price. Now I mainly visit the Honda hosts who charge around $1.00 - bu still generally give me good quality.
There are also the Ferrari hosts. They look gorgeous but are incredibly expensive and with very unreliable quality. You have to have money to throw away to risk spending thime with these. I have done so occasionally but cannot risk that for now.

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Not worth it to try them. If the price is too high then it's too high.

2.30 is ok for 1to 1 but sometime it just depends on how much is in the bank, if true i not usualy take 1to 1 cos the benefit is often not worth the extra cash, especiallly on a long show

$2.30 is not so expensive especially if good show is guaranteed. There are some hosts charging $3.00 - $5.00 per minute and their show is the same as many other girls charging $1.50 - $2.00 per min. As someone said: bad financial times are also forcing most of us to reconsider our spending habits and we have to look for lower prices. I for one that can't spend 100's of $$$ in video and I can't afford several luxuries anymore. But dont let us dictate what you should do. You can stay with your price $2.30 and adjust yourself to fewer members. Or you can lower ur price and see if it gets better. You do what suits you best.

I realized as a long-time-member (8 yeras) that the price is not an indication for the host or time you spend with her. But I realized that a higher prize doesn't mean a "better" host. Best example is Glamour or Little Shy category: Here the prices and the hosts vary. One girl does everything for $1.50 in one2one and another doesn't do anything - only chat for $3.00 in open session.
Now who has a better quality? Everyone will judge it different, depending if he/she is a member or a host, what kind of mood and what he/she is looking for.
The point is how you define "quality". I think hosts and members have different meanings of quality...

Price is an issue for me but up to a point not the main one. So yes , if a $0.80 host gave a rubbish show and a $1.70 host gave a good show I would visit the $1.70 host every time. At $5 I would just wank over her pics :P

However to use your shoes analogy. I may be able to buy several cheap pairs for the price of the expensive pair and so they may last me longer. But as we aren't talking about shoes but real people there are plenty of cheaper hosts who give as good a show as the more expensive hosts.

Host "L" from below. Are my posts getting any better ? :P

This all very subjective, but I have had videos with many hundreds of different hosts over the years, and the one that has the best English skills, the sharpest wit, possibly the most intelligence, certainly the most sensual in her play and with the kindest heart, was and remains a $0.50c host. I won't presume to explain on her behalf why she chooses this rate, but it is always foolhardy to make generalisations based on equating price with quality.

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At the risk of stating the obvious, as you are a host you presumably are not visiting other hosts for a show, and presumably have little idea therefore what they do and do not do, or at what price. At best you can only be speaking from what you learn from a small circle of co-hosts and how they operate, at worst you are speaking from your own baseless conjecture. Reality is there are plenty of hosts who give hot shows at that level of price.

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If I thought I could earn 0.25c a minute here for taking my clothes off I'd sign up as a host today :D

The real reality is that these days thjere are very few hosts who give hot shows for $0.50 or $0.60. There are still quite a lot who do for $1.00 or less.

I think that a host should not consider her price here as any kind of reflection of her own self-worth. Sure, if you let it, it may sting the pride to lower your price when the situation suggests that you should, but I think a shrewd business woman will do what it takes to optimize both the number of paying visitors she gets and how much they actually spend.
And I wouldn't equate prices here with the prices some pay for status symbols and such. Unless he's trying to impress a host with the amount of money he pays on her, I don't see the point. But then, doing that just seems more pitiful than impressive.
Good luck to you!

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Your "perceived" quality.......alot of hosts believe they are worth more than they really are. Maybe its pride, who knows....You can believe all you want that "you" are worth more, but i have found more often than not, that higher price doesnt mean a better show. When it comes to cars and maybe clothing, higher price may mean higher quality, but here.....not so much.....
So, go ahead and believe that your high price is justified because you are worth it......and alot of us will visit those awesome hosts that charge much less :)

"Someone" nailed it with his car analogy that having a Porsche would be great, but these days (given the economy) most guys can afford a Honda. And that’s okay, a Honda is reliable – it has 4 wheels and a motor too -- so it will still get you around town. So why pay for a $5 luxury Porsche host if taking a ride with $1 host will get you where you wanted to go? I think to the average guest that really is their shopping mindset, pure and simple.

