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THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
Picking up on something that was said in the "Is Hard?!" thread down below, I just wanted to take a moment to say THANK YOU to all the special Hosts who work online. And THANK YOU to all the hard-working girls who give their best every day. Not the fakers or con artists or girls who trick guys -- and you know who you are. I'm talking about the REAL ladies here, who are the majority, and who deserve a polite thank you every once in a while. And I'd like to thank "Host in Adult Section" and "Brat" and "GlamHost" for the nice words you said to me down below.
I just want ALL all the good hosts here to know that you ARE special, so don't let anyone or any guest ever tell you otherwise. As I said in the other thread, not all of the guys who come here are horny and ONLY looking to get off. And not every guy keeps a scorecard about how many girls he got naked. Some of us really are nice guys who like to have some innocent fun online, but we're gentlemen in real life, too -- the same way you are all real ladies once you turn off your cams and go about your own lives as well.
I was once involved with a Host and at the time I didn't understand how hard this job was -- so if she stumbles on this and figures me out, I hope she'll accept a big public apology . To be honest, at the time I was just so infatuated… I was new to the cam world and so naive about the way it works… that I didn't recognize the long hours she put in. I didn't realize all the headaches this job has -- for example, all the guys that would hound her, from the second she appeared online, each one demanding something (whether it was her time or trying to get even more). Plus I didn't realize all the terrible things that some guests do to a host -- as if you're no longer a thinking, breathing woman with feelings and instead you're just an unthinking piece of meat to be bought and sold and ordered about.
So whenever you ladies deal with the rude guys, I hope you'll do your job and make some money… I wish you all the success in the world (especially in these trying economic times)… but I also hope you won't become too jaded or cynical about men. Even when a guest is treating you bad just remember that there ARE "nice guys" out there too -- guys who still believe in holding a door open for a woman or holding her chair in a restaurant or who like sending flowers or candy or buying a present. Just because we wanted to say, "Hey, you know what? I was thinking of you today, so I got you this. No reason. No holiday. Not to get something in return. I got you this just to remind you how special you are."
So, as I said below, I hope you Hosts will remember that guys become repeat visitors or regulars for different reasons, but most of all we do it because of YOU. Not for the sex and not for your bodies, but because of something special you each have INSIDE… something in your heart... that makes you lovely and wondrous in your own unique way. For example, going back to the Host I was once involved with, I can still remember the first time I saw her. I discovered her by accident, I entered her room, my eyes went wide, the hair stood up on my neck, and I was left speechless . She looked like an Angel to me and you know what? She probably thinks I'm a nut, but I still love to visit her from time to time JUST to see her SMILE. Any time I stop by just to tell her a joke and to give her a laugh for the day, the truth is I don't need to see her naked or get some silly sex show. Her smile is like sunshine and just seeing it makes everything in life suddenly seem right.
And even for a girl working online and doing cam work... where most people think it's ONLY about sex... that's a special magic. That's the power of a beautiful soul shining through no matter what. And each of you ladies has that inside you, and if the other guys here don't tell you that enough…well, I'm telling you now. Because someone should say it every so often so you NEVER forget the beauty you all have inside.
I just want ALL all the good hosts here to know that you ARE special, so don't let anyone or any guest ever tell you otherwise. As I said in the other thread, not all of the guys who come here are horny and ONLY looking to get off. And not every guy keeps a scorecard about how many girls he got naked. Some of us really are nice guys who like to have some innocent fun online, but we're gentlemen in real life, too -- the same way you are all real ladies once you turn off your cams and go about your own lives as well.
I was once involved with a Host and at the time I didn't understand how hard this job was -- so if she stumbles on this and figures me out, I hope she'll accept a big public apology . To be honest, at the time I was just so infatuated… I was new to the cam world and so naive about the way it works… that I didn't recognize the long hours she put in. I didn't realize all the headaches this job has -- for example, all the guys that would hound her, from the second she appeared online, each one demanding something (whether it was her time or trying to get even more). Plus I didn't realize all the terrible things that some guests do to a host -- as if you're no longer a thinking, breathing woman with feelings and instead you're just an unthinking piece of meat to be bought and sold and ordered about.
