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a Valentine's Day reminder
The other day Unhappy Host asked about her BF who got upset because she works online. SugarBear gave the RIGHT answer and it was great advice for EVERYONE on Valentine's Day. So I thought I'd post a reminder. And it doesn't matter if you're a Host or Guest because it works both ways. So...imagine you're invited to a party. You put on your best suit or sexiest dress, and you're really looking forward to it because someone special to you will be there.
So you get to the party...you smile politely and mingle...but all you want is to spend time with your one special person. Suddenly you spot them across the room...but unfortunately they're talking to someone who is flirting with them BIG TIME. And this person isn't fooling around -- they're really working it. They're trying to chat up and impress your love interest, hoping to get a date or phone number or email or something. So now you feel a knot in your stomach. All because the person you want to be with is having a good time...maybe TOO good a time...and it seems like they've forgotten you or won't even make time for you.
And that's where the Movies and Real Life are different. In the movies, the guy and girl would turn their heads...romantic music would build...and across the room they'd give each other THE LOOK. Their eyes would say "Don't worry about this silly person. YOU are the one I want and need." But that's the movies. In real life, everyone in the theater would sigh and think: "I wish my life was like that. I wish I could feel that secure about love or another person." But that's the amazing thing -- it CAN be like that. It's just that we let the moment slip away. Every day, we do our jobs or daily routines...we get lost in our own little world...and then we don't realize when we're ignoring people or possibly hurting someone's feelings.
And THAT is why SugarBear was 100% right when he said to Unhappy Host: "You have to ask yourself: am I proving to him that he means MORE to me than my members?" So today -- on Valentine's Day -- do exactly that. Show someone that they mean MORE. If you're a host, are you showing a guy how special he is? Are you showing you care MORE about him (as a person) than his wallet? Are you making some time for him (because you care) versus spending all your time flirting with other guys? And if you're a guy, are you showing your GF you love her and you want to help? Are you proving you care MORE about her than anything else -- even her job if she works online? Do you believe in her, no matter what?
Valentine's Day can be sappy and corny, but it's also a chance to do something amazing and nice. So don't blow it. Take a moment out of your day to show you DO care. Give someone the best Valentine's gift of all -- give them a reason to REALLY smile and feel terrific.
So you get to the party...you smile politely and mingle...but all you want is to spend time with your one special person. Suddenly you spot them across the room...but unfortunately they're talking to someone who is flirting with them BIG TIME. And this person isn't fooling around -- they're really working it. They're trying to chat up and impress your love interest, hoping to get a date or phone number or email or something. So now you feel a knot in your stomach. All because the person you want to be with is having a good time...maybe TOO good a time...and it seems like they've forgotten you or won't even make time for you.
And that's where the Movies and Real Life are different. In the movies, the guy and girl would turn their heads...romantic music would build...and across the room they'd give each other THE LOOK. Their eyes would say "Don't worry about this silly person. YOU are the one I want and need." But that's the movies. In real life, everyone in the theater would sigh and think: "I wish my life was like that. I wish I could feel that secure about love or another person." But that's the amazing thing -- it CAN be like that. It's just that we let the moment slip away. Every day, we do our jobs or daily routines...we get lost in our own little world...and then we don't realize when we're ignoring people or possibly hurting someone's feelings.
And THAT is why SugarBear was 100% right when he said to Unhappy Host: "You have to ask yourself: am I proving to him that he means MORE to me than my members?" So today -- on Valentine's Day -- do exactly that. Show someone that they mean MORE. If you're a host, are you showing a guy how special he is? Are you showing you care MORE about him (as a person) than his wallet? Are you making some time for him (because you care) versus spending all your time flirting with other guys? And if you're a guy, are you showing your GF you love her and you want to help? Are you proving you care MORE about her than anything else -- even her job if she works online? Do you believe in her, no matter what?
Valentine's Day can be sappy and corny, but it's also a chance to do something amazing and nice. So don't blow it. Take a moment out of your day to show you DO care. Give someone the best Valentine's gift of all -- give them a reason to REALLY smile and feel terrific.
Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
My choice is Sting-My Funny Valentine)) Hypnotic)
RE: Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
Mmmm i wudnt mind Robbie to be my Valentine;)
RE: Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
poor dear i think the contest has made you a little crazy
RE: Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
Songs for my valentine
Give the game away
In rhyme I make you mine
Sing all I cannot say
I known mine are the tears I never cry
I know mine is a love I must deny
Songs for my valentine
Give the game away
I see you every day
With happy home and child
I look the other way
Cold on the outside
I know mine are the arms you'll never hold
I know mine is a love remains untold
Songs for my valentine
Oh they give the game away
T'pau
TNT
Give the game away
In rhyme I make you mine
Sing all I cannot say
I known mine are the tears I never cry
I know mine is a love I must deny
Songs for my valentine
Give the game away
I see you every day
With happy home and child
I look the other way
Cold on the outside
I know mine are the arms you'll never hold
I know mine is a love remains untold
Songs for my valentine
Oh they give the game away
T'pau
TNT
RE: Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
I use to love her......but i had to kill her, GNR
RE: Which song wud be ur Valentines Day theme?
Love Stinks
At least that is what it was after my last valentines day I celebrated in 2003
At least that is what it was after my last valentines day I celebrated in 2003
completed aswell
Just to let the guys know..incase there is someone not checking the list.Good luck to everyone else.
RE: completed aswell
congrats alex:)hope u will b next winner,.u deserve it;)good luck to u:)xxx
RE: Looking for my Valentine ))
Congrats Dani!!
And here's hoping they make pole dancing an Olympic sport... :P
And here's hoping they make pole dancing an Olympic sport... :P
RE: Looking for my Valentine ))
another notch in hoo's belt... u sure do get around, lol.... but that's what we're here for :p
what to do, what to do
As of right now, I have 999 videos. Question is do I go for a good friend that I have seen many times, or do I see somebody new for no 1000? Your thoughts?
RE: what to do, what to do
Leave CC before you become truly addicted... 999 is 666 upside down. This is your last chance to escape!!!
Bravo, Canada!
The openning of the Winter Olimpic Games 2010 was awsome! Impressive show, and Garou, omg, BE MY WIFE!!)) And the ceremony of the lightning of the Olimpic Flame-breathtaking)))))
Canada was always on my wish list of the countries id like to visit, hope one day ill get there:) They say to get a visa there is a pain in the ass tho)
Anyway-good job!!! Really enjoyed the ceremony:)
Canada was always on my wish list of the countries id like to visit, hope one day ill get there:) They say to get a visa there is a pain in the ass tho)
Anyway-good job!!! Really enjoyed the ceremony:)
RE: Bravo, Canada!
yep agree with u one of the best openings of the olympics i have seen too....shame the first lighting of the flame inside the arena went wrong when only 3 of the ice sculptures came out and not all 4....still...nothing is ever perfect (except for me ofc) :p
RE: Bravo, Canada!
It was pretty boring for me. They even had noticeable technical difficulties lighting the Cualdron. There were supposed to be 4 arms rising from the floor, 3 functioned. A disaster of a show! I hope the snow doesn't keep melting as i want to see the competitions.
RE: Bravo, Canada!
Breathtaking? It was a nice opening ceremony overall, but I wouldn't call it breathtaking. Things like China's opening ceremony and MonikaBabe are breathtaking.
I would call it a nice, intimate opening ceremony which is what the organizers were going for. It was a shame that there was a problem with the lighting of the flame, but I think it still came off pretty good. I am getting a little tired of Wayne Gretsky though, lol... I think Canada needs a new face. He has spent almost as much time in the USA as Canada, but I guess there isn't anybody else of his stature.
The ceremony was perfect for the winter Olympics and for the small town feel that is Canada. And in terms of visiting Canada, I would be happy to go there with you. (We can get married so you will be an American, and there won't be a problem with your needing a visa.) It is a beautiful country with nice people. Americans like me couldn't have a better neighbor. There are few places in the world which have such a friendly relationship with the country that they share a border. I don't know if I can think of even one thing I don't like about the people or the country, except the weather, lol. And if the USA isn't going to get the gold in an event, I hope Canada does, especially in hockey because I know how important it is to them.
