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Love In 2012: What does the future hold

Yes I know it's another year away, but it's time to think about it if your wanting to wait later to fall in love and find out there is another way to search for it. When it comes to relationships, what does the future hold? Will we meet via online matchmaker? Set the sheets on fire with cell phones-turned-sex toys? Or sip pina coladas served by cute robotic cabana boys and sexy girls? For those searching for a mate online, First dates will be on live video, sort of like cyber fantasy sex sites. Think of how much time you’ll save when you can screen potential mates quickly and efficiently—without even getting dressed below the waist if you don’t want to, does this remind you of something already we are doing now. We will get to know each other in a more natural way, even have virtual world dates before real world dates. Raising a lot of questions like is it possible to have a virtual bad hair day? If you stop and think about it what questions would be on your mind beside a bad hair day.
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RE: Love In 2012: What does the future hold

yes it is another year away and no it's not time to start thinking about it

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RE: Love In 2012: What does the future hold

It gives me another year to try to loose 110 pounds more

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

I'm for every host charging whatever the market will bear like any other business. Let the rule of supply and demand carry the day

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well the more the girl does in show the higher the price as well...

I have found the opposite in Glamour and Shy. The high priced high rated 5 starts) only chat in pvt.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

I believe the prices are too low.
I think $1.99 should be the minimum price and $5.99 the maximum
Of course, I like the lower prices, but they are in my opinion ridiculously low and do not reflect the quality of the women who are hosting.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

I think he's referring to minimum/maximum prices per se, rather than in any particular category. As somebody who likes at least an hour in video, which is $120 at his suggested minimum, I would need to find a different hobby. His prices might not have much impact on the 5-minute wankers or once-a-week viewers but would drive away members who actually want to get to truly appreciate the hosts, and simply wouldn't be able to afford it. But then, perhaps that's what you want.

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Thank you and then this site would be more inline with the going rates....and beautiful girls.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

LOL It's already in line with and in many respects superlative to the other sites, in terms of beautiful girls :D

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

I think is time to debunk this false argument that somehow the women hosting here (or on other sites) represent the creme de la creme of their generation. Sure they represent "quality", however one would seek to define that, but for every one hosting there are a score of equal "quality" women not hosting, and who would never dream of doing so. Be it Ivanovo, Bucharest, Manila or Medelin, the hosts represent a minute % of the available population with the necessary attributes to be successful as a host. Think of everything that attracts someone to their favourite host, and all those factors (and more) will be found many times over in scores of women who have never thought of turning on a webcam for profit.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

And try and get one of them to sit down and have a conversation and then flirt and tease with you :) What was your point?

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

Should be a minimum of $10 / min for every member who was involved in the "price increase" threads who complained about prices :D haha

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

doesn't matter what i think or suggest, hosts will charge whatever they or their studio boss decides and i will decide on a host by host basis if i think their worth it/i can afford it.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

And then you are going to change your price to .50 when they tell you that? Get real...this is not a good topic.

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You have right viewpoint. It's just discussion. If someone doesn't like topic they can move to next thread.

Funny how the ugly jealously between hosts shows up when we're talking about prices.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

No just you for not getting it after reading below....

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keep it like it is

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But, if someday there will be a minimum-charge of $2/min... i can go to all the other sites :(

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

Each girl is different. Depends on category, your looks, your personality and what you do in video, are you new girl or are you returning, do you work on other sites... many different things.

If you don't strip I say under $1 if strip and other stuff $1 to 1.50. Not so shy $1.50 to $2. Instant Action $2 and above. I'm sure many members will say these prices are too high and hosts will say too low.

Obviously popular girls can charge more. Again supply and demand is key.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

You are answering yourself? The question only creates problems and you don't know that the first time? Grrrrrr Pick another choice topic if you're bored.....

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

When looking for new girls, price always matters. these are my UPPER LIMITS

for shy, my limit is .80 open, 1.10 121. If over that I do not even try her. In this catagory u almost aslways have to go 121 for action.

for notshy, 1.00 open limit. If they want 121, I usually drop them

fetish, 1.50 limit for open.

These are my limits for trying a new girl. I few girl I has seen for months, if they raise price, I stay with them. But some I have dropped. There are lots of girls, and many very nice, very sexy girls with lots of action under $1.00

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

Please accept my whole compassion, is this the same principle u use to try a new food or a new drink or a new holliday-destination? Relaaaaaaaax, u should be here for fun-fun-fun and not to buy an industrial machinery, after all.

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Actually, that IS how you price things in life...

Actually, the answer to your question is YES -- that IS the same principle that any normal person would use (to use your example) to try a "new holiday destination". Let's be honest here -- there's a BIG difference between going to a standard little beach along the coast of some country and checking yourself into some quaint little hotel VERSUS going all out and flying off to the Caribbean or some exotic tropical island in the South Pacific and staying in a 5-star resort. So again, the answer is "yes". For pretty much everything in life, OF COURSE you price things out based on "what" you'll be getting for your money. That is just common sense.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

when there is no chemistry coming from the host to charm and delight the member, he will consider her "waste of money" no matter how low her price might be and then jump to another host even she has a higher price.

it.s not about low price versus high price but it.s about the RIGHT PRICE accordingly with her personal quality and what she is offering: role-play, outfits, audio, toys, oil, squirting, etc. but most of all it.s about the way she can capture ur attention and make u happy.

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

For new hosts on non-adult from 0.30 $ to 0.60 $ for open session + 20 -30 % for 121.
For all other non-adult hosts prices should be 0.30 - .99$ depending on the English and look of the host & b never reach 1.00$ for open.
on Glamour and lil shy New hosts should begin by 0.50 $ for open + 25-40 % for 121
4 stars rate hosts can charge 0.60 $ to 0.75 $ + 40-60% for 121
5 stars hosts can bypass 0.90$ for open + 50 % for 121
for hosts rated 4-5 stars hardcore categories (toys & real orgasm) can charge 2.00$ and more.
3 stars hosts on all categories have to charge as if they still unrated.
all depends on demand and supply, hosts can lower their prices or increase them

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

Oh brilliant.....like this always gets fair honest answers when it's approached. Why would you open this huge can of worms again?
Set your price forget others and do your best.....this discussion never goes anywhere valuable. You must be new girl

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RE: So what price should be for every category, guys?

It dosent matter on the price or the category, its more to do with the members and the hosts. Every member have different 'wallet' size, different tastes in women etc. One member may be willing to pay $1/min whereas another maybe willing to pay $4/min. I think that host would be better off charging what works for them, and what sort of member they want to attract, although you'll get all sort anyway. ( i dont like the idea of the 5min sessions, think they would better off viewing free porn on the web, its free and not complaint on what a host will or will not do.)
I used to see hosts, if they didnt appeal to me i leave gracefully and find another (no need for bad votes just cause she wasnt right for me), Once i found the host for me, i stayed with her as was willing to pay anything.

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Increases happen everywhere in life, why should cam girls increase there prices too, it only seems fair :)
If the prices doubled then i see the cause for arguments (unless her show changed) but if it's just 10-15 then i can see no room for argument.
Recession is over now, guys can pay more...
Regular small increases should be normal for all hosts, within reason.

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Recession is over? Maybe in name it is but we are suffering tax increases across the board and disposable income is decreasing all the time! To see hosts increasing their prices is a 'double whammy' for me and means I will not be having as many videos in future! And I think I am not the only member in this position - do other members agree?

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Did not say that at all ..... just pointing out that the economic situation worldwide is not as rosy as is thought (see further posts below). You may find that putting up your prices will lead to less income, not more.

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Ok, I accept the voice of experience. Its a dilemma for hosts and members, that will not be resolved easily or quickly. Good luck.

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Sorry, it's supposed to say;

"why shouldn't cam girls increase their prices too."

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I can't decipher from your postings whether you are male/female, or host/member, but you are ill informed. Whilst by the strict economist definition most countries are no longer in recession, the post-recession austerity measures actually mean that most people are now worse off than during the recession itself. Which is not an argument against hosts raising their prices, just an exercise in truth.