So whenever you ladies deal with the rude guys, I hope you'll do your job and make some money… I wish you all the success in the world (especially in these trying economic times)… but I also hope you won't become too jaded or cynical about men. Even when a guest is treating you bad just remember that there ARE "nice guys" out there too -- guys who still believe in holding a door open for a woman or holding her chair in a restaurant or who like sending flowers or candy or buying a present. Just because we wanted to say, "Hey, you know what? I was thinking of you today, so I got you this. No reason. No holiday. Not to get something in return. I got you this just to remind you how special you are."
So, as I said below, I hope you Hosts will remember that guys become repeat visitors or regulars for different reasons, but most of all we do it because of YOU. Not for the sex and not for your bodies, but because of something special you each have INSIDE… something in your heart... that makes you lovely and wondrous in your own unique way. For example, going back to the Host I was once involved with, I can still remember the first time I saw her. I discovered her by accident, I entered her room, my eyes went wide, the hair stood up on my neck, and I was left speechless . She looked like an Angel to me and you know what? She probably thinks I'm a nut, but I still love to visit her from time to time JUST to see her SMILE. Any time I stop by just to tell her a joke and to give her a laugh for the day, the truth is I don't need to see her naked or get some silly sex show. Her smile is like sunshine and just seeing it makes everything in life suddenly seem right.
And even for a girl working online and doing cam work... where most people think it's ONLY about sex... that's a special magic. That's the power of a beautiful soul shining through no matter what. And each of you ladies has that inside you, and if the other guys here don't tell you that enough…well, I'm telling you now. Because someone should say it every so often so you NEVER forget the beauty you all have inside.
RE: THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
Well said, and thank you Mr. Nice Guy for this post.
I just turned fifty (aaargh! birthday last Saturday). I hold no illusions about virtual romance or hooking up with a chat host in person. I visit very few hosts regularly... and they are sexy, beautiful, charming women who open my heart and light up my day. But I have found… here on the general forum, through text chat or cc mail, or first dates (lol) in open session… many beautiful women who are also genuinely nice people and gracious hosts… somewhat to my chagrin, because there is only so much time and money to go around :))))))
Hosts: your circumstances are very trying at times, I realize, and please know I also respect and appreciate you for who you are.
I just turned fifty (aaargh! birthday last Saturday). I hold no illusions about virtual romance or hooking up with a chat host in person. I visit very few hosts regularly... and they are sexy, beautiful, charming women who open my heart and light up my day. But I have found… here on the general forum, through text chat or cc mail, or first dates (lol) in open session… many beautiful women who are also genuinely nice people and gracious hosts… somewhat to my chagrin, because there is only so much time and money to go around :))))))
Hosts: your circumstances are very trying at times, I realize, and please know I also respect and appreciate you for who you are.
RE: THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
Dude, there is stress in every job, even in every home in the world there is a stressful situations among family members. Most of us, I would say 99% of people, are naturally good, polite and nice especially when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. Now, depending on what the person expects as consideration from his/her "hard earned" money is how they act or react. Most members come to the site with the "porn site" concept. Some (like yourself) come here with the "dating site" in mind. The ones with the Porn site concept ask accordingly. They have little or no interest to intimate with the hosts. and the ones trying to "score" become more polite, nicer, careful, and respectful.
Most hosts (girls and boys) that work here are 100% awared what they are exposed to when they accept this type of job. It's a site where virtual sex is the highest priority. I come here just for virtual sex. I treat the girls with respect. Meeting? Never. I am awared that these girls have a life, boyfriend, husband, lover, kids, families,friends, and none of them won't move where I live where life and people are much colder and less social than in any southeastern european country.
Again, there aren't any monsters here. Just patrons/members (men and women) willing to click on whatever price set by the host or studio owner. Just members wishing to relaxed and get a good moment in video in consideration of their hard earned money, probably after a hard day at job after a 8-12 hr schedule. What harm can members do to the girl? None, regardless our politeness and roughness, we are the ones that support them.
Most hosts (girls and boys) that work here are 100% awared what they are exposed to when they accept this type of job. It's a site where virtual sex is the highest priority. I come here just for virtual sex. I treat the girls with respect. Meeting? Never. I am awared that these girls have a life, boyfriend, husband, lover, kids, families,friends, and none of them won't move where I live where life and people are much colder and less social than in any southeastern european country.
