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subtitled"the need for flashin' " :--)

p.s to get you started
to grip,grope,grind & sometimes find.too often you will go blind :--)

Austin turns to Chaser with his gold in his hand, said Chaser you're lookin at a lonely man, I'd trade all the gold that's buried in this land for one small band of gold to place on sweet little angelina jolie hand. cause a man needs a woman to love him all the time, remember Chaser a true love is so hard to find, I'd build for my angelina jolie a honeymoon home below that old white mountain just a little sout-east of Nome. Wait you said a verse, sorry my friend, I got carried away with North to Alaska, by the way its cool hearing you writing again.

from anyone ekse but you aus,they would be passionate,romantic lyrics.however coming from you,it's just more evidence in aj's stalking case against you :--)

austin anytime you want to stalk me and sing about gold to me, come and see me.

welcome back Chaser--here is my verse for your song.
when you feel the passion, take me to the place where no one has been

My darling I, can't get enough of your love babe
Girl, I don't know, I don't know why

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the place none has been,is that the last chance hotel :--)

Mr Chaser were you been hiding , with Caras mom in romania ?

daisymae my love I feel the passion (song verse of course0

Dude-ly Thats Not Passion - Thas Last Nights PIZZA!!!!

love me all the way to the bank

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I have to give you credit if you actually understood Yuki's post.

And as an American, I find that my "thirst" for a fast and easy show rises with the price. ;) Charge reasonably, and a very patient and fair viewer this American shall be. What's your nick, btw?

I find it we americans are here for entertainment so what is pay for and how long the video is we should be entertain, we are not here for social or a dating site, thats what I love about CC. I can choose who I want to video and chat with and not put up with a lot of non-sense.

Let's rock the house. If the chat happy high priced hosts here are "not in the mood", there are many other places to find girls that are.

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When I was in East Europe I got tired of being pick-pocketed by your countrymen. After a few times I nearly cut that thiefs 2 fingers off while he was still in my pocket. He and the police wanted to know why I did that. So I asked them why do you pick pocket me when I visit your country? The answer I got was:

WE ARE POOR BUT ALL AMERICANS ARE RICH AND YOU WON'T MISS THE LITTLE WE TAKE.

Well now we know where so many of the attitudes come from on here when less than honesty is the case. Shaking head....amazing.

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i don't come here to have my brain stimulated. don't make this site out to be more than it is. if i want to chat up a girl and find out all about her and get intellectually intimate with her, this is not the place to do it. i am polite and respectful to the girls here, just as i am to anyone i interact with that provides a service I AM PAYING FOR.
if you think americans are rude feel free to block the entire country.

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Right on brother. You are de man dean! We are PAYING customers

"if i want to chat up a girl and find out all about her and get intellectually intimate with her, this is not the place to do it."

well if that's what you want, er, rather, don't want, then fine. But if someone else desires it, then that's fine too, This site is what it is, and what members and hosts make of it. So if someone wants to pay for chatting up a girl and knowing all about her and getting intellectually intimate with her, that's their business.

heyyy,you need to realise.being reasoned,logical,considered & thoughtful isn't acceptable to these members who find it hard to say hi & bye to their fists as they wrap it round their manhood for the 30 second dash. :--)

He was only stating what he came on site for not what you or anyone else was here for. EEH was clearly slamming American viewers. All we suggested was to block the entire country and her problem is solved. And American viewers could go to hosts that were happy to have us spend our money in their pvts.

oh, U're jayG not JayZ? well, was listening southern crunk rap. maybe U can join me :)

just a guess but bet it's about the latest blocked viewer

in general american's opinion of their country,is like their delusions about their manhood.overblown,overstated,overhyped & ultimately disappointing :--)

well, I don't have any problem with americans. and as long as I know, an american has russian/asian at the same time :)

and they say us Americans are rude, after reading this post from a Europeean host I have to say Americans are not the only ones that are rude in here, anyway i agree with dean-maybe you should ignore all Americans since we are the rudest and i do get your point about this post and i have no problem with it-thats why we Americans do believe in "Freedom of Speech" -good lost east europeean host

I agree 100%. If any host, for any reason would prefer not to have Americans in her pvt, just block the whole country. There are 4.2 million porn sites on the net and over 13 million cam girls. I think we can find a few that would be happy to have us spend our money in their pvt.

I'd bet the farm this host is in Glamour and blocks viewers for just politely asking for an erotic nude show. I'm blocked from half of the rooms in Glamour, so I have no doubt she blocked me.

What is the provenance for those statistics on the number of porn sites and cam girls?

i think it's called "exaggeration" for effect. But it's probably pretty close LOL

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Since we Americans (Al the moonbeam Gore specifically) invented the internet - you really do owe us more since you make your living and feed your face from the fruits of our invention.

Touchee

More historical revisionism by the US. Ok the bit about Al Gore is no doubt a joke, but you presumably believe the rest. If anybody can be singly credited with inventing the internet it is actually Tim Berners-Lee, an Englishman.

I was using the internet before 1989 when your guy is 'credited with inventing the internet'. US DARPA

Good one!

LOL I like that one

Thanks for the Good Samaritan, by the way was a good one.

that was wheely good :--)

that was bad taste of words tisme

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Yeh kind of like the old joke:
Child: "Mommy, Mommy, why do I keep walking aound in circles?"
Mommy: "Shut up, kid, or I'll nail your other foot to the floor!"