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i agree partially with xDa but as for" the recession is now over "
this is not true where im living and im sure its the same for other counteries . (btw my taxes doubled since jan 1 this year . yes a full 100% increase )

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The recession is over? That would be news to me and the clients I handle on Wall Street. Countries in Europe are still in danger of defaulting on their loans. America has 10% unemployment and that figure was rising again last month. The correct number is actually around 16-18% once you factor in those who no longer qualify for unemployment benefits and are no longer counted by the U.S. government. That means between 20 to 30 MILLION Americans are currently out of work or can barely find enough work to stay afloat. Russia is in horrible shape. Finally, most people mistakenly believe China is doing well, but their economy is now completely dependent on America since China relies so heavily on exporting their goods to the U.S. They also hold the treasury credit on untold dollars, which they would like to dump but now can't. The average person has no comprehension how truly huge and important the American economy is on a global scale. If it were to ever collapse, there would be no safe place in the world. The economic earthquake would go forth and hit countries so hard and so fast that we'd take the rest of you down with us practically overnight. Any hosts who believe the global recession is over are mistaken and economically ill informed.

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Recession is not over.
Ask the unemployed who no longer figure into unemployment data because their benefits have expired.
Ask the person who has not had a raise in over 3 years, but the cost of living has continued to rise those three years, so his effective earnings/buying power is considerably reduced.
Ask the homeless people who can't find shelter on these bitter cold winter nights here in my state, because the shelters are crowded to overflowing and cannot accept them.
In 2010, I lose two tax deductions. My taxes are going to be out the roof,
Ask the person in the grocery line, who has to pay higher prices for smaller quantities. a 1 pound (16 ounce) can of coffee is now a 14 ounce can, e.g.
Ask the housing market which still has not rebounded in my area.
Ask the job hunter who can find only part-time/food-service/and or service type jobs, with no benefits and minimum wage, because no one else is hiring.
Maybe it is "officially" over according to the Big Wigs in Washington and the Federal Reserve, but in "reality" it is far from over down here at the grass-roots.

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Boo hoo.... lol :D
You poor americans :D lol

Com-on you're breakin my heart over here...
They wouldn't put taxes up if people couldn't pay them ;)
If you're homeless then you won't have an internet connection, you wouldn't be here on CC!
You guys make a dumb argument.

You are crying about how much money you don't have available, and how costly the girls are, how long it was since your last pay rise, yet you forget how the host affords to live...???
You are asking THEM to work for free, to go years without a pay rise? yet their taxes increase, the cost of food increases, the cost of faw fuels, heating, lighting etc...

Somehow you guys keep beating on about 'Love and romance' in these threads, one piece of advice here...... if you 'love' your host so much then you'd want the best for em, or to support them, the best way you can do that remotely (from another country) is financially.

If you don't care about them and just want shows, then appreciate that the host is under just the same pressures as you in life with money, everyone got to earn a living.
What you won't pay for, someone else will ;)

Quite frankly, they deserve the money.

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recession over, my ass

you don't even make an argument, you just spout nonsense.

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Its up to the chathosts to make their own decisions.
Time will tell if you are right or wrong.

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xDa, you obviously have not read my post elsewhere. Try in the thread above. Try what I wrote in viewer forums. I support hosts wanting to/needing to raise their price. So don't lay all that crap on me.

I was responding to your statement about the recession being over, was that too difficult for you to comprehend, without your being so defensive and insulting?

And though I am American, and speaking from American perspective, I seriously doubt that UK Guy is American? <rolling my eyes at your insuation!>

As an American, I personally relate to some of the situations I referred to in my post, though I obviously am not homeless. But the fact is in America, the homeless situation is worsening, not improving. In my work we aid a lot of people who are in need. Our requests for assistance have tripled in the last year, requests for help to stave off eviction or utilities being cut off, or to put food on the table, or gasoline for their car. People, many people are not making it. The recession -- IF it is over -- has left long-term problems that many will take a long time to recover from.

Anyway, MY post was not about price increases or no price increases. It was response to your ridiculous statement about the recession. And by the way, if you are a host, it would be good for you to post your screenname, because with your attitude toward us Americans, I'm sure many would like to avoid you.

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The comments in the other forum were because one member thought that a host had doubled her prices and felt it was outrageous which other members agreed but I didn't see the attack on other hosts and their pricing so why are in full attack mode and rambling off all the bull that you wrote about the recession being over and ridiculing the majority of members that are American and paying for your shows and other hosts....if you're just trying to start problems with members with your rambling then use your host name and don't make the rest of us look bad. I don't agree with a thing you said and I am host.

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This time I am responding to your post regarding price increases.

Yes, I agree, hosts should be able to increase their price.
Though I like the prices low, in my opinion they are extremely low, too low, and in deed, far below what one sees on other sites. Of course, on other sites, I think for many the prices are too high.

But you said "regular small increases should be normal for hosts, within reason".
But don't forget this IS a market-driven enterprise, and prices are determined not just by the host, but by wha the market will bear. A host is free to charge whatever she wants to charge with whatever guidelines CC allows. However, set the price too high, she shoots herself in the foot. Set the price too low, may also have adverse affect. Some people do believe in "You pay for what you get" and too low a price will turn such people away, thinking the show will not be quality. Maybe stupid reasoning, but some think that way. And then there are those who are money slaves, or whatever term it is called by. They want the price high and get off because of it. I can't understand it, but I've had hosts tell me it's true. But to each his own.

So, "regular small increases" may not be realistic. "occasional" increases would be more realistic, since this is a market-driven business. Just my two cents. No , make that three cents.

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if host charge 1.00. take 50% so host get only 0.50 and if this host working on studia. she get only 0.25$ a minute !!!!! so think guys. before to blame...

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I think some members know about what host earn and some dont.

It's about being a smart business person. You set best price for the demand of your services. You don't blindly raise price when most of the regular working people in the world are having a hard time and then post in host forum "why you have fewer minutes in video".

I visit another site where the video price was at a fixed price for many years. Last year they dropped the price by 17% and added voyeur mode and way for members to tip hosts. Are these changes better for host or member? Probably 50/50. It's more affordable for members but host lose some % because of lower private price but they can make difference by tips & voyeur since 80% of girls on that site work on another site too. The most popular girls will always make money no matter the price. It's all about demand. If host goes many hours without video she can say in her chat "I'll go to voyeur and do something there". At least she has chance to make some $$$ that day instead of nothing.

On that other site she can't drop her price. On CC you have chance to adjust price by demand. If slow day you can swallow your pride and drop price maybe $0.10 or if busy day you can raise price a little. Again all about supply and demand. It's better to have 30 minutes each hour of work than to have only 5 minutes each hour of work at higher price.

Smart members know they can always find girl who will have lower price, but still of course he will complain that his favorite girl raised her price. That's life.

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I agree tipping sucks and that's why I thought it was crazy that some members wanted that on CC. But for host who have few videos on other sites it's way that they can at least make some money. Best option for those girls would be working on CC.

I feel sorry for girls who are new and work in studios that work only on other sites. Because unless they are really beautiful or have great personality in chat or audio they're probably not going to make much money. The control CC gives on categories and pricing is the best for hosts and even members even though members complain about it all the time.

I would say do what you need to do on pricing and just accept that members will always complain and say price is too high.

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what about discounts?

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All host should charge whatever the market will bear. Its really that simple.

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The market place is right here on cc. The only ting that matters is if members feel like you are worth your asking price. Supply and demand determines price

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Supply and demand.

If your price is too high you'll get fewer videos. If you're price is too low you'll be too busy and can't give attention to all in your video. You just need to find right price and category to earn what you need.

I have a friend who is host who returned after a few years away. She started with higher price and got less than 20 minutes video each day. I keep telling her to use CC category and price to her advantage. Told her to lower price. She said no. Still not many minutes each day. I kept telling her CC is different from other sites and cant charge so much here. Again told her to drop price. Again no because of too much pride. Finally she understood. Lowered her price, changed category and also changed work hours. She got really busy. I told her I thought her price was too low because it was lower than price she had in past when working in studio. She's smart and beautiful too so she raised her price a little. Now she is happy and making good living and still has 4.5 to 5 rating.

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Lower priced hosts are not the busiest at all. Most of the time it is quality that determines worth. The high end dept. stores are going out of business because they charge more....they aren't stupid either. You get what you pay for and if you have the quality show then you can charge more. Sorry but your theory is not fact at all!! Many of the cheap stores go out of business while the high priced dept stores are still doing well.

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I never said lowest price hosts are busiest. I said popular host can get the price they want.

Other host need to adjust their price so they can earn the amount they want. If their price is too high the demand for them will be smaller than for host with same rating but lower price. Simple economics.

It would be nice if named companies to back your theory. Clearly Walmart is still in business so which discount store closed?

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You might not be aware of the names but K-Mart for instance was in bankruptcy and also Ames completely lost it. If you are from the U.S. through time there has been many that closed through time that were huge. You do the search if you want to prove me wrong. Very few of the large high end dept. stores have closed. I wouldn't consider Montgomery Wards high end either. Nordstrom's, Macy's etc. have always done well and there are much higher end than that that thrive. Just go to NYC if you need proof :)

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Thanks, I'm aware of most of those stores. Kmart wss bought by Sears but Sears isn't doing well now either. I don't know about Ames. I would add JC Pennys to the list of struggling stores.

