General Forum
who's rights are more important?
the company or the customer? my view without customers, the company cannot exist. for example lets say that microsoft made the best software ever. with no buyers, the company would fold.
RE: who's rights are more important?
i don't get it, why would either the company or customers' rights ever need be sacrificed for the rights of the other?
RE: the story so far
well that explanation is all well and good...balance or maybe you're referring to justice?...is a good thing to strive for...however historically life tends to swing radically from one side or the other....always creating animosity with one way or the other. everyone will never be pleased at any one time. i dare say that trend will no doubt continue.
RE: who's rights are more important?
"lets say that microsoft made the best software ever"
Now that really would be a fantasy!
Now that really would be a fantasy!
cc fairytale
once upon a time a chathost metioned 'all men i meet here mean nothing to me'...trying no doubt to restore my confidence as being her one and only. constant reassurance is death defying at best and eventually this particular fairytale ending.
RE: cc fairytale
At least you are honest enough to admit that. Some guy is down on his luck...you can always count on someone here to stroll by and kick him in the nuts. Good start of the new year for you, I hope?
RE: cc fairytale
Not kicking him in the nuts,giving him a taste of reality.If you get knocked down,you pick yourself up,dust yourself off & move forward,taking the lesson(moral)with you.To come here & post like that he is just looking for sympathy or worse.That's what momma's are for.To give their darling special ones cuddles,kisses & sympathy.Cry me a river but careful you don't drown in self pity.
RE: cc fairytale
Well, from reading his post I didn't think he appeared to be peddling for sympathy or wallowing in self pity. He is not the first, nor the last person to be burned here. I don't know what was his motivation for posting, but he seemed disappointed, sad and angry. I suppose to express any of those feelings would be considered unmanly to someone like you? You could very well be right in your asessment of him. If you are, then I guess all of us should be grateful for you being here to give us a healthy dose of "reality."
RE: cc fairytale
Be very suspicious of chat hosts who say they dont have bf's here!
They either lie to get more cash and try to manipulate us or if the speak the truth then what is wrong with the guys in there life around them? Am sure the local guys are just like the guys viewers here.
Personally, i prefer all chat hosts to have bf's/husbands - its more entertaining, they have lived and are more stable:)
They either lie to get more cash and try to manipulate us or if the speak the truth then what is wrong with the guys in there life around them? Am sure the local guys are just like the guys viewers here.
Personally, i prefer all chat hosts to have bf's/husbands - its more entertaining, they have lived and are more stable:)
RE: Yo
i just came online and you were already offline. You would have probably still been bored with me online. lol
Sorry, I can not help you if you are offline when I arrive. lol
Sorry, I can not help you if you are offline when I arrive. lol
RE: Yo
Here's a little joke.
I once asked a host where is the strangest place she ever had sex and she says....."mmm, in my butt".......too freaking funny.
I once asked a host where is the strangest place she ever had sex and she says....."mmm, in my butt".......too freaking funny.
what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
during the week and on the wekends expecially all the regulars. please be gentle with all your opinions.
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
no com chat..easy...go to every host and annoy em :D
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
i think you already do that now shy...lol
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
Guests live without most things. It is their choice not to join, just to sit on the outside.
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
why? is the chat room being done away with?
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
lord i hope not....where else could i go to make an idiot of myself....please say it aint true!...community chat must remain...it must!
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
LOL,charlie.don't worry we will always find somewhere to make idiots of ourselves.all the world is a stage....sure they're not closing commchat, it's like the nuclear waste dump of CC :--)
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
This communty chat can't go....i like reading all your badley spealth bullshit...what will i do now?
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
gentle, you're expecting gentle. what kind of ruthless boss of the room are you anyway
RE: what will all the chatters do without the communty chat room?
lmao war.maybe bossman isn't so ruthless without his henchmen.dave,dave & the other one :--)
Naughty or Nice thing
Just looked at some hosts and found "naughty winner". Then I looked at another host and found "naughty 1st place".
What's the difference? Was Creepy Santa just telling all the girls they were a winner so he could get into their panties?
What's the difference? Was Creepy Santa just telling all the girls they were a winner so he could get into their panties?