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haha, good one :)

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verbose but actually made me laugh! lol

"fact of the day"

If this is gonna be a regular thing, could you make tomorrows interesting please...

i'll ask the bbc but i can't promise anything

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this is the best I can do, maybe we should discuss glamour category, prices, or meeting host

The creamy white discharge might be thrush..... yuk! lol

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I HATE FAKE SQUIRT!!!!!

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What do you mean by damaged? I doubt nearly all can. Only a small percentage of women can squirt.

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I like yr style and yr knowledge! Might have to visit you!

you think it's just pee? You have a lot to learn about female physiology, as well as about this amazing aspect of female ejaculation.

btw, have you ever tried to pee in the middle of an orgasm?

If you are such an expert on the human anatomy, could you explain where the not insubstantial amount of liquid which can be released in a "squirt" is to be found in the body prior to the "squirt". I assume it isn't spontaneously created from nothing, that would be magic!

I believe Porn Star to be entirely correct in her assertions. But, we must not confuse the real female ejaculation (involving a relatively small amount of liquid) with what is usually seen in movies, which is sometimes pee and sometimes water that has been introduced into the vagina via douche or similar method, then ejected with a strong muscle contraction during the fake orgasm scene. If you see a steam of liquid that seems like it is a litre or more shooting across the room like old faithful, that's fake.

She herself uses the word "gush" which implies a reasonably large volume, so my question remains valid

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I have come to know a certain host on another site quite well both on and offsite. Her squirts are real, they are voluminous, they are multiple, they are not fake, pee, water injected by douche or any other such method. Where it comes from, or how it is produced, I do not know, have not researched, and don't really care.

either you're picking the wrong girls, or maybe its just you. try brushing your teeth that always helps.

whats your point? lol

there are 3 main trains of thought here,
1) the members who fall in love, buy gifts and get hearts broke
2) the members who criticise those who fall in love
3) the members who don't care and come here for fun,
why is this such a huge issue for so many members? The chathosts are not here for romance, how is this a complicated concept?

Dunno what the problem is, both of my girlfriends are Romanian, their both fabulous, gorgeous, smart and sexy. Their language skills are amongst the finest (you can rarely tell they're not native in english).
Both are fun and properly amusing, both go far beyond their categories without any hesitation (maybe not for everyone though ;)) They're wonderful, 120%.
Honestly, as far as women go.... I'd say Romanian chicks are probably the best.. Not just online either.

That said... i wouldn't trust either of them as far as i could throw them though!! haha :D

Seems like everyone has had a sense of humour failure.

Hahahahaha this definately made my day :P To ones who do not really understand what is this about chect the thread called "Sorry, thomasS77 -- but you're WRONG"

I don't think by your previous comments that all have wondered whether you are a host or a member. Your comments are all over. This comment shouldn't surprise anyone either. Little credibility.

"LOL"

Absolutely :) ..... at you, not with you ;) haha

Totally agree from the long term posts here....and what has been said behind the scenes from those hosts.

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either you're very misguided,your sense of humour is polar to mine,your cheek isn't big enough for your tongue,you're a troll or a lonely person crying out for attention(or any combination of the aforementioned).ohh sorry,one more option,you're more astute & observant than i give you credit for :--)

I've banged three romanian hosts. All three very nice girls and one I still keep in touch with and see from time to time. And she knows I'm not interested in marriage. Just keep it at the "friends with benefits" level. Makes life simpler. All this talk of "love"is, well... entertaining but not very realistic (generally). Buy, hey, whatever floats one's boat.

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Maybe a small photo album of your favorite pictures from your life...pictures that explain who you are and where you came from.

Maybe tickets to something he would like to see...sports, concert, movie, etc. You get to go with him and enjoy them too.

Dinner...is always a nice gift....and desert afterwards might be the best gift of all...

Best gift for a man? A nice steak dinner and a blow job afterward.. You will own him...

Boys!, she said she hasnt met him face to face......chances are she's mailing it

You can mail a blow job...what a country!!!

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im easy to please maria..just ask me what i want..lol

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A video of you pulling a train with 5 or 6 well hung black studs

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You

take a pic of you wearing nothing but a sexy pair of panties - wear them for a day, then mail the dirty panties and the pic to hm ;)

Ahh , what an idea. He can make a broth using the undies. Nothing like a warm bowl of "Panty Soup." :) Oh Yeah...

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I'd be happy to make some suggestions, Maria. But I had 2 questions, since that will help determine "what" I might suggest.

1) You said you've never met face-to-face. So is this a gift that you're planning to mail to him ...OR...are you planning to finally meet him, and you'll be giving him the gift in person?

2) In terms of the signal you'll be sending, do you want the gift to be only from a "friend"...OR...is it meant to be a romantic gift, to let him know you really like him?

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I'm not sure if a bottle of drink is suitable. Even assuming it survives being posted (and it has a long journey to go?) once it is drunk the gift is effectively finished and forgotten. You want to give something more enduring. But I can understand your train of thought in proposing the national drink, so why not something else that represents your country, but will be kept by the recipient as a permanent ornament, conversation piece etc.

only you

what exactly only you will know but as long as it's from your heart with no expectations,if he is as true as you are,the actually gift is secondary :--)

Add some punctuation and your posting might actually have some sense (though I doubt it) but, for now, is a little too soon to tell.

