General Forum
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
the dollar is worth loads less then it usta so it doesnt count
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
Please...not another economics debacle! However, you're right, of course... Personally, I wish the US would step out of the stone age and embrace nuclear energy. I am not joking, either.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
speaking of which, where the hell does france dump all their nuclear waste? is there a french equivalent to nevada?
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
I have no intention to start a discussion about the merits of nuclear energy on a porn site. But, curious, you make me curious as to what you mean by "all" the nuclear waste. Even someone as ignorant as I know that this is currently one of the cleanest sources of energy available to us...very little waste indeed. Eco freaks and their misguided media cohorts will try to scare us into believing otherwise, of course. This is why being truly curious about science is a very healthy attitude. Keep it up!!! Feel free to reply, but this is my last comment on this matter here. It is a fascinating subject, but a little bit too much off topic, in my opinion.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
i am not an eco freak. maybe another kind of freak not not the eco kind.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
You don't want to start a discussion but say just enough to warrant a discussion. Ask someone in the area of Chernobyl or 3 mile island how wonderful and beautiful nuclear power is. So far we have been lucky the whole planet didn't melt down... and you may want to read more on disposal of spent fuel rods and how to transport them and how many years they will remain unsafe... Do you have one in your backyard Azterix or is that for someone else's yard?
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
yes, as far as air pollution is concerened, i believe nuclear energy is praised for being exceptionally clean. it's my understanding though that the nuclear fuel that is spent and later discarded in the production of that energy is still dangerously radioactive many, many years later.
by "all" i meant all of the waste that poses a danger to public health. the u.s. is temporarily storing its nuclear waste in a remote, unpopulated region of nevada, and because france is noted for producing a large portion of its energy in nuclear plants, i was just wondering what they do with their waste.
by "all" i meant all of the waste that poses a danger to public health. the u.s. is temporarily storing its nuclear waste in a remote, unpopulated region of nevada, and because france is noted for producing a large portion of its energy in nuclear plants, i was just wondering what they do with their waste.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
I live in the near vicinity of a storage area of spent nuclear fuel from World war II weapon production and the spent fuel is still "very hot" and will be for several hundred years because of the long "half-life". It is relatively safe (I do not glow in the dark), but a constant watch must be maintained on the storage tanks. The development of longer range storage is being investigated.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
I love the game "half-life" it rocks. mutants, zombies and stuff.
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
is that why they have put in Paris "bikes for rent" not long ago, on every corner of the street?!:)
RE: Oil hits $100 a barrel today
Actually all britain's energy needs could be solved by the process of drilling down to existing coalfields and burning the stuff down there. Waste carbons are filtered off and gas is extracted to use. This technique has already been used and would solve Britains needs for 100 yrs, as we have large undersea coalfields suitable for this but not traditional extraction. Unfortunately it needs large initial capital expenditure. The present bunch of incompetants would rather waste it on Olympics etc
Tell me - Why no Germany?
I was looking down the long list of countries in the CC search.
Germany is not on the list.
Does anyone know why?
Germany is not on the list.
Does anyone know why?
viewers - need your opinon
I was wondering, what you think about non nude show? Do you like it? What you like girls to do in that case? Any opinon!
thank you and happy new year
thank you and happy new year
RE: viewers - need your opinon
Really, I don't mind non-nude show's, but thats if I like the host and I enjoy talking to her. Most guy's here don't even want to think of a non-nude show, they are here for one thing and some, just that one thing, and if you disagree with me on that, remember why you came to a site like this. Hopefully this helps you a little bit :)
RE: viewers - need your opinon
hi Im not a viewer Im a host... and I am hard core adult usually. BUT I do get alot of people in my room who like to literally just sit and talk... with me fully clothed and everything! VERY odd lol I always point out they can chat with me for free but what they usually answer is "I want to see you smile when we talk" they like to see you animated, smiling, laughing and really being as much of yourself as you can be. That worksreally well for me... cant really comment on what other people do or what they like but I dont get any complaints :D x
RE: viewers - need your opinon
most of the girls I know will not talk long at all in text chat...several say it is against cc rules.
RE: viewers - need your opinon
i agree with what noseybird said.be yourself.try not to turn it into an interrogation or 20 questions :--)
RE: viewers - need your opinon
There are some hosts who can be sexier without taking all their clothes off than others are when naked. They feel more comfortable behaving sexily without actually showing all. Things that work in a non-nude show include stripping to lingerie, dancing sexily, simulated or actual masturbation. Above all it helps if the host looks as though she is enjoying what she is doing.
RE: viewers - need your opinon
There are members who come here for non-nude shows all the time and for a variety of reasons. It reduces their guilt, they feel they are not cheating on wife or gf, they are seeking friendship and companionship, they are personally unformfortable with nudity, the host is the same age as their youngest daughter, etc. So there is a market for non-adult, non-nude but.....the vast majority of members are seeking some level of nudity and sexuality. I do agree that a very few nonadult hosts can be quite sexy and they can get the job done but they are few and far between.