RE: Naughty or Nice thing
well yes I think he did... think about it... he drinks and drives, enslaves animals and sneaks into kids bedrooms at night!!! the man needs help of some kind! lol
RE: Naughty or Nice thing
not to mention his unethicial hiring practices, I mean who ONLY hires elves (besides Willy Wonka). As a person who is over 5 feet tall, I feel discriminated against and have half a brain to sue his fat jolly ass
RE: Naughty or Nice thing
definetly a case for discrimination me thinks... I am only sore as he didnt bring my Mr Frosty playset. ... bastardo! lol
morals
A teacher gave her class of 11 year olds an assignment: Get their
parents to tell them a story with a moral at the end
First little Emily raised her hand and said, "Our family are Farmers. We raise chooks for the meat market.One day we had a dozen eggs, but when they hatched we only got ten live chicks and the moral to his story is: 'Don't count your chickens before they're hatched'."
"That was a fine story Emily."Teacher said."Mick, do you have a story to share?"
"Yes. My dad told me this story about my Aunty Sharon. Aunty Sharon was a flight engineer on a plane in the Gulf War and her plane got hit. She had to bail out over enemy territory and all she had was 3 bottles of rum, a machine gun and a machete. She drank all the rum on the way down so it wouldn't break and then she landed right in the middle of 100 enemy troops. She killed seventy of them with the machine gun until she ran Out of bullets. Then she killed twenty more with the machete until the blade broke. And then she killed the last ten with her bare hands."
"Good heavens," said the horrified teacher, "what kind of moral did your father tell you from that horrible story?"
.............. "Stay the fuck away from Aunty Sharon when she's been on the piss."
parents to tell them a story with a moral at the end
First little Emily raised her hand and said, "Our family are Farmers. We raise chooks for the meat market.One day we had a dozen eggs, but when they hatched we only got ten live chicks and the moral to his story is: 'Don't count your chickens before they're hatched'."
"That was a fine story Emily."Teacher said."Mick, do you have a story to share?"
"Yes. My dad told me this story about my Aunty Sharon. Aunty Sharon was a flight engineer on a plane in the Gulf War and her plane got hit. She had to bail out over enemy territory and all she had was 3 bottles of rum, a machine gun and a machete. She drank all the rum on the way down so it wouldn't break and then she landed right in the middle of 100 enemy troops. She killed seventy of them with the machine gun until she ran Out of bullets. Then she killed twenty more with the machete until the blade broke. And then she killed the last ten with her bare hands."
"Good heavens," said the horrified teacher, "what kind of moral did your father tell you from that horrible story?"
.............. "Stay the fuck away from Aunty Sharon when she's been on the piss."
I got ur momma
Little Carol came into the kitchen where her mother was making dinner.
Her birthday was coming up and she thought this was a good time to tell her mother what she wanted. "Mom, I want a bike for my birthday."
Now, Little Carol was a bit of a troublemaker. She had gotten into trouble at school and at home. Carol's mother asked her if she thought she deserved to get a bike for her birthday. Little Carol, of course, thought she did.
Carol's mother, being a Christian woman, wanted her to reflect on her behavior over the last year, and write a letter to God and tell him why she deserved a bike for her birthday. Little Carol stomped up the steps to her room and sat down to write God a letter.
LETTER 1:
Dear God:
I have been a very good girl this year and I would like a bike for my birthday. I want a red one.
Your friend,
Carol
Carol knew this wasn't true. She had not been a very good girl this year, so she tore up the letter and started over.
LETTER 2:
Dear God:
This is your friend Carol. I have been a pretty good girl this year, and I wouldlike a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol
Carol knew this wasn't true either. She tore up the letter and started again.
LETTER 3:
Dear God:
I know I haven't been a good girl this year. I am very sorry. I will be a good girl if you just send me a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol
Carol knew, even if it was true, this letter was not going to get her a bike. By now, she was very upset. She went downstairs and told her mother she wanted to go to church. Carol's mother thought her plan had worked because Carol looked very sad.
"Just be home in time for dinner," her mother said.
Carol walked down the street to the church and up to the altar. She looked around to see if anyone was there. She picked up a statue of the Virgin Mary, slipped it under her jacket and ran out of the church, down the street, into her house, and up to her room. She shut the door and sat down and wrote her letter to God.
LETTER 4:
I GOT YOUR MAMA.
IF YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN, SEND THE BIKE.
Signed,
YOU KNOW WHO
Her birthday was coming up and she thought this was a good time to tell her mother what she wanted. "Mom, I want a bike for my birthday."
Now, Little Carol was a bit of a troublemaker. She had gotten into trouble at school and at home. Carol's mother asked her if she thought she deserved to get a bike for her birthday. Little Carol, of course, thought she did.