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the hosts provide a customer service, that means if you want to see the hosts, you pay, they tell you what you want to hear. Do you think they come here to meet new people and find romance?
I'm sure most of the hosts are nice people, but they are people and need to earn money, making friend with members maybe a nice addition but it's not why they are here. If you want to find a lover, sign up to a dating website, it'll be cheaper and is probably better geared for what you are searching for.
Although some hosts maybe single, it is also possible many are not, some will even have children, so don't complain if they lie to you, that is what you are paying them for.

+1000

Hosts are not requiring honesty from members, we all know how a married guy will say he is single while the single one will say he is married because guys don.t want "problems" from a host, lol

The mission of a host is to provide u a fantasy, not to share her real life with u , it.s a service u know?

agree

I'm in glam, but don't have bf, that was maybe other reasons.

I've read your comment over a few times and I really can't see what you're getting your panties in a bunch about.

Is it the fact that she has a child and a bf but is too shy to show you her nude body? Just because she has had sex and a child with someone she loves doesn't automatically mean she wants to show her nude body to strangers from around the World you know? You've probably had sex (although maybe not...) but that doesn't mean you want to beam naked pictures of yourself all over the planet does it?

She's in Glamour for a reason and that reason seems to be that she is shy. I really see no 'host tactics' here at all.

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if you're talking about the model i think you are talking about, then you may find she is actually married to her then b/f. Congratulations i say, won't stop me talking to her!

Why would you care about the girl's personal life? In general you are here to see something sexual and masturbate. Not a dating site. And the job of a host is 1.) Get you to video 2.)Keep you in video. 3.) See 1 & 2....you can argue that a host should also be looking to establish a "relationship" with her regulars to keep them coming back. That is why it is called in business "relationship marketing". Bottom line she gets your money and you get a dirty kleenex...not throw it out and grow up.

Reading this post is like having a frontal lobotomy.

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Are there many girls here for any other reason than to make money?

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whats her screenname?

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The irony ... lol :D

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You love it so much you would do it for free if you had too....

Of course not!
Making money is the best bit :)

OR..she's amazing at making u believe she really is thinking about leaving her bf and coming to live with u when in reality she has no plans to do so...in which case...tommy is right and ur a fool....did u ever think about that one? ;)

good one imshy :)))

as he said he knows she may decide to stay with her existing bf, (which is the same outcome whether she's lying to him or not) i guess he knows he may be making a fool of himself but that's what many people do when their hopelessly in love, i guess you wouldn't know that.

i've NEVER had to pay per minute to see and talk to someone i'm in love with....i guess YOU wouldnt know about that either huh?

You need to work on your reading comprehension skills. You said that you've never had to pay a "per minute fee" to talk to someone you're in love with, but going by In Love's post neither has he. You seem to have conveniently skipped the part of his post where he specifically stated they stay in touch away from this site on Yahoo, trading emails, text messages, and even talking directly on the telephone. I highly doubt that he's paying her for those things. So it sounds like they're staying in touch the way two lovers genuinely would. That means you're "per minute fee" point is instantly rendered pointless.

beyourself ?

He obviously paid at the start when he was getting to know her, same as most people pay in some way or other on dates when they first get to know someone and after that he said he was chatting with her in yahoo, phone and email. You want to try getting off your high horse and stop thinking your god almighty.
btw how did you pay for your hookers?

didnt have to pay for my hookers....my friend did it for me ;)

Ok so u have never paid per min to talk to your mom, YO THE MAAAN !!!

yeah i am....also didnt have to pay per min for ur mum and ur granny too...im so awesome :D

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Are you a Romanian host too?

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That is an interesting point, host2. It's true that most hosts who have real life boyfriends will say they are single to create an online fantasy, so guests will be more attracted to them and become steady customers. But it never occurred to me that a host might do the exact opposite and say she has a boyfriend, when in reality she is single. As you said, to test a man out and to see if he's actually willing to put up a fight for her and to prove his feelings. That would be sneaky and cunning, but it would also be a brilliant chess move on the part of the host.

I question that many hosts have that strategy, honestly!!

i didnt say i do know anything...i just gave my opinion on the other side...seems like my comment hit a nerve with u

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<< Also, if she is happy with her boyfriend then she couldn't be in love with him. >>

Since I've been in this situation myself, I know its possible to love two people at once. So the story In Love is telling rings true to me. Been there, done that. Besides, what makes you so sure she's happy with her BF? If she's having an affair with In Love and is now thinking of visiting him, it sounds as if she's NOT happy with him. If anything, it sounds like her heart is torn between two men just as he described.

<< Possible he is obsessed with her and this not what she wants. >>

If he could only talk to her at CC...by paying for her time and cornering her in chat sessions...that might be true. But since she's staying in touch with him off site, on her own free time, it seems pretty obvious that she's more than a willing partner in this.

or a damned good marketer!

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imshy and thomas .. the saddest of all!!!
Follow your heart!
I left my ex to marry my husband whom I met on a cam site. 5 years together so far and happier than ever!

Seems to me that the guy has fallen in love. It may work it may not. However your need so sneer at & ridicule the guy is a measure of who & what you are, if I elaborate on this point cc will not publish the comment.