RE: viewers - need your opinon
I really do not understand your question. If you are not planning on stripping, why not stay in non adult rather than glamour?
RE: viewers - need your opinon
Those who suggest that the host should move to non-adult do not understand CC's rules/policy for both non-adult and glamour categories. Non-Adult rules forbid any form of stripping including showing underwear and any sort of sexual content in chat. Of course not all hosts keep to these rules but many are cautious. CC does not consider Glamour an adult category. The guidelines are that a host shold not show more than lingerie or topless. The host who started this string asked specifically about non-nude not non-adult shows. If she is considering some teasing and showing underwear then Glamour is the right category for her.
RE: viewers - need your opinon
Thank you all - I really appreciete your opinion, point of view, advices and that you took time to help me. YOU are great!
kiss and have fun:)
kiss and have fun:)
RE: viewers - need your opinon
I've seen a few non-nude shows that were better than 95% of nude shows i've seen. But it was in part because of the attitude the hosts displayed... it was sexy as hell! So IMO, if you do not enjoy it, or can't act well, don't go for non-nude shows :)
RE: viewers - need your opinon
It depends upon my mood when I come to cc. There are times that I enjoy a non nude show and other times I want a show which will involve topless or nudity depending upon my mood. There are a lot of times that I enjoy just the chat. My mood will help determine the category that I visit. I have friends in all categories.
RE: viewers - need your opinon
As an example I spent nearly 3 hours with my favorite girl today just talking and having some great laughs. She is always very willing to give me a show but I enjoy her company so much sometimes we just talk, we also spend quite a bit of time talking off line...phone-emails text-yahoo. I like to come to her video coz I know it helps her with rent and things.
Prostitute?
Why do some guys want to call pretty ladies prostitutes? Is it because they want money up front? Hell, imagine getting married to a lady then she turns into a fat slob and when you go and divorce her smely ass she wants half your money....I ask you is she a prostitute?
RE: Prostitute?
No, going along with your linguistic acrobatics, your ex would then be referred to as a restitute, and you would at that point be considered a destitute. ;P
RE: Prostitute?
Well sorry to disappoint you both but there is no such word as restitute in the English dictionaries, we only use the uncountable noun of restitution. Destitute is an adjective again noun is destitution.
RE: Prostitute?
Actually, the noun is destituteness, which you should know if you call yourself the English Teacher. ;P How do you like THEM apples? lol
http://www.m-w.com/dictionary/destitute
However, in my previous post I was just having fun. Although English is not my first languge, I pride myself on the correct use of it in formal settings. oN a site like this, however, I recklessly abandon All rules of grammaR. Besides...I'm pretty sure if MissCBT and I cared enough, we could sooner or later get those words included in the dictonary as proper nouns... What do you think MissCBT....would it be worth a liftetime of hard work?
http://www.m-w.com/dictionary/destitute
However, in my previous post I was just having fun. Although English is not my first languge, I pride myself on the correct use of it in formal settings. oN a site like this, however, I recklessly abandon All rules of grammaR. Besides...I'm pretty sure if MissCBT and I cared enough, we could sooner or later get those words included in the dictonary as proper nouns... What do you think MissCBT....would it be worth a liftetime of hard work?
RE: Prostitute?
Well sorry to disappoint you again but dictionary you quote is an American product which therefore is not British English. And I don't teach students American English
RE: Prostitute?
I think I prefer the terms "restitutionist" and destituter" - I think the world would be a much better place if you and Azterix devoted your free to popularizing both.
RE: Prostitute?
Seemed like a splendid idea last night, sweetie, but today I'm completely sober. I can think of a few other more meaningful things that I'd rather devote my time to. Would be nice to quiet those anal retentive grammar buffs, though! ;)
RE: how members wannt me? single or with another girl at lesbi category???
mmmmm, two fat girls rolling around in their own juices.
RE: how members wannt me? single or with another girl at lesbi category???
No fat girls! Period!
RE: how members wannt me? single or with another girl at lesbi category???
I do GREAT business here as a bbw model/host so dont listen to those negative members who havent got anything good to say. I have mainly attentive fantastic members who treat me like gold... so dnt worry about how big you or your girlfriends bum is. I would imagine that 2 for the price of 1 will attract many curvy fans. So go for it and see what happens. Ignore anyone who brings youdown honey and GOOD LUCK!!!
cuckold fantasies?