Also, I know this may sound silly to some, but this is where having a great PERSONALITY comes into play...at least to me. I’d rather chat with someone who is pretty & fun versus the hottest looking poster model that is snotty & stuck up. How is that ever a turn on? Or it’s great if the host has sexy outfits or some kind of additional fun selling point about herself to catch your interest & spur on the brain. After all, doesn’t half the fun of a hot sexy time come from letting your mind be stimulated too?

So “Chaos Theory” was right too when he said “The point is how you define quality. I think hosts and members have two different meanings."

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hosts who can hook a few money slaves are the luckiest hosts there are:))

Your less tired? How exhausting is it to take your clothes off and play with yourself? lol .... Your not running a marathon by the way.....

When money is not important in your life or if you have a lot of it then the quality of the host is, of course, of paramount importance and the most important factor in selecting a host. We have many members who fit that category. That is why the high priced hosts are still here. However, for many members money is in short supply. So when they look for a host they look for the best quality for the price...otherwise known as value. In addition price alone is not a measure of quality. I have spoken to and seen lower priced hosts who are incredible women. Beautiful, smart, funny.....and I have seen a few high priced hosts who were not that great.

Let me put this another way...if money shouldn't be the main consideration when selecting a host then why don't you lower your price to the minimum .50 cents a minute. Strike a blow for quality over money.

I think it's about self worth. I do agree that it can be going a little overboard to charge $4 per minute or whatever, but if those hosts can get away with it and make money, I can't really blame them for not lowering their prices. I charge $1.50 in open and $2 in 121, which I guess puts me in the "BMW" category, and that's fine with me. Charging less than that just ends up making me feel a little cheap and somewhat down on myself because I really do believe that I put on a good show from feedback I've gotten. On the other hand, charging more would probably put me on edge and make me feel like viewers would expect nothing short of perfection from me....talk about pressure.

You guys also have to realize that hosts could just as easily use the car metaphor for you viewers. Charging a low price in open sometimes attracts the very unsavory sorts.

The issue of self worth and other reasons why hosts decide what rate they will charge is not the issue here. Quality is important to members but the point is that that a high price does not guarantee quality.

Like every business it comes down to how is your profit margin? If you are making as much money as you hoped to make then your prices are perfect. Lowering them might bring more videos but at less profit. Raising them means less videos but more profit. You need to find the perfect balance for you. That is a factor of your appearance, your personality, the time period you appear, your profile and pictures, the sexiness of your show,etc.

If you are unhappy with your profiits then you need to consider changing things to see if that increases profits. Do one thing at a time..more or better pictures, different time slot, better or sexier show....and of course lowering prices..if you try all these things and..if there is no change in profit then either accept it or move on to some other job.

One final thing...I always wonder why hosts do not send out CC mails to their former video partners. A...Thank you for coming to my video...of Hi Bob...(keep a journal of info on the members)...I enjoyed chatting with you and of course I enjoyed making you happy, etc. Guys are suckers for the personal touch. I only knew a couple of hosts who did this type of thing and they were very successful. Marketing majors in college.

this is a service, not a product you buy like shoes. a restaurant can be 5 stars and the food great, yet you can get shitty service. the two don't go hand in hand.

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Aw, thank you. That was nice of you to say, Host.
Best wishes and kiss to you as well.

LOL and I sure hope she feels the same.
I'm not looking forward to jumping in that ocean! :(

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You just took all the fun out of coming to this fantasy site :-(

"By the way, I am single but madly in love with a host who has the power to drive me nuts long distance. And if one of us doesn't get on a plane by the end of this year, so we can finally meet & kiss in person, I'm gonna jump in the ocean. And THAT'S the truth! :)"

Would your opinion change if you found out she was married ?