ILWAR
1, Are you entering paid vid chat with her? If yes, ask yourself if the relationship would continue if you ceased paid vid chat & be honest with yourself.


2, Does she offer to open her cam on yahoo? A guy far more experienced than I once suggested that if a host opens her cam on yahoo she is serious about you.

3 Have you met her yet ? If not get your ass on a plane to romania asap coz she has probably had many guys fall in love with her online & tell her exactly whatt you tell her

Re thomas & im shy
they are both leading members of the comm chat mafia & they have both endured the same initiation ritual which involves a tube of toothpaste, ice cubes, a blow up doll & a vow during which they must swear upon a copy of penthouse that they have no friends in the real world & will spend all their spare time being rude to people in comm chat EG they like to piss on people fires, I wonder why??

I hope it works out for u

u forgot the 14inch cucumber in the ass with no lube ;)

Please refer to lied too - all about the money post before you send anything else. Lets recap she lives with her BF? They probably have a child too but you wont find that out just yet. She charges you for pvt's but says she feels guilty but you insist as she needs money. Sound about right? She uses this same role play on many its just you got a little more info because she slipped and told you and bf/husband. She was testing you too see just how much she could get out of you and from sound of it you dove in wallet and heart first ... 6 months from now you will be posting "sucker born every min " if I was you Id get it over with quick transfer all your assets to her name now and be done with it ...Thomas you are right!!

why don't you leave the man enjoy his fling? just bc you had bad experiences with models here, doesnt mean he will too. and just because she has a bf.. does that mean she will never be with him? havent you guys heard of ppl breaking up before? how can you be so cinical? if you can't help the guy, why make him worry for maybe no reason at all? the girl was honest with him afterall. and i have been through the same situation... and it wasn't easy for sure, but eventualy i did left my bf to be with a guy i met online. it didn't worked out, but that's a whole different story. either way.. why can't you just let the guy enjoy what he has and give advices nobody asked. keep it up dude.. it might work out.. or not.. but at least you know you tryed .. and thats already better then to wonder what woud have been like. if you are in love with her already, theres nothing else u can do but follow your heart and hope for the best . good luck man and don't let the haters get you down!

well all I can say I been there in the same situation, she did leave her bf-and I move there and stay with her 6 months until I got to missing by life back here in the states, so I moved back on my own-so it does work sending gifts, and so on, and now we both are back on cc-seeing each other again with no regrets. So to all you studs here at cc think you know it all and give advice which is your opinion is ok to give, but from someone who had done this for 3 years it has work before. To the original poster all I can say is follow your heart and mind and don't put to much faith in other members and host here telling you it don't work.

All the stories start like he is saying and end the same especially with hosts from that country. He has been fair warned for a reason....the end ing is posted here weekly in fact on this page down a few posts.....that's good enough reason for all to say the same thing.

Follow your heart "In love with a Romanian" . It's there inside of you to know what feels right !! Some say Love is blind, but in reality you already realize that she is torn and may not choose you. That tells me your heart will continue to take the risk of losing her but please also be patient with her if she needs. Time will always wait for "True Love"....it has no limits, no boundaries...and can only always grow stronger !! I wish you good luck !! full of strength, peace, and happiness come what may !!

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I think you are definitely headed in the wrong direction...you've brought the subject up many times and got all the warnings and you still refuse to see the odds are against you especially from a certain country where it appears from birth girls are trained to take advantage and are great actresses. Guess missed "All about money" posts below. I am sure that you are no more special than the man that I know that got taken by a woman in Romania for $100k . Can hardly bark at anyone reply to you until you have a success story after a few years. You put it out there and you've been warned.

Would you mind repeating that? .. I missed it..

I wish you good luck and hope it works out for you! Nothing ventured, nothing gained! you seem to have you eyes open but still want to give it a go - same as me :-) I hope to read another post in the future saying 'up yours' to the negative sods here! Good Luck!
In my experience, all gifts are ok. Occasionally one may 'disappear' but generally its ok.
Keep fighting!

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Damn, Thom, you really kicked off a storm here..

Yes, I was taken in by a host a few years ago, but fortunately, I got out of it relatively lightly: a couple hundred bucks. I don't fault any other host because of what this one did; just her. It has, however, made me more cautious.

So, "In Love," good luck brother, but keep your eyes open and trust your instincts. If it works out, great, and congratulations!!

i know of a few that have been burned by a certan romanian host who works on this site, amongst others. i talked to her on yahoo, and she shamelessly talked about how she played them and the amount of money she extracted from them.

the OP seems like another one who fits the pattern. it could very well be the same host i mentioned.

good luck to you.

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There are many here... are the majority hosts? who want to believe in the possibilities of romance. There are many others who want to crush anyone's belief that this can be possible here.

I don't know if you thought you were going to change anyone's thinking, or if you are just angry and insecure. The odds are heavily stacked against you, in all probability, but it depends on each person's situation. Blanket statements of what's right and wrong just don't work here.

I am involved with a Romanian host, and both our situations are difficult right now. I don't know where we will end up. But we profess love for each other, we talk as often as possible (never in a paid session), and I know as much about her life as I know anyone's, except we have never met in person. We hope to meet soon. She is beautiful, kind, and sweet to me, and I trust her implicitly.

If we never do meet, because the obstacles are many, I may still consider her to be the love of my life. She makes my steps lighter, even as my thoughts for her keep me awake at night. We share dreams of being together.