Canada is a special place with wonderful people, and I wish them luck this Olympics. Good luck! Bon chance!
I would call it a nice, intimate opening ceremony which is what the organizers were going for. It was a shame that there was a problem with the lighting of the flame, but I think it still came off pretty good. I am getting a little tired of Wayne Gretsky though, lol... I think Canada needs a new face. He has spent almost as much time in the USA as Canada, but I guess there isn't anybody else of his stature.
The ceremony was perfect for the winter Olympics and for the small town feel that is Canada. And in terms of visiting Canada, I would be happy to go there with you. (We can get married so you will be an American, and there won't be a problem with your needing a visa.) It is a beautiful country with nice people. Americans like me couldn't have a better neighbor. There are few places in the world which have such a friendly relationship with the country that they share a border. I don't know if I can think of even one thing I don't like about the people or the country, except the weather, lol. And if the USA isn't going to get the gold in an event, I hope Canada does, especially in hockey because I know how important it is to them.
Canada is a special place with wonderful people, and I wish them luck this Olympics. Good luck! Bon chance!
RE: Bravo, Canada!
Lol thx for the compliment first))) And yes, Canada is cool, Russia and Canada have a lot of things in common, like mentality, weather and hockey lol) I always get along a bit too well with members from Canada on cc and ppl from Canada in real life, love them all) But no matter how much i like this country, sorry canadians, but the gold in hockey will be ours;)
RE: Bravo, Canada!
You just like canadians, the ceremony was mediocre at its best. The technology was not well handled. I don't know what could they had done if it wasn't for all the lighting effects. I have seen better ceremonies with great shows. Even the tap dancing choreography was a mess. My God, intimate ceremony? at a $1.354 billion cost? I dont want to know what the cost will be when the canadians make a world wide event. LOL.
RE: Bravo, Canada!
Please, dont tell me what i like okay? I do like canadians, but i also enjoyed the show. What matters for me is not how much they spent on the show, or what exactly they did, whats important is-if i like the whole picture or notand if i enjoy watching the action. I liked it. And critisizing the small details-dunno, just boring:)
RE: Bravo, Canada!
i have to agree with moni on this one.no matter how much i'd love to see the US or canada win the gold in mens hockey,i think russia will win it with the amazing talent that they have this year.
RE: Bravo, Canada!
I haven't followed the NHL closely this year.... But don't the Canadians have the better goaltending? If so, I'd give them the edge although seeing Malkin and Ovechkin could be interesting. (Hate Ovechkin, lol.)
RE: Bravo, Canada!
Ovechkin is the reason this American will root for the Russians :)))
Just give him back to us whole, that's all I ask...
Just give him back to us whole, that's all I ask...
RE: Bravo, Canada!
Are you one of the 3 real hockey fans in D.C. or just a frontrunner? You may be real or only seem real. :p
RE: Bravo, Canada!
good point.... IF some hot Russian women will join me by a nice fire, I will root for them too.... except for Ovechkin! (Okay, if we watch while in bed, I root for him too.)
RE: Bravo, Canada!
I admit I wasn't expecting much from an indoor show, but as it turned out, even with the little gliches, it was impressive.
I hope you do come to Canada...as I understand it, the visa is much easier to get than it used to be. You must come to Calgary though....and we'll do lunch ;))
I hope you do come to Canada...as I understand it, the visa is much easier to get than it used to be. You must come to Calgary though....and we'll do lunch ;))
anyone match my herat???
I need Number 2.9.11.
wonder if any member has it?if has anyone match my heartpuzzle?plz welcome!mauh!!
wonder if any member has it?if has anyone match my heartpuzzle?plz welcome!mauh!!
RE: anyone match my herat???
i think maybe im wrong about it..at least haveto Complete my own"heart"first???
abit lost here...
abit lost here...
RE: anyone match my herat???