Again, there aren't any monsters here. Just patrons/members (men and women) willing to click on whatever price set by the host or studio owner. Just members wishing to relaxed and get a good moment in video in consideration of their hard earned money, probably after a hard day at job after a 8-12 hr schedule. What harm can members do to the girl? None, regardless our politeness and roughness, we are the ones that support them.
RE: THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
I'm missing the point of your post. All Nice Guy said was something encouraging to the Hosts. Nothing wrong with that. Or do you have a problem with him being nice to the girls? You also lost me when you said "there aren't any monsters here" but by the end of the same paragraph you turned right around and said "regardless of our politeness or roughness we are the ones that support them." First of all, by saying "and roughness" you're admitting that some guys do get rough and rude with the girls, which only proves Nice Guy's point. Not to mention a summation that makes it seem like you don't care how the girls are treated. So long as you paid and feel you're supporting them, you can now do anything. Again, I'm confused to you point. Are you saying the girls deserve to get stressed out?
RE: THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
What stress are you talking about? Getting paid for chatting and sometimes some teasing on cam? Is that a stressful work? I talked with many hosts here and all said this to be THE SWEETEST JOB OF THEIR LIFE. Even girls with psychology and lawyer diplomas work here since hosting is the easiest troublefree job. Nothing to lose and all to gain.
RE: THANK YOU to all the special Hosts
I think you have them eating out of your hand right now
RE: Gortensia
I believe she's getting a masters or phd in physics or another scientific area of study somewhere in the USA,
RE: Gortensia
I saw her on yahoo awhile back, she asked me to call her. So i did,
she said she was in Texas going to school.
she said she was in Texas going to school.
RE: Gortensia
Actually, I think she joined the Air Force as an interpreter. Seems she was stationed in Texas during her training but is now in either in California or Colorado. I think her next assignment is to recruit CC members for active duty. Watch out, she can be be very convincing. :)
RE: Gortensia
Keep an eye on all the photos you see in magazines and newspapers and on TV. If you see Gortensia wearing a striped shirt and larges blackrimmed glasses you win a prize if you recognize where in the world she is ;)
RE: Happy Womans Day
happy woman's day ladies, and hope you all having a great time and many good blessings and things come your way. We love you and very thankful that you are here on this earth
All confused
I have read many times about girls switching categories and the reasons for doing so have been pretty well covered. I ran into a new the other day. On a scouting mission I met this gorgeous girl in not so shy and chatted briefly, immediately put in my favs and told her I would catch her when I had some more time. Next day I checked my favs and there she was....cool. As I was ready to enter I noticed she was in Gender Benders and that her sex had changed to neuter. She had sent me an email the day before and I asked her about her new "attitude". She laughed and assured me that she was "all woman" and invited me in. I told her I wouldn't make up my mind until she made up hers. At that point I went out for a walk in the brisk evening air. It was one of those "what am I doing here?" moments. I came to terms with it and now refuse to see anyone unless they are packin. Not really but that's what scares me.
RE: How sexy do you think it is...
Astor, yes... the New Tango. Great music, thanks for reminding...
RE: How sexy do you think it is...
It has been described as making love in dance. I love it...to dance it and to watch it. Anyone want to go to Buenos Aires?
RE: Is Hard?!
It is not that simple. Someimes we catch a new girl and get to like her. I am online with her and then, as it should be, she becomes more popular and it is hard to find time with her. So after a while, it becomes time to move on.
Something for Hosts to Think About
Well, let's be fair -- there's a BIG difference between a guy who hops around or sees a Host rarely VERSUS a guy who sees a Host regularly and always spends his money on her. If a guy becomes a regular it's only because you (as a Host) struck a very special note with him. Ladies, trust me -- guys NEVER do anything without a reason (however silly it might be). We're always spinning the wheels in our heads, and we're always up to something! LOL So underneath it all, there's ALWAYS a reason "why" a guy becomes a regular to keep seeing YOU.