All I can say to those of you who have lost your sense of what passionate love is about, I am sorry for your loss. I have never felt so alive, and to the end of my days I will not regret how I feel now.

All I will say to the OP is good luck! It can work between members and hosts sometimes, but you just have to keep your eyes open.

My fiancee is a host and we met here, so I can tell you from personal experience that it does work sometimes, but it's been a very long and hard journey to get where we are today. We've been together about three and a half years now and when we met neither of us was looking for a relationship. It just kind of happened and over the months and years we grew closer and closer until we could not be apart.

So here's a list of a few things to look out for that happened while our relationship was developing, hope it helps.

1. As soon as we realised that we were becoming more than just friends she completely refused to allow me into a paid video with her. All of our chat (text, video and audio) took place outside of CC. Her choice, not mine.

2. I'm lucky enough to work for myself and I sit at my computer most of the day. So we ended up chatting all day everyday (and I mean everyday!) while we both worked.

3. When either of us were not at our computers we constantly SMSed each other and we always knew what was going on in each other's lives.

4. She never accepted money from me. EVER. Even when I knew she needed cash and I offered to send her some she refused. She said she didn't want to be accused of being 'one of those girls'. I still sent her small gifts though, just little surprises here and there, nothing very expensive.

5. When we finally decided to meet up and she came here she insisted on paying her way. Obviously I took her out and treated her to gifts etc. but only the way I would any girlfriend. When it came to flights and visas she insisted on paying.

6. When I first visited her she had no problems introducing me to all her friends and we also spent a long weekend staying with her parents. I know all her family and she knows all of mine. I have never been a secret from her friends and family and she's never been one from mine.

So here we are a few years down the line and we're planning our wedding. Over the years we've both spent a small fortune on flights and visas (I need a visa to visit her too!), but the important thing is that it is and always has been an equal partnership.

So if the OP can look through the above points and say that these things are also true for his relationship, I wish him all the luck in the World. If not then be a wary, but remember that it still may come with time.

I think my biggest bit of advice would be to take your time and make sure everything is right. It's not a race and if it's meant to be it will happen, no matter how hard it is. Remember this could be for the rest of your life, so a few years of hard slog now will be more than worth it. Good luck!

I take back my 100% host lie comment your host/gf is allowed that 1 exception but I don't want to open a window that everyone who thinks they are in love here to crawl through your gf did all the right things which were "never mix money and love" no matter what it kills romance so maybe a standard might be if you are paying her anything (exception being a normal gf type gift at Christmas or her birthday) then alarms bells should be ringing " CAUTION " congrats to a real success story!! THOMAS you are still right

What I can tell you that it doesnt matter what country your woman comes from, there are scammers out there that LIVE for guys like us. Yeah maybe it works for some, and for many it does not. It is just too easy when the distances are so great. I just recently found out that someone who I had been involved with for 4+ years and countless gifts and western union transfers is married! Yes, married, in the time that I have known her. That didnt stop her (and still hasn't) from asking for money and when I have all the facts I will drop the bomb. Daily phone calls, countless conversations on messenger, emails, etc., and the bottom line is you JUST DONT KNOW. Are there good people out there yet? I hope so, but this particular one in Romania...I hope she gets what is coming to her someday some way.

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she married him in September...2010....

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back to 121 bb! muuuuaaahhhh!

I have always been of the opinion, that if you need to broadcast about your love and relationship in the forums, then the relationship is more about you, and having your emotional needs met, than it is about the person you claim to be in love with.

Maybe i'm not romantic enough. Maybe I've never been so much in love that I can't keep quiet about it. But when I'm in love, I tell those who are closest to me and who matter to me about it. I don't walk through the streets shouting I"M IN LOVE! SHE LOVES ME!

I'm sorry, but your words only convince me of either your insincerity or your delusion.

You were right about one thing in your post:
You're NOT romantic enough!!!

Well, I would say I'm right about a few other things in my post as well ;)

I totally agree with you on that point. I am very romantic and still I do not have the need to tell all....it is a personal thing and not needing anyone else to approve or disapprove especially when you want all to agree with you. The same person has posted here several times getting others opinions and still wants support in his decision. That is insecure from my perspective.

Just because you like to keep your feelings quiet doesn't mean others can't talk about their love out loud. One way isn't right and the other wrong. There's nothing insecure about that. It's just 2 different ways of expressing yourself. You're being judgmental. What they do doesn't affect you. Let them have their happiness. Live and let live and to each their own.

While I do agree with you, generally, in this case perhaps our Ro Lover "doth protest too much, methinks" as the Bard said. It's as if Ro Lover has to convince himself there's something more to his Romanian relationship than smoke and mirrors.

Of course I could be wrong, and I hope I am. But I think that's what some of us are perceiving.

Amen brother

read the post all about money before you send anything, or in a few months you will be writing the same thing about her using you. ask the host about how to get gifts from members , im sure she gets them all the time from other "boyfriends".

thom you're a romanian host?!?! damn that explains a lot....but leaves a lot still to be answered :--)

tis im not really a romanian host , im just hoping to get a few free gifts .

great answer thomasS77

Gee, the poor guy asks for a little help and you have to give him some smartass answer with little to do with what he asked in the first place. Why bother posting such drivel? Oh I forgot, you are the all knowing of this site and have extreme knowledge of everything and everyone of the hosts here and know what\'s best for everyone. Silly me.

did you help him with what you said ?