I don't really know if you can really call them discount stores compared to Walmart, but in any case other retailers like Amazon, Costco, Target, Best Buy, Home Depot, and Lowes were able to beat them on price.

I think you'll notice that most of those stores were in urban middle class or lower class areas. It happens that those are the communities doing the worst now in America.

Yes many higher end retailers are doing well, but it's more about the communities/people those stores serve than about prices.

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Crap. System was busy and lost my reply...

I'm not saying hosts should lose respect for themselves. I'm just saying that hosts should be smart businesswomen. CC is a special site and they should use the features(categories and price control) of the site to their advantage. But also don't let pride get in the way of making smart business decisions.

Just because your cost of living went up it doesn't mean blindly raising your price will cover your higher expenses. Your earnings might go down because of fewer minutes. On the other side if you drop prices you might get more minutes to offset price drop. It's all about supply and demand. More hosts (new, returning and older 1st time host) working now and probably fewer members with disposable income.

Popular girls with almost always get whatever price they want within reason. All the other girls need to look more carefully at what they want to earn and how many hours they want to work.

The reality at least for most US workers is that they didn't get raise in last 2 or 3 years. They are lucky to have jobs. Many millions lost their homes. The middle class is not lower middle class or lower class. They also are living with the same price increses as other people in the world. CC and other camsites are entertainment not essentials like food, water, heat, cooling, medicine/health, or gasoline/petrol.

The economy has changed. For most older workers (probably like most members on CC) in US and probably other parts of world too they will never earn as much as they did in the past. The have to be smart with their spending and in many cases cut out luxuries. Sure there are still super rich people around but I don't think the average member is an oil baron or internet millionaire.

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As I said before it's about being smart business person. You obviously know what you're doing and have been for a few years.

You're probably also good host so you have regular viewers and as you say most will understand reasonable price increase.

Each host needs to find right price for her and what she wants to earn for her future. Some girls only think about today and buying latest iphone and not about saving for future.

My comments have been more towards hosts who are unhappy with their earnings and wonder why they're not making as much as they did in past.

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Good for you but most of the discussion on this thread probably don't apply for you.You know what you want and what you're willing to do to get it. Bravo to you.

Unfortunately many of the girls working on camsites are living in countries that don't give them may opportunities. The average income of an office job is ridiculously low. These girls need to pay more attention to the features of CC and use them to their advantage.

On other sites, I've seen some girls, so desperate to earn money that they're nude in free chat for hours and only get a few tips. If they worked on CC at the "right" price and category they would probably be earning money beyond their dreams compared to that other sites.

A realize each host has their own standards and limits, but CC is a great site because hosts have control over categories and prices.

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Not true!!!!!!

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Pick your priorities in life....if you can\'t afford to be here then you shouldn't . Hosts have to do the same in their lives.....we don\'t need lectures on our pricing. For the most part hosts are able to price themselves for their worth. The ones that can\'t then they don\'t do well...period.

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Just because you're happy with your earnings doesn't mean that all other hosts are that lucky. Why can't we try to give good advice on how to use the category and price control feature on CC so they can earn a decent living?

Why so much jealously between hosts? My friend asked for help in host forum and the only answers she got was it's slow for all.

She made only $300 in two months at higher price. She finally took my advice and lower price and changed category. She had 3 hour video in first day and made in 2.5 days at lower price the same amount that took 2 months at higher price. She has good rating and was so busy she could raise her price 50% and still earn the amount she wants in 4 to 6 hours each day.

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If she used her host name then she would usually get honest imput from other hosts. She ended up figuring it out too didn't she???

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She figured it out with a little help from me. ;p

Like most Russian women she has a lot of pride and I think was mad at me to even suggest dropping her price. I never told her how low to set her price. She set lower price than I would have told her if she asked me what price to use. That's why she could raise back her price by 50% and still make good money.

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To Nobody

FINALLY! I have wanted to meet you for so long! I think you must have known my wife for a long time. Did you grow up together? Go to school together? yet i've never met you.

I can't say know how many times, when talking with my wife, I've heard her say: "Ohhh! I feel like I'm talking to Nobody!"

Well, you must be a pretty cool guy, and I can honestly say, I'm glad to finally meet you. Maybe we can sit down some day over coffee and get to know each other better.

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LOL

Your wife says she wants to find Somebody for a 3 way but Anybody will do if you can't find Nobody. ;p

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I guess you are just looking for an opportunity to cause problems between members and hosts because that's all that happens when this point has ever been discussed here. You must be a new host!!

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hateness

I really don't like who don't look like glamour, but they r in glamour category, thought the criteria devided, what's maximum they can do "in their show'
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Not sure that anyone understood your point. I do agree that their are hosts that belong in other categories and yet bring their shows to glam. I think softcore categories are for a reason and it shouldn't include hardcore activities or the advertisement of them. It is up to the site to monitor the categories and they don't!!

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RE: hateness

yeah, that's what I wanted to say. thanks for the cmt.

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RE: hateness

You are welcome. I think you brought up a very good point that could use discussion. :)

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Keep em real

I love real breasts of all sizes. But they must be REAL. It is disappointing when a beautiful slim girl with small breasts gets implants. It looks top heavy. They don't fit. Big breasts on a curvey girl are fine, but not if they look like over inflated tires ready to burst. Please girls, keep em natural.
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On the other hand, there are few things more fun in the forums than when 2 members get involved in a heated argument over whether some particular host or other has implants are not; with both sides equally self assured they are right and can always tell.

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RE: Keep em real

I have surveyed some of my members and men that I have known
(hehe) and actually have decided to stay natural although I think implants look good most of the time. After going to a topless show in Las Vegas and most didn't bounce is the only way I could tell the difference. I have been told by men that they are lacking the softness of the squeeze test.....
Why should it matter on here though? The cleavage looks great in clothes and job dropping naked don't they?

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after yr kids, that is ok. some women it really chnages breasts and I understand desire to look young again.

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Fake ones are great, they crack me up, when they're so far apart that they look like they had an argument ... haha

I prefer real myself ;)

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German porn star Carolin Berger died last week following a breast augmentation operation. Ok it was her sixth, but the caution remains.

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she will be sorely missed, i'd cry into my hanky if i hadn't used them all watching her movies.
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survey about leaving

Hi -

Which statement occurs more frequently?

Hosts are sad when their favorite viewer leaves CamContacts.

Viewers are sad when their favorite host leaves Camcontacts.

Just curious.

Thanks,
Squeak

ps: I think would a host would be more dissappointed if a favorite viewer left the site or stopped coming to them.
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You could well be right with your ps but I think it is s a different kind of "sadness" that most hosts feel. It is the same sadness I feel whenever I get my credit card statement :P

The only time a host will feel truly sad if a member leaves is when, just like me, that member is a legend and a stud muffin who can provide them with hours and hours of jungle sex.

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RE: survey about leaving

Pershaps Chathosts would prefer jingle sex INYF?
Well...credit cards don't jingle though. :D

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The jingling comes from the few coins that are left in my pocket topaz :(

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You should take the coins out of your pockets when in a vid session ..... that rhythmic jingling will make the next door neighbours' kids think Christmas is coming again :)

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Viewers are sad when their favorite host leaves Camcontacts.

By far.

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Hosts will miss viewer only if he spend massive amounts of money for chatting with them. Otherwise, they hardly notice he's not around anymore.

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A message for softcore hosts.

Action speaks louder than words!
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RE: A message for Voyeur Vince

instant action will full fill ur needs ;)

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Always against viewers.

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yeah i am when they say absolutely pathetic things

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RE: A message for Voyeur Vince

Thank you....well said!!

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from Wikipedia

Softcore pornography is a form of filmic or photographic pornography or erotica that is less sexually explicit than hardcore pornography. Softcore pornography depicts nude and semi-nude performers engaging in casual social nudity or non-graphic representations of sexual intercourse or masturbation. Softcore porn precludes explicit depictions of vaginal or anal penetration, cunnilingus, fellatio and ejaculation. Visual representations of genitalia (full nudity) are typically permissible in a softcore context in printed media,[1] and increasingly so in film[2] and television.[3] Erections of the penis may not be allowed (see Mull of Kintyre Test), although attitudes towards this are changing.[4]

Portions of images which are considered too explicit may be obscured (censored) through various means. These techniques include the use of draped hair or clothing, carefully positioned hands or other body parts, carefully positioned foreground elements in the scene (often plants or drapery), and carefully chosen camera angles.