Sure, maybe you put on a good hot show -- but that's sort of a given. After all, if you didn't, you'd be out of work. And some guys become regulars for the most obvious reason -- they develop a secret crush or romantic feelings for a Host. But maybe some guys become regulars simply because you're NICE. Maybe he hit it off with you, and he just wants to know more about you. I know you're here to show your bodies, but did you ever consider that a guy might like you as a host AND as a person? Gee, here's another wild idea -- maybe some of us become regulars because we like you so much that we actually want to become friends. In fact, we're SO willing to work at it that (for a while) we're even willing to still PAY YOU for your time as we try and prove ourselves to you. You know, not every guy who asks for your Yahoo ID is looking for a free show. Some of us are nice, and we just like to chat or hear how you are doing when money ISN'T on the line -- you know, the way REAL friends would talk to each other.
So, try to give some guys a little more credit. We're not all bad and we're not all keeping a scorecard about how many girls we've seen naked. I'm sure you ladies get plenty of men in your rooms that only want to get off. And on behalf of the "nice guys" out there, I'm sorry if they treat you rude or bad. But either way, deep down inside, it still comes to the same thing -- it's NOT about just getting off. Hey, guys could do that without paying a penny by looking at free porn online. A guy becomes a regular because he thinks YOU are special. A guy becomes a regular because you -- and NO other host -- have a special magic or personal connection that allows him feel comfortable around you.
And you ladies should take that as a compliment in terms of being ladies and being special in your own ways. After all, I can't think of too many guys who want to PAY to be around someone they don't actually like, no matter how hot they look.
Sure, maybe you put on a good hot show -- but that's sort of a given. After all, if you didn't, you'd be out of work. And some guys become regulars for the most obvious reason -- they develop a secret crush or romantic feelings for a Host. But maybe some guys become regulars simply because you're NICE. Maybe he hit it off with you, and he just wants to know more about you. I know you're here to show your bodies, but did you ever consider that a guy might like you as a host AND as a person? Gee, here's another wild idea -- maybe some of us become regulars because we like you so much that we actually want to become friends. In fact, we're SO willing to work at it that (for a while) we're even willing to still PAY YOU for your time as we try and prove ourselves to you. You know, not every guy who asks for your Yahoo ID is looking for a free show. Some of us are nice, and we just like to chat or hear how you are doing when money ISN'T on the line -- you know, the way REAL friends would talk to each other.
So, try to give some guys a little more credit. We're not all bad and we're not all keeping a scorecard about how many girls we've seen naked. I'm sure you ladies get plenty of men in your rooms that only want to get off. And on behalf of the "nice guys" out there, I'm sorry if they treat you rude or bad. But either way, deep down inside, it still comes to the same thing -- it's NOT about just getting off. Hey, guys could do that without paying a penny by looking at free porn online. A guy becomes a regular because he thinks YOU are special. A guy becomes a regular because you -- and NO other host -- have a special magic or personal connection that allows him feel comfortable around you.
And you ladies should take that as a compliment in terms of being ladies and being special in your own ways. After all, I can't think of too many guys who want to PAY to be around someone they don't actually like, no matter how hot they look.
RE: Something for Hosts to Think About
Nice comment indeed, i wish i could met more people like you. Its really hard to find someone who think you are special, in a place like this. Thx God, people like you still around here to make our life beautiful:) kiss!!
RE: Is Hard?!
As a member, I can see where losing a regular is sometimes hard to take as far as why. I visit usually the same hosts, but I have changed at different times to visit new ones. The reasons I have left are:
1. Something was said that does not make me happy
2. Hosts who do not want to change to what I want for different reasons (Nothing wrong with their choice...it is just mine)
3. Hosts who ignore me and what I want
4. Hosts who lie to me (Immediate stopper)
5. Host raises price too much (May still visit, but not as a regular)
6. A hosts who I see with one price and when they ask me to come back in about 15 minutes ... the price has increased greatly
7. I found another host who I like better
8. I am in different mood for different host (Main Reason)
1. Something was said that does not make me happy
2. Hosts who do not want to change to what I want for different reasons (Nothing wrong with their choice...it is just mine)
3. Hosts who ignore me and what I want
4. Hosts who lie to me (Immediate stopper)
5. Host raises price too much (May still visit, but not as a regular)
6. A hosts who I see with one price and when they ask me to come back in about 15 minutes ... the price has increased greatly
7. I found another host who I like better
8. I am in different mood for different host (Main Reason)
RE: Is Hard?!
i usually stick with my faves a long time except if i see her giving another a lower price or free than i pay. then i leave without saying bye.
RE: BYE Ladies
What about me John you came to my room too its Cecil ))) No good bye to me )) only the ladies ?