I can see where you would ask that but no, I did not answer because I have no knowledge about sending things overseas hence why there is no information from me.

come on sillyme , grow some balls and use your member name , or better yet BREW some balls .lol

Well sir, I am sorry to disappoint, but this is my actually member name. I just wanted to point out to you that I have been reading your posts for some time now and from the content of them, you come off as an all knowing when in fact you know very little.

Hilarious.....Game, set and match to sillyme!!

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I've managed to send jewelry to my friend in Romania. I've not tried candy yet, that's next.

Romania is part of the European Union, so it's pretty much just like any other country for import / export in Europe.
Communist days are over as far as Customs are concerned, the boarders are open to money, gifts, everything.

Strictly speaking noone sends jewellery by post or courier anywhere in Europe. No it is not safe. neither is cash.
All parcels are X-ray'd as standard procedure for unopened consignments. It's got nothing to do with Romania being safe or not... the same goes in all of Europe... Parcels containing anything of any good value can and do occasionally go missing especially if the contents is small enough to fit into a pocket ;)

Failing that, stamp "From Russia" on the outside of the box ("Soviet union" works even better), you could pack it with explosives and no one in eastern europe would bother stopping it, they'd be even happier to move it, even gift wrap it for you and make a hand delivery :D

Personally, don't bother with all the gifts. Just send her the cash, she'll be much more appreciative of it.... ;-)

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well one thing none of the responses thus far have stated: items valued over $50 USD (not sure what that translates to in EU) will incur a customs fee at point of pick up. So either expect her to pay for it herself (which makes it not much of a gift then) or send the amount she needs for it. And in order to send it, you need to declare it on a paper attached to the package, which makes the contents "visible" to anyone who handles it, (I'm speaking of US to Romania here) and should there be a disreputable postal clerk (US or Romanian) she may never see the gift. Such things have been known to happen. Usually there is no problem, but if I were you, I would at least insure the package for its value.

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Oh, darn. I just send little gifts, to try to be thoughtful, and here I end up costing my friend some dough.

Thanks for the info, though.

Normally you only have to pay VAT or a customs charge if the goods are commercial (i.e. the person receiving them has purchased and imported them). If you ensure you clearly mark the customs declaration (which remains on the outside of the package) as a gift, there should be no problem or charge.

My fiancee is Russian and we often send gifts (birthdays etc.) back to her family without any charges. Mind you if the Romanian post is anything like the Russian post I'd expect 3 or every 5 packages to go missing! Good luck!

Romanian postal service is pretty poor. I've sent several letters/cards/presents to my g.f. in Romania which never arrive ! I find the best way to send presents is to find a Romanian web-site and get Courier delivery - very cheap. I've used this for flowers/dresses/jewellery etc. (Good starting place for a website is 'ShopMania.ro

haha, good one.... clever employee

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Next time you are in the grocery line (in United States), and the store clerk asks you, "Paper or plastic?" just answer, "Doesn't matter to me: I'm bi-sacksual," and watch their response.

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won't they ask to see your green card? :--)

i think we should partition our governments,january 26 is australia day.so in future from january 25-26 all russian students & australian men should be able to arrange to meet later that year.men pay of course! all in favour..... :--)

we russian students don't mind to meet with australian men, :) but where? too big distance between us!

another excuse for a piss up

umm......yes please!

our thoughts? what about?

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I'm confused. Maybe we are thinking of "offering and receiving" in two different ways. For the man are you offering to suck his cock, but not receive his licking?" Or are you offering to let him lick your pussy, but don't want to receive his cock?

So I think what you are saying is that we men don't quite know what we are doing....down there.

Australian men know it very well because they are always down under. LOL

(sorry, I tend to laugh at my own bad jokes LOL) see there I did it again!

i get what you mean, sorry guys, but most of you have no idea what to do down there!its more easy witha a girl. still.. i don't say no to guys either

Always the choice of the girl...if she doesn't want to I can live with that and....I am also willing to give it to her if she wants it. Guys...the secret is always keeping the woman happy...make her happy...get her satisfied first and she will rock your world. Women do not roll over, fart and fall asleep. They reward the attention and great sex.

Well, thanks Casanova for that blinding revelation. How long did it take you to figure that out? Jeez...

Said the man who comes to a porn site so he can whack off...jeez...

I seriously hope this is not news to most members on this site. Although that would explain a lot.

I have always been amazed at the attitude -- "do this and she will do this" --as if every woman is like every other woman: nothing but pre-programmed robots who have no will of their own, and are only able to respond to the stimuli in predictable ways.

i dont like giving oral sex- i have to be extremely turned on to want to do and to actualy like it.. and i dont like receiving either- i dont know why-- i hope there s nothing wrong with me.. i can recall only 1 time in my life when i liked receiving..

I love giving my gf oral. She loves it. She doesnt often give me oral. She doesnt like it (gag reflex). i can live without a bj. We both have fun. Not everybody likes

oral sex is for those to shallow to talk about their feelings but still horny enough to not stop talking :--)

I agree, that's why I try to carry on a coversation with her while my cock is buried in her mouth.ME: "oh baby, you do that so good! What do you think about Obama's State of the Union Address tonight?" HER: um-ahm-umm I um-ahm-agahm liked agahm-um-ahhhm it."