In most cases the sexual acts depicted in softcore pornography are entirely simulated by the actors; no actual penetration occurs. Often the actors wear latex genital covers to prevent physical contact. Film directors go to great lengths to obscure such covers on screen, but often fail to completely hide them. The comedian Pablo Francisco joked about this "facade" during one of his routines: "The reason they call it soft porn [is] 'cause it doesn't get you hard."[5]

Hardcore film makers will sometimes make edited softcore versions of their films for the hotel pay-per-view market, cutting in less explicit angles of the sex scenes.[6]

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RE: A message for softcore hosts.

You are definitely an IA sorta guy Vince. Not So Shy could also fit your needs and desires if you give them a chance to get undressed.
You are NOT a softcore guy so don't try to think that simple words will make the hosts meet your wishes. Try changing your category Mr. Quickie :)

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RE: A message for softcore hosts.

I guess here is another person I need to give a big stick to and point in the direction of the dead horse. Maybe one day it will be beaten to a pulp and the topic will finally die.

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CC Alive and Well

hello gang-how is it going-long time no see-after reading several forums here I see somethings never change-which is cool-anyway see you all soon--wait I almost forgot my post:
Here is song you made like- what you think:
Wish that i was on ole rocky top, down in the Tennessee hills, ain't no smoggy smoke on rocky top, ain't no telephone bills. Once there was a girl on rocky top, half bear the other half cat. Wild as a mink, sweet as soda pop, I still dream about tap--rocky top, you'll always be home sweet home to me, good ole rocky top, rocky top tennessee
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Very charming, Chase! Welcome back!

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keep up the day job and forget the music.

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forums

this is my last time im posting or reading these forums-wish cc would delete this feature--i guess im getting to old to read this stuff anymore, what are anyone else thoughts on this, oh wait, i wont read your response-have a great day
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RE: forums

don't worry,i'll cc mail you my thoughts :--)

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RE: forums

Boring.....!
Getting rid of the forums is the least concern, getting rid of wingers and beggars though, now that would be better :)

Don't see your point at all, I think it's a really good way for chit chat, and another way for hosts to advertise themselves.

Profile are all very well and good, but a little personality amongst others publicly shows nicely.
If it wasn't for this the general forum i wouldn't have ever come across Monikababe, if it wasn't for the new year home page, i wouldn't have found Inotanangel, Chanel... etc etc.

It's all good advertising, and chit chat.
Quit winging! :p

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advertising in here now, wo now that makes me wont to quit reading forums now. i read them just to see what the trend is, but host advertising now in here, give us a break-stick to your profiles for that

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You're addicted like all of us...hehe. You will say this and you might not even miss it for awhile .....then some morning you will wake up and pour the coffee and you'll be bored to death.....the next thing...you'll be reading and posting in the forums again :) We've all been there and look where we are now :)) You'll be back!

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what makes you so sure-maybe he was serious

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A question for hosts in all categories

OK you started here to make some money. But have you been seduced by the attention you get from so many men? Men that pay to see you in video. Has your experience on cc changed you and your real world situation at all? Does your ego crave the attention of your many fans? Do you feel you are desperately needed by your regular viewers? Are you intoxicated by all the attention and fame you get here? Do you dream of hooking up with INYF and having hours and hours of all out jungle sex?
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who is this INYF

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The best known stud muffin in the history of cc and a legend in his own mind.

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LMAO-good one, by the way has anyone seen cherry lately--hotttttttttttttttttt

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for me my most from cc would be chester

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jungle sex-LMAO, by the way how any times have you had jungle sex

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I just love the fact that men are paying to see me and talk to me. Boosts my ego so much! That lone thing would keep me here forever :)

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RE: A question for hosts in all categories

Yes I've actually learned a lot. Do I crave the attention no but I feel much better about my natural breasts, realize when a woman is naked men don't see any flaws and now know that the past men in my life weren't lying about my looks to just get me in bed...lol...they do it here to get me naked :) As far as changing my life...oh yes...now I have my friends and family wondering why I enjoy staying at home alone on weekends and they can't come over.
As far as jungle sex and INYF....I can't put those in the same thought unless we are talking two different jungles :)

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RE: A question for hosts in all categories

Ouch !!! lol

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Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

My vote goes to INYF
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member: tisme
host: tisme

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

would you still think he's the best if you knew he doesn't use his fingers or toes to type but another pointed protruberance? but have to agree though thomasS77 is clever in the way he can type while changing feet in his mouth! :--)
p.s the body was cool but not as good as macho man,ricky steamboat,ultimate warrior or the greastest stone cold!

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

opps-by bad--I meant
member: thomass777
host: host

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

But Jesse was Governor of Minnesota for one term.

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and arnie was governor of california for 2 terms.think that says more about universal sufferage than the important pursuit of mastery of the grapple :--)

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

Actually was less than 2 terms. He served the remainder of Gray Davis's 2nd term. And now they have Governor Moonbeam back for his 3rd.

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

And speaking as a Californian, Heaven help us now. Governor Moonbeam ran for office saying Arnold did a crappy job with the state budget (the truth being the State legislature would never let Arnold cut a single thing like he always wanted)...then Moonbeam said Meg Whitman (his opponent) didn't know squat about balancing budgets (even though she was CEO of eBay and a self-made millionaire) and he even promised he wouldn't raise taxes. So the morons in California elected him. But now that's he's facing a $30 BILLION state deficit, of course the first thing Moonbeam says is "Guess I'll have to raise all of your taxes after all." Ah, you gotta love politics where you can say anything to get elected and still get away with it.

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

Governor Moonbeam?! Who is his father...Frank Zappa!

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RE: Who was the best forum poster in 2010?

The late Edmund G. Brown who defeated Tricky Dick Nixon for Governor in 1962

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chat room

just a suggestion--since russian host here like to type russian in chat room, why not have a chat room just for them
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and for romania too

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Just from a business point of view -- what would be the point of having a Russian chat room or a Romanian one? That would only serve to separate people into little groups, when the whole point of having a CC chat room is to bring people together, so everyone can mingle in one place and you have a much better opportunity to meet new people.

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or alternatively realise that, in the grand scheme of things, it is no big deal and learn to live with it.

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we talking chatroon or your postman's whistle friend? :--)

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I couldn't disagree more. My russian and romanian has improved no end thanks to the presence of these wonderful girls in the chat room. Personally I'd rather ban english.

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report them to cc.

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I agree, if they cant type English, they need to get a new translator, but really who cares, I only visit and chat with Asian Host and they type pretty good English

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I love the ideal they can type any language they want, helps me to learn some new language. I think CC needs to do away with the English speaking in chat room let anyone type anything they want to, as long as it's not rude toward others.

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the way war & i(& assorted others)type,it's like we're speaking foreign languages anyway :--)

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RE: chat room

I love the ignore button a lot when this happens, they don't have a problem doing that to me so I do it to.

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viewer103 i really wanted to read your post,but it you're on iggy :--)

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what I didn't see that

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I doubt there would be much communication then....;) It could be called the community no chat room....

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More love and romance on cc

Ok I don't want to best this topic to death, but in the several recent posts on the subject many argued back and forth. We here about viewers and hosts meeting and so on and then we hear from others that is is all bullshit and this is fantasy site. I assume everyone was talking about adult categories, which to me are pure fantasy. But lets not forget we have Long Term or Marriage in non adult. So what's up with that? Do we have to be under 18 to take part? So what's it all about Alphie? Don't tell me have some hypocricy on site.

Oh never mind, I figured it out, we have a fantasy dating site. Or at least in one category.
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I apologize for my poor spelling

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It's okay... Just don't type so fast next time.

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You used the word "legerdemain"... wow, I think I'm in love.

Move over, Romeo.

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+1

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Glam+1(monikaBabe=GlamBabe? :--)

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lol Glam :--)

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Its a cam sex site, that cc doesnt mind if it gets confused with a cam dating site ;)

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RE: More love and romance on cc

What does it matter and who can decide who they will have chemistry with in this huge world and when?? You could do e-harmony for 10 years and come here and two people are perfect for each other. Who can say what can happen. I doubt too many girls here would turn down someone that seemed Mr. Perfect for her honestly unless she is already in a relationship and happy. I think there is much more room for fantasy here when guys are looking through the selection. Each one looking their sexiest and at their best with minimal clothing ...what guy wouldn't want to wake up to one of them. In reality that is just one small portion of a hosts life and it seems like guests that might be a consideration are never close in distance but only in cam life. Never say never it has happened here. I also think with any long distance relationships that there are fantasy's of what you want to believe but in reality it can be totally different when 2 people finally meet.
I think it is a mistake in the way that no matter how much you communicate long distance it's nothing like being around a person and learning things as you go opposed to what they tell you..