Well, thankfully that's not a problem. The host I adore is actually a wonderful girl I was involved with before. It's the age-old romantic tale of the girl you loved and lost, but could never forget because you realized she was "the one." So for the last few months we've been getting really close again – this time around taking our time to get things right. And we both know we’ve found something special because even when we try to walk away, we're always drawn right back to each other. But the most important thing…going back to the topic at hand…is we're always honest with each other.

So the good news -- no, she's not married.
The bad news -- she's not married to me yet !!!

Sites like this would close if we all told the truth. See below :D

Text Chat

INYF : "Hi"
Host "Oh fuck no not you again"
INYF "Will you show me your naked ass in video ?:)"
Host "Yes but only because it is better than talking to you, you pathetic boring bastard"
INYF "OK I will come into video now"
Host "Fuck even $60 a minute isn't worth this :("

The Video
Host: "What is your name ?"
INYF "Just show me your naked ass and stop talking"
etc

End of video

INYF: "Bye"
Host : "Thank fuck you're leaving and it's all over"

Host logs off and goes for a 60 minute shower.

When her bf or husband shows up with her at the airport - will you risk kissing in front of him?

Lots of fish in the ocean...

sorry, man, just had to say it.

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My wife works here too )))

Oh not again:) U dont know what u've just started....:)

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Yes, I am single. The only questions I have are whether MonikaBabe is really single and do I have a chance at marrying her?

Yes bb im so very single and i wanna marry u, i love u, now, will u come to my vid to see me bb?:))))))))))))))))

yes, but only if I can send you lots and lots of money too.

Oh yes bb ure making me so hot=))

I want in on this. Let us both throw cash at you and have a bidding war!

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mmmmmmmmmmmmm , I luv $$$$$!!

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My question for you would be... are you really single? And are you honest in more than the 5% of the things you say? If from some time here I can say 98% of the models lies in 95% of what they say... why should a member be different?
A member goes to your chatroom, takes a videochat, you say how much you like him and how happy you are when he comes to your chatroom or videochat... Then, let's let members say how single they are, and how much they like you (and not only your body).

It's totally irrelevant as far as I'm concerned ... a married guy's money is just the same as a single guy's money is it not?

Yes, I am single. If I had a gf, wife, or significant other, I would prefer to spend the monery on her. Besides, it just wouldn't be worth the hassle trying to keep my my extra curricular activities fom her. I just don't see the point in being with somebody if I am going to come here behind her back. If the relationship fizzled to the point where I felt compelled to do such a thing, then it is time to bail.

Im pretty sure that everyone here is single :)

I come here for entertainment. Its more of a business proposition. I am not looking for a relationship. When I ask my butcher for a pork loin, I don't ask if he is single. Me wanting to see a sexy show from a girl here doesn't have anything to do with whether or not she or I are single. (which I am).
When you think of this site as something other than entertainment things can get a little sticky.
Btw I found out from a guy in produce that my butcher is not single afterall.....lying son of a bitch.

Here's how I see things. Hosts always say they HAVE to lie & say they're single or else guests lose interest & won't private them. They also say guys prefer single girls because then the guys feel they might have a chance with them. So saying you're single & available is part of the fantasy hosts want create online, simply because the lie is good for business. Finally, hosts will say it doesn't matter if the guest is single or not. They're just here to make money & they'll perform for anyone.

Meanwhile...the guests see it the OPPOSITE way. Guests say THEY have to lie because if they admit they're married or have girlfriends, the hosts lose interest in them. Go figure! Guests also complain that hosts aren't as nice to married men in chat & don't put on as good a show. Why? Well, probably because hosts do prefer single guys. Let's face it -- they know horny single men are far more likely to fall for the old "you're not like my other guests, you're special to me" line. That means single guys fall under a quicker romantic spell and that creates better repeat business. So basically married guys lie about being single to get some of that special loving attention they wouldn't get otherwise.