Carol's mother, being a Christian woman, wanted her to reflect on her behavior over the last year, and write a letter to God and tell him why she deserved a bike for her birthday. Little Carol stomped up the steps to her room and sat down to write God a letter.
LETTER 1:
Dear God:
I have been a very good girl this year and I would like a bike for my birthday. I want a red one.
Your friend,
Carol
Carol knew this wasn't true. She had not been a very good girl this year, so she tore up the letter and started over.
LETTER 2:
Dear God:
This is your friend Carol. I have been a pretty good girl this year, and I wouldlike a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol
Carol knew this wasn't true either. She tore up the letter and started again.
LETTER 3:
Dear God:
I know I haven't been a good girl this year. I am very sorry. I will be a good girl if you just send me a red bike for my birthday.
Thank you,
Carol
Carol knew, even if it was true, this letter was not going to get her a bike. By now, she was very upset. She went downstairs and told her mother she wanted to go to church. Carol's mother thought her plan had worked because Carol looked very sad.
"Just be home in time for dinner," her mother said.
Carol walked down the street to the church and up to the altar. She looked around to see if anyone was there. She picked up a statue of the Virgin Mary, slipped it under her jacket and ran out of the church, down the street, into her house, and up to her room. She shut the door and sat down and wrote her letter to God.
LETTER 4:
I GOT YOUR MAMA.
IF YOU WANT TO SEE HER AGAIN, SEND THE BIKE.
Signed,
YOU KNOW WHO
to Ted
I am indeed a host honey but I never give out my real name here Im afraid... think I am a little too outspoken for some! So for my business and rating sake I tend to keep myself annonymous. That and I dont ever want to be accused of riling things up just to get people in my room. I actually HATE doing that but my bank balance thanks me! lol If you figure out who I am though feel free to email me I would be happy to confirm it in email for you. Thankyou though :) xx Noseybird xxxx
Juicy Lilly
It's been a while since I have been here at CC. I was wondering if any one knew where a hostess by the name of Juicy Lilly may have gone. She is a slender pretty red headed Russian lady and a very good hostess. Her chat room says she has not been here at CC since about march 2007. I would be grateful for any help. Thanks!!
RE: blonde or brunette? looooooool fat or skinny
Spoken like a true skinny bird! . I am a big girl.. I havent always been a big girl.. I used to be the industry perfect size 10. I was a semi pro weightlifter... so just about as fit atheletically as a woman can get. I gave as much in bed then as I do now... although now with more experience and knowledge. I hate to break it to you but I am REALLY HAPPY with my size.. in fact I would say wihtout question that I am the most confident and proud of myself than I have ever been. EVERY man I have been with has also stated this 'perfection' and been more than happy to enthuse over my curves. So please, seriously... give more in bed because we dont have the perfect body? I am offended actually. Who are you to decide if I am perfect or not. I beleive that I am perfect FOR ME. ANd I cannot bare people who think they are better than I am ... because they have better hair, thinner legs or a flatter stomach. If you think that confidence and giving comes down to size then you do have a problem. I happen to make a hell of a living off my curves and I am having a fantastic sex life thankyou very much. So there are plenty... and I would say with complete confident about 90% of the men who know me would agree that I am perfect as I am . **gets down off sopabox** grrrrrrr
You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
You refine heroin for a living, but you have a moral objection to beer.
You own a $300 machine gun and $5,000 rocket launcher,
but you can't afford shoes.
You have more wives than teeth.
You think vests come in two styles: bullet-proof and suicide.
You can't think of anyone you HAVEN'T declared Jihad against.
You consider television dangerous,
but routinely carry ammunition in your robe.
You've felt the urge to masturbate after seeing a
woman's exposed ankle.
You were amazed to discover that cell phones have uses
other than setting off roadside bombs.
You've ever uttered the phrase, 'I love what you've done
with your cave.'
You own a $300 machine gun and $5,000 rocket launcher,
but you can't afford shoes.
You have more wives than teeth.
You think vests come in two styles: bullet-proof and suicide.
You can't think of anyone you HAVEN'T declared Jihad against.
You consider television dangerous,
but routinely carry ammunition in your robe.
You've felt the urge to masturbate after seeing a
woman's exposed ankle.
You were amazed to discover that cell phones have uses
other than setting off roadside bombs.
You've ever uttered the phrase, 'I love what you've done
with your cave.'