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I agree. So having a long term marriage category is completely disingenuous?

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The funny part is they never find a partner and they are eternally in that category. I think it is happening all over the site and why not? There are plenty to choose from :)

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Well, hmmm---all I can say a date can happen from anywhere or at any place, it be here or there or anywhere, it can happen, I know, but if a host here doesn't want to date a member and visa-versa that is cool and okie, just keep in mind have fun here and let people ask and get use to be turning down like me, it doesn't bother me that much to get upset or bend out of line if a host doesn't wont to date a member on here, beside's it's their life.

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RE: More love and romance on cc

I have to agree with the post above, can happen and has happen and if host not interested thats OK, now can we let this topic go away, it makes me nervous because i'm afraid i'm going to fall in love here at cc.

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I was hoping no one would agree with me--now I take that back what I said above--to begin why would a host want to meet a pervert like us, give me a break and lets have some fun around here-you people are getting way to serious

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Viewer categories

We are all familiar with host categories on site but how about categories for viewers?

1. Viewers Home Alone -Straight

2.Viewers Home Alone - Gay

3.Viewers Home Alone - Sissy Boy/cuck

4.Viewers Home Alone - Pervert

5.Viewers Home Alone - Prison Inmate or should be

6. Viewers Home Alone - White Knight

7. Viewers Home Alone - Fat Loser

8. Viewers Home Alone - All around loser

9. Dirty Old Men Alone - That's me!
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Viewers Home Alone: Host Makes Money
Viewers Home Alone: Host has someone to pervert with
Viewers Home Alone: Host Not Alone
Viewers Home Alone: have to Read these silly forums

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viewer pretending to have a big dick (no cam supplied)

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you forgot: Viewer Home Not Alone, hoping wife does not catch him!

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4, 5, 7, 8 or 9. Which one to choose.

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I would like to add a few to the list:
Non-Adult
10. Viewer Home Alone with no Money Looking for a Date
Adult Soft-Core
11. Viewer Home Alone with some Money-Party Time, get naked fast
Adult Hardcore
12. Viewer Home Alone with Lots of Money-looking for Trip on Fantasy Island. ( yes I know this one already exist for most categories, but lets cut to the chase and get it over with and know up front what is expecting).

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are we the viewers going to get pay by host now or get discounts

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yes & no :--)

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you don't have 2 choose 1,feel 3 to choose more(4) :--)

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colombian girls and implants tits.

im curious why 99% of colombian hosts have implants tits here?even if girls is 18, or 25. in all ages... why they start it so early,and why they all have it? i mean implants in ass and espesialy tits. its common there or cheap? couse in russia it is not..
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I've observed the same and it doesn't make sense. I assume it is a cultural thing. I'm told the cost to do so is very low. The curves are great when clothes are on but maybe it's a personal thing but man I HATE the look of fake boobs when they are naked. Unless they are malformed, or aged badly or from kids I see no reason to get implants. Just my personal opinion.

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

I'm also noticed a lot of Latin hosts with implants.

I hope I'm not offending Colombian's by linking them with Brazilians, but I remember news stories back in the 80's about a boom in implants in Brazil where most women are usually naturally small.

There are even "impant vacations" to Brazil because they're so many plastic surgeons. I assume the cultural acceptance of implants has started to spread to Colombia.

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

South America is a mecca for cheap plastic surgery and dental work. It is somewhat expensive for the locals but very cheap compared to the US and Europe. You can get a dental implant for around $600....you can barely get a couple of fillings for that in the US. Columbia is also a little different than other South American countries..their men like that look so the girls do it...and make some money on the side because of it....Argentina, Chile and Uruguay...less into the surgery on the boobs...face...yes...they want eternal youth. But they like their look lean and sophisticated. Oh yeah you can get weight loss surgery (lapband or RNY) for a fraction of the cost in the US>

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

why does this make you so curious, nothing wrong with implants, if I was a woman (Brazil or from where ever) I would want the biggest boobs that a person could have.

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

I have to say all of the Columbian girls I have seen on this site and others have implants, all appear to be in a studio, all are quite attractive and all have a hard time getting undressed in pvt.

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

We must be visiting different Columbian girls as I have seen 6 or 7 and every one got naked.

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RE: colombian girls and implants tits.

Maybe they have hard time getting undressed in prvt because the boob implants are so big, it's hard to get clothes over and off them ;)

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The breast implants is a cultural thing in Colombia. There's even a book called "without tits there is no paradise" about a girl who has "normal" breasts and wants to have BIG ones to get the rich drug dealing guys.

Colombian guys expect girls to have great tits and amazing asses. So girls go into the plastic surgery as some other girls go to hair dresser.

I saw a while ago a host that was from colombia and had a nice natural body, and after a while, she got HUGE breast implants and maybe some butt enhancement.

I liked more the real her. Now i think she is gone, maybe she got a fake-boob-loving bf

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RE: Cover girls...same type always? real or photoshop?

I do not want to see the same stereotypes again and again that there are a thousand times and bores me. whether the model is thick or thin, does not matter, they must be sexy, the photos need to express something vivid, I do not like when a girl too much throws in pose, its cold and not natural

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Be more original in your posting name....I have been using that for some time :) Also I think it was very obvious what lizard was saying.
I personally think there is so much photo shop that their faces look like cartoon characters and not like girls.

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RE: Cover girls...same type always? real or photoshop?

sorry for bad english, i partially used google translator.
i found better word: exaggerated pose

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RE: Cover girls...same type always? real or photoshop?

i would like to see new girls. only if they are not worse than last..

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RE: Cover girls...same type always? real or photoshop?

Thin is in

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RE: Cover girls...same type always? real or photoshop?

Well I now have read it all-real or photoshop.Only difference is the for me is I love seeing photoshop photos and girls it gets my sexual feelings in a high mode before a video, then when I get into the video and see the real, well all I can say, go back to the photoshop pictures and ask myself, does this makes sense why i am here

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I like to see slim supermodels and curvy but only if they look really good and special, i have in the past moaned about seeing the same old covergirls and asked for some new girls...but mentioning no names, i think some of the new girls chosen did not come up to expectations. However there were a few new stars discovered.
The standards should be kept high to reflect a good image of the site and the hosts that work here and the covergirls should be rewarded enough to make it worth their time and expense in what is after all a gamble for them. Photoshop or not doesn't bother me, if i want to visit a host i will judge her by her archives not by covergirl photos, i do find it a little strange that the rules (as i understand) say no photoshop allowed but it appears obvious most do use it, why not say photoshop is allowed but any photos that no longer resemble the host will not be chosen.
Finally i think the two tier format is a good one, ie. covergirls and angels.

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thanks for the memories of 2010

Just think back last year in 2010, what did cc leave you in your memory of good things that happen to you here. I have to say I seen more friendship between host and members more than I seen in the year of 2009. Private videos have gotten better, the slingshot game cc had during the last special event was cool and fun to play with host, I fell in love with more women here then in the past, and the most thankful memory I had was a 1 hour private with a host that I didn't know I had. Peace to everyone, stay cool, keep on smiling and love your neighbors.
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thanks for the memories-brings me back to thinking, why did I do it

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RE: thanks for the memories of 2010

thanks for instant action i never get bored

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RE: thanks for the memories of 2010

Thanks (hmm-all I can think of now)

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"and the most thankful memory I had was a 1 hour private with a host that I didn't know I had..."lmao aus,you mean there was not even any tell-tale sticky,used tissues about?sounds like thge immaculate interception! either that or you had alaskan frostbite :--)

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souldnt it be thx for the mammaries ladies :P

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Anyone know any girls that have moved to Toronto to become strippers?

I know this was popular back in the early part of the last decade. I think I recall something like 500+ Romanian girls getting stripper work visas each year for a few years to work in Toronto clubs. But then it got much more difficult to get the visas, but I've forgotten the reason. Anyhow, just curious if any folks here know any girls that went to Canada on one of these visas. Seems like a great way to make a little money and see the other side of the pond.
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RE: Anyone know any girls that have moved to Toronto to become strippers?

Don't know about Canada, but I know a lot went to the United States, around California, Nevada and Florida areas and a few became well know in the industry made tons of money and even knew one who became a Playboy model living in Texas now and made even more

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Sounds more like trafficing...

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RE: Anyone know any girls that have moved to Toronto to become strippers?