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your not the first , and you wont be last , get up ,dust yourself off and look for a better girl . and make it more fun this time .

I am so sorry that you got betrayed. I always wonder why members protect these girls identity. I bet I can guess the country too.... It angers me if that is true....

What i don't understand is why they keep posting here.No on one real life go and confess at work or at the metro: you know,she left me.
Who cares?!!?!?? hosts work here for money indeed ( what a news ) and here is not a place full of 'brides'.
Until you inform us with all the details no one gives a sh*t. Stories have always 2 sides and most of ''lied'' members are -funny- that kind of members that come in video 1 or 2 then ask personal ways of contact ,and always underline that they are not THAT kind of members ,they are here for a relationship. Oh yes,but here are plenty of nice ,good looking men,polite,smart and with humor which also pays the time spent with us and they don't want a relationship. From 10 regulars ,5 are in loved with us. What we should do about that?

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Amen !!!!

Instead of morally virgin I would consider it morally ethical vs. morally unethical in using a member and saying whatever to get him to continue coming to your room regarless if you're lying to him. Of course he didn't tell the story so who knows but I have heard the same story repeatedly especially regarding hosts from a certain country.......

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If someone told you to jump off the bridge,
would you do it?
You sound like you have wisdom,
so what is the problem???

Bad luck :(
tomorrows another day..., Chin up :)

no matter how cute, how sweet, how convincing, every host lies no exceptions, that special feeling you so sure was love, the warmth deep within was her separating you from your wallet, they move on and you left with confusion, denial, false hope, host is fucking her bf/husband now drinking beer you bought them laughing about another fool, even now you think you were different couldn't happen to you because she loved you, now I'm laughing at you too

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they need to tell all hosts to stop playing games or liar about dream to meet guy in her life!.

My gf is a host here and I've seen first hand the way some of these 'lied to' members operate.

Just recently she had a significantly older guy from the US visit her room and during the first vid he was asking her to come live with him in the USA and saying that he could look after her. She said she has a bf and doesn't meet members, but if he wanted to have some fun in vid then she was fine with that. He had his fun and for a few weeks became a regular, each time asking her to come to the USA with him, each time she was very clear and said that she has a bf and was only available for fantasy online fun in vid. She even suggested he try some of her host friends who she knew were interested in traveling to meet members.

For a while he vanished, but now he regularly comes to her chat to tell her that she's 'just like all the rest' and that she 'used him for his money'. He posts nasty things in her forum and I wouldn't be surprised if he is one of the many 'lied to' members on this forum. Having seen all of the correspondents they have had I can safely say she in no way led him on and in no way lied to him. He just couldn't take no for an answer.

This is only the most recent case, over the past few years there have been several guys like this. I guess some guys here just can't handle being rejected.

So although I admit that some hosts lie and cheat to get members' money, the majority do not. Stop making sweeping statements without knowing both sides of the story.

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Was it done in Long Term/Marriage?

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I have been here for over 8 years. During that time I have "fallen" for several hosts. By fallen I mean I became emotionally attached. I realized that real contact and a true relationship was impossible but I thought I had a unique, special and somewhat loving connection to a host that was reciprocal. In every case I found out that was not the case....then you have to realize we are light years away from these girls in terms of what each want. They want money we want some form of emotional and physical intimacy. The physical distance, age difference in many cases, cultural distance, and just the distance between expectations is huge. Don't worry there is another host you will fall in love with it...but isnt that the appeal and the draw of CC? You can't fall in love with a porn video...you can fall in love with a girl who interacts to you and at least pretends to reciprocate some of your feelings....

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any host that posts here and is shocked to think I accused her because she never ever lies.... is a liar !! What do you expect a host to say ...Yea I admit I lie, steal, cheat here everyday??? All these hosts (yes I meant ALL) target or profile certain men to maximize the amount of money they think they can take off him then role play the love game until they hook him take as much money as possible then move on to next victim ..... some hosts been here years doing it ... best advice only use instant action never talk in pvt never talk in messenger etc just wank baby wank !!

""What do you expect a host to say ...Yea I admit I lie, steal, cheat here everyday??? All these hosts (yes I meant ALL) target or profile certain men to maximize the amount of money they think they can take off him then role play the love game until they hook him take as much money as possible then move on to next victim ..... ""
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Pretty harsh..
Whilst largely that is accurate in the capacity that a host is here to work, it's not all about "lying, cheating and stealing" as you so kindly put it...

Noone forced any member to spend their money on a host.
The host benefits from the member, but it is not her fault the member chose to spend their money.
If they have been led up the garden path with a sweet storey then congratulations to the host, and commiserations to the member.
Wake up and smell the coffee (to the member).

But most definitely not all host behave like you have so kindly added...

I know most hosts like to keep things fair and even, and go out of their way to behave nicely about what they do, and that's not to be overlooked.

Just think you are being rude unnecessarily about hosts.

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give it what you got bb :))))))))))

No I need time to get to know the host first before I reveal what a nasty pervert I am :P

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INYF is not a jerk. He is a very funny dude. I think you're the jerk

I agree fantasies are very important and serious business....lol

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I have said this before and for me it is key. I like the host to act with me as if I were her boyfriend and I was away from home for an extended period of time. The host has an opportunity online to show her bf how much she misses him. To show him what he is missing by being away. To drive her bf so crazy he wanks and blows his wad and wants nothing more than to get home as soon as possible and have it for real. Manage to do that and you will have a lot of long videos.