RE: You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
I bet there a few members here that get off on exposed ankles, feet, or elbows. Must be a throw back to the 1920's or to those sexy amish women.
RE: You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
Amish chicks ... mmmmm ... damn, I think I just came a little in my pants
RE: You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
good to see you back in forums Banana:) welcome back:)
RE: You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
hello!! nice to see you Mr Banana! happy new year to you xx noseybird xx
RE: You Might Be In The Taliban If.....
ah that wonderfully erotic scene in the film 'Witness' :-)
who won the naughty santa competition?
so who actually won the naughty santa competition??
RE: who won the naughty santa competition?
more importantly, who cares?
but what I would like to comment on is the contest prize money. you know Cc must be making serious bank if they can give the host the kind of money they do come contest time.
but what I would like to comment on is the contest prize money. you know Cc must be making serious bank if they can give the host the kind of money they do come contest time.
RE: who won the naughty santa competition?
so nobody knows who won grrrhhhhhh, im interested actually ..
RE: who won the naughty santa competition?
i know what she looks like but cant remember her name
RE: who won the naughty santa competition?
I can't find the page showing the actual prize money anymore but between the top 10 it was something like $30,000
RE: who won the naughty santa competition?
the winners where cc themselfs with extra money members spent to try and get there girl to win lmfao
what do chathosts think about bf from cc?
i have asked this question to members but i want to ask it to chathosts too.... what do you think about bf's who you found on cc....do you think its a good relation?
RE: what do chathosts think about bf from cc?
its not easy to meet in person when you live on different sides of the world.
RE: it's very easy
ticket, passport,,and visa if it works,,,did for me,,,,,,,,still married after 4 years
RE: what do chathosts think about bf from cc?
I am a member here. And I found my girlfriend here. She is the best one in the world. Why not? If she reads this: I love you!!
RE: what do chathosts think about bf from cc?
I'm a member, but not a host. But me and a chathost from CC are planning to meet up this year, in hopefully spring. We have been in contact for just over a year now and both of us now want to meet up.
In the past I've had a few offers to visit some hosts, so I'd say some are certainly open to the idea of finding a partner from such sites as CC.
One chathost who I was once freindly towards came from Romania and she openly confessed that she had a habit of forming false love relationships. She wanted me to come to Bucharest with a view to a relationship and says she has broken her habit. It was nice that she admitted such a thing to me, but it didn't wash with me. I provided the last example just to show that if you plan to meet up with a chathost, try to be sure that they are genuine.
In the past I've had a few offers to visit some hosts, so I'd say some are certainly open to the idea of finding a partner from such sites as CC.
One chathost who I was once freindly towards came from Romania and she openly confessed that she had a habit of forming false love relationships. She wanted me to come to Bucharest with a view to a relationship and says she has broken her habit. It was nice that she admitted such a thing to me, but it didn't wash with me. I provided the last example just to show that if you plan to meet up with a chathost, try to be sure that they are genuine.
Romanian Snow
Hi , I am going skiing to romania soon but saw today that there had been a lot of snow in romanian capital . Can anyone tell me , are the roads to the mountains open ? okay ? will be cleared soon ?
RE: Romanian Snow
It depends on where you are planning to go skiing. Can you give the name of the resort? They normally get the major roads cleared quickly there. Will you travel to the mountains by bus or car. If car you need to make sure you have good snow tires, chains and a shovel.
RE: Romanian Snow
I just talked to m lady there...everything is snowed in..no buses...no taxia
RE: Romanian Snow
"skiing" is that the new phrase for banging a ro host like a drum? If you want quality skiing, there are hundreds of other places better than Roimaina, but if you are looking for a sex and ski adventure...well, there are still plenty places, you need to get out more.
RE: errrrr statistics
they don't actually have a gf, it's more of a make-belive.
Member thinks he visit the Russian girl on a regular basis and she tells him what he wants to hear...ergo she is his gf. Please don't bring reality into these guys make belive world, half of them couldn't handel it.
Member thinks he visit the Russian girl on a regular basis and she tells him what he wants to hear...ergo she is his gf. Please don't bring reality into these guys make belive world, half of them couldn't handel it.
RE: errrrr statistics
u aint really so much of a realist r ya....maybe thats what happened 2u but it dont mean it happens 2everyone...
RE: errrrr statistics
so is it your contention that most "relationships" formed here are real?