Yes they get there and it's not exactly the wonderful career of modeling that they expected and they are stuck there working as strippers....

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RE: Anyone know any girls that have moved to Toronto to become strippers?

yes-a few-why again

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RE: Anyone know any girls that have moved to Toronto to become strippers?

I remember about one girl who got a student visa for USA and did some extra-curricular exotic dancing in a NYC club.

She's long gone from cc now. :(

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

Men and women have always had different ideas when it came to romance. It has been that way since there have been humans on earth and it is not going to change any time soon. And when I say men, I am referring to straight men. On this site it is fair to say you can find almost any kind of man on the planet.

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For me, romance is...
Candlelight dinners, a meal that I have prepared for her, with wine to drink, fire in the fireplace, soft music;
Coming up behind her, putting my arms around her waist, kissing her neck from behind, and whispering "I love you" in her ear;
Quiet walks in the park,
Loving adoration of my partner, affectionate words, pet names, tender and respectful of her;
Flowers for no reason, just to surprise her;
Brief notes reminding her that I love her, tucked in her coat pocket for her to discover later;
Listening to her with my full attention, trying to understand her feelings;
Being with her whenever is possible;
Never forgetting her special days -- birthdays, anniversaries of the day that we met, and so on
--- this is some of what romance means to me.

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Bravo....that is a great explanation of romance.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

leaving those little romantic love messages on the phone when apart, leaving them love notes around the house you to find, a smile and the look in the eyes when talking to each other and when she goes to bed wearing your flannel shirt and longjohns.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

you mean like(in deep,husky,panting voice"what are you wearing?i'm here buck naked with a smoking gun,thinking of your holster." :--)

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

like always? do i know you? don't you think i speak in general terms of romantic moments? don't you think that with a real, individual relationship, I could be more specific, answering according to the person I know? every person is different, as are their needs, desires, wants, and dreams. How can I possibly understand what you need, since I do not know you?

How about this for my idea of romance... being able to read your mind?

Or how about this as my idea of foreplay: "Baby, brace yourself!" (a line from movie Mrs. Doubtfire)

So why, if I respond to your question honestly and sincerely, do you slam me for what I write? Can anybody please you? Is anybody perfect enough to meet your standards of romance?

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

well obviously it is not me, whoever you are. So (assuming you are Elegance40 (Julia) ) why bother to post your initial post? You already have your "perfect" romantic lover. I have not read Bronte. So I am unenlightened as to what you "need".

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

I would add, now I feel so stupid for thinking your initial post was a genuine sincere post, and worthy of a reply.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

Please, then accept my apologies for my wrong assumption.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

I would have thought it self evident that "..." with her U's and 4's was clearly not the same person as Julia, who writes as does an adult not a child; and is far too good to be involved in forum squabbles.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

no it wasn't evident, as I don't know her at all, nor seen much if anything of her posts in the forums.. However, I am quite sorry that I wrongly assumed it was her.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

I'm big on romance, i really like this stuff alot.

Nothing makes me feel better than buying a girl flowers, at the petrol filling station.
Romantic meal at home, light some candles... maybe unwrap the macdonalds; put it on a plate.
Walks in the park, great; if she takes the dog with her.
I like to leave notes too, although they look like reminders a lot of the time.
Sharing moments together; like holding her hair back from her face when she's being sick in the toilet.

Lots of things like this...

Mostly i don't care about being 'Romantic',
Anyone be 'romantic'.
can do the right things, like take someone special places, do things 'romantic'...
Anyone can tell a girl 'I love you' it's just three simple words...

But to actually make a girl feel like she is loved is a concept most men don't even seem to understand even exists.
That's the hard part, it don't take any romantic, any cash, anything.
Just to make someone feel truly loved...

It's the most romantic thing of all :p

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

Ahhh, reality sets in! LOL

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

but don't you think, maybe one reason love seems to luster in marriages or long-term relationships, is because we forget the little "romantic things"? Yes, the everyday, hang-in-there, reality things are important (I liked your holding her hair back while she vomits in the toilet! LOL). But maybe we forget too quickly the special things, the little niceties, the spontaneous gestures of affection. How much better might a marriage or long-term relationship be if we continued to "woo" or "court" them like we did when we first fell in love? Yes, anyone can do it, but how many forget and neglect it, and love grows cold or we begin to take one another for granted?

I hope I never forget the "romantic things" in my special relationship. And when we are eighty and have been together for 50 years or more, I hope we will still be just as much in love, and still just as excited about each other, as when we were young.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

It is the lingering times of intimacy that seems to fade and is the most important aspect of a relationship. Sex becomes a bedroom thing instead of letting the intimacy linger through the day to create the desire and keeping it exciting always. Keeping that and the passion alive is the key to any long term happy relationship.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

I could list things like walking on a beach at sunset or taking my lover to a candlelit dinner as things I'd arrange. But if you want my opinion (as a guy) the most romantic things are the little things that really show you care. Because while they might not be big and expensive, they are usually the most sincere and heartfelt. Which means they become the moments you'll remember for a lifetime.

So romantic (to me) is running an errand and being focused on yourself, but then you see a bouquet of flowers in the store. And that's when you realize you should be thinking of SOMEONE ELSE instead. Because as you look at the flowers, you're reminded that true love is putting THEM first at all times. So you buy the flowers and bring them to her...or arrange for them or candy or a giant teddy bear to be delivered to her...at home or work or wherever...just to make her smile. Or in the middle of your day...even if you're in a business meeting...you slip your cell phone under the table and send a text message that says "I'm thinking of you" so she'll know she's in your heart.

One of the best romantic lines I ever heard -- and this more than anything sums up romance for me -- was in the movie "As Good As It Gets" where Jack Nicholson plays a grumpy guy who falls in love with Helen Hunt. He takes her out to dinner, but says something stupid and offends her. To salvage the date, she challenges him to give her one nice compliment. He then tells a story about some pills he is taking to help him be less grumpy and other things. At first it seems like a totally pointless story. So Helen Hunt asks "I don't get how that's a compliment to me." And Jack Nicholson looks at her and softly says "I take them because you make me want to be a better man."

And I think that's what true romance is. It's when you meet that one special person who inspires you so much that it actually changes your life. And you start to do things that you didn't even think you had in you. All because you now want to be MORE than you were before, FOR that one special person. I know someone like that. I tend to drive her crazy or make her mad at times...and she gets under my skin too...but I can't help loving her. We may never get together...in fact, lately we've been fighting which makes me sad...but I know one thing for sure. Not a day goes by where I don't get up and think of her and miss her and love her -- so I try to be better any way I can just for her.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

We all come here for our own reasons. I like the forum because there are interesting opinions to read. Seems silly to ask someone why they are here when you are here to. Do you think you are more special than the rest of us?

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

What are you talking about? Who's flaws did I see?
Your reply makes no sense.

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RE: Are we still romantic or only dreaming on it?

No they weren't really asking a question of Big Dumb Ape. They were making a statement. A judgmental statement.

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ladylikelily


Does anyone know what happened to this Russian beauty....she had such an innocent face, liked butter wouldn't melt in her mouth, but had huge tits andloved it in the ass???

one of you must still be fucking her!
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RE: ladylikelily

she posted she was in love with a member and left soon after . wasnt me :(

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RE: ladylikelily

so some bloke from this site actually got hold of those fantastic tits in real...I remember she was in girl on girl for short while....I bet there aint a thing she don't do....nudge nudge wink wink...

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RE: ladylikelily

but did anyone get any photos of those huge tits????

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RE: ladylikelily

That was just advertising. She married, her place stats say she could be back. Hopefully not a flop.

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RE: ladylikelily

she was advertising to get married? hahaha ...I think she needed two men to handle those pair of beauties ;)

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RE: ladylikelily

let start a campaign to get her to come back to CC and grace us with those amazing breasts. They were almost perfect ! Who was the lucky guy on CC who got hold of them?

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RE: ladylikelily

ladylikely was a great host but dont forget natruallybusty xextaxyx and other very beautiful ladies who are still here ;)

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RE: ladylikelily

i will look into your recommendations...but there is something about long dark hair, and an innocent face and huge tits on slim body that makes my hormones go crazy...when she warmed up ladylikelily loved to show her taste in anal and it was quite surprising... from such an angelic one ...made it even more orgasmic!

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RE: ladylikelily

" dont forget natruallybusty xextasyx"??? dude they r implants and she doesnt hide the fact they are either, you need to think before you post

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RE: ladylikelily

thanks someone... i dont like implants...ladylike lily was all natural - as far i know... but you never know with these russian beauties...they do anything it takes ;)

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RE: ladylikelily

naturallybusty's breasts are natural .