I am looking for a sexy dominant girl to roleplay a fantasy about being cuckolded...who can pretend to be my gf while I watch her with guys with really huge cocks...
hello
i get to post my first forum here for the new year of 2008, i got to say, this place is better than community chat room, you get to say whats on your mind and in there you can't. Everybody in there is typing so fast and chatting away I can't keep up and all the friends are together sharing their stories from last nights party. Now were was I, oh yeah, on my mind, this year is going to be a good year, i can tell, gas is up, food is up, housing is up, wine is up, automobiles are up, videos are up,etc..., all i can think of is down, is job, economy, and its election year. Happy New Year CC, and all have a great year,,
p.s.: im a uncle now
p.s.: im a uncle now
RE: hello
congrats to the new uncle and espically the new parents.
I understand what ur saying about the comm caht room. I used to go there all the time but I go ther now and it's 15 mins of "hi's" "hello's" and "goodbyes". I had to leave and move on to other rooms, onlt coming her to read the post and professing my lust for asiandoll...masarap.
I understand what ur saying about the comm caht room. I used to go there all the time but I go ther now and it's 15 mins of "hi's" "hello's" and "goodbyes". I had to leave and move on to other rooms, onlt coming her to read the post and professing my lust for asiandoll...masarap.
RE: favorite movie star you wish was in instant action here?
she dont have to be a host here, shes naked all the time anyway! what about Shakira?
RE: favorite movie star you wish was in instant action here?
I have to go with Jessica too but before she was pregnant.
RE: favorite movie star you wish was in instant action here?
well Jessica Alba is #1 on my actress hottie list, but she seems more like she's the sensual behind-closed-doors only kinda lover so i think if she was here she would end up being one of those "i'm shy, only in 1-2-1" kind of host. So instead, my top 5 picks for favorite movie stars that would let it all hang out and get freaky in instant action are...
1) Cameron Diaz
2) Angelina Jolie
3) Jennifer Tilly
4) Sharon Stone
5) Jaime Pressly
1) Cameron Diaz
2) Angelina Jolie
3) Jennifer Tilly
4) Sharon Stone
5) Jaime Pressly
RE: favorite movie star you wish was in instant action here?
Kate Beckinsale.
I need no other. Also, with her alone, i'd go bankrupt...
I need no other. Also, with her alone, i'd go bankrupt...
RE: favorite movie star you wish was in instant action here?
This is a fantasy site,but you guys are out of your minds
A joke
A man was tired of living the busy city life, so he moved away to live in a cabin in a remote area of the mountains. There he enjoyed a life in solitude; hunting, fishing, no television and no computers. However, after a year or so without speaking to anyone, he started feeling a little lonely. He was therefore very pleased when one day there was a knock on his door and a big, burly, rough looking guy was standing on his doorstep inviting him to a local party the following night. He gladly accepted, but as the visitor was about to leave, he turned and said:
"Got to warn you, though...there's gonna be some heavy drinking going on tomorow night!" Our man laughed, saying he enjoyed a drink or five as much drinking as the next guy.
"I also got to warn you...there's gonna be some serious gambling going on!" No problem, our friend assured.
"There's probably gonna be some fist fighthing, too!" Our friend laughed...and said that wasn't afraid of anyone.
"And, I might as well mention, there's gonna be some purty rough sex going on as well...hope you're one of them prudes!" Our friend assured his visitor that this would represent no problem, either.
As the guy was about to leave, our friend called out:
Oh...I forgot...how should I dress for tomorrow's party?"
The visitor replied:
"It ain't gonna make no difference, son...ain't gonna be any there tomorra but just the two of us!" ;P
"Got to warn you, though...there's gonna be some heavy drinking going on tomorow night!" Our man laughed, saying he enjoyed a drink or five as much drinking as the next guy.
"I also got to warn you...there's gonna be some serious gambling going on!" No problem, our friend assured.
"There's probably gonna be some fist fighthing, too!" Our friend laughed...and said that wasn't afraid of anyone.
"And, I might as well mention, there's gonna be some purty rough sex going on as well...hope you're one of them prudes!" Our friend assured his visitor that this would represent no problem, either.
As the guy was about to leave, our friend called out:
Oh...I forgot...how should I dress for tomorrow's party?"
The visitor replied:
"It ain't gonna make no difference, son...ain't gonna be any there tomorra but just the two of us!" ;P
Thank you to the hosts
I want to thanks the hosts that didn't increase their price in the last 2 days. I was alone these days and needed a friend so I came here looking to spend some time and talk with a pretty girl. I only saw the hosts that kept their regular price x minute. Thank you to the honest hosts! I had more than 50 favorite, now I have 41. Nine are out of my list for increasing their price even double or triple their regular price..... Its sickening...
RE: Thank you to the hosts
good.as long as i'm not the only one that noticed this.yeah,i'm still a cheap bastard.so what. LOL
RE: Thank you to the hosts
Yes...so we can celebrate the hosts who have shown sound business sense...good on 'em.
I have an idea!
First:
Remember that CC takes half of what a chathost makes.