RE: errrrr statistics
no not at all...im just sayin that not everyone has the same circumstances as (most) ppl think here
RE: errrrr statistics
for someone who likes to play the buffoon,you display a surprising admirable level of wisdom & reality,imshy.
RE: errrrr statistics
damn awol u make me sound good..actually my sis wrote that...sorry 2dissapoint ya :p
RE: errrrr statistics
i made mistake before here in this way...believe in someone...u right...they say what they must to keep u...i feel not good about all and for all those that will walk this path to trust but end in disappointment and bitterness. those that take endless advantage shall fall by their means.
Love
Questions for viewers and hosts. Do you believe in love? I mean real love. I am in love here with model. But I think that love here is very hard. Please honest opinions not stupid comments.
RE: Love
Unless you have met her in real life you are only in love with the image you have of her. You can't possibly have a deep soul connection until you stare into each others eyes.
Start saving money and ask her about visiting her.
Start saving money and ask her about visiting her.
RE: Love
Thanks for honest opinion. I think she loves me too. We talk more on yah then we do in anything in vid. I like that idea. Hope when I ask her she will not have bad reaction.
RE: Love
its wrong idea.. If he love her...I think, its normal here and in real, when man protects loved woman.
And its bad , if man checks and tests her (
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I have friend here , i like privates ))) Its like gifts and i like gifts. I am only woman
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Its whats i think about it
And its bad , if man checks and tests her (
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I have friend here , i like privates ))) Its like gifts and i like gifts. I am only woman
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Its whats i think about it
RE: Love
Love is possible anywhere at anytime...it's just not likely here. Don't confuse love with lust or love with greed. As was mentioned true love takes a shared common experience in real life and good times and bad times to make it stick. Good luck. Thousands of us have been down this path in the past on CC. Many are called...few are chosen.
RE: Love
she dosen't love you. she loves what you represent. A rich forgine man fawning over her like a pre-pubesent teenanger.
Once she gets to know you in real life, she will realise the mistake she made and find ways to avoid you like the plague.
Once she gets to know you in real life, she will realise the mistake she made and find ways to avoid you like the plague.
RE: Love
love is possible no matter what the situation may be....any man and any woman can fall in love with each other no matter if she works at the local store or is a chathost on CC....it is possible.
RE: Love
Well I'm a member and have been on such sites as this for a while now. Coming in and out, I've spoken to quite a few women and had a few offers of invites to their countries. My personal view is that you can find love on these sites, but is not easy and at all times you've got to be a realist.
Firstly, if you want to look for an International partner, don't expect her to come to you. This means that you will need to get up off your seat and make the journey to meet her in her country. If you cannot be prepared to do this, then there is no point in just being a keyboard Romeo.
Secondly, even though the owners of these web cam sites try to minimalise such people, there are scammers afoot. Obviously I'm not saying all chathosts are scammers and I put my hands up and openly admit I almost walked into a scam. All I will say is that this scammer lives in Romania and still operates a webcam on one of these sites (however I won't go into detail). A different chathost from Romania, who I was friends with, once told me how she had a small list of ongoing 'love relationships' with members on a particular webcam site (not CC). She later claimed to have quit fooling people around, but I didn't believe her.
I think finding genuine love on such sites as these, is a bit pot luck. However if you think you have found it on CC or another site, ask yourself some realistic questions about a potential relationship.
I can understand if members get easily fooled, the only thing I will say is DON'T SEND ANY MONEY UNTIL YOU HAVE MET IN REAL LIFE. I have been asked by 3 different chathosts to send money, usually it involves a sad story. Yes this could be genuine, but do you expect they would give someone they have never met offline money?
Peace!
Firstly, if you want to look for an International partner, don't expect her to come to you. This means that you will need to get up off your seat and make the journey to meet her in her country. If you cannot be prepared to do this, then there is no point in just being a keyboard Romeo.
Secondly, even though the owners of these web cam sites try to minimalise such people, there are scammers afoot. Obviously I'm not saying all chathosts are scammers and I put my hands up and openly admit I almost walked into a scam. All I will say is that this scammer lives in Romania and still operates a webcam on one of these sites (however I won't go into detail). A different chathost from Romania, who I was friends with, once told me how she had a small list of ongoing 'love relationships' with members on a particular webcam site (not CC). She later claimed to have quit fooling people around, but I didn't believe her.
I think finding genuine love on such sites as these, is a bit pot luck. However if you think you have found it on CC or another site, ask yourself some realistic questions about a potential relationship.