RE: BYE Ladies
johnz... I am not a lady ...but Bye... I have enjoyed our chatting in community
Bi & Lesbian Members
A lot of hosts claim in their profiles to be bi-sexual. I understand this is mostly marketing to guys who are titillated by the concept, but lets hear from the hosts. Do you girls have any bi & lesbian members that visit you for shows?
RE: Bi & Lesbian Members
Althouh I use Bi for my profile...I preffer men, but! I had sex with 2 girls. Not in the same time, not only 1 time..and it happened with a guy and a girl too (3some):P I liked it, it was different, and I like to fantasize about it. I can't say it will happen again or not..but I know it turns me on this type of fantasy in a session (be it a guy or a girl).
RE: Bi & Lesbian Members
my profile says straight as I haven't been with a girl for aaaages LOL
Happy Birthday
Happy Birthday lovely Irina a.k.a. 'bestmoment4u' & 'sinfulalexa'
another year and even more beautiful
another year and even more beautiful
Any Host Need a Photographer?
Any USA hosts in the northeast that need a photographer for the upcoming Easter Cover Girl Contest? I am available to shoot professional style photos for you. If interested respond to this thread
RE: Any Host Need a Photographer?
I dont know what you mean by TS. If you leave your host name I will contact you by cc mail.
RE: Any Host Need a Photographer?
Now I understand. Well...TS are people too. If you are legit leave your chathost name so I can contact you
RE: Any Host Need a Photographer?
He said he is in the Northeast. You are in Texas. Surely you can find a photographer who is nearer.
RE: Happy Women's Day
Isn't International Women's Day 8 March? Or did you just want to be first? :p
Anyway, Happy (EARLY?) Women's Day to all the hosts!
Anyway, Happy (EARLY?) Women's Day to all the hosts!
RE: Happy Women's Day
Happy woman's...and mother day.I thought was also for mothers :P
Kisses and good luck!!!
Kisses and good luck!!!
RE: dancer;)
You are a very good dancer :)))))) I would suggest doing a video playback with dancing and see where that goes.
Singing might be more of a problem... computer sound is not very good and doesn't always work well for me, and anyway cc tends to be more of a visual medium heehee....
Good luck! I think you'll do great... I'm all for it.
Singing might be more of a problem... computer sound is not very good and doesn't always work well for me, and anyway cc tends to be more of a visual medium heehee....
Good luck! I think you'll do great... I'm all for it.
RE: dancer;)
I can appreciate that you want to improve your shows but there's no need to make a song and dance about it!
RE: dancer;)
I was in your videos 2 - 3 years ago, does your new screen name classify you as "new"?
RE: Just a thought
I'm a member and regularly find my best video sessions are with hosts aged 30+. They understand their bodies so much better and what it responds to, and have learnt the imprtance of the mind as a sex organ too, which the younger hosts often fail to do.
RE: PEACE
hey stevie flirty boy. missed u here too. come to my vid to be spanked by ur favorite blonde chic. u know who ;-)
RE: PEACE
Oh! Naughty boy steveke1.
No matter!
You always welcome in my vid my nice boy!
Kisses and hugs,
your 4ever love as you always tell me!
No matter!
You always welcome in my vid my nice boy!
Kisses and hugs,
your 4ever love as you always tell me!
RE: PEACE
Is becuase he is a gentleman, very good looking and very sexy guy. I always have a good time cam to cam with steveke1 when he comes to my vid.
RE: PEACE
pam i met some good friends and youa re one of them. i am glad you are my friend pamelita. btw, let's have sex!!!
walking fluffy
A little girl asked her mum if she could take her dog for a walk around the block?"
Mum replies, "No, because she's on heat."
What's that mean?" asked the child.
Mum replies, "Go ask your father. I think he's in the garage."
The little girl goes to the garage and says, "Dad, can I take Fluffy for a walk around the block? I asked Mum, but she said the dog was on heat, and to come to you."
Dad replies, "Bring Fluffy over here darling."
Dad grabbed a rag, soaked it with petrol, and scrubs the dog's backside with it and says, "Okay darling, you can go now, but keep Fluffy on the leash and only go one time around the block."
The little girl leaves, and returned a few minutes later with no dog on the leash.
Surprised, Dad asks, "Darling, where's Fluffy?