COMPLETE puzzle BlondieMilf --->i think haveto be complete(both=member+chathost)
dang...no matter how hard i work on it..i still keep get the same peices...no luck for me..:(
dang...no matter how hard i work on it..i still keep get the same peices...no luck for me..:(
RE: anyone match my herat???
i have just ask the member to match mine.guess the number is not matter anymore.as the number i dont have he has..but he cant mtach mine...haveto complete urs first then wait for the member who has complete"half heart"then Bingo.just wait for them to join u as Blondiemilf.
wish all the best for all of us.lol...
xoxo.:)
wish all the best for all of us.lol...
xoxo.:)
thats funny i wrote\"herat\".lol..
till now i saw it.lol.guess puzzle have drive me crazy.
COMPLETE puzzle
guess need to get some nap ... feel free to join my puzzle :)))xx good luck to everyone
RE: PuremiracleX are so nice
yes, i wish her the best of luck in this contest, and all of her friends too!
RE: hey peeps!
6 pieces left and like more then 70-80 all the same,no hope to win just a big nothing, but the money r great,keep them coming..wahaha
RE: hey peeps!
If you are online, we can see how many pieces you need to complete your puzzle.
GoodLuck
GoodLuck to all Host and members to complited puzzel, guys join me to my puzzel hehehe muahh
ur GF and this job
dear guys
pls need help :)
if u knew ur GF works on camcontacts, what would u say?
my BF already ex BF lol knew about my job on here ( iwork on glamour category, do nothing hard) but he's angry and he cant pardon me and want to tell me horrible things..
what could I do ou tell him to explain better ,my job and reasons why i work on here
i tried to explain him im not a bitch who wants just money and likes to display herself but difficult for him to understand me.......
tnx!
pls need help :)
if u knew ur GF works on camcontacts, what would u say?
my BF already ex BF lol knew about my job on here ( iwork on glamour category, do nothing hard) but he's angry and he cant pardon me and want to tell me horrible things..
what could I do ou tell him to explain better ,my job and reasons why i work on here
i tried to explain him im not a bitch who wants just money and likes to display herself but difficult for him to understand me.......
tnx!
RE: ur GF and this job
if he cant understand after ur explaining his pride is preventing him trying. . its oviously a deal breaker
RE: ur GF and this job
well my gf wouldnt mind if me was on here,, she in costa rica and me here in america,,as longs as me not putting me part inside a host here it ok she says. so if your bf has a problem with that, tell him give me a call and me explain this is for fun and money
RE: ur GF and this job
You have two problems:
1. You were not honest with him from the beginning. That will be difficult to forgive and even harder to forget if he does forgive you. You have undermined his ability to trust you and trust is a key to a relationship.
2. I don't think it would be easy for a guy that is not a member of a site to understand your job. I doubt I could ever have a relationship with someone from a site if I hadn't learned firsthand what it truly was about, and I doubt he will ever understand either. It is no different than a guy telling his gf that he goes to a site and telling her not to be jealous. It is not likely to work. It is hard enough to avoid jealously issues when both a host and a member are in a relationship and understand things... When only one person understands, it will be even worse.
Your only hope is to apologize for not telling him and say you were afraid of how he would react. Then you can explain what sites are about and why you are working on one. (I assume money is the answer.) Try to make him understand that you are just stripping or chatting or whatever... nothing too hard core... just like a stripper at a club. There is no touching or anything, and your heart is with him. Let him know many hosts have bfs (sorry members, it is true, lol), and are here just to pay for school, rent, et cetera. And let him know that if you had another job where you actually were with other men every day and getting to know them "in real", that in some ways that is a lot bigger threat than some stranger saying "hey baby.... let me see you strip." I would try to leave out the idea you have friends on the site since this may be too much for him to accept. Let him think it is just a bunch of guys you want nothing to do with, and you probably want to forget about ever meeting any friends you have made unless you are sure he believes you are just friends. I would postpone any such meetings for a long time, however.
Good luck.
1. You were not honest with him from the beginning. That will be difficult to forgive and even harder to forget if he does forgive you. You have undermined his ability to trust you and trust is a key to a relationship.