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indeed casablanca is in my top 5 all time ... and ive been on cc a long long time...but ladylikelily is no longer here and i pine for what I cant have!

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RE: ladylikelily

r xextasyx boobs real? she never does shows to see.

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RE: ladylikelily

read my post,NO they r not real, they r implants,and as i stated,she doesnt lie and hide the fact they r fake, even if u dont "like implants" she is certainly worth a visit,highly intelligent and extremely beautiful

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RE: ladylikelily

well, ladylike lily was like all the other russian girls here...tell you what you want to hear, take your $$$, then go fuck some mafia (or several mafia) fellas who are spoilt for choice...

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RE: ladylikelily

yes, another, but what a lovely way to spend your hard earned money....ladylike lily had amazing tits...and i am sure a number of very dubious moscow-types would concur....difference they (and i am sure its a large plural) got to suck them for real!

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To whoever posted as "To BDA" below -- MAN UP already!

>> Talk to me after you've been married a few years, had kids & cleaned up their v*mit and sh*t; struggled with boredom, depression, stress at work; lived with your spouse's personal quirks that you might think are cute now but just wait a few years, when they drive you up the wall. Marriage ain't so easy, for either party. What's easy is to criticize (and that can be part of the problem, believe me) <<

And your point is...what? Sorry, but the list you recited are things that happen in life. And they're things most people either laugh at by keeping an upbeat attitude and realizing those ARE things that make life fun and interesting OR or they simply learn to deal with them. Either way, when a couple chooses to marry, they should know going in there will be good days and bad. But you chose to get married because you were IN LOVE. So much so that you CHOSE to make a lifelong commitment to each other.

My parents were married for 54 years. My Mom died 3 years ago and not a day goes by that my Dad doesn't miss her and you can see it in everything he does. She was everything to him and he was devoted to her. Their love and commitment forged a vision of what a GREAT marriage should be in my head and THAT is what I hope to have one day with the right woman, if I'll ever be blessed enough to find her.

So sorry, but your trivial bitching is falling on deaf ears. And if it sounds like I'm criticizing you (or other married guys for playing on the side from your wife with a host) guess what? I AM. So instead of posting a ridiculous bullsh*t list where you try to justify jerking off to a host by actually blaming it on your own little kid puking or crapping a little bit in his diaper...like all little kids do...tell you what. Do the world a favor and go into the bathroom, take a moment of self-reflection looking in the mirror, and then f*cking man up. And then just like "Harley rider" posted below, instead of running up your credit card today on a host and talking all kinds of sexy crap while trying to hit on her, go buy your REAL wife some flowers or nice Victoria's Secrets things to show HER that you love her instead.
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RE: To whoever posted as "To BDA" below -- MAN UP already!

...or just leave her.

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RE: To whoever posted as "To BDA" below -- MAN UP already!

I've been through what you have and more. And no matter what others have posted, you are yourself being judgmental. There are many that come to this site and others for things I think are sick and depraved, but how someone spends his own money is his business. Case closed.

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RE: To whoever posted as "To BDA" below -- MAN UP already!

Yeah, that's life. Life is 50% of marriages fail, for reasons that are not always foreseeable to the partners in a marriage. You can find yourself in a loveless marriage 10 or 15 or 20 years in, and do you then simply throw your hands up and give up on a possibility of happiness for the rest of your life? I don't consider breaking a commitment lightly; I'm not trying to "justify" anything. It happens. Some of us find strength in the marriage (so far, I have). Some of us don't.

My parents were married for nearly 50 years before my mother passed away, and, yes, my father was heartbroken. At the same time, my mother considered leaving him half a dozen times that I know of, because he can be a real jerk at times. She was never in a position to be able to do that. I couldn't tell you if she regretted that, or not.

I hope you find a suitable mate, Big Dumb Ape.

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RE: To whoever posted as "To BDA" below -- MAN UP already!

Why cant i find a man like u :(((

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Big Dumb Ape is not so dumb

This is why I love the CC message boards. Every so often there is a post that cuts though the garbage and someone will say something from the heart that is brutally honest. Bravo Ape. When I read that person's response I had the same bad reaction when he used his kids as a justification for being here. Congrats on having the courage to call him out for it. Your views on marriage might seem old fashioned but I'm sure there are many here who share your idealism for what a loving and committed relationship should be like.

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RE: bbw /mature?

not matters bbw or mature ? we must have some fun.

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RE: bbw /mature?

I like them young and slim.

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me too but sadly i'm like a magnet for old and fat viewers :(

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RE: Question for hosts and members

latest i think about sex permamently:))

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RE: Question for hosts and members

whem im awake

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RE: Question for hosts and members

Wow to all the above....

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I think about sex several times a day. As for having sex...my first thought is to say daily though I know in reality that generally doesn't happen in real life. Even in a new relationship when it is all about the sex...after a few weeks...things calm down...so I would guess 3-4 times a week would suit me fine...but I would think about it every day.

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RE: Question for hosts and members

with or without viagara?

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Must be a female....:)

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RE: Question for hosts and members

LOL

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RE: Question for hosts and members

Viagra does not work. Its just snake oil for Big Pharma to pad their excessive profits.

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RE: Question for hosts and members

Hmm, methinks someone didn't lay a place at the dinner table for Mr Objectivity.

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RE: Question for hosts and members

Oh trust me Viagra works...even the cheap knockoff stuff from India. I can get an erection no problem but sustaining it over a long period of time can be a struggle for anyone over the age of 16. Viagra keeps it up and frankly keeps it harder and consequently a bit longer. Win win

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Nothing wrong with a healthy sex drive....but your bf might need something to keep up with you :))

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million hours video..

some girls are in 121 for 7-10 hours a day. everyday! how possible? do they have a million fan?
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i'd tell you but the hosts are always in 121 i can't even see how much they charge :P .

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RE: million hours video..

So the sheeps theory is true.....everyone goes in the same place :)))) when u see a girl always in private u want the same thing..

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yes, but seems it is video with a same member,couse 121 is never over.just going and going. everyday.when i tryed to come to one other host who is non stop open session.this host in open video just ignore all others. just talk phone with someone in open video.like no one even come in. in 2 minuts she replyed " im busy"..was same in 2 hours.. 4 hour... and next day. and in a week.month.. seems some hosts here have a real rich fans..

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RE: million hours video..

Sounds like one fan or a bf that wants her all to himself...that would be the ideal member for any host ;)

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RE: million hours video..

i have doubts that just one rich person, they cam communicate off site very easy if so.

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RE: million hours video..

Why would she want to ? Silly!

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It could be not good for cc of course...but if they get almost in relationship, and like each other, so keep treat him as a client...hmm...i really don't know. Never happen with me so far.

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RE: million hours video..

Maybe its not a rich fan at all. Maybe she's talking to a guy she's actually interested in, whether he's just a good friend or she's become romantically involved with him for real. Seems pretty obvious that a host is going to give a guy like that more of her attention and time than a total stranger who just wants to talk silly sex shit to her or jerk off.

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Not rich, but ready to spend thousands $ for abilty to see a girl he likes? Should it be true for every men? If yes I can expect much more from those who keep telling me I am so beutiful and they get addicted and bla bla...Thank you "reality check".:)

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lol. "sheeps theory."

I don't know if that's fair. I think it's more an instinctual act of self preservation. If you see a restaurant that's always busy, you can infer that the food is both safe and tasty. If you see a restaurant that's empty all the time, it's easy to imagine that there's something wrong.

That doesn't make you a sheep following the herd like a mindless moron - it makes you a smart and discerning consumer by letting others do the "taste testing" for you.

CC is obviously not the same thing, but I can see the mentality being similar.

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RE: million hours video..

im with you. so hard to get to be with some hosts. i literally feel like i need to throw some elbows just to talk to someone.

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RE: million hours video..

hmm--I'm no host and no fan of any host here, but can tell you after a million hours of videos, I would be on a host fan list

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I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

I realize there are viewers that come to this site and others and only want to talk. And that's fine but I thought that is why we have non adult, Glamour and little shy for. Or am I missing something. Are the hardcore girls taking cues from their sisters in softcore and prolonging video by talking? Do you really think your viewers want something other than an erotic nude show? If this strategy continues you will lose viewers to your fellow hosts who "get it" and know how to do their jobs.
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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

I agree totally. Not shy and instant action host, please stick to the show more and less talk.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

I hear what you are saying because
some chathosts chat or make excuses
too much. Instead of doing what they promise
in their profile and what they should be doing
for the category they are in.
If you see someone has a chathost in open,
THEN YOU COME BACK LATER OR TAKE YOUR
CHANCES.
I know you hope to time it right and come in when
the good stuff is happening and at a lower price too.
Hey you know what? If you come in and the chathost is
chatting with someone, guess what? You missed an
amazing show and they are chatting after it. Too bad for you!
First viewer calls the shots. No one is forcing you to go in.
If you want things your way, then be smart and come back later!