Is "private" a verb now?!

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I'm single <--(hey, isn't this a fantasy site?)

well i am married and i think the first to say this in this chain of posts. I do admit it to hosts and never had a problem, they sometimes say thanks for being honest (and that may bring rewards) My wife does know and gets very angry about me coming here she just thinks its disgusting - but thats her and perhaps why I do
What bugs me is age, however old you are that is the perfect age for them and that is hard to believe especially if you are twice theirs

well true..but wd u like host to tell u "oh my god u cold be my grandpa?" or "hmm, u are a pervers old man" ?
it s betetr for them and for u to get "nice age, i like experimented men"

Yes ok its better but dont think we beleieve you mean it and you really feel sick I hope we are not that stupid

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Guys say they are single for the same reason they say they are in the 20's and handsome and athletic and students and just over a relationship with a beautiful girl...etc.etc... Some feel that a host will give a better show to a man who she considers eligible...I know some hosts diagree with this...but you can picture a host giving a better show to a young guy than to a fat, old, bald man.

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I couldn't see the reason why as host cannot initiate contact except through CC mail and it would become a spam fest and community chat would become worse than ever. When hosts start paying members for videos then profiles would make sense....and they would be just as silly and untruthful as hosts profiles.

So..never!

ya, with Photo & with their last log in time, and if necessary there location too. will be help & fun I think :)

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bad idea!

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Members should have a 'Roll Of Honour' - like the names of fallen soldiers you see at War Memorials :)

We have had a few members who passed on. I am the hosts they saw when they were alive miss them a lot.....or maybe not.

yes as in ebay:P

what use would that serve?

The main criteria for hosts is length and frequency of videos. If a guy is handsome, funny, pleasant, a gentleman, sexy, etc but also spends time in free text chat I can guarantee you that member would be a 1 star wonder.

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The entire world is facing tough economic times. Its bad all over. I'm sure its tougher these days for hosts to make money because guys are watching their credit cards closely. But is money all that matters to a host? You'd rate us all simply based on what we spend? You don't care if we've been nice to you or treated you better than other guests who can be overly aggressive or rude?

What if a guest is simply not rich, but still wants to see his favorite host? It seems to me that a guy who spends what he can, when he can (and stays loyal) versus a guest who spends a lot and then runs off to be with other hosts is the better customer. The guy who spends slow and steady is also being the better friend to you. If I rate a host, I base it on several things. So it just seems to me that if hosts could rate members it should also be based on several things and not just money alone.

staying loyal by not seeing other hosts? being the better friend? .....are you being serious?

Some members become good friends with hosts away from CC. They stay loyal to help them out. Not everyone hops from host to host to see as many girls as possible. What he said makes sense to me.

i see. so as a sign of their good friendship away from cc, these members treat their special lady friends as charity cases by occasionally going to their video chat to help them out here. i don't know, maybe it's just me, but doesn't such behavior seems maybe just a tad condescending on the member's part, harleyrider77?
and the whole loyalty thing has me puzzled. what does that mean exactly? why can't a guy make friends with more than one host here and spread his help around? does his special host friend demand that he make no other friends here, or is that some kind of limitation he puts upon himself?
please, help me to understand.

to understand you need to have an open mind,listen & see both sides of the coin.there's more but try these at first.hope this helps.

Why is it condescending for a member who's become friends with a host to visit her and help her earn money? That's what she's struggling to do and its only natural that a friend would want to help a friend. As for loyalty, I never said a member couldn't have more than one host as a friend. That's up to him. But many guys do settle into having a favorite host they want to see or spend money on, so it is by personal choice. As I said before not every member here feels a burning need to unzip his pants and show his dick to as many girls as possible.

it just seems like it would be the more decent thing to do if you were to come here with nothing but an honest want to pay your good friend to provide you with the same service that she provides to her other paying customers without thinking yourself exceptional or that you're here just to do her a favor. i mean, if you aren't here to pay her for what she typically does for the average member, then what exactly are you paying her for, and what exactly is she supposed to think about it?
put yourself in her shoes. imagine if she knew you were in need of money and she came down to your place of business and threw money at you without expecting you to do for her what you usually get paid to do. that kind of lame pretense - that she's there to give you honest business just because she's at your work - that wouldn't offend you and make you feel like some shitty charity case?
that's not really how friends help each other, is it?