The little girl replies, "Daddy, she ran out of petrol about halfway down the block, so another dog is pushing her home." :--)
Mum replies, "No, because she's on heat."
What's that mean?" asked the child.
Mum replies, "Go ask your father. I think he's in the garage."
The little girl goes to the garage and says, "Dad, can I take Fluffy for a walk around the block? I asked Mum, but she said the dog was on heat, and to come to you."
Dad replies, "Bring Fluffy over here darling."
Dad grabbed a rag, soaked it with petrol, and scrubs the dog's backside with it and says, "Okay darling, you can go now, but keep Fluffy on the leash and only go one time around the block."
The little girl leaves, and returned a few minutes later with no dog on the leash.
Surprised, Dad asks, "Darling, where's Fluffy?
The little girl replies, "Daddy, she ran out of petrol about halfway down the block, so another dog is pushing her home." :--)
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
Losing a love is never easy. Dealing with a lost love is much like coming to terms with a death. The process involves acceptance of the loss, followed by period of grieving and adjustment. For some, anger plays a role in both scenarios .
The fundamental difference between the two is choice. In death there is finality and closure, with no wondering where the person is now or what they are doing. There is no real choice but to accept the loss,
But in losing a love, we have choice. We can choose whether to accept or reject the loss. We can remember the experience and store it with our life's memories, or we can attempt to keep it as reality and refuse to put it in the past. While some may say, " just forget him" , they most likely are speaking metaphorically in an attempt to help you move on.
Attempting to erase the memory of a deceased loved one or a lost love is probably not healthy and can cause more problems than allowing the normal grieving process to take place. Your pain will pass once you accept the reality of your loss and place it in perspective.
Our memories are a great part of what defines our sense of self as we look back on our lives. This experience will be a part of that definition. You must choose how you wish it to be.. I wish you well.
The fundamental difference between the two is choice. In death there is finality and closure, with no wondering where the person is now or what they are doing. There is no real choice but to accept the loss,
But in losing a love, we have choice. We can choose whether to accept or reject the loss. We can remember the experience and store it with our life's memories, or we can attempt to keep it as reality and refuse to put it in the past. While some may say, " just forget him" , they most likely are speaking metaphorically in an attempt to help you move on.
Attempting to erase the memory of a deceased loved one or a lost love is probably not healthy and can cause more problems than allowing the normal grieving process to take place. Your pain will pass once you accept the reality of your loss and place it in perspective.
Our memories are a great part of what defines our sense of self as we look back on our lives. This experience will be a part of that definition. You must choose how you wish it to be.. I wish you well.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
I am greatly impressed with your insight and writing, but I do not think the original poster deserves such consideration. Maybe others will read your words and find comfort in dealing with a real crisis and benefit from them.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
In reading the threads, some of the comments do seem harsh. But it seems they appear after the original poster decided to tell the rest of the story rather than just the part which elicited sympathy and compassion. I would think some felt they had been "played" and therefore the tone of the comments changed. Just my thought..
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
I dont believe there is only one soulmate in the world for us. It is possible to connect and find something special with many "souls" out there. Just need to keep your own heart and soul open to the possibilities.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
The corollary to that is "And if he does not go anywhere but just stays around the house eating your food and watching TV then you either married him or gave birth to him"
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
As a new member, I have wondered why there is so much sarcasm and distrust displayed in the forums.You come here in tears, looking for advice, and not only fail to be honest but outright lie. Shame on you. Many have written well thought out replies in an attempt to help you. Now I know. You deserve what you have.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
I can't believe how many of you are giving EmptySoul the most tired excuse of all -- "It didn't work out because it wasn't meant to be." Oh please! That is such a cliche it sounds like it came out of a Chinese fortune cookie. Here is the truth about that saying. It was created by someone who was hurting so bad they just wanted to find a quick and easy way to ease their pain. They desperately needed to rationalize WHY they just broke up with someone, so they could stop feeling bad. So what did they do? Simple. They created the easiest out of all and said: "We're not together because it wasn't meant to be." Because once you say that, you can walk away from the pain or the guilt or the regrets because it means you never had any control over the situation, which isn't true. We've ALL got control of our lives. We were all put on Earth with free will and the ability to think and feel and to make things happen.