Or thats my understanding.
Then if the chathost works in a studio, the studio
takes a percentage.
Incentives work!
The company I work for has risen to the top
because of the incentives it gives its workers.
I think CC, studios and chathosts would all benefit,
if chathosts that bring in more money were rewarded
with keeping higher percentages. Maybe up to 55 percent
from CC or higher for top earning chathosts and a higher
percentage from the chathosts studio.
(Maybe there are incentives already, I don't know)
There would be less pressure to raise the price to the viewer.
Viewers would experience better service from more chathosts
that are trying for those incentives.
Then maybe CC could reward viewers with a little bonus money
after every hundred dollars spent in video.
Or once a month a lucky viewer would get some bonus money
to spent in video.
More viewers spending more money in video!
Just a thought!
Happy New Year everyone! :)
Remember that CC takes half of what a chathost makes.
Or thats my understanding.
Then if the chathost works in a studio, the studio
takes a percentage.
Incentives work!
The company I work for has risen to the top
because of the incentives it gives its workers.
I think CC, studios and chathosts would all benefit,
if chathosts that bring in more money were rewarded
with keeping higher percentages. Maybe up to 55 percent
from CC or higher for top earning chathosts and a higher
percentage from the chathosts studio.
(Maybe there are incentives already, I don't know)
There would be less pressure to raise the price to the viewer.
Viewers would experience better service from more chathosts
that are trying for those incentives.
Then maybe CC could reward viewers with a little bonus money
after every hundred dollars spent in video.
Or once a month a lucky viewer would get some bonus money
to spent in video.
More viewers spending more money in video!
Just a thought!
Happy New Year everyone! :)
RE: Thank you to the hosts
Sorry, couldn't resist. Wankly, I mean, frankly...it's a matter of supply and demand. Like flowers on valentines day. If you want to acknowledge those hosts that didn't raise their prices, then that's nice of you. However, I wouldn't be too hard on those that did raise their prices...must be hard to have to work here during the holidays, when you'd rather be with family and friends. Not unusual for other occupations to get paid a premium during the holidays. Still, you've got a perfect right to decide who you'd like to visit or not visit in the future, for whatever reason you choose... *Azterix
what is faster...the result
ok so last year i asked whats faster a snail or a slug...turns out the slug is...both were thrown with the same force but the slug hit the wall within a shorter time (also made more mess) guess the shell on the snail acts like a parachute :)
RE: what is faster...the result
Interesting experiment Shy !! And remember........ A Slug is not just for Christmas..... :-)
RE: what is faster...the result
Now we know where the escapee of the mental institute went, i will call the guys in white to come get her, don't worry imshy all will be normal soon
RE: what is faster...the result
Thanks Angellus for your observation, but can't I be an Imshy fan without being female ?? After all Imshy is a sweet lad !!
RE: what is faster...the result
Nope. I'm sure imshy would rather have female or wish it was female or at least anything close to a female :D
RE: what is faster...the result
Interesting observation, shy. Also, do you know the most effective way to kill a garden snail? You sneek up behind it while it's not looking, then cup your hand and whisper in it's ear: "Garlic butter!!!"
RE: what is faster...the result
Q. How do you tell which end of a worm is its head ?
A. Tickle it in the middle and see which end laughs.
A. Tickle it in the middle and see which end laughs.
RE: what is faster...the result
one of the funniest things Ive seen in a while VERY funny.. poor little snails xx
RE: what is faster...the result
Or, you could dust it with flour and wait for it to whistle... ;)
RE: what is faster...the result
no it took me 3 weeks...3 weeks ago was last year...do try to keep up :)
RE: what is faster...the result
scientific curiosity begs the following question shy
did you conduct these tests indoors or out
did you conduct these tests indoors or out
RE: what is faster...the result
i did this inside war..if the test was done outdoors the probability of it being 100% accurate would b in doubt as the slightest bit of wind would change the velocity of each object thus rendering the test null and void
RE: what is faster...the result
that's the kind of thing i imagine jeffrey dahmer having done when he was just a kid.
now i can see
Now look whos online..
Not the ones with Bfs im sure..
will be out celebrating , partying , enjoying ..
Not the ones with Bfs im sure..
will be out celebrating , partying , enjoying ..
RE: now i can see
HAPPY NEW YEAR CC---its going to be a good year, new members, new host, all get along, peace on earth, more people getting married, people going video more and oh yes,, now for the celebration, im here, avaiable, wild, and free
RE: now i can see
I have my life, and this is why i wasnt online on the new years eve, and not cuz i have a bf-im single. But cuz i have my mom, my dad, my lil brothers and my friends.Duh
happy new year!!!
happy new year...un an nou fericit... s novym godom...gelukkig nieuw jaar....bonne année....gutes neues jahr....feliz año nuevo
RE: happy new year!!!