I just thought I'd add my two cents. Speaking as a writer, I think the problem was your choice of words, Curious. I think the words "condescending" and "charity case" really don't fit here.

There's a host at CC I totally adore. I'd marry her in a heart beat. She works online because good jobs are hard to come by in her country. She also works to help her family. I know that a big dream of hers is to have her own business one day, since she doesn't want to be a cam girl forever. So, since you brought it up, let's take this out of the cam world and use your analogy of a business...

Imagine my host saves enough money to open a flower shop. If I buy flowers at her store, am I being condescending and making her a charity case...OR...am I simply being a nice guy who is trying to help her a bit? Since she's someone I care about, shouldn't I want to swing by her shop to help her (and her business) succeed? That seems pretty basic to me.

Look, let me be blunt -- I hate it when a host plays a guest for a sucker and abuses his credit card. Heaven knows that happens enough online. At the same time, I also don't see any harm in a guy stopping by...from time to time...to pay for a nice chat to help out a host that he's actually become good friends with (or possibly more).

After all, showing someone you care and want to help is what true love and friendship is about…no?

If a member who considers himself a real friend to a host chooses to visit her for a paid video session only after it's casually been mentioned that she's hurting for money, then yes, I can see how that might have the possibility of causing resentment in the host. Unless, of course, it was the host's intention to lure him to a paid video session by mentioning her financial trouble in the first place. If that's the case, then I think that member would be wise not to consider that host much a real friend at all.

And your flower shop analogy doesn't really apply here. What's sold here isn't something so distinctly and cleanly commodifiable as flowers. In fact, what's sold here to some is something very much resembling friendship, but which necessarily can't truly be friendship for the simple fact that it's bought. Why would a real friend ever want to muddy a real friendship by going through the motions of a fake friendship here? It just doesn't make sense.

I am very, very happy with this job. Most members are nice and respect me. I made many cool friends that are help me always when I need. Sometimes i get more than what i need and i see it as a blessing. I dont know if what i feel is real friendship for some members, but i cannot tell them i am not their friend. I dont want to hurt thier heart but I cannot feel friendship if i did not met them in real and probably never met them. I dont ask for money and i am not a money sucking machine i only try to be nice and talk and exchange ideas and ask me what i need and i accept when they offer. I can tell you i earn very good money here. There are other jobs for me in my country, but i like this job becuase is a sweet job. in my country to live good i need $1200 for month and i sometimes make $2000 and members help me with bills and other things. I must say truth, friends here help me more than friends in real life, but i honest say i dont know if i can ever say friend or meet someoene i know wanted to see me my body first when he saw me.

I disagree with your assertions. The others are right that friends help friends. I think the flower shop comparison is spot on. Are you telling me you've never had a friend or acquaintance whose business you frequented because you thought it would help them or used their services as a friendly gesture? I see this as akin to people using their personal connections to help family or friends get into a company or land a better paying job. Hence the line "it's not what you know, but who you know." It's the same principle: friends helping friends by throwing them a bone. You're logic also seems confusing. First you say the services a host sells are not a commodity like flowers because it is friendship, but then you say it's not friendship because money is changing hands which would make it a commodity. So which statement are you standing behind?

Read again what I said. I didn't say that the services sold here are not a commodity, I said that what is sold here is something not at all as simple as bunches of flowers. If you want an analogy that makes sense, Imagine your friend is an escort. Would you still patronize your friend, pay her for her services, just to help her out then?