I can understand if members get easily fooled, the only thing I will say is DON'T SEND ANY MONEY UNTIL YOU HAVE MET IN REAL LIFE. I have been asked by 3 different chathosts to send money, usually it involves a sad story. Yes this could be genuine, but do you expect they would give someone they have never met offline money?
Peace!
RE: Love
love in the true sense of the word is not possible here mainly because you are purchasing someone's attention. maybe over time and at a sizable cost to your wallet and psyche you might forage through youthful mind games and survive to tell the story. your chances are slim especially if you're past 40. in which case enjoy the fantasy and let the rest fall whre it may.
dear "badbarbie"
Why do you think only curvy girls have dirty minds or make me have a great time?
RE: 4 members...slim or with curvy?
A fit girl ...that was fit not fat. With a great tight body, pretty face, nice smile, eyes, hair. Good personality. Some softness. I don't want her to look like an insect but again...fit with appropriate feminine curves. Girl on girl has only limited appeal to me. Kinda like driving by a car accident. I can't help but look but I am glad I am not involved.
RE: 4 members...slim or with curvy?
it wouldn't be girl on girl if you were involved,would it.says a lot about you that you would look as you drive by an accident.both looking & driving by.
RE: 4 members...slim or with curvy?
So in your world there are only slim boring women or fat fun women? I guess you answered your own question eh "Mr Looking for love at the Buffet"?
RE: 4 members...slim or with curvy?
lots of fat girls in real life. i come here to see slender beautiful women only.
RE: another question
What do you both mean by "love?" You must define it first.
Does the host with bad English who says "I love you" after 2 minutes mean that she wants to marry me and bear my children and make a life-long committment? Or does she mean she likes me well-enough to strip for me in video?
Does the host with bad English who says "I love you" after 2 minutes mean that she wants to marry me and bear my children and make a life-long committment? Or does she mean she likes me well-enough to strip for me in video?
RE: another question
reading your posts makes me think you are a councilor,not a counselor :--)
RE: another question
I have only said it to two girls on this site, and meant it both times. :D
RE: another question
Yes. But love is on a continuum from affection to deep emotional bond. Love is the most overused word in the world and it is used here as often as Come to My video and Do you strip naked? So take love here with a grain of salt.
RE: another question
I say to foreign students, love can apply to anything in English, e.g. 'I love you, I also love strawberry ripple ice cream!' ' I love you one time or I love you many times, until I love another!'
A virtually meaningless verb unless qualified by sincere action, e.g. 'Marry me!'
A virtually meaningless verb unless qualified by sincere action, e.g. 'Marry me!'
RE: another question
marry me is not a sincere action.it is a question,request,plea..many things but not a sincere action.pity those poor foreign students who listen to you.
RE: another question
I dont believe you can know love via a pc screen ,
that does not mean , if you met and got to know each other away from CC that you would not find love , thats a possibility 4 sure..
just from only seeing on a screen and here paying ,, i dont think so..
I have met , and had a lover here , but was after meeting , in russia and in UK, I met also 12 other hosts, some i liked a lot but was only freinds when we met,,
Of course , If your getting close , then Im sure both of you will want to comunicate away from CC . sms , telephone , cam even..
if they dont want that , then .. I think thats a BIG sign .. its work ,,, nothing more , and enjoying the fun side here ...
that does not mean , if you met and got to know each other away from CC that you would not find love , thats a possibility 4 sure..
just from only seeing on a screen and here paying ,, i dont think so..
I have met , and had a lover here , but was after meeting , in russia and in UK, I met also 12 other hosts, some i liked a lot but was only freinds when we met,,
Of course , If your getting close , then Im sure both of you will want to comunicate away from CC . sms , telephone , cam even..
if they dont want that , then .. I think thats a BIG sign .. its work ,,, nothing more , and enjoying the fun side here ...
RE: another question
"I Love You" thoese 3 words should have your life in them, i have said it twice and ment it here, but everything is built on trust and that is the word, you need, do you trust the person who say's "I Love You"?
RE: another question
You can answer that question by looking at how many times you have siad "I love you" and meant it. I've said it 100's of times will on the verge of cumming with a lady, did I mean it? No, did it sound good? Yes, that god the laides were mature enough to understand it was said in the heat of passion and not some invation to marriage.
Question
Well i have been talking to this particular girl for a wile now, been visisting here inn vid chat many times and we have also been exchangeing emails and done a lot of regular chating.