Happy New Year to you too mate......
And Happy New Year to everyone else!
I hope 2008 id great for all of us!
And Happy New Year to everyone else!
I hope 2008 id great for all of us!
RE: Resolutions for 2008?
I have been quite sick for sometime with suspected MS... and I am determined that I will not be in my wheelchair by the end of this year AT ANY TIME. Im only in it now when things are bad but it wont be that way at all by the end of the year.
I will have my 'professional site' up and running and working part time off that.
I will be working in my mainstream job again too... should be using my degree a little more me thinks.
By January 1st 2009 I will be pregnant with our first baby... and yes my hubby knows all about it! lol
I will love more, kiss more, care more and take less crap!!
nothing too strenuous for me this year!
I will have my 'professional site' up and running and working part time off that.
I will be working in my mainstream job again too... should be using my degree a little more me thinks.
By January 1st 2009 I will be pregnant with our first baby... and yes my hubby knows all about it! lol
I will love more, kiss more, care more and take less crap!!
nothing too strenuous for me this year!
RE: Resolutions for 2008?
that is the best new year resolution i have ever heard....good luck b happy and may all ur desires come true...kiss
RE: Resolutions for 2008?
I agree with shy. What a wonderful resolution and I hope it all comes good for you :)
Happy new year hopeful host :)
Happy new year hopeful host :)
RE: Resolutions for 2008?
Love all, trust a few, harm no one...as simple as it may seem, its never as easy to follow in real life, so i will try this year once again to be better....
happy new year to all!!!
happy new year to all!!!
Happy new year
To all my friends, hosts and cc staff. Hope this be a wonderful year for everyone.
Happy New Year
To all I wish you a good 2008 and that the year ahead is better than the one we leave behind us . This is a time of reflection on our lives , what has passed and what we wish for and aspire for in the future . Life is too short , seize it and change it and don't wait for things to just happen ..... To all good health and happiness ( especially the special one ) :-)))
Happy New Year
Well I hope every one has a great new year and I'll see you with a massive hangover in 2008 :)
If anyone is still in contact with Psy, Triksy or Nadeen can you let them know I said hi and wish them a good new year.
And to all those people I was rude to and hurt in 2007 I only have one thing to say.
I intend to be twice as bad in 2008 :P
If anyone is still in contact with Psy, Triksy or Nadeen can you let them know I said hi and wish them a good new year.
And to all those people I was rude to and hurt in 2007 I only have one thing to say.
I intend to be twice as bad in 2008 :P
RE: Happy New Year
get a life dude--who cares if your hurt someone in front of a computer screen
RE: Happy New Year
Before you ask someone like INYF to get a life...consider the possibility that his comment about hurting people was made in jest. Also, I'm trying to make sense out of your second sentence and think I think I have at least a vague idea of what you're trying to say. Well, I disagree...I think people can get very hurt by something they read on a computer screen. In fact, there recently was a news story about an american teenage girl who commited suicide because of what some classmates had written about her on an online bulletin board. People tend to attach very powerful emotions to the written word...
To INYF... don't worry. Except the previous poster, nobody here really take anything you say very seriously. But, we're stil looking forward to the new, not-improved 2008 version of yourself!
To INYF... don't worry. Except the previous poster, nobody here really take anything you say very seriously. But, we're stil looking forward to the new, not-improved 2008 version of yourself!
RE: Happy New Year
To hungover to post individually. So thanks Asterix, tisme, anon, warchant2000 and I think "to happy".
As for happy it will be a cold day in hell when I even consider hedding the advice or comments made of someone who uses the word "dude".
As for happy it will be a cold day in hell when I even consider hedding the advice or comments made of someone who uses the word "dude".
"unconditional love"
I already posted this in th Viewer Only Forum, but them I realized the hosts couldn't react to it so I put it here, too.
Here's the idiot fantasy trap of "unconditional love" again. There is no such thing with people who have any brains or self-respect.
Here's a situation: A guy and girl hang out for a while and declare love for each other. The guy is tired of living with his mom so he moves into the girl's apartment, but his job pays less than hers so he only gives a few dollars per month, but it's ok because she loves him.
He wants a mobile phone and can't get credit so he asks her to get one for him and he promises to pay the bill. She does it because she loves him. Whenever they go out he "forgets" his money and she pays the bill because she loves him.
He starts to go out "with the guys" more, leaving her at home and it's ok because she loves him. He insists she can't go out with her friends because guys might hit on her and she agrees because she loves him. He starts coming home drunks and high and starting arguments over nothing and it's ok because she loves him.
His boss isn't nice to him and wants him to work more hours and actually obey orders so he quits and just hangs around the apartment watching TV and playing video games. It's ok, she loves him. He starts taking a few bucks from her purse to buy cigarettes and beer and she resents it, but it's ok because she loves him.