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Terrorism is a stupid waste of life. My thoughts are with the Russian people now.

News reports of suicide bomber at least 31 killed.

Prayers and thoughts to the Russian people.

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I have not heard details only that explosion at airport and 35 dead. It is very sad, yes, and my heart goes out to the families of those killed

hopefully this wont be used as a reason to start a war , as 11 sept. was used ... *sigh*

And was your political commentary really necessary?

It was just a sad truth, even if political... violence is so often used as a justification for political struggle, on both sides of an issue. In the meantime, innocent victims suffer.

My thoughts go to those who suffered in this terrible event.

Whether you agree or not with her comment, and the timing perhaps could have waited, it was indeed "necessary". It was a political act, therefore the response should manifest itself as much in political terms as emotional ones.

Maybe, but I don't really agree that it was necessary in this context. Still I'm open to differences of opinion.

What happened had the political reasons at basis, so i think her post didn't hurt anyone if she mentioned the politic.She was worried about the situation and i think it makes sense,any of us should be worried.It doesn't serve at anything to express only tears, sighs and compassion after all.We all know who are the ones to blame and why such things happen, so why should we hide behind the finger, eh ?

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Ummm correct me if I'm wrong but isn't Russia already fighting a "secret" war against rebels in Chechnya? Technically not invading another country since it's part of Russia but it's still a war.

In Chechney people live the same life as in other parts of Russia, if you didn't know it now you know it. But the criminals are still there and not so easy catch them as they have strong support from someone abroad, and paid very well by them.
I am not sure this post will appear though.

u r right Russians are not Americans ..Russians live in denial or unaware of what is going on in their own government even the news is censored, Russian host cant access many sites around the world most countries take for granted in news reporting plus they are too busy protecting their own borders with Norway, Finland, Latvia, Estonia, Belarus, Ukraine, Georgia, Azerbaijan, Kazakhstan, China, North Korea,Mongolia, Poland and Lithuania. Its just a matter of time before Russian woman have Chinese last names

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Why are so many people obsessed with this issue? That is my question. Everybody has their wants and desires and wishes. Everybody expects something different. Why people have to be so obsessed with it is beyond me. It's like "you are strange if you don't want it the way I want it". but we are all different and we should be willing to allow everyone their differences. And if a host doesn't do what you want, then there are plenty of hosts to choose from. Maybe what we need here is a new forum -- a "clearinghouse" forum, so members and hosts can post what they desire and what they are willing to do, and then contacts can be made that way. Just a suggestion, but it will probably never happen and if it did, it would probably become just abused and overrun with advertising (seen it on another site)

I'm not obsessed, I was only curious. On your clearinghouse suggestion, you bring up an interesting topic. On one site I got to they have a "Wishlist". Any member can list what he would like to see in pvt. He could list he likes big tits, small tits, tall, short, a fast strip, a slow strip, just talk, sexy talk and on and on.

my comment about obsessed was not necessarily directed at you, but in general. It dominates the forum discussions.

The wishlist is an interesting idea, kind of what I had in mind. At the site I was referring to, the forum was intended to allow hosts and members to communicate, but it became nothing but advertisements by hosts. A forum which would allow someone to say "I'm looking for this" and a host to reply "I provide that" would be great. Does the wishlist on that site allow that kind of interaction? Does it safefguard against host spamming? If so, it sounds like a valuable tool.

One thing I am impressed here, with this General Forum, is that there is real communication going on. The potential for spam abuse is great, but I suppose part of it is the active censorship which takes place. Perhaps part of it too is a basic respect between hosts and viewers, which keeps it on a communication level and not a spam level.

I know that site to which you refer. Joined it in 1998. The Wishlist I refer to is just a list of one or many wishes that member posts on a board and if the model can fulfill your wish she contacts you by the site's internal mail system. And only the models have access to member's wishlists

If it's the site I am thinking of you get more spam replies than real replies.

If that's your real screen name I'll CC mail you

Yes, wishlist can be usefull here, Good idea.

It really doesn't matter because a viewer might choose to speak to one and maybe not another. If you really don't understand why it would happen then it is not about you :) Come to the site...pick the category you want to experience and then find the host....simple. What others do shouldn't concern anyone else....it's each members choice and they deserve that.

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Dirty knickers and pantyhose hanging everywhere is not a good look..

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Boring same room! I want see hosts in bedroom, kitchen, living room, bathroom "shower or bath" laundry, garage,basement and many different room. all to make guys getting excited too.. I wish to see some hosts doing on streets like "voguyer or public" for flash or sex hehehe
Would be awesome and LOTS OF PLEASURE TOO!!

I think you took that one way out there......lol

photosession ina basement can make you happy? lol

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The size of the room is important. Also, a big bed is a plus. Some girls do not have room to move, much less to show all of their body and face. The best set up is a big bed with good lighting. I know one host who has a big bed witha brass rail headboard. She can show all of herslef standing up or lying down, or close up. Great!

My only concern with a host's room is that she is not confined to a tiny corner, since I like her to have some space where she can stand and do a sexy striptease, and I have a full view of her from her sexy, high-heeled shoes-adorned feet to her pretty face.