"It wasn't meant to be"? What about a person who gets sick with a disease, so they push away a loved one because they become embittered about their health? What about a girl who meets a man she really cares for, but because she lives in a country with certain traditions, she chooses to be with another man because that is what her parents want? What about a woman who meets a man and falls in love, but can't find the strength to leave the man she is with (who abuses her behind closed doors), so as a broken woman she gives up on the new guy and stays with the abuser instead? What about a guy and a girl who live in a different countries and meet online...they fall madly in love...but then she decides to stay with her local BF because she's scared to take a chance on the newer guy and to move and start a new life with him?
In all of those cases, you had two people in love, who made a perfect fit and probably ARE meant to be, but the relationship crumbled. Not because of fate or destiny, but because one person just couldn't find the inner strength or have the imagination to picture what COULD be, so they decided to settle for a LESSER life instead.
I'm sorry about your pain, EmptySoul. I'm sure it hurts and my sympathies go out to you. I hope you have a few good cries and let it all out. But instead of trying to rationalize what happened with a fortune cookie saying, you should just accept that some bad decisions were made (some by him, some by you, some on purpose, some by accident) and that is what caused the break-up. But the best thing about life is we can all learn from our mistakes or from the times we get knocked to the ground. We can pick ourselves up and go on. That is what makes us human, that special ability to try again. So hopefully you learned a lesson from your break-up...something you can take with you as you move on...and hopefully you won't let it affect your next relationship so you can find real happiness at last.
"It wasn't meant to be"? What about a person who gets sick with a disease, so they push away a loved one because they become embittered about their health? What about a girl who meets a man she really cares for, but because she lives in a country with certain traditions, she chooses to be with another man because that is what her parents want? What about a woman who meets a man and falls in love, but can't find the strength to leave the man she is with (who abuses her behind closed doors), so as a broken woman she gives up on the new guy and stays with the abuser instead? What about a guy and a girl who live in a different countries and meet online...they fall madly in love...but then she decides to stay with her local BF because she's scared to take a chance on the newer guy and to move and start a new life with him?
In all of those cases, you had two people in love, who made a perfect fit and probably ARE meant to be, but the relationship crumbled. Not because of fate or destiny, but because one person just couldn't find the inner strength or have the imagination to picture what COULD be, so they decided to settle for a LESSER life instead.
I'm sorry about your pain, EmptySoul. I'm sure it hurts and my sympathies go out to you. I hope you have a few good cries and let it all out. But instead of trying to rationalize what happened with a fortune cookie saying, you should just accept that some bad decisions were made (some by him, some by you, some on purpose, some by accident) and that is what caused the break-up. But the best thing about life is we can all learn from our mistakes or from the times we get knocked to the ground. We can pick ourselves up and go on. That is what makes us human, that special ability to try again. So hopefully you learned a lesson from your break-up...something you can take with you as you move on...and hopefully you won't let it affect your next relationship so you can find real happiness at last.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
Dear... this is part of what makes us human, dealing with loss. I hope you do get over your loss, but I know I still think about a mistake I made twenty-five years ago by overlooking a great friend of mine whom I discovered later had feelings for me (as I did for her). I've had many happy experiences since then, that I would not have had otherwise, I love my life, yet sometimes I am humbled by what might have been.
It sounds like in the end you did the best you could for all concerned, and for that I admire you, and I regret your pain.
It sounds like in the end you did the best you could for all concerned, and for that I admire you, and I regret your pain.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
Let's hope your next "soulmate" is not the type that cheats on his wife. A friend of mine broke up her boyfriend's marriage because she shought he was her "soulmate". They married had children and then guess what? Yep he cheated on her too. If a guy like this is willing to cheat on his wife with you, chances are he'll cheat on you with someone else.
RE: How do u get over ur soulmate?
I would imagine you broke up with him coz he wasn't going to leave his wife. What would you expect? If he leaves he has to give her half of everything plus spousal support every month , child support every month, pay tuition, insurance and medical bills and on and on. For what? Some hot sex and a couple of eggs with burned toast in the mornings? Oh yeah, that's gonna last. Get real. Or better yet, get some values. They will last longer
RE: Which price is nice for Cover Girl?
your going to raise your price just because your a covergirl?