He tells her that her family sucks and he never wants to see any of them around the apartment and tell them to stop calling because they aren't fair to him. She loves her family very much but essentially cuts off all communication with them because she loves him.
Girls start calling him and he tells her to shut up and mind her own business and she does because she loves him. One night she tells him a friend told her that he got some girl pregnant and asks him about it and he punches her in the face and she forgives him because she loves him.
In the end she has no friends, cut herself off from her family, nurses bruises regularly and has to get a second job to pay the bills because he's spending more and more and says he's too busy to work.
Extreme? Yes. Does it happen? All the time with some variations. Why talk about the extremes? Because there is a fantasy of "unconditional love" that must be broken. True love in built on mutual respect and affection. It should not be treated lightly and cast aside thoughtlessly, but there are limits which cannot be crossed.
I can easily build a opposite scenario based on the man being the abused party, but the message is already too long.
Here's the idiot fantasy trap of "unconditional love" again. There is no such thing with people who have any brains or self-respect.
Here's a situation: A guy and girl hang out for a while and declare love for each other. The guy is tired of living with his mom so he moves into the girl's apartment, but his job pays less than hers so he only gives a few dollars per month, but it's ok because she loves him.
He wants a mobile phone and can't get credit so he asks her to get one for him and he promises to pay the bill. She does it because she loves him. Whenever they go out he "forgets" his money and she pays the bill because she loves him.
He starts to go out "with the guys" more, leaving her at home and it's ok because she loves him. He insists she can't go out with her friends because guys might hit on her and she agrees because she loves him. He starts coming home drunks and high and starting arguments over nothing and it's ok because she loves him.
His boss isn't nice to him and wants him to work more hours and actually obey orders so he quits and just hangs around the apartment watching TV and playing video games. It's ok, she loves him. He starts taking a few bucks from her purse to buy cigarettes and beer and she resents it, but it's ok because she loves him.
He tells her that her family sucks and he never wants to see any of them around the apartment and tell them to stop calling because they aren't fair to him. She loves her family very much but essentially cuts off all communication with them because she loves him.
Girls start calling him and he tells her to shut up and mind her own business and she does because she loves him. One night she tells him a friend told her that he got some girl pregnant and asks him about it and he punches her in the face and she forgives him because she loves him.
In the end she has no friends, cut herself off from her family, nurses bruises regularly and has to get a second job to pay the bills because he's spending more and more and says he's too busy to work.
Extreme? Yes. Does it happen? All the time with some variations. Why talk about the extremes? Because there is a fantasy of "unconditional love" that must be broken. True love in built on mutual respect and affection. It should not be treated lightly and cast aside thoughtlessly, but there are limits which cannot be crossed.
I can easily build a opposite scenario based on the man being the abused party, but the message is already too long.
RE: "unconditional love"
Sounds like some type of unhealthy emotional dependence for someone to take that type of abuse. By the way, where do I find a woman like that? Being a "kept" man sounds kind of fun with the ability to have lots of women and complete control, lol.
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sounds familiar , as u say witha few variations..
I know 3 girls that work here that live like that..
or have done..
1 left her guy a few months ago... but recently , decided it was her choice to return ... he will change wont he ?
nope..
an old saying i heard..
a man marries a women hoping she will never change , and she does...
a woman maries a man hoping she will change him . she never does..
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so you posted it here so twice as many people would know that you think you are,but in reality you're not.
You have to love yourself first, then the other.
There is a big difference between love and obsession. Love always ends the same way it started if its not cherished everyday. Also, you dont have to be a sucker to love unconditionally. When someone takes all that beating is usually lust and not love, they think there is no life after the aggressor and receive the abuse with patience. Its all in the victim's self steem, self concept of love and self respect.
"When someone takes all that beating is usually lust and not love, they think there is no life after the aggressor and receive the abuse with patience. Its all in the victim's self steem, self concept of love and self respect. "
Not lust, but rather desperation... an illness rather than a celebration. And the romantic propaganda that love is unconditional or it's not real.
If you declare undying love and your mate goes through a continuing series of unapologetic affairs, gambles away all the couple's money, refuses all attempts at counseling and treats you with absolutely no respect, it's a hint that you should put conditions on your love.
If you declare undying love and your mate goes through a continuing series of unapologetic affairs, gambles away all the couple's money, refuses all attempts at counseling and treats you with absolutely no respect, it's a hint that you should put conditions on your love.
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I know one chathost friend that's getting hit all the time by her beast bf. Sometimes she is in non-adults since she can't show her bruised legs from all that beating she gets every time her bf comes in drunk at night and starts calling her whore and prostitute for doing this job, but he cant find a job that deserves his looks and she pays their flat and food, lol. She tells me she feels she will not find a better looking man and how much she is in love with him. she says she would not live without him.... Sad but true.