2. I don't think it would be easy for a guy that is not a member of a site to understand your job. I doubt I could ever have a relationship with someone from a site if I hadn't learned firsthand what it truly was about, and I doubt he will ever understand either. It is no different than a guy telling his gf that he goes to a site and telling her not to be jealous. It is not likely to work. It is hard enough to avoid jealously issues when both a host and a member are in a relationship and understand things... When only one person understands, it will be even worse.
Your only hope is to apologize for not telling him and say you were afraid of how he would react. Then you can explain what sites are about and why you are working on one. (I assume money is the answer.) Try to make him understand that you are just stripping or chatting or whatever... nothing too hard core... just like a stripper at a club. There is no touching or anything, and your heart is with him. Let him know many hosts have bfs (sorry members, it is true, lol), and are here just to pay for school, rent, et cetera. And let him know that if you had another job where you actually were with other men every day and getting to know them "in real", that in some ways that is a lot bigger threat than some stranger saying "hey baby.... let me see you strip." I would try to leave out the idea you have friends on the site since this may be too much for him to accept. Let him think it is just a bunch of guys you want nothing to do with, and you probably want to forget about ever meeting any friends you have made unless you are sure he believes you are just friends. I would postpone any such meetings for a long time, however.
Good luck.
RE: ur GF and this job
Sorry to tell you, but if you're serious about your BF, you don't belong in here. It's insincere to tell someone you love him, then spend hours flirting with guys for money. Time for a different job.
RE: ur GF and this job
Put yourself in his place. How would you react if he never told you his job is to strip for other women? It's a hard to understand. Some men dont mind, but I dont know if that's really love. I know I dont mind knowing my gfs strips, but I wouldn't like my gf chatting with another man for hours. Long relaxing chatting between a man and a woman can be a good start for a good friendly relation that can later lead to a platonic romance. Platonic romances are flawless fantasies and can sometime become our reality. On the other hand, it's shocking for a man to find out that his lover is an internet stripper and the thoughts that cross his head are not so good. Sorry, but I don't think you will have a 2nd chance with your bf. You should had told him "before" accepting this job. He must be heartbroken now... Perhaps love between you two is strong and he will try to forget. Who knows. Time will tell. Good Luck!
RE: ur GF and this job
He sounds a little insecure..and rightfully so...I would imagine you spend long hours giving attention to other men, and then go home tired. I think you have to ask yourself...am I proving to him that he means more to me than my members?
You just can't expect him to think of this as just another job.....its a very unique job, that can bring unique challenges to a relationship.
good luck
You just can't expect him to think of this as just another job.....its a very unique job, that can bring unique challenges to a relationship.
good luck
RE: ur GF and this job
I would not have a problem with it because it is only online and I would be sleeping with you in real life.
RE: ur GF and this job
Heh is right about ignoring most of member comments. Members will say they would not want their gf's working on here because in the back of our minds we wwant to believe all the flirting and sweet things you say are for real. It is unfortunate if you had lied to him about what you did and he didn't find out from you. That would upset me and I would always advise hosts to tell any bf they are serious about what they do. However I would not consider it unforgivable. However this is basically due to his insecurity. I am not sure how to help him understand your job. If you think you and he could handle it you could have him sit in the room off cam while you are on line so he can see what actually happens.There is a potential vicious circle in that the more you emphasise that you do not mean what you tell members on here the more he will get the impression you are good at deception.
RE: ur GF and this job ~ unhappy host
A good friend of mine, who happens to be a host, once asked me would I ever consider going out with a host? I told her the truth. And that was, I go out with someone who I have feelings for not because of their job. She asked me why would I not get jealous of all the men she would talk to as a host, implying that if I did not get jealous I did not really care. I replied, it has always been my philosophy that good relationships are built on trust and understanding with a smattering of compromise in between. To me what she would do in a chatroom with her members has nothing to do with me, as no matter how many fantasies and dreams members might have of her, at the end of the day it is I who gets to keep her happy in the real world.
Of course this may just be about confidence in oneself but to me it is just an honest approach to a complex issue.