RE: Which price is nice for Cover Girl?
does it really matter?
if the girl can pull off with a 5$ per minute who cares whether she speaks English or not. She probably doesn't need to speak at all :))
if the girl can pull off with a 5$ per minute who cares whether she speaks English or not. She probably doesn't need to speak at all :))
RE: Which price is nice for Cover Girl?
nice price for u is $2.00+, nice price for me is $0.60, so u decide and i will decide also whether to bother visiting u
RE: TO members
Yes... for example, if a host is visibly ill, esp. a host I know well. Just an example, not the only way it could happen.
RE: TO members
Yes, it is possible to enter a room and be changed in your mood as a result of what you saw. It has happened to me.
RE: TO members
All the time. If I enter a room horny and it is clear that the host really doesn't feel comfortable with her work I won't compound her unease and will settle for a pleasant chat.
RE: TO members
yes... sometimes i enter a room when im in a horny mood and want just a porn show.. and if they girl shows some personality i get sad and normally leave the room coz if i see her as a person and not a porn show i want to get to know her to see if she might possibly become a real life lover... so if im horny and want a porn show i join a room i have to avoid talk any exchange of names. i dont even say hello. other wise i beocme interested in the woman for who she is and not just her body..
RE: TO members
Yes. If I enter a room and the host has a wonderful smile that can change me thinking to the big head instead of the little head.
However, unfortunately for the host, I usually start feeling horny again after a couple of minutes :)
However, unfortunately for the host, I usually start feeling horny again after a couple of minutes :)
RE: TO members
Well if you want the pleasure of meeting me you have the answer in your own hands :P
RE: TO members
I've met someone in here - wasn't looking for what I found...
went for a wank, found a good friend.
went for a wank, found a good friend.
RE: to Traveller(in viewer forum)
Hi,
Thats interesting. I often thought about going to Russia to travel around for a few weeks (before discovering on CC it was also full of beautiful single women too..!)
Any viewers have good experiences in russia (besides a sex holiday, or and "looking for love" nonsens). What is food, local travel, hotel or B&B standards like?
Thats interesting. I often thought about going to Russia to travel around for a few weeks (before discovering on CC it was also full of beautiful single women too..!)
Any viewers have good experiences in russia (besides a sex holiday, or and "looking for love" nonsens). What is food, local travel, hotel or B&B standards like?
RE: to Traveller(in viewer forum)
M oscow hotels are now the most expensive in the World!
Moscow is brilliant. I drove there in 2007. No problems on the roads or in the City. I'd like to go back, but can't afford to.
Also, I was fortunate witht the Rock and Roll scenein Moscow and got a guided tour from one of the music producers and a band member.
Visas should be no problem and I found everyone friendly and helpful. :)
Moscow is brilliant. I drove there in 2007. No problems on the roads or in the City. I'd like to go back, but can't afford to.
Also, I was fortunate witht the Rock and Roll scenein Moscow and got a guided tour from one of the music producers and a band member.
Visas should be no problem and I found everyone friendly and helpful. :)
killer jigsaw
A blonde calls her boyfriend and says:"Can you please come over here and help me. l have a killer jigsaw puzzle, and l just can't figure out how to get it started."
Her boyfriend asks,"What's it supposed to be when it's finished?" The blonde says"Well according to the picture on the box, it's a rooster".
Her boyfriend decides that he should do the right thing and go over and help her with the puzzle. When he arrives, she lets him in and shows him where she has the puzzle spread out all over the table. He studies the pieces for a second, and then he looks quietly at the box.
He states"First of all, no matter what we do, we're not going to be able to assemble these pieces into a rooster."
He held onto her hand and said, "secondly, l advise you just to relax, have a cup of coffee,"and he sighed,"and then let's put all these Corn Flakes back into the box!" :--)
Her boyfriend asks,"What's it supposed to be when it's finished?" The blonde says"Well according to the picture on the box, it's a rooster".
Her boyfriend decides that he should do the right thing and go over and help her with the puzzle. When he arrives, she lets him in and shows him where she has the puzzle spread out all over the table. He studies the pieces for a second, and then he looks quietly at the box.
He states"First of all, no matter what we do, we're not going to be able to assemble these pieces into a rooster."
He held onto her hand and said, "secondly, l advise you just to relax, have a cup of coffee,"and he sighed,"and then let's put all these Corn Flakes back into the box!" :--)