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im sorry and i dont mean to be blunt, but if a girl would stay with him after this, then shes a mug. if she still loves him after this and doesnt realise theres someone who she could be so much happier with, then shes a mug.
i have heard it so many times. you love a person for there personality. now, if the personality is hitting woman and being a dick, and she loves that, more the fool she is.
it usaly a case they have probably been brainwashed, and are scared to leave a person.
i feel sorry for woman in this posission. they only have one desission to make really, but unfortuantly, they take the wrong one. there is another life out there, and a better one.
i have heard it so many times. you love a person for there personality. now, if the personality is hitting woman and being a dick, and she loves that, more the fool she is.
it usaly a case they have probably been brainwashed, and are scared to leave a person.
i feel sorry for woman in this posission. they only have one desission to make really, but unfortuantly, they take the wrong one. there is another life out there, and a better one.
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"What the fook?!? "There is no such thing with people who have any brains or self-respect" You flunked out of high school didn't you?
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unconditional love is like altruism - if you really stop to think about what each really means, you realize that both are pretty unlikely.
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Yeah, I agree...extremely rare...but it does happen. However, in those rare cases the perputator of the love usually winds up on a cross, with a bullet in his or her head, or something like that. I don't think the topic of unconditional love belongs in a discussion of romantic love. Everyone wants something from someone...and what makes it good or bad is only the extent to which some people will go to get what they want.
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well that's either a waste of a perfectly good bullet or a cross and nails. bit of overkill don't you think
Hey Mr. "Economist"
As I indicated in my first "the dollar and you", interest rates are one factor that affect the value of the dollar. With your know-it-all attitude coming through loud and clear, your comment was to respond by saying that I was so inaccurate that you did not know where to begin. You still have not yet chosen to enlighten us all, and in terms of describing your knowledge, I DO know where to begin.... You are clueless!
http://www.cnbc.com/id/22443760
The poster awhile back that attacked self-described experts as having little knowledge about anything was ineed accurate.
Happy New Year to all!!!
http://www.cnbc.com/id/22443760
The poster awhile back that attacked self-described experts as having little knowledge about anything was ineed accurate.
Happy New Year to all!!!
RE: Hey Mr.
Pissed off? Not really. I am not dwelling on the issue every day or anything... The article simply reminded me of his comments.... just like my post today obviously reminded you of my earlier post since you knew that the orignal post was about a month ago. I am sure that you have had experiences that annoyed you , but you forgot about them. However, when something reminds you of what happened earlier, you get annoyed all over again for a few moments.
Upon being reminded, I got a little annoyed because people like that are a bit aggravating. Consequently, I couldn't resist the urge to let him know one more time that he is clueless. People with that type of personality are aggravating and need to be reminded that they are no better than the rest of us, in fact, they are probably worse than the average person. I simply felt that it was appropriate to remind him one more time in case he forgot.
Upon being reminded, I got a little annoyed because people like that are a bit aggravating. Consequently, I couldn't resist the urge to let him know one more time that he is clueless. People with that type of personality are aggravating and need to be reminded that they are no better than the rest of us, in fact, they are probably worse than the average person. I simply felt that it was appropriate to remind him one more time in case he forgot.
RE: Hey Mr.
Dredging up messages that can't easily be referred to is silly and pointless. It took you this long to think of a "come back?"
And, by the way, why hasn't anyone in public noted that the basic reason for the real estate bust was liberal political activism that pushed for easier credit for "the underprivileged," which opened the floodgates for the scammers and criminal elements?
And, by the way, why hasn't anyone in public noted that the basic reason for the real estate bust was liberal political activism that pushed for easier credit for "the underprivileged," which opened the floodgates for the scammers and criminal elements?
Enjoy the Republican Primaries
Well, I am not sure of the entire cause of the mortgage crisis, but I would think that corporate greed and unethical lending practices played a major role. And while I am not sure what role, if any, liberal activism played, I will acknowledge that borrowers are at fault as well.
By the way, in terms of evidence of corporate greed and unethical lending practices, I believe that the government is now revising lending rules to reduce the liklihood of similar problems in the future. What is your evidence of liberal activism causing the problem?
By the way, in terms of evidence of corporate greed and unethical lending practices, I believe that the government is now revising lending rules to reduce the liklihood of similar problems in the future. What is your evidence of liberal activism causing the problem?
EXACTLY
Those "unethical lending practices" were only made possible as banks' lending policies were required to loosen-up allow loans to those who were previously considered bad risks. When those policies were loosened up is when the vultures swooped in and started taking advantage of the economically illiterate.
Corporate greed and the lust for profits has always been there. The need to extend credit to those who could not otherwise afford it is a liberal policy driven by activists.
Corporate greed and the lust for profits has always been there. The need to extend credit to those who could not otherwise afford it is a liberal policy driven by activists.