But i have read here that some of the girls sometimes migth seem more itrested then they really are.
Anyone got any tips for how to tell if a girl is really intrested or just messing with you ?
i guess this migth be easy for some folks but i`m not the best at reading pepole.
But i have read here that some of the girls sometimes migth seem more itrested then they really are.
Anyone got any tips for how to tell if a girl is really intrested or just messing with you ?
i guess this migth be easy for some folks but i`m not the best at reading pepole.
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It's the simplest way, to see if the host chases you once you leave her alone for a while.
Although..
I'd become pretty close to a chathost here and we were in constant touch literally for years, offsite, by phone, etc.. and then she lost interest or something and disappeared... just like it happens in the 'real' world...
So the best suggestion, I think, is to 'hedge your bets' -- give a little but don't be surprised if she just ups and disappears totally for no reason.
Although..
I'd become pretty close to a chathost here and we were in constant touch literally for years, offsite, by phone, etc.. and then she lost interest or something and disappeared... just like it happens in the 'real' world...
So the best suggestion, I think, is to 'hedge your bets' -- give a little but don't be surprised if she just ups and disappears totally for no reason.
RE: Question
Clue #1 - when she sends you emails or you chat regularly... does she often ask or hint about you coming to see her in video? if not then she is sincerely interested.
Clue #2 - does she tell you personal things about herself that she would not reveal to a customer? if so she is interested and wants to get closer to you.
Clue #3 - you come home from work and you are surprised to discover her laying completely naked in your bed and saying to you "come get me big boy" in a seductive voice... umm then yeah i'm pretty sure she likes ya. LOL
Clue #2 - does she tell you personal things about herself that she would not reveal to a customer? if so she is interested and wants to get closer to you.
Clue #3 - you come home from work and you are surprised to discover her laying completely naked in your bed and saying to you "come get me big boy" in a seductive voice... umm then yeah i'm pretty sure she likes ya. LOL
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stupid me i came home and found my gf on my bed ,and throw her out of my house. damn
RE: Question
See Thomas, you shouldn't have acted so hastily. I think you have learned a valuable lesson from this. Next time you find yourself in a situation... such as finding your gf laying naked in your bed... you should remain calm, slowly walk to your computer without making eye contact or addressing her directly, log in to CC and post a message in the forums asking us how to proceed. :P
RE: Question
One standard way is if she will caht with you on Yahoo messenger. However for some girls in studios this is not always possible. Also don't forget she may also be asking herself the dame questions about you, especially if she is in adult and does shows for you in video.
RE: Question
Some use Yahoo to ask for direct payment of money for Yahoo shows.
Forget "love" until you have visited her in real life and stared deeply into her eyes.
Forget "love" until you have visited her in real life and stared deeply into her eyes.
RE: Question
chatting in yahoo is not an indication she loves u...nor looking into her eyes if u should meet...not going in vid might be helpful...u know love when being together cannot directly benefit one an other but somehow u respect and enjoy time together...unfortunately, this premise precludes a great many relations initiated here.
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Well so far so good for me anyway. I told the lady I hope to meet that this yeat I cannot chat often in vid, and that we have to do most of our chat on MSN. Luckily for me she still initiates conversation almost whenever we are both on MSN at the same time. Hopefully when we meet, we will click, as real life meeting is a different game to online meeting.
RE: Question
Ask for her cell phone and ask if you can call her at any time. Get her true mailing address and send her a card. Free videos are not always possible. She works for someone else. But if she has a computer at home she should be willing to chat with you off hours ....give it time to flourish and prove itself. She may very well like you....is happy to see you in chat....you may be nice to her...funny to her....a great way to fill empty time online...but love? She like the majority of girls here will find love in their own backyards.
RE: Question
Do not think because she sends you e-mails she is the "one". remeber, these ladies sit in front of thier computer 10 hours a day, fishing for a customer/way out.
Evaluate your own self, are you a "worthy catch"? or just some ugly slob that pays women to chat? Naswer that honestly and you will know if she using you.
Evaluate your own self, are you a "worthy catch"? or just some ugly slob that pays women to chat? Naswer that honestly and you will know if she using you.
RE: Question
realist,reality is that everybody & every situation is different.generalised questions as you posted prove nothing & help nobody.except your grasp on the absurd is stronger than your inkling of reality.