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

You are most likely wrong under the rules since it is a hard core category and EVERY viewer has the right to nudity. There is no clause that say, the host has to get naked unless the first guy doesn't want her to.

You are taking things with this first come, first served notion too far. To say that a host, especially an Instant Action host, can refuse to give a show just because someone wants just to chat is contrary to the intent of the category. And while I don't know for sure, I am confident CC would issue a credit in such a case.

It is one thing for the host to defer to the first member in terms of the type of show, such as if he wants to see doggy and the second guy wants to see her lay on her back, she is free to follow the first guy's request and probably should. But not to get naked altogether because she is chatting? I doubt CC would endorse that.

It isn't about taking your chances. It is about the rules. And under the rules, unless you can show me an email from CC that says I am wrong, it seems pretty obvious that hard core hosts need to put on a show for any viewer that wants one and cannot use chatting with another viewer as an excuse.

And by the way, why couldn't she use the second viewer as a reason just to chat even if the first guy wants nudity? Where in the rules under your logic does it say that she must defer to the first guy? Why couldn't she say "well, one guy just wanted to chat so I did that?" The answer is there is nothing about first come, first served in terms of getting naked and putting on a show anywhere in the rules. The only thing that appears are statements indicating hosts need to get naked.

If you want to argue that regardless of the rules, it should be first come, first served, that is one thing. But the rules trump such a notion as far as I can tell since all viewers in hard core have the right to nudity without any type of limitatioin as to the order of entering video.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

Did you read what I wrote?
If you want a show done ONLY FOR YOU.
THEN COME BACK LATER, if a chathost is in open.
The number one rule on this site is that
we are all people and that no one should
be treated bad.
Yes chathosts are performers. Still they are
women and the hope is that men do not
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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

"First viewer calls the shots. No one is forcing you to go in.
If you want things your way, then be smart and come back later!"

That led me to believe that you were saying if the first viewer in hard core, open wants to just chat and the second wants nudity, that the second viewer would have to come back. You are most likely wrong if that is what you meant.

It isn't about hosts being people. It is about following the rules that they agreed to. You want respect as a host and as a woman, then follow the rules otherwise you do not deserve any type of respect. End of story!!!

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

I hear your point and I would agree with you. It would be hard to believe that a member would go to an IA or not so shy host and talk to her in open and then be disappointed if she began performing for other guests that came into the room. I am sure that he would enjoy the goods too.... If she feared he might not like that then she should be considerate of the other guests and ask him to come back and take her 121. In open I perform for all and if the first guest wants to chat with me or exclusively then he should always take me 121 or expect interruptions.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

As has been discussed below, you would need to ask CC what is "right" under the rules when the first guy wants to just chat with the hard core host.

I agree with what has been said in another thread, namely that the first guy should go 121 or you can give a password to him if he just wants to chat. And think about it: you are allowing the first guy to get all of your attention at the open price when he really should "man up" and go 121. Sometimes, you might even be able to make more money with 2 or 3 guys in open if you give a show instead of telling them to all come back. Is that fair to you?

The first guy knows it's hard core. He knows guys want action. So if he wants to just chat, he should go 121 or accept that if someone wants nudity, you need to stop chatting and put on a show. After all, there is nothing in the rules that says you can say no to the second viewer just because u are chatting with the first. And if it is a regular of urs, then give him a password sometimes, and other times, he can go 121.

I agree with giving the first guy priority if you are giving a show and the first guy asks for one thing and the second asks for another. But in your category, all viewers have a right to nudity, so if the first guy doesn't want it, but the second does, you should get naked. The first guy knows it is hard core so he shouldn't be upset with this. The second guy has a right to nudity under hard core. And you know it is hard core and have agreed to nudity as you well know. It is fair to everyone, and it might get you more money.

The guy just chatting will probably come back later if he doesn't want the show. He probably likes just talking to u, is a nice guy, and will be happy to return. The guy who wants to just wank is going to be annoyed that yet another hard core host said "sorry, no show" and might never come back. I could be wrong, but I think u will keep more regulars under my way than just deferring to the first guy. Plus, I think the rules don't really allow u to say no to the second guy just because u are chatting with the first since it is hard core but check with CC.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

You are right, you made good points.
I understood your english well.
Wishing you all the best!

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

I understand your confusion but all viewers in open are equal in there regardless of what order they come in. As a host my attention goes to all but not exclusive to one person. They know this when they come into open and so I perform in general and not meeting one particular guests requests. If someone expects your full attention then 121 is the place and they realize that. You take too much of a risk trying to just please one in open and have the others rate you poorly because you are not doing what is expected for the category. My suggestion is rethink your thinking about putting anyone priority in open. All hosts face this and many times with a regular member that knows to go to 121 from the beginning. Why they don\'t confuses me unless they are testing what your mood might be. Another consideration is if he is coming to 121 then maybe he might be shy and not really know how to ask you to get naked and play and is hoping that someone else will come into open and and egg it on if you are not suggesting it. Hope that makes sense because I do believe that some come in thinking that you will just perform without them having to ask and they might feel awkward. Also keep in mind how many $$ you are throwing away when you have several in open and they are leaving unhappy and report you and lower your ratings. Think business wise :)) Good Luck!

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

If your point is that some hosts in hardcore categories are reluctant to put on a show, play the old "only in 121" game, and/or stall, I agree 100%. I hate it and often report them to CC. But there are still hosts that I like to just chat with at times in hard core categories.

I think the key is that the hard core host needs to respond to the viewer's mood instead of being a prima donna or acting like she is some dominatrix that gets to dictate things. If it is a hard core category and I am in video and want a show, she has two cholices: get naked or get reported to CC. She has agreed to get naked upon my request when she signed up for the category, so no matter what a host thinks about my attitude, too bad. You don't like it... Switch categories.

When I am in soft core, I am respectful and request nudity and hope I will get it. If I don't get it, too bad for me. When in hard core, I am just as respectful when I request nudity. The difference is, the host in hard core has ZERO right to say no, and she is being disrespectful to me when she fails to comply with rules she agreed to.

One final point to the stallers out there. You never know when a member such as myself that knows the rules very well will be visiting you so if you like working on CC, it is best to comply with them.

I await your responses, hosts, but remember, as I said, I am respectful to hosts so it is YOU who are in the wrong when you fail to comply by the rules. You don't want to strip, go to Glamour and LIttle Shy. I have no problem with that. It is the hard core hosts that jerk guys around that I and others have the problem with. And the original poster is right... I have spent A LOT less money on CC because of that type of nonsense. CC is good about giving credits back, but it is too annoying to keep writing them so I have taken a lot of my business elsewhere.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

Not so shy, yes, but NOT if you're instant action. As others have posted below in some other thread, when the instant action host picks that category, she agrees to the following:

By signing into this category Chathosts commit to:
•Not sharing details such as age, name, country etc. unless initiated by the Viewer.
•No delaying tactics whatsoever. Chathosts MUST be prepared to immediately start their show as soon as a viewer enters

So UNLESS the VIEWER starts with someting other than hi, how r u, you need to strip RIGHT AWAY. Don't like it? Switch categories!!! But some hosts think that they can make more money in a certain category or just like it for whatever reason so they don't want to switch. Unfortunately, you have two choices: 1) switch categories and risk less money or 2) violate the rules and risk getting reported to CC.

The stuff beyond Hi, Hru? is for not so shy. It is there that you can do the name, age, country stuff. And then after a few minutes, it is time for the show if the viewer wants or you risk getting reported. But once again, the instant action host agreed not to do this unless the viewer starts it.

Save the "we are people. we don't like to be treated as objects" stuff. I respect you and treat you with respect. But treating me with respect means following the rules, and if you don't like the rules, you can go to another category. That is where my attitude comes from. All you have to do is switch categories, but for some reason, hosts won't do this and end up treating the viewer with disrespect. Well, with this viewer, it will come right back at you in the form of a not so nice email about you to CC.

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

Amen brother!

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RE: I have a question for hosts from not shy or instant action

"but someone who spent at least several minutes talking to me, would get a MUCH better show just because there would be personal interaction between us. Just saying ;)"

That is your opinion. You have no idea how a viewer thinks.

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