So yes, it is a shame he reacted so badly and perhaps that just reflects a trust issue he has in you. It could be that you don't communicate as much as is needed and don't sufficiently know each other well enough to have blind faith in your partner. I don't think you are necessarily to blame but it is not my place to make you feel any more of any less guilty. Sometimes guys can just be totally inflexible and never see it from anyone elses' point of view but their own. I've never understood the attraction of these sorts of men but then again I am not a woman so perhaps there is something else I am missing.
Oh well....
TNTWYAPOWHDTTA
Of course this may just be about confidence in oneself but to me it is just an honest approach to a complex issue.
So yes, it is a shame he reacted so badly and perhaps that just reflects a trust issue he has in you. It could be that you don't communicate as much as is needed and don't sufficiently know each other well enough to have blind faith in your partner. I don't think you are necessarily to blame but it is not my place to make you feel any more of any less guilty. Sometimes guys can just be totally inflexible and never see it from anyone elses' point of view but their own. I've never understood the attraction of these sorts of men but then again I am not a woman so perhaps there is something else I am missing.
Oh well....
TNTWYAPOWHDTTA
RE: ur GF and this job
I met a host here. We chatted for 6 months. We met and fell in love and got married in our 2nd meeting. Then we met again 4 more times in 6 months while she got her visa. She got her visa, we lived like a happy couple the first 3 months. Of course, I worked and supported her while she was perfecting english at a school nearby. She never stopped chatting with "her online friends" she met on while she worked as a host. No problem, she had all my trust, besides i understood I was not home 10 hours each day from Mon-Fridays while I work and she was home all alone all this time. I put myself in her place and thought poor baby. I thought, we come a long way now and internet chatting can't hurt our relationship. Well, it became a problem when "one of her old online friends" decided to meet her. I asked her if I could come to what she definitely answered: I need to go alone. He is my friend and why can't you trust me? He is only a friend. I did not say anything else, she took a taxi and came back late at night drunk. I waited until she was sober next morning. She admitted having sex after some drinks and begged me to forgive her. I said: No way. She said: Fine, I have a real man that I can go to. She called "this friend" on my presence on speaker conference and her friend to what her friend said: Thanks for the great night we had, but I can't take you with me, sorry, but i have other plans. She cried and begged me it will never happen again, but "trust" was broken. She went back to her home country. So there you go, Trust is not about your self-confidence or own pride. It's just depends on who you are with and you never get to know it.
RE: ur GF and this job
trust can always be broken,by everyone.noone is perfect.but trust can be rebuilt if you have love,hope,love,honesty,love,forgiveness,love,
strength,love,understanding & love :--)
strength,love,understanding & love :--)
RE: ur GF and this job
no problem, i enjoy helping the less fortunate here and imparting my years of wisdom. Gets the chicks too.
RE: ur GF and this job
I can understand your reaction but the situation is totally different from one unhappy host. She is not planning on meeting members. To me the killer thing in your case was your wifes reaction after she begged forgiveness and you said "no". She may have said what she did out of pride but for her to say "Fine, I have a real man that I can go to." made even her request for forgiveness seem insincere.
RE: ur GF and this job
tell him the person on screen has a different name to the person he loves and the one and the other are two different people,like putting a mask on when you work.
Another thought for Valentines Day
Treat your honey to a romantic dinner by candle-light. That doesn't mean you don't have to take your sweetheart to a posh restaurant and spend a lotta bucks. Rather, you can arrange your own candle-lit dinner at home. Cook up a splendid dinner together. Even a simple pasta would work; buy dessert from the bakery in the grocery store. Set the table; create a romantic atmosphere with candles, sweet snacks and wine. Have soft romantic music playing in the background, and dim the lights so that it's mostly the candles lighting the room. Then dress up and "attend" the dinner walking up to the table hand in hand with your love. You'll be amazed how much more fun it gives to have a candle-lit dinner at home. Once dinner is over, dance slowly to your song. Then snuggle as you watch a romantic flick together.---then hope you get lucky and make love
Valentine Day Thoughts
What about some simple and useful tips to spend the most awaited day in a different way? Here are how you can spend a marvelous valentine’s day alone.
1. Wake up super early in the morning and start to clean up. What to clean up? Start by throwing away everything which reminds you about her or him, his or her photos, gifts etc.