And of course I'm not saying that friends don't help friends. But honestly, when it comes to helping friends financially, do you not take their pride and their ego and their feelings into account before you offer your help? Don't you try to help in a way that's least likely to incur any kind of resentment? Especially here, I can easily imagine hard feelings arising from suspicions that such a favor is done only for self-serving reasons, that such a favor is done only with an eye to making a host feel obligated to repay the favor in some way later on.

I'm confused by your arguments. Are you saying hosts and guests cannot really be friends because money has exchanged hands? Are you saying all friendships between hosts and guests are fake? That seems to be a sweeping generalization. If that's not your viewpoint please explain how you think a host and guest can be friends both at CC and off site and how that relationship should operate. Thank you.

Call it sweeping if you want, but yes, I very highly doubt that a real, honest friendship can exist between a host and a paying client here. But you know, maybe that's just me. Maybe I just happen to choose to be more, I don't know, rigid than others in how I go about defining what it is I consider a friend. Maybe that's a fault in me and maybe I'm really missing out. If having a cheery and warm host/viewer relationship with one of the very fine women at this site is something that another guy is comfortable considering a real friendship then that's super. And who knows, maybe the host he considers a real friend can look past the fact that he's paying for her time and attention and consider him a real friend too ... that would be awesome.

As to your question about making friends with a host, I'm not sure why you would necessarily consider making friends with a host away from CamContacts any different a situation than making friends with anyone else. All I can suggest is that you try your best to have and show genuine interest in her, make her smile, make her laugh, be unique and memorable and someone she deems a pleasure to know. If you and she hit it off, then all that should be pretty easy, right? If you need more detailed instruction, Dale Carnegie wrote an entire book on the subject. It's pretty well-known, I'm sure you can easily find it at your local library. Good luck.

I would question whether something that is exclusively based on a member spending time with a host in paid video can be considered a true friendship. If a host has enough interest in a member to consider him a friend she should be willing to sometimes chat with him for nothing. Both host and member have to be careful not to take advantage of the other. The important thing is to think about your own behaviour not to make demainds on the other. A member friend should never ask the host to send cam for free and the host should not ask the member friend to come to video. I accept that for the member to only go to video with the host "to help her out" could be patronising but for him to sometimes go to video because he is willing to pay to see his friend is simply accepting that this is her job and he cannot expect her to work for him for free. A host friend might also sometimes offer to let the member friend see her for free but she might not be dressed (or undressed) as she would if she were in a paid video session. I realise (and member friends should understand) that for hosts in studios it may be especially difficult for them to ever send free video.

Congrats on a solid post. I thought you balanced things out really well, especially pointing out how BOTH the host & the guest need to respect each other. I agree that paying to see a host (as a friend) is okay, but that door has to swing both ways. A host should also be willing to toss her cam to a friend TOO. Not for a free sex show, but simply so two friends can chat for a bit. After all, that's what REAL friends do online...right? And that is the one thing I will call bullshit on. If a host says "we're friends, but you can only see me if you pay" THAT'S when you know the friendship is fake and its ONLY about money & it's time to move on. Finally, just few points about some things "John" said...

1) As I said, I think guests & hosts can be friends, but like most things in life it depends on the people involved. I know a host... I consider her a friend... but maybe I'm kidding myself & I'm just another guest & occasional paycheck to her. We've known each other for 2 years. We keep coming back to each other -- through good times & bad -- so the attraction feels real. And we stay in touch off site to some degree. And because of that, I keep hoping it is a real friendship. When it comes to someone you care about, sometimes hope is all you can ask for.

2) I also disagree with one of John's post where he implied a member would only help a host for self-serving reasons or to make her feel obligated. That seems silly because then you've turned an act of kindness into an arm-twisting mob deal. Not to mention you're presuming a member's intentions without knowing the situation (which would be different in each case anyway). John, I understand you see this topic from a different perspective, but in this instance it just seems that you're ruining a spirit of friendship by tacking on ulterior motives that aren't there. Maybe I'm an optimist, but I still like to believe that people do good things for good reasons.