RE: Enjoy the Republican Primaries
come on, if anyone's giving money to the poor it just has to be a pinko liberal.
RE: Enjoy the Republican Primaries
lord knows a repubilican would never do that unless a profit was involved
RE: Hey Mr.
probably because that only applies to individual families housing and does not begin to cover the coming bust in all other phases of real estate
RE: Hey Mr.
Well, if you notice they are all talking about the housing collapse and the bundled bad loans that are the basis of the problem with lenders.
Common real estate speculation is different and not a crisis now.
Common real estate speculation is different and not a crisis now.
RE: Hey Mr.
said coming bust not currently in crisis and i obviously did notice hence the individual family housing
RE: Hey Mr.
I don't consider myself a liberal, but I have to disagree with you and side with these who quote greed as the real cause. The whole idea about extending credit in a responsible way is that you have some kind of a collateral...Let's use a car loan as an example.Someone who's put down a significant downpayment has a "vested interest" in not defaulting on the loan...by doing so they'd loose their equity. By offering no-downpayment deals, the car dealers are removing this important incentive for the borrower to honor the arrangement...it's just too easy for the borrower to walk a way in case he gets in financial trouble. Why are car dealers offering such deals, then? Simple...they want to sell more cars, even if it means selling to people who cannot afford it. I'm not an economist, just using common sense...greed is the underlying cause on both sides.
RE: Hey Mr.
And the recent practice of allowing lenders to bundle the loans and sell them as third-party investment vehicles rather than requiring lenders to hold them locally is a big problem. If a bank is required to hold the paper they tend to be more thoughttful in their policies.
Also by being so generous with government guaranteed loans the feds encourage lenders to make essentially "signature loans" to everybody and everybody that can hold a pen, knowing they'll get their money no matter what.
Also by being so generous with government guaranteed loans the feds encourage lenders to make essentially "signature loans" to everybody and everybody that can hold a pen, knowing they'll get their money no matter what.
RE: Hey Mr.
didn't andrew cuomo, who is now trying to sue the banks in NY change alot of the lending rules when he was at HUD to allow alot of these loans to be made. if so he has chutzpah
New Year's Eve
I hope Grandfather Frost and Snegurochka find all good ppl in Russia, and especially my very dear friends.
It's the End!!!!
I think now after 4 years of being here, It is time to say goodbye to this world. I have met many great people here, and some not so great. I have been sucked into the "I Love You" game, and spat out when the money was no-longer needed. I have made friends, laughed and cried. It has been a wonderful time.....most of the the time.
To all of you that remember me, I wish you all the best. To those I'm still in contact with outside of here, well you know we will be staying in contact :)
Now do I have any advice to those who still here, well, all I can say is enjoy it.
To Members: Yes there are hosts here, who are, believe it or not, genuine, honest people. Of course there are those who see all members as walking Cash Machine and see you as nothing more than a sad loser for being here. It is like real life, you will find the bad and the good here.
To Hosts: Well what can I say, Ignore the idiots, and if you fall for a member. Best course of action I can give is. Move all communication away from here. Then and only then will the trust build.
I not know what more I can say. Other than I Wish Everyone here, to all the Members, Hosts, Camcontacts staff (and Bosses) and to the Studio Boss's I Wish You a Very Happy and Prosperous New Year. I hope 2008 brings all you wish for.
Cheers Everyone
Loverman72
Icantsay
1cantsay
To all of you that remember me, I wish you all the best. To those I'm still in contact with outside of here, well you know we will be staying in contact :)
Now do I have any advice to those who still here, well, all I can say is enjoy it.
To Members: Yes there are hosts here, who are, believe it or not, genuine, honest people. Of course there are those who see all members as walking Cash Machine and see you as nothing more than a sad loser for being here. It is like real life, you will find the bad and the good here.
To Hosts: Well what can I say, Ignore the idiots, and if you fall for a member. Best course of action I can give is. Move all communication away from here. Then and only then will the trust build.
I not know what more I can say. Other than I Wish Everyone here, to all the Members, Hosts, Camcontacts staff (and Bosses) and to the Studio Boss's I Wish You a Very Happy and Prosperous New Year. I hope 2008 brings all you wish for.
Cheers Everyone
Loverman72
Icantsay
1cantsay
RE: It's the End!!!!
Good luck man. Thanks for the advice. I will resist the urge to say you'll be back but I begin to realize all things must come to an end someday. Peace brother.
RE: It's the End!!!!
i dont think so shy, i know this person and he has life outside here, not like some of us others
RE: It's the End!!!!
yeah,think i'll leave too................................riiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiight.LOL although i've never had a host say the L word to me yet. maybe once that happens,i'll leave.LOL
RE: It's the End!!!!
the L word.is it licker,loiterer,loser or.....but i'm sure you've heard them all before & not just by hosts :--)