2. Take a hot and long bath and wash away her or his memories. Yes it works. Stay as much time as you want in the bathroom.
3. What about a quick decoration for your house? Move some stuff here and there and open all windows.
4. Go to the market and buy loads of chocolates or meat. Do not forget the roses, just please yourself girls and several sports magazines men.
5. Who cares about how slim you are? The loser was a maniac of slim body, right? Just get in a fast food and buy anything you want to eat.
6. Spend the night eating loads of popcorn and watch some super romantic films.
7. Have a good cry. Do not forget your stock of tissues.
8. Still not feeling okay, right? Get the damn phone, dial her or his cursed number and swear at him or her, this will surely lighten up yourself. (Ps: Don’t forget to tell her how she s*ck in bed or him he got a rotten smell pe*is!
------or you can have a marvelous valentine’s day, by you and her or him can announced your engagement and become married and live the rest of your lifes thinking about all the future Valentine Day's you will have.. By the way have a Happy Valentine Day one way or the other---kisse, hugs and handshakes
1. Wake up super early in the morning and start to clean up. What to clean up? Start by throwing away everything which reminds you about her or him, his or her photos, gifts etc.
2. Take a hot and long bath and wash away her or his memories. Yes it works. Stay as much time as you want in the bathroom.
3. What about a quick decoration for your house? Move some stuff here and there and open all windows.
4. Go to the market and buy loads of chocolates or meat. Do not forget the roses, just please yourself girls and several sports magazines men.
5. Who cares about how slim you are? The loser was a maniac of slim body, right? Just get in a fast food and buy anything you want to eat.
6. Spend the night eating loads of popcorn and watch some super romantic films.
7. Have a good cry. Do not forget your stock of tissues.
8. Still not feeling okay, right? Get the damn phone, dial her or his cursed number and swear at him or her, this will surely lighten up yourself. (Ps: Don’t forget to tell her how she s*ck in bed or him he got a rotten smell pe*is!
------or you can have a marvelous valentine’s day, by you and her or him can announced your engagement and become married and live the rest of your lifes thinking about all the future Valentine Day's you will have.. By the way have a Happy Valentine Day one way or the other---kisse, hugs and handshakes
This Contest
Many hosts have always wanted to win on their own in past contests.
This contest it seems the difficult thing might be finding the members with complete halves.
Might be fun to take care of the other hosts that haven't been as fortunate in the past. Let the hosts that wanted to be on their own in the past, find out that without members support, they get nothing.
Just a thought.
This contest it seems the difficult thing might be finding the members with complete halves.
Might be fun to take care of the other hosts that haven't been as fortunate in the past. Let the hosts that wanted to be on their own in the past, find out that without members support, they get nothing.
Just a thought.
RE: This Contest
LOL. The contest is something fun, I just got 22 pieces from the last vid I did and they were all doubles. Don't take it serious and have fun with it. I can understand that it gets frustrating to be in com chat and hear certain hosts complain about not winning but they forget to mention that they have made more money during the contest period. Just enjoy it for what it is, something silly that cc does to bring some fun to people.
RE: This Contest
I like how hosts I thought were nice, sweet people raise their price during the contest. I know that sometimes members like this under the theory that they can win faster (wonder how often that works, lol) but many hosts seem to do it on their own.
If it is all about fun, then a host should keep her price the same as always. On the other hand, I like when they raise their price... Not to win, but so I learn who is just a host to see for a show and who is someone to visit for a nice longgggggggg chat since she is worthy of my respect.
If it is all about fun, then a host should keep her price the same as always. On the other hand, I like when they raise their price... Not to win, but so I learn who is just a host to see for a show and who is someone to visit for a nice longgggggggg chat since she is worthy of my respect.
RE: This Contest
I don't disagree, but some hosts raise their prices so that both the viewer and the host get their pieces faster. That might be both party's objective, if that's how they are playing the game.
I'm just saying a higher price at contest time isn't necessarily a sign of ill intent. You could ask her to lower it, and maybe she will.
I'm just saying a higher price at contest time isn't necessarily a sign of ill intent. You could ask her to lower it, and maybe she will.