3) Speaking for myself, if I choose to help a friend it's because I WANT to help, not because I'm looking for favors in return. And I do try to keep their feelings in mind. I don't want them to feel bad or like a pity case. But I also know from experience that people in trouble often feel shy or awkward about asking for help, even when they need it the most. So again, I see it as a door that swings both ways. You want to respect the other person, but you also want to tell them...or show them...that they can turn to you BECAUSE you're their friend. My college roommate once said something I've never forgotten: "A real friend is someone who is there when you need them, and not just when it's convenient for them."

I think some of you might be thinking you're friends when it's really a business relationship. I have a few friends who did this kind of work at a different site years back, and the ones who are really friends and still are were ones I didn't talk with them at their job, I talk with them on facebook, IM, Skype etc..., the usual way friends communicate.

>> "If you aren't here to pay her for what she typically does for the average member, then what exactly are you paying her for?"

If Freelance pays his Host-Friend-GF (whatever she is) to spend time in one2one chat, then she is doing what she typically does for the average member. She's appearing on cam and chatting. What more do you expect her to do as a host? Whether Freelance pays her to sit there and merely chat or to actually strip and put on a show is his business since he's the one paying for her time. But your statement is ultimately invalid because she is performing the same service for him that she does for any other member here.

Your statement would only be true if the host refuses to strip for Freelance (because they have a relationship) versus a willingness to strip and put on a show for anyone else (where no such bond exists). If that were the case, then you could argue the host is performing a service for one, but not another. But there's been no mention of any such thing occurring.

The rude guests never stay long in video. Of course other things can be important too, some guys very funny in video and really can make your day. ))

Hon,being handsome,funny and smart means quite little on a website like this.Yes,there'll always be witty ones and fun guys,but let's face it,most are men who don't shoot and score

Aiata...I agree... neither the members nor the hosts are what you would call the best the human race has to offer in a variety of ways....few of us will be telling our grandchildren about our time on CC.

Boy that post went on a wild ride.

As the original poster I was just saying if the hosts could rate members they would get an quick idea what kind of member they are dealing with. They would able to spot jerks quickly, not waste too much time on them and could see right away a good member who other hosts felt treated them well.

youth is wasted on the young

Answer to the three questions:
Difficult to remember
Not sure where
Someone is pushing this wheelchair awefully fast

An older friend of mine says Facebook was the worst thing he ever did. He looked up some of his old gfs from 30 years ago and they look awful. So does he but I don't have the heart to tell him.

Toyota condoms: unintended pregnancy

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Reminds me a little joke....
What the common point between an old tire, and 365 used condomn.?



It was a good year

How about the good old faithful MacShack: 'I'm loving it!'
Rennies: What a feeling!
and the actual very first slogan used by Electrolux /Swedish company/ in their vacuum cleaner campaign: Nothing sucks like Electrolux!

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The CamContacts Condom
...created by its members
...run by its members
...for its members

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I always wear a condom when I am on CC. You can never be too careful.

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I work next to a hairy sweaty romanian guy... so no, not too much sex in the office dreaming from me.

Rofl!!!!!

u mean u will b masturbate there? or sex with a guy?

ur working office in building "towers" or at home office? :P :)

Is this the first time that this has been done on CC?

not first live sex show . couples category ;)

when u have sex in a taxi, let me know, me in

You're making XXX porn now? Times are hard? :)

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I work alone ... sex in the office is easy anytime .. though sometimes makes my voice funny on the phone

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Nice and great to see something different on this site- I have had enough of ratings and this host did this or that!

try cc mail him .

well, if her screenname was still active, i would, but it's not :( (hoping hoping she has new name here)

HIS SCREENNAME

it's obvious you really don't understand TS's do you?

he sure doesnt appreciate like we do :-))

Check milky...smt may be her/him i dont know but try..good luck

no its not milky, someone else I already checked. thanks tho

has used milky's account in the chatroom, must be a friend