Thanks for all the help and here are some comment about your comments :)
Thanks all of you for the answers you have given
Dejavu: at times i am traveling or busy with things so i cannot visist her inn vid chat, inn those periods we usaly exchange emails. So i guess that is a good signe.
captaincaveman 1: She usaly do not ask me to visit her inn Vidchat if we are talking inn text chat
2: well i am not sertan what woude be normal i havent much experiense with this i most visit this one chathost
She has told me about her fammily and here lockal town. We have also talked a bit about her work prospects oter then CC.
But i am not sure how much i shud ask about these things, i don`t want to make here uncomfertebal inn case she dose feel that is to personal.
3: hehe nope that has not happend :)
A Member: She works inn a studio so i dont think yahoo woude not be possibel.
never knowing and Well: Well wile what we have atm migth not be love. I hope she is intrested to get to know me and maybe have a relationship that coulde develope inn to love. As you said it is hard to fall inn love befor meeting each oter but i mean she has to be intrested at some level to want to have a meet.
realist: As for my physicall attractivenes, i think i`m a fairly good looking man. That migthsound a bit cockey, but considering that i have had 2 diffrent pepole ask if i woude be intrested inn working as a model i think i got a basis to say i`m fairly attractive.
Again thanks for all the answers
Dejavu: at times i am traveling or busy with things so i cannot visist her inn vid chat, inn those periods we usaly exchange emails. So i guess that is a good signe.
captaincaveman 1: She usaly do not ask me to visit her inn Vidchat if we are talking inn text chat
2: well i am not sertan what woude be normal i havent much experiense with this i most visit this one chathost
She has told me about her fammily and here lockal town. We have also talked a bit about her work prospects oter then CC.
But i am not sure how much i shud ask about these things, i don`t want to make here uncomfertebal inn case she dose feel that is to personal.
3: hehe nope that has not happend :)
A Member: She works inn a studio so i dont think yahoo woude not be possibel.
never knowing and Well: Well wile what we have atm migth not be love. I hope she is intrested to get to know me and maybe have a relationship that coulde develope inn to love. As you said it is hard to fall inn love befor meeting each oter but i mean she has to be intrested at some level to want to have a meet.
realist: As for my physicall attractivenes, i think i`m a fairly good looking man. That migthsound a bit cockey, but considering that i have had 2 diffrent pepole ask if i woude be intrested inn working as a model i think i got a basis to say i`m fairly attractive.
Again thanks for all the answers
RE: Question
Some Ideas...
1. If she asks for money etc, this can be considered a red flag. I've been asked 3 times to send money, after I get a sob story. Maybe once or twice it's possible they were genuine, but if asked I just say that I "don't give money to people that I have never met in real life and that it's nothing personal against you as a person".
2. Try and get her postal address, claim you want to send her something and maybe just send her a card with a photo. Then if she claims to have received it, ask her to show it to you on cam some time. You could see if the address exists on Google Earth etc, although she could just give you any address.
3. Google email address, could be the address of a known scammer.
4. Expect the least and anything else is a bonus :o)
1. If she asks for money etc, this can be considered a red flag. I've been asked 3 times to send money, after I get a sob story. Maybe once or twice it's possible they were genuine, but if asked I just say that I "don't give money to people that I have never met in real life and that it's nothing personal against you as a person".
2. Try and get her postal address, claim you want to send her something and maybe just send her a card with a photo. Then if she claims to have received it, ask her to show it to you on cam some time. You could see if the address exists on Google Earth etc, although she could just give you any address.
3. Google email address, could be the address of a known scammer.
4. Expect the least and anything else is a bonus :o)
RE: Question
5. Reduce the amount of vidchat time you share with her for a while. See if she chats to you as often on MSN as she is when you are always in vid with her. Some chathosts keep in contact with you possibly to persuade you to come into vid a bit more often.
6. Remember the chathost gets $$$ when you talk in vid to her, so she has an incentive to keep talking to you.
6. Remember the chathost gets $$$ when you talk in vid to her, so she has an incentive to keep talking to you.
Fairdinkum!
The only thing worse than people who tailgate
are those people who won't get out of my way
when I get right behind them..
are those people who won't get out of my way
when I get right behind them..
RE: Fairdinkum!
and why is it anyone driving faster than me is a damm maniac and anyone driving slower than me is a jerk
RE: Fairdinkum!
and why is it that there is not a car behind me for miles and miles as i cruise along the highway... but some stupid jerk always feels the need to pull out in front of me and make me spike the brakes so they can poke along at 10-20 mph under